The Moment You Realize You're Actually Retired

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  • Опубліковано 29 січ 2025

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  • @cornbread2966
    @cornbread2966 8 годин тому +1

    I just retired on Jan 17th and this video really helped me keep my perspective on track. Thank you Steve

  • @kenstewart7375
    @kenstewart7375 23 години тому +8

    Retired 12/03/24 just starting to settle in and get deprogrammed from work life. Didn't realize when I was working how much time was spent revolving around work, weekends were gotta hurry up and do this or do that before I go back to work, during the week same thing always thinking about the job. Going to town always taking the quickest route gotta get there and get back so I can get ready for work tomorrow, now I can drive 5 mph. under the speed limit while taking the scenic route. Guess I'm starting realize when you're retired everyday is the weekend 😅

  • @RetiredLovingIt
    @RetiredLovingIt 21 годину тому +3

    Our defining retirement moment was watching the morning traffic on the news and realizing we didn’t have to do that madness anymore

  • @originalmicdrop
    @originalmicdrop День тому +5

    I am 2 weeks retired.....everything you said is soooo true.....i thought i would know how it feels to be retired, but when it actually happens, that stress relief feeling is hard to put into words.

  • @brucematthews4243
    @brucematthews4243 23 години тому +4

    I needed this. Retiring March, using up vacation until then so practising being retired now.

  • @johnniewilliams4741
    @johnniewilliams4741 День тому +7

    Six plus months into retirement and loving every day!

  • @yakuzaboss1988
    @yakuzaboss1988 День тому +4

    Man retirement is a trip when you figure it out

  • @echomcnutt1502
    @echomcnutt1502 День тому +6

    Just made my call to SS today. Check starts in March. Whew! New chapter in my life. Let's see where it takes me. Glad to find your channel.

  • @mikeenos4040
    @mikeenos4040 21 годину тому +5

    I am in the retirement blues phase.. right now, 3rd week of retirement...
    The only thing I need to get used to or come to terms with .. is the disconnect from my coworkers...
    To start off, everyone wishes you the best of luck and keep in touch .. in two weeks your are wrote off... like you were never there
    I understand I have seen it many time before... when I was younger and others retired....
    I did prepared for the emotional side effects of this.
    I guess it's just the way it is
    I think I will get used to it and go on with my new life...
    .

    • @dacianbonta2840
      @dacianbonta2840 15 годин тому

      when you retired, you effectively communicated to your co-workers: "I'm better than this."
      Are you?

  • @kennyhart2699
    @kennyhart2699 22 години тому +2

    Been retired since November. Retirement just sank in when I spent the whole month of January in south Florida and not back home in the snow and below zero temperatures

  • @dennishaas4745
    @dennishaas4745 14 годин тому +2

    When I took off my steel toed boots and got my lunchbox and threw both in the garbage can ! Retired 2 years and love it !

  • @georgeseros9007
    @georgeseros9007 16 годин тому +3

    Thanks for another inspiring video, Steve. I am so looking forward to retiring. Mid-February of 2026 so just over a year from now. As a rule, time does fly so hopefully this last year will. Take care

    • @RetirementbyDesign26
      @RetirementbyDesign26 7 годин тому +1

      I’ll be right behind you retiring 3/2/26! I can hardly wait

  • @stevegorkowski3246
    @stevegorkowski3246 День тому +7

    I was basically retired before work was done. After the dollars needed were made, work for me was just a motion. That was the time for me.

  • @rosendocavazos4566
    @rosendocavazos4566 День тому +5

    Steve, I retired on 01/01/2025, from a 35 year career with the government.. I’m still transitioning. It’s a surreal feeling, a little scary and a lot exciting. It’ll take time for me to really process it but I’m looking forward to better weather and the funds to start.

    • @wildnfrantic1015
      @wildnfrantic1015 День тому +2

      Same here - retire March 1st from 25 years in a UK government job. Glad to be getting away from the toxic atmosphere and complete lack of motivation but anxious about retirement. Fingers crossed it all works out well

  • @RichardGeorge-uj9iu
    @RichardGeorge-uj9iu 21 годину тому +22

    The amount of poor management and dishonesty in this administration is out of control. It’s upsetting to see those with disabilities not receiving the help they are legally entitled to. I sincerely thank you, June Renae Matthysse. Just imagine making $6K in 20 days from an investment of $1.5K

    • @MICHAELJHAGAN-l6k
      @MICHAELJHAGAN-l6k 21 годину тому +2

      That woman totally changed my life for good. I have come across individuals but none is as honest as June. So surprised you know her too

  • @L1FRDOG
    @L1FRDOG День тому +3

    Steve, my journey to retirement has been going for almost 2 years now. As far as I am concerned I retired 01 January, 2025. I have chosen to stay engaged but I simply work 8 hours per week. No set sked, but basically any time frame and Amount I wish, I have the flexibility to get the work I am assigned done. That said I am sure there will be those who want to argue that any work after retirement doesn't count. What I have now embraced has transcended beyond the word retirement. Instead I say that as of the first of the year I am 100% satisfied knowing that I have won the game and can walk away at any time. What I have is the "Piece of Mind" that I may work because I "WANT" to, but I'll never need to work again because I "HAVE " to. At 57, that is all the difference I need right now. Please keep up the good work!

