2:38 Watch your tone 4:39 Choose tender gentleness 6:18 Say no to vulgarity 8:06 Learn to say no 10:55 Expand your vocabulary 12:31 Be quick to listen & slow to speak Thank you 🥰
I’m not Christian but I really admire how you value your religion and it’s teaching all while respecting everyone’s beliefs. I think that is so elegant and beautiful.
How to walk. What to do with our hands when listening to someone speak, when both of you are standing. How feet should be positioned while standing. I'm fine while sitting as my body is at rest. An easy knee together hand ontop of the other is natural. However when I stand, I'm fidgeting with my hands and feet and thinking and worrying about if I'm looking ok. Is this hand position ok or does it make me look uncomfortable? Toes out ? Toes straight?
Taylor hi Taylor :) Id love to make a few suggestions to help! First, when someone’s speaking to you, a smile and eye contact will radiate femininity and sweetness ☺️ as for hands then, they could be clasped in front of you (in front of your hips for example), or even clasped behind you will give off a very feminine and girly vibe when a man is speaking to you. When you are the one speaking, allow your body to be relaxed and use your hands to gesticulate along with your words, as you see Caitlyn doing in her videos. Just remember, if you feel uncomfortable, people will be too focused on your eye contact and smile/expressions for them to be focused on your hands if you are fidgety ☺️ and in case you are nervous, don’t worry if you do fidget, especially if a guy likes you then seeing you being a bit nervous will be very endearing to him.
@@tayashley3539 I think Cynthia L has made a video on this on her channel. However let me try and help. First when standing avoid standing on both your feet. Now don't keep on shuffling your weight. Learn what feet angles work for you. Express yourself with them, yes there is something like that. As for your hands ideally they should be in front of you. Imagine yourself holding an imaginary clutch infront of you at full arm length. If standing when talking to someone keep in mind that how much of yourself you show it indicates attention (I hope that is understood the way I meant it). In listening eye contact and less movement...or to be honest just pay attention body language will come.
I was raised and grew up very feminine, classy and friendly. I did notice that some times people men/ women would take my tenderness and femininity as a sign of being "easy" or "dumb". I learned how to be firm and correct them on the spot right away. I am firm when I need to. Could you please do books review and share with us your favorite books?
You don’t wanna “push” femininity and firmness. It comes out as “b**chy” One big factor in being firm and feminine is not talking too much garbage and nonsense. Talk when you need to and say important things...that way people actually pay more attention when you speak. You also don’t want *attention* you want respect. So do what it takes to be respected...wear proper clothing, respect others, and most of all be a godly woman.
Bee B I love it, Bee. I feel a lot of us ladies can relate to what you said. Part of tht, which you ans is about using your words to convey tenderness, however, let the gentleness also demonstrate a confidence. I feel ppl can tell the difference between being kind or timid. I also had to learn how to speak gently without coming across this way. One, is to find your voice like clearly pronounce words. Speak with conviction every time while still maintaining a calm tone
My grandmother always told me to save cursing for when you really meant it. She almost never cursed unless she was VERY angry (which I only saw once) , and because of that, it had a much more cutting effect when she did. I do this as well 😂
But even when angry we should take the time to think before a quick reaction. Yelling and cursing never solves any problems if anything its just causes more conflict. Being in the heat of a moment can make us not think properly. Always ask yourself is what I'm about to say, going to help me or the other person in any form.❤️
I have never seen my grandmother argue with anyone, not even once in my whole life. May she forever rest in peace. I always thought she made people walk over her, but I only realized how smart she really was when she died.
@@soapy2587 It lets me down a little bit when a youtuber who usually doesn't use profanity all of a sudden does. I admire people who dont swear because it shows their maturity and wisdom.
I’m so glad you touched on the topic of being tender and gentle when you are SAFE. you’re 110% right this isn’t a utopia there will always be someone with cruel intentions...and safety is always a top priority.💕
Yes, very important. An ex tricked me out of my money and I can't help but speak in a very low growl around this person. With new men I sound like bluebirds are circling me.
*Also, when a woman admires a man, she automatically heightens her voice pitch.* Femininity lies within every woman, it just needs some nurture and cultivating to explore it even more.
@@autumnspring6624 No one in their right mind is to listen to a person who is so intolerant of other religons and bashes them just to prove that my faith is the absolute correct one . Thankyou ,but no .
Same here. I've been told numerous times I need to be more aggressive and not as soft and gentle. Otherwise people dont take me seriously esp in the work place.
I love how you indirectly address the toxic femininity when we have a hard time setting boundaries and saying no. I've noticed myself dumbing myself down to make people feel better about themselves, and that's not fair to me or to anybody. Once I understood what selfesteem and self care was all about, I've gotten better at not being afraid to show my intelligence and savoir faire. I love channels like this where we can learn how to be strong feminine women.
SHE SPEAKS SOOOOOO!!!!BEAUTIFULLY!!!!🌸❤🌸 Isn't it something that our mothers grandmothers great grandmothers etc knew all this deeply and inherently within....but sadly... it's very needed that women hear this now, especially younger generations of women.
Real Talk. I appreciate and respect any girl who speaks with that type of tenderness, calmness and care. I wouldn't even be able to get angry in a heated discussion, where I know I was obviously wrong. I'll just take the "L" and correct my mistake... It's definitely a trait that many men secretly look for in a woman but don't often find. Nowadays many woman have lost these qualities, it's a shame. I went on a blind date once. I met a girl who acted too much like a guy. Really didn't vibe for me. She was kind and pretty. But... Nahh (For Me.) The behaviour, It doesn't connect. After some time in a ok conversation, dinner and laughing. I just nervously smiled at her and said, "Aight, man. I gotta go." Yes. I actually used the term "Man." 😖 Real Talk it wasn't intentional. I guess My mind just couldn't find any feminine nurturing qualities in her.
@@afearfuljeffrey9478 And where did I go wrong there?... Because I said "Aight, Man I'm out." At the end of the date?... She likes to act like a guy so I treated her like a guy. I'm not going to judge her. she can act however she wants to and I will treat her according to her behaviour. Yh, I don't vibe with woman that act like guys, but doesn't mean I don't talk to them and befriend them. But to date, no not my thing. I leave that for for guys that vibe w that. I'm not one of em. Am I therefore wrong for having my own preference regarding woman's behaviour?... People like what they like, and don't what they don't like. She acted like a "Bro" throughout the whole date, so I treat her like a Bro, throughout the whole date. What's the problem? Maybe, by the way how I explained It you thought I left in the middle of the conversation and said: "Aight' Man I'm Out." No, I did not leave her hanging. We finished the blind date and I went my way. So how is that, as you put it: "Messed up of me." please, explain.
