1. Never gives a timeline (i.e. may say “one day” or “one of these days” 2. Fakes a perfect profile picture (all style without substance) 3. They present themselves as wanting the best for you (just because someone says the right stuff doesn’t mean you are supposed to open your heart) 4. They always promise to be there for you. 5. They have an amazing life that you can never verify (do a lot of name dropping) Strategy to keep future fakers away A. Put everyone on a clock - no more free rides and using up your time - they can’t handle the clock they are not designed for your life B. Notice the short term promises that they are not fulfilling C. Cancel anything that doesn’t produce any kind of fruit
also I would add based on what RC BLakes also said: don't let future faking cause you to compromise your values because you are so mesmerized by the sweet talker. My own assessment is that future faking seems to be akin to lovebombing, both of which are designed for you to set aside your rational thinking and do things you will later regret.
@@Hope-zz9eq yes this is so important ! If I didn’t allow my ex narc to take take and take and removed him earlier, I wasn’t strong I was weak. I wouldn’t have compromised my time & mine ! And with Gods will I’m becoming stronger everyday
You a BOSS for sure. I met my x at a very vulnerable time in my life, my discernment was weak & bc I am kind hearted & know black men in US its tough right....so one of my lessons was to not give a guy more chances over my boundary of hollering at me, yelling demanding that I pick up phone when they call, raging about how I think etc etc. Other than that and him not being financially stable (he lived where he worked, had no retirement at 51 and about 80K in credit card debt) othet than all that.....o he seemed to not have as much respect for me as he did at the beginning of the 8 months - we also did not have sex until 7 months of dating, about 6 weeks b4 the future faked proposal, beautiful ring and all. I returned it. This experience has hurt TREMENDOUSLY bc I prayed and believed he was my husband------ my soul has been totally reprogrammed. I had been celibate for 9 years and was saving myself for my husband. I am crushed at 52.
I hope this helps many women. I was future faked through two holidays till I made the change and moved on. This holiday no more drama and no more dramatic theatrical man. It's going to be pure happiness.
And remember God is the only one that will not let you down. Be content with little simple things of life, do not worry for nothing other than survival
My ex narcissistic boyfriend did this to me for years. I was not even in relationship it was situationship all along. It has been a long journey of recovery I just surrendered to God and I had a strong support system who walked with me who have listened to me without judgement.
This literally happened to me and now I'm 5 months out of the relationship. After all the promises in year 4 he decided marriage is not for him 😂 yet from day 1 he wanted to get married and used to write me love notes telling me he was "determined to make me his wife". Men will shock you 😂 I'm watching this and I can't stop laughing not because it's funny, but because I was hoodwinked and if I don't laugh, I will cry 😂
@@erikaanthony2726 I'm still stuck on "I can't believe he did this". Wasted years of my life. And there is ZERO remorse on his part which is the most hurtful thing. Every day I am shocked by how mean and callous he was towards me. I've told myself to just take it like he's dead. Because truly the person I knew is either dead or never existed. I am shocked by who he really is. Sending you love. It's a lot to go through. I completely understand. Every day I beg for God's healing too. I can't wait to be completely healed because this state (heartbreak) is such a burden and I don't want it anymore
@@user-xe2io2go1f and it is very heart breaking especially after you put this person on a pedestal as thinking this is your person so I will be praying for you as well
It's definitely sad, how a man can sell you lies.I had a man tell me he wanted to marry me so at the time I had my own home.He talked me into moving in with him. I sold all my things out of my home to move in with him.I also had two kids by this narcissist man.But 5 years later he still didn't marry me.I believe he knew all along he wasn't going to marry me.The devil sent him to me to destroy me.
That’s exactly why I never tell a man what I want in the future. I listen to what he wants and tell him the exact opposite of what I really want to see how he responds. If you tell them your hopes they will play you. Of course, once someone has been vetted and earned your trust you can divulge your hopes.
I'm literally crying at work😢 If I had a father to tell me this earlier in my life I would have made far better decisions. Now I'm dealing with so much and am now new mother. I literally could take up an entire Dr. Phil episode on my story. I should have lost my mind but im still here. God bless you for being a father to many of us who had no one to teach us. I am learning in this very moment 🥺😭🙏 The truth hurts so deeply sometimes but it's far better to deal with the grief and then experience healing. I sometimes feel like God has to be plain sick of me. So I've been trying not to even bother him with my prayers. I will try today and ask for him to help me get through this and to help me take in this truth and apply the help given to my life. I really appreciate you ❤️
McKenzie's Mommy - God loves you so much that he led you to the teaching of Pastor Blakes. Also, he never, ever gets sick of you. No matter how many mistakes you've made, no matter your sins, no matter how bad you may even feel about yourself. Keep talking to God and be honest about how you feel. Ask him to continue showing you the way and leading you. Give your heart fully to Jesus. He is a loving and merciful savior. Ask him be your Lord and to lord over you life and decisions. Lean on Him in faith and you will be just fine, dear one. Psalms 103:13-14 - As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him. For He knows our frame; He is mindful that we are dust. Psalms 34:18 - The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Lamentations 3:22 - The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end. Psalms 147:3 - He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds. Psalm 86:5 - For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you. Hebrews 4:16 - Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. 1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
@@emefalove8462 thank you so much for sending this. It's just what I needed. I did pray and I will continue trying to build my relationship with Jesus. I'm so relieved to know that he isn't tired of me. Thank you so so so much 💗
God will never get sick of you!!! Even when you sick of yourself!! Lol God truly loves you so unconditionally and his grace and love is enough to carry you through until you are mature and become sufficient in his strength! You not going to God for your needs in prayer would be like your child not asking for something to eat or drink because they did something wrong, no more self-punishment and or judgement on yourself. Talk to your daddy who already knows, release your frustrations and secret feelings to him. Remember that you are continuously evolving and I believe that your going to be shockingly surprise on what God will do with your dysfunctional/chaotic life once you begin to surrender over to him! It's not always easy but always worth it!
