“Get off the scale! I have yet to see a scale that can tell you how enchanting your eyes are. I have yet to see a scale that can show you how wonderful your hair looks when the sun shines its glorious rays on it. I have yet to see a scale that can thank you for your compassion, sense of humor, and contagious smile. Get off the scale because I have yet to see one that can admire you for your perseverance when challenged in life.” - Steve Maraboli
As a German woman who lived a few years in the USA I'll never understand why so many American ladies seem to get their self confidence only from their looks. There are more important things like kindness, humor, being friendly, respectful and loving. You show us all this every week, dear Susan - and on top of this you are also beautiful on the outside. I guess there always will be people saying alot of crab because they don't love themselves as they are. Love to all of you.❤
@@kokoslores9666 You are right- we lived in Germany 4 years and my mother noticed the same. It almost seems like USA women are brought up with just a smidge of vanity that will either grow into self confidence, or into fear about what others 'think'. There is YT channel I watch that shows women of all ages/sizes walking around in shopping areas, especially Italy. Those women are so self-caring and confident they wear whatever they want- many are wearing comfy athletic shoes with dresses instead of heels. And the clothing they wear is complimentary to any woman, but whereas here the tops, dresses, skirts, everything is form-fitting for the most part, there the clothing is billowy and comfortable looking- dressy or casual. They aren't necessarily trying to show off their perfect hip size and aren't obsessed with large "boons" (as my daughter called them at age 4). They walk with confidence- but you can always spot someone from the States in the crowd- LOL! Unless you buy a designer, the price/material ratio is much more affordable there. Ladies, we need to support each other instead of letting 'fashion moguls' decide how we wear what we wear, and other details about our 'looks'. Anybody want that channel name? There is no talking and she films it slightly slowed down so you can see how certain materials move over our curves- small or large...all are included. (You may see some models walk by in stilettos) The music makes it even more interesting, but there is always the mute button. :)
Hurt people, hurt people. No normal decent person would even dream of criticizing someone they follow. This really made me sad and angry at the same time. Shame on all the critics out there. Everyone is just trying to do the best they can and you try and spread joy and compassion. What in the world more could you ask for? You’re perfect just the way you are and I look forward to seeing your videos every Saturday night. Don’t let them get to you, pity them. See you next week 🙋♀️👍🏻
My heart broke a little watching you share that painful part of your life. I, too, had often wondered, but couldn’t imagine asking about it, because I felt, well, you’re so transparent about most things, you would have shared it if you were comfortable doing so. I just don’t understand why people feel they have the right to know such personal information 😞. But we humans can be a curious bunch, I suppose. I love who you are, Susan, and look forward to your beautiful videos every week. The fact that you’ve not only survived the trauma, but are now thriving, is a very hopeful thing. You are good medicine. Shut out the noise and keep doing what you’re doing. We’ll be here waiting ❤
You are so sweet! I have a few more pounds to lose but I do appreciate your kindness!!! There are so many things more important than each other's weight! Much love to you!!! xo Susan & Dez
Yes, why are we even talking about Susan's weight when she doesn't need to for her age. She's looking fine, younger than her age. Am here for her words of wisdom and Desi. They are the reason I survived during pandemic ❤❤❤
It's hard to imagine Susan that you don't realize how many woman you have inspired and helped through some very hard and challenging times. Sharing your life with us, taking us all on this journey with you, the incredibly beautiful content you provide here on this platform each and every week. I would venture to say the majority of your subscribers look forward with great anticipation each week watching your next video in great anticipation. This is what our world needs right now, more platforms delivering high vibe content to counteract all the negativity we all face on a daily basis in this world we find ourselves living in right now. You my dear are a very very gifted powerful healer. Thank you for all that you do. I think I can safely speak for all here, we love and adore you and our sweet Desi ! ❤
Sweet, sweet Susan. We love you for your understanding and your wisdom. We truly don't care what your size is. You are truly beautiful. Thank you for being there for us. What can we do for you?
Your talking about Sean is very emotional for me, as my son is adopted. I know he was missed, too. He knows his birth mother, but they don’t have a relationship. They live within a half hour of each other. He has half siblings. He has no ongoing relationship with them. It’s just casual, and he doesn’t see them. I guess that for you there is I hope happiness with the pain. Because I believe Sean had wonderful parents. That’s precisely why he’s not in your life. YOU did your job. You gave him the life you wanted for him, but couldn’t give him. And it was good. If I had you here, I would give you a great big hug. We are, after all, two sides of the same coin.