I am muslim, and Mohammad pbuh said that every person who acts and speaks soft, kind and good, the hellfire will not touch him. I searched for how to be that way and i opened your video, and i loved it💖💖 thank you so much sis
May peace be upon you my dear muslim sisters 🌹 Hold to your chastity and virtue which represent the real (nowadays forgotten) beauty of femininity. 🌹 hold upon your religion very well and learn the wise teachings of the prophet (عليه الصلاة والسلام ) and his wives(رضي الله عنهن ) and that is the way to success in this life and in the afterlife.
I cannot thank God enough for such an encouragement like you. I don't hear women talk about this topic, and it is a very important subject that I, myself, need. I grew up with very sweet brothers, but I still didn't have many feminine role models in my life. As I grew up, I felt insecure and afraid of being called girly and that masculine behavior was the only rational way to act. I believed that enjoying feminine projects and hobbies were impractical and not important. Thankfully, I now have learned how femininity has such importance and power in this world; feminity has so much influence in culture, society, and relationship connections. I am honored to be a female created by God and am passionate to explore even more of the feminity with which God has gifted me.
I 100% agree with all of this. I wish it had more views. I'm tired of being the only woman that embraces her own femininity. When did it become a bad thing to be a woman? I've felt very alone but it's nice to find videos like this and know that I'm not the only woman that feels as if femininity is important. One of the keys to life. It's what balances the world. So do men. We have our own roles and we should embrace them! Great video!
@@homosexualitymydearwatson4109 You do you, OP does OP. Thats the great thing about our modern times, we can do what we want, and have our own values. Personally I love being feminine.
I needed this video. Being in a competitive career and in pursuit of entrepreneurship can cause you to navigate communication in all arenas of life with an overtly assertive tone and defensive ear. Om truly feminine in appearance, but I can definitely be softer in communicating my needs and desires within a relationship. Thank you for this video.
That must be tough! but I'm glad you strike a balance unfortunately, in this society some people view femininity as weakness. I struggle with dealing w the world as an independent woman and not being' ran over' but still being feminine in my tone.
I'm also trying to embrace my femininity more. Your channel has been helpful to me in that aspect. Personally one thing I've stopped doing is cursing, it's hard and sometimes if I'm upset I slipp up. I am just an honest and direct person so it can be a challenge from time to time. My father would always tell me that women shouldn't curse and I think he is right. A clean gentle language is more feminine.
I love that you highlighted, a moment to pause. That is very important especially today. Sadly, I have seen too many adults become over emotional when speaking in public to other adults or during a conversation.
2022 Update: I decided to completely delete what I said because I just don’t even want that rhetoric out there anymore. Just be yourself! Authenticity is beautiful! BIPOC women are beautiful! And this youtuber’s beliefs that she expresses on other social media platforms are not okay with me.
Amen me too but Im white lol. I was a tomboy as a kid and never got lady lessons although I try to be.. The voice pitching is so important and I get it now.. I think im gonna practice this. Having inner joy and happiness of the Lord is key to keep us from worldly behavior.
Ade V Look up being "frank" instead of being "blunt" (sorry I had some difficulties in wording this well lol). It has helped me immensely in approaching situations where I feel the need to be blunt!
Sometimes I wonder if you were this elegant and graceful even in your teenage years.Any woman would have something to learn from you,because your soul is old,honey.
I love the way you expressed our non- Christian sisters! How beautiful. I will use that. I am a Christian as well and I have many non-Christian friends and family. They are just as wonderful and precious as my Christian family and friends. Loving and valuing others is paramount.😊 this entire video is great. You are an amazing person!
ugh i LOVE how careful, fair and inclusive you are. and it's in a way that doesn't seem passive or patronizing, like it comes to you with grace and genuine care!! this video was pleasantly really wonderful, even to someone like me who is very new to this stuff. :')
I myself do not speak very femininely at all but still found this video quite interesting to watch and get to know a different perspective😊, thanks for sharing🤗❤️
God bless you sister. These are good points; thank you for sharing! One place that you may want to reconsider, is the part you mentioned about hook-ups. The word of God commands us to expose the works of darkness, we should not condone them. (Ephesians 5:11). Although some of your followers may not be believers, it’s important to be a light to them and not let them think that lifestyles such as hook ups are good or okay. Or else why would they want to become a Christian if we talk about sins as if they’re alright? God wants to be a light! Being a light involves scattering darkness. Christ loved sinners, yes, but He never spoke of any sin as if it were okay to do in the first place. God bless you. I felt to share this. I appreciate your channel, but when we say we’re Christians, we must be true to the whole Word of God. Be blessed.
it is my firm belief that if everyone talked like this... (Men n women both) We would solve 99% of the worlds problem regarding ego, war, prejudice and hostility.... What a wonderful world that'll be. Kudos for making this!
I just came home after a test in the university, I'm very glad to find a new video !! I really enjoy your content and it has been very helpful, thank you very much for everything.
Thank you for covering this topic. I appreciate you going more in depth than just 'pitch your voice higher' etc. I was so happy to see that you uploaded this today, I got to watch it on my meal break.
I'm have been going through so many videos, at last i found what i actually wanted. There are so many videos for men to train their voice to sound attractive, polite, gentle and confident. Finally, found for women. ❤❤
Love your character and your videos! Can you do a video about feminine way of walking and moving, as well as body language and gesticualtion? I would love to hear your opinion on this topic. Kisses ❤️
I am so glad you are talking about eliminating vulgar language. It is the biggest turn off and is very low class. The more we can raise our vibrations with our speech the better off we are and those close to us.
I would love to see a video discussing advice on how the young girly girls can work towards transitioning to women. Something I feel like I struggle with as I do tend to think of myself as mature in many ways, however in many others I still feel as though I still project myself as a young girl instead of a woman. In many ways I still feel like a young girl and I'm not sure where to start in growing towards that 'feminine woman' goal..... Love your channel and all your helpful advice!!