This is close to the heart. 13 yrs with the ex husband. 8 yrs dated, 5 yrs married. After that 5th year, I prayed about it, finally took the blinders off, , put a plan in place and filed for divorce. It took another 6 yrs to get past the anger and bitterness I felt from the years I've wasted with that person. It's now been 14 years and I'm single and blessed. . I thank God for bringing me out of that dark space of feeling underappreciated, being taking for granted, struggled with low self-esteem and co-dependency. These struggles are no more 🙌🙌
My ex did this off and on to me for 11.5 years. We now have a 6 year old and I WISH I had practiced self love and self validation years ago! I could have avoided it all. Finally free and on a journey of self love. The future faking is what kept me. The promises. The wanting to see the good and having hope for change. After awhile I had to take a deep look in the mirror and realize I was waiting for the wrong person to change, I had to start with myself. I can look back and see all the red flags and the gaslighting and manipulation. It makes so much sense now that I’m out of that fog. He told me over and over that I was insecure and couldn’t let go of the past. Convinced me I was the problem. Time is not an apology and if the issues are never dealt with, it’s just more hurt on top of more hurt. I didn’t understand before, but I understand it clearly now! I see him for who he is, despite the false image he portrays. I thank God for you, Pastor. Last year I came across one of your videos about how a narcissist traps you and that was all she wrote! I started educating myself and everything you said in that video hit home. I tried to deny it and even went back about 3 more times. God started dealing with me and showing me exactly who this Man was. It was unbelievable. I prayed to God one day because I was so vexed in my spirit and I wanted out. “God, please show me who this Man is so I don’t have to question it ever again. Please deliver me. Allow him to come clean and tell me the truth about who he really is” not long after that, this Man started to confess of things he’d done over the years, women he’d slept with unprotected and triangulated me with for years!! I couldn’t even cry, I just listened and listened until it sparked something in me and now I’m going on 6 months of limited contact and only because we have a child. This Man is a liar and big time deceiver. He used God to reel me back in so many times, but the actions didn’t match the words. I saw the evilness, the anger so many times and tried to make excuses for it. God said NO MORE! I’m so thankful! Sometimes I still cry, but I am healing and loving myself so much more and I’m so thankful!!!
Sounds like we lived the same life...😩...I am so glad u are better now, I'm still trying to be better after I finally faced the truth of it all...after 18 years together we never married...smh I no longer wanted it anymore, I felt and feel humuliated, disgusted I accepted proposal and the ring but could not accept the covenant the actual wedding because it definitely wouldn't have been a marriage...we wasn't even friends just operating everyday and taking care of our children...no spiritual or emotional connection only physical sometimes because we really didn't like each other it was hard to come together in that way often too smh...I wasted so much time, I can't get back! So mad at myself, I'm trying to stop doing that to myself...from to 20 years old to almost 40 🤦🏽♀️
My dad did this too a lot when I was younger. Like you said when he used to promise to pick me up and promise he would do better or like he always said…”it’s gonna be greater later”…later came and greater didn’t. I believe that planted a seed in my heart to settle for less in terms of a man’s effort. Thank God for your influence and your platform, thank you for showing us the truth.
My biological dad did the same thing. When Pastor RC Blakes said that, I was mind-blown. Now I know why I have settled for less. I knew it started from my childhood. Time to fully heal. The truth sets you free.
Pastor RC Blake I just want to say thank you so much for your teachings. I have a different perspective about dating again. You have opened my eyes to so much about life and wishing my dad could have told me the things I so much needing to hear when I was a teenager. It's never to late!! Am 54 years young and am taking my time. The message "Women dating after 40" blessed me so. I asked the man that is interested in me 20 questions after listening to this message. Pastor Blakes everything you stated is the way he answered every question. God bless you and Lady Blakes.
Thank you Bishop for a great message, this Monday Night! Truthful and funny too! 😆 I'm thinking about this message! Future Faking is real! Like you said that a bunch of BS , Crap ! Good night to all of you 💘 🙏 ! From Greenville, SC
How is dating after 40 different from dating any other time as a single woman? I haven't had a date in literally decades. Now more than ever l can't say that l'm ready for it. Smiley face. Emoji.
Well those people need to be strung along because they have no business involved with someone else’s husband or wife. They deserve it & a kick in the face 🙄
Me too you are not alone I almost feel like why wasn’t I able to see he was doing this always busy, never text back always talking bout he wanted to be my companion but treats me like an option I left him alone and like a dummy was like okay he grew up he wasted more of my time the next time so I’m February I was done with it this year was a new year for me I’m 51 and I just want a man God sends not something who keeps promising stuff and never deliver and he promised me so much stuff smh so I. Understand your feeling ls Sis
@@erikaanthony2726 Our Heavenly Father is able to restore what the locust has eaten!! Stay encouraged and keep pressing forward sis! You are more than a conqueror!!✨🙌🏾❤️
@@donnebonne Starting the process with Divorce. He has abandoned my children and feel cause he brought the washer and dryer last year he can come wash when he feels🤦♀️
Nearly 20 years of my life was wasted with a future faker. All those years wasted! Praise God I left that relationship and I met my husband who has kept every promise he made to me from Day 1.
Pastor Blake’s I want to thank you for your work. You have really given me Fatherly advice that I never had. You’re that male voice that every girl/woman needs.
I am so Glad you are getting this out to the sisters. I lived 9 years through this. The gaslight was the worst. Driving you insane. Future faking is what totally breaks a woman's heart. Waking up to reality that your life was living a lie, with a man from Satin. The destruction of your life is all they want to do to women. As many as they can fool into their web of lies. Mine told me he is just getting better at doing what he does with each woman. He went as far as thank me for teaching him what to do to fool the next one. I took it as another nail in my coffin. God is the one who saved me from his clutches, & God is the only one who healed me. My narcissist has the Holy Bible memorized and uses it by twisting the verses to achieve his own needs. I know the Word of God myself, if not I look it up. I began to understand what he was doing. He would not take correction of the verses. He would twist them all in the deceitful way. I began to become frightful when he commanded me to declare him most high over God. Evil wrong. I got on my knees when he was out, and prayed every day to be saved from his clutches. Fearful of what was next. He worked it out for me to be imprisoned in his rented home. Broke always to not be able to escape. Deprived me of sleep, rest, food, and peace. He would not let me get away from him. Cheating on me the whole time. God saved me, & saved my soul, spirit, and life. He parted the sea for me in a way. Made the narcissist demand that I Get Out! He forgot I was there & had his new victim coming that night. I ran and did not look back one bit. Genesis 19:26. I have spent these 2 years seeking God, and his word to rehabilitate me into who I am, and who I am to be in the sight of God. I continue learning with your videos & others to educate myself. To know the evil that is lurking on the face of this Earth, and save myself & others if I can. Hosea 4:6 There is so much to learn about Narcissists. A malignant Narcissist is the worst, especially when they're drunk. They don't care what they do to others. Thank you so very much Mr. RC Blakes, and Lisa Blakes, for getting the word out. May peace be with you always. 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Alice.
I’m so sorry you went through this evilness. I too was future faked and love bombed for months by a covert Narcissist. I asked all the questions that I needed when we met years ago. He lied, lied, lied. So I finally had enough of empty promises and nothing to show especially for my birthday, which I gave him six months to prepare for. I’m currently healing and moving on
… thankful you’re not struggling with trauma bonds (aka what I call a spiritual fight for your soul to go back). I’m almost at 90 days of no contact (they say anything you do for 90 consecutive days becomes habit 🙏🏾) and the fight is suddenly REAL (which is the reason I am here watching this video)! I appreciate your comment and reminders. May we stay lifted, protected, and favored by THE ALMIGHTY GOD. Ameen
@@desiree.517 Nowadays it's not 3 months rule, seems like a 2 year dating rule, these people are keeping ubvp a very good mask and hiding some very deep dark secrets.
