I’m so glad Filly finds the cheating situation funny now, it’s clear proof that he’s healed from that trauma, and proof that he’s an incredible comedian.
Ex got a personal male trainer they are friends for over 7 years. They both talk about relationship advice etc,.. I said i was not comfortable with their friendship and she gyming with a Male. Everyone was saying that i was insecure. But she now got STI Trichomoniasis it was not from me. Again everyone is still calling me mad and controlling. Wtf world are we living in ? The STI was enough to show that she was cheating. I rather alone than continue with this madness.
This is real. People who cheat do damage to those they cheat on. I was the most trusting dude but since being cheated on I have been suspicious and kept one foot out the door because I don't want to be fooled again. And I 100% realize that is negative energy that you need to let go.
I actually think the negative connotation attached to a prenup is that the person who asked for a prenup is thinking the marriage will fail but I understand why someone would ask for a prenup because almost 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Makes sense to have one cos it's like well as long as you're with me whatever mine is yours, but if not then it ain't. If we are together there's nothing to worry about
70 to 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women, so it should be mandatory for any wealthy man out there to put in place a prenup, since women abuse the law to take as much as they can from a man after a divorce. Never offer a contract that rewards a woman for breaking it.
These guys are so lovely. Respectful as they talk. Conversations that guys need to be having. I hope they find wonderful women that make them happy and feel loved for who they are.
I was in a relationship for 6 years, was about to pop the question only to find I was being cheated on. Totally blindsided, I was played like a fool. To anyone going through something similar, just know it gets better. It hurts but you will be okay.
In the prenup bit, I don’t think it should ever be an issue. A woman that truly loves you I don’t think would bat an eyelid bc her hope would be that she has you forever, someone who’s intentions aren’t 100% above water might feel a type of way about it and use the whole argument of lack of trust and bad way to start off
@@mucktown thing is, in life there's high risk high reward, getting into a marriage with no prenup is high risk low reward, you gain nothing from entering a marriage without a prenup, any man or woman can change as life progresses just because a woman/man may be amendment that she/he wants you for life and would never leave you doesn't mean those feelings wont change as years goes on. and me personally i don't want to hustle for 20+ years building my wealth to have it halved by a female, whether it happens or not, i don't really care id rather just not take the chance. each to their own though i aint judging
I live life with appreciation for what I have in my life, for myself. I never hold on to something close to my heart because at the end of the day, I can't take it with me, because there's more than what you believe to have. I'm secure in myself to know if my girl was to ever wrong me to the point of separation...I'd leave with my head high and my heart light because I know ima be ok with time. Like Drake once said "Her Loss" 🤷🏾♂️
@@delakayi6286 100% serious. Our divorce outcomes are so biased women literally fly here to get divorced. Google the term “divorce tourism” if you dare 😂 it is eye opening stuff
The thing is, Filly said himself that the situation was funny before explaining it (ofc he wasn’t 100%) serious but I don’t blame his friends for laughing. It’s one thing if friends initiate the joking of one’s trauma vs just laughing to lighten the mood. On top of that, I can bet money that Chunks and Harry are there for Filly off camera which is why Filly is fine with them laughing 😂
Everyone needs friends, your partner should be your friend, but not your sole friend. Friends are important to stay in touch with the population. Humans are innately social animals after all.
The prenup situation is simple. You should get it to protect your assets. People change everyday. Good or bad, it’s still change. Also, your views change as you get older. So in that case it’s in your best interest to make sure you’re protected. Same as the woman. Both came in with their own money and leave the same way.
Legal marriage is a business. unfortunately a lot of men only realize it when they get divorced. if you got more than a 50% chance of getting shot as soon as you step outside your door.. are you going to walk out without any protection and hope for the best and hope a positive mindset will protect you?
I love that friend ship it’s exactly how my friends and I talk Real raw but nothing taken in the wrong way. I got cheated on and all my mates cracked me a cold on patted me on the back and said “Damn Stevie wonder would’ve seen that one coming” 😂😂😂
Prenup-wise, do what works for you. My husband and I didn’t do one, it is not for us. But then again we grew and built each other up, not like you lot who will meet someone after you’ve attained success.