You are absolutely stunning - you are so youthful at 70!! Truly an inspiration for this 67 year old woman! It is such a shame that women feel they need to go on Ozempic to be stick thin at all costs. Society has lost the ability to see beauty in every age and size. Thank you for reminding all how important that is!
Thank you for sharing. My sister had a baby when she was just out of high school and gave him up for adoption. After my sister died a couple years ago my niece found him. He was raised in a wonderful loving family and had a good life. He is 50 and married with a family. He had moved out of our state. My niece talked to him on the phone but we haven’t met him yet. My mom told me she loved him more or at least as much as any other grandchildren. It was heartbreaking for her my sister to leave him at the hospital but my sister did the right thing by giving him life. I comment her for that. We will all be together someday with our lord in heaven. Sometimes the hardest things in life to do are the best. May God bless you and my sister by doing a very unselfish thing by giving life to these precious babies. ❤️🙏
You kind of remind me of myself! I weigh more, but I'm 5'9". Our hair & makeup is similar. So is our shape. I'm 73. I've always embraced being feminine. I think you're absolutely lovely. Please don't let anyone shame you. Be your glamorous, curvy self. You're also thoughtful and interesting. So much more than looks!
Susan, a year ago, my husband of 35 years asked for a divorce. I moved out with my little dog, Sophie. That’s when I discovered your videos. You have been inspiring & encouraging me each week. The courage you impart to me & others like me, are so appreciated & such an antidote for feeling invisible at 70. Keep up the good work! Ignore the alligators out there.
You are so sweet!! Happy Monday!!! I am so sorry you have been going through so much...so many ladies are in this boat and making big decisions about where they go to live and how to live. 35 years is a long time...lots of love and shared memories...how are you? I hurt so much after my divorce..but there was relief too..freedom is such a beautiful thing for a woman...let me know how you are! xo Susan
Mine was 28 yrs so i understand ..it has taken 20 yrs because of his(ex) personality and the same year my son took his life.. i hve 3 other sons and 1 daughter and 4 granchildren ...i am thinking of you and you will thrive in yr new life ...God bless .
@@carolkokx9638 Or mostly they're just insecure about everything. Some are probably thin and attractive but they're so caught up in society's and their chosen community's standards, they feel they're never good enough. I really feel sorry for people like that.
You are beautiful in every way. Thin is unattractive. I’ve never had a man friend tell me that they like thin. Men like a butt . They like neat but not a lot of makeup. You girl are as near perfect as as you could be. Jealous women tell you the opposite of what they know is true. Be you.
Susan, I’m shocked anyone would comment on your weight. You are a beautiful woman. You do NOT have a weight problem. Like all of us, it fluctuates, but you are fortunate to not have to worry about weight the way some women do with obesity. You are normal. Being a size medium at our age is awesome, and no small feat. I cannot believe your views go down when you gain a few pounds. That is insane. Your weight doesn;t even show in most videos. And when it does you are normal, and beautiful, and look ten years younger than you should.
😇😇😇 You are Classy, Healthy, Kind, Funny, Smart, Talented, Creative, Brave, Successful, Beautiful and Blessed:)... All Day, in All Ways Every Day:)! You are Empowered and a True Blessing:) 🙌 ❤
I am shocked at people's attitude about weight! I'm 67 and wear x-large. Life is too short not to enjoy a cookie! I don't give a crap if others think I am too heavy. I am healthy and strong with a loving family and grandchildren to enjoy. You are beautiful Susan!
This is why I love you so much, even without knowing you in person. In a world of fake social media, you are genuine and authentic. Just listening to you speak, radiates the beautiful soul that you truly are. I LOVE that you speak about personal subjects and ones that are difficult to talk about, like your son Sean today...but that's why we love you and feel a special connection with you my beautiful soul sister❤ I truly don't think you realize how many of us sisters you touch every week, with your beautiful soul..and of course Desi is just the icing on the cake🎂 thank you for taking the time out of your life to be with us on a weekly basis! WE LOVE YOU!!❤❤❤ Have a wonderful week Susan!🥰
You look amazing, in all of those photos and at your different weights. Our wealth is in our health. And beauty shines from the inside out.❤ You also gave the beautiful gift of life to another couple. Bless you. ❤
I was adopted at 6 weeks. Always had 2 birthdays. Celebrated my birthday & then my adoption day. I knew how much I was loved & wanted. I believe my biological mother was very brave. She gave my parents a precious gift. She must have been very unselfish.
