You must BREAK a woman, to have a HEALTHY Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
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    In this insightful video, I explore the dynamics of maintaining a healthy relationship by addressing conflicts with musculine strength. Building a strong and lasting connection with your partner requires you to win arguments.

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  • @madhatter8508
    @madhatter8508 Рік тому +1777

    A woman I was dating once told me she's smarter than me, and I said "You must be. Look who you're with and look who I'm with."

    • @yousefez1970
      @yousefez1970 Рік тому +255

      Cold as fuck

    • @mijah.harriganharrigan9848
      @mijah.harriganharrigan9848 Рік тому +81

      Burn

    • @GTrax1992
      @GTrax1992 Рік тому +106

      Critical damage!

    • @matojo3280
      @matojo3280 Рік тому +75

      Emotional Damage😂🔥

    • @nosadeussuramus9113
      @nosadeussuramus9113 Рік тому +139

      BRUH this is damage on so many levels. If she thinks she is smarter than you, then she's stupid for dating you and you become smart for dating her. Either way, it's a W for you.

  • @hiendoan4774
    @hiendoan4774 Рік тому +239

    A lot of "dating coach" out there teaches us about low value women, shit tests, red flags... They blame woman to be evil. But the truth is from the beginning, the man could not set his boundary, and the woman started to disrespect him gradually. Of course these woman are not good, but we man have responsibility in this situation. Thanks George

    • @Shane-ju7op
      @Shane-ju7op Рік тому +10

      Thankyou!!! Your comment is 100% accurate. Blaming women is not the answer...

    • @finalfrontier001
      @finalfrontier001 Рік тому +4

      @@Shane-ju7op This guy literally siad he threw mac book out the window..... that is beyond aggressive, made a mess and he could have hurt somone. This guy is a freak.

    • @DenofEgoists
      @DenofEgoists Рік тому +14

      @@finalfrontier001 think of it from his perspective though. he was providing for this girl like she was his kid, and would you not harshly discipline your kid when they act out against you despite everything you do? it may have been a bit excessive to throw it out, but in my opinion its pretty justified to atleast break the macbook🤣

    • @finalfrontier001
      @finalfrontier001 Рік тому +9

      @@DenofEgoists He is a narcissistic if he is breaking a Mac Book he gave someone as a present the moment they displease him. That is the most spiteful petty display of lack of confidence any man can do towards anyone let alone a woman. You never take gifts back you gave in the past what you should do is not to reward them for any future works.
      This case he could have told her to pack her bags and leave if she does not listen to his authority as he pays the bills, nothjng more and nothing less. You do not need tk break things and show a sign of weakness in tour confidence.

    • @rwyo83
      @rwyo83 11 місяців тому +12

      Don't follow these advices, he is talking about shit tests, she call him a pig and he got emotional, got angry and throw her laptop, wtf

  • @paolocosmo6310
    @paolocosmo6310 Рік тому +497

    George is 100% spot on! I've had only two relationships in my 58 years, but I ended both of them (one an engagement) because I refused to tolerate certain behavior-those were the best decisions i've ever made!

    • @masterexploder9668
      @masterexploder9668 Рік тому +77

      @@tz8565 Sometimes you fail even if you do everything right. You cannot change the core personality of other person, if she's a narcissist, she will stay that way. You should filter and throw away this type of people, instead of sticking around and wasting time on them, you cannot force someone to like you.

    • @suvajitmukherjee9674
      @suvajitmukherjee9674 Рік тому +10

      true

    • @Sup3riorr
      @Sup3riorr Рік тому +39

      @@tz8565 biggest fail as a man is to fail your self

    • @sowhat...
      @sowhat... Рік тому +18

      @@tz8565 that implies that all women can be handled. Some are just incompatible don't you think?

    • @kku6857
      @kku6857 Рік тому +16

      You were forced by women to break up with them. Women cannot take responsibility, if they lost respect to you they will behave badly. Men are responsible to pick up the right and healthy character woman and maintain her interest.

  • @Truthshallsety0ufree
    @Truthshallsety0ufree Рік тому +109

    Makes a lot of sense. The key is to be fair, honest, and mature about it. If you are an immature man-child, this kind of philosophy will only breed discontentment. Work on yourself and become a better men, in control of your emotions.

  • @sunofthesea
    @sunofthesea Рік тому +318

    Love how your message promotes the ugly truth but also love and appreciation. This is the best combo

    • @Private_Account101
      @Private_Account101 Рік тому +5

      agreed

    • @harendrashekhawat2704
      @harendrashekhawat2704 Рік тому +3

      @@solman-sf4lj Alright, I'll go and break her down right now

    • @rwyo83
      @rwyo83 11 місяців тому +2

      This doesn't make sense, he is talking about shit tests, she call him a pig and he got emotional, got angry a throw her laptop, wtf

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 10 місяців тому

      I agree that we should not care about what others think like what George said, but what if the other party is our interviewer who decides if he hires us or not? Should we still not care what he thinks or not explain to him also? FYI I got rejected from that interview in the end.

    • @Eye_of_Horus
      @Eye_of_Horus 5 місяців тому

      @@rwyo83tbh reminds me of how my dad treats my mom. And my mom is still with my dad 40 years later. But he basically takes no shit.

  • @popefrancis9756
    @popefrancis9756 Рік тому +319

    (Before watching the video)
    These past 2 weeks have been phenomenal, I’ve been talking to so many girls and my confidence has increased 10 fold. You were right about everything, women are just kids, and you shouldn’t overthink them

    • @kevintirimania8228
      @kevintirimania8228 11 місяців тому +18

      i learnt that today

    • @faethe000
      @faethe000 3 місяці тому

      I bet you're still single 9 months later and wondering they they all ghosted you.

    • @popefrancis9756
      @popefrancis9756 3 місяці тому

      @@faethe000 sadly against your wish, I'm in a happy relationship with a wonderful girl whom I trust and can open up to. I didn't have to "break" her, I found a good one. I wish you the best though!

    • @faethe000
      @faethe000 3 місяці тому

      @@popefrancis9756Sure ya are

    • @popefrancis9756
      @popefrancis9756 3 місяці тому

      @@faethe000 9 motnhs is a long time busta

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 11 місяців тому +48

    The text gap test is SPOT ON!
    The best retort to someone testing you, insulting you, etc. is “That’s interesting…tell me more”. This phrase disarms them EVERY single time.

