Travel Delays: Unexpected Changes | Driving to Missouri from Arizona as my life comes to a halt.
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My mom passed b4 I started van life and she was so proud of me I brought her her ashes so I put a little in each state she's always with me.😊
Oh Chantell, no one can tell you when you will start to feel better. This is a process you will go through on your own terms and your own time. I can tell you my dad passed away 10 years ago and even though its gotten better, I still have moments of deep sadness. The U.P. will be a trip that you can tribute your dad. You will cherish it forever. I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending you hugs and strength.
I’ll never understand the selfishness that occurs when a loved one passes. I’m so sorry for your loss and sorry you had to/are having to deal with the “little things” that are the biggest deal, especially when there are “issues” amongst the remaining loved ones. ❤
Love n healing to u
Oh dear, I'm so sorry for your sadness. I've been through the pain. Please. Please. Don't make yourself plan beyond each day. It's not necessary 😢. We will watch again whenever you are ready.
I'm glad you have Joey to be with you through this. I'm sure he's just saying "Mom I'm here! You can lean on me."
I lost my son and my dad last yr. Hardest time of my life. Hun, let go of all anger. It's only hurting you. Your heart is kind, keep it that way.❤ I'm asking Jesus to comfort you now and in the days ahead. I still cry over my losses. It takes time to accept it, but I just take it one day at a time.❤ Prayers for you Hun 👏
Take care of yourself Chantel. Your subscribers will be here - please don't worry about filming. Healing takes time. Blessings.
I remember how sweet and enthusiastic your dad was about the big puppy you found at the campground. I reckoned the girlfriend was the reason he couldn't keep him. Its weird when people are jealous of their partners kids. Your dad was sad to not help you and keep the pup.
If you need a driveway in the Detroit area, to charge batteries, wash clothes, you got a place here. It’s going to take a while to feel “normal”, and it will be a new normal. Hugs to you.
So nice of you!!!! 💙 Wow that’s is awesome you are awesome!!!
when you are ready, we all enjoy your journeys no matter where they take you, good days and sad days.....
As someone who has been through this a couple times, I just have to say: It's a misconception that being vulnerable, showing sadness and grieving where others can see you isn't positive. It absolutely is! It helps keep you accountable to yourself, allows others to appreciate where you are and it's just overall a healthy thing to do. It will help you get back into your life and will allow you to grieve and process as you need to and in your own way(s). Embrace your grief and let it flow. If there's one thing you won't regret, it's allowing yourself to exist as you need to exist.
Wherever you are, you are on your journey. And we care about you, so we will watch whatever you share. Don’t worry about topics of content. Just be you , that is more than enough…you and Joey. Life will never be the same, but in time you will find your next step. And we will be grateful for what you share. Be good to yourself. Rest.
Grief is a wild journey and it's different for everyone. It's good that you're at your mom's house where you can feel safe and loved. ❤ Video ideas: dog park videos! Any walks/hikes that you take. Getting out in nature will be good for you and you can take us along. Take care of you and Joey.
There is nothing Harder then losing a Loved one. Take all the time you need, and let out all that you need to, whatever emotions you are feeling. And always remember Chantelle that your Dad is always with you and within your heart wherever you go. Love and Hugs to you. Safe Travels.
I know what it feels like to lose a parent. I lost my dad first, and then 10 years later, my mother, you never really get over it, but you learn how to cope, and you move on and live your life the best that you can. My parents are never too far from my thoughts, and I miss them. Your health and mental well-being come first before anything else, so take care of yourself and little joey. Everything else will fall into place as it should.
I couldn’t have said it better. You learn to live this new life with happy memories and knowing they are always with you.
Howdy👋. Coming from both parents passing, being an only child and a proud dad, you Chantelle are going to continue to be the wonderful daughter your father and mother are proud of and love. You are stronger than you think. 🙏🫶🫂
Sweetie you need to cry it's part of the healing,
Sorry for your loss and the drama. Hang in there. When my Dad passed away there was this tension between taking time off and making money to live. I had to find a balance, because bills dont wait.
Hang in there.
