Moms in Ministry: Why I Decided to Stay Home - Lisa Bevere

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
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  • @user-wk5cu4yx1t
    @user-wk5cu4yx1t Рік тому +66

    Amen!! We need moms at home with their kids. God called us to raise our children. The world is not there to raise our children!

  • @Heaveniswaitingforyou
    @Heaveniswaitingforyou Рік тому +4

    I have a 3 and 1 year old and it’s sooo hard some days. I’m so tired. I get very little help because of circumstances. But I praise God I am able to be at home with the kids. Money isn’t everything to me and a career isn’t what I want to chase after, but training disciples for Christ is definitely what I’m going for! I’m glad I heard this message as it’s what I needed to encourage me 🙏💕❤️

    • @s731s
      @s731s Місяць тому

      I feel you sister, even though I do have help at home with my mom, for my 4 and 2 year Olds but it actually became less help, and more of a burden to have someone else so entangled and involved at such a microscopic level of my kids upbringing. I cry about it almost daily to think of my gift of motherhood and my role as primary, being unintentionally taken from me. Although I am humbled because God allowed for us all to coexist in the same home again, and I trusted him while we moved in together. But if I had it my way, I would turn back time and go live in a shoe than have my husband and I coparenting our kids with my parents. I guess the moral here us, We should all pause and give thanks to God for where we're all, just like you said. Joining you in that prayer. You're doing a great job mama!

  • @beehills75
    @beehills75 5 місяців тому +1

    I love this!!! Now I want to write books 🔥

  • @missmurphy4292
    @missmurphy4292 Рік тому +1

    My testimony: My husband a few months ago brought up me staying home with our daughter. I worked part time, but my job took a lot out of me. Well when my husband brought up the idea I was a little skeptical. As we talked more about it, I thought how nice it would actually be (some for the wrong reasons). My husband would be gone a little more, but he would be making more money than what I was making part time. I believe Jesus planted that seed in his heart. At the time though I did not see that that’s what it was though. July 19th, 2023 I had a spiritual awakening that’s hard to explain. I had the fear of God imbedded in my heart tho. Well that was on a Wednesday. That following Sunday was my last day at work. And since then I’ve been home with my daughter. Hardly having any help besides when my mom comes to visit. Or my mother in law can watch her which isn’t often. I started reading my bible everyday when I have the chance. Stopped listening to rap music which was what I enjoyed for the most part. My daughter and I started going to church, and the last couple of weeks we started going to young adults group they do as well. My daughter is always welcome with me since I don’t have child care otherwise. And I believe Jesus first planted that seed in my husbands heart so I would be able to be home with my daughter and start doing what the Lord has called for me to do. At the time I didn’t realize that that’s what he was doing. But now I know God had all this planned out. Because if I was still at my job it wouldn’t be like this. I wouldn’t have the time not only with my daughter, but also wouldn’t have probably wanted to spend time with God either because of all the other stuff going on. I quit smoking weed on July 30th, as God was putting it in my heart to do so. And to tell you I really didn’t know what God was planning for our lives, I mean it like when my husband first brought up the idea for me to be a stay at home momma, I liked it because I thought “more time to smoke weed and be home and do whatever” a little context for that, I’ll be 30 soon and I’ve been smoking weed since I was 13. But now I don’t even have that desire, and that was God y’all. He did that. He had it all planned out and still does. And this has been the best time in my life so far and I love being home with my daughter and getting that time together. She is learning about Jesus and even lifts her hands in praise of him. It’s the sweetest thing. Just thought I’d share my story and tell you how amazing our father is!💜

  • @kins1332
    @kins1332 Рік тому +14

    This is so true. I wish i would have been obedient to God and stayed home to raise my kids. No do-over. I encourage women to stay home if God calls them to do so.

  • @zeusbear4683
    @zeusbear4683 Рік тому +26

    I loved staying home with my kids. The best mom for them is me, God gave them me to b their mom. I got a lot of flack for it from working moms. I don't know if they were jealous or just didn't respect that I didn't work. Don't regret my decision at all!