I think its a wild that a person would go in a relationship knowing they aren't gonna commit to it , like if people wanna sleep around you can do that without destroying others and but what filly walked into was awful cause its rough really knowing someone can really look you into your eyes and say nothing is up when in reality she was getting her back blown out people can be mad selfish if she didn't want to be with you anymore why didn't she just leave I think people over complicate things when it doesn't have to be that way, I said all to say this , Filly don't worry brody she was just not the one chin up and push forward a woman that truly cares about you will never be so selfish.
You know you got real friends whn they can laugh at you this much over a girl. They don’t enjoy it but this laughter will always remind you she’s for the streets
Prenup is very simple and basic. All you do is set what's and when it is yours, what and when it's theirs and in what conditions it is shared and you communicate throughout it. It is, considering 50% chance of divorce, a cheap and simpler way afterwards.
I really respect Chunkz for saying that if a marriage break up (in shaa Allaah it won’t happen to him) is his fault, he’ll happily give a share of his wealth as he’ll feel like he owes the woman. Kudos! I divorced the narcissist, rogue, vile person I was married to and due to his nature (which is why I had to divorce him), he gives me not a penny and gives for the children as little as he can get away with. Funnily enough, within literally a few months of the separation, he moved in with another woman and her two illegitimate children from two different dads. Which is weird because when I was much younger and we were married and I said I wanted to divorce him, he told me, “who’d want to marry you when you have two kids!” That’s the face of narcissistic abusers for you!
A man doesn’t you owe a single pound after a divorce and especially less so if you are the one asking for it. You may get a compensation in proportion to the money that he makes and how long you’ve been together (subject to agreement) according to Islam, but no substantial payment. The property and resources acquired by the man before and during the marriage are in his ownership and you are not entitled to any of it after a divorce unless he wants to give it.
Cheating in a past relationship is one of the worst things iv ever done but i was hurt multiple times by multiple women in the same way... Im happily married with 1 child and one on the way and this relationship i have given my soul too. It still eats at me i hurt a woman how those hurt me. Now i live with a simple rule, if i ever have even a tendancy to cheat... Ill just tell my partner and end it honestly first. Be better men.
After 5 relationship i caught her cheating the worst feeling ever and like what the fuck i am suppose to do now? She is blocked and pictures are deleted. The hardest thing is that i really loved her family and they were like my bonus parents.
these typa friendships between men where we just talk from our hearts are rare. yall are great
True, get better friends tho brother
to anyone who find in their group of male friends to talk from your heart is rare find new friends asap or drop the ones you cant be you around
“She’s just gargling wood” 💀
I didn't even hear it and I've just cackled out loud!
Ayo Gargling wood is crazy 🤣🤣🤣
People who cheat are the most sadistic, evil, vile, cruel, selfish people
..and those who enable them
@@Surveillance-Ysmmmmm true true shit people run in shit crowds
I cheat all the time bro
And I’m a nice person I still pay over 30k a month on charity work so yeah shut up
@Arsenal070899 oh what an argument, My God how shallow your mind is
@@besratg9207obv taking the piss isn’t he 🤣 I swear most of you people commenting on vids have disabilities or are bots
Big up Filly. Cheating is all about the cheaters inadequacy, don't let it affect future relationships by mis trusting a new partner
Filly ain’t a saint he has cheated on women
Easier said than done because so many people cheat.
@@xzavierlifts do you actually know that for a fact? he does look like he's cheated and used/abused women before
Dey play
I’m so glad Filly finds the cheating situation funny now, it’s clear proof that he’s healed from that trauma, and proof that he’s an incredible comedian.
he defo hasnt healed you can tell it bothers him still, tbh you dont just get over something like that especially if its your first love
@@dddd-uk4vnthat’s why it’s important to chose wisely
With the way he acts and with the things he looks for in women now, it shows he still hasn't learned anything.
@ilbody What a generalization from a nobody.
It's all cope
hearing about it is one thing but seeing your partner cheat on you is brazy. Hope my man is okay
fr
You can never unsee it never
"We won't laugh" "I walk in she's in dogs" "🤣🤣🤣" Icl that's sad but funny my fav UA-camrs icl
Ex got a personal male trainer they are friends for over 7 years. They both talk about relationship advice etc,..