My heart goes out to you. I lost my Dad 14 years ago. He was my best friend. I miss him every single day still. Take care of yourself it’s what your Dad wants for you. ❤️🙏
I’m happy you are putting out videos while going through this sad time in your life. I lost my dad at the age of 59 in 1996 and it’s sad to think of all the missed memories. I am now within a week of the anniversary of my daughter’s passing on May 6th so the raw emotions I’m seeing from you are hitting home. She was about your age. Just know your life will continue and you will figure things out, it will just be a little different from what you thought. Carry him with you and know he is with you as well. Hugs
Life is full of drama, even in our lowest moments. I’m so sorry for your loss. Hang on to those memories and allow your mom to comfort you. I travel with the ashes of my dad and 2 of my cats who used to travel with me. My dad always wanted to buy an rv and travel, but my mom wanted a little campervan. They never ended up with either. I take dad with me as a tribute to his sense of adventure. My cats were such great travel companions and fell into the travel life in their senior years as if they had been doing it all along❤️
There is no time limit or a handbook on how to miss someone. Just take it one day at a time, and some days, you'll take it one second at a time. My mother died a little over 2 years ago. I am still looking for ways to take steps forward. Someone once said, "The more you loved someone, the deeper the grief." There is nothing anyone can say to make this hurt go away, I know. Just remember that no matter what, it will eventually be okay.
My Dad passed away the day before Thanksgiving in 2022. He lived in Missouri and I live in Iowa. It was a horrible situation there. I cried my way through your video. It brought all the sadness back. I miss him tremendously. I want to call him. My Mom lives here in Iowa and turned 83 yesterday. She's really aged in the last year. 😢
It's good you are able to be with family that cares about you now. Cherish the time you have with them. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm here, crying along with you. Lost my dad at age 11...so devastating, so I get your pain. I pray that your chosen lifestyle of living in nature will speed your healing and help you find peace.
This will never be easy mourn as much as you need now when the crying and sadness leaves and memories of happiness comes to you it will be emotional every time you think of him but happy memories will come to you and it will comfort you. Praying for you.
Your dad is with you as you leave Kansas City. He's not there any longer. Just know he'll be watching over you going forward. Hang in there, it's a process that takes time.
life is tough
love is forever
sorry for your lose
now yall can travel together
Sending prayers 🙏🏽❤️
So glad you have your family & Joey to give you comfort.
Grief is such a hard journey. Sending you much love. Be gentle with yourself.
So very sorry for the loss of your dad. I lost mine 2 years ago August 1 and I know how hard it is. Your journey through the grief will be messy and hard so try to rely on the strength he gave you and cherish your memories because they will sustain you in the coming weeks. My way of dealing with my grief has been to embrace the idea that my dad is always with me, in the wind and the sky and all around me. I talk with him whenever I need to and that has helped me make it thus far. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to mourn. It does get better, I am praying God gives your peace.
Losing anyone let alone a parent is truly heartbreaking. I’m so sorry you are having to go through this basically on your own. Time helps. You will find yourself grieving off and on forever. Keep the happy moments close and he will always be with you.
I've lost many and I'm only 53 😵💫. Totally understand what you're going through. Feel sad when you feel sad , Be Happy whenever you're Happy..don't fight the feelings just try not to be alone all the time for now
Sending hearts and prayers to you and family. Take care.
I am very sorry for your loss.
I’m glad you’re in a safe place for your heart.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your love ones🙏🏼💗
So so sorry about your dad. Talking about it is healing. My dad has been gone 25 years and I still miss him a lot. Take your time with your adjustment mourning stage and it's ok to video your life right now. Prayers your way!
I lost my parents 16 months apart, both young and both cancer. This whole thing is really hard. Day by day, minute by minute, and friends and family will help a lot. And God will help you, just ask Him and He will.
the day I travelled home from my husband's memorial service, God gave me a song "...Because He lives I can face tomorrow..." I have held onto that song every day, even unto today (8 yrs later) It is the only way I get through my day. Some days are ok, but others still are sometimes hard.
I'm so sorry baby girl ❤❤❤😢
You will love the U.P. Amazing Lake Superior. Agate hunting. Big woods. Fine people. Good food. An excellent place to heal. Hang in there.
Continued prayers for you and your family. 😘
I'm so sorry. It's so hard to lose your Dad. 😔 Prayers to you and your family 🙏
Thank you for trusting us with your heart. ❤️
Your Dad will always be with you, go over the good times, He would not want you to be upset. Condolences take it one day at a time.
Leaving KC isn’t leaving him sweetie, because he is ALWAYS going to be with you on your travels now, this I know for sure ❤
So sorry for your loss. It took me several years after my dad died I was in my twenties and I remember the first Christmas I was so sad and thought I would never have another happy Christmas. However, time heals and thankfully you have happy memories. Sending love and prayers.
Chantelle, I'm sorry when ugly has to enter in with heartbreak, but it seems to happen most times. So glad you are with your mom and other family right now. Grieving is important , lost my dad 14yrs ago and I still have bad days. ❤
Take your time and heal. It's going to be a long journey 🙏
Thank you for taking us along. I'm sure it was difficult to voice your feelings at this time, but you did a good job.