@Flippy Skyline Praise Yahweh Almighty for His mercies and grace 🙏🏾 🙌🏾. So happy you escaped this bondage and you are on the way to healing and restoration!
Ok Let me say that I am just listening to that song. Father God, this song is amazing. I have told everyone to listen to it. Praise God for the message, it's needed during these times.
I’ve had to start doing this. I had someone do this to me for years. Can’t get those years back. I used to be a “nice” girl and now I’m not. I’m not here to be toyed with. Get with the program or get gone
I'm so hurt right now, because this is exactly what I'm going through 🥺🥺😭😭. Thank you Sir. You always keep us equipped with informative stuff. You're amazing
WOW! THIS MESSAGE HAD ME IN LAUGHTER AND TEARS!!! I HAVE EXPERIENCED A LOT OF THE MESSAGE AND LEARNING TO MOVE FORWARD AND CANCEL WHAT DOESN'T BARE FRUIT IN LIFE. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOUR MESSAGE! SO UPLIFTING, TRUTHFUL AND LIFE CHANGING! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS MAN OF GOD!!
This is sounds like what I call Breadcrumbing!! When a person give you just enough to keep you around but never the full thing. Example: A person is ready to leave but here they come doing something nice to reattach you back in for a few more months.
Bishop thank you so much for this word. I spent 11 years + 5 more years after my divorce dealing with this ugly spirit! God blessed and Superseded all of my expectations and unfulfilled desires that I never receive once ,he broke me free from the toxic relationship.I am now healthy and whole enough to say God is faithful! Amen and God bless you!🙏🏽❤️
This video is gold thank you pastor❤️🙏just regretting not seeing it before..is the most cruel thing a person can do to another..I can imagine how many clowns in the crowns will hate this video☺️🇬🇧🙏
God is using you! You are a true vessel! Prophet RC Blakes Jr!! A spiritual Guru! Your words have power & comes straight from the Source! God Bless you! You’re the father I never had!!!
Wow this message was perfect timing this is actually happening to a friend of mine she met someone online that says everything you mentioned here i keep telling her he's building false hopes and promises which this individual did in the past with her building a fantasy i need to share this,hopefully she listens and breaks up with the man. Many woman need to hear and listen to this message thank you pastor Blakes🙏
Watched this live 11 months ago with my then ex “pastor” boyfriend. He literally got upset. And left me within a week later. After asking me that night “do you think I’m future faking”? I answered by saying “well, are you?”. I’m not even upset with him bc we all fall short. Just really revealed to me where I needed to be better in Christ alone. Til this day, I’m grateful for that very situation. Thanks Pastor Blakes! Your obedience was right on time MOG!! Prayers specifically to all Gods children, Chosen and His leaders here on earth…doing Our Fathers work!! 🙏🏾💜💯🤗
You were on my pew Pastor.. married now for only 9 months..lies and promises..and so many "l Love you's..', to follow. He had all 5 of your qualifications.. admit l was a praying person and yet l fell for the fake and that the hurtful part. Now like in a previous message you sent..out my bed and out my head. Filing for a divorce because l don't need a year to see the light..my happiness is more important. God bless you for clarifying with the Word.
If your want to get rid of time wasters and future fakers then..... 1. Put everyone on a schedule or on the clock. Let them not come up in your life without a schedule. If you want your relationship to move to the next level you gotta put that individual on a clock. If they can't handle your clock, they ain't designed for your future. 2. Notice the short term promises that they don't fulfill. You're so busy listening to the big ones that you over look the tiny everyday things that really matter. If a person is not consistent with the small promises don't be so deceived to belive that some how they'll be able or willing to fulfill grand plans. 3. Cancel anything that does not produce fruit. Anything relationship that *future fakes* you out of your best years, cancel it. Fruit nurtures you. If you're not being nurtured by this relationship and you're holding on to these promises, cut it off.
I’m re-watching this as a healthy reminder of what I came out of. It’s been 2 years and 4 months since my last long-term relationship split. I am grateful that God got me out so I could heal. Praise Jesus! Thank you Pastor RC Blake’s Jr. for helping me with your content!! You always make me laugh too!! 😂🎉❤
I had someone do this to me for years and I really trusted him he kept saying how he wanted to marry me and I waited and he never delivered this year I finally ended it because he can never do what he promised then he tried to say I am not being patient and I’m being negative I have known him 23 years when I decided to stop talking to him he started saying I’m inpatient and negative or I haven’t given him the chance I’m 51 now and I barely woke up listening to pastor RC Blakes I feel stupid but at least now I know he was just lying and wasting my time
@ Erika Anthony How dare he say that to you! He was obviously annoyed that he could no longer string you along! 😤 wish you all the best with your future ❤️
I heard that it happened to me same way blaming me all of a sudden some folks are a trip! Take care of yourself we got one life and no time to waste messing with idiots.
@@foreverfavored729 I totally agree and I thought he was the one he wasted a lot of time in my life I think once he realized I was staying celibate and it’s been 13 years he started backing up
Pastor you are such a blessing to a generation of women. Your wisdom and anointing from God is not like any other Pastor I have come across. I am very selective who I choose to let pour into me and I listen to. Thank you for what you and Lady Lisa are doing for women. I love to hear when she comes on the channel as well, even though it’s not much, with so much wisdom from her experiences that I can relate so much to as well. I have been listening to you well over a year now and you have helped in my process of evolving in my womanhood. Thank you.
Thank you so much for the prayer😥 It was beautiful. I am currently on week three of the silent treatment and being blocked from my narcissistic fiance. He is staying 6 miles at his shop and I'm in my home with our cat. We have been together 6 years and I have been future faked the entire time. I have been raged at for asking questions, ghosted, gaslight, mentally disturbed and emotionally destroyed over the course of the years. I'm seeing this "punishment" for what it is now and not allowing myself to take the blame. I am on my journey of moving on and realizing he will never change. I know he will try to come back but now I know I can't ever take him back. I'm 33 with no kids and never been married and he knew I wanted those things so badly. Some days I feel so confident I can do this and some days I have floods of things come back to me that I forced myself to forget in order to make the relationship work. I know this is going to be a long process of healing. What hurts worse is that before we dated he was friends with so many members of my family including me. 15. Years I thought I knew this person. And now I know him as the most toxic person I have ever come across. It is truly disheartening
Such great words of wisdom as usual!! I love tuning in to your sermons, which have definitely been a blessing!! There are very few ministers who talk about real issues related to relationships and marriage, and I greatly appreciate you!!
