Stop Being Afraid to Talk to Girls

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @philkuhn2171
    @philkuhn2171 Рік тому +16

    Good pointer: Not seeking Validation, CONNECTION. so easy to forget!

  • @carrubba48
    @carrubba48 Рік тому +14

    I need this video played on a continuous loop in my mind at all times.

  • @knuclestheechidna5406
    @knuclestheechidna5406 Рік тому +60

    It's not the rejection people are afraid of. It's the embarrassment that comes with the rejection. Also the fact that many many many women told us men to not bother them.

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 Рік тому +32

    it doesn't matter anymore, most guys are just not that guy for the girl they really wanna attract, if it was so easy then us men would all have girlfriends wouldn't we 🙄

    • @xFlexz3D
      @xFlexz3D Рік тому

      Speak for yourself chump

    • @Kurostyle21
      @Kurostyle21 Рік тому +1

      So fatalistic.

    • @wallyjackson9543
      @wallyjackson9543 Рік тому +8

      Stop wasting time feeling bad for yourself and start working on yourself.

    • @teeboy3106
      @teeboy3106 Рік тому +4

      It actually is quite easy , if we just ourselves together get stronger , mentally and physically.
      And obtain financial stability, not for the woman but for your own security.

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 Рік тому

      @@SlightlySoberYT 🤣

  • @RagsstoRichess
    @RagsstoRichess Рік тому +116

    Bring back zeus

    • @Colt19
      @Colt19 Рік тому +8

      No.

    • @MelkinTheWorld
      @MelkinTheWorld Рік тому +2

      No.

    • @riteshshaw1111
      @riteshshaw1111 Рік тому +4

      Yes.

    • @joshbojos9371
      @joshbojos9371 Рік тому +8

      Nah I like seeing an actual human being. Been watching Zeus since I was in high school and it’s like we grew up with him. The fact that he’s showing his true self is the epitome of confidence and he’s not behind some fictional cartoon character.

    • @buddhahabits
      @buddhahabits Рік тому +2

      Why don’t you just rewatch his 100s of previous videos … repetition is the mother of skill.
      I thought the same but Benji is growing on me.
      Its genuine and there’s value here if you listen and apply.
      Likely he’s getting a new audience as well as those who appreciate that it has been him all along anyway.

  • @gersonsaldana
    @gersonsaldana Рік тому +9

    F for Zeus😭

  • @arnulfbichler5368
    @arnulfbichler5368 Рік тому +1

    Just in time! All about practice too.

  • @SandyRocker
    @SandyRocker Рік тому +1

    Acurrate video , I quite gaming due to continuous rejection and no result, now this video has given me heart to get back on game .

  • @bishoyrafaat1514
    @bishoyrafaat1514 Рік тому +2

    Like before even watching

  • @harshams8624
    @harshams8624 Рік тому +4

    Bro try to do some social experiment videos it may be helpful to know how real approach with girl can be 🤟

  • @raulparra28
    @raulparra28 Рік тому +1

    I like that now you are showing your face I follow you since 2020 at it feels as if booth have grown and mature

  • @Dinero_2x
    @Dinero_2x Рік тому +15

    Love the new content Benjamin. Altho it somewhat loses the comedic aspect from a cartoon character, this feels more real and on your face that you really want to listen like a supportive brother that wants your success. It feels more genuine. Don't get me wrong, the Zeus content was also great, this just feels more real. keep it up man and ignore the haters. I can see that they specifically only want zues because he was a funny cartoon character(which is also good) but I feel like that's not what the channel is about if you agree on that.

    • @renkatmanker3160
      @renkatmanker3160 Рік тому +6

      nah bro the honest truth is that it is just cheaper to record a video than animate zeus. the videos get under 10k views and animating is expensive enough so it's financially not worth it.

    • @thedislikebutton3425
      @thedislikebutton3425 Рік тому +1

      This is frankly the unpopular opinion.

  • @Fahad.Salman
    @Fahad.Salman Рік тому

    I can't feel why or how I'm terrified this much to approach a girl not even there for talking to her yet, but it's way to harder for me than the way you discussed it, anyway thanks for sharing this man

  • @BlazingsNL
    @BlazingsNL Рік тому

    I talk to girls all the time and they love it! ..as friends

  • @smilezdaquiet1970
    @smilezdaquiet1970 Рік тому +1

    Nah..that shit sounds hard!!🙄🤷🏿‍♂️😂😂

  • @IsaacKJ757
    @IsaacKJ757 Рік тому

    I knew a lot of this stuff I'm just grew up not talking to many people which made me nervous

  • @Georgemc750
    @Georgemc750 Рік тому +1

    Based Zeus is gone. Pfp has been changed

  • @ivinitmittal
    @ivinitmittal Рік тому +9

    I like these types of videos, but maybe get Zeus atleast once a week or something... 🙌🏻

  • @ivarg6925
    @ivarg6925 Рік тому +1

    You are great Zeus!