  • @TheCycloneTrooper
    @TheCycloneTrooper 11 місяців тому +61

    Dude's legit - although his actions are questionable - the message behind the words is valid.

    • @millanferende6723
      @millanferende6723 5 місяців тому +4

      Yeah I agree... he takes it waaaaay to another level... and of course, he attracts women who take the abuse. But there are definitely ways to get your points across without this "abusive" type of personality.
      Dude really needs to learn how to actually emotionally connect with a woman. Although I do agree that his basic, core principles, are right. When taken with a huge pinch of salt, there is a lot of value in here.

    • @Kirtymonma
      @Kirtymonma 5 днів тому

      @@millanferende6723macbook off the 17th floor is crazy 😂

  • @iulianparvu8797
    @iulianparvu8797 Рік тому +57

    I know this couple: he’s cheating on her and she found out multiple times, he’s very distant in general, he makes a ton of money. He always gives her the impression than he can leave her at any moment. One night she caught him in a club with another woman, he went home before she arrived, locked the door and she spent the night on the staircase. She wouldn’t leave him for anything and she loves him, although she hates his behavior.

    • @jamesward4191
      @jamesward4191 Рік тому

      He's probably gay and in denial if he has such little respect for women in general -sounds like he's a dick tbh😂

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 Рік тому +34

      Sounds toxic bro

    • @iulianparvu8797
      @iulianparvu8797 Рік тому

      @@javier.alvarez764 I on the other hand have not done that and I’ve been cheated on, lied to, disrespected might say, so what do you choose?
      And please don’t use “toxic” again, it sounds gay AF, just like this “wokeism” or whatever the F these lunatics call it.

    • @josephcarioggia9506
      @josephcarioggia9506 Рік тому +16

      I'm 60 now but when I was younger I always cheated on girlfriends and cheated on them. They loved the fuck out of me. Now older dating much younger girl I do everything wrong. I need to hear this guy now because I know he's right.

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 Рік тому +16

      @@josephcarioggia9506 I think you were doing it wrong now cause you are looking for a wife, someone to settle with, that you start to be the nice guy instead of the bad boy. If we think about attracting women, it is hard at first, but when you understand how they think and how to attract women they start to come to you at all places. But the problem with that, is not all women are high quality, nor are they the marriage type. Some are just for a good time.

  • @86ajmn
    @86ajmn 11 місяців тому +103

    36 year old man here with 3 teenage kids. Been with my wife 12 years. You’re spot on.

    • @theoddgamer8266
      @theoddgamer8266 9 місяців тому +5

      When “breaking” a woman does it have to be like throwing a mac book away? Or is it just saying something to her? And can you give me examples of what to say?

    • @theovinx3292
      @theovinx3292 9 місяців тому +16

      Just don't allow her talk shit to you

    • @admazzola3569
      @admazzola3569 6 місяців тому

      "apologize for that right now or else see what happens "
      if she bends the knee and apologizes profusely, good. Otherwise, the punishments escalate until she does: she sleeps on couch, or failing that she is kicked out of house and sleeps at her friends or mothers, etc etc.
      that is one way. If she refuses to be kicked out (unlikely) i guess you can start breaking macbooks xD she deserves it at that point tbh. Basically you -have- to make her bend the knee. think about game of thrones. if you dont get her to bend the knee she will act wild and hate you. (primal instinct) if you make her bend the knee she will love you. this is why ppl say women are crazy. they arent its just weird.
      @@theoddgamer8266

  • @James-wv3hx
    @James-wv3hx 11 місяців тому +17

    I am 70 years old. I have had more girlfriends than Don Juan and Casanova. And I was married once. They All got OLD real fast. Never settle! NEVER let them move into your house! It's almost impossible to get rid of them! You have described all of the drama and b.s. that I experienced! Why do you have to prove that your a man? Enjoy your life! Listen to the Professor. Hit it and quit it! Leykis 101. You don't pay hookers for sex. You pay them to leave!

  • @lionwing7
    @lionwing7 Рік тому +53

    Throwing the mac was emotional reaction.
    Just cutting her off and leaving her would been enough

    • @Skyman08
      @Skyman08 Рік тому +24

      That’s what I was thinking because in earlier videos he said you don’t want to become emotional, but throwing the laptop is an emotional act

    • @LeParadoxHD
      @LeParadoxHD Рік тому +14

      I think it depends on the way he expressed it in the moment, I think you can emotionally react and throw the Macbook out of anger, or... throw it as an opportunity to gain respect from her. I believe, as he says, he waited for the conflict, noticed the opportunity, and acted accordingly to set a boundary.
      Also, a Macbook is cents compared to his salary...

    • @lionwing7
      @lionwing7 Рік тому +11

      @@LeParadoxHD trust me man , i have set the boundaries with plenty of women.
      Cutting them of and cutting your attention is best.
      İf they don't then they're the type that wants a beating.
      And such women is better to avoided.

    • @LeParadoxHD
      @LeParadoxHD Рік тому +3

      @@lionwing7 Yes, that's also a good way, the *ignore* method.

    • @Skyman08
      @Skyman08 Рік тому +4

      @@lionwing7 Also where I live that can be considered a property crime, which can easily be avoided. There is a better way to handle that type of situation that’s not as extreme.

  • @PickleRick65
    @PickleRick65 5 місяців тому +11

    "Any man that says, I AM THE KING, is no true king"
    - Tywin Lannister

  • @chillitortilla6177
    @chillitortilla6177 Рік тому +21

    bro the fact this type of information is free. god damn, a blessing.

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 Рік тому +55

    Amber herd had no excuse to treat anyone the way she did.
    Johnny was raised by an abusive mother so he was used to abuse.
    Johnny was weak because of the abuse. But a real man does not abuse his wife.
    He does a lot of good to help underprivileged people. Your calling him shit is going way too far. You lost my respect.

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 Рік тому +17

      Pretty sure he meant Johnny Depp should lead and assert dominance, not being an abuser.