BISHOP( in my loud voice), you are hilarious 😂. You imitate those men so well. That's exactly what they say to pull you in and keep you trapped. The Layaway analogy was spot on. I'm waaaayyyyy to intelligent now to fall for this game, but I WISH to GOD I knew this looooonnnnng ago. Thank you. Massachusetts ❤️
These painful experiences are very much real and painful. It is such a dishonour and humiliation to 'fake' a life they know you earnestly desire. This can hurt to the core but we can't afford to stay in a broken state. It's time to heal. Time to break those chains of captivity and be free enough to soar to new heights. Let's start with forgiveness. Forgive them. Forgive ourselves. Heal those wounds. Please check out the book '12 Fundamental Truths about Forgiveness'. It's very liberating. With love. x
Yes Forgive them, But please do not allow more abusive treatment because it will be evan worse!. My Mum prayed my Dad would treat her right or leave!x sobbed on the phone to me,to pray. I DIDN'T TELL HER, I got up early x prayer walked, Monday, Tuesday,Wednesday She phoned
,, he had took all her retirement money ,x She said she dosnt care! Because she's free!. But years later , I met my dad! He was such a polite shy gentleman.x I loved him. X he loved me x said I was a wonderful daughter, but he wanted me to take mum's place!.she was Housebound 27 years.because she was Astoundingly Beautiful.x a virtuous Woman,x no visitors allowed or Any basic human rights!. Family meant everything to me. Now I know that I can only rely on God's Promises. When My car was trashed by Drunk drivers. X I saw that rainbow where I used to park my Car, I knew God would supply a new Car! X He did. X He will restore all the years! I I learned to turn the stray away, only help those who really need it,not fake ones!.
Thanks for this episode. I was married to a future fake 12 years. God opened my eyes and I divorced that dead weight. Thank you Lord for mercy and grace.
Wonderful sermon. Learned so much and was reminded of so much. Sometimes it's good to listen to talks that you assume you already know all there is to know. I am refreshed! ❤️
That blankety, blank blank. At the end of the day they will pay. Vengeance belongs to the Lord. I kept my hand in God's hand throughout it all and God said, "ok that's enough". And just like that it was was over. All praises to the King of Kings and Lord of Lord's. Amen.
Thank you pastor RC Blakes for the enlightenment. Tired of the expert future fakers, scammers, life/ timewasters, and tricksters. When you mentioned simple style but no substance. Don't want no profile. Will continue to wait on the Lord
Pastor Blake’s I had to watch this twice. I recently went through this. Future faking my birthday trips and gifts. Wasting my time. Now with all this knowledge I will NOT be deceived no more. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sir… I can’t thank you enough for helping us women to be set free. The Lord truly uses you to help us. I’ve been with this guy almost a year and from the beginning I let him know where I stood as far as being in a serious Godly relationship. He won and has strung me along ….. awful . But, I’m a little stuck in this relationship ( after the fact) he sure has led me on soooo bad… he’s a trio!
Oh my! This topic was very enlightening! it’s hard for a lot of us to accept because if we be honest with ourselves at some point in time we’ve been through this or we’re in this situation now. Everything that you have stated is actually the God’s honest truth! When you know better prayerfully🙏🏾 people will do better.
I put everyone on a clock including myself!! Future fakers in my life caused me to future fake myself and others. Trust the recovery process and work towards regaining your name and creditability.
Thank you Bishop Blakes for your stellar video ministry!! I wish this could have been filmed years ago as it would have saved me from some hanky experiences. However, future faking is also when someone has a PhD in stringing you along, which applies to ‘friends’, employers, and dating.
1. Never gives a timeline (i.e. may say “one day” or “one of these days”
2. Fakes a perfect profile picture (all style without substance)
3. They present themselves as wanting the best for you (just because someone says the right stuff doesn’t mean you are supposed to open your heart)
4. They always promise to be there for you.
5. They have an amazing life that you can never verify (do a lot of name dropping)
Strategy to keep future fakers away
A. Put everyone on a clock - no more free rides and using up your time - they can’t handle the clock they are not designed for your life
B. Notice the short term promises that they are not fulfilling
C. Cancel anything that doesn’t produce any kind of fruit
Perfectly said🏃🏃🏃
Well said and noted
also I would add based on what RC BLakes also said: don't let future faking cause you to compromise your values because you are so mesmerized by the sweet talker.
My own assessment is that future faking seems to be akin to lovebombing, both of which are designed for you to set aside your rational thinking and do things you will later regret.
@@Hope-zz9eq yes this is so important ! If I didn’t allow my ex narc to take take and take and removed him earlier, I wasn’t strong I was weak. I wouldn’t have compromised my time & mine ! And with Gods will I’m becoming stronger everyday
@@BriW3 yes it's not only about wasted time but sinning against the holy law which the future faker tries to get you to do.
I needed to hear this..just dropped my ex because I felt he was future faking..all I saw were red flags of confusion. Ladies, we got to do better! 👏
YOU have a strong Discernment 💪🏾 you moved on quickly without taking chances!!
You a BOSS for sure. I met my x at a very vulnerable time in my life, my discernment was weak & bc I am kind hearted & know black men in US its tough right....so one of my lessons was to not give a guy more chances over my boundary of hollering at me, yelling demanding that I pick up phone when they call, raging about how I think etc etc. Other than that and him not being financially stable (he lived where he worked, had no retirement at 51 and about 80K in credit card debt) othet than all that.....o he seemed to not have as much respect for me as he did at the beginning of the 8 months - we also did not have sex until 7 months of dating, about 6 weeks b4 the future faked proposal, beautiful ring and all. I returned it. This experience has hurt TREMENDOUSLY bc I prayed and believed he was my husband------ my soul has been totally reprogrammed. I had been celibate for 9 years and was saving myself for my husband. I am crushed at 52.
“Cancel anything that does not produce fruit.” This can apply to relationships with people( friends) as well. Thank you Bishop!
I hope this helps many women. I was future faked through two holidays till I made the change and moved on. This holiday no more drama and no more dramatic theatrical man. It's going to be pure happiness.
I SWEAR... some of these "men" are lost. 😑
@@sweetleaf6100 right no one should be faking when over the age of 30 it waste time and energy
Amen
Good for you.
And remember God is the only one that will not let you down. Be content with little simple things of life, do not worry for nothing other than survival
Let every ear hear and every heart receive this message!
Amen I receive this message 🙏
Yesss
My ex narcissistic boyfriend did this to me for years. I was not even in relationship it was situationship all along. It has been a long journey of recovery I just surrendered to God and I had a strong support system who walked with me who have listened to me without judgement.
