I'm 22 and I'm dealing with social anxiety since my childhood it only got worse with my teenage years. It has created hurdles for me in a lot of situations.
First thing I can not share my thoughts with anyone because everyone says you are not confident and I have fear that people will start pulling me. Amazing thing is Noone talks about root cause and solutions
Living with social anxiety is difficult. I have been learning to manage my anxiety since childhood. Sharing about it with someone trusted really helps but nobody actually talks about these things. Thank you so much for addressing this important issue.
Living with social anxiety, when you succesfully speak with a stranger it feels like a big accomplishment, but if you fail it feels like the world is ending
Yes this is really true ....you talk easily with strangers because you don't know that person identity mostly When you come to know about that person identity and then you start feeling something uncomfortable.
पहले मैं भी इस बीमारी से ग्रस्त था फिर मुझे एक दिन अहसास हुआ कि ये लोग और समाज सब दोगले है तब से अपनी मस्ती में मस्त रहता हूं भाड़ में जाए डर और दुनिया
I am also suffering from extreme level of social anxiety and phobia since my childhood, it's very hard to communicate with anyone and looks impossible to be socialize, life is going very harder day by day and very frustrating also, BUT I believe that it's only about our mindset and self-confidence and I believe that I can overcome it and I Will👍JAI hind🇮🇳jai bharat🇮🇳
Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
He is absolute right in my childhood i used to abstain giving speeches on annual day or independance day though i was brilliant students and i used to score highest marks in my class.The only thing goes in my mind is if i commit any error the people will laugh at me.i was scared of embarrassment.
Same . Feeling what everyone will mock if I say anything wrong . Because I don't make fun of ppl as an adult . So if I start saying rude things back to ppl who talk not very nicely with me ..it sometimes end up in a fight.
I am 16 and I have social anxiety. Before pandemic everything was okay,but now everything is going worse even I am not going to school and took online coaching. I was thinking that everything is okay but this video awaken me. Thanks Lallantop
@@vikrammatthews305 nhi I think everyone was okay before pandemic I used to attend parties,used to play in park near my house and used to like making new friends
@@khanhasan. haan Maine yeh suna hai ki pandemic ki wajah se anxiety issues ho gaye. Mujhe toh yeh bachpan se hai bullying ki wajah se aur mere father ko bhi anxiety aur insecurity issues hain. Woh Apni baat nahi keh paate samaaj mein aur dusro ke saamne jhukte rehte hain aur apne se kamzor logon ko ya family members ko dabate hain to feel superior.
@@vikrammatthews305Haan Maine is type ke cases sune the par mujhe yakeen nhi hota tha ke aisa bhi kuch hota hai but ab khud par guzar rahi to samajh aa gya
Bhai mai ek hi illaj batata hu mujhe bhi ye sab bahut hota tha phir maine hanumaan chalisha padhna chalu kiya ab sab kuch sahi sach maano bahut sudhqr hua hai
I am 39 years old having these issues since my childhood we never thought this could a serious problem & my father always told others that she is like this so let her be
@@anitapadhi4205 Aapko father ki wajah se hi hai ? Mujhe bullying ki wajah se bhi hai . Lekin Zyadatar genetic lagta hai kyuki mein bhi father ki tarah logon se interact karne se bachta hoon aur Apni baat aage nahi rakh pata . NO nahi bol pata . Dabne ki aadat hai because of lack of confidence.
मुझसे कोई बात करने आता है तो मेरा दिमाग काम नही करता कोई मुद्दा नही मिलता शब्द सारे भूल जाता हूं इस वजह से मेरा कोई दोस्त नही है में हमेशा घर मे ही रहता हूं किसी से भी नही मिलता
I still feel the same. As a MBA graduate I've given countless presentations, interviews, initiated conversation with strangers, did an internship in a call center where i had to call every minute, but still i get anxiety whenever someone calls me, i fear of meeting strangers. I really have to push hard even to make conversation with my friends. And after that it feel like I'm totally exhausted... 😖😖😖😖😖
Bro you have introverted personality and nothing wrong being an introvert. These extroverted dominant world can't understand us because they think being extrovert is normal and introvert is abnormal. But thats 100% false. Both personality type have their own advantage and disadvantage. You know most famous, intelligent and rich minds are introvert like bill gates, Elon Musk, Einstein and many more. Never force yourself to try to be extrovert, you can but you will never be happy doing that. Just do what you like to do and F**k the whole universe whatever they say.
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26 here and exactly same problem, it got worse in my teenage years and affected my studies even though I was one of the brightest students, I couldn't even get out of any room I was in if relatives came, it kept getting worse and I hesitated to get even a haircut, it ruined my entire life. worse combination - shyness+introvert+anxiety+overthinking+hypertension+low self confidence. worst ever.
