I can almost assure you that any bit of financial advice her former partner gave her went in one ear and out the other. She clearly likes to pamper herself with no regard to the financial impact. That has nothing to do with low self esteem, but everything to do with being a spoiled woman. Her money was her money and no man was going to tell her what she could do with it.
At 28 I was dead broke. At 42 all we had between busted was $644 between us and broke with a wife and 2 kids. I took a construction job in Omaha Nebraska and lived in my pickup for a month until we had 2 checks, then got a $25 dollar night room in a hotel with hookers and pimps. Stayed there 6 more weeks. Then moved up into Minnesota. I was living off $300 a week plus my fuel. Did that for 8 months before going home just before Christmas. I have never forgot that feeling. We went 5 years before taking more than a week off. You got to want to.
@@moneyobsessed- men will sacrifice their happiness for the sake of their family. Women will sacrifice their family for the sake of their happiness. That’s the difference.
@@aeromedical6776, it’s f* true, and many men are doing it right now. The only crazy thing is now the women feel entitled, and they won’t even cook or clean. Even when a hardworking man helps them, many just want to reap the benefits.
I think I can read between the lines of what occurred. She was in a long term relationship with the dude who financed her lifestyle, and during the course of that relationship, she got bored, and started having an affair with a younger guy. During the course of that affair, her significant other either found out about the affair, or she decided to leave him for the younger guy. Being that most younger men aren't established, she ended up having to finance the relationship, which made her burn through all her money, and both of them had to end up moving in with the younger guy's parents.
Yep. That unemployed D or younger D will have women thinking they are on top of the world and the real man is a waste of time. Until they realise the grass isn't greener next door.
So she was broke, drained her 401K (4 times she said), and didn't know she was overspending until she wrote it down after reading someone's book? What? And she said she just realized this 3 months ago? She gonna restock her accounts and drain it again. She gone be right back here talking about how her OCD made her buy clothes and shoes and makeup again. I don't get it. It really is mental illness at this point. First she said she used her money to go shopping, then she gonna turn around and say her partner doesn't know she drained her 401k to "make ends meet". SHOPPING AIN'T MAKING ENDS MEET! She reallllly want us to feel sorry for her.
Women specialize in spending. I make well over $150k. If it weren't for the fact that I am a stickler for saving for retirement, we would be broke because she has a metric ton of "needs". For me marriage is mitigating a financial liabikity that doesn't even know what that means.
I am 27 and i just started my ROTH IRA and deposited the max for 2024! I feel stupid for how long it took to get my life straight. The problem here is, what is the best way to invest the money to grow for retirement?
You're 27. It's ok. Time for compounding interest. I believe every Investor should start with ETFs for a solid foundation, then diversify across asset classes and maintain disciplined, regular investing to minimize risks and maximize growth.
You don't need to find the next NVDA to succeed in investing. Just choose top-notch ETFs and partner with a financial advisor like I did. I turned $90k into $53,000 in annual dividends-a significant milestone for me today.
Impressive! I admit I'm scared about retirement as I turn 60 on my next birthday. I need to ensure I have enough money to survive on. How can I consult your advisor? My retirement account isn't performing well.
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for her full name and her website popped up immediately. I looked through her credentials and did my due diligence before contacting her.
I had watched this video and a few of her others. I thought she was transparent and honest and she owned up to her mistakes. Now she’s doing something to fix it. I’m rooting for her (and anyone else who is on a journey to do better)
80K at 39 in 401K is on par to become a millionaire by retirement as long as you also buy a house, and its way more than average. Some of yall comment as if everyone should be in the top 5 percent. SMH
Not bipolar just doesn't want accountability. She 100% used him but he figured it out. Also her insane spending on useless nonsense is why YOLO is moronic long term
And there it is. "She's decent looking and I'm not take that away from her..." How magnanimous of him. Then he criticizes her for thinking her self esteem and value are tied to her appearance. This pattern is the problem in our society. Making a public judgment then trashing someone for trying to conform to it.
5:47 - translation: she either got bored or she wanted him to finance her life, he probably suggested that she cut back on her out of control spending and she thought he was “too controlling” and this was the “toxic” part.
No question about it. Any attempts to curtail her spending were met with great resistance and interpreted as controlling behavior. You don’t consider combining your finances with a person who is an infant when it comes to financial maturity.