  • @musicologyrc-5056
    @musicologyrc-5056 9 місяців тому +12

    “Conflicts with women always gradually intensify.” Mans never de-escalated a conflict 😂

  • @user-ri4vb4zi6l
    @user-ri4vb4zi6l Рік тому +235

    Keep making content like this you’re doing great and you share real truths that few people talk about. Keep in mind that many women are simply broken narcissists with BPD and nothing you do will save the relationship. These women secretly hate men and are usually still unmarried at 30 because nobody would put up with their insanity. In places like Miami and LA you will find many narcissistic gold diggers like this. Be very careful of any women over 30 who hasn’t been in long term relationships because they have been with more men than they even remember, they know their time is expiring and they want to exploit a beta provider for resources and children while pretending to be in love. Women are the master manipulators it’s how they survived throughout history.

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 Рік тому +19

      Well said.

    • @farhidahmed4473
      @farhidahmed4473 Рік тому +34

      they haven't only survived like this also destroyed kingdoms/sultanates with their manipulation

    • @gameon2000
      @gameon2000 Рік тому +12

      Bro that'll make like 101% women. 🤣 At the very least!

    • @444ytb
      @444ytb 10 місяців тому +5

      Logan Paul and his new fiance fits this description so well

    • @butterfly-pf8lj
      @butterfly-pf8lj 10 місяців тому

      Some women have been abused sexually and physically at age 6 with men who are like 30. Girls grow up to become women who have trauma and there brain is altered. So before you come here and bash women please have a heart.

  • @marcusaurelius5576
    @marcusaurelius5576 7 місяців тому +12

    Just like buying a car or property be prepared to walk away. Your confident masculine presence does not require explanation, it just is and it is unwavering. Integrity, principles and grounded morals will steer you in the right direction. Always. A guy can be a considerate caring person without being weak.

  • @bonddang9550
    @bonddang9550 Рік тому +96

    I agree with you when you show us the example of the overreaction on instagram. The idea that high value man shouldn't need to prove that he is high value. Someone who is actually high value doesn't need to prove it. Just like someone who is rich doesn't need to flex their money or wealth.

    • @zeanstuff868
      @zeanstuff868 Рік тому +1

      so y does andrew flexes it

    • @bonddang9550
      @bonddang9550 Рік тому +13

      @@zeanstuff868 It is because he is not really rich. He keep saying that he is a billionaire when he is only a millionaire. Not to mention his source of money is dirty money and having his webcam business. It is honestly frustrating when you see people supporting him when all he does is being polarizing. I guess you can say that he motivate people, but there is already a thing call a motivational speaker. He is just another motivational speaker. When it come to what he teach you, I haven't learn much. It is mostly common sense. He is not even richest in the world, yet he act like it. Richest people in the world never flex that they have money. Look at Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates as just a few example. They never flex their rich. Everyone know that they are rich.

    • @masterexploder9668
      @masterexploder9668 Рік тому +1

      @@bonddang9550 Common sense was always in short supply, especially these days. Sometimes you need to remind the obvious.

    • @aidinlayne
      @aidinlayne Рік тому +2

      @@zeanstuff868 He has Narcissistic personality disorder... Did you see the first 5 mins of this video?

    • @theunstoppableaxeofjustice3991
      @theunstoppableaxeofjustice3991 11 місяців тому

      ​@@aidinlayneHe is not a criminal and he has changed.

  • @vatoloco1653
    @vatoloco1653 8 місяців тому +5

    Throwing her Mac out of the balcony is an emotionolly réaction 😅

  • @Alebib
    @Alebib 11 місяців тому +66

    Always win the conflict and be ready to walk away. Lots of praise and applause to George! 👏

    • @zanartofwar7892
      @zanartofwar7892 9 місяців тому +3

      You simply cannot always win. Is it simple enough?

    • @alf3071
      @alf3071 6 місяців тому +1

      so when does ready to walk away transform into actually walking away?

    • @howtoactuallyinvest
      @howtoactuallyinvest 4 місяці тому

      Walking away costs you half your shit unless you're not an idiot who invites family law into your life

  • @Foundry_made
    @Foundry_made 5 місяців тому +22

    I'm currently seeing a girl who could be described as "bratty". I set the tone with her in our first few interactions, showing her in no uncertain terms where the line is, and I reinforce it by verbally putting her in her place any time she gets remotely close to it. The result of this is she RESPECTS Me, and this respect comes out in everything she does. A woman can respect a man she doesn't love, but she can't LOVE a man she doesn't RESPECT.

  • @CHaoS.GaminG
    @CHaoS.GaminG Рік тому +76

    It's crazy how the relationship dynamic actually works... and you have put the words in my MOUTH, like damn you are right at everything you say. Thanks for you hard work bro

  • @user-rm4ql2vx4i
    @user-rm4ql2vx4i Рік тому +20

    You can be an authentic person and still care what others think of you, because their thoughts and their image of you portrayed in their heads influences their behaviour towards you.

    • @caralho5237
      @caralho5237 Рік тому +3

      As long as you want their opinion of you to be grounded reality, and not the opposite.
      Dont let someone's opinion of you define your reality

  • @Mysaderipa
    @Mysaderipa Рік тому +25

    What you are saying works with toxic females
    Who you can never truly have a healthy relationship with
    If she is does not bother you based on the fact you passed dem shit tests
    She is not worth your time
    I’ve met some who are respectful, and mature enough to avoid (for me and for themselves) those mind games
    Confident enough not to seek a paternal figure through arguments but rather a masculine one with deep values like emotional intelligence, protectiveness and visions

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 Рік тому

      Exactly. Everything in his videos are only applicable because men are chasing Jezebel spirit and trying to have a relationship with ego driven, damaged females that do not love themselves. Instead, men should be learning to avoid them outright. Thus men have really learned nothing but how to adapt to, and 'break' a wild Jezebel spirit...

    • @ruiyurra4996
      @ruiyurra4996 11 місяців тому

      Right

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 10 місяців тому

      Masculine XX are out of natural Divine laws and destroy the 10 archetypes of the Divine Feminine

  • @blindguymcsqueezy50
    @blindguymcsqueezy50 11 місяців тому +10

    I’m watching a bunch of his videos and can’t stop from commenting on each. The perspective is original and golden. Savagely on point, every time

  • @lc8478
    @lc8478 Рік тому +151

    Thats a great point. I have tried to explain to my friends, that a relationship is not build on Love. Its a conscious and subconscious war of power dynamics between the parties. Its an uncomfortable truth and people don't wanna acknowledge that. Especially because, the religious and cultural programming is dead now.....we are back in the stone age, where the most powerful wins. If you don't break her(as hard as that may sound) she will take you to the cleaners sooner or later. That doesn't mean in a sinister way, but psychology place her below you. Like a child
    Thats why she likes the bad boy, that is why she call her „daddy“...That is why pimps can keep their girls.