@@sigmamale4106 you'd have to, HAVE TO get out of your comfort zone and interact, if can't just sit among them, I mean relatives etc, be part of their conversations, and go and attend marriages, even if you don't like it, I know it's hard and feel like impossible but TRY, keep trying. And it definitely helps.
I have the same problem and it's getting worst day by day...I can not speak infront of few peoples..My voice get shivering with fear during the conversation...
Multiple times i got rejection due to fear of interview at extreme level.i lost so many apportunities n time..my heart beat used to be so high due to this anxiety.no one understood my prblm in my family..it still happens to me but not that much..but it destroyed lots of years of mine.
@@JJ4887-j9o petril (chlonazepam) was prescribed to me by a hospital doctor . Make sure to not take it more than 15 days at first. Please ask a doctor about the dosage .
I was also suffering from this problem, but I got a solution that can help you little bit. 1. You should proud of yourself. 2. If you are in assembly, try to find a quality by whom you can proud of yourself and that quality(s) are not present in anyone who are present in assembly.
जब मैं अपनी बात किसी के सामने रखता हु तो घबरा जाता हु और मेरे शब्द बहुत स्पीड से निकलते है और सामने वाले के समझ मैं नहीं आता जिससे मुझे शर्मंदगी महसूस होती हैं और लोगो से दूरी बनाना मुझे पसंद है
I am an introvert , i avoid meeting people….i dont talk to people in gym, office, neighbourhood .yeah there are many cons to this situation but talking about the pros, people don’t interfere in your life, so it brings peaceful life. But i dont have social anxiety.
@@samarthyadav416 same .lekin ye anxiety school se hee shuru hoti hain bure logo ki wajah se 😡 ab muze pata chal gaya ki mein andar se itna sad aur kyo rota tha 😢
Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
The worst part is that people don't even consider it as a problem or disorder. That's the reason we feel reluctant to share it with our family or others.
Some tips- 1. Do something embarrassing in public on purpose. Then observe people's response/reaction. You'll learn a thing or two. 2. Go for a walk everyday without fail. Before starting, leave your phone at home. Observe people on the way. If you catch a glimpse of an acquaintance promptly greet them. Engage them in a small talk. Stay light hearted. 3. Don't try to control each and everything but do take initiatives like starting a conversation, being proactive in helping others. 4. Don't delay a piece of work till the last moment. 5. Try to engage with people or your acquaintances not just when a need arises but also to have a good time with them. Invite them to join you in some fun activity. Ask them what they are going to do at the weekend and if it sounds fun to you ask them if you could join them. 6. Go to places where you can find people who share same interests as you. 7. Be assertive for what you consider is right. 8. Take help from your family and friends. Like, in front of them do the things that you fear to do in public and ask what they were thinking while you were carrying out them. This will help you immensely. 9. Regularly check on not just your near and dear ones but also all your friends, relatives and acquaintances whom you care for even a little. Heck even set periodic reminders on your phone to give them a ring. 10. Keep engaging with people and don't let much time pass between interactions. Take some time out everyday to socialize. It will help you to become comfortable socially. If anxiety is going out of control seek professional help without any feeling of guilt or shame.
Thanks for the points(noted). However, regarding point number 2, I often tend to look straight into people eyes and hoping them to break the eye contact first, but while doing so the other person assumes (or perhaps I assume) that I am some kind of an arrogant person, or I am just swaggering. And then this creates self doubts in myself as to whether I should I just briefly look into people's eyes, or I should never even do this at the first place. Hence, I have started to avoid making eye contact lately or even when I do this, I instantly look away( when I do this , I think very poor of me and embarassed). For example, once upon a time , I was coming back from market, while walking down the street, I made an eye contact with an auto-rickshaw driver who was just standing beside his auto-rickshaw. I kept looking into his eye and never looked away and while doing so , i don't know but it infuriated me or it agitated me.. I thought of walking over to that guy and trying to fight or scold or verbally abuse him for not breaking the eye contact with me(but I guessed my thought process was deceiving me and I really didn't know what to do in those kind of situations).. So idk who really the first person should have been to break the eye contact.. the driver was determined as well to not break the eye contact and so was I .. so please suggest what to do in those situations especially in India. Thanks.
@@santosh680Just make sure to make eye contact when the most important part of the conversation comes up. You don't need to keep looking into eyes during the entire interaction. The only trick is you have to expose yourself socially regularly. You don't need to completely change your personality. Just learn enough social skills to survive and thrive in your personal and professional life. It may sound a bit odd but many people don't even know how to make a request and apology. Just by learning how to properly make a request you can get your job done without getting into confrontation.