My ex did the same. Girl would argue over giving me $600 a month but had no problem giving her apartment building 2400 a month. And she was unemployed half the time. They’ll go into 3 times the debt/spending without you before they go 50/50 with you lol
That’s wild, just to stick with the independent code which is just being a adult, when you could just drop $600 to stay with your man your protection and be good
@@ladellmimms and this is $600 all inclusive so she still was getting dinner dates she wasn’t paying for 😂 and my family house allowed us to have a bigger bedroom. We eventually broke up because she refused to give me 1500 a month for 3 months. Instead she insisted I give her $5000 for a nose job which we would have to fly to turkey for and mind you I never even met the girl parents. She is a Muslim girl from south east Asia so I get it it’s a strict culture but she also thought she was “so pretty” she should just be able to get anything she wants. I had to tell her “you really think some guy is gonna wine and dine you, take you on trips, pay for your procedures etc, and you can’t even introduce him to your parents? What type of idiot are you?” What’s sad is she knew she was full of shit but she’s too scared to break away from her toxic faith/culture. I eventually just cut it off completely because I’m not about to spend 10 years (I spent 4) dealing with that type of crap. There’s women out here who want you to convert religions for them but they can’t even give it up once in a while, cook a full course meal. They can’t do shit
2 minutes in her video and 20 mins of antons Commentary 😂, She calling her boyfriend toxic but she the one spent all the money and living with his folks, spent her retirement. 😂
It really is. Ex went from 400-1200 in the bank. Moved in with me. She went up to 22k-ish when she decided she wasn't "happy". I'm sure she thought she'd hit a lick. Fast forward a year later. She's a single mom(not mine) and living with her parents. I really want to ask her.... How's that happiness thing working out!?
Disagree. My sister is single and 40. No kids. BUT....... She makes 250k and has an ivy education. She's very good with money, she's helped us with advice numerous times. The guys that she dates are not on her level, they never have been. She's nothing like this idiot. Idk why she's single.
She's doing it in the hopes that her having her jugs out will entice some rich beta to bail her out. And she will thank her boyfriend by first cheating on him before leaving him for the richer beta.
Beautiful women have this problem a lot. They think things will always work out because there is usually a man willing to bail them out for the privilege of their time and attention. When they start aging out of that magic, they don’t even know it’s happening. Reality hits them hard. Hopefully she learns and gets herself together.
Women don’t realize how much money men spend on them, there very oblivious. She’s been humbled now because the man left and has to start over. As soon as she’s back up, she probably leave her current bf 🤦🏼
yup....if she has to live in her bf's parents home, that means he doesn't have a place of his own and he can't afford her hyper-hypergamy.....he is just a stepping stone she will use to get to the bigger better deal.
Rent was 30k a year, people live life without thinking of the future. Idk what’s up with people who have money needing to spend it all the time, you don’t need things all the time. No impulse control or discipline.
Had a guy not talking to me at work anymore because he kept saying how he’s not gonna work anymore overtime and I told him if there’s anyone in this job that needs overtime it’s you because you are broke
FALSE. I became broke due to a TBI that required tons of expensive specialists and treatments so I could work to afford to eat as well. Maybe in her case that’s true. But that’s not everyone’s story.
I was very very VERYYY fortunate to still have money leftover after taking a withdrawal hardship to pay my tuition. Please do not take withdraw your unless you back is against the corner and all other options are exhausted, that 10% tax penalty is no joke.
She said she did a 360 which means she just went around in a circle and ended up right where she started She means 180 turn and go in the opposite way😂
When I started my first real job at 27 years old in 1993, I charted what my retirement income would be at 58. It turned out to be correct with more money to spare. I worked at a VAMC for 27 years and was in the US Army for 4 years. No mortgage, no car payment (I drive a 2012 Ranger), no debt. It's a nice feeling.
She is divorced or broken up for a reason and still is carrying those traits i bet. How the hell you make 120k annually and spent all your mone/savings/401k? A walking liability..
Damn this is why people don’t share cause ya’ll always judging hard AF. She messed up big deal .. she’ll fix it. Some of y’all don’t even have 80k to blow through if you wanted.
5:19 I made myself get used to less. I am frugal. Once I got financial freedom, I began to tip well, as a way to help out others. Went to a local small Asian takeout place. Ordered $65 worth of food (will last three days) and tipped $20. The women taking my order thanked me for the tip.
