I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND CHEATING ON THE PHONE WITH SOMEONE WE BOTH KNOW | EP 47
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
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We need a movie about this woman she's my hero!
She’s a smart, rational women, what a successful plan she had . Props to her
You’re right, but it’s also Haram
@@abaasabshir3337her husband cheating? Yes very much so haram!
@@MoroccanQueen364Her snooping on his phone in the first place. That's a big sin
@@keifer7813oh, you must be a man. So you are literally protecting the man by saying she shouldn’t have looked on his phone in the first place?? Bro u got some nerves. I do think it was KADAR that she woke up in the middle of the night catching her husband cheating on her.
@@keifer7813he cheating is the sin go cry about it
Now this a woman who stand her ground!!! This is a girl we need to learn how to deal with such things in this generation!!!
"Play chess not checkers" love it 😍
He kept it a secret for over 2 years. Don’t think men are stupid. They know what they doing
Keeping quiet for 6 MONTHS. I'd drop hints every 2 seconds gurl 😂
To this smart self-respecting lady: you did us proud ❤
Sis looks like a combination of Maya Jama and Halima Aden 💕 anyways love the podcast 💕
So proud of you girls allah huma barik. The growth is insaneee and In’sha’allah so much more to come! So excited for the future for you and keep this up Because it’s so entertaining 😂😂
Giiiirrlllll this is why girls need a true education, if she wasn't as smart and connected she would've lost everything .
She's gonna die alone what's the point of money if she's incapable of maintaining a family
@@jerryrodriguez3554 hahahaha your way of thinking is sooo funny and old fashioned. Bro i am sure she is gonna find another man easily because nowadays nobody is perfect and its all about destiny. Furthermore it was literally the man who was not able to maintain a family by cheating on her and lying for 2 years!!?. Obviously they talked about this topic before marriage and she told him that she’s not okay with a second wife but he still did it. We shouldn’t forget the fact that he was dating with this second woman for two years and i wonder if that woman never questioned why it was taking so long to marry😂.
@@jerryrodriguez3554better than a cheating man🫦
Let me know when the masterclass commences. Bloody hell. Masha'Allah.
She was ready from the beginning that is why she did not have kids with him. Must have had a feeling about him.
Taking notes in case it happens to me even tho I’m single as a nun
We need women like this to come up n speak we all need to have this emotional intelligence n will power 💪💪
I was waaaiiiting for this one 😂
Omg if there is a cheating clause in the prenup AND HE STILL CHEATED? He dumb
Damn how can you keep "acting" as a loving wife for 6 months when you know your husband is cheating?? I wouldn't hold it together for an hour...
Where there is a will there is a way
Right?! What happened? Her husband was lying!
OMG she’s a savage 😂
It’s not something to boast over. She played it well, but it’s still a failed marriage.
My husband (he’s Muslim but I am not)comes home to me after work but my friends husbands go to the strip bar until 1am!! It’s crazy. No wonder 60% divorces across the world. Even some Muslim husbands are doing “stuff”!
It's crazy how these activities are so normalized in their culture.
I love this sister.
Seen this on TikTok IM OBSESSED
6 months without saying anything? So if he wanted to be intimate she allowed it? I couldn’t
Ur right , what if he got aids from women outside
Well done, lesson learnt ❤❤
In my region many men cheat, when they are asked why they cheat? they say its permitted to have for wives!!!
My husband married a Saudi girl in his home country after he married me and he told me everything before he did. I wasn’t happy about it. She was upset cause he wouldn’t divorce me. Eventually he divorced her.
@@BQ900 and u stayed? i think she had the rigjt to be upset
Such a smart woman mashallah
The man who stole the women's life savings to marry behind her back will pay on the day of judgement. He will pay with his deeds and take her bad deeds and probably go to hell.
Don't get mad, ladies
Get money.
Why we love, why we cheat?
You guys should watch “Why women kill” it’s a series soooo goood!!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👏 similarl to this story
Salam sisters, thank you for your amazing work and videos❤️.
Btw, I don’t know about any of you but the sis from this Mario scenario I’m here to take a notice 🔖✍️
SUPERWOMAN INDEED!