This literally happened to me and now I'm 5 months out of the relationship. After all the promises in year 4 he decided marriage is not for him 😂 yet from day 1 he wanted to get married and used to write me love notes telling me he was "determined to make me his wife". Men will shock you 😂 I'm watching this and I can't stop laughing not because it's funny, but because I was hoodwinked and if I don't laugh, I will cry 😂
Me too I feel you 100% and I feel like a dummy but it’s okay God will heal me and I am moving on left him alone in February
@@erikaanthony2726 I'm still stuck on "I can't believe he did this". Wasted years of my life. And there is ZERO remorse on his part which is the most hurtful thing. Every day I am shocked by how mean and callous he was towards me. I've told myself to just take it like he's dead. Because truly the person I knew is either dead or never existed. I am shocked by who he really is.
Sending you love. It's a lot to go through. I completely understand. Every day I beg for God's healing too. I can't wait to be completely healed because this state (heartbreak) is such a burden and I don't want it anymore
@@user-xe2io2go1f and it is very heart breaking especially after you put this person on a pedestal as thinking this is your person so I will be praying for you as well
i'm so sorry dear :(
It's definitely sad, how a man can sell you lies.I had a man tell me he wanted to marry me so at the time I had my own home.He talked me into moving in with him. I sold all my things out of my home to move in with him.I also had two kids by this narcissist man.But 5 years later he still didn't marry me.I believe he knew all along he wasn't going to marry me.The devil sent him to me to destroy me.
That’s exactly why I never tell a man what I want in the future. I listen to what he wants and tell him the exact opposite of what I really want to see how he responds. If you tell them your hopes they will play you. Of course, once someone has been vetted and earned your trust you can divulge your hopes.
I'm literally crying at work😢 If I had a father to tell me this earlier in my life I would have made far better decisions. Now I'm dealing with so much and am now new mother. I literally could take up an entire Dr. Phil episode on my story. I should have lost my mind but im still here. God bless you for being a father to many of us who had no one to teach us. I am learning in this very moment 🥺😭🙏 The truth hurts so deeply sometimes but it's far better to deal with the grief and then experience healing. I sometimes feel like God has to be plain sick of me. So I've been trying not to even bother him with my prayers. I will try today and ask for him to help me get through this and to help me take in this truth and apply the help given to my life. I really appreciate you ❤️
McKenzie's Mommy - God loves you so much that he led you to the teaching of Pastor Blakes. Also, he never, ever gets sick of you. No matter how many mistakes you've made, no matter your sins, no matter how bad you may even feel about yourself. Keep talking to God and be honest about how you feel. Ask him to continue showing you the way and leading you. Give your heart fully to Jesus. He is a loving and merciful savior. Ask him be your Lord and to lord over you life and decisions. Lean on Him in faith and you will be just fine, dear one.
Psalms 103:13-14 - As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him. For He knows our frame; He is mindful that we are dust.
Psalms 34:18 - The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
Lamentations 3:22 - The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end.
Psalms 147:3 - He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds.
Psalm 86:5 - For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you.
Hebrews 4:16 - Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
@@emefalove8462 thank you so much for sending this. It's just what I needed. I did pray and I will continue trying to build my relationship with Jesus. I'm so relieved to know that he isn't tired of me. Thank you so so so much 💗
God loves you so very much Queen. Keep listening to positive truths like these. Blessings!💕💕💕
@@ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431 thank you so much💖. These videos are helping me to see so many things I've missed learning.
God will never get sick of you!!! Even when you sick of yourself!! Lol God truly loves you so unconditionally and his grace and love is enough to carry you through until you are mature and become sufficient in his strength! You not going to God for your needs in prayer would be like your child not asking for something to eat or drink because they did something wrong, no more self-punishment and or judgement on yourself. Talk to your daddy who already knows, release your frustrations and secret feelings to him. Remember that you are continuously evolving and I believe that your going to be shockingly surprise on what God will do with your dysfunctional/chaotic life once you begin to surrender over to him! It's not always easy but always worth it!
This is close to the heart. 13 yrs with the ex husband. 8 yrs dated, 5 yrs married. After that 5th year, I prayed about it, finally took the blinders off, , put a plan in place and filed for divorce. It took another 6 yrs to get past the anger and bitterness I felt from the years I've wasted with that person. It's now been 14 years and I'm single and blessed. . I thank God for bringing me out of that dark space of feeling underappreciated, being taking for granted, struggled with low self-esteem and co-dependency. These struggles are no more 🙌🙌
God is so good!!!
My ex did this off and on to me for 11.5 years. We now have a 6 year old and I WISH I had practiced self love and self validation years ago! I could have avoided it all. Finally free and on a journey of self love. The future faking is what kept me. The promises. The wanting to see the good and having hope for change. After awhile I had to take a deep look in the mirror and realize I was waiting for the wrong person to change, I had to start with myself. I can look back and see all the red flags and the gaslighting and manipulation. It makes so much sense now that I’m out of that fog. He told me over and over that I was insecure and couldn’t let go of the past. Convinced me I was the problem. Time is not an apology and if the issues are never dealt with, it’s just more hurt on top of more hurt. I didn’t understand before, but I understand it clearly now! I see him for who he is, despite the false image he portrays. I thank God for you, Pastor. Last year I came across one of your videos about how a narcissist traps you and that was all she wrote! I started educating myself and everything you said in that video hit home. I tried to deny it and even went back about 3 more times. God started dealing with me and showing me exactly who this Man was. It was unbelievable. I prayed to God one day because I was so vexed in my spirit and I wanted out. “God, please show me who this Man is so I don’t have to question it ever again. Please deliver me. Allow him to come clean and tell me the truth about who he really is” not long after that, this Man started to confess of things he’d done over the years, women he’d slept with unprotected and triangulated me with for years!! I couldn’t even cry, I just listened and listened until it sparked something in me and now I’m going on 6 months of limited contact and only because we have a child. This Man is a liar and big time deceiver. He used God to reel me back in so many times, but the actions didn’t match the words. I saw the evilness, the anger so many times and tried to make excuses for it. God said NO MORE! I’m so thankful! Sometimes I still cry, but I am healing and loving myself so much more and I’m so thankful!!!
Gosh I know exactly what your saying
Sounds like we lived the same life...😩...I am so glad u are better now, I'm still trying to be better after I finally faced the truth of it all...after 18 years together we never married...smh I no longer wanted it anymore, I felt and feel humuliated, disgusted I accepted proposal and the ring but could not accept the covenant the actual wedding because it definitely wouldn't have been a marriage...we wasn't even friends just operating everyday and taking care of our children...no spiritual or emotional connection only physical sometimes because we really didn't like each other it was hard to come together in that way often too smh...I wasted so much time, I can't get back! So mad at myself, I'm trying to stop doing that to myself...from to 20 years old to almost 40 🤦🏽♀️
Future fakers also play the victim when you wise up and no longer give him or her your valuable time.