I found a UA-cam video of a deaf woman talking about her deafness and I was so mesmerized by how she spoke. Very articulate and soft. I wanted to replicate that but I think it would be too great of a change for me; the people around me would think I was being fake. And I quickly forgot to speak that way later in the day. I love your video and will be rewatching it to remind myself of these tips. They seem less extreme so people won't think I'm being fake! I also love the point about how our speech reflects what we've been watching and reading.
I hope you don’t operate. Please do your research. You don’t want hair growing inside your fake vagina causing infections which could end up killing you. What you truly need is therapy. It’s what lies inside of you that needs to change and accept who you are which is just a feminine man. We are all on a spectrum of masculinity and femininity. This obsession with identity, labels, and unnecessary strict adherence to male/female roles has led us here. It is a mental health disorder that needs mental help therapy.
Or, as we just learned: "Please would you be so kind to make a book recommendation list?" Just joking 😇😉 But YES that's an awesome idea! I would like that so much as well 😍
hi caitlyn! i'm a senior in high school and honestly finding your channel has been so helpful to me as i try to become more mature in my everyday life! :) i'm a feminist and i think your message is SO amazing and anyone who tries to bring you down doesn't have the interests of all women in mind. lots of love from the east coast xx
I was in a camp where I acted so sweet towards everyone in the camp including the facies, an at the end of the camp on of the facies asked for my number, I should’ve sense it the moment where he started to used cheesy words at me too often. I was so afraid because I was all alone with him at that time and couldn’t built my strengths to say NO. At that moment I knew that I need to learn how to be famines and but yet strong. You have help me lot during the process of me being STRONGER. Thanks a lot dear.💖💖
Your channel has everything I have been searching for months in other keywords. It’s only last night I found the right word and found your channel. I’ve been binge watching your Videos since then. I’m getting married in 5 days and your advises are all i needed from a matured friend ❤️🎀
THANK YOU! I used to be a girly-girl until I decided to become cold and perhaps masculine to endure what I went through. And I kept telling myself that I will so easily switch to being feminine when I went through all that I did, but I realized recently that life is a journey. So I am trying to exude my femininity even to people who do not deserve that from me, and behaving modestly as I transition into my womanhood. Thank you again so much because I will be implementing everything that I took away from this video. :)
An exceptionally powerful learning tool is watching your videos. Thank you! Beautiful video as always. I would love if you would do another video catered to a younger audience, very nice to see that! You are a gentle inspiration, love.
✨You should seriously consider writing self-help books in this area. I've been taking notes on a lot of your "lady like" videos and seriously feel like I can't learn enough, lol. Keep up the good work!✨
In the last few years I've started making an effort to be more feminine, after a lifetime of being a tomboy. I'll never give up long hikes and weightlifting, but now I wear dresses and makeup and try to act more feminine. Just found your channel and love the way you present this topic! I'm going to he watching a lot more of your vids!
This was the first video of yours that I saw. It hurt me at the time because I knew how far off I was. I have watched so many of your others now that my heart was primed for this one 😂 I have a lot to go...but I’m so grateful for your willingness to share and guide us on this journey.
I love all your points! I think that refraining from being the center of attention all the time, interrupting, and overusing words like "um" and "like" can be included in feminine speaking as well. Thanks for another great video :)
I’m really happy you made this video. I have a really bad sailor mouth and listening to you has really inspired me to try to change that. However I find is so difficult when I’m talking to my friends to not fall into using the same vernacular as them!! Or to control my language when I’m upset
Oh my goodness I am a Speech Language Pathologist. I hope one day my daughter will be as eloquent as you are. At 10 she is inspired by Anne of Green Gables and loves the descriptive multi syllabic words. I got some great tips in your video ❤️
@@brittanysmith3716 Yes, a true feminine woman will allow her husband to freely squirt his seed inside her. A real woman will be fruitful and birth his children. It's the only way to be truly feminine in a marriage.
I'm not quite sure how I came across your channel but I loved it! I love being feminine, I love everything about the topic and I loved all the videos I watched from you so far. I'm looking forward to the next one already!
Omg I’ve been waiting on this video! I was thinking about my speech yesterday and I was like how do you carry a feminine way of speech? Mine is definitely super masculine so I’m trying to refine it. Thanks for this video!
Can you make a video on how to be able to embrace your femininity in the workplace without being disrespected? I work in a male-dominated field, and I love fashion/makeup, but I also have a very happy-go-lucky personality, and when the women are too sweet, the men sexualize us or tell us we are too sweet/weak to be taken seriously. Do you have any advice?
I get it, I've been trying really hard to be more mature. I have been trying to be more aware of the way I communicate and intercept information without letting an emotion over ride the communication. However, being able to calmly express my feelings appropriatly and when it is an appropriate time to talk about certain things aswell. My goal is to also to be able to keep certain information to myself and feel like I must not talk about every detail in my life to someone, it's okay to handle things on your own. And CONFIDENCE!
If sounding more feminine isn't something you're used to it may feel fake. For example, trying to do something new in front of an audience can make you hyper aware of your inexperience. It doesn't make you a fraud though, just a novice. Practice makes perfect, practice until it feels more natural. Hope this was helpful!
I identify with this issue. I support your quest to keep cultivating that feminity. It's there! We just have to get in tune with it. I feel the EXACT same way. It's scary stepping out, trying to venture into a more nuturing mindset, especially if people hold old habits against you. But keep speaking life over yourself and remember the treasure that lies within you. I am instructing myself as well. I feel that I sometimes sound fake because anxiety prompts me to act right away and "prove" that I am feminine, whether it be speaking in a high pitched tone or trying to soften my usually brash voice, it can get discouraging sometimes. I think we have to remember that before the world told us who we were or how to be a "strong" woman, we were and are beautiful, nurturing, sweet, tender and capable young ladies and women, worthy of respect and love. We are allowed to make mistakes in the process of being refined. And there is always room to grow... for all. Do not let people box you in with those accusations of " being fake". Nor let yourself stop your progress. We can do this. I pray that God sends us friends to surround us and help instill courage in us to get further in touch with or feminity and be who we are. God bless you, Sister.
