7 Ways to Protect Kids from Sexual Abuse | AAP
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Child sexual abuse is more common than you might think. But there are simple ways parents can protect their children and reduce the likelihood that they will be abused. It's called body autonomy, and it starts with a conversation. Dr. Shalon Nienow, a board certified child abuse pediatrician and member of the AAP Council on Child Abuse and Neglect Executive Committee, explains seven tips all parents should know about how to keep their kids safe from child sexual abuse.
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My mum sent this to me... if only she had protected me when I was a child though
Bruh your mom’s gross….but im very sorry
Its ok i understand you perfectly, i have been molested too ,we gotta be strong okay? I'm just a stranger but I'm sure you're an amazing person
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The statute of limitations laws really need to be addressed. I would be happy to contribute in any way.
I am still resentful, and angry because I will never get justice for the years of abuse that I suffered at the hands of my three older brothers and my oldest sister. Even though my brothers were of legal age when I was last molested by them, I was not able to talk about it until I was in my forties, and the only reason why I was able to talk about then, was because one of my nieces told me that she had been molested by one of my little brothers.
My niece was the daughter of one of my brothers who molested me, and she told me that she was about four years old at the time. She said when her Dad found out what happened, he blamed her, and then he beat her.
This made me so angry that I wrote a letter, exposing all my brothers and my oldest sister. I sent the letter through Facebook to everyone in the family including all my nieces and nephews.
While it shocked everyone, my point was to let everyone know that they must guard their children from family as well as strangers. The damage is permanent, and irreversible.
Today I'm an atheist, because I don't believe in a God that is suppose to be loving, but would let a child suffer the way I did.
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Really sorry to hear about your bad experience .. I agree that the damage is permanent and irriversable... May the creator of the Universe help you to heal all your wounds.... May He guide all of us to the right path and not to follow the devil... Aameen.... You are strong person.... Help other children by giving them awareness....
So sorry may you heal and find God in your life!
Family is the worst. Not only do they have complete access to you, generally you're neither believed nor protected from them.
(Funny how the comment above "hoped you'd find God"). 😂
Cain killed Able, so God allows freedom of action. God is not to blame, but your family members. As you are now a powerful being this is not God's doing but your own. Don't blame God for the abuse, from an Orthodox Christian who was also abused as a child.
I told my mom about her brother molesting me, she did nothing. One day her brother ( my uncle: he lived with us) wanted to “help me with my homework “. I was 6, I started screaming about the smelly stuff that comes out. He was 17 or 18. My parents still didn’t Kik him out but his room was in the basement until he could find an apartment. Out of three kids, he got two of us
Number 7 I disagree with. There are corrupt doctors, police officers, teachers and parents too. Children are in far more danger from being sexually abused by people they are told to trust, than some random stranger.
Not all sexual abuse feels icky. At times it may feel pleasurable and because of that they may feel less inclined to tell a trusted adult about what happened to them.
I agree with you and then the child Lerner to what she said don't keep secrets. So, the child Lerner to keep secrets like what you said
That only lasts when there a child.
That's why we gotta teach kids that "pleasureable" sexual abuse is still wrong
Wrong. Kids know inside feelings it’s wrong.
@@chaz4471 It is wrong. The child might know that it's wrong even though it might feel good. Some abuse victims are conditioned to not know that what is happening is wrong.
BS, I'm a retied psychiatrist and CSA survivor. Preadolescent children experience crippling shame and guilt when abused and are simply unable/unwilling to tell anyone what happened. Then, we all too often carry the symptoms of CPTSD for the rest of our lives. Bottom line: do not have a child that you cannot protect from predators. My father acted as though he'd just as soon see me dead and my naive mother unknowingly sent me off for summer vacations as an 8-10 yo under the care (!) of my pedophile "Uncle Hank", who sexually abused me. Through all the therapy and psychiatric training, no-one ever asked about childhood abuse.
Sir I'm also sexually abused so what should I do?
@@KuchBhi-bm1yj Know that you are not alone and that it was never your fault. At least one in ten American children are sexually abused in childhood. Get help from an experienced and trustworthy psychotherapist. Get ahold of a copy of Pete Walker's "CPTSD" book. Know that your better angels have always been with you and always will be. Namaste'
@@StressRUs but my body types change when I wear jeans shirt i feel very uncomfortable in public places.now I'm 20 please tell me some treatment tips because I'm dipressed I don't understand what should I do?