I don't date broke women either. First thing I assess is whether or not they're financially stable (nor do I mention how much I make). I learned my lesson before.
Cap, i have BDD as well. No matter how much weight I lose, muscle i gain and people tell me i look good. I cannot see it. That doesnt make me wanna go buy ”things” what it does is make me overtrain and overthink and that stress and fatigue lowers the immune system literally making you sick. Has nothing to do with money!
"Don't EVER take money out of your 401(k)" Well if it comes down to (because you are out of work): 1) Living in a cardboard box, on a park bench, etc.or: 2) Withdraw from your 401(k) until you find work I'll take number two, Alex, for $200
Accountability (lack thereof!) is the only thing I can think of with this woman. Although she doesn’t provide enough details about her situation, I keep coming to the conclusion that she’s somehow blaming her ex-boyfriend (partner?😂) for her economic woes. The ex-boyfriend should have kept accounts separate…her money is hers and his money is his! This would have put pressure on her to not rely on her ex-boyfriend “footing the bill” for her lifestyle on his dime. I’d be willing to bet that their “relationship” ended because she expected him to “bail her out” on his dime so she could avoid being financially responsible. Now he’s a “bad guy” because he didn’t follow her expectations (bail out). I know she didn’t say this, but that’s the vibe I get from this woman. Then blaming things on mental health (the common trend today!). 🙄 It sounds like she landed with this new guy (partner 😂) just to have somewhere to live. This sad guy (simp) is living with a financial burden, but because she’s attractive, she’s going to get a pass because simps are “super heroes” (Captain Save-em!). As soon as she bounces back, she’ll use her hypergamy powers to move on to the next simp with more 💰 money! I’ve seen it happen too many times, like a case study! 😂
I have a Roth IRA which I kinda forgot about. I could withdraw If I wanted, but I pretend it doesn't exist. It's well over 600K. There is nothing I desire. I live simply.
She wasted her money! She's not telling the whole truth
They never do.
🎯🎯🎯
Of course she’s leaving out the important details.
Yep, alot being unsaid.
They never do.
This chick is the opposite of a "pick me" she's a "skip me".
She’s a Reckless Brokie…💸💸💸
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Exactly what I said.
She is brave for putting herself out there, I'll give her that.
It’s funny that the boyfriend wasn’t toxic through 10 yrs of paying the majority of the bills……🧐🧐
Right. She is full of it. He probably got fed up with her for many different reasons. He bounced.
I actually seen her video a few days ago. She was very honest in telling her story. She’s pretty much a recovering shop-a-holic due to low self esteem
Can we agree that if a woman is struggling with low self-esteem, it automatically drops her to below a 5?
Are we supposed to feel sorry for her?
She could easily be with a good man but she's happy now after leaving her "miserable" relationship
As a man, I have low self-esteem. Do you have sympathy for me?
I can almost assure you that any bit of financial advice her former partner gave her went in one ear and out the other. She clearly likes to pamper herself with no regard to the financial impact. That has nothing to do with low self esteem, but everything to do with being a spoiled woman. Her money was her money and no man was going to tell her what she could do with it.
At 28 I was dead broke. At 42 all we had between busted was $644 between us and broke with a wife and 2 kids. I took a construction job in Omaha Nebraska and lived in my pickup for a month until we had 2 checks, then got a $25 dollar night room in a hotel with hookers and pimps. Stayed there 6 more weeks. Then moved up into Minnesota. I was living off $300 a week plus my fuel. Did that for 8 months before going home just before Christmas. I have never forgot that feeling. We went 5 years before taking more than a week off. You got to want to.
Damn. $300 a week. Salute to You Dear Sir
Good for you all, now that's family.
today most dudes will burn out and most wifes will leave if facing such adversities
@@moneyobsessed- men will sacrifice their happiness for the sake of their family. Women will sacrifice their family for the sake of their happiness. That’s the difference.
@@aeromedical6776, it’s f* true, and many men are doing it right now. The only crazy thing is now the women feel entitled, and they won’t even cook or clean. Even when a hardworking man helps them, many just want to reap the benefits.