I don't know whether this a social anxiety or not but during my teenage years i was overthinker about everything from how i look to what people think about me and what if they start labelling me as a bad child. I was very lean as child which kept me depressed all the time. Now I will get anxious only when you throw me in a situation where i don't know what to do or things which are completely new to me. I love talking to different strangers if i get good vibes from them but i still avoid my relatives.
This also with me , in my childhood I was bully in school by teacher , after that everytime self confidence down , today I got worse ( comparsion with my sister ) today I am not going outside my house due this cause I forget the enjoy my life
@@gunjanshekhawat5836 Stop thinking about everyone you will be fine. A lot like you same happens with me in the school too but as time pass sand will settle and you will come out as grown & mature person.
Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
देखिए एक तो थोड़े समय ध्यान कीजिए स्वयं के लिए।आप ये मन से हटा दीजिए दूसरा क्या सोचेगा,हमेशा अपनी सोच को बेहतर बनाए वो सोच को शक्तिशाली बनाए।जिससे आप शक्तिशाली बनेंगे।
I am 23 ..Childhood se esi upbringing nahi hui ki kuch bolana batana seekh pauu...log samjhte he mujhme attitude he but jab bolne ki baari aati me andar se bahut nervous ho jata hu... kya bolu kuch samjh nahi aata..mere pass karne ko baate hi nahi hoti...koi naya insan agar mujhse mile to kuch time baad wo ignore sa karne lagta he..kabhi kabhi to rona aa jata he..mujhe pata nahi me zindgi me kuch kar bhi pauga ya nahi..jab bhi bolne ka try karta hu..log ignore sa karte he..jabki me bahut kam bolta hu..log ye nahi samjhte mujhe problam he..bahut pareshan hu me ..samjh nahi aata ki jeeyu ya mar jaun😔😔
मेरी उम्र 30 साल है में अब पूरी तरह से ठीक हो चुका हूँ बल्कि अब तो में स्टेज पर भी अच्छे से स्पीच देता हूँ लोग बोलते है की अब तू पूरी तरह से बदल गया🥳🥳🥳
Jyada social hoke bhi kya ukhad Lange, normal rahiye, light hearted, dar sab apne andar hai, log sunne ko taiyar hai aap boliye to sahi. Aisa sochiye samne vale bhi apne jaise hai, fir kya dikkat hogi। Jab 90 percent logo ke sath yahi dikkat hai to aap bhi un baaki ten ke sath ho jaaiye Jis kisi se bhi Milo, aankh se aankh milakar baat karo, saamne vala apne leval pe aa jaayega, daro mat
@@aditiumare1932 sabko hoti hai hichkichaht, koi dikhata hai koi nahi, sabse aise Milo jaise pahle se jaante ho, purane dost rahe ho, aankh se aankh milakar to dekho, daro mat
I am working in a public sector bank.. and facing same problem.. even i have more knowledge and skill than my seniors but due to this disease i am scared to speak in public and also very scared to take promotion in my sector.. this disease sucks my life😥😥
I'm 22 and I'm dealing with social anxiety since my childhood it only got worse with my teenage years. It has created hurdles for me in a lot of situations.
Same, and it keeps getting worse, leaves you with depressed feelings and hopelessness at last
Aur talent ko bhi khtm kr deti
So did you visited same kind of expert's..??
@@sigma_male_rule007 i have thousand of friends
@@sigma_male_rule007 yes but i do exercise yoga daily 2 hour so its good
This is one of the less talked abt topics and a lot of ppl suffer from this. Kudos to these ppl for bringing this up
It took 17 years to understand root cause of my anxiety . Thanks for sharing
What was that cause ?
I am also anxiety patient from 20 years but started medicine from six months...please highlight your cause and medical treatment and effects
First thing I can not share my thoughts with anyone because everyone says you are not confident and I have fear that people will start pulling me. Amazing thing is Noone talks about root cause and solutions
@@prashantpatankar123 so what is the root cause that u discovered
@@999repliesfrom4 I had social disorder anxiety
बिल्कुल यहीं समस्या मेरे साथ है
Social anxiety
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Mujhe apse batt karne hai
Mutthi marna chhod sab thik ho jayega, 😆😆
Lo@@bhushanarora3114
Living with social anxiety is difficult. I have been learning to manage my anxiety since childhood. Sharing about it with someone trusted really helps but nobody actually talks about these things. Thank you so much for addressing this important issue.
Try to talk to someone and open up yourself
Yes, i also have it and many people laugh as well when we get anxious around them.