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Mash Allah Kaltun looks like Angelina Jollie when she was young
She new he wasn’t the one. The prenup and infidelity clause were clues
You won’t know if that person is the one for you before getting married. You know the true colors of the person at least a year after getting married to them.
NEVER I mean NEVER ... put money between your relationships whether it's marriage, friendship or even close family.
It is better to be careful than sorry.
Whenever you are investing or saving ALWAYS put a clear agreement between you guys on how and when to spend it (paper kind of agreement). It can be usefulness for different situations one of them to keeping ur self from fraud and another can be if someone passes away that will end as an inheritance which might not be in your favour.
what a G
Firstttt❤️❤️❤️❤️ much love from Belgium my sisterssss
That was so sweet
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I want to be her best friend ❤️
My blood 🩸 ❤❤
I was waaaaaiting
7:02 what does this part mean?
I'm disgusted... 2 years???
They say never check your partners phone because if you go looking for something you’re gonna find it 😂
P.s…just because he is comfortable with you going through his phone, he may have another phone you have no clue about, stay woke ladies !🖤
loved this episode.
So she refused to give him kids which was the one thing he genuinely desired, and her reason was that she was not financially stable incase he left her?
So many 🚩🚩also she forced him to integrate a cheating clause and told him that she won’t trust him unless he signs it? She never loved that man, He should’ve divorced her long time ago. Hope he learned a lesson there. That man will make that money back and remarry.
Now that she finally got the house and presumably financially stable enough to have children, goodluck to her finding a new husband.
Cheaters always have excuses
your are a cheater, i can smell it
Being positive doesn’t always guarantee happy ending. If your partner isn’t ready to have kids , you can have a conversation and come to an agreement . Kids are a blessing but marriage isn’t all about having kids. They just got married so what’s the rush, you can enjoy each other’s company more before you start a family . Perhaps the husbands actions may give her the assurance she needs and start a family earlier than planned. Every woman dreams of having a loving and loyal husband and raising their own kids the right way while being a bougie mum. We all want that happy home, who goes into marriage planning to get divorced. If he truly loved and appreciated her, he would have understood and given her support. Cos income from both sides puts less burden on the man. All she did to protect herself was worth it because as usual men will stain your white.
Allahs plans over all things .
This Lady Have watched "Money Heist Movie" this is more than Story .😬
There is nothing Islamic about this story. There is no such thing as prenup in Islam. Her money is hers whether she is married or not and whilst in the marriage he is the provider. It is not her responsibility to provide for future children islamically it is the mans job, so her postponing to have children is wrong unless she clearly stated that before marriage. He has every right to marry an other woman who wpuld provide him kids but he should have gone about in the islamic way. This story just seems unislamic and westernised on both sides.
There is a prenup. The wife has a right to say in her contract if she agrees with the husband taking on another wife if he wants to or not. She stated, he could not and he broke the contract, end of.
It's most likely fake anyways
I don’t get it. Is this supposed to be an Islamic channel???
No its just a podcast about divorces and cheating
No its just a podcast
So no one is going to talk about how she came into the marriage stating she doesn't trust his loyalty in the marriage certificate, like why marry someone you don't trust to begin with? Then proceeds to dictates when they will have kids cause she's "financially not ready" in other words to get him further under her control!! No place for Qiwama in her dictionary, zero respect not even consideration for Islamic traditional role of a husband as provider and a wife as a home maker..ohhh noooo the world has to stop and continue turning at my demand and my pet "her then husband" has to agree or he is "toxic"
home girl is laughing now but will cry later..she has no business marrying a Muslim...she's better off with pure gaal who will agree with all feminist bullshit😂
Honestly it really depends. I always wanted to add the divorce can be done by the wife clause in my marriage certificate but I didn’t because I trusted him. Even though I did not have a nasty divorce because his family was on my side and promised my family he would not do any funny business, I regretted not putting it in and giving him so much trust. Never again
Don’t hate her because you can’t be her. She turned out to be right and he was a weasel. Stop projecting your own self hatred on her and the fact that she decided that her life was hers to live and determine what happens to it. Would it be better if she left it to him to decide when they’d have kids especially since he turned out not to be trustworthy? Pls come out from under the self loathing or at least stop spilling it without self awareness in public it’s embarrassing.