I think I can read between the lines of what occurred. She was in a long term relationship with the dude who financed her lifestyle, and during the course of that relationship, she got bored, and started having an affair with a younger guy. During the course of that affair, her significant other either found out about the affair, or she decided to leave him for the younger guy. Being that most younger men aren't established, she ended up having to finance the relationship, which made her burn through all her money, and both of them had to end up moving in with the younger guy's parents.
Yep you get it 😂😂
Bingo 🎯🎯🎯
Yep. That unemployed D or younger D will have women thinking they are on top of the world and the real man is a waste of time. Until they realise the grass isn't greener next door.
Cringey😬
Thats a lot of assumption and projection with no evidence.
That boyfriend of her should leave her asap.She will be a nightmare.
That's his dumb choice. He'll regret it for the rest of his life. Not our problem.
@@kentaroo.7759 pretty much how I feel think about the situation
Could his loss be someone else's gain? 😂
I watch her channel. She seemed nice.
Crazy
So she was broke, drained her 401K (4 times she said), and didn't know she was overspending until she wrote it down after reading someone's book? What? And she said she just realized this 3 months ago? She gonna restock her accounts and drain it again. She gone be right back here talking about how her OCD made her buy clothes and shoes and makeup again. I don't get it. It really is mental illness at this point. First she said she used her money to go shopping, then she gonna turn around and say her partner doesn't know she drained her 401k to "make ends meet". SHOPPING AIN'T MAKING ENDS MEET! She reallllly want us to feel sorry for her.
Women specialize in spending. I make well over $150k. If it weren't for the fact that I am a stickler for saving for retirement, we would be broke because she has a metric ton of "needs". For me marriage is mitigating a financial liabikity that doesn't even know what that means.
I am 27 and i just started my ROTH IRA and deposited the max for 2024! I feel stupid for how long it took to get my life straight. The problem here is, what is the best way to invest the money to grow for retirement?
You're 27. It's ok. Time for compounding interest. I believe every Investor should start with ETFs for a solid foundation, then diversify across asset classes and maintain disciplined, regular investing to minimize risks and maximize growth.
You don't need to find the next NVDA to succeed in investing. Just choose top-notch ETFs and partner with a financial advisor like I did. I turned $90k into $53,000 in annual dividends-a significant milestone for me today.
Impressive! I admit I'm scared about retirement as I turn 60 on my next birthday. I need to ensure I have enough money to survive on. How can I consult your advisor? My retirement account isn't performing well.
"Melissa Elise Robinson" is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for her full name and her website popped up immediately. I looked through her credentials and did my due diligence before contacting her.
The real problem is most people think too much of their self and not of their family and those around them. Selfish.
It might look like that on the outside but most people that do stuff like this don't care about themselves either .
*themselves
Simping is the root of all evil
Simping is a death sentence
Will always be
Lots of u white guys,get with and marry females like this all the time.
The only shopping sprees that I go on are from the Goodwill thrift stores for things that i need that I dont want to pay retail price for.
Lol it is pretty bad lol let them simps have it! No mercy
This chick done hit the wall and still talking about her looks like she's 20 😂😂😂
😮😅😂😊
She not bad. But not good enough for the dating market. Should stayed married.
Women mature faster than men. They just stop at age 20. Can't tell you how many late 40s and 50s women who talk the exact same mess.
White women age like a fine milk.
@@princemarkanthony500😅she’ll get smashed she’ll fall for the well dressed guys
As Kevin Samuels used to say: “They spend their feelings, they eat their feelings”
I had watched this video and a few of her others. I thought she was transparent and honest and she owned up to her mistakes. Now she’s doing something to fix it. I’m rooting for her (and anyone else who is on a journey to do better)
She didn't say the ex boyfriend lives at his parents house. She probably made them feel sorry for her
her 401K wasn't that big.
she's 39
Huh???😳 bruh, I don't know what you do for a living, but over a 5 year period I had closed to 50k in my 401k
80K at 39 in 401K is on par to become a millionaire by retirement as long as you also buy a house, and its way more than average. Some of yall comment as if everyone should be in the top 5 percent. SMH
@@taalbossfax
It depends. If she's been contributing since 23 or 24, it could have been substantial.
@@JayLawsonThe 80K was what she had cash. That was outside of the 401K.