  • @taiyeoluwole2295
    @taiyeoluwole2295 Рік тому

    Based Zeus pls can you make a video about the female gaze of attraction women have for men

  • @KevinGonzalez-zr2kb
    @KevinGonzalez-zr2kb Рік тому +3

    When a girl tells me "i have a bf" it usually doesnt bother me because i dont consider it as rejection instead in my mind i sounds more like im taken already and i respect my relationship so i cannot . Honestly i dont know why im afraid of rejection when my rejections have been more positive than negative ones. Maybe my ego 😅

    • @personalitydev
      @personalitydev Рік тому

      I was never afraid of rejection but Social anxiety and if the girl will make some bad event are the things that stopped me...

  • @danishsiddiq941
    @danishsiddiq941 7 місяців тому

    Best ways to approach.
    Open with most present feeling about her, in a free from outcome energy and conversate before closing.
    3 reactions you get on approaching
    Positive, Neutral and Negative.
    Treat her like you want to to check if she is worth your time and assume interest and play boyfriend energy.
    Treat her like a human.

  • @disaffectedmale
    @disaffectedmale Рік тому +5

    This kind of advice always comes from guys that look like catalogue models. I feel that somewhat skews their outcomes.

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @dylanbelot
    @dylanbelot Рік тому +3

    We ain’t scared of rejection we scared of the embarrassment lol

    • @debanikgoswami4834
      @debanikgoswami4834 Рік тому +1

      There is risk of getting crashed if we drive a car. That doesn't mean we stop driving.

  • @gillyac81
    @gillyac81 Рік тому

    Good video, also couldn't pass up being the 420th like today 🌬

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому

    Thank you very interesting video.

  • @vitte_stinson21
    @vitte_stinson21 Рік тому +3

    Let’s do some IRL Approach and Conversations, and then do a breakdown of each approach on several videos applying the points you mention in this video, Ben
    TLDR: Please do some IRL Approaches like you use to, and then make videos breaking them down and explaining these principles you mention in this video. Some of us have to be spoonfed. 😐 (for the time being)

    • @TEverettReynolds
      @TEverettReynolds Рік тому

      You don't need HIM to do this, you can do this. Walk into any convenience store and talk to the girl behind the counter. Seriously. If you have a problem talking to girls you are interested in, start by talking to the girls you are not interested in. The conversations all start the same way. Do that enough times, and when you find someone you are interested in, talking to them will be easy.

  • @excellenttwo
    @excellenttwo 28 днів тому

    I not thinking of not fear, but framing the words to say. This might give analysis elephant in the room. This might finally see a reaction to assess.

  • @punk5hits
    @punk5hits Рік тому +2

    meanwhile I still akward talk to anyone even the person not that beauty girl I like...

  • @THEEPLUGTV
    @THEEPLUGTV Рік тому

    I’m more. Scared of awkwardness then being rejected just don’t know what to say sometimes💀

  • @Skyhigh275
    @Skyhigh275 Рік тому

    Seems like Zeus is baptised

  • @theefactor1360
    @theefactor1360 Рік тому

    Broooo I haven't seen the face reveal till now holy shit

  • @Lukasz.Kaa09
    @Lukasz.Kaa09 Рік тому

    Im notn scared of rejection I dont know how to talk or chat to girls to keep them interested. They just find me boring and thats the problem, i dont really care about being rejected ...

  • @angelfresquez983
    @angelfresquez983 Рік тому

    Some one has to be the failure.

  • @LucasDanielSantoro
    @LucasDanielSantoro Рік тому

    0:10 survivorship bias on the making 😎

  • @kingcobra9563
    @kingcobra9563 2 місяці тому

    The algorithm is scary. This got recommended at the perfect time

  • @violence1429
    @violence1429 Рік тому

    I see you changed your youtube profile but please dont delete the REALLY OLDER VIDEOS coz they are extremely important and timeless.

  • @aminrp9535
    @aminrp9535 Рік тому

    This channel js beter wothout zeus

  • @Kikwatz
    @Kikwatz Рік тому +2

    Where is Zeus?! 😡

  • @jupiter242
    @jupiter242 Рік тому +1

    wait a minute🤔,Did you fire based zeus??

  • @49ersFan415
    @49ersFan415 Рік тому +1

    Wtf where’s Animated Zeus at??

  • @chronoxiong
    @chronoxiong Рік тому

    Is Zeus no longer on this channel? Is it mostly Benjamin now? Either way, nice video. I grew up being afraid of being rejected too. So that is one reason why I didnt talk to girls that much.

  • @prit4965
    @prit4965 Рік тому +1

    Where is Zeus??

  • @christophermyklebustmoltu3018

    Is this the real Based Zeis?

  • @danielmella4927
    @danielmella4927 Рік тому

    Came to the comment section for some help. Been using Zeus’s tips, and i have no joke met plenty of beautifull girls of tinder all thanks to him! Recently i was banned from tinder for breaking their guidlines, even though i’m 110% sure i did nothing wrong. How do i go about making another profile? Do i have to buy a new phone and sim card, or is there an easier alternative?