    • @HomeAgainTerrie
      @HomeAgainTerrie 6 місяців тому

      You “worked!” You did the hardest, most important job ever!!!❤

  • @fatouma1744
    @fatouma1744 11 місяців тому

    ❤ thank you for saying this. Although I don’t have kids and I’m in my 20s, I’m learning to be at peace in my season of singleness. As I obey God, I see that protection does cover me in ways that if I were to try to explain it to someone else in detail, it might not make sense but it makes perfect sense for me at this point in my life💛

  • @mrs.hatfield1451
    @mrs.hatfield1451 Рік тому

    It can be so hard to stay at home and be a mom, but what we're pouring in to our kids will bless more than just us or them, rheir future ans their children. When we put ourselves up for this purpose, the days are long, bur the years are so short! Bear with one another in love. Sometimes that menas yourself too!

  • @lanes2593
    @lanes2593 Рік тому +6

    This is so so encouraging😭 thank you!!❤️

  • @meeshelljay
    @meeshelljay 23 дні тому

    This is my season to focus on my children, my husband, and most importantly my personal relationship with God.

  • @mommyclaudine
    @mommyclaudine 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this reminder 🙏🏻

  • @mashotoseotlo1145
    @mashotoseotlo1145 11 місяців тому

    I really would love to be home with my kids as well. God please make it a reality❤

    • @jessicazimmerman9627
      @jessicazimmerman9627 9 місяців тому +1

      If you're married, have the conversation with your spouse. Hear him out, speak your thoughts, and pray together. God will lead you.

  • @myflourishingfam
    @myflourishingfam Рік тому +1

    Love this!! 😭 ❤️ so many mums need to hear this. I have 4 boys and just had a little girl. Staying home with them was the BEST decision I’ve ever made. My husband and I now pastor a church and honestly, guess where God grew and taught us the most!… at home with our children. It is amazing what you will learn about God and how to handle people just through parenting alone. It is still growing and stretching us. Not to mention that there’s nothing more important for your children than having a solid relationship with their parents that only an actively present parent can give.

  • @tiffanysalerno
    @tiffanysalerno Рік тому

    so beautiful! i look up to you so much! thank you for being faithful and obedient to the Lord! God bless
    you Lisa! You put your priorities in the right place and that fills my heart with so much joy and peace and fullness!

  • @2bethankful48
    @2bethankful48 Рік тому +14

    So good! ❤❤Obeying . I loved that I got to stay home with my kids even when my struggles were real my younger days! But God had his hands on me the whole entire time! And still today being a stay home mom now that my life has transformed into something God has made me in him. It is more amazing and beautiful than ever! I am now an example of who Christ is and by walking in faith not by sight. God is good! Love this ladies ! Powerful!🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏🥰🥰

  • @AllThingsWithAmber
    @AllThingsWithAmber Рік тому +3

    What a timely word for me
    😭😭😭 thank you

  • @rachelhasson4681
    @rachelhasson4681 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this message of encouragement ❤

  • @susanmcmullen7789
    @susanmcmullen7789 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful beautiful obedience protects hallelujah thank you Lisa you shine for him. Glorious Jesus ❤✝️❤️

  • @sense5316
    @sense5316 11 місяців тому

    I want to stay home and raise my children! I want to raise my own children!

  • @rosemariesmalling7689
    @rosemariesmalling7689 Рік тому +1

    Profound truth....great counsel: i was very guarded with my schedule...obedience protects....yes . Powerful truth. Thank you.

  • @etehjessforjesus7536
    @etehjessforjesus7536 11 місяців тому

    Wow... Thank you so much for this... I believe there's more I can learn from you ma

  • @TheDeaconess
    @TheDeaconess Рік тому +2

    Honey!!! You are speaking to me DIRECTLY!! It is not easy by far and it is extremely exhausting BUT I know its the right thing ❤

  • @lezhatc56
    @lezhatc56 Рік тому +10

    I was also able to stay home and raise my children as a single Mother.