Words without actions equal empty promises . Thanks Pastor Blakes 🤍🌸
Beautiful message 💕
Some people are VERY good with flowery words. My ex being one of them.
Sadly.
My dad did this too a lot when I was younger. Like you said when he used to promise to pick me up and promise he would do better or like he always said…”it’s gonna be greater later”…later came and greater didn’t. I believe that planted a seed in my heart to settle for less in terms of a man’s effort. Thank God for your influence and your platform, thank you for showing us the truth.
My biological dad did the same thing. When Pastor RC Blakes said that, I was mind-blown. Now I know why I have settled for less. I knew it started from my childhood. Time to fully heal. The truth sets you free.
Had to learn this term the hard way. Now I have to work through not thinking everyone is full of it
Pastor RC Blake I just want to say thank you so much for your teachings. I have a different perspective about dating again. You have opened my eyes to so much about life and wishing my dad could have told me the things I so much needing to hear when I was a teenager. It's never to late!! Am 54 years young and am taking my time. The message "Women dating after 40" blessed me so. I asked the man that is interested in me 20 questions after listening to this message. Pastor Blakes everything you stated is the way he answered every question. God bless you and Lady Blakes.
Thank you Bishop for a great message, this Monday Night! Truthful and funny too! 😆 I'm thinking about this message! Future Faking is real! Like you said that a bunch of BS , Crap ! Good night to all of you 💘 🙏 ! From Greenville, SC
How is dating after 40 different from dating any other time as a single woman? I haven't had a date in literally decades. Now more than ever l can't say that l'm ready for it. Smiley face. Emoji.
Stringing people along, example "I will leave my husband /wife because you are the best thing that happened to me" .
Well those people need to be strung along because they have no business involved with someone else’s husband or wife. They deserve it & a kick in the face 🙄
@@amerokeewiya1320 their husband or wife has no business being involved with someone else first and foremost. They are the one with the commitment
When you snap out of it. The shock. Strength.. power and love..
Thank you Pastor!! The time I lost is what hurts me the most!!
Me too you are not alone I almost feel like why wasn’t I able to see he was doing this always busy, never text back always talking bout he wanted to be my companion but treats me like an option I left him alone and like a dummy was like okay he grew up he wasted more of my time the next time so I’m February I was done with it this year was a new year for me I’m 51 and I just want a man God sends not something who keeps promising stuff and never deliver and he promised me so much stuff smh so I. Understand your feeling ls Sis
@@erikaanthony2726 Our Heavenly Father is able to restore what the locust has eaten!! Stay encouraged and keep pressing forward sis! You are more than a conqueror!!✨🙌🏾❤️
I went through this with my soon to be ex husband!!!! This message was on point
I went through this with my soon to be ex-husband for 22 years finally free and it feels soooooo good 👍🏽
So Candace did you end up marrying him or move on?
Same! You finally realize that they don’t even want the life that they elude to, they are just mirroring you.
@@donnebonne Starting the process with Divorce. He has abandoned my children and feel cause he brought the washer and dryer last year he can come wash when he feels🤦♀️
You too huh sis🤔 I’m planning his exit now!
I want to join your ministry. You and your wife have been nothing but a blessing to my life. These messages have been life transformation m
Nearly 20 years of my life was wasted with a future faker. All those years wasted! Praise God I left that relationship and I met my husband who has kept every promise he made to me from Day 1.
God bless you...Pastor Blakes 📖
Pastor Blake’s I want to thank you for your work. You have really given me Fatherly advice that I never had. You’re that male voice that every girl/woman needs.
I am so Glad you are getting this out to the sisters. I lived 9 years through this. The gaslight was the worst. Driving you insane. Future faking is what totally breaks a woman's heart. Waking up to reality that your life was living a lie, with a man from Satin. The destruction of your life is all they want to do to women. As many as they can fool into their web of lies. Mine told me he is just getting better at doing what he does with each woman. He went as far as thank me for teaching him what to do to fool the next one. I took it as another nail in my coffin. God is the one who saved me from his clutches, & God is the only one who healed me. My narcissist has the Holy Bible memorized and uses it by twisting the verses to achieve his own needs. I know the Word of God myself, if not I look it up. I began to understand what he was doing. He would not take correction of the verses. He would twist them all in the deceitful way. I began to become frightful when he commanded me to declare him most high over God. Evil wrong. I got on my knees when he was out, and prayed every day to be saved from his clutches. Fearful of what was next. He worked it out for me to be imprisoned in his rented home. Broke always to not be able to escape. Deprived me of sleep, rest, food, and peace. He would not let me get away from him. Cheating on me the whole time. God saved me, & saved my soul, spirit, and life. He parted the sea for me in a way. Made the narcissist demand that I Get Out! He forgot I was there & had his new victim coming that night. I ran and did not look back one bit. Genesis 19:26. I have spent these 2 years seeking God, and his word to rehabilitate me into who I am, and who I am to be in the sight of God. I continue learning with your videos & others to educate myself. To know the evil that is lurking on the face of this Earth, and save myself & others if I can. Hosea 4:6 There is so much to learn about Narcissists. A malignant Narcissist is the worst, especially when they're drunk. They don't care what they do to others. Thank you so very much Mr. RC Blakes, and Lisa Blakes, for getting the word out. May peace be with you always. 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Alice.
I’m so sorry you went through this evilness. I too was future faked and love bombed for months by a covert Narcissist. I asked all the questions that I needed when we met years ago. He lied, lied, lied. So I finally had enough of empty promises and nothing to show especially for my birthday, which I gave him six months to prepare for. I’m currently healing and moving on
… thankful you’re not struggling with trauma bonds (aka what I call a spiritual fight for your soul to go back). I’m almost at 90 days of no contact (they say anything you do for 90 consecutive days becomes habit 🙏🏾) and the fight is suddenly REAL (which is the reason I am here watching this video)!
I appreciate your comment and reminders. May we stay lifted, protected, and favored by THE ALMIGHTY GOD. Ameen
@@desiree.517 Nowadays it's not 3 months rule, seems like a 2 year dating rule, these people are keeping ubvp a very good mask and hiding some very deep dark secrets.
@Flippy Skyline Praise Yahweh Almighty for His mercies and grace 🙏🏾 🙌🏾. So happy you escaped this bondage and you are on the way to healing and restoration!
While listening to this, I am reminded to not future fake my self.
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Awesome wisdom and advice:" 15 years of your life and you can't get it back."🤔😠😓😖😯😀
@@lala5061 that's okay, hopefully it's a part of your past now but the great thing about it like you said LESSON LEARNED.
This is an amazing topic!!!
Ok Let me say that I am just listening to that song. Father God, this song is amazing. I have told everyone to listen to it. Praise God for the message, it's needed during these times.