I am a guy that thinks you are a very good looking woman and your weight is not a factor in that judgment. Your smile, your laugh, your personality is what is the most important thing to me. Your talent for creating a beautiful and restful place to live and your caring about other people and nature is a talent that few people have. Thank you
BTW - I'm younger than you by at least 10 years, and to me, you look perfect! Your weight, the way you dress/ style, make up, the jewelry you wear.... everything! And let's not talk about your sense of humor and the masterful way you put together your videos. I'm too busy being grateful you're sharing your life with us, to waste time trying hard to find fault or risk offending you with nosyness. Thanks, Susan!
For those of us whose lives have been touched by adoption in one way or another, I appreciate you sharing your story as a birthmother. You are a blessing!
I do too. My husband and I adopted back in 1994 and 1996 and my girls are half sisters. Blonde hair and blue eyed beauties. God answered my prayers to be a mother. ❤
I am overweight and I used to think I was lesser than people of normal weight .I realized that my weight doesn't change who I truly am personality wise. Life is too short to have angst over such a superficial thing . I am not here to please others so those who don't like me the way I look oh well it sucks for them .
I didn’t ever know about your beautiful son (Sean, Shaun, Shawn). I’m so sorry that you have had to live with that pain for most of your life. I too had a son Shaun that I couldn’t keep. My reason was different, as he passed away at two months old. I always look up at the stars to speak with him. We aren’t looking at the same stars, because he’s above them. But, it brings me comfort. You are such a beautiful woman, and my heart just breaks for you. You are in my prayers ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Oh I am so sorry you lost your baby too. I am sending you hugs for when you remember and are crying. It is just too much for the heart to hold onto. Love to you .
@@dorisdaylight8415 Thank you! Prayers for all Mama’s who have had to live with this pain. I honestly burst into tears when I heard her story, my prayers are for her and all the beautiful women who have lost a child. It doesn’t matter the age, a child and Mother are so closely united forever. You too are a beautiful soul ❤️
You’re beautiful no matter what your weight is! It disturbs me that viewers stop watching a creator because of their weight. That’s so shallow of them and speaks volumes as to the kind of people they are. I’m interested in your content and how sweet you come across in your videos, not your waist size. I, for one, don’t measure a person by their size or looks. It’s sad that our society has become so unforgiving of any little “perceived” flaw they see - perhaps they need to take a really hard look at themselves in the mirror. But, truth be told, they probably don’t like what they see in their own reflection. As the saying goes, hurt people hurt other people. If you want to get healthier, please do it for yourself, not because of comments or statistics. “YOU DO YOU!! That’s why your true loyal followers like me love you. ❤️🥰👏👏
I’m Okay when I Scream. That hit home. No one is truly prepared for this stage in life. So many things to be grateful for, but also so many mixed feelings, emotions and loneliness. Your transparency is inspiring, makes me feel comforted. Keep doing what you’re doing. Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.❤❤
It’s shocking to me that anyone would make rude comments about you, Susan. You are a beautiful soul who helps so many to not feel as alone or different. I can imagine that it must not be easy to publicly share about difficult times in your life. You are brave, Lady!
Sweetie, you’re a beautiful soul who shows what’s possible as we age and how to do it gracefully. And your photography/videography is simple gorgeous! And you’re real! AND Mr. Dez is the icing on the cake!! What’s not to love, whether your 130 or 170!💞🥰
I watch because you seem honest and kind. Plus, you're so talented. You write poetry, decorate, garden, love photography, and play fantastic music! What you do each week takes guts! Thank you.
Who the Hell told you that you are too heavy at a size medium?????????? Do you know how many people would love to be your size?? I would !!! You carry yourself with such grace, attractiveness, you seem fun, and you always look gorgeous in whatever you wear....I weigh more than you and i don't give a flying flip what anyone thinks of me.... I have more men come on to me as a plus size woman then ever at 141 when I was 18..... I looked anorexic and felt like crap. I feel great plus size...I have been married for 43 years and my husband thinks I am the most beautiful sexiest woman ever. I have people tell me how great I look all the time. I'm not saying this with a big head, I'm saying this because you can carry yourself at any weight/size with pride, beauty, personality and be very attractive to others. Who cares what others think anyway??