    • @realbenjaminseda
      @realbenjaminseda  Рік тому

      Yea unfortunately

    • @danielmella4927
      @danielmella4927 Рік тому

      @@realbenjaminseda Alright. Thanks alot for the quick reply. Been watching you for a long time, and your videos have helped me out a tonnnn! Guess i’ll have to go buy that new phone

  • @zubairsultan2433
    @zubairsultan2433 15 днів тому

    Very nice video

  • @luuji5253
    @luuji5253 Рік тому +2

    The creator of the fictional character "Zeus" managed to create a brand that many people loved to watch every day. I used to enjoy the contents of this channel as well until the creator began to steal the identity of his own creation and portray himself as the character that people had subscribed to. As a result, my friends and I lost interest in the channel. And checking the channel now, the channel has struggled to gain views. The creator even changed the profile picture of "BASED ZEUS" to his own, as if he were a famous personality. It's important to remember that Zeus is the likable and famous character, not the creator himself. He's a good person btw, but it is just a bad move for him to do that. now his channel is dying.

    • @luuji5253
      @luuji5253 Рік тому

      @Trupt Gaikwad you have no idea.

    • @rockyolympus2531
      @rockyolympus2531 Рік тому +1

      Yeah agree,I used to follow him for.advices but then I slowly realize hes becoming anyone other youtuber -striving to make income through their used content.

    • @luuji5253
      @luuji5253 Рік тому

      @@rockyolympus2531 he waited to reach 1m subs to change the identity to himself to make himself look famous

  • @rancidbutter9669
    @rancidbutter9669 Рік тому

    "Us brain surgeons don't understand what you non-brain surgeons don't get about brain surgery. It's easy!" 😂😂😂

  • @livelycommissioner
    @livelycommissioner Рік тому

    What can I do,I just cannot approach girls and say hi,like the words get stuck in my mouth

  • @surajkamble9896
    @surajkamble9896 Рік тому

    ❤💯

  • @dj_asad_0074
    @dj_asad_0074 Рік тому

    What if she seem interested in me but also she also mention me while we’re talking that she has a fiancé ?

  • @gsd2404
    @gsd2404 Рік тому

    How do that all that if you have Social Anxiety 😥

  • @Matthew_Scan
    @Matthew_Scan 10 місяців тому

    I do all that and they say no and I get embarrassed

  • @sanijurrhman4663
    @sanijurrhman4663 Рік тому +1

    What happened to this guys views?

  • @jeniapustilnik567
    @jeniapustilnik567 Рік тому

    saying its not hard is like saying "just be rich" .
    just ridiculous . you dont understand the human mind .
    our mind is designed to keep us safe , if we have a trauma related to rejection / judgment from the enviroment which is super hard and triggers inside every time we want to approach for our mind is like jumping off a clif and die .
    trust me , iknow .
    ive been struggling with social anxiety for years .
    the only way i could solve and make it "simple" and really feel it inside rather than reading some random title of "stop being afraid" and "do this do that" is to proccess my childhood trauma .

    • @richos07
      @richos07 Рік тому

      Yeah fuck this shit. I’d rather just talk to my Snapchat AI

    • @jeniapustilnik567
      @jeniapustilnik567 Рік тому

      @@richos07 cinical answers won't get you nowhere:)

    • @richos07
      @richos07 Рік тому

      @@jeniapustilnik567 of course. I’m just playing. I know it’s important to take the steps to put myself out there but I still do consult my Snapchat AI during my times of uncertainty though.

  • @ryguy8054
    @ryguy8054 Рік тому

    I'd like to see a below average (looks wise) man make this video. Results will be greatly different and not in a positive way.

  • @noahrentsch5062
    @noahrentsch5062 Рік тому +15

    This channel fell off HARD

    • @ben_angel
      @ben_angel Рік тому

      Elaborate..

    • @chazrooks4681
      @chazrooks4681 Рік тому +4

      ​@Ben Angel, the person is referring to the animated Zeus and the strong and demanding language, and the difference from that to this almost mellow more "PC" version.

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 Рік тому +4

      its all evolving

    • @kb1794
      @kb1794 Рік тому

      Fr

    • @gigalulmansur
      @gigalulmansur Рік тому

      ​@@chazrooks4681 this is superior advice though, really usable stuff as opposed to the more comedic Zeus stuff. But the Zeus persona was pretty funny

  • @pyophyo8901
    @pyophyo8901 Рік тому

    It's already 2023 and people still do PUA cope?

  • @shakeebkhozam5715
    @shakeebkhozam5715 Рік тому +1

    i am going to unsubscribe because i subscribed for zeus not Benjamin

  • @snoguy7181
    @snoguy7181 Рік тому

    My ancestors didn't have to deal with modern society plagued by social media. Also, I'm ugly