    • @michaelibrahim1443
      @michaelibrahim1443 Рік тому +18

      That comment is great comment and very informative and unique

    • @suvajitmukherjee9674
      @suvajitmukherjee9674 Рік тому +7

      true

    • @juanchocorleone
      @juanchocorleone Рік тому +33

      How tedious. I've experienced it first hand.
      This is why my very first relationship crashed when I was in college. It was a nightmare. I wasn't enough for her and she treat me like trash. The second and third chick were so much better tho.
      Women never grow up. They all want a fucking father who is constantly telling them what to do and it's exhausting.
      But I found someone who knows how to play like a team member and not like a dictator. She loves me and I love her. It's rare but they are out there, emotionally and mentally mature women. You just have to remove the unworthy and the spoiled ones to find some gems.

    • @robertwilson3866
      @robertwilson3866 Рік тому +25

      Not every relationship is a war. If you are just looking to be in relationship for the sake of it - you will find a war. If you are in a relationship because you want to be in it - there is no war. It's just many people have messed up relationships when they would be better off being single

    • @mariale0219
      @mariale0219 Рік тому

      You have a problem go to therapy

  • @speedracer7022
    @speedracer7022 Рік тому +38

    That is so spot on. Kind of sad but the truth is always better than a lie.

    • @trence5
      @trence5 Рік тому +10

      almost makes you not want to deal with them at all....

    • @speedracer7022
      @speedracer7022 Рік тому +4

      @@trence5 been my problem for 10 years. I don’t want to be with a mental-10-year old. I want a red-pilled smart girl. But I’d love if Mr. Russia could make a video about this. PS. it’s healing finding out the truth, ones glasses changes, acceptance, and love. It’s a process.
      Still, I just can’t see the fun of being with a girl who is mentally 10.

    • @robertwilson3866
      @robertwilson3866 Рік тому +4

      spot on if you are in a crappy relationship. But that says more about you . I'd never be in a relationship with a woman who would treat me like that. I'd never have to "break her"

    • @speedracer7022
      @speedracer7022 Рік тому

      @@robertwilson3866 "break in" sounds so bad. It's just about the normal testing we humans do to each other when first meeting. Don't fall for the lie that "you always want women to act nice to you", you don't.

    • @speedracer7022
      @speedracer7022 Рік тому

      @@robertwilson3866 such an NPC anwer. Did you even listen to the video? He was never mean or "broke the girl in". She tested him and he put his foot down and it was only needed once. It's normal human behavior, your children, your workmates, girlfriend will do it. Mr. Russian is just being humorous with words.
      I think sometimes guys can forget about this these test and we live in rainbow land where we only want love and light with our girlfriends and hence we "fail the tests". That's what I referred to. Sorry to call you a NPC, I'm sure you're a standup guy. But nowhere was he "breaking her".

  • @selfless-esteem
    @selfless-esteem 10 місяців тому +50

    As a woman, I would never be with a man who I couldn't be submissive to. And yes it's our job as women to develop and maintain emotional closeness. So take that as you will

    • @Ministry_0f_Truth
      @Ministry_0f_Truth 10 місяців тому

      Unfortunately, so many women have been poisoned by feminist ideology, they think they need to compete with men in everything, even with their boyfriends.

    • @selfless-esteem
      @selfless-esteem 8 місяців тому +1

      @@avasdv so I meant in general, and specifically as it relates to me. Men should also try but women are on average more emotional. Some men are more emotional and that's okay, they can build emotional bonds if they're so inclined. I shouldn't have spoken so decisively

    • @selfless-esteem
      @selfless-esteem 8 місяців тому

      @@avasdv also to your point about chasing, I think we chase people when interest is high. I don't think we should let people pursue us if we're not compatible. And yes I agree that personality is more important than looks. But chemistry and compatibility are things we don't control, at least in the way I see things. I'm also a multiple property owner and landlord, which is something I'm secretive about with my friends.

    • @EndureAgency
      @EndureAgency 7 місяців тому +2

      @@avasdv Women do change. Masculinity is being rock hard and non-changeble by everything else than themselves. Femininity is the direct opposit of masculinity, aka. she will be changed dependant on her surrondings, social places and people etc..
      Therefor if you want to have this women create one for your self. Instead of looking around for the perfect women, make a women sumbit to you and see you as the man, as you state, and then you can change her into whats suiteble, because your showing to her what is suiteble and right(aka what you think is suiteble and right;))

  • @eMillion100
    @eMillion100 10 місяців тому +5

    I just found your channel couple hrs ago and can already tell you might be one of the realest ones yet. Love how you analyze videos from other famous channels too, I've always been thinking some of them are fake, now you prove it.

  • @OmarElghamry1
    @OmarElghamry1 Рік тому +85

    I agree you should not tolerate disrespect from your woman, but throwing away Macbook is a childish move my friend, you could've put her in her place by other ways.

    • @bassman5554
      @bassman5554 Рік тому +23

      Did you not hear the part where she came back begging? He did exactly what needed to be done

    • @bassman5554
      @bassman5554 Рік тому

      Men now a days are so soft. That's why women are so comfortable being disrespectful

    • @OmarElghamry1
      @OmarElghamry1 Рік тому +24

      @@bassman5554 okay man good luck breaking things in the future to prove a point.

    • @bassman5554
      @bassman5554 Рік тому +8

      Man stop being sensitive. He could've been exaggerating the story to make a point. The point is don't tolerate no bullshit from a female. They will take advantage of your kindness

    • @OmarElghamry1
      @OmarElghamry1 Рік тому +6

      @@learningchannel21 @bassman5554 the girl in the video is fake, cuz she clearly can’t act and there is a lot of cuts. The mac thing is to create drama so people would comment, i would not to give this guy comments that could boost this video. However he has some good advices on the channel, but don’t take everything on face value.