The world needs more of your kindness, grace and beauty. 🌷 Please keep the videos of you and your sweet, little dog coming. They make my heart happy. 🩷
Oh my, people can be so intrusive. I don't tune in every Sat evening to see if you have lost or gained weight. Ridulous. I actually tune in for desi lol. Really. I enjoy seeing you each week and what you have been up to, and I do love desi.
Who care's how much a person weights. Beauty comes from the inside and shines through. Kindness is what matters in my life. I'm from Massachusetts so the storm didn't affect me but my daughter lives in Tennessee and some parts got hit really bad. My daughter is safe. See ya next week.
I have gained weight now 68 years old and I try to lose weight it is very hard; People should never shame anyone on anything It is what's on the inside that really matters Love your channel
Susan, You are a beautiful woman just as you are. Two things I would like to bring forward. Being the age we are, I am 71, if we are too thin, it ages us and we look gaunt. The other thing, UA-cam adds weight. I met another couple of UA-camrs in person and marveled how much thinner they were in real life. Susan you are so brave for putting yourself out there. We are all the better for it. Thank you 💖 😊
Thank you for addressing this weight issue. I am 67, 5 ft 8 in tall, and weigh 169 lb. I wear a solid size 12 and am happy to be in this healthy body. I am so tired of seeing influencers who give a unrealistic picture of being over 60 in a size zero. In my humble opinion, being healthy, strong, self-confident, and always improving yourself in mind body and spirit is the only way to live.
Yes body shame sucks. Healthy and comfortable is needed. ❤ judgements are shameful. ❤ grounded balanced is most important. You are special. Thank you for being you. ❤
Susan you are beautiful no matter your weight. I don't come to watch you because your thin or heavy, I love your heart. You are so great with telling a story with your photography. I enjoy spending time with you and Dezi once a week and look forward to it. To me you are beautiful inside out and that has been true since day one. Life is too short, do you, and enjoy it!! XO
I am 72 and I lost my first husband 26 years ago! We were in our forties. I moved on and remarried and my second marriage had been 26 years! Only lately I have been thinking about my first husband and wished he could have known our grandkids! It’s kind of made me have a troubled mind! Idk why but as I get older, I think about my past years ago!
I know what you mean. I am also 72. For the past 2 years, I have been thinking about my past and see it in a difficult light and it has caused some "troubled mind" as well; almost like a life review. I hope you can find peace of mind.
I think that we sometimes go back to what happened years ago and look at it with what we know and can do NOW....not THEN. It is easy to shame oneself for not knowing or not having the resources that we have now. I see that the idealistic and naive young person I was needs compassion and forgiveness .
I didn't know you had another son. That must have been heartbreaking for you to give him up. Even at 14. Remember when we were very young we loved all our play dolls like they were real. At 14 you still would have been a great mother if given the chance. God bless you.
That must have been so hard to come to terms with. I can see the hurt is still there, it’s like unfinished business I think. God bless you Susan you are an honest and inspiring person. X
Your weight is perfect and so are you and Desi. My husband died of Alzheimer’s 6 months ago and your channel has helped me so much (I’m about 1 year older and a few pounds heavier). It’s hard growing older and knowing you will be alone the rest of your life. I really appreciate your support and honesty.
I am quite a bit younger than you and I am not a corny person whatsoever lol, and I think your videos are beautiful and relaxing to watch. Do not change for anyone especially your weight. Women can be so horrible towards others. Unfortunately, misery loves company. You go, girl!
Susan you are truly beautiful…your face glows, your body is feminine…your voice is soft. You certainly don’t look like someone about to be 70! You rock!
Dearest Susan, you impress me quite often, your ability to create a lovely home, your kindness and your generosity in sharing your joys and sorrows with us. Just because we watch you does not give us the right to know everything about you, nor to make unpleasant commentaries. You are beautifull at any weight, as you are truly beautiful inside. Ah, and fluctuating weight… I have black pants in different sizes, that tells story. Big hug for your lovely Desi. 🌷😘
I'm a member of the Birth Mother club too , my son is 46 ,I've never met him. I always think maybe one day I will. You're exactly who you are supposed to be. I sometimes think with everything going on in the world today that people would be so obsessed over ridiculous things. As always, I wish for you & Dez love, happiness & peace🙏💜🌷
I don’t watch your channel for weight inspiration. I watch your channel because of the peace and inspiration you give me. I like your decorating , thrifting and appreciating living in the moment.