I said i was not comfortable with their friendship and she gyming with a Male. Everyone was saying that i was insecure.
But she now got STI Trichomoniasis it was not from me. Again everyone is still calling me mad and controlling. Wtf world are we living in ?
The STI was enough to show that she was cheating.
I rather alone than continue with this madness.
Stay strong brotha
First love and respect yourself brother it's the most important
Everything else will just come ( the right women to )
Bro she was never for you. You’ll find someone so much more worth it
Bro is talking about getting cheated on but never talked about how he cheated on others
this society really enables women to do anything and get no shame for it.
I NEVER FOCUSED SO HARD AT A CONVERSATION. THIS IS BROTHERHOOD.
WHO TF CHEATS ON FILLY? THAT'S TREASON! STAY STRONG BROTHER!
any girl who wants more like 4 inches of wood lol
@@Kingcloudiiyou dick watch often pal?
@@Kingcloudiiyou aint funny
Any man can get cheated on. There’s always bigger, taller, richer, funnier
@@Kingcloudiidamn u know how big his wood is ur a fiyah yute 🔥
This is real. People who cheat do damage to those they cheat on. I was the most trusting dude but since being cheated on I have been suspicious and kept one foot out the door because I don't want to be fooled again. And I 100% realize that is negative energy that you need to let go.
I actually think the negative connotation attached to a prenup is that the person who asked for a prenup is thinking the marriage will fail but I understand why someone would ask for a prenup because almost 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Makes sense to have one cos it's like well as long as you're with me whatever mine is yours, but if not then it ain't. If we are together there's nothing to worry about
It is now 75% of marriages that was early 2000s stats. Keep with the times.
Anyone who sign a prenup before marriage is just marrying for money.
70 to 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women, so it should be mandatory for any wealthy man out there to put in place a prenup, since women abuse the law to take as much as they can from a man after a divorce. Never offer a contract that rewards a woman for breaking it.
Think Bill Burr said it best: If you were to go sky diving and was told there's a 50% chance your parachute won't open would you still do it?
I needed this I been going through the same shit the past couple days and it feels good to laugh about it thanks filly for being open.
Gwarrn chunks spitting logic. You can love a gyal and protect yourself at the same time
Filly 2024 - I’ve known my mum all my life 😂
These guys are so lovely. Respectful as they talk. Conversations that guys need to be having. I hope they find wonderful women that make them happy and feel loved for who they are.
I love seeing and hearing men having these type of conversations! Healthy. I love it
I like videos like that, just rare opinions and raw talk. I understood all 3 of you guys
Top commentary. Enjoyed the episode.
Love this podcast - feels like I am part of the friendship group. Massive respect.
Doesn’t matter who they are to you. A person who cheats will definitely do you dirty.
So much facts chunkz, make sure you get that prenup
“Me and Harry aren’t gonna laugh” proceeds to laugh literally immediately 🤣💔
I was in a relationship for 6 years, was about to pop the question only to find I was being cheated on. Totally blindsided, I was played like a fool. To anyone going through something similar, just know it gets better. It hurts but you will be okay.
that would break me if i caught them in the act. I would do unspeakable things
Chunks deserves the world💚
I like how unashamed & enthused he is to tell the story
Interesting convo boys
Cheaters are destroying futures
WE NEED THESE PHILLY VIDS BACK LIKE OLD TIMES WITH YA OLD BOYS
Chunkz is just going to stay single now forever....the fear 😂😅😂
In the prenup bit, I don’t think it should ever be an issue. A woman that truly loves you I don’t think would bat an eyelid bc her hope would be that she has you forever, someone who’s intentions aren’t 100% above water might feel a type of way about it and use the whole argument of lack of trust and bad way to start off
Accusing me of lack of trust is the real lack of trust here. Don't blame me for being cautious.