  • @francisezeudogu
    @francisezeudogu Рік тому +59

    Bro, respect 👊
    You doing what most UA-cam channel can never do. A real man

    • @demarcusds95
      @demarcusds95 11 місяців тому +2

      Facts. They have to be humbled or the relationship won’t work

  • @twocauses
    @twocauses Рік тому +11

    Yo this guys videos are absolutely great. I thought someone making such good exampels only existed in my head.

  • @Archemik99
    @Archemik99 Рік тому +11

    This is making a lot of sense, thanks dude

  • @dedovagency
    @dedovagency Рік тому +5

    bro I hope your channel is not taken down it's brilliant

  • @bawera4248
    @bawera4248 Рік тому +6

    just wanna tell you keep going bro, we love your insightful video, appreciated 💪✊

  • @ezrhino100
    @ezrhino100 11 місяців тому +7

    this is the way I do it. I give free reign for most things that I don't really care about. But I draw a very clear line on certain things you can and can't do. You simply will not hear from me until you cross those lines.

  • @Simon-mj1im
    @Simon-mj1im 5 місяців тому +3

    spot on video, i would say the most important thing is that a girl will unconsciously or conciously try your boundaries here and there again. By that time she will also be very attentive on how she can control you, with her attention, her body, her actions. So in other words if you want peace with a woman you will always need to have one two three good battles to have this war done. I can totally recall from an ex-perience that the girl was acting all emotional, leaving the bed and ready to go for a walk at like 1-2am because she was upset I showed no emotional responds to her complains. She started to put shoes on but she clearly saw i wasnt moving an inch from the bed and were not going to chase her. I called her back to the bed and she did.

  • @UncleFreedom777
    @UncleFreedom777 Рік тому +2

    Best channel about this topic. Your women-10y-old video was a true eye opener.

  • @fabrice.ngoran
    @fabrice.ngoran Рік тому +19

    Nice videos bro but personally after listening and following so many influencers and self improvement gurus, what I’ve come to understand is no opinion is “gospel” (everyone is correct in their own way and at the same time they are lacking in some way). Everyone inclusive

  • @georgeelder8415
    @georgeelder8415 Рік тому +5

    Absolutely! George, you nailed it!

  • @ekulenwaiku4654
    @ekulenwaiku4654 Рік тому +5

    Man...at a point thought I was crazy for having this no-nice guy mindset...I'm glad I came across this video. This is gold!

  • @czito
    @czito Рік тому +11

    I think integrity makes a high value man. At least thats what I value in my friends more than anything else. My father and both grandfathers had this. I respect that.

  • @tradelikezach
    @tradelikezach Рік тому +15

    I remember watching that fresh and fit clip where that girl blatantly disrespects and demeans her guy in front of everyone and on a podcast no less.
    The way he handled it in the moment and after was embarrassing, this guy is supposed to be an alpha male influencer lmao.
    He said he didn't even remember what people were talking about, he nearly cried when it happened haha

    • @alammendung
      @alammendung Рік тому +3

      Hahaha, michael saratin

    • @miguelpereira9859
      @miguelpereira9859 4 місяці тому

      Utterly pathetic indeed lol I would have broke up with the dumb 304 right after the cameras were turned off

  • @javier.alvarez764
    @javier.alvarez764 Рік тому +17

    Summary and take away from this video. Stop being a nice guy and a simp, show some spine, command authority on women. Women like it when you show them who's the boss, and when you command authority. Don't be emotional or aggressive, show them who's the authority, who's the alpha by being cool, calm, and compose. Women will respect you if you establish authority.

  • @TobiasAlias
    @TobiasAlias Рік тому

    Wow, you hold no punches! A fascinating perspective. Fingers crossed you are right!

  • @Truthandverdic
    @Truthandverdic Рік тому +10

    The last frontier of control and hierarchy over her full faculty of submission, is to not lust her or any woman. Attraction is one thing, but true masculinity, power, and full spectrum personalities in men, stems from relinquishing the actual spirit or spell of lust for their body at any time. Being open to sex is one thing and obviously takes place down the road, but never actually lusting her, submits a woman that has decent or good chemestry with you, like NOTHING else will. There great more detail and depth to this… but for those with eyes and ears to see and hear wisdom, heed.

  • @poopoopeepee4233
    @poopoopeepee4233 Рік тому +15

    I was just binging your videos again and this popped up. Favorite channel!

  • @davecopp9356
    @davecopp9356 Рік тому +9

    I like your videos. You seem to be the real deal. Honest and direct. No BS. Keep going. All the best.

  • @Shipdacheese
    @Shipdacheese 11 місяців тому +35

    How's you throwing her macbook out the balcony not an emotional response? :)) That's one of the most emotional responses ever, right behind getting physical with her and getting into a huge argument.

    • @dogesmile2898
      @dogesmile2898 11 місяців тому +7

      agreed

    • @completelymindfucked
      @completelymindfucked 11 місяців тому +1

      This guy is full of crap.

    • @sideshow4463
      @sideshow4463 11 місяців тому +8

      Yes, it seems like a very emotional response. But you can have boundaries/standards without being emotional. If your women disrespects you, then you could tell her to leave without any argument.

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore 11 місяців тому +14

      Reimagine this done in the coldest, yet leisurely, fashion. Methodical and controlled, the only concern momentarily registering whether there is anyone poolside or on the street below.
      The template is to take decisive, even disproportionate, action as if it is nothing to you, because that's what it is.

    • @jdub9119
      @jdub9119 10 місяців тому +5

      I'm imagining this worked because he didn't emotionally freak out while doing it
      Staying calm & methodical when carrying out the consequences is the key here I guess?

  • @jessebradford7130
    @jessebradford7130 Рік тому +7

    You're right. Hell, even if a girl doesn't believe shes mistreating you, shes still gonna expect...want you to bite back.

  • @seunbisiriyu8475
    @seunbisiriyu8475 Рік тому +17

    I'm instinctively close to what you describe basically because of my background but I thought something is wrong with me. Thank you so much. Your ideas are the only real things alive and I can confirm that but I need a little more training from you.