One of the things I like the most about your channel is that you are so real and you share real life. While we may care about our weight and want to lose a few pounds, I think most of us are focused more on our health and trying to feel good and energetic. We have too many other things going on to worry about being as skinny as the next UA-camr. I appreciate that you share what works for you, fashion, interior design, and general reality day today. Oh and we cannot forget Mr. Desi!!! He keeps it all in perspective! 😊
I honestly think too skinny in older age just makes you look scrawny and more wrinkly. It doesn't hurt to have a few extra pounds if one becomes unwell, it is a bit of reserve.
Seriously, ignore the haters. I feel that these social media platforms have created a group of women who love to do this. Big hug for sharing your story - I cannot imagine the pain you have gone through.
We can be our own worst critics. The more critical we are of ourselves, the more critical we are of others. Give everyone a break, and accept each moment and everything as a gift. Life will flow more easily in every way. Thank you, Susan, for sharing here. I always learn something new.❤
I despise people shaming weight. It's ridiculous. I've been very thin but miserable. Now I'm fat but happy. My time is limited here on earth and I'm going to eat what I want. 70 lbs over weight. So what. It may extend my life another 6 months? Not worth it. Enjoy yourself and let the struggles go.😊
Do not change anything. You are just beautiful. As we get older it's a new chapter for us to deal with. Just grow old gracefully. Do what makes you the happiest. You are beautiful just as you are.😊
Well. I watched and I cried. God bless you. Life is just hard at times. And so often we don’t understand why things happen the way they do or why each of us are faced with situations that we’re faced with. I fully believe God has a plan. He’s always had a plan. I don’t always understand it but I’m not sure we’re supposed to. What a wonderful mother you’ve been to both your sons. Seems you always did what you needed to do for both of them, no matter how hard it was. There’s no greater love than that. Thank you for another sweet visit!
Watching you brings me peace and joy and laughter. I found you last year and I feel so blessed you are part of my life. I’m 76 and I work hard to stay healthy. I have made conscious choices about the foods I eat, the way I stay active and choosing to do things that bring me joy. You shine as a beautiful soul. I’m so amazed that weigh would even come into the equation on your channel. I truly saw little difference in your pictures, I was just enjoying your beautiful smile. 20:52
You have no idea how much your being here,sharing your life has impacted my life! “Thank you” falls short in expressing my gratitude for what you and this community has done for me! You enrich my life and I am grateful!💜 Rude “keyboard warriors” need to get a life! It’s obvious the people who would make disparaging comments to someone who only wants to help other people by sharing her life truly need to get a life!!!! Bless you Susan and blessings to Desi💜
I am saddened by what others can do to others hurtful words😥 We are only on this earth for such a short time in the whole scheme of things. Let's UPLIFT each other as women instead of tearing each other down. I watch all kinds of UA-cam videos and the size of the UA-camr NEVER effects my feelings towards them, it doesn't effect their talent or craft. People really need to get a life - instead of pooing on someone else's so they can feel better about themselves. Let's GROW UP ! There's a thought for the crab apples out there. You're wonderful and never let anyone affect your self-confidence. I know, easier said than done. 💌
Wow Susan you are so beautiful and in good shape; you are not fat. These commenters that are making negative comments are probably jealous. You look like your 20 years younger than 70. Please know you are beautiful outside and inside and your home is beautiful too; you are not fat. You look good ❤keep up the good work Susan. Thank you for sharing. You’re a sweetheart.
Hi Susan, the ones who criticize you are probably jealous of how beautiful you are! I'm in Texas visiting my brother and his wife. Missing home and my puppy. Also, I'm so glad you got to meet your son. I met my birth mother at 34 years old and it was the happiest day of my life.😊❤
You answered some very personal questions. I too gave up my son at 18.I wasn't married but I was in love with his father. We we're high school sweethearts not even prepared to raise a child. You did the selfless thing for your baby and I felt my son deserved everything I had ever had plus more. I've never been contacted by my son but his life is with the family that loved and raised him. He would be 53 now. I 'all never understand why people have to be so judgemental and just plain nosey. For me your channel is a breath of fresh air. I just lost my husband in June and I just hope I can build a new life like you have. I admire your courage, strength and creativity. You should be proud of all you have accomplished❤
Susan the fact that you had your son Sean ( forgive me if I didn't spell his name correctly) is a beautiful story. I will be 69 in December I would have loved to say I have a son/daughter and he/she is 46 years old but in my case I cannot say that because I was 22 & I aborted my child. So please don't be sad but rather be happy. I thought about deleting this comment but maybe someone will read this & they will not abort their baby. God bless you & Desi! Just wanted to say you look great as long as you are happy don't allow others to make you feel uncomfortable.
