How To Confidently Flirt With Women (Full Guide)

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2024

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  • @ethanmundorf4509
    @ethanmundorf4509 Рік тому +122

    I'm glad you're getting in front of the camera more and giving clear level-headed advice. No gimmicks just the tools you need to live the life you want, feels more authentic.

    • @realbenjaminseda
      @realbenjaminseda  Рік тому +17

      Appreciate it brother

    • @desmondlau1385
      @desmondlau1385 Рік тому

      ​@@realbenjaminseda I don't know how you did it but your recent videos showed your growth all these years. Back then when this channel was still uploading with animation and face reveal, those advice videos are almost complete BS, I also knew nothing about dating. Fast forward today with what I learnt, UA-cam recommended me your video out of nowhere, and it blew my mind cause I can tell those are legit advices. Most viewers probably not know enough to appreciate them, but I'm glad to see you're on the right track. Hope to see even more great quality videos from you and wishing the best for your channel

    • @mad8235
      @mad8235 Рік тому +2

      @@desmondlau1385 those animation vids were his best vids with the best advice and straight to the point

  • @Crispy.Chalklit
    @Crispy.Chalklit Рік тому +23

    I subbed in 2018, now, Im a dad of a 1 year old. Ckuff you for not teaching us the pull out methd!

  • @limonurrahman7924
    @limonurrahman7924 Рік тому +93

    Wait i dont want tips from a human,bring zeus backk.
    Edit- nevermind,still working

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 Рік тому +3

      he is Zeus

    • @waynesanders1406
      @waynesanders1406 Рік тому

      ZEUS! ZEUS! ZEUS!

    • @sven1218
      @sven1218 Рік тому +2

      YESSS! man i miss Zeus :')

    • @laxmikantjadhav5476
      @laxmikantjadhav5476 Рік тому

      Yes of course

    • @reggiexp69
      @reggiexp69 Рік тому +1

      i want zues...
      god damn bring back the animations and voice....
      it works better with images then a real person talking lol

  • @tepasaswey1239
    @tepasaswey1239 Рік тому +23

    Her: I lift
    Me: oh so u must be a tough guy huh *punches her arm*

    • @Adrik808
      @Adrik808 Рік тому

      Accidentally knocks her out

  • @xMckingwill
    @xMckingwill Рік тому +36

    step 1: put the dating apps down and GO OUTSIDE
    bam now you have an advantage over a good chunk of young men with this one step

    • @reggiexp69
      @reggiexp69 Рік тому +2

      god, i wish it was that easy, i do go outside but i rely on my friend to break the ice, or my friend to make friend who have friend thjat are girls then i feel alright. but then the texting comes and i get stuck... wtf u want me to say, i can make u laugh in real life but have no clue with text, (i get bored with text like wtf can i say its alway the same)

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill Рік тому +1

      @@reggiexp69 its not easy per say but being in person simply gives you a MASSIVE advantage, it allows you to break the touch barrier which INSTANTLY creates a connection. (I would go as far to an average guy meeting a girl in person would have more success then an attractive guy only using text.)
      In terms of breaking the ice to make it easier i suggest going to social events that have to do with YOUR intrests that way if you meet a girl in person you simply talk about your intrests as you know for a fact she is interested in the same things as you. From their you will gain expereince which should make it easier to break the ice anywhere.
      I wont sugar coat it still takes time and deliberate effort and a TON of trial, error, and PATIENCE, untill you get the results you want.
      Its already hard to make good freinds its that much more challenging to get a quality girlfreind.

    • @reggiexp69
      @reggiexp69 Рік тому +1

      @@xMckingwill oh i agree texting is a hit or miss.. Or we will talk random shit or there is Nothing and only am able to make a move physical
      Right now i struggle but i knew that i kniw the girl for a while but i never bothered to add her or talk mesage or much in real. Just joke around with her face to face and sometimes wrestle a bit having a good time. But i don't know text was fine but then it went dead could also be cause i met her tru friend and they can be anoying and since she is there alot i guess she didn't feel the need to reply. Then am often already like nvm 😂 gonna stick to o what i know not text her 😂😂😂
      That is smart overal cause all girls i met are like friend of friends and they are cool but never my type.. My mom says that cause they are friend of that friend group so they will find poeple like them.
      I really need to go out and find people who have some sort of the same interests as me... And not rely on my friend making friend who have friends cause its always the same great people but nothing datable for me.

    • @xCestLaVie1
      @xCestLaVie1 Рік тому +3

      Youre being different by going out and approaching people, making conversation, and being charming. Not some gremlin that can only text.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill Рік тому +1

      @@xCestLaVie1 exactly

  • @danishsiddiq941
    @danishsiddiq941 5 місяців тому +2

    How to attract.
    Masculine and Feminine dynamic.
    Create a value illusion and comfort with the way you talk..
    Magnify what she says to create a vibe like fun flirty sexual etc.
    Don't ask informational questions but try to make comments and get to know her personality.
    Escalate verbally before physically and just slow down and enjoy the slow vibe.
    Non verbal frame, the aura.. use that to communicate with subtlety.