Iska ilaj hai kya koi??
Do u think social anxiety can come from bullying ? Or is it mostly genetic related ?
Right
Living with social anxiety, when you succesfully speak with a stranger it feels like a big accomplishment, but if you fail it feels like the world is ending
😌
Yes 😞😞😞😞
Same here
Yes this is really true ....you talk easily with strangers because you don't know that person identity mostly
When you come to know about that person identity and then you start feeling something uncomfortable.
Yes true
पहले मैं भी इस बीमारी से ग्रस्त था
फिर मुझे एक दिन अहसास हुआ कि ये लोग और समाज सब दोगले है
तब से अपनी मस्ती में मस्त रहता हूं
भाड़ में जाए डर और दुनिया
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me logo se milne se darti hu
Good Job bhai.
Good job 👌 bhai kya dialogue marra hai
@@roshansahu2424 ek bar mere se bat karlo fir log tumse darege bat karne me 😊
I am also suffering from extreme level of social anxiety and phobia since my childhood, it's very hard to communicate with anyone and looks impossible to be socialize, life is going very harder day by day and very frustrating also, BUT I believe that it's only about our mindset and self-confidence and I believe that I can overcome it and I Will👍JAI hind🇮🇳jai bharat🇮🇳
I'm suffering with social anxiety frm last 3 years... Thnk uh so much
Is bimari se meri jindagi nark Ban gi he thenks sir
Sahi he
Ya Same happens with me
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Ak bar daru pe k dekho. Kuch din pio sab khatm
Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
My favourite segment sehat on lallantop
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Thank you very much God Bless you
Social anxiety per apne bohot accha video banaya,mujhe toh Pata hi nahi tha ki es problem ko kehte kya hai.Its really very helpful 👍👍
I'm dealing with this. I'm having social anxiety since childhood.
Me too
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@@mohammadwaris219 same for u
@@abhishektayal5637 Aapki age kya hogi? Aur kya aapne isko kuch karne ke barey mein socha hai?
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I am also suffering from social anxiety disorder since childhood,😭😭😭
Same
Same
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Meri dil ki dhadkan tej ho jati hai sabke saamne me baat krne presentation dene me ..
Thanks you so much for making video on this topic
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He is absolute right in my childhood i used to abstain giving speeches on annual day or independance day though i was brilliant students and i used to score highest marks in my class.The only thing goes in my mind is if i commit any error the people will laugh at me.i was scared of embarrassment.
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Same here
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Same . Feeling what everyone will mock if I say anything wrong . Because I don't make fun of ppl as an adult . So if I start saying rude things back to ppl who talk not very nicely with me ..it sometimes end up in a fight.
Same bro
I am 16 and I have social anxiety. Before pandemic everything was okay,but now everything is going worse even I am not going to school and took online coaching. I was thinking that everything is okay but this video awaken me. Thanks Lallantop
Aapko bhi logon ne control kiya ya Daraya tha kya bachpan mein? Ya genetics ki wahah se hai?
@@vikrammatthews305 nhi I think everyone was okay before pandemic I used to attend parties,used to play in park near my house and used to like making new friends
@@khanhasan. haan Maine yeh suna hai ki pandemic ki wajah se anxiety issues ho gaye. Mujhe toh yeh bachpan se hai bullying ki wajah se aur mere father ko bhi anxiety aur insecurity issues hain. Woh Apni baat nahi keh paate samaaj mein aur dusro ke saamne jhukte rehte hain aur apne se kamzor logon ko ya family members ko dabate hain to feel superior.
@@vikrammatthews305Haan Maine is type ke cases sune the par mujhe yakeen nhi hota tha ke aisa bhi kuch hota hai but ab khud par guzar rahi to samajh aa gya
@@vikrammatthews305 aapke anxiety issues kam hue ya nhi?
Thank you mam, Video dekhne se social anxiety bimari se ladne mein madat mili hai..🙏
I am working in PSB where I have to deal with many people. Facing same problem . thanks for ur video 🙏
I am also a banker.. and facing same problem
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Hanuman ji ki puja kro aista aista thik ho Jayega....mera bi hua ha
@@bepositive5187 bhai aap strong bano
Sbse aasan illaj hai ki jisse baat krne ja rhe hai usme buraiya nikale aur defensive mode me baat kre
Thanks for the video.. great job team Lallantop..
Thanks for the knowledge
ये डर सिर्फ मेडिटेशन से ठीक होता है । क्यूंकि इससे आत्मविश्वास बढ़ता है और फिर आप फिर किसी की भी वाट लगा सकते हो!
Saahi baat..
