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Great topic! I’m an basic introvert. But I push myself to reach out more. It does bring happiness to meet & talk with people you don’t know

I'm into month three of retirement and it is stressful. Some people just see the luxury of not going to work, they don't see that retirement is a whole new form of work but instead of earning you are trying to not spend. My husband is retiring next month and it feels like a cliff. I know it will be ok, I've been "broke" before and as you said, I got used to spending. I just wish I'd not stress about it so much.

I guess a lot of people never give much thought to what retirement is really like. In a way you can't really understand the conditiions until you are in it for real. Unfortunately most of us go through life with this image created that retirement is the golden year period of life, as if to say everything just magically becomes peace and prosperity. So it is not unusual that people arrive to this period with the wrong ideas but that does not prevent one from stepping out and giving some thought and planning when you have stepped into that era of life. It can be very unhealthy to try and cultivate too many friendships, to try and be too involved with community. Ease into it, enjoy the new freedom of retirement. I retired at 58, not planned as it was a situation of job moved on with the acquisition of the company I worked for so I ended up entering retirement as sort of a back door out of a disappointing end to the work career. At first it was troubling, lots of mental trauma but gradually I realized I was free to start something else in life, to make a mark to essentially live a second life and I did. It ran its course and succeeded in restoring my self worth and feeling of satisfaction with what I accomplished. Retirement is not scripted, there is no rehearsal, it is once through for all the marbles so don't fret, use the wisdom of your age, the accumulation of your knowledge and skills, step up to the challenge but be careful with placing new friendships at the top of the priority list.

Hi Steve 👋 glad you're doing well.

At one time, it was only a construct , and now it has manifested Congratulations

Good advice

I never expected to be lonely in retirement but it happened to me because my husband/ best friend died shortly before I retired. We were both very introverted but we had fun doing everything together since high school. There was an older lady at my church who met her second husband at a Dollar store after he struck up a conversation with her in line and they discovered that they were both widowed.

I retired at 55 , left 40 % on the table 8 years ago . It took 3 years for me not to wake up in a panic thinking about the 200 things I had to . Now a days i dont know the day of the week . For me, it's not retirement. it's debriefing my life.

Wow! Beautiful day on the river, and looks like you had it all to yourself -- even better. Enjoyed seeing it and the history lesson! Many thanks.

Saving money is my hobby.

Steve!!! im recently retired also, and It has thrown me into a Dizzy"... Im single , and Bored as Hell.. Damn, i thought this was going to be Fun,,, But I find myself just Drinking to deal with Lonliness.... I really need to chill out and slide into Relaxing...... Glad to have found your Video......

Hey Steve. Ring that Bell for me!! Today is my last day and then off to this thing called retirement.

Good information Steve. The life of a hermit is unhealthy.

Hello! Just stumbled on your channel and subscribed! Really enjoyed your conversation!

Great video with great points Steve

This very thing has been one of the most shocking, positive things that has happened to me in retirement. When I was working I rarely said anything to people I didn’t know. Now that I’ve been retired for a number of years I get a great deal of joy out of striking up conversations with totally random strangers. I will usually just try to make a funny comment about something that is happening right there and see where it goes. Some people chuckle and walk away but many will come back with a conversation. Fun.

I joined the local Y walk my 3 or 4 miles do yoga there 3 time a week and have become one of the regulars

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HA, Burton (from Lowe's paint department) and I were just talking about this. Is Google spying on my conversations ? IDK. Anyway, we both like Cadillacs - he was mixing paint to match the dark blue that Cadillac used on it's engines and valve covers back in the 50's. He told me he is retired and said when the time comes to buy a new or newer car, he's got a little apprehension since he said that regular paycheck has stopped. One of those FIRE guys (Dion) said his target was 4x what he needed for monthly income so that he can weather any storm. Water heater pricing is nuts as new units start at 500+. The 700 if installed is not bad at all. My area, they want 1K. Good thing I am handy.

