Forgiveness - The True Definition and Why it Really is for Everyone.
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2025
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@@saintjeannie thank you 😊
Love doesn't need to be deserved.
It can be given unconditionally.
Trust does need to be deserved.
When we forgive, we continue to love
but we can stop to give trust.
I needed a long time to understand that.
That you don't have to give back your trust when you forgive.
It's hard because as you say (hope I understood it right), we tend to entangle the concepts of forgiving and trusting, and I believe that it's also hard to accept the fact that we cannot trust some persons (in some specific fields, it doesn't have to be in general), especially parents, as children, or a close friend, or a lover... People who are close to us emotionally, with whom we wish we could be vulnerable and feel safe.
@PLad-pr9cl yes, you've got it exactly! If you think of past = forgiveness and present/future = trust, then you can see that even when you've forgiven (the past), the trust is still broken in the present and will be in the future. There are times when it can be rebuilt and times when it can't. A relationship without trust is incredibly painful.
@@HappinessinYourLife 🤗❤️ Painful yes, but maybe understanding forgiveness, trust and love better can help making some relationships less painful by finding more balance (adjusting expectations...).
When it's chosen relationships, I don't know if it's possible to build much on limited trust, but when it's not chosen (family), at least it may make it possible to make the best possible out of a relationship instead of it only bringing constant frustration.
@@PLad-pr9cl true, and also knowing the definitions, a person can then create distance enough that they can be civil when present with family members at gatherings, but stop acting as if they trust them when they know they don't and shouldn't. We can't always just walk away from everyone instantly, whether it be work, family, or friend groups. But we can still protect ourselves and our peace with the knowledge of true forgiveness. Thank you so much for your insight and for being here ❤️
@@HappinessinYourLife Thanks to you for posting 🤗❤️
If they do it once 9 times out of 10, they will do it again.
I ran 30 years of test's on this.
@@cultivateyourself I agree with you. It's a hard lesson to learn. ❤️
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Hope can be a prison.
@@cultivateyourself definitely