Shi bat h , mai bhi manta hu
Agar dimag Santa rahega to ap kuch bhi kr sakta h
यह मेडिसिन कहां मिलेगी भाई
It's some % infective but not 100%
@@SaurabhYadav-eo7nv mind के अंदर
Bhai mai ek hi illaj batata hu mujhe bhi ye sab bahut hota tha phir maine hanumaan chalisha padhna chalu kiya ab sab kuch sahi sach maano bahut sudhqr hua hai
❤
Thanks for sharing!!
I am 39 years old having these issues since my childhood we never thought this could a serious problem & my father always told others that she is like this so let her be
Same
Maybe your father is like this too. I got it from My father .
@@vikrammatthews305 yes
@@anitapadhi4205 Aapko father ki wajah se hi hai ? Mujhe bullying ki wajah se bhi hai . Lekin Zyadatar genetic lagta hai kyuki mein bhi father ki tarah logon se interact karne se bachta hoon aur Apni baat aage nahi rakh pata . NO nahi bol pata . Dabne ki aadat hai because of lack of confidence.
मुझसे कोई बात करने आता है तो मेरा दिमाग काम नही करता कोई मुद्दा नही मिलता शब्द सारे भूल जाता हूं इस वजह से मेरा कोई दोस्त नही है में हमेशा घर मे ही रहता हूं किसी से भी नही मिलता
😁same ५० percent
Apna number do bhai .mujhe pata hain tum nhi doge .ham dono milker apna dukh Kam kar lete
Ha par ap dhire dhire kise se bat kare fir dhire dhire thik ho jayega
Same problem bahi
😢😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you ma'am
I still feel the same. As a MBA graduate I've given countless presentations, interviews, initiated conversation with strangers, did an internship in a call center where i had to call every minute, but still i get anxiety whenever someone calls me, i fear of meeting strangers. I really have to push hard even to make conversation with my friends. And after that it feel like I'm totally exhausted... 😖😖😖😖😖
Oh bhai
Mee to bhaai.. im suffering this situation since my childhood
Omg same brother...fighting!! :'(
Bro you have introverted personality and nothing wrong being an introvert. These extroverted dominant world can't understand us because they think being extrovert is normal and introvert is abnormal. But thats 100% false. Both personality type have their own advantage and disadvantage. You know most famous, intelligent and rich minds are introvert like bill gates, Elon Musk, Einstein and many more.
Never force yourself to try to be extrovert, you can but you will never be happy doing that. Just do what you like to do and F**k the whole universe whatever they say.
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Lallantop ke is program sehat ko dekhne k baad lgta hai mai duniya ka sbse bimaar aadmi hu. Halanki meri sehat toh itni hai ki acche khaase aadmi ko patak du magar is sehat ko dekh kr lagta hai sir patak lu.
😂😂😂
Exercise kare
Pranayam meditation kare
Prayers Karen
Books padhe
Descipline rakhe
We all can overcome it
Government jobs walo ko kabi ye bimari touch nahi kar sakti guaranteed
Yes really great advice 👍
26 here and exactly same problem, it got worse in my teenage years and affected my studies even though I was one of the brightest students, I couldn't even get out of any room I was in if relatives came, it kept getting worse and I hesitated to get even a haircut, it ruined my entire life. worse combination - shyness+introvert+anxiety+overthinking+hypertension+low self confidence. worst ever.
Try to talk to someone maybe on social media
@@samyakjain1156 social media made it worst tbh, it's also toxic, I now avoid it completely.
IF YOU GET SOLUTION OF IT PLS SHARE
DESPERATELY NEED IT 🙃
@@sigmamale4106 you'd have to, HAVE TO get out of your comfort zone and interact, if can't just sit among them, I mean relatives etc, be part of their conversations, and go and attend marriages, even if you don't like it, I know it's hard and feel like impossible but TRY, keep trying. And it definitely helps.
I have the same problem and it's getting worst day by day...I can not speak infront of few peoples..My voice get shivering with fear during the conversation...
Multiple times i got rejection due to fear of interview at extreme level.i lost so many apportunities n time..my heart beat used to be so high due to this anxiety.no one understood my prblm in my family..it still happens to me but not that much..but it destroyed lots of years of mine.
I feel like the society isn't even for me /us. Constant fear of rejection and it's like everyone will judge us so we avoid people.
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@@Rock22357 thanku ,i will search for it..
@@JJ4887-j9o petril (chlonazepam) was prescribed to me by a hospital doctor . Make sure to not take it more than 15 days at first. Please ask a doctor about the dosage .
@@monurajput5608 thanku for precious information.did you get any benifits after taking it?