  • @xCestLaVie1
    @xCestLaVie1 Рік тому +5

    Crazy how little views you're getting in comparison to several years ago. Is UA-cam algorithm suppressing your videos? Your content is solid and always had been. I gave up giving advice to people and I just send them directly to your channel.

    • @Fourtune1
      @Fourtune1 Рік тому +1

      He’s an attractive guy giving advice that does not work for average or ugly men. So of course his views are going to go down because they see his advice doesn’t work.

    • @xCestLaVie1
      @xCestLaVie1 Рік тому +1

      @@Fourtune1 You can be attractive but inept. The world isn't binary.

    • @prathamzrai9990
      @prathamzrai9990 8 місяців тому

      ​@632dgid46f ohh come on dude, offcourse his teachings approach in all kind of men, it's just an excuse that u r giving .. his teachings r just so dammm simple and effective, I watched many dating gurus vidoes but I couldn't connect with their teachings, but BENJAMIN ' S teachings feel so authentic..by his teachings,I approached all my 5 crushes within a week..his teachings just gave me confidence and enough clearance on HOW to APPROACH..
      I m glad instagram suggested me his content❤

  • @redbeardhomes
    @redbeardhomes Рік тому +28

    You should do a video on men’s fashion for cheap. Would be really helpful to us guys who really struggle selecting outfits and also refuse to blow thousands of dollars no matter how rich we are.

  • @Kallesanus
    @Kallesanus Рік тому +159

    I like you bro. But we want Zeus back please😢

    • @itsallgone5077
      @itsallgone5077 Рік тому

      I heard a rumor that Zeus is fucking so much that he is having less and less time. I like Benjamin Seda a lot. Super chill dude.

    • @Kirbythediver
      @Kirbythediver Рік тому +7

      I 2nd this.

    • @franklinsantillan17
      @franklinsantillan17 Рік тому +7

      😆 for real

    • @Kirbythediver
      @Kirbythediver Рік тому +10

      FrFr I know it's just an animation and a voice actor but that dood was the one who helped guide my 180 in life. You might as well do a black screen when you post because I'm only listening

    • @jjducci
      @jjducci Рік тому +9

      I concur, bring Zeus back, but keep Benji alive with the shorts.

  • @86canes
    @86canes Рік тому +8

    Another Great Video My Dude. Always spitting facts.

  • @Megg028
    @Megg028 Рік тому +3

    why the hate? this is actually sound advice yet y'all are hating on him for stepping in front of the camera. how about being grateful for once? geeez

    • @justinaccount9920
      @justinaccount9920 Рік тому

      Fr everyone needs to just shut up and learn from this guy

  • @moemansoura5023
    @moemansoura5023 Рік тому +9

    Bring back zeus

  • @clarkparker4860
    @clarkparker4860 Рік тому +3

    I worked my butt off producing film for a year. I talked to men and women alike all the time, making them laugh making them feel comfortable. But I caught myself pussying out of a conversation with a cute girl the other day, because it was none business related and flirty -.-
    Now that I broke my wrist slapping myself, I'm gonna apply this video TODAY!!

    • @user-jj4bv5yk5k
      @user-jj4bv5yk5k Рік тому +1

      1000% true, you can be on top of your game, if it is something related to work or else. But if not, in can be tough to just talk to a woman

  • @MelkinTheWorld
    @MelkinTheWorld Рік тому +4

    Loving these Benji videos

  • @nubairr
    @nubairr Рік тому +8

    he doesn't know yet that he raised a based fan base by being the based zeus

  • @BasitKhan-jr5rx
    @BasitKhan-jr5rx Рік тому

    GODLEVEL guidelines .
    Thanks

  • @tonycampla7807
    @tonycampla7807 Рік тому

    This is solid advice. Thx Based!

  • @ivinitmittal
    @ivinitmittal Рік тому +4

    Missing Zeus!!

  • @aliyasin3104
    @aliyasin3104 Рік тому +2

    bro is the twin of Iman Gadzhi

  • @chronoxiong
    @chronoxiong Рік тому +1

    Looks like Benjamin is onscreen more than the alter ego Zeus lately.

  • @richos07
    @richos07 Рік тому +6

    Why do I have the feeling I will get #metooed if I attempt this

  • @absxyz8714
    @absxyz8714 Рік тому +3

    Well I was 1st viewer , 1st comment and liker in the 1st Second!
    How often does that happen!!!
    Crazy!