  • @admazzola3569
    @admazzola3569 6 місяців тому

    this is one of the best videos on youtube
    im nominating it right now

  • @Sundrypop
    @Sundrypop 11 місяців тому +5

    Yes women want strong men, and some women might start fights to test her man, but not all women will do that. I would never call my man a pig unless he'd called me names first. I wouldn't allow myself to be mean to a man I was in a relationship with. When I began losing confidence in a man in the past I just ended things as respectfully and kindly as possible. If a man threw my computer out the window, his would probably be next. That or whatever valuable electronic of his was within reach. Whenever a man has become loud and disrespectful toward me, I've left for good. A man needs to be able to show his woman he's strong, but that he's got a soft spot with her. The crazy act is not going to get self respecting women to come back.

  • @michael28661
    @michael28661 Рік тому +35

    14 days ago, my wife told me that she was going on a trip with her friends in a week. I told her I didn't agree with that. after a week, on Monday, when she was supposed to leave, I forbade her to leave, saying that if she left, she wouldn't come back. she said she would go. I came back from work in the evening and she was nowhere to be found. I phoned her to see where she was. she told me she went on a trip. I told her ok that it's over between us and ended the call. that was on monday evening. then on Thursday she (already politely) wrote to me if she could talk to me when she arrived on Friday. i said yes then I wrote to her that I would talk to her only on Monday. she wrote that she will do as I wish. she came back from a trip on Friday. then i came back from work. she fell around my neck in tears and begged for forgiveness. yesterday and the day before yesterday she tried some more tests, but I don't get along with her much anymore, I deal with her politely but firmly. she looks much happier now. it really took until the end of the relationship for her to come to terms.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +3

      Yep there are no girls trip to Vegas or any other destinations, also no nights out to the clubs or bars. If they insist I say “go ahead go, I won’t stop you, but if you go this relationship is over no exceptions.

    • @Coffeendonuts
      @Coffeendonuts Рік тому

      She got plowed harder than an Iowa cornfield on that girls trip. Get rid of her.

    • @dasitmane7590
      @dasitmane7590 11 місяців тому +2

      She still was on the trip from monday to thursday or to some capacity solo from monday to monday?

    • @michael28661
      @michael28661 11 місяців тому +1

      @@dasitmane7590 I don't understand the question a bit

    • @golf1diesel
      @golf1diesel 9 місяців тому

      ​@@michael28661he thought you are not gonna see her on Friday but on next Monday,thinking you left the place

  • @Hbiiii
    @Hbiiii 11 місяців тому +5

    This is the most important lesson ever without it you could literally lose ur life our leave depressed life

  • @user-lg3pc5xl7q
    @user-lg3pc5xl7q 5 місяців тому

    I like george the best because he's straight to the point, doesn't repeat himself and no white board. Carry on!

  • @Kess7er
    @Kess7er Рік тому +1

    The ending video of bro screaming is icing on the cake 🤣🤣🔥

  • @user-yj6fh1hh7y
    @user-yj6fh1hh7y 11 місяців тому +4

    People tend to be happier after going through tough situations.

  • @factswise-psychologicalfac84
    @factswise-psychologicalfac84 Рік тому +8

    Some women see fighting as a sign that their partner cares for them....chicks have admitted this to me.🤣🤣

    • @alois4674
      @alois4674 5 місяців тому

      They look, if you fight . .. If you do not care, they can leave, cause the know now, that you no longer put value on the relationship...

  • @SolboySagas
    @SolboySagas 9 місяців тому

    Bro your words are helping me alot, i wish i knew all these before. Thanks for helping us. You are a G.

  • @jaywoodgrain
    @jaywoodgrain Рік тому

    Broo I been waiting for you To Dropp !!!! I’m bout to go check out your Video Now!

  • @assezzen194
    @assezzen194 Рік тому +32

    Dobre diem. This is your ABSOLUTE best video so far. I've watched it twice. I've watched all your videos. Very straightforward analysis. I hope your channel remains online for a long time and you keep producing such good videos. You are a bit severe about Johnny Depp, but I get your point. A weak man causes chaos from a woman. You made me think and reevaluate my past relationships. I think that you could make a video focusing MORE PRECISELY on what you call "to break a woman". It's a word used about wild horses, I think. The cowboy "breaks the horse", uses authority/force to dominate the animal and make it obey. A broken horse can then be ridden peacefully. I suppose you already know that. I would like you to do a video giving other examples or ideas about how to act when a girl does a shit test. Throwing away her Macbook (or destroying something) is not an option for me. I dislike destruction. In another video you grabbed her stuff and "started" to pack her suitcase, insinuating that she has to leave. Also, I'm wondering if in case of shit test / clear disrespect, I can simply tell her: "Enough! I do not tolerate disrespect. This is the first and the last time. " Masculine behaviour when interacting with a girl is a very useful topic. A video on what goes on in your head when dealing with a shit test (any emotion at all?) would be interesting.

    • @adrespostbus201
      @adrespostbus201 Рік тому +2

      You have a good point: 'A weak man causes chaos from a woman'

    • @SarcasticSplendor
      @SarcasticSplendor Рік тому +15

      Destroying her MacBook is the only thing I disliked in the video.
      What about just confiscating it ?
      I also think that destroying things is somewhat toxic and emotionally immature.

    • @demarcusds95
      @demarcusds95 11 місяців тому

      @@adrespostbus201that’s why the west is chaotic

    • @Giordana107
      @Giordana107 8 місяців тому +4

      As a woman, you here guys are already more mature than your "guru" here. As a bisexual, I understand him and 50% agree, but if you think destroying things is not aggressive, immature and shows masculine traits and is attractive and not toxic than good luck. Also you will only attract borderline personality disorder girls (just like Depp did). Gooooood luck.....

  • @karamojo5618
    @karamojo5618 Рік тому +17

    I totally agree with George. there is an esoteric principle which is that of polarity according to which two opposite poles attract each other. But in order for the poles to attract each other, they must be opposites. this means that if you want a feminine, kind, family-oriented woman next to you, it is essential that, on our side, there is a healthy and true masculinity. the feminine polarity repels men who also have a feminine polarity

    • @3SolarSourcerer3
      @3SolarSourcerer3 11 місяців тому +2

      Sun = Radiance objectivity masculinity black hole = magnetism subjectivity feminity.

  • @trollfaceCRO
    @trollfaceCRO Рік тому +6

    Great lesson, I was enjoying this video very much!

  • @amiali7647
    @amiali7647 11 місяців тому

    Been watching stuff like this for a bit but this specific video hit especially hard.