Thank you so much
I also have the same social anxiety disorder since childhood.
Thank you 💕
I was also suffering from this problem, but I got a solution that can help you little bit.
1. You should proud of yourself.
2. If you are in assembly, try to find a quality by whom you can proud of yourself and that quality(s) are not present in anyone who are present in assembly.
I think one more point is if we are okay with both aspects i.e best and worst in these situations within our mind, then it also helps !
Muje bhi yah problem hai
Kisi samne bol nai pata
Jo baat hai man me hi rah jati hai....
Thanks a lot for this Video 🙏🏻🙏🏻
❤❤
Im faceing same situation n trying to fight with this social anxiety disorder n its really hard for me
Mujhe bhi ye prblm hai isliye confidence bhi kam rheta hai
जब मैं अपनी बात किसी के सामने रखता हु तो घबरा जाता हु और मेरे शब्द बहुत स्पीड से निकलते है और सामने वाले के समझ मैं नहीं आता जिससे मुझे शर्मंदगी महसूस होती हैं और लोगो से दूरी बनाना मुझे पसंद है
Tum slow baat karne ki practice Karo
Same problem bhai.😢😢😢
Zindagi narak lagti hh😢
same problem 😅
@@anju551 what is the solution of this
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Nice topic. I also feel the same way.
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I can feel this. Once i had to say few lines in class 11th in front of teacher and i was shivering badly..
शरीर में ताकत होगी ना कोई anxiety नही होगी ✌️💪
i have also social anxiety. feeling discomfort while speaking with my father and seniors
I am an introvert , i avoid meeting people….i dont talk to people in gym, office, neighbourhood .yeah there are many cons to this situation but talking about the pros, people don’t interfere in your life, so it brings peaceful life. But i dont have social anxiety.
Bahi mein bhi intovert hu per mein koshish ker rha hu k sab ke samne bolu
Great topic 👍
Thank u ❤️😘
Thanks 🎉🎉 batane k liy
Same problem hai aaj tak kisi ladki se baat nahi kar paya
Bhut dar sa lagta hai
Aapki ki age kitni hai
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😂kya hota he tumhe, matlab kaisa lagta he??
Plz bhaii mazak n lo kisi ka
Haso nahi
Jinko ho jata h vahi jante h
Ye problem to muje bhi h
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Lallantop dekh k pta chla ye b bimaari h ye, mujhe bs ye apna weakness lgta th😔 that's why I am avoiding to be in that situation
mental health ko log seriously nhi lete... kyuki unhe awareness hi nhi hoti.
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Ham v yahi samajhte the ke shayad ye lachchhan insano ke Ander paidaishi haota hai.
@@shadabalam6626 padaishi nahi hota. Kai baat bullying ki wajah se bhi log shy aur less confident ho jaate hai.
इस तरह की बीमारी 25 से 32 की उम्र में अधिकतर होती है, अगर व्यक्ति ईमानदारी से पढ़ा लिखा हो।😊 और सरकारी नौकरी न मिली हो...!☺️
Me 20 k hu
Me 13 ki hu mujhe bhi yhi he
Bachpan se hoti brother
Ma 19 saal ka hu
@@samarthyadav416 same .lekin ye anxiety school se hee shuru hoti hain bure logo ki wajah se 😡 ab muze pata chal gaya ki mein andar se itna sad aur kyo rota tha 😢
Same case happening with me😟
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Another Excellent video of Sarwar Ma'am.
Thank you so much Lallantop
I am suffering too with tha same problem 😢😢
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Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
@@aniketsharma5151Bhai sach me😢
The worst part is that people don't even consider it as a problem or disorder. That's the reason we feel reluctant to share it with our family or others.
Bilkul sahi bola
Some tips-
1. Do something embarrassing in public on purpose. Then observe people's response/reaction. You'll learn a thing or two.
2. Go for a walk everyday without fail. Before starting, leave your phone at home. Observe people on the way. If you catch a glimpse of an acquaintance promptly greet them. Engage them in a small talk. Stay light hearted.
3. Don't try to control each and everything but do take initiatives like starting a conversation, being proactive in helping others.
4. Don't delay a piece of work till the last moment.
5. Try to engage with people or your acquaintances not just when a need arises but also to have a good time with them. Invite them to join you in some fun activity. Ask them what they are going to do at the weekend and if it sounds fun to you ask them if you could join them.
6. Go to places where you can find people who share same interests as you.
7. Be assertive for what you consider is right.
8. Take help from your family and friends. Like, in front of them do the things that you fear to do in public and ask what they were thinking while you were carrying out them. This will help you immensely.