Not bipolar just doesn't want accountability. She 100% used him but he figured it out. Also her insane spending on useless nonsense is why YOLO is moronic long term
And there it is. "She's decent looking and I'm not take that away from her..." How magnanimous of him. Then he criticizes her for thinking her self esteem and value are tied to her appearance. This pattern is the problem in our society. Making a public judgment then trashing someone for trying to conform to it.
5:47 - translation: she either got bored or she wanted him to finance her life, he probably suggested that she cut back on her out of control spending and she thought he was “too controlling” and this was the “toxic” part.
No question about it. Any attempts to curtail her spending were met with great resistance and interpreted as controlling behavior. You don’t consider combining your finances with a person who is an infant when it comes to financial maturity.
My ex did the same. Girl would argue over giving me $600 a month but had no problem giving her apartment building 2400 a month. And she was unemployed half the time.
They’ll go into 3 times the debt/spending without you before they go 50/50 with you lol
That’s wild, just to stick with the independent code which is just being a adult, when you could just drop $600 to stay with your man your protection and be good
@@ladellmimms and this is $600 all inclusive so she still was getting dinner dates she wasn’t paying for 😂 and my family house allowed us to have a bigger bedroom.
We eventually broke up because she refused to give me 1500 a month for 3 months. Instead she insisted I give her $5000 for a nose job which we would have to fly to turkey for and mind you I never even met the girl parents. She is a Muslim girl from south east Asia so I get it it’s a strict culture but she also thought she was “so pretty” she should just be able to get anything she wants.
I had to tell her “you really think some guy is gonna wine and dine you, take you on trips, pay for your procedures etc, and you can’t even introduce him to your parents? What type of idiot are you?”
What’s sad is she knew she was full of shit but she’s too scared to break away from her toxic faith/culture. I eventually just cut it off completely because I’m not about to spend 10 years (I spent 4) dealing with that type of crap. There’s women out here who want you to convert religions for them but they can’t even give it up once in a while, cook a full course meal. They can’t do shit
I dated dudes like this, absolute hobosexuals.
The UA-cam flex.
Create a sob story, get monetized and run the bag up.😂😂
Women get away with everything. Incredible…
Yep they always think there's a way out
2 minutes in her video and 20 mins of antons Commentary 😂,
She calling her boyfriend toxic but she the one spent all the money and living with his folks, spent her retirement. 😂
Feminism made feelings more important than critical thinking. People need to take accountability for their own actions.
"I am living in my boyfriend's parent's house at 39 years old" let that sentence sink in for the happy couple
Thank God she did a complete 360 in her spending. 😂😂😂
😂😂
😂😂
Yep, absolutely no change whatsoever 😅
I came to the comments for the 360 part
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed that haha
Then again, mathematics isn't really a strong suit for people like her.
Notice how she never acknowledged the current boyfriend. She’s actually leaching off an entire different boyfriend and his family ..
Who's out here trying to save these burnt out millenial partygirls? sheesh..
You are
@@ID2011 stop projecting bro
Being with someone who has a horrible relationship with money is a nonstarter. Run away from these people.
In a relationship NOT married? Anybody else catch that????
When she said I’ll buy *a few things here and there* plus *i cut back a little,* definitely confirm she knew it was a problem but didn’t truly stop.
Make no mistake, This is the average unmarried American woman over 30.
It really is. Ex went from 400-1200 in the bank. Moved in with me. She went up to 22k-ish when she decided she wasn't "happy".
I'm sure she thought she'd hit a lick. Fast forward a year later. She's a single mom(not mine) and living with her parents.
I really want to ask her.... How's that happiness thing working out!?
Facts 💯
We need to replace average with typical. Average is in the middle This is the mode the number you see the most or typical.
Disagree. My sister is single and 40. No kids. BUT....... She makes 250k and has an ivy education. She's very good with money, she's helped us with advice numerous times. The guys that she dates are not on her level, they never have been. She's nothing like this idiot. Idk why she's single.
@@christinar8419 nah. She's broke.
You said you wouldn’t date a broke woman, but in the last video with the Black woman saying broke men are predators, you said that was crazy.
The fact that so many people feel the need to create a channel to document their financial woes is a clear indication of “misery loving company”…lol
She's doing it in the hopes that her having her jugs out will entice some rich beta to bail her out. And she will thank her boyfriend by first cheating on him before leaving him for the richer beta.
Why is her adult boyfriend still living at home?
