You have to make yourself SMALL to be with a narcissist

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  • Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
  • They don’t want you to thrive #narcissistic #narcissism #narcissist
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 23

  • @RexRoberts-hk3wj
    @RexRoberts-hk3wj 7 днів тому +13

    Narcs get fuel out of ruining your day

  • @heaven-is-real
    @heaven-is-real 7 днів тому +12

    they are threatened if you are happy??? RUN RUN AWAY NEVER LOOK BACK YOU DONT NEED THE TOXIC POISON

  • @almondmilksoda
    @almondmilksoda 7 днів тому +9

    They are so horribly insecure, they can't stand to see somebody else in their power. At all.

  • @nopereradicator
    @nopereradicator 7 днів тому +8

    And you’re never done shrinking.

  • @carparthero
    @carparthero 7 днів тому +7

    narcissistic relationships in general are a place where your needs go to die.
    if you focus on yourself for one nanosecond moment, you will be called selfish.
    everything has to be all about them at all times.
    cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

  • @arkadysoldatov6962
    @arkadysoldatov6962 8 днів тому +6

    I realize all these, yet I cannot abandon my career job. On one hand is my mental health, on the other is my career. The saddest part is that I am emotionally invested in this very specialized scientific work. Quitting for me means losing an essence of me built up for the last decade.

  • @januszdworak4780
    @januszdworak4780 7 днів тому +4

    A few days ago, there was an article on MSN listing 20 tactics of a narcissist. I have been subjected to all 20 of them and not only by one person, but by a few of them. :) :) :) I am free now, and listening to videos like this one gives me some closure and assures me that going NO-CONTACT was a right decision.

  • @user-wi3fq3dm2i
    @user-wi3fq3dm2i 7 днів тому +3

    It wasn’t until I saw my sister of whom I hadn’t seen in months, that I got the wake up call of the physical damage of being in Narc relationship had on me. I denied all of the unobservable physical symptoms, but a family member calling me out shook me up. I could no longer deny the obvious. She hadn’t seen me and said I looked like crap and had lost so much weight. I have moved on but am still struggling

  • @michaelfox7756
    @michaelfox7756 7 днів тому +6

    Spot on! I feel so sorry for my brother in-law who is stuck with my covert sister. He is a broken man because of her. 😢

    • @OfSoulAndSin
      @OfSoulAndSin День тому

      I had to double check your name to see if my BIL posted this.

  • @user-qv9nw1dq2f
    @user-qv9nw1dq2f 7 днів тому

    Amen 🙏 get out from that hell of narcissistic abuse today!

  • @Rose_Arcana
    @Rose_Arcana 7 днів тому +1

    Thank You for your work that you do. It was a 3 year relationship over 30 years ago and I AM still crying... So sad. ❤💔

  • @shihengyifans
    @shihengyifans 7 днів тому +1

    THEY don't listen unless its about them , i have noticed this. but some people don;t have all the traits, only some I think they are a little, not fully narcissist

  • @johnpaulsecond4626
    @johnpaulsecond4626 7 днів тому +2

    100%

  • @Xenophanes198
    @Xenophanes198 7 днів тому

    It's taking awhile for me to heal from the anger and resentment I feel from stooping so low. She's such a POS

  • @user-cq7gj8ww4w
    @user-cq7gj8ww4w 5 днів тому

    Again your spot on

  • @SanneSanne-n7h
    @SanneSanne-n7h 4 дні тому

    Yes!

  • @heatherbowman9450
    @heatherbowman9450 7 днів тому +2

    330 VIEWS ADVOCATE QUEEN🎉👑💥👱‍♀️ 1:35

  • @OfSoulAndSin
    @OfSoulAndSin День тому

    🎯