  • @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql
    @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql День тому +3

    Mine was Thursday up until 1300 hours, everyone came to me for directions. My retirement party started at 14:00 hours and at 15:30 everyone went back to work and noone needed to talk to me. I was no longer employed.

  • @marianfrances4959
    @marianfrances4959 21 годину тому +3

    I respect that it may be harder for men to retire. Many women broke up their working life to care for family. We got our feet wet regarding time management at home. I love being retired. I take care of my health and do everything at my own, natural pace. 👍😎🇨🇦🌸

  • @swamprat9018
    @swamprat9018 День тому +6

    Happy Birthday Steve!

  • @JohnD-f2o
    @JohnD-f2o День тому +17

    Been retired for 6 months, still having nightmares of work related thing. I must have PTS. I hope it ends soon.

    • @jwm3237
      @jwm3237 День тому +3

      Same.

    • @brianbuchholz9302
      @brianbuchholz9302 День тому +2

      Same

    • @lulucly
      @lulucly День тому +2

      Two years into retirement and the nightmares are less frequent

    • @keith-pz3uj
      @keith-pz3uj День тому +2

      I promise the time will come when it gets better! Coming from a Maintenace Supervisor of three four story buildings on call 24/7!! Eight months in and things are smoothing out! No more 4 o'clock in the mornings for me!! Getting a lot done around the house and not having to dealing with the next emergency is real niceeeee!!! Just keep getting up in the morning and looking around at all you worked for your whole life and take deep breathes, walk slower and look around more, eat slower, wear your bed clothes till lunch time!!!

    • @josephmoodler2711
      @josephmoodler2711 21 годину тому +1

      I still do 13 months later.

  • @R4everAcousticHucks
    @R4everAcousticHucks День тому +3

    Can't wait! May 31st for me here in Florence, SC!

  • @MyBackyardScience
    @MyBackyardScience День тому +3

    I don't know what it will be like, but I am looking forward to finding out! 😊

  • @Robs63
    @Robs63 День тому +1

    Happy Birthday Steve Enjoy !!😊

  • @nh5er237
    @nh5er237 23 години тому

    I like these type of videos. I can live vicariously thru them as I will never be able to retire. Of course I know that's my own fault, for not preparing properly, but it brings a smile to my face to see those who are able to.

    • @gregkloe
      @gregkloe 23 години тому

      Are you sure? Obviously, I don't know your situation, I thought the same and then I met with a Schwab person and she helped me work out a plan. It took about 4 years and I worked a year longer than I wanted to, but I recently retired 7 days before my 65th birthday. No, I don't have a million dollars and I will have to live a frugal lifestyle, but my wife and I have always desired and have lived a simple life.

    • @nh5er237
      @nh5er237 19 годин тому

      @@gregkloe That's awesome. Like I said, I'm happy for those that can do it. We do have a couple things in mind to look into, but not very hopeful. Enjoy that retirement.

  • @randymillhouse791
    @randymillhouse791 10 годин тому

    Thank you for this. You seem so darn content and relieved. Bless you.
    So, you from Louisiana or what?

  • @kentuckyleisure4289
    @kentuckyleisure4289 День тому

    Happy Birthday Steve. I see the Mrs (or you) got a little something there behind you in the video. Perhaps a Birthday present? I see you even knocked the whiskers off for the occasion.😊
    Nice video tonight. I think I'm going to be like you. Its going to take several months or longer for retirement to hit me. Especially since I'm laid up with this hip for a while. Anyway take care Steve and Happy Birthday again

  • @billykellum
    @billykellum День тому +11

    I was just telling someone today that I felt retired for the first time this week, after more than a month of being retired. I felt it strong Sunday night knowing that I had Monday off. 😂

    • @maryalbert6138
      @maryalbert6138 День тому +5

      It’s a beautiful feeling!

    • @davidatkinson5396
      @davidatkinson5396 День тому +6

      Congratulations. Monday went from being my worst day to my favorite day pretty quickly.