9. Regularly check on not just your near and dear ones but also all your friends, relatives and acquaintances whom you care for even a little. Heck even set periodic reminders on your phone to give them a ring.
10. Keep engaging with people and don't let much time pass between interactions. Take some time out everyday to socialize. It will help you to become comfortable socially.
If anxiety is going out of control seek professional help without any feeling of guilt or shame.
Thanks for the points(noted). However, regarding point number 2, I often tend to look straight into people eyes and hoping them to break the eye contact first, but while doing so the other person assumes (or perhaps I assume) that I am some kind of an arrogant person, or I am just swaggering. And then this creates self doubts in myself as to whether I should I just briefly look into people's eyes, or I should never even do this at the first place. Hence, I have started to avoid making eye contact lately or even when I do this, I instantly look away( when I do this , I think very poor of me and embarassed). For example, once upon a time , I was coming back from market, while walking down the street, I made an eye contact with an auto-rickshaw driver who was just standing beside his auto-rickshaw. I kept looking into his eye and never looked away and while doing so , i don't know but it infuriated me or it agitated me.. I thought of walking over to that guy and trying to fight or scold or verbally abuse him for not breaking the eye contact with me(but I guessed my thought process was deceiving me and I really didn't know what to do in those kind of situations).. So idk who really the first person should have been to break the eye contact.. the driver was determined as well to not break the eye contact and so was I .. so please suggest what to do in those situations especially in India. Thanks.
Thanks a lot bro for these advices❤I'll surely apply them in my life🙏🙏
@@santosh680Just make sure to make eye contact when the most important part of the conversation comes up. You don't need to keep looking into eyes during the entire interaction. The only trick is you have to expose yourself socially regularly. You don't need to completely change your personality. Just learn enough social skills to survive and thrive in your personal and professional life. It may sound a bit odd but many people don't even know how to make a request and apology. Just by learning how to properly make a request you can get your job done without getting into confrontation.
@@varunsrivastava858 All the best. 👍
Thank you so much sir
I don't know whether this a social anxiety or not but during my teenage years i was overthinker about everything from how i look to what people think about me and what if they start labelling me as a bad child. I was very lean as child which kept me depressed all the time. Now I will get anxious only when you throw me in a situation where i don't know what to do or things which are completely new to me. I love talking to different strangers if i get good vibes from them but i still avoid my relatives.
This also with me , in my childhood I was bully in school by teacher , after that everytime self confidence down , today I got worse ( comparsion with my sister ) today I am not going outside my house due this cause I forget the enjoy my life
@@gunjanshekhawat5836 Stop thinking about everyone you will be fine. A lot like you same happens with me in the school too but as time pass sand will settle and you will come out as grown & mature person.
@@MoinKhan-uf4pg now what you doing
@@godcamps I don't get what you are asking?
@@MoinKhan-uf4pg now what you doing in life mean which job how your life going
Mujhe bhi yahi problem hai..mam
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Correct ✔
I am Suffering the Same!
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Bhai kisi aisa admi ke pass jao jo black magic thik krta ho.....mujhe bi thi ye problem fir waise hi thik hui thi....pr dhyaan rkhna kuch aise log sirf paiso lut lete ha aur thik nhi krte.
Mein 16 saal ka hu aur Bata nahi jab school change kar tha hu to dar lagta hai aur dil ki dhadkan bar jati hai.
The moment I keep my feet outside of my home. I got anxious.
Same
Same😱😱
Me too 😞😞.
देखिए एक तो थोड़े समय ध्यान कीजिए स्वयं के लिए।आप ये मन से हटा दीजिए दूसरा क्या सोचेगा,हमेशा अपनी सोच को बेहतर बनाए वो सोच को शक्तिशाली बनाए।जिससे आप शक्तिशाली बनेंगे।
Ye vedio mere liye helpful hain....Thank u so much
Aapko bhi social anxiety he
I am 23 ..Childhood se esi upbringing nahi hui ki kuch bolana batana seekh pauu...log samjhte he mujhme attitude he but jab bolne ki baari aati me andar se bahut nervous ho jata hu... kya bolu kuch samjh nahi aata..mere pass karne ko baate hi nahi hoti...koi naya insan agar mujhse mile to kuch time baad wo ignore sa karne lagta he..kabhi kabhi to rona aa jata he..mujhe pata nahi me zindgi me kuch kar bhi pauga ya nahi..jab bhi bolne ka try karta hu..log ignore sa karte he..jabki me bahut kam bolta hu..log ye nahi samjhte mujhe problam he..bahut pareshan hu me ..samjh nahi aata ki jeeyu ya mar jaun😔😔
Same problem
I'm also dealing with social anxiety problem
I am going through the same problem.