Thank you so much for sharing this part of you, Chantelle. I know it is very hard; it makes me feel so much closer to you that you feel enough of connection with your viewers to go into detail. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss, Chantel. I feel you pain as I lost my dad in 2019. I imagine you feel numb as I did too. It’s surreal because you never are prepared for this to happen. My family had drama too and it happens with all the emotions dealing and no one deals with loss very well. It will take time to not feel this way. There’s a saying, “The price of love is pain.” We are fortunate to have love but it’s painful when we lose it. I believe your dad is still with you wanting to comfort you. If he’s the hero my dad was then he’s with the angels and waiting until he sees you again there.
Over time you will reconcile with this and many memories will pop into your head. You will cry off and on and at weird times when things may or may not trigger it. Be gentle with yourself and take it one day at a time. You don’t have to think about the future until you feel ready. It’s ok to do that. You still have your mom and she will comfort you now. I wish my mom was still alive everyday. Cherish the time you have with her. Many people don’t realize how little time we have with each other. You’re young my son’s age his dad died when he was 22. You’re going to be ok. I still talk to my mom and dad and tell them things. I believe they hear me. You have a lot of love around you. Let love hold you now. 💜💜💜🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Roxan
Sending you light and love.
I am so very sorry for your loss!!!! Hugs and prayers for you and your family.💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻
Sweetheart you cry all you need to!!!🤗
Thank you for sharing your heart with us! My heart breaks for you sweet girl. 😢
I think every family experiences some member causing unnecessary drama!!! I’m so sorry!!!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my daddy 17 years ago.
Death is part of life. And grief is part of love. Sadness is part of happiness. It's the contrast and duality of living. Thank you for sharing the tender parts of yourself. I admire your courage. For me, it's all part of the truth of who you are, which is a beautiful person and a luminous Soul.
I'm so sorry for your loss. The box for your Father is beautiful!! I love the dog park. ❤😊
Your Dad is always with you as you are a part of him. Always remember that. You will find your way through this and beyond if you just take your time. Do what is best for yourself and Joey. 💕
Prayers and good vibes sent your way. It’s hard losing your daddy, it’s a pain that’s hard to describe. In time it gets easier, but it never goes away. Hang in there. Don’t forget Joey will give you a shoulder to cry on, he senses everything.
I was 27 when my dad died. Its hard even now and im fifty six. The more you talk about him the easier it gets. Then you will be sble tslk about him smiling remembering good days
I'm sorry for your sadness. I lost Mom nine years ago, but she's still with me every day. I'll see a cardinal and think of her. The robins used to fill the front yard, and she could see them from her bed facing the window. They make me think of her. I'll drive past the little park with the picnic table we used to frequent for lunch when she could still walk. Yes, it's hard for me, too.
This is a life-changing event that unrolls over time. All will be well. Sending love, hugs, and compassion. Take care of number one. You are a sweet, kind, creative and strong woman. We WILL wait...🙏💝👍😎🇨🇦🌹
My brother in law makes hand blown glass cremation ash pendants, ornaments, and other shapes. The ashes actually make it look really cool inside.
Honey I am sorry about your Dad. I have a good idea how you feel as I to not lost my Dad the 911 operator made me do his vitals.anyways Sooner or later you are gonna need a really good cry as it is Dad & all. We all love & are with no matter what .
I'm glad you'll have a remembrance of your Dad with you as you travel. About that photo with the three dogs in the back seat, I have to put my dog in the front, and any other dog in the back. He is such a back boy! Be safe out there when you get back on the road.
So sorry for your loss Chantell
L 😔 thank you for sharing your pain 💙. We care for you 💙
Big hug for you. You don't know me of course, I'm a 63 year old lady living in CNY and I have watched you for a couple years, and I just want to say you are such a nice person, and I love you! So sorry for this tremendous loss in your life.
Ive been through it as well, and it’s astonishing how some family behaves in times like this. I know how painful this is for you, continuing to send you so much love and endless heart hugs.
You are so STRONG Woman! What you are going through is NOT easy! Just remember that!
I am so very sorry for your loss. It's okay to not be okay and for you to take your time to deal with everything. Death is not something you get over, it's something you get through. Death can cause a flood of emotions, including anger and resentment. The problem with being angry and resentful is that it's wasted energy. I know, it is easy for me to say, but I've been there way too many times. I hope you can find healing in your Dad's memory. No one can take that away from you. God bless you.