@uchayphilips2513 alxamdulillah I follow Allah's Sharia throughout my life, especially in marriage. This girl and ur arrogant self need to come out of the filthy feminism hole and accept the deen as a whole or be ashamed of coming on public platforms condoning blatant disregard of Islamic marriage principles. Go ahead and take some courses on Qiwama, husband, and wife roles in marriage, or even you don't have any business marrying a Muslim, find yourself a kafir (there is plenty in this world) and go dictate that relationship and you shall see how that will end
You laugh until it's you. You can't be stupid and naive nowadays. You have to be prepared otherwise if something happens and your not prepared everyone will be laughing at you
@starlight200816 No one said anything about being naive, ladies please use brain, However, if you didnt get yourself "financially prepared" Before you got married since you had the same time he had, there is no point of stopping you're lives and postponing having kids. This woman had a good relationship until she decided to wear the pants and ruined it herself. Be the woman and let the man be a man like the Shaira tells you.
I wonder when looking for second wife became cheating. Subhanallah
That’s cheating ahhh
When he is doing it for 2 years and saves his potential 2nd wife as 'bro' in their phone 😂😂😂
Shouldn’t he have discussed it with his wife???
I agree but if he waived his right to a second wife in the contract, then he was wrong.
Solution: Just never sign it. And if she persists, move on to another sister
She denies her husband a child and cries about him wanting a second wife no wonder why brothers are going overseas for wives
Cheaters always have excuses , im glad she denied her husband a child !! Her guts was right that he was a cheater
Okay she won in this world but took his rights and she’ll have to answer to Allah.
what rights? the rights to cheat?? u delulu
@rereraira4863 of course not, don’t be silly. I am talking about his finance.
@maimoonaahmed8614 If he was so concerned with his finances, then he shouldn't have cheated. This man is mad stupid to even think off cheating when the wife specifically mentioned an infidelity clause that he signed (which, mind you, is allowed in islam to put such conditions even in the nikkah)
You were receiving a decent amount of pay but didn’t want a child .. did she make such arrangements with her husband before marriage? Feels like this was all planned.. no woman who loves her husband can stand him cheating and pretend not to know for 6 month .. she never loved him to begin with
There's a fine line between love and hate. Women love more dearly than anyone else, but when that love is lost, it turns into an even more powerful hatred - "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned", as the saying goes
How many times did she sleep with him in those 6 month. The girl had some serious hatred for the man.
@@berkamp9832Exactly. That's the part that gave it away. It's all BS
May Allah SWT forgive this women. It is so sad as Muslim women we go to this level to disobey Allah
tf! how is that disobeying Allah? he's cheating on her!! or is that allowed (zina).
You must have watched some other video or sth.. because HOW, after hearing all the haram that the husband did to her, are you blaming the woman?😂
It's a shame these days that marriage revolves around assets etc so people have to go as far as getting all these measures in place or trying to take others assets and money during divorce
These days? For most of human history, people married for community building, financial gain, social gain, diplomatic strategy etc. Marrying for love is the new thing.
@@user-et2ng1qb2m yes marriage is for building, but together, perhaps I phrased it wrong, but today people often look far beyond marriage and look for how it may end rather than the actual marriage itself. Therefore everything is done with caution to ensure a swift robbery at the end of it
then dont cheat and you wont get divorced
@@rereraira4863 I've heard of guys simply doing everything a man should do and the woman is in the background just calculating her divorce, yk they say women calculate a divorce years before it happens, gold diggers!!!! Fix the system and you'll see divorce rates drop
First of all, she’s ain’t no smart, that’s an evil woman. Secondly, I pray that Allah bless that man with a woman who wants a family and love him. This woman put her career before her husband. I am sure she’s not practising Muslim cause ain’t no way I will do that to my husband.
I feel sorry for you
Nice to see someone sane. Some people don't understand proportional punishment. He was wrong for going against their contract but she took it WAY too far subhanallah
Literally the first person here just 27 seconds of posting 🥹
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