So filled with joy & gratitude over finding this 🕊️ I’m seeking to increase the creativity in my communication (verbal, written, & body language) w/o being crass, vulgar or unladylike. Be more subtle & less blunt. I was a total loner so I didn’t pick up on social nuances of relationships & conversation. At middle age I get to begin again! Both a blessing & and a challenge. Your channel is the most helpful in that process. Thank you. With all of my heart, may God bless you & yours 🙏 🕊️
Thank you mrs. Midwest as a mom of 3 daughters and 1 son this is so needed for me i appreciate you💖 Edit: is there any way you could make a video about difficult people? I have people in my life that are harsh/vulgar humor, also someone who is flirtacious/feminine in a manipulative way. I just thought i would throw that out there 🤷🏼♀️ thank you if you read this
So happy I found your channel. I'm currently preparing myself for a 13 week deployment and will be housed with three women, colleages and roommates in EMS. It's hard to still be feminine in boots but you have helped guide me to still be myself.
I love this series! Femininity i noticed is often overlooked. It takes time to cultivate the women we are designed to be. And listening to your videos are truly helpful to this growing process that i am in.
I love the topics you address in this video ❤️ My articulation is definitely something I need to be more aware of, and you give some great tips to help me improve! So happy this video popped into my recommend this morning. I subscribed! 🙏
I cannot get enough of your videos. growing up with parents that demanded we say good morning, afternoon etc. A house hold where you used words to Express your feelings and you have manners and were polite. Grandparents were loved and respected and girls behave like well girls. We were tough to speak softly no swearing. I didnt own a pair of pants until I was 12 years old.
OMG I love you Ms. Midwest you are the female role model I’ve been searching for! Thank you for taking the time to make this video! Also you look like Princess Aurora. So happy to have found your beautiful channel cuz you speak about boundaries. S Awesome 🌸
In a world that has embraced Hip Hop and rap culture your video on femininity is long overdue. Being feminine is a lost art these days. Young ladies these days are not being taught how to act like a lady. Young girls today watch these hip hop rap videos and they see the girls in those videos and think that that's what it takes to get a man. Thank you for making this video, this video should be shown to every girl in high school. In fact femininity and etiquette should be taught in high school.
Yes I agree with the tone and language being soft and kind. But I want my hubby to do the same for me. Been trying to educate him on this very subject of tone and language in the way he communicates with me. It should not only be us women who should speak gentle, fairly and kindly. We want our husbands to do the same for us as well. We all deserve to be communicated with gently and with love.
I am SO happy that you chose this topic for a video! I have been searching for information on how to speak in a feminine way for such a long time and there is really a lack of videos on UA-cam about it! Ironically all I could ever find were videos made for gay men that were transitioning into females :/Thank you for speaking on this
2:38 Watch your tone
4:39 Choose tender gentleness
6:18 Say no to vulgarity
8:06 Learn to say no
10:55 Expand your vocabulary
12:31 Be quick to listen & slow to speak
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رزان محمد Thank you!
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She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. Proverbs 31:26
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Rebel Rose this scripture is why I came here❤️
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I’m not Christian but I really admire how you value your religion and it’s teaching all while respecting everyone’s beliefs. I think that is so elegant and beautiful.
I agree. I love that about her and want to be that way also.
In this occasion, we request "feminine body language" video 😊😊😊
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How to walk. What to do with our hands when listening to someone speak, when both of you are standing. How feet should be positioned while standing.
I'm fine while sitting as my body is at rest. An easy knee together hand ontop of the other is natural. However when I stand, I'm fidgeting with my hands and feet and thinking and worrying about if I'm looking ok. Is this hand position ok or does it make me look uncomfortable? Toes out ? Toes straight?
Taylor hi Taylor :) Id love to make a few suggestions to help! First, when someone’s speaking to you, a smile and eye contact will radiate femininity and sweetness ☺️ as for hands then, they could be clasped in front of you (in front of your hips for example), or even clasped behind you will give off a very feminine and girly vibe when a man is speaking to you. When you are the one speaking, allow your body to be relaxed and use your hands to gesticulate along with your words, as you see Caitlyn doing in her videos. Just remember, if you feel uncomfortable, people will be too focused on your eye contact and smile/expressions for them to be focused on your hands if you are fidgety ☺️ and in case you are nervous, don’t worry if you do fidget, especially if a guy likes you then seeing you being a bit nervous will be very endearing to him.
@@tayashley3539 I think Cynthia L has made a video on this on her channel.
However let me try and help. First when standing avoid standing on both your feet. Now don't keep on shuffling your weight. Learn what feet angles work for you. Express yourself with them, yes there is something like that. As for your hands ideally they should be in front of you. Imagine yourself holding an imaginary clutch infront of you at full arm length.
If standing when talking to someone keep in mind that how much of yourself you show it indicates attention (I hope that is understood the way I meant it). In listening eye contact and less movement...or to be honest just pay attention body language will come.
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I was raised and grew up very feminine, classy and friendly. I did notice that some times people men/ women would take my tenderness and femininity as a sign of being "easy" or "dumb". I learned how to be firm and correct them on the spot right away. I am firm when I need to.
Could you please do books review and share with us your favorite books?
Agreed! Would appreciate that as well :)
Am working on being firm, it’s a hard one for me
Can you please shine light on how you get people to take you seriously? Sometimes I have to deepen my voice so people can take me seriously 😒
You don’t wanna “push” femininity and firmness. It comes out as “b**chy”
One big factor in being firm and feminine is not talking too much garbage and nonsense. Talk when you need to and say important things...that way people actually pay more attention when you speak. You also don’t want *attention* you want respect. So do what it takes to be respected...wear proper clothing, respect others, and most of all be a godly woman.
Bee B I love it, Bee. I feel a lot of us ladies can relate to what you said. Part of tht, which you ans is about using your words to convey tenderness, however, let the gentleness also demonstrate a confidence. I feel ppl can tell the difference between being kind or timid. I also had to learn how to speak gently without coming across this way. One, is to find your voice like clearly pronounce words. Speak with conviction every time while still maintaining a calm tone
My grandmother always told me to save cursing for when you really meant it. She almost never cursed unless she was VERY angry (which I only saw once) , and because of that, it had a much more cutting effect when she did. I do this as well 😂
coffeeismyjam People tell me they never hear me cursing but when I do it’s because I am extremely mad and they take me more seriously 😂
But even when angry we should take the time to think before a quick reaction. Yelling and cursing never solves any problems if anything its just causes more conflict. Being in the heat of a moment can make us not think properly. Always ask yourself is what I'm about to say, going to help me or the other person in any form.❤️
I have never seen my grandmother argue with anyone, not even once in my whole life. May she forever rest in peace. I always thought she made people walk over her, but I only realized how smart she really was when she died.
coffeeismyjam this works on youtubers as well. my favourite youtubers don't curse usually and when they do I'm like 😳😳😳😳😳 and lowkey it's kinda hot
@@soapy2587 It lets me down a little bit when a youtuber who usually doesn't use profanity all of a sudden does. I admire people who dont swear because it shows their maturity and wisdom.