Oh sweet girl, my heart aches for you. I'm glad you're with your mom now, but I'm glad you got to spend some time with your uncle & cousins. Family is so important during this time. & There is no normal, you will find your new reality, it just takes a while to settle in. Losing your dad will change you, it changes everything. But you will grow from this and your dad will always be with you. ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. When my mom passed nearly 10 years ago, I thought that things would never get better...it took 8 years for me to start to feel better, and even still some days are hard AF! Love you , lady! I'm sending you hugs and positive energy. ❤
So sorry for your loss. Do what and when your ready.
So sorry for your loss!! I lost my mom when I was 20! It's rough. 😢if you do go up to U.P. and go through Wisconsin I'm in lady'smith if you need a break from the road! Just give me a shout out! ❤🙏💔😢
I’m so sorry for the loss
Of your dad. I know that hurts. Prayers for peace and healing.🙏
Enjoy the embracement of your family~ Your heart is replete with your dad’s 💕 love for you. Everything will unwind as it should be~
So sorry for your loss😢❤
Thinking of you Chantelle and your family. You take care of yourself and give yourself some time before getting back to recording videos. Your viewers love you. Give Joey a big hug. I just love that little guy. Take care.
We love you and are in our thoughts and prayers... ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙
We love you. Thank you for sharing your story in such a vulnerable and kind way. So many of us lost a father and walk with you through this time of grief. You are setting a great example for all the daughters out there going through a similar time of loss. Stay strong. Big hug ❤
Hugs and prayers for you and your family. I lost my mom in January. Grief is an ongoing process and whatever stage/feelings you have are right for you when you have them. No wrong way to grieve, no time limit I still pick up the phone or start making plans with mom all the time and then feel shock when it hits that she isn't here to go with me.
Dear Chantel, we certainly understand your feelings as many of us have experienced similar situations. It is one of the most difficult times in one’s life. Give yourself time to grieve. It is a process that you must go through. Your Dad was proud of you and would certainly want you to pick up the life you love and carry on in his memory. Sending hugs and prayers.
Awe I sending the biggest hug and prayers for the strength you and your family need at this time sorry for all your going through
When my brother died, he had a 10 year old daughter; she was 10. My brother was a huge NHRA fan and a t-shirt blanket was made for her out of some of the shirt fronts. We also got both of his kids the fingerprint that could be worn as a pendant.
My condolences to you, peace out.
My Continued Thoughts and Prayers are with you , Dear Chantelle 🩷
Take good care of yourself and Be good to you 🩵Do things to bring comfort . Blessings To You .
You are loved and supported. Take time to process your emotions. I’m glad you are spending time with your mom.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very hard to lose a loved one. I've lost both of my parents. Grief is something we all will go through, and it's very painful, but that shows that you loved much.
The hardest part of life is watching,experiencing the ones you love die.Your emotions are identical to those of many.Some how we manage to get thru it,though the upheaval and life changes are difficult..There's no set grieving time,it's over or slow motion movements or realizations.Everyone is different.Value yourself,sits obvious your Dad did.May peace and balance return to your life He'll always be nearby listening..he was always interested in life.Extra hugs for Joey,it's double hard for a dog to know how to be supportive at a time of loss.Take care
Thinking of you and your family 💕
I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Grieving the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging issues we face in our lives. Take care of yourself and Joey. Take one day at a time.
Hugs and love to you. I've experienced all that; I totally get it. Much love. 💙
Been missing you so!!! Praying for you sweet friend ❤
🙏🙏 May you find, peace and much healing during these very hard days for you sweet girl.
So sorry Chantel...I know how you feel, I lost my Dad 2 months ago and all I needed in that moment was to see my Mom (they were divorced). Take care, stay with your feelings, and do all the things for him you need. Film or don't, whatever you feel. Take care my friend... PS My Dad was from Illinois also, and a Bears fan...Da Bears
Hi Chantelle,
So sorry for your loss💔
It is one of life’s most difficult journeys to go on.
I send prayers for your healing and strength
As others say, seek peace in nature when you’re ready.
Love to you and hugs to Joey🫶🏼🫶🏼
Love and hugs to you. I spent last summer in the UP and Minnesota. I highly recommend Ironwood Michigan. And Duluth Minnesota. The places are healing and kind.
For coffee or whatever will bring you a moment of joy💜
Omg, thank you so much. 😭😭🙏❤ You're always so sweet, Celia.
Death just sucks and not fair for those of us left behind. I wish you strength and comfort during this hard journey ❤️
= My condolences on the loss of your Dad. Keeping you and your family in prayer.
Sorry for the loss of your dad. Your in our prayers