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Jisko yeh problem he woh 15 minutes anulom vilom krna shuru kro morning me empty stomach 1 week me relief hojayega
मेरी उम्र 30 साल है
में अब पूरी तरह से ठीक हो चुका हूँ
बल्कि अब तो में स्टेज पर भी अच्छे से स्पीच देता हूँ
लोग बोलते है की अब तू पूरी तरह से बदल गया🥳🥳🥳
Bhai kese
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@@ChemistryinHindibyuday23 😂tumko kya problem he
@@Officerinmaking jhut bol raha hai ye
Thanks 👍😊 from bihar
Ye problem same mere sath bhi hai
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आपको इस वीडियो के लिए धन्यवाद।
आप भविस्य मे ऐसी ही वीडियोस और बनाते रहे।
Good mujhe bhi ye bimari hai
Jyada social hoke bhi kya ukhad Lange, normal rahiye, light hearted, dar sab apne andar hai, log sunne ko taiyar hai aap boliye to sahi.
Aisa sochiye samne vale bhi apne jaise hai, fir kya dikkat hogi।
Jab 90 percent logo ke sath yahi dikkat hai to aap bhi un baaki ten ke sath ho jaaiye
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Practically drr jata hu yr
@@prakashjha3a632 khud pe yakin rakho yr ki tum achha bologe jaisa bhi bologe
Pr bat krne m hitcahat hoti h , kai baar kam bigne pr log majaak udate h ki tum yese hi ho
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Bilkul aise hi hota hai bat karte hue saans lene mae pareshani hoti hai dil ki dhadkan tej ho jati hai aur gala sukhne lagta hai
मुझे अकेले रहने की बीमारी है। पता नहीं क्यों मैं ज्यादा अकेले खुश रहता हू और शायद दुखी भी। समझ से परे है क्या साइको है।
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Duniya madhrchood h akele hi rho
Mujhe bhi akele rehne ki adat hai😔😔
muje bhi akela rehna passand he.gher s bhar jana muje accha nhi lagta
Tuje girlfriend ki jaroort h 😅
Wow amazing knowledgeable video
I am working in a public sector bank.. and facing same problem.. even i have more knowledge and skill than my seniors but due to this disease i am scared to speak in public and also very scared to take promotion in my sector.. this disease sucks my life😥😥
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Thodi si pi ke jaya karo office. Fir dekho kamaal.
@@theankurgautam ye trick to achhi hai..main try bhi kar chuka hu kayi baar..pr ye koi permanent solution nhi hai bhai
@@bepositive5187 dheere dheere thik ho jayega
@@sandhu6098ab na hoga
Yahi problems mere sath bhi hai
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बहुत ही अच्छी बात बताई है आपने 👍👍
Mera bhi same problem hai.
पहले मुझे ये बीमारी थी....बहुत ही भयंकर वाली....!! सब मजाक बनाते थे
फिर मैंने वाट लगानी सीखी...☺️☺️
अब सबको बैचैनी रहती है , सिवाय मेरे...
😂😂
Nice
😀😀😀😀😀👍💪👍👍
फोड़ देना है सामने वाले को अपनी बाते से
You are in involve in Siddhu moosa wala murder case ok bruda
Kese bhai, kuch hamko bi batao
Apane jaisa batya bilkul Aisa hi hota hai maim
I am facing this problem
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I also feel the same
Mere sath bachpan se ye problem hai aur avi tak aisa hi chal rha h, aate hue v kisi k samne kuch bol ni pati
Sister main bhi bohot pareshan hu mera toh kahi jaana ka mn hee nhi krta iss anxiety ki vajah se
@@vaibhavsingh-be9ho mera v yahi hal h
@@Neha2045-k7f aap psychiatrist pr dikhao
@@vaibhavsingh-be9ho Kya dukh hai sab batao
@@learnmore2286 bhai anxiety se pareshan hu aap kuch btao
I am suffering this problem in childhood .so I am fine
🙂Mujhe mostly un logo se hesitation hoti hai... Ya avoid krta hu... Jo mujhe hurt kr skte hai... Mentally ....
Mujhe bhi😢
इंसान का हालात उसपे depend करता है की वो मजबूत बनेगा या कमजोर😢
यही मेरे साथ भी हुआ था।
मुझे अपनी एक अच्छी जॉब छोड़नी पडी 😢😥😥 6 साल ठीक था बहोत ही अचीवमेंट किया fhir बाद में ऐसा हुआ।😣😣
Hi
फिर क्या हुआ
अब कैसे हो भाई
Thankyou