I’m so glad you touched on the topic of being tender and gentle when you are SAFE.
you’re 110% right this isn’t a utopia there will always be someone with cruel intentions...and safety is always a top priority.💕
I loved her talking about it! there is always someone who sees how polite and kind you are and want to take advantage of it somehow
Yes, very important. An ex tricked me out of my money and I can't help but speak in a very low growl around this person. With new men I sound like bluebirds are circling me.
*Also, when a woman admires a man, she automatically heightens her voice pitch.*
Femininity lies within every woman, it just needs some nurture and cultivating to explore it even more.
Mine goes lower though. It's the opposite for me. LOLOL
Wrong. I don't heighten mine. It stays the same.
True. I notice it too, but my voice also becomes quiter.. which is is annoying because I already speak quietly to begin with.
What do you mean by high pitch voice?
When when are Ovulating most voices become a little higher 😄💖
As a muslim woman, I really appreciate your channel. Thank you for being you ❤
Tiffany Serina exactly ❤️
Yes ❤❤
@@Anson-x no I have always been a muslim alhamdoulilah and you?
Tiffany Serina As a muslim woman, you would appreciate this video on youtube titled: Three Quran Verses Every Woman Should Know
@@autumnspring6624 No one in their right mind is to listen to a person who is so intolerant of other religons and bashes them just to prove that my faith is the absolute correct one .
Thankyou ,but no .
Its about time someone included the being taking advantage part. This has always been my drawback from communicating femininely
8D forever, yes we must stay wise and safe! 🌸
Same here. I've been told numerous times I need to be more aggressive and not as soft and gentle. Otherwise people dont take me seriously esp in the work place.
Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength.
A famous and lovely quote.
I love how you indirectly address the toxic femininity when we have a hard time setting boundaries and saying no. I've noticed myself dumbing myself down to make people feel better about themselves, and that's not fair to me or to anybody. Once I understood what selfesteem and self care was all about, I've gotten better at not being afraid to show my intelligence and savoir faire. I love channels like this where we can learn how to be strong feminine women.
Slowing down and speaking slower and listening has helped me so much!
Lauren Hill omg same with me :)
I am learning that
SHE SPEAKS SOOOOOO!!!!BEAUTIFULLY!!!!🌸❤🌸
Isn't it something that our mothers grandmothers great grandmothers etc knew all this deeply and inherently within....but sadly... it's very needed that women hear this now, especially younger generations of women.
Real Talk. I appreciate and respect any girl who speaks with that type of tenderness, calmness and care. I wouldn't even be able to get angry in a heated discussion, where I know I was obviously wrong. I'll just take the "L" and correct my mistake... It's definitely a trait that many men secretly look for in a woman but don't often find.
Nowadays many woman have lost these qualities, it's a shame. I went on a blind date once. I met a girl who acted too much like a guy. Really didn't vibe for me. She was kind and pretty. But... Nahh (For Me.) The behaviour, It doesn't connect. After some time in a ok conversation, dinner and laughing. I just nervously smiled at her and said, "Aight, man. I gotta go."
Yes. I actually used the term "Man." 😖 Real Talk it wasn't intentional. I guess My mind just couldn't find any feminine nurturing qualities in her.
The 7th Seven that’s pretty messed up of you
@@afearfuljeffrey9478 And where did I go wrong there?... Because I said "Aight, Man I'm out." At the end of the date?... She likes to act like a guy so I treated her like a guy. I'm not going to judge her. she can act however she wants to and I will treat her according to her behaviour. Yh, I don't vibe with woman that act like guys, but doesn't mean I don't talk to them and befriend them. But to date, no not my thing. I leave that for for guys that vibe w that. I'm not one of em.
Am I therefore wrong for having my own preference regarding woman's behaviour?... People like what they like, and don't what they don't like. She acted like a "Bro" throughout the whole date, so I treat her like a Bro, throughout the whole date. What's the problem?
Maybe, by the way how I explained It you thought I left in the middle of the conversation and said: "Aight' Man I'm Out." No, I did not leave her hanging. We finished the blind date and I went my way.
So how is that, as you put it: "Messed up of me." please, explain.
I'm sooo reactive and sometimes even aggressive...God knows how I'm trying to change. Thanks for the tips
trying to change is an admirable quality
Queren M you got this. It will just click one day. 🥰
Me too girl
Same here. I always bark first then ask question wks later or months because I keep things for very long but I want to start work on it
Same!!
I am muslim, and Mohammad pbuh said that every person who acts and speaks soft, kind and good, the hellfire will not touch him. I searched for how to be that way and i opened your video, and i loved it💖💖 thank you so much sis
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So sweet! I’m sure you are a lovely girl.
I'm also muslim ,I love this video too! 💖
May peace be upon you my dear muslim sisters 🌹 Hold to your chastity and virtue which represent the real (nowadays forgotten) beauty of femininity. 🌹 hold upon your religion very well and learn the wise teachings of the prophet (عليه الصلاة والسلام ) and his wives(رضي الله عنهن ) and that is the way to success in this life and in the afterlife.
Believe in Jesus' sacrifice for your soul ❤
Can you do a video on how to cultivate patience? ❤️
Pretty Pls !!
That's a good topic!!
@laylac - going through infertility for 6.5 years cultivated so much patience in me.
DBND try dr sebi suplements .. i think they will help
"Tone of voice isn't very life-giving". Wow, that really summed up the power of communication femininely. That's so well put. Great video.
Hey, I’m a muslim and you have done really great work mrs midwest. I love it! Keep going.
I cannot thank God enough for such an encouragement like you. I don't hear women talk about this topic, and it is a very important subject that I, myself, need.
I grew up with very sweet brothers, but I still didn't have many feminine role models in my life. As I grew up, I felt insecure and afraid of being called girly and that masculine behavior was the only rational way to act. I believed that enjoying feminine projects and hobbies were impractical and not important. Thankfully, I now have learned how femininity has such importance and power in this world; feminity has so much influence in culture, society, and relationship connections. I am honored to be a female created by God and am passionate to explore even more of the feminity with which God has gifted me.