Goddamn men will never fucking understand how vulnerable women are in marriages
Ignore rational thinking because of "how you feel" is naive and low IQ
@@mucktown thing is, in life there's high risk high reward, getting into a marriage with no prenup is high risk low reward, you gain nothing from entering a marriage without a prenup, any man or woman can change as life progresses just because a woman/man may be amendment that she/he wants you for life and would never leave you doesn't mean those feelings wont change as years goes on. and me personally i don't want to hustle for 20+ years building my wealth to have it halved by a female, whether it happens or not, i don't really care id rather just not take the chance. each to their own though i aint judging
True
The best bits of the show……MEN talking real talk🙌🏿😎…
I love the chucks and filly show
Who tf is Chucks
@@milesjoseph9402 ur dumb if u don’t know what I mean by chucks like obviously I meant chucks
@@milesjoseph9402 chuckz*
🤣
@@milesjoseph9402
LMFAOOO 💀😭
chunkz: me and harry wont laugh
4 seconds later...
filly: i walked in and shes in dogs
chunkz and harry: starts dying 💀
In the end she lost he won. If she was loyal she woulda been real comfy rn 💰💰
I live life with appreciation for what I have in my life, for myself. I never hold on to something close to my heart because at the end of the day, I can't take it with me, because there's more than what you believe to have. I'm secure in myself to know if my girl was to ever wrong me to the point of separation...I'd leave with my head high and my heart light because I know ima be ok with time. Like Drake once said "Her Loss" 🤷🏾♂️
0:16 THIS is one of the best moments of youtube 😂😂😂😂
Big up you man
Prenups are not legally binding in the UK
Really you must be joking.
@@delakayi6286 100% serious. Our divorce outcomes are so biased women literally fly here to get divorced. Google the term “divorce tourism” if you dare 😂 it is eye opening stuff
The thing is, Filly said himself that the situation was funny before explaining it (ofc he wasn’t 100%) serious but I don’t blame his friends for laughing. It’s one thing if friends initiate the joking of one’s trauma vs just laughing to lighten the mood. On top of that, I can bet money that Chunks and Harry are there for Filly off camera which is why Filly is fine with them laughing 😂
Chunkz saying "We won't laugh" then proceeding to laugh his ass off killed me
Every hero has a villain story…
That game was fire 🔥
Everyone needs friends, your partner should be your friend, but not your sole friend. Friends are important to stay in touch with the population. Humans are innately social animals after all.
Actually healthy conversation. Lotta boys out there need to watch more stuff like this.
After harry said we wont laugh they crack up haha
The prenup situation is simple. You should get it to protect your assets. People change everyday. Good or bad, it’s still change. Also, your views change as you get older. So in that case it’s in your best interest to make sure you’re protected. Same as the woman. Both came in with their own money and leave the same way.
4:44 harry defending his corner💀💀💀
Aren't prenups not that enforceable in the UK anyway?
Everyone needs to do a prenup; what you came with, you go with, simple...
We can that "bestie" in Africa 🌍. Sorry filly. Love u ❤
Nah you can live O see him holding back tears 😢
‘I walked in and she’s in dogs’ has me DYING
this is the most sense Harry has ever spoken *claps*
Legal marriage is a business. unfortunately a lot of men only realize it when they get divorced.
if you got more than a 50% chance of getting shot as soon as you step outside your door.. are you going to walk out without any protection and hope for the best and hope a positive mindset will protect you?
Fr bro its dumb asf
best show cl
That's wild lol.
Good 👍 Info love Is the right way brother s ❤❤❤❤❤
1:22 "No, he caaaan" Filly meant that shit 😂😂😂
BEFORE EVEN 30 SECONDS PASS, IM LAUGHING OUT LOUD. Damn.
Poor Filly 😢
I came to hear filly talk about getting cheated on, he said one sentence and then got cut off 🙄
How do you not black out when you walk in on something like that? I'm terrified that i wouldn't have the necessary self control to not hurt someone. 😢
She’s just gargling would it’s true tho 😂😂😂😂💀
I love that friend ship it’s exactly how my friends and I talk
Real raw but nothing taken in the wrong way. I got cheated on and all my mates cracked me a cold on patted me on the back and said
“Damn Stevie wonder would’ve seen that one coming” 😂😂😂
These clips are much much better than watching the whole podcast, no offence. u cant make everyone happy at the same time, but with this you can.