I’ve had to start doing this. I had someone do this to me for years. Can’t get those years back. I used to be a “nice” girl and now I’m not. I’m not here to be toyed with. Get with the program or get gone
I'm so hurt right now, because this is exactly what I'm going through 🥺🥺😭😭.
Thank you Sir. You always keep us equipped with informative stuff. You're amazing
Strongs Sis, I went through the same
You’ll come out into the sunshine!!
Praying for you
Me too, the pain is unbelievable, but my sense of virtue and my dignity are superior than that. Lord, give me the strength.
Actions speaks louder than words
Song intro is absolutely gorgeous, AND it is so healing. 😥😑😊
WOW! THIS MESSAGE HAD ME IN LAUGHTER AND TEARS!!! I HAVE EXPERIENCED A LOT OF THE MESSAGE AND LEARNING TO MOVE FORWARD AND CANCEL WHAT DOESN'T BARE FRUIT IN LIFE. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOUR MESSAGE! SO UPLIFTING, TRUTHFUL AND LIFE CHANGING! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS MAN OF GOD!!
Thank you for this message! That was my life for 20+ years! You can be married and be future faked too.
This is sounds like what I call Breadcrumbing!! When a person give you just enough to keep you around but never the full thing. Example: A person is ready to leave but here they come doing something nice to reattach you back in for a few more months.
Wow Pastor this happened to me. He made all this empty promises and never produced any of it
Bishop thank you so much for this word. I spent 11 years + 5 more years after my divorce dealing with this ugly spirit! God blessed and Superseded all of my expectations and unfulfilled desires that I never receive once ,he broke me free from the toxic relationship.I am now healthy and whole enough to say God is faithful! Amen and God bless you!🙏🏽❤️
"future faking" this term is everything! love it
This video is gold thank you pastor❤️🙏just regretting not seeing it before..is the most cruel thing a person can do to another..I can imagine how many clowns in the crowns will hate this video☺️🇬🇧🙏
"I need that steak by 7pm tonight" Love it ❤
I love that intro song, then the message after. Perfect🙂
I used to do lots of Layaway so truth Bishop you are preaching! And am shouting just as you preach ❤️🇵🇷
God is using you! You are a true vessel! Prophet RC Blakes Jr!! A spiritual Guru! Your words have power & comes straight from the Source! God Bless you! You’re the father I never had!!!
Wow this message was perfect timing this is actually happening to a friend of mine she met someone online that says everything you mentioned here i keep telling her he's building false hopes and promises which this individual did in the past with her building a fantasy i need to share this,hopefully she listens and breaks up with the man. Many woman need to hear and listen to this message thank you pastor Blakes🙏
Watched this live 11 months ago with my then ex “pastor” boyfriend. He literally got upset. And left me within a week later. After asking me that night “do you think I’m future faking”? I answered by saying “well, are you?”. I’m not even upset with him bc we all fall short. Just really revealed to me where I needed to be better in Christ alone. Til this day, I’m grateful for that very situation. Thanks Pastor Blakes! Your obedience was right on time MOG!! Prayers specifically to all Gods children, Chosen and His leaders here on earth…doing Our Fathers work!! 🙏🏾💜💯🤗
You were on my pew Pastor.. married now for only 9 months..lies and promises..and so many "l Love you's..', to follow. He had all 5 of your qualifications.. admit l was a praying person and yet l fell for the fake and that the hurtful part. Now like in a previous message you sent..out my bed and out my head. Filing for a divorce because l don't need a year to see the light..my happiness is more important. God bless you for clarifying with the Word.
If your want to get rid of time wasters and future fakers then.....
1. Put everyone on a schedule or on the clock. Let them not come up in your life without a schedule.
If you want your relationship to move to the next level you gotta put that individual on a clock. If they can't handle your clock, they ain't designed for your future.
2. Notice the short term promises that they don't fulfill. You're so busy listening to the big ones that you over look the tiny everyday things that really matter. If a person is not consistent with the small promises don't be so deceived to belive that some how they'll be able or willing to fulfill grand plans.
3. Cancel anything that does not produce fruit. Anything relationship that *future fakes* you out of your best years, cancel it. Fruit nurtures you. If you're not being nurtured by this relationship and you're holding on to these promises, cut it off.
My eyes are beginning to water as you give the Sanford&Son example, because my experience is very fresh 🥺💔 didn’t see it coming
I just lift my hands to this message. 🙌🏽
I’m re-watching this as a healthy reminder of what I came out of. It’s been 2 years and 4 months since my last long-term relationship split. I am grateful that God got me out so I could heal. Praise Jesus! Thank you Pastor RC Blake’s Jr. for helping me with your content!! You always make me laugh too!! 😂🎉❤
What a blessing !
I love the fact that the message is backed up with relevant scriptures.
I love when pastor hits the Huuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhh 😂🤣
Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for this good topic.
I had someone do this to me for years and I really trusted him he kept saying how he wanted to marry me and I waited and he never delivered this year I finally ended it because he can never do what he promised then he tried to say I am not being patient and I’m being negative I have known him 23 years when I decided to stop talking to him he started saying I’m inpatient and negative or I haven’t given him the chance I’m 51 now and I barely woke up listening to pastor RC Blakes I feel stupid but at least now I know he was just lying and wasting my time
@ Erika Anthony How dare he say that to you! He was obviously annoyed that he could no longer string you along! 😤 wish you all the best with your future ❤️
I heard that it happened to me same way blaming me all of a sudden some folks are a trip! Take care of yourself we got one life and no time to waste messing with idiots.
@@foreverfavored729 I totally agree and I thought he was the one he wasted a lot of time in my life I think once he realized I was staying celibate and it’s been 13 years he started backing up
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you are able to stay awakened to your value and standards.
@@kristelwalton3141 it is okay I rather wait for who God has for me
Oh how I lived this for almost 6 years. Narcissist one thousand percent. I so appreciate you pastor you’ve taught me so much
Pastor you are such a blessing to a generation of women. Your wisdom and anointing from God is not like any other Pastor I have come across. I am very selective who I choose to let pour into me and I listen to. Thank you for what you and Lady Lisa are doing for women. I love to hear when she comes on the channel as well, even though it’s not much, with so much wisdom from her experiences that I can relate so much to as well. I have been listening to you well over a year now and you have helped in my process of evolving in my womanhood. Thank you.