    • @Marcosasf1346
      @Marcosasf1346 Рік тому

      Literally millions of times, you're not special bruh

    • @absxyz8714
      @absxyz8714 Рік тому

      @@Marcosasf1346 I know dumb shit it was joke

    • @absxyz8714
      @absxyz8714 Рік тому

      @@Marcosasf1346 also I don’t have so much of free time like you! Looser

  • @abdulmuqeet6950
    @abdulmuqeet6950 Рік тому +14

    Seriously, I'm getting bored bro
    I love your content but you know I know and everyone else knows, we want Zeus back ❤️‍🔥

  • @stanlaire2935
    @stanlaire2935 Рік тому +2

    bro bring back Zeus

  • @CommonPerson0
    @CommonPerson0 Рік тому +1

    Zeus is doing to the pull away method or he just doing this to make us forget about Zeus and turn this into his channel. Give us Zeus back!

  • @visheshkataria3658
    @visheshkataria3658 Рік тому +2

    Get us Zeus back please benjamin

    • @NP-hr7bv
      @NP-hr7bv 2 місяці тому

      Who is zeus, I'm confused on this name

  • @ChynaFearsBuckwheat2001
    @ChynaFearsBuckwheat2001 Рік тому +2

    Who the hell is this guy, and what happened to the real Based Zeus? Why is everyone acting like this is normal for this channel?

  • @robinsonmbapah2049
    @robinsonmbapah2049 Рік тому

    Great

  • @richos07
    @richos07 Рік тому

    I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust

  • @kelvinhemuerasto9011
    @kelvinhemuerasto9011 Рік тому +4

    I miss Zeus🙂

  • @MarcoVoro-h3z
    @MarcoVoro-h3z Рік тому

    try to avoid the word "me" or "I" if she is not absolutely in love with you. It makes all the differance in the world. Most girls don't care about your anekdotes. A lot just want to express herself and have a fun conversation. Imho

  • @ritviksharma64796
    @ritviksharma64796 11 місяців тому

    Plz bring a puse in between

  • @kennygreenfarm4591
    @kennygreenfarm4591 Рік тому +1

    I like u ❤

  • @nightsoul395
    @nightsoul395 Рік тому

    It took a good 3 min to get to the actual advices

  • @mitchellavard
    @mitchellavard Рік тому

    First

  • @aaryanaik8830
    @aaryanaik8830 Рік тому +3

    To late bruh

  • @bloochoob
    @bloochoob Рік тому

    If you get rejected, turn it into a comedy moment. Clutch your heart and fall about as if in terrible pain. She will be all like ‘oh god what’s wrong !’ and you say ‘My heart, the pain, oh no, you’ve broken it …’ and dramatically fall about like a monster attacked you and she will either laugh at you being silly funny, and maybe chat, OR, if she rolls her eyes and acts like a biatch, then you really have dodged a bullet as she has no humour. So it’s no loss.

    • @arnold_elorm
      @arnold_elorm Рік тому

      I'm definitely stealing this one 😅❤

  • @minimalism-freedom
    @minimalism-freedom Рік тому +1

    My own human experiment: I did these, result 0. I started training more seriously, dressing more fashionably; result: I didn't even have to speak, they called me, the women came to me. If you don't look good, they won't even notice. What you're talking about is important, but it's just fine-tuning.

  • @kevinthelabrador7964
    @kevinthelabrador7964 Рік тому +4

    We want Zeus 😢

  • @multiskillakid
    @multiskillakid Рік тому

    Good video, but I encourage everyone not to use dating apps! Still thanks for the upload

  • @theotht
    @theotht Рік тому

    where did zeus go

  • @leomessirules19
    @leomessirules19 Рік тому

    Why is the music creepy lol

  • @Trex10100
    @Trex10100 Рік тому +1

    Eye contact is not needed for listening. Also its just weird.

    • @joshbojos9371
      @joshbojos9371 Рік тому

      It’s a sign of respect not making eye contact just looks like your shy or hiding some thing or insecure or all of the above. Either that or you have intense trauma on making eye contact lol

  • @d-evil8075
    @d-evil8075 Рік тому

    Truisms

  • @arnoldasbucys7786
    @arnoldasbucys7786 Рік тому

    Giving dating tips for free?
    It will not work if it's for free :D

  • @TheScofield1991
    @TheScofield1991 Рік тому

    And....the framework completely changed. Zeus is gone. Benji is pimping his "dating company" in every video which, I gotta say, is very convincing. Some good advice, but man I hate it when you guys keep doing this, same with AlphaM and his products. That's why only 1% of your subscribers watch the videos. Anyway, good tips, been using them since forever.

  • @edwardnygma5549
    @edwardnygma5549 Рік тому

    Bro you and iman gadzhi are basically twins

  • @adamg6711
    @adamg6711 Рік тому +2

    One of the funniest larping channels I have ever seen. Of course it's a very attractive dude giving out advice how to attract women but whats more hilarious is all these people begging for him to go back to the cartoon Zeus. Like how bluepilled and fantasy land are these viewers that they need their cartoon instead of seeing a real person. I don't even blame the owner of the channel for doing more videos with face, how long can you play a role with a cartoon and not be yourself and reap the benefits being associated with your work.

  • @themba2437
    @themba2437 Рік тому

    First