Thank you. 50 years ago for me - i remember most of it, and parts are hazy, but my power and my voicevwas taken away that day. At 5 i didnt know what these twin 10 year old girls were telling me about sex, and then they minded the door against my mum coming into my own room. Finally i have realised they took my voice that day, and there is a deep anger in me. Appreciate your share
#1 I have a problem with. No, it is not okay just because a parent is present, especially the parent who also molested the child. It is not okay in the absence of a real reason and the consent of the body owner. Also, in the USA boys are far more likely than 1 in 20 to be molested. Pediatricians are among the guilty ones. They knife rape male newborns and perform many unnecessary intimate exams thereafter. Spurious medical excuses protect the guilty party, not the victims. I have extremely deep contempt for the lowlife who mutilated me. Also, later when I was a child I was forced to lie completely naked on an exam table for a long time by my childhood pedophilotrician while he had a field day with my body. This was after the prior visit, when he was dragging me around by the arm, yelling at me, and threatening me, and otherwise not communicating with me. Where is the peer-reviewed evidence that the exam will fail without that? Probably in the same apocryphal vault with the evidence for inguinal hernia exams with pre-participation physicals for sports? Nonetheless, good points in this piece.
Thanks for the tips and now i can teach children and their parents about the protection against sexual abuse.
Thank you information 多谢资讯,没人会相信母亲会对孩子做出这种时候
Thank You Dr. Shalon Nienow,
THE WHOLE UNIVERSE VALIDATES #7.
Nice information 👍
My son was violated and the police did nothing
I identify with that. It happened to my friends and I who were violated by the same babysitter.
Hey!!! Here’s a novel idea!! 1: BELIEVE the children, especially when being sexually abused and 2: How about Authorities BELIEVE the parents!!!😡😡.
great advice! thank you!
I heard a little girl bring up being abused sexually! Then the mom blew it off like nothing happened! What do I do ?
Report it !
@@Eastcoastmama506 CPS?
@@kimpham7592 yes I would!
How can I protect my child if there is an RA if the child is below 7years old is in Her mother custody?what his mother is in work abroad and His custody is in his step parents?why your so unfair before you make a law?
hi evryone i realy want help my bully is always toching my private parts and i cant do anything i also cant tell my parents bc im shy can someone tell me what to do pls😢 im only 12 and i dont like that im keep getting toched pls help me 😭
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Is a 5 year old touching another 5 year old abuse
This is my moms profile my moms friend did something he shouldn’t do when I was 7 that’s along time ago
I found it
38 years ago for me. If I could just go back and not be interested in making stomach pancakes. It sounded fun at age 5 though. I still have trouble when asked to go to ihop or waffle house
Here, voice sounds nervous and unhappy, and like if she doesn't know if she is right about it. with what she is saying or told to say.Whyy does she have to rely on mommy and a doctor? Nott, all moms are good as well, or dad or doctor. There's good people who will help. I know that for starters, my husband and myself have more information to help our kids.
1. It is a serious topic, so one can one has to put seriousness behind the tone.
2. It really does sound like that you are jeoulous of the fact that she gets to speak and you don't, because you attack the speaking style and it (almost) seems like you want to claim you have superior knowledge (which you may have given that they only chose to share only 7 points, and also like you have a lot more to discredit - normally poeple who are guilty of something does this kind of thing). Off-course there are way more, and off course it is not targeted to those who are posessed by demons, or like that kind of things. It talks about the average human being whose mind functions within the normal averages. These are basics in a normal functional environment, not in a disfunctional environment, which will require advanced pshcology approaches. With that, please feel free to share your knowledge. a lot of parents and kids need to hear it at least once to help their children stay safe in a sexually charged world.
I been sexualy abused when I was 10 by my parents
I’m so sorry to hear that 😢please take care of your mental health and look into therapy. I was sexually abused when I was a child by different family members
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I'm also sexually abused when I was 6 years old
😢😢😢soooo sorry 😭😭
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1) Teach children that nudity is not lewd or naughty and it's a basic human right for everyone to see each other the way God created them. 2) Train children in martial arts once they turn 3 years old.
You’re opening them up to abuse 😡.
@@chaz4471 Rubbish.
@@chaz4471 What about some of these cultures and societies where everyone goes around naked or nearly naked and children are raised to fight and hunt by the time they are 3 - 5 years old?
Soon my pain will be gone forever tired of being a burden to my wife I was a burden to my parents ill dig a hole and crawl into it so no one will ever find me