  • @TheBrazilianHue
    @TheBrazilianHue 10 місяців тому

    I knew it! I know you already. You're that guy everybody was dreaming of in the early 2000s

  • @BenjaSariwatta
    @BenjaSariwatta 9 місяців тому +3

    This explains why women prefer jobs to family. In a job, they have a boss that breaks them and keeps them in line. they respond to that and never leave the job...

    • @John-pz4zj
      @John-pz4zj 9 місяців тому +1

      Pretty good example, G. May you follow this method and succeed the game of life. Cheers! 🗿🍷

  • @esdet105
    @esdet105 4 місяці тому +3

    The shit tests, the contradictions between their statements and their actions, the irrational mood swings - just ignore them and remain unshakable. In time, she will succumb to your inner hardness.

  • @Kimbe83thomas
    @Kimbe83thomas Рік тому +1

    Great video bro on point and great points‼️‼️‼️

  • @tkkt3605
    @tkkt3605 Рік тому +1

    On point! Rare and needed Truth

  • @thethangyman
    @thethangyman Рік тому +7

    Bro got the Gus Fring fit (btw cool video bro)

  • @zOrO2kX
    @zOrO2kX Рік тому +38

    I ended up in jail because I threw my exgf laptop through the window (very similar situation explained in this video). She called the police and accused me of punching her (I never touched her). Police show up and took me to jail. I'm in Mexico, so I had to pay a really high "fine" (kidnap rescue) to get out of it. This girl's mother puts her in rehab and when she got out she reached to me over messages, phone calls, showed to the places I frequent. I blocked her and avoid any type of contact.
    Now I am always afraid that if I get into any kind of problem/argument with anyone in this town, this "police" guys will see me as an ATM machine. I feel like I lose my "leverage".
    I'm leaving this town for some time, maybe some months or even a year. But I'll come back, because, putting this serious issue aside, I love this place.
    So, just FYI. In modern times, being this "assertive man" can get you in serious sh*t.
    To be fair, this was the first time that this happened to me. So we can say that the probability for this to happen to someone is around 30 to 1.

    • @fortnitetrashcan8308
      @fortnitetrashcan8308 11 місяців тому +6

      damn bro i wish you the best

    • @mackrider6372
      @mackrider6372 10 місяців тому +2

      Bro Why didn't you run away before coming police... 🚓

    • @zOrO2kX
      @zOrO2kX 10 місяців тому +2

      @@mackrider6372 honestly I never thought she'll do that. I was packing my stuff to get out of there. Next thing I know the "police" came into my cabin and took me in. For context, she was taking lot's of sleeping pills beforehand, and I thought the police will never take her statement seriously, since she was literally falling her ass off because of the drug abuse.

    • @youwilllaugh3136
      @youwilllaugh3136 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly what I thought about it. I guess you could have kicked her out of the house or changed the pad locks

  • @luislopez8349
    @luislopez8349 Рік тому +2

    You got me with the Johnny depp part. You got genuine wisdom. I’m following close

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 Рік тому +2

    12:02 - that was the perfect example! I was telling in his comments section the same as you just said.

  • @dominicngugi7841
    @dominicngugi7841 Рік тому +14

    I have to be always on alert for any form of disrespect. Sounds like a sad way to live

    • @henreman
      @henreman Рік тому +3

      My ex used to constantly disrespect me and when I called her out she give excuses like "I was joking".. did one too many times and now we are no longer.

  • @cautious1343
    @cautious1343 10 місяців тому +3

    I've heard it said that the single most attractive thing about a man to a woman is self confidence. Add to that ... will not tolerate any BS. That's a winning combination.

  • @MDAD1
    @MDAD1 Рік тому +1

    U are awesome brother. Thanks alot for your content - serious gold.

  • @betorezende7645
    @betorezende7645 10 місяців тому

    man... your words is so trully, i lived like a J. Deep for years, and in the end i choose the 4rever alone path . Thanks to wake me up for relationships again

  • @MarketYour-Luv
    @MarketYour-Luv Рік тому +6

    Thank you brother, I'm 55 old school, nice guy syndrome is so powerful

  • @timothyrday1390
    @timothyrday1390 Рік тому +75

    My relationship failed because I didn't have the energy to work full-time, provide for all her needs...and...engage in a protracted struggle to win dominance over her. After a few key disputes, she flattened me like a pancake and treated me like a slave thereafter. I am still not sure I could handle "breaking" a woman if it's going to take that much effort. 😢

    • @madjunir
      @madjunir Рік тому

      Better stay single until you have leverage.
      Also don't take any crap from women.
      A Sigma male doesn't take crap from anyone. It's also smart in the battles that he will encounter.
      Also very important is to be red pilled and avoid modern feminist masculine women like the plague.

    • @beverlytaylor1745
      @beverlytaylor1745 Рік тому +37

      Hello 🌷 I was touched by your comment. As an older woman with a bit of life experience I think you are right. It shouldn't be that hard. Men need to feel respected and women need to feel loved. It's that simple.
      Retaliation isn't admirable, it's childish. Women want to feel secure emotionally - not blackmailed with the 'walk away' thinking. Here's the answer, Tim in the Bible at 1 Corinthians 11:3. Find a woman that believes her Creator knows best and accepts her place in His arrangement.
      A firm lead means non negotiables in moral and social behavior inside and outside of the home. Live in girlfriends are not beloved wives - it's an audition for a part they may or may not get. Choose a marriage mate who believes in the sanctity of marriage, and wants to please both God and her husband with her gentle submission . This is feminine. Femininity yields to masculinity by nature.
      I included a few Scriptures concerning this matter for you to read if you'd like to. 1 Peter 3: 1 - 7; Ephesians 5:22 - 33. 1 Corinthians 11:9; 1 Timothy 2:11,12; Proverbs 31: 10-31. I hope this helps. Godspeed. 💖

    • @zodglubby
      @zodglubby Рік тому +3

      Same

    • @beverlytaylor1745
      @beverlytaylor1745 Рік тому +1

      @@zodglubby Hello. I replied to Timothy's comment as well. I hope you read my reply as it might encourage you. Hope this helps. 🙏

    • @timothyrday1390
      @timothyrday1390 Рік тому +11

      ​@@beverlytaylor1745Thank you for your consideration. Thank God I didn't marry her. It was disappointing, though, as we were both believers and went to church together every week. It wasn't a "toxic" relationship (we both got along), but underneath her outgoing, charming exterior was a rigid, uncompromising character. She had a very headstrong personality and just naturally charged ahead and took the lead in every situation with little regard to the cost and consequences.
      It was a highly unbalanced relationship and I became increasingly angry and resentful, so I ended it before I blew a gasket. It was a miserable experience, yet I learned a lot about how a biblically ordained relationship should and should not function. Thank you for the verses. God bless.