20% inflation increase in past 3 years under Biden administration 😢😢😢

Where is your rocking chair??

just go down to the southern border , cross over , and come back and tell them you are seeking asylum and you will make more money for doing nothing than you ever dreamed possible ,along with free health care, and a new home , all paid for through the national debt designed to bankrupt our country !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been retired for a year and a half. I'm not lonely, not bored nor do I regret quitting my job. I also don't need people or friends as they have been more negative for me than positive in my life. If you are a person that loves people and like the job you are doing you should stay with it to get what you need more than money. A job was always just a way to make money for me, but I understand some people need more.

Nice video Steve. We need that interaction with others to replace the friendships we had when we were working. Just saying “howdy” or “how are you doing” to those we come in contact with, might be the start of a whole new friendship. Take care! Robert

Food for thought! Great video Steve, I love watching your videos…..

I'm in my late 40's and sometimes when I'm eating by myself and I see an older/elderly person eating alone at a fast food establishment and quietly staring ahead, I do wonder if I ask to join them at their table to eat and small talk --- how would they receive that offer? Just wouldn't want to unnecessarily perceive I may have a motive.

Very wise words. We have made great friends here in portugal despite the occasional communication problems. 😅 Msking ourselves open to others, especially in a foreign, to us, culture has made all the difference

Everybody lives close by like you Steve kids close all 4 my grandkids close my siblings aren’t far and I keep two little ones few hours a day still love retirement 3 years in😊also the key is staying active a walk daily and free time doing anything I want No time Clock😊 great topic!

I've been working remotely for more than 10 years. I always say hi to folks in the neighborhood! 😊

Beautiful garden!

Spot on

Looking to maybe joining a bowling league this Fall. That should be fun. I have not bowled in about 10 years. Thanks Steve!

Good stuff, as always. Wife, kids, grandkids & a part-time job. I kinda enjoy my alone time. 😊

Not to mention you for sure made the old timers day as well doc.

Great subject Steve and you hit the nail right on the head exactly, I've been retired for the past 9 years now without any friends who would ever bother to call me but only two, and because of their locations & situations we never get together to meet in person. At 72 I've been an Introvert and loner most of my life but occasionally I do get the largest mental boost from having conversations with total strangers whenever I can too. I just completed a 3 month 3 day a week pulmonary rehabilitation program and between my rigorous work out sessions and through my interactions with the medical staff and the other patients each time I managed to get a physical as well as a great mental boost each time. 😊

Great quote from your video that I totally relate to: "Hey man, I enjoy being alone, but I really enjoy those 15-20 minutes when I stop and talk to somebody." Well said, sir!

I talk to anyone and everyone. Not all are receptive though. Lol

Staying busy with things that bring you and others joy is the ticket for myself.

I’ve made several acquaintance/friends on my early morning walks. I speak to everyone I see on trail. Being pleasant to others cost nothing and has the potential to gain a new friend. Nice video!

Great video Steve keep enjoying life retirement 👍 7

Great video👍are you drawing from social security and a retirement fund ? Seems so as a couple you guys would be all set with a decent amount every month

It must be in the air . I'm in Mississippi and it's pitiful around here. Thanks Steve for all you do

Sometimes I feel a bit lonely. But then I make a mental list of all my friends and family and snap out of it. 😂 saying hello, joining some group, volunteer, etc. I go to an alzheimer support group once a month and have met some terrific people, and gotten great ideas for my mom. Etc. Saying Hello is a terrific practice. Opening our hearts.

Happy Tuesday Steve. Kid and I are going to take the kayaks fishing as soon as it cools down. 85 and muggy in Minnesota

Great discussion. For some people, the social circle is very small. No spouse and siblings and parents have passed on. Kids are in a different state. There are plenty of lonely people who are married. Whatever your circumstances are that has you in a small circle, make the effort to find what brings meaning in your life.

We’re pretty fortunate. You retired with zero debt and some cash set aside. We live pretty frugal and we still bring in a solid income. Good luck to all 6 Saturday a week retirees.

grandkids with their own cars is also a good thing!

Hello I brother good seeing y again ❤keep them coming 😊

That’s a huge thing for a lot of people. We have each other and some church groups we attend and we are happy as clams.

We see them so much here in our yard, as well as bear and coyotes. Even an occasional fisher cat now and then.