I 100% agree with all of this. I wish it had more views. I'm tired of being the only woman that embraces her own femininity. When did it become a bad thing to be a woman? I've felt very alone but it's nice to find videos like this and know that I'm not the only woman that feels as if femininity is important. One of the keys to life. It's what balances the world. So do men. We have our own roles and we should embrace them! Great video!
So true!
@@homosexualitymydearwatson4109 You do you, OP does OP. Thats the great thing about our modern times, we can do what we want, and have our own values. Personally I love being feminine.
“A mild answer turns away rage, But a harsh word stirs up anger”
I needed this video. Being in a competitive career and in pursuit of entrepreneurship can cause you to navigate communication in all arenas of life with an overtly assertive tone and defensive ear. Om truly feminine in appearance, but I can definitely be softer in communicating my needs and desires within a relationship. Thank you for this video.
That must be tough! but I'm glad you strike a balance unfortunately, in this society some people view femininity as weakness.
I struggle with dealing w the world as an independent woman and not being' ran over' but still being feminine in my tone.
This is a mood. My tone works great in a meeting, a presentation, or a pitch but it messes up my personal life! Wishing you well 💕
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I appreciate what you are saying and I find myself behaving similarly. But I just wanted to say, you are gorgeous!
I'm also trying to embrace my femininity more. Your channel has been helpful to me in that aspect. Personally one thing I've stopped doing is cursing, it's hard and sometimes if I'm upset I slipp up. I am just an honest and direct person so it can be a challenge from time to time. My father would always tell me that women shouldn't curse and I think he is right. A clean gentle language is more feminine.
morasinlove kudos to you love im just starting my journey now im sure it wont be easy
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I’ve become an aggressive communicator and need to be softer. Thank you for the tips!!! I never realized the difference tone plays
I love that you highlighted, a moment to pause. That is very important especially today. Sadly, I have seen too many adults become over emotional when speaking in public to other adults or during a conversation.
2022 Update: I decided to completely delete what I said because I just don’t even want that rhetoric out there anymore. Just be yourself! Authenticity is beautiful! BIPOC women are beautiful! And this youtuber’s beliefs that she expresses on other social media platforms are not okay with me.
Amen me too but Im white lol. I was a tomboy as a kid and never got lady lessons although I try to be.. The voice pitching is so important and I get it now.. I think im gonna practice this. Having inner joy and happiness of the Lord is key to keep us from worldly behavior.
Same here! I find that us black women (not all!) tend to have this issue.
@@json9368 majority of us do 😉
@@kayyoung9242 lol I'm always told I'm too quiet but I'm quite blunt
Ade V Look up being "frank" instead of being "blunt" (sorry I had some difficulties in wording this well lol). It has helped me immensely in approaching situations where I feel the need to be blunt!
Sometimes I wonder if you were this elegant and graceful even in your teenage years.Any woman would have something to learn from you,because your soul is old,honey.
When she was born from her mother's womb, she cried with elegance.
@@kiera6326 *sobs in elegance*
I like that youre talking about boundaries "Do not let ppl use your feminity againsts you!"
I love the way you expressed our non- Christian sisters! How beautiful. I will use that. I am a Christian as well and I have many non-Christian friends and family. They are just as wonderful and precious as my Christian family and friends. Loving and valuing others is paramount.😊 this entire video is great. You are an amazing person!
ugh i LOVE how careful, fair and inclusive you are. and it's in a way that doesn't seem passive or patronizing, like it comes to you with grace and genuine care!! this video was pleasantly really wonderful, even to someone like me who is very new to this stuff. :')
I myself do not speak very femininely at all but still found this video quite interesting to watch and get to know a different perspective😊, thanks for sharing🤗❤️
God bless you sister. These are good points; thank you for sharing! One place that you may want to reconsider, is the part you mentioned about hook-ups. The word of God commands us to expose the works of darkness, we should not condone them. (Ephesians 5:11). Although some of your followers may not be believers, it’s important to be a light to them and not let them think that lifestyles such as hook ups are good or okay. Or else why would they want to become a Christian if we talk about sins as if they’re alright? God wants to be a light! Being a light involves scattering darkness. Christ loved sinners, yes, but He never spoke of any sin as if it were okay to do in the first place. God bless you. I felt to share this. I appreciate your channel, but when we say we’re Christians, we must be true to the whole Word of God. Be blessed.
I belong to hinduism. I am from India. Thank you so much for your videos. Lots of love to you💕
Having boundaries and learning to say no when needed is very very important.
Am new at your channel , as a Muslim woman I appreciate you from my heart, thanku
it is my firm belief that if everyone talked like this... (Men n women both) We would solve 99% of the worlds problem regarding ego, war, prejudice and hostility.... What a wonderful world that'll be. Kudos for making this!
I just came home after a test in the university, I'm very glad to find a new video !! I really enjoy your content and it has been very helpful, thank you very much for everything.
Thank you for covering this topic.
I appreciate you going more in depth than just 'pitch your voice higher' etc.
I was so happy to see that you uploaded this today, I got to watch it on my meal break.
Elizabeth S thank you for watching so soon! 😌
I'm have been going through so many videos, at last i found what i actually wanted.
There are so many videos for men to train their voice to sound attractive, polite, gentle and confident.
Finally, found for women. ❤❤
As a Muslim girl I thank you and I admire every advice you highlight in this channel 🥰🥰
I LITERALLY LOVE YOU! 😭😍 HOW DO YOU ALWAYS KNOW HOW AND WHEN THE RIGHT TIME TO TEACH ME THINGS??!!?! 😭😍❤️
So happy you’re enjoying!!! 😍😍
When you said the way we speak has definitely changed all I could think about was women addressing everybody as bro 😂
Jer Ca ugh I’m guilty I call everybody bruh 🤦🏾♀️
ahhh lol i'm convicteddd 😂
Love your character and your videos! Can you do a video about feminine way of walking and moving, as well as body language and gesticualtion?
I would love to hear your opinion on this topic. Kisses ❤️
Yes, please! I am learning so much from watching her hands move as she speaks!
I am so glad you are talking about eliminating vulgar language. It is the biggest turn off and is very low class. The more we can raise our vibrations with our speech the better off we are and those close to us.