Maybe a fellow brokie lol
I live at home but I'm building a financial foundation. People just think I'm a bum which is Good.
I saw this and said she needs to get an apartment. She’s just irresponsible and needs to grow up and get a place she can afford
Better not say anything to these birds. They are all victims when they broke.
It’s not even a sacrifice. She just can’t afford her lifestyle.
They all think they are psychologists.
I will never not laugh when someone says they've done a complete "360" when they mean they've done a complete 180.
Beautiful women have this problem a lot. They think things will always work out because there is usually a man willing to bail them out for the privilege of their time and attention. When they start aging out of that magic, they don’t even know it’s happening. Reality hits them hard. Hopefully she learns and gets herself together.
The disdain for a woman you all don't even know in the comments is insane..looks crazy. Social media has done a number on you all..sheesh.
Literally!
Women don’t realize how much money men spend on them, there very oblivious. She’s been humbled now because the man left and has to start over. As soon as she’s back up, she probably leave her current bf 🤦🏼
yup....if she has to live in her bf's parents home, that means he doesn't have a place of his own and he can't afford her hyper-hypergamy.....he is just a stepping stone she will use to get to the bigger better deal.
Rent was 30k a year, people live life without thinking of the future. Idk what’s up with people who have money needing to spend it all the time, you don’t need things all the time. No impulse control or discipline.
I agree 100% with your comment! It’s like when certain people have any extra money it’s on fire in their pockets!!
360 degree turn is actually movement in same direction. Haha
So she's math illiterate too. Haha😂
I always refer back to Cindy Loper. Girls Just Want To Have Fun. And that is whats wrong when the feminine aspect dominates the culture.
Who is that😬?
Had a guy not talking to me at work anymore because he kept saying how he’s not gonna work anymore overtime and I told him if there’s anyone in this job that needs overtime it’s you because you are broke
The guy she left dodged a bullet. The new guy needs to walk away. This woman and her behaviors are red flags.
It seems like she’s just full of words. 🤦🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️😂😂😂😂😂
3:14 - bla bla bla journey journey journey journey…probably followed by I feel, I feel, I feel then the crying. 😂😂😂
At 39 she has time to recover
This woman is gunna end up 55 years old living in a one bedroom apartment,single,with a cat that she walks. I can see it now.
Meow 😸 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Sounds good
Most men won't be even be able to afford a one bedroom apartment.
A woman who says she’s broke is a woman who spent money on too many Louie bags.
She better sell those bags lol
FALSE. I became broke due to a TBI that required tons of expensive specialists and treatments so I could work to afford to eat as well. Maybe in her case that’s true. But that’s not everyone’s story.
her boyfriend of 10 years probably started making her accountable and asked her to chip in and he all of a sudden is toxic 😂😂
I was very very VERYYY fortunate to still have money leftover after taking a withdrawal hardship to pay my tuition. Please do not take withdraw your unless you back is against the corner and all other options are exhausted, that 10% tax penalty is no joke.
Self inflicted 1st world problems 🙄
I tell my husband all the time that he's nickel and diming us to death. "oh it's just $3, it's just $20, etc" Drives me nuts.
She's 39 it's done. Unless you're insanely intelligent/have an actual skill she's done
oh come on seriously? she has at least 40 more yrs of her life. it aint done until youre dead
Not with another 30 years of working life per recommended age to take SS.
When MANIFESTING goes wrong…..
😂
Very scary Anton, I've been in similar situations like this before not knowing someone's past 😞
Divorce is not the answer says arthur Bailey, PhD
I believe she's just saying this for content. She about to use that to build a channel.
Anton, you didn’t even giggle on this video 🤭
9:52 If you do a "complete 360," you will end up exactly where you were. The correct nomenclature is "a complete 180."
Body dysmorphia disorder is just a fancy way of saying, “I suffer from insecurity to the point of which I’ve caused my own financial issues!”
listen to what she said......."After 10 years I decided to call it quits"
No female president,please😢
Exactly 💯💯💯
Living on easy mode ….then it gets real after u get old
She said she did a complete 360 in her mind but we know what she means😂😂😂😂
She said she did a 360 which means she just went around in a circle and ended up right where she started
She means 180 turn and go in the opposite way😂
You think she pretty?? Ya lost me
Maybe 20 years ago she was but not now she didn't hit the wall
I give her a 4 or 5 in looks and the wall is going to hit fast! Very fast.