Prenup-wise, do what works for you. My husband and I didn’t do one, it is not for us. But then again we grew and built each other up, not like you lot who will meet someone after you’ve attained success.
Harry spitting.
Philly I have to trust again. You're worth it babe. Love is worth it. PS chunks had his first job in 2009😂😂😂
Nahhh Brutha. Trust me, get the prenup specially if you bring way more. Trust me
The worst thing is that chunkz said "we won´t laugh at it brotha" like 5 seconds before they burst in laughter 💀💀💀💀💀
Chunkz : me and harry wont laugh
Filly : i walked in and shes in dogs..
chunkz and harry : starts laughing
i love this showw so much 🤣
I think its a wild that a person would go in a relationship knowing they aren't gonna commit to it , like if people wanna sleep around you can do that without destroying others and but what filly walked into was awful cause its rough really knowing someone can really look you into your eyes and say nothing is up when in reality she was getting her back blown out people can be mad selfish if she didn't want to be with you anymore why didn't she just leave I think people over complicate things when it doesn't have to be that way, I said all to say this , Filly don't worry brody she was just not the one chin up and push forward a woman that truly cares about you will never be so selfish.
You know you got real friends whn they can laugh at you this much over a girl. They don’t enjoy it but this laughter will always remind you she’s for the streets
A man said hes not tryna be messi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So true.
I walked in and she's in dogs 😂😂
js garglin wood 😂 madd
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger lol
Dogs is brazy una 😂
Whoever cheated on Filly is a monster, that man is one of a kind
Even daylight follows darkness.
Put it on paper, DAMNIT !!!
... some men never recover from these types of experiences
Prenup is very simple and basic. All you do is set what's and when it is yours, what and when it's theirs and in what conditions it is shared and you communicate throughout it. It is, considering 50% chance of divorce, a cheap and simpler way afterwards.
ah man Filly....feel bad, having to actually see it happening. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuckkkk
Accepting the whole wood is crazy
I really respect Chunkz for saying that if a marriage break up (in shaa Allaah it won’t happen to him) is his fault, he’ll happily give a share of his wealth as he’ll feel like he owes the woman. Kudos!
I divorced the narcissist, rogue, vile person I was married to and due to his nature (which is why I had to divorce him), he gives me not a penny and gives for the children as little as he can get away with.
Funnily enough, within literally a few months of the separation, he moved in with another woman and her two illegitimate children from two different dads.
Which is weird because when I was much younger and we were married and I said I wanted to divorce him, he told me, “who’d want to marry you when you have two kids!”
That’s the face of narcissistic abusers for you!
nah youre just clapped
respectfully he dont owe you shit
@@Kingcloudii What a nasty individual you are! Hopefully you have the same sort of life as the narcissist I divorced.
A man doesn’t you owe a single pound after a divorce and especially less so if you are the one asking for it. You may get a compensation in proportion to the money that he makes and how long you’ve been together (subject to agreement) according to Islam, but no substantial payment. The property and resources acquired by the man before and during the marriage are in his ownership and you are not entitled to any of it after a divorce unless he wants to give it.
What do you offer him? Any thought of equality?
Cheating in a past relationship is one of the worst things iv ever done but i was hurt multiple times by multiple women in the same way... Im happily married with 1 child and one on the way and this relationship i have given my soul too. It still eats at me i hurt a woman how those hurt me. Now i live with a simple rule, if i ever have even a tendancy to cheat... Ill just tell my partner and end it honestly first. Be better men.
After 5 relationship i caught her cheating the worst feeling ever and like what the fuck i am suppose to do now? She is blocked and pictures are deleted. The hardest thing is that i really loved her family and they were like my bonus parents.
it depends with a womans personality also, some just belong to the streets and will forever will be
When you're in a relationship you can't get new freinds opposite sex facts
I think and she’s in dogs is the quote of the year
Fillyyyy 😂. She is in dogssss . My man
Filly is not my physical type…but I absolutely adore Filly.
Call believe what he’s gonna say anymore
Many Men will never find out 😢😢😢
Harry not wanting a prenup is wild to me
"That was a dad joke" - but are you a dad 😂
Nahhhh to catch your girl cheating in that wayy is maddd!