Thank you so much for the prayer😥
It was beautiful. I am currently on week three of the silent treatment and being blocked from my narcissistic fiance. He is staying 6 miles at his shop and I'm in my home with our cat. We have been together 6 years and I have been future faked the entire time. I have been raged at for asking questions, ghosted, gaslight, mentally disturbed and emotionally destroyed over the course of the years. I'm seeing this "punishment" for what it is now and not allowing myself to take the blame. I am on my journey of moving on and realizing he will never change. I know he will try to come back but now I know I can't ever take him back. I'm 33 with no kids and never been married and he knew I wanted those things so badly. Some days I feel so confident I can do this and some days I have floods of things come back to me that I forced myself to forget in order to make the relationship work. I know this is going to be a long process of healing. What hurts worse is that before we dated he was friends with so many members of my family including me. 15. Years I thought I knew this person. And now I know him as the most toxic person I have ever come across. It is truly disheartening
Just love your music!! There's a message in the music!! Thank you, Bishop Blakes.
What’s the title of the song please?
@@beeo8389 she by David hollister
Managers, Landlord's...Families and siblings do this too..
It's a narcissistic technique gaslighting at its best.
Such great words of wisdom as usual!! I love tuning in to your sermons, which have definitely been a blessing!! There are very few ministers who talk about real issues related to relationships and marriage, and I greatly appreciate you!!
BISHOP( in my loud voice), you are hilarious 😂. You imitate those men so well. That's exactly what they say to pull you in and keep you trapped. The Layaway analogy was spot on. I'm waaaayyyyy to intelligent now to fall for this game, but I WISH to GOD I knew this looooonnnnng ago. Thank you. Massachusetts ❤️
He has just made it clear...thank you.
I have been listening to you for over 5 years. Sir, this is the best message you have ever delivered.
Always set boundaries with user friendly people
These painful experiences are very much real and painful. It is such a dishonour and humiliation to 'fake' a life they know you earnestly desire. This can hurt to the core but we can't afford to stay in a broken state. It's time to heal. Time to break those chains of captivity and be free enough to soar to new heights. Let's start with forgiveness. Forgive them. Forgive ourselves. Heal those wounds. Please check out the book '12 Fundamental Truths about Forgiveness'. It's very liberating. With love. x
Yes Forgive them, But please do not allow more abusive treatment because it will be evan worse!. My Mum prayed my Dad would treat her right or leave!x sobbed on the phone to me,to pray. I DIDN'T TELL HER, I got up early x prayer walked, Monday, Tuesday,Wednesday She phoned
,, he had took all her retirement money ,x She said she dosnt care! Because she's free!. But years later , I met my dad! He was such a polite shy gentleman.x I loved him. X he loved me x said I was a wonderful daughter, but he wanted me to take mum's place!.she was Housebound 27 years.because she was Astoundingly Beautiful.x a virtuous Woman,x no visitors allowed or Any basic human rights!. Family meant everything to me. Now I know that I can only rely on God's Promises. When My car was trashed by Drunk drivers. X I saw that rainbow where I used to park my Car, I knew God would supply a new Car! X He did. X He will restore all the years! I I learned to turn the stray away, only help those who really need it,not fake ones!.
Yes u woke me up even better Thank u Reverend 💓 Blake keep it coming😇💙
Layaway…that’s a great analogy!!!
I absolutely love this. I heard this at the perfect time . Thank you!
This is a beautiful song honoring the Women of God. Thank you!
Who sings it?
@@tbri5852 Dave hollister she
Thanks for this episode. I was married to a future fake 12 years. God opened my eyes and I divorced that dead weight. Thank you Lord for mercy and grace.
To Bishop Blakes:thank you for all the wisdom.🙏🙏
These are conversations every dad, uncle ad brother should have with their little princesses.
This was right on time. Thanks Pastor, I definitely needed this reminder. God bless!
Wonderful sermon. Learned so much and was reminded of so much. Sometimes it's good to listen to talks that you assume you already know all there is to know. I am refreshed! ❤️
Awesome message. Always a great Word in due season! Thank you so much, Pastor Blakes. God bless you, your family and your ministry.
Thanks Bishop R.C. Blakes for enriching and impacting my life and so many others that listened. Gods'blessings I bid you 😘😇
Thankyòu so much. I Love what you have said. Especially your prayer. Reminding me God will restore the years
This song in the beginning makes me cry… tears of joy and realization of who I am as a woman!!! Because u r right those wrong men… try to devalue u …
I feel like this video was made for me everything you talking about describe him as a person. Thank you so much 🙏
That blankety, blank blank. At the end of the day they will pay. Vengeance belongs to the Lord. I kept my hand in God's hand throughout it all and God said, "ok that's enough". And just like that it was was over. All praises to the King of Kings and Lord of Lord's. Amen.
Yall needa run the likes up on this! I know I ain't the only one watching this a screaming as he describes encounters with these scammers 😂
Thank you pastor RC Blakes for the enlightenment. Tired of the expert future fakers, scammers, life/ timewasters, and tricksters. When you mentioned simple style but no substance. Don't want no profile. Will continue to wait on the Lord
4 Minutes of Musical Affirmation...my God. Thank you Gentlemen.💙👑
Thank you so much I’m just cried and know it’s time.
Pastor Blake’s I had to watch this twice. I recently went through this. Future faking my birthday trips and gifts. Wasting my time. Now with all this knowledge I will NOT be deceived no more. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
SO POWERFUL!!! God bless you and Lady Blakes. LOVE YA'LL...
Yes, we all have been there. Always watch what they do not what they say.
Sir… I can’t thank you enough for helping us women to be set free. The Lord truly uses you to help us. I’ve been with this guy almost a year and from the beginning I let him know where I stood as far as being in a serious Godly relationship. He won and has strung me along ….. awful . But, I’m a little stuck in this relationship ( after the fact) he sure has led me on soooo bad… he’s a trio!
What A Blessing! AMEN! Thank You For Sharing This Message Brother Blake, Be Blessed Abundantly! ❤️🙏🏾🙌🏾🕊
Oh my! This topic was very enlightening! it’s hard for a lot of us to accept because if we be honest with ourselves at some point in time we’ve been through this or we’re in this situation now. Everything that you have stated is actually the God’s honest truth! When you know better prayerfully🙏🏾 people will do better.
Amen Amen, exactly when? Trying not to become pessimistic and lose hope again and yes no one will play with my time. Hallelujah Hallelujah
I put everyone on a clock including myself!! Future fakers in my life caused me to future fake myself and others. Trust the recovery process and work towards regaining your name and creditability.
Thats a beautiful picture of you and your wife. I absolutely love it! ❤️
God bless you Bishop R.C Blakes. You are a blessing. Many thanks
It's called they constantly moving shifting the goal post!
Thank you Pastor for another powerful message!!
Thank you Bishop Blakes for your stellar video ministry!! I wish this could have been filmed years ago as it would have saved me from some hanky experiences. However, future faking is also when someone has a PhD in stringing you along, which applies to ‘friends’, employers, and dating.
Thank you so much Daddy dearest, this was soooo good. A word is enough for the wise....
Wasted Time is like wasted money.its all about knowing what you want.
Great word! Thank you 🙏🏾