  • @OpenDGuitar
    @OpenDGuitar День тому +1

    Depending on circumstances, I’m maybe 18months out. But as an educator, I don’t know if it’ll be a huge immediate transition because of having summers and Christmas off. Of course, we don’t really get them off.

  • @stevebrinkert3649
    @stevebrinkert3649 День тому +1

    3 years into retirement, I can relax a little. 😊

  • @barryobee1544
    @barryobee1544 22 години тому

    Good video! Wise words!

  • @Born2Retire
    @Born2Retire День тому +1

    Happy Birthday! I'll be 59 on the 2/23

  • @timsilva1944
    @timsilva1944 День тому +3

    I realized it the last time I left the paking lot at work. It was a long, hazy bunout. 😂
    I'm kidding, but it certainly didn't take long.
    I still occasionally have dreams of stressful moments at work, but it's glorious when I wake and realize it'll never happen again.

  • @ddellwo
    @ddellwo День тому +16

    Back in Minnesota, people will usually tell you the best day of retirement is the first big snowstorm when they can sit in their easy chair in pajamas and watch the poor working stiffs fight their way into the office through the cold, snow, and slippery driving conditions………❄❄❄

  • @troyellett7207
    @troyellett7207 22 години тому

    Hey brother Steve I pray someday that feeling will come after being forced to retire at 55 due to a disability I had 40yrs of trucking and it feels like the rug was pulled from under me any comments would be greatly appreciated.Thanjs

    • @marianfrances4959
      @marianfrances4959 22 години тому

      Remember to breathe! You'll be fine. Time for self care. Smell the roses.✌️🇨🇦

  • @rtoadontheroad
    @rtoadontheroad День тому

    I haven retired now about 7 months and no I could do that now!
    Dennis

  • @josephmoodler2711
    @josephmoodler2711 21 годину тому

    Love the hat !

  • @strothermartin5368
    @strothermartin5368 День тому

    I've been retired since 9/1/21. It was strange but, you'll get used to it.

  • @deanrotering879
    @deanrotering879 День тому +1

    Sounds good to me.

  • @JohnD-f2o
    @JohnD-f2o День тому +1

    Question, How do you pay Federal Taxes on earned income in retirement. quarterly ,yearly or at the end of the year. I'm looking at quarterly with automatic withdraws from bank account to IRS. Any advice would help.

    • @jwm3237
      @jwm3237 День тому +1

      I pay estimated Fed and State taxes quarterly based on the income earned in each quarter.

    • @JohnD-f2o
      @JohnD-f2o День тому

      @@jwm3237 Thanks

    • @alphamale2363
      @alphamale2363 День тому +1

      I read you also could take last year's tax payment, divide by four, and pay that amount each quarter (safe harbor rule.)

  • @jayholiday256
    @jayholiday256 День тому

    I’ve been retired since December 2024

  • @retireearlywithme
    @retireearlywithme День тому +20

    I’ve been retired six days now. I’m still waiting for that retirement feeling to settle in. At this point I just feel like I’m on a long holiday weekend.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 День тому +4

      Many congratulations on retirement.
      I hope you enjoy it for many decades to come.

    • @KerryFieber
      @KerryFieber День тому +6

      I am 11 days in. You are right. So far, it feels like one long weekend. Then I catch myself and say, "I don't need to (go into) work today." Then I smile.😊

    • @retireearlywithme
      @retireearlywithme День тому

      @@markwhittaker6866 thank you very much

    • @dforrest4503
      @dforrest4503 День тому +1

      Hopefully it’ll feel like a very extended holiday!

    • @MichaelSmith-yr8rb
      @MichaelSmith-yr8rb День тому +1

      After one year of not working many coworkers fb friend requested me which i accepted knowing theres no returning now
      A coworker early 60s like me expired and i like many others were shaken by it
      He was a good guy and helped us through many trying situations including covid
      If one stops working sooner it will likely gain you more time in the empirical world with improved health
      A yt video posted people on average use just 20% of their finances in retirement and leave 80% when they die and so far with my small pension the savings are holding up very well
      Hopefully we can activate a basic income so everyone can live more stress free lives and shorter work weeks

  • @amafid
    @amafid День тому

    RETIRE EARLY WITH ME just retired. He’s been making a video every day 😝😝😝.

  • @johnfallon6906
    @johnfallon6906 День тому +1

    🎯🙏🎯

  • @Abraham.Lincoln22
    @Abraham.Lincoln22 День тому

    The retirement beard is gone & Uncle Steve is looking MAGA sharp. 👍🇺🇸

  • @pearleelife
    @pearleelife День тому +1

    🍻🫡

  • @ddddsd20
    @ddddsd20 День тому +2

    First

  • @rickanderson4332
    @rickanderson4332 День тому +1

    Happy Birthday Steve!