    • @joceital9592
      @joceital9592 Рік тому +2

      What that nice😊, how did you manage? Am guessing the father was financially supportive otherwise it hard😢

    • @lezhatc56
      @lezhatc56 Рік тому +6

      @@joceital9592 I GAVE 10% OF MY INCOME TO GOD. WHATEVER I RECEIVED WHETHER $1.00 OR $100,000, AND GOD CAUSED TOUCHED THE HEART OF MEN TO GIVE INTO MY BOSOM JUST AS HIS WORD SAYS.
      GOD HAS TAKEN GOOD CARE OF US AND HE IS ABLE TO DO SO FOR WHOEVER ELSE PUTS THEIR TRUST IN HIM.

  • @SavedByGodsLoveNGrace
    @SavedByGodsLoveNGrace Рік тому +3

    I agree it’s best for the children to be raised by a stay at home mum, being a mum & keeping the home is more than a full time job, because it’s not a 9am-5pm 5 days a week, it’s a 24/7 job and it is the best job ❤

  • @fire4myChrist
    @fire4myChrist Рік тому +6

    I needed this today Amen

  • @Missteree21
    @Missteree21 Рік тому +1

    PERIOD!!! Excellent word and what she says is true. It happened to me when I stayed home with my kids. They will be better for it and so will you!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @danicaauge983
    @danicaauge983 11 місяців тому

    Amen to that beautiful lovely woman 🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏

  • @nicolefleischman146
    @nicolefleischman146 11 місяців тому

    Wow!! I needed to hear that.

  • @jermainamburayan580
    @jermainamburayan580 11 місяців тому

    Yeah lady, you are blessed to have an honest husband who can afford to have you as a stay at home mum n raise your children. Not every woman is blessed like this.

  • @mikepanchuk2456
    @mikepanchuk2456 11 місяців тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰Yes it does Beautiful Sister😉🔥🙌☝🏻🌞

  • @Sarahwilliams77733
    @Sarahwilliams77733 Рік тому

    Amen.

  • @CarolynAShiningLight33
    @CarolynAShiningLight33 Рік тому

    I’m hearing your counsel, Lisa; and it is my confirmation of what I have been getting in the spirit…to write…so thank you! God bless you & Havilah for all you both do! 💕

  • @judydyck4707
    @judydyck4707 Рік тому +1

    Ohhh....... so needed in this day in age .

  • @allaboutbrianna5713
    @allaboutbrianna5713 Рік тому

    Yesss preach!! I needed to hear this because this is my season to raise my twins! Although it’s hard and lonely at times but it’s not forever! Thank you God bless!

  • @champitadub
    @champitadub Рік тому

    🙌 yes

  • @Geekygirlsjournal
    @Geekygirlsjournal Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this Lisa - very relatable

  • @caceysedona6487
    @caceysedona6487 Рік тому

    Definitely needed this today. 3 children: 4 & under. Been SAHM 4 yrs already. I had a hard day!

  • @pareshepherd07
    @pareshepherd07 4 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @yolandabacon3662
    @yolandabacon3662 Рік тому +1

    That is a blessing! I can see the need for it more and more.

  • @shine3240
    @shine3240 9 місяців тому

    Wow! It's true

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls 11 місяців тому

    I love you lisa❤

  • @sharon6981
    @sharon6981 Рік тому

    I absolutely needed this message.

  • @mschris6765
    @mschris6765 Рік тому

    🙏🏾Amen

  • @cyh4031
    @cyh4031 4 місяці тому

    Amen!!!

  • @cindysandberg643
    @cindysandberg643 Рік тому

    SOOO GOOD. FULL OF WISDOM. ❤

  • @chalaynapinnix9700
    @chalaynapinnix9700 Рік тому

    Amen, this is where I am at right now 🙏 ❤❤

  • @debbieblue5856
    @debbieblue5856 11 місяців тому

    I was a stay at home mom, for awhile. It was wonderful. Until I had to get a divorce because of abuse.