Disney Princess irl 😻
I can't describe how happy I am when you upload a new video!I'm sending you so much love!
2021 I’m scaling back my masculine energy and becoming more soft spoken as Feminine and confident.
I would love to see a video discussing advice on how the young girly girls can work towards transitioning to women. Something I feel like I struggle with as I do tend to think of myself as mature in many ways, however in many others I still feel as though I still project myself as a young girl instead of a woman. In many ways I still feel like a young girl and I'm not sure where to start in growing towards that 'feminine woman' goal..... Love your channel and all your helpful advice!!
elizabeth piazza same!!!
You can follow Lisa Hart. She also does nice videos on this topic
You should make a video all on the topic of waiting till marriage I would really appreciate that😊💛
Olivia holtby yess!!
I found a UA-cam video of a deaf woman talking about her deafness and I was so mesmerized by how she spoke. Very articulate and soft. I wanted to replicate that but I think it would be too great of a change for me; the people around me would think I was being fake. And I quickly forgot to speak that way later in the day. I love your video and will be rewatching it to remind myself of these tips. They seem less extreme so people won't think I'm being fake! I also love the point about how our speech reflects what we've been watching and reading.
As I am a preop transgender female, I appreciate videos which help me imorove my feminine behaviour. Thank you for this video.
I hope you don’t operate. Please do your research. You don’t want hair growing inside your fake vagina causing infections which could end up killing you. What you truly need is therapy. It’s what lies inside of you that needs to change and accept who you are which is just a feminine man. We are all on a spectrum of masculinity and femininity. This obsession with identity, labels, and unnecessary strict adherence to male/female roles has led us here. It is a mental health disorder that needs mental help therapy.
yikes
Please make a book recommendation list!! 🖤
Or, as we just learned: "Please would you be so kind to make a book recommendation list?"
Just joking 😇😉
But YES that's an awesome idea! I would like that so much as well 😍
She has one on her blog 😊
Read fascinating womanhood by Helen Andelin
Go to her blog! It's one of her most recent posts!!! 😊
@@MeccaShields but it's about fiction books, or is there one of nonfiction books? 🙉
hi caitlyn! i'm a senior in high school and honestly finding your channel has been so helpful to me as i try to become more mature in my everyday life! :) i'm a feminist and i think your message is SO amazing and anyone who tries to bring you down doesn't have the interests of all women in mind. lots of love from the east coast xx
"Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks." Good tips and thoughts.
I was in a camp where I acted so sweet towards everyone in the camp including the facies, an at the end of the camp on of the facies asked for my number, I should’ve sense it the moment where he started to used cheesy words at me too often. I was so afraid because I was all alone with him at that time and couldn’t built my strengths to say NO. At that moment I knew that I need to learn how to be famines and but yet strong. You have help me lot during the process of me being STRONGER. Thanks a lot dear.💖💖
Your advice is also great for men. Slowing down, listening, and being "soft" yet not weak can simmer down a heated argument. Great video!
How do you do your hair? It looks so pretty! I've really wanted to speak more nurturing-ly in so long but idk how to adjust! So thanks for the video!
Your channel has everything I have been searching for months in other keywords. It’s only last night I found the right word and found your channel. I’ve been binge watching your Videos since then. I’m getting married in 5 days and your advises are all i needed from a matured friend ❤️🎀
1.25x speed, thank me later
And thank you for the thought provoking video 👾🌸
Thank you omg
YES LOL TY
I watch all my videos at 1.5x speed. oops.
@@Marina-xd7gp That is a shame. It means you also ruin the music you listen to 😓 (if you listen to any that is)
@@Marina-xd7gp LOL I listen to all my videos in 2x
THANK YOU! I used to be a girly-girl until I decided to become cold and perhaps masculine to endure what I went through. And I kept telling myself that I will so easily switch to being feminine when I went through all that I did, but I realized recently that life is a journey. So I am trying to exude my femininity even to people who do not deserve that from me, and behaving modestly as I transition into my womanhood. Thank you again so much because I will be implementing everything that I took away from this video. :)
An exceptionally powerful learning tool is watching your videos. Thank you! Beautiful video as always. I would love if you would do another video catered to a younger audience, very nice to see that! You are a gentle inspiration, love.
✨You should seriously consider writing self-help books in this area. I've been taking notes on a lot of your "lady like" videos and seriously feel like I can't learn enough, lol. Keep up the good work!✨
In the last few years I've started making an effort to be more feminine, after a lifetime of being a tomboy. I'll never give up long hikes and weightlifting, but now I wear dresses and makeup and try to act more feminine. Just found your channel and love the way you present this topic! I'm going to he watching a lot more of your vids!
This was the first video of yours that I saw. It hurt me at the time because I knew how far off I was. I have watched so many of your others now that my heart was primed for this one 😂 I have a lot to go...but I’m so grateful for your willingness to share and guide us on this journey.
I love all your points! I think that refraining from being the center of attention all the time, interrupting, and overusing words like "um" and "like" can be included in feminine speaking as well. Thanks for another great video :)
YES I've been looking so much forward to your next video💕
You're wonderful and beautiful Caitlin! Have a lovely day!
I’m really happy you made this video. I have a really bad sailor mouth and listening to you has really inspired me to try to change that. However I find is so difficult when I’m talking to my friends to not fall into using the same vernacular as them!! Or to control my language when I’m upset
This video is still evergreen! I watched it 2 years ago and I came to remind myself of feminine traits. Amazing advice👏
Oh my goodness I am a Speech Language Pathologist. I hope one day my daughter will be as eloquent as you are. At 10 she is inspired by Anne of Green Gables and loves the descriptive multi syllabic words.
I got some great tips in your video ❤️
i was raised in a single father household, so i’m very grateful this video was posted. thank you!
Can you do a video on how to stay feminine while being in a relationship/marriage?
That is a easy one; remain pregnant, barefoot and in the kitchen. Oh yeah, keep opinions to yourself.
Erin Gittins would you mind explaining the remain pregnant part?
@@brittanysmith3716 Yes, a true feminine woman will allow her husband to freely squirt his seed inside her. A real woman will be fruitful and birth his children. It's the only way to be truly feminine in a marriage.
Erin Gittins well hubby and I have a 1 year old and I’m pregnant with twins. So I guess I’m as feminine as you can get then lol
@@brittanysmith3716 Yes, you are the picture of femininity. Just keep opinions to your self and keep accepting the seed and you will be ok.