Y’all crazy she is good looking
When I started my first real job at 27 years old in 1993, I charted what my retirement income would be at 58. It turned out to be correct with more money to spare. I worked at a VAMC for 27 years and was in the US Army for 4 years. No mortgage, no car payment (I drive a 2012 Ranger), no debt. It's a nice feeling.
Her excuses keep her broke
Girl math at it's finest, sounds like the ex tried to check her on her spending.I bet she still took her girl trip even though she didn't have a job
4:28 - …meaning she blew her money on Louie bags and Jimmy Chu shoes.
She still pretty and young so she'll be alright. Just another example of how they live life on easy mode.
Lady excuses won't help you...but financial discipline and a daily budget will get you straight.
HOW? SHE DEFINITELY DIDN'T LIVE BELOW HER MEANS.
her partner is a simp & clueless
She is divorced or broken up for a reason and still is carrying those traits i bet.
How the hell you make 120k annually and spent all your mone/savings/401k?
A walking liability..
Nothing wrong with starting over from scratch
Damn this is why people don’t share cause ya’ll always judging hard AF. She messed up big deal .. she’ll fix it. Some of y’all don’t even have 80k to blow through if you wanted.
5:19 I made myself get used to less. I am frugal. Once I got financial freedom, I began to tip well, as a way to help out others. Went to a local small Asian takeout place. Ordered $65 worth of food (will last three days) and tipped $20. The women taking my order thanked me for the tip.
She's an actor.. with a script from someone else life.
Actress
Ramit and YNAB are both great tools! Good luck to her on her journey.
She’s a liability from a marriage perspective. My guy. Run.
When looks fade she got nothing left
lol she had to edit it cuz she realized that one comment would kill her newborn channel
I don't date broke women either. First thing I assess is whether or not they're financially stable (nor do I mention how much I make). I learned my lesson before.
I, totally agree with you Today Real Info ℹ️
Cap, i have BDD as well. No matter how much weight I lose, muscle i gain and people tell me i look good. I cannot see it. That doesnt make me wanna go buy ”things” what it does is make me overtrain and overthink and that stress and fatigue lowers the immune system literally making you sick. Has nothing to do with money!
You hit the nail on the head with most of this 😎
She Hit the wall that’s all it is.These Grown women haven’t left their adolescent years.
"Don't EVER take money out of your 401(k)"
Well if it comes down to (because you are out of work):
1) Living in a cardboard box, on a park bench, etc.or:
2) Withdraw from your 401(k) until you find work
I'll take number two, Alex, for $200
Accountability (lack thereof!) is the only thing I can think of with this woman. Although she doesn’t provide enough details about her situation, I keep coming to the conclusion that she’s somehow blaming her ex-boyfriend (partner?😂) for her economic woes. The ex-boyfriend should have kept accounts separate…her money is hers and his money is his! This would have put pressure on her to not rely on her ex-boyfriend “footing the bill” for her lifestyle on his dime. I’d be willing to bet that their “relationship” ended because she expected him to “bail her out” on his dime so she could avoid being financially responsible.
Now he’s a “bad guy” because he didn’t follow her expectations (bail out).
I know she didn’t say this, but that’s the vibe I get from this woman. Then blaming things on mental health (the common trend today!). 🙄
It sounds like she landed with this new guy (partner 😂) just to have somewhere to live. This sad guy (simp) is living with a financial burden, but because she’s attractive, she’s going to get a pass because simps are “super heroes” (Captain Save-em!).
As soon as she bounces back, she’ll use her hypergamy powers to move on to the next simp with more 💰 money! I’ve seen it happen too many times, like a case study! 😂
I Lol”d” at made a full 360 degree in mindset 🙌🏻😅
Atleast her place is cute
It's her boyfriend's parents' place.
@@christopherfields7372 right, I forgot
She has the freedom to continue building her savings, but she instead chose to destroy her savings. Ouch
4:06 - translation: thought she landed beta bucks Bob after the cc ride ended.
beta Bob happy he's gettin some for the first time in his life, but it comes at a cost.
I have a Roth IRA which I kinda forgot about. I could withdraw If I wanted, but I pretend it doesn't exist. It's well over 600K. There is nothing I desire. I live simply.