  • @mubangamulenga3404
    @mubangamulenga3404 11 місяців тому

    🔥🔥🙌🙌😭❤️❤️❤️. LORD help me be a good mom who raises my children in the fear of the LORD one day 🙏🙏 in Jesus Name.

  • @sallylara1102
    @sallylara1102 Рік тому

    Amen 🙏🏽🤍

  • @genasseeceline
    @genasseeceline Рік тому +2

    I mean, most of this is true. But you can definitely go be with other females, if your spouse can watch the kids or whatever. You can shower alone if you wake up earlier or something. Some of the things said in this video are not accurate. Maybe for some! But You can make things happen if you want them to happen. And still be at home with your kids the majority of the time!

  • @carolsinspo734
    @carolsinspo734 Рік тому

    Amen ❤️💯🙏

  • @aaariguadalupe1
    @aaariguadalupe1 Рік тому

    Amen❤️‍🔥 I agree a thousand percent!

  • @EricahJones
    @EricahJones 3 місяці тому

    🙏🏽

  • @mlbrake92
    @mlbrake92 11 місяців тому

    I needed this. I have 4 kids 5 & under, and I homeschool. I'm utterly exhausted, overwhelmed, I complain a lot more than I want to, but I know this is where I am supposed to be and what I am supposed to do. How do you read the Bible? I have scripture on my walls, on my dish rags because I sometimes can't even read the Bible without being interrupted. Any advice?

  • @stephaniemixon6386
    @stephaniemixon6386 Рік тому

    Your very refreshing

  • @Hanrich146
    @Hanrich146 Рік тому

    So so good

  • @sereneanna4040
    @sereneanna4040 10 місяців тому

    Amen 🙌🏻👑✝️⚖🛡 Yes, i had paid the price: i was there for my kid when she needed me. And God had not short changed me 😊
    NB: I Managed to get a good job in the kindergarten and even feasted with the Govt officer 😊 And i not lackin, though i may not be rich.
    The reward is to see my kids goin well in life. 😊 Honestly, nothing is more imp than your kids. Thus, its imp for mom to nurther their kids as much as possible. Sad to say, many moms have to work 😢
    Then at least give them the benefit of knowin Jesus, The Only Hope For Mankind 🛐🛐🛐🔑🎎😇💕🕊🕊🕊🦅😊

  • @briannamelissa94
    @briannamelissa94 Рік тому

    wow Amen♥️

  • @sammy5519
    @sammy5519 Рік тому

    AMEN❤️🙏🏻

  • @ingerloviseeide6806
    @ingerloviseeide6806 Рік тому

    I was at home the most of the time, my son was at the kindergarten 2 days a week to meet other kids.

  • @favouradis
    @favouradis Рік тому

    ❤❤💚💚

  • @lfn086
    @lfn086 Рік тому

    Amen amen 🙏

  • @TshegoMosweu_Before_I_Do
    @TshegoMosweu_Before_I_Do 7 місяців тому

    Where can we get the rest of this video

  • @nidiacruz3851
    @nidiacruz3851 Рік тому

  • @sandyhardy3419
    @sandyhardy3419 11 місяців тому

    Stay at home mom do not check their brain at the door… Thank you for this message

  • @antonialovesyou4462
    @antonialovesyou4462 Рік тому

    It's always been a season for me to be a stay at home wife and mom to and for #trumpjr #godislove
    #trumpnews #trumpwedding2018 #yeshuaislord

  • @ketawilliams1790
    @ketawilliams1790 10 місяців тому

    True but every mama isn’t able to stay home

  • @ShayDorree
    @ShayDorree 10 місяців тому

    Why is she wearing crystal bracelet…

  • @Holisticfive
    @Holisticfive Рік тому

    I understand why you fought with your husband so much at the beginning you wanted to be the male in the relationship. You still have some healing to do

  • @Holisticfive
    @Holisticfive Рік тому

    Lady you have so much masculine energy. You can be scary at times. Be less you and be more God

  • @sarahlauser
    @sarahlauser Рік тому

    Amen!!!!

  • @mrss4225
    @mrss4225 Рік тому

    Amen