This expanded my respect and appreciation for that gentle femininity. I won't take it for granted.
I'm not quite sure how I came across your channel but I loved it! I love being feminine, I love everything about the topic and I loved all the videos I watched from you so far. I'm looking forward to the next one already!
I really love the focus on nurturing someone with your words and showing that you care. Such good advice all the way around.
Omg I’ve been waiting on this video! I was thinking about my speech yesterday and I was like how do you carry a feminine way of speech? Mine is definitely super masculine so I’m trying to refine it. Thanks for this video!
I am 55......you my dear are a ray of hope that there are Women out there who still believe in the art of being a woman ❤
Can you make a video on how to be able to embrace your femininity in the workplace without being disrespected? I work in a male-dominated field, and I love fashion/makeup, but I also have a very happy-go-lucky personality, and when the women are too sweet, the men sexualize us or tell us we are too sweet/weak to be taken seriously. Do you have any advice?
I get it, I've been trying really hard to be more mature. I have been trying to be more aware of the way I communicate and intercept information without letting an emotion over ride the communication. However, being able to calmly express my feelings appropriatly and when it is an appropriate time to talk about certain things aswell. My goal is to also to be able to keep certain information to myself and feel like I must not talk about every detail in my life to someone, it's okay to handle things on your own. And CONFIDENCE!
I feel like every time I try to sound more feminine, I come across fake ☹️
Mikaila Bright wow same
If sounding more feminine isn't something you're used to it may feel fake. For example, trying to do something new in front of an audience can make you hyper aware of your inexperience. It doesn't make you a fraud though, just a novice. Practice makes perfect, practice until it feels more natural. Hope this was helpful!
I identify with this issue. I support your quest to keep cultivating that feminity. It's there! We just have to get in tune with it. I feel the EXACT same way. It's scary stepping out, trying to venture into a more nuturing mindset, especially if people hold old habits against you. But keep speaking life over yourself and remember the treasure that lies within you. I am instructing myself as well. I feel that I sometimes sound fake because anxiety prompts me to act right away and "prove" that I am feminine, whether it be speaking in a high pitched tone or trying to soften my usually brash voice, it can get discouraging sometimes. I think we have to remember that before the world told us who we were or how to be a "strong" woman, we were and are beautiful, nurturing, sweet, tender and capable young ladies and women, worthy of respect and love. We are allowed to make mistakes in the process of being refined. And there is always room to grow... for all. Do not let people box you in with those accusations of " being fake". Nor let yourself stop your progress. We can do this. I pray that God sends us friends to surround us and help instill courage in us to get further in touch with or feminity and be who we are. God bless you, Sister.
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So filled with joy & gratitude over finding this 🕊️
I’m seeking to increase the creativity in my communication (verbal, written, & body language) w/o being crass, vulgar or unladylike. Be more subtle & less blunt. I was a total loner so I didn’t pick up on social nuances of relationships & conversation.
At middle age I get to begin again! Both a blessing & and a challenge. Your channel is the most helpful in that process. Thank you. With all of my heart, may God bless you & yours 🙏 🕊️
“The only thing that I can control is myself”❤️❤️❤️
your voice is so sweet, and makes me feel relaxed 💓
Thank you mrs. Midwest as a mom of 3 daughters and 1 son this is so needed for me i appreciate you💖
Edit: is there any way you could make a video about difficult people? I have people in my life that are harsh/vulgar humor, also someone who is flirtacious/feminine in a manipulative way. I just thought i would throw that out there 🤷🏼♀️ thank you if you read this
So happy I found your channel. I'm currently preparing myself for a 13 week deployment and will be housed with three women, colleages and roommates in EMS. It's hard to still be feminine in boots but you have helped guide me to still be myself.
Love how refreshing your channel is besides all the fashion youtubers, you're really unique and I find that extremely wonderful!
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You speak so well in your videos. You are also very aware of what you’re saying and considerate of who you’re speaking to. Thank you very much!!
girl.. BLEND YOUR BLUSH. lord.
Right. I thought it was rosacea
I love this series! Femininity i noticed is often overlooked. It takes time to cultivate the women we are designed to be.
And listening to your videos are truly helpful to this growing process that i am in.
I love the topics you address in this video ❤️
My articulation is definitely something I need to be more aware of, and you give some great tips to help me improve! So happy this video popped into my recommend this morning. I subscribed! 🙏
I cannot get enough of your videos. growing up with parents that demanded we say good morning, afternoon etc. A house hold where you used words to Express your feelings and you have manners and were polite. Grandparents were loved and respected and girls behave like well girls. We were tough to speak softly no swearing. I didnt own a pair of pants until I was 12 years old.
you are a great example of a open-minded modern religious women, you aren't judgmental and you empower women without bringing other women down
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OMG I love you Ms. Midwest you are the female role model I’ve been searching for! Thank you for taking the time to make this video! Also you look like Princess Aurora. So happy to have found your beautiful channel cuz you speak about boundaries. S
Awesome 🌸
In a world that has embraced Hip Hop and rap culture your video on femininity is long overdue. Being feminine is a lost art these days. Young ladies these days are not being taught how to act like a lady. Young girls today watch these hip hop rap videos and they see the girls in those videos and think that that's what it takes to get a man. Thank you for making this video, this video should be shown to every girl in high school. In fact femininity and etiquette should be taught in high school.
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I completely agree! I grew up with a lot of boys in the family and didn’t fill accept and love my femininity until I was older.
Your videos have already inspired me to change for the better. You are full of love and kindness...to me that is what truly makes a woman feminine.
We are all waiting for the makeup tutorial :)
Hair tutorial too please!!!
Simple.Do only half her makeup.I like her videos but not the makeup. haha
@Whatever Whatever way too much blush
Yes I agree with the tone and language being soft and kind. But I want my hubby to do the same for me. Been trying to educate him on this very subject of tone and language in the way he communicates with me. It should not only be us women who should speak gentle, fairly and kindly. We want our husbands to do the same for us as well. We all deserve to be communicated with gently and with love.
Love you Kaitlyn, keep spreading light!
I am SO happy that you chose this topic for a video! I have been searching for information on how to speak in a feminine way for such a long time and there is really a lack of videos on UA-cam about it! Ironically all I could ever find were videos made for gay men that were transitioning into females :/Thank you for speaking on this