  • @itzonlypants5411
    @itzonlypants5411 Рік тому +1

    Dude! the beginning had me laugh. that made my day bro. that is when I hit the sub button

  • @uRefired69T
    @uRefired69T Рік тому +2

    I always loves your video especially when it breaks my head

  • @Michael12111983
    @Michael12111983 Рік тому +18

    1:36 Jordon Peterson has been leading a healthy married relationship for over 30 years now and lives by the rules he preaches. I don't think his advice will lead you astray. I believe if you want to achieve something in life then you have to look at the people who are already there where you want to be. In that sense I believe that Jordon Peterson is a very good starting point.

    • @bruce5868
      @bruce5868 11 місяців тому

      His daughter cheated on her husband with Andrew Tate.

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore 11 місяців тому +3

      I mean who wouldn't want to raise a daughter who abandons her comatose father, her child, and her husband in Russia while she goes to Romania to be a hole for Tate?
      seriously though, I find Peterson a bit limiting on the woman question (let alone the other question)

    • @sleeper9638
      @sleeper9638 3 місяці тому

      Peterson is wrong on almost every point he makes about women. He did a personality test with his wife and he came back as being basically as agreeable a person as humanly possible (98th percentile) while his wife came back as being a somewhat disagreeable person and he then went on to say that "women are by definition correct". Not to be insulting but he is essentially just a man without a spine, he literally does not have the mental capability of viewing women through any objective or critical lense. I don't really put too much blame on him because roughly 80% of a person's behaviour is genetic so its mostly out of his control, he was just always genetically destined to be a highly agreeable and submissive person which is not someone you should seek advice from for handling relationships as a man

  • @msfkmsfk
    @msfkmsfk Рік тому +45

    This is probably the best video I've seen thus far on female behavior and how men should act. I really appreciate it thank you and thank you for making it free.

    • @adamt7057
      @adamt7057 Рік тому +1

      I feel the same thank you George I’ve listened 10+times because I know it is the truth!

  • @salilkumar4353
    @salilkumar4353 6 місяців тому

    You nailed it with that Dad example. Its 💯 correct

  • @LouieManza
    @LouieManza 11 місяців тому +7

    You are 100% spot on! Many weak men are traveling to my birth country of Colombia. They call themselves "passport bros, Red Pill men" and other terms to describe themselves as men who have given up on dating woman from thier own cultures or countries.
    They truly believe that Colombian woman in this case are more subservient than the woman from the USA. 😅 Not true. Generally speaking, perhaps more feminine. They appear to conflate feminine with subservience. Big mistake.
    As soon as I hear many of them say stuff like " don't bring them back to states" as if to say that other women will influence them in a bad way, I immediately know these men are weak men and that any woman, including Colombian woman will see it too.
    Money can make it easier to attract certain types of woman. Gold diggers for example but a strong sense of character and self respect will attract the best woman. Woman who will support you through thick and thin.
    As you stated quite eloquently, a woman's essence is the same no matter what country they're from. They subconsciously seek that father figure who's fair, respectful towards them and won't allow to be disrespected by ANYONE. Especially by thier own partner.
    Wise men know this yet so many do not.
    Cheers!👍

  • @Batcave6
    @Batcave6 Рік тому +3

    We’re not the bad guys, we’re the good guys!

  • @EveryDayWorkout243
    @EveryDayWorkout243 Рік тому +1

    Just as I'm clicking the subcribe button and thinking to myself "I've never subscribed so fast", I realise I have already subscribed a few minutes ago 🤣 That good 🔥🚒🚒

  • @IanocityReacts
    @IanocityReacts 6 місяців тому +1

    You and Casey Zander know your shit. Keep it up bro

  • @zelfontwikkeling3675
    @zelfontwikkeling3675 Рік тому +11

    George I'm loving the content. I'd like to advise you to build an email list though. There's a chance youtube might ban you at some point for this type of content. If you have an email list you'll be able to stay in contact with your audience wherever you go.

  • @ianchristopher8452
    @ianchristopher8452 Рік тому +71

    This video is spot on and I’m surprised George used the term “breaking a women”, which is really a term use in The Game.
    Women are crying through their actions for a man to respect all the time. Ever since I started employing similar tactics in my own relationship, my girl and I couldn’t be happier.
    It all really comes down to the question; do you respect yourself? Once you understand this, you stop putting up with BS.

  • @Bunker7
    @Bunker7 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the advice, this works on all relationships.

  • @siegfriedo
    @siegfriedo Рік тому +2

    You deserved a new subscriber with this video. 💥❤️‍🔥👍💪

  • @pitlesskart
    @pitlesskart 4 місяці тому +3

    Why am i seeing "Gus fring" ☠️

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 Рік тому +5

    These wisdoms, told in russian accent, make them sound double as savage!

  • @max_rove
    @max_rove 10 місяців тому +3

    Spot on man. I'm always trying to explain this stuff to men, but most don't get it. Emotional strength, drawing boundaries, standing up to women, and being willing to walk away at any time are what matter the most in relationship to women (and many times men).

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 Рік тому +2

    Glad to see this Chadnnel growing.

  • @quinnlee7949
    @quinnlee7949 Рік тому +1

    Great video Mr. George.

  • @borkug1566
    @borkug1566 Рік тому +19

    Could you make a video about the pathological need for validation - not just about women - that nice guys have and how to overcome it?

    • @graziamaravalli1925
      @graziamaravalli1925 9 місяців тому

      You cant. Its in the human DNA

    • @timothyrday1390
      @timothyrday1390 6 місяців тому

      I think this gets to the heart of the problem these days. My ex definitely had this pathological need for validation and it took me awhile to figure out that it was behind so many of her behavioral patterns. It's sad really.