Susan it makes me sick that people comment and tell you to lose weight,and you're too heavy!They are trolls!You are beautiful inside and out.Your taste in color and clothes and decor is fantastic!!You are beautiful the way you are!Stay you!!❤
YOU helped give me the confidence to attend an event with extra extra weight I didn’t have 18 months ago. I am proud of myself for going and yes there were lots of PICTURES and I’m still embarrassed. It was good for me. Thank you. Thank you.❤
People can be so mean and rude. I think you are a beautiful lady inside and out. And it doesn’t matter what you weigh. God don’t like ugly. And, all those people judging you and trying to belittle you are ugly. You, as with alot of us out here have been through alot. But, you’re still hanging in there. Thank you Susan for being in my life. If only through UA-cam. You have taught me alot. And, I look forward to seeing you and sweet Desi every week. Please don’t ever change. The ones of us that love your channel and your content will always be here for you. God bless you and Desi. See you next week. Sending you much love and many prayers. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
People can be shallow. Commenting on your weight that is crazy. You are such a loving & beautiful person. It tells me they must judge & criticize themselves heavily if they do it “out there”. What a way to live. This video was awesome and thank you for being so candid. You certainly did not owe anyone this however I am sure perhaps you chose to answer to help someone else. I love you & Desi. Thanks for all the creativity and openess you share in your weekly videos. I look forward to them. 🎉❤
You are so refreshing! A class act. You look great...you are beautiful inside and out. I am 63, i love to cook and decorate. Starting to work less. I also have 2 sons. You are an inspiration to many. Your UA-cam fan in Oceanside, California! 🌻🌞🍁🎃😃🙏🏼✨️Let go and let God.
I love you for you! You represent the majority of us out here. We're not perfect. You always look so nice from head to toe! You exude love and caring. You are genuine! You touch my heart with every video. You help me to realize I'm not alone. I think those rude comments come from people who feel less than inside, they lash out cuz of jealousy or to make themselves feel better . I feel sorry for them. So glad you are a confident women who can let those comments float on by. Keep being you and sharing with us every week, I look forward to Fridays!
Ohhh I didn’t know about your son. So sorry, you had to suffer all that at 14 years old where you were just a girl. ❤ big hug for you 😊 thank you for sharing 🤗☀️
Women are the worst to each other and it's so sad. I am 65 and have seen it my entire life. Instead of embarrassing and supporting one another, some women throw hate. Those kind of comments are coming from their own insecurity . You are beautiful and amazing. Keep doing you because that's what keeps me looking forward to your videos every week. Love your energy.
Women "of a certain age" come from a time when they were socialized to conform to an ideal of appearance; to compete with other women for a man's attention, and to be compliant. Career and mobility opportunities were fewer then. Let's ignore the Mean Girls and wish them well. I love the Irish expression to critics: "Away off and chase yourself!", which I send mentally, not verbally (who needs a Donnybrook? = Irish brawl?)
Love your sweet soul. I am not one to comment I look forward to every video and the lovely scenery and music is so soothing for my heart. Life after the unexpected loss 2 yrs ago, of my precious man whom I met when I was 60 ( now soon to be 77) was miserable. You Dear Woman have helped me, along with my Faith to forge forward. Thank You for your transparency, keeping it real and sharing your heart. Take care you are very special💕
What I noticed about the clips where you are showing your weight is that you look absolutely beautiful and very confident at both ends of the scale. I love that! THAT is a great role model of how all women should feel! ❤️❤️❤️
Susan, you are the best. I like you just the way you are…beautiful, genuine, such an inspiration, intelligent, smart and the list goes on and on. Do not change. You share so much with all of us, you share your wisdom, your life with Desie, your home, shopping etc. I so look forward to Saturday nights to see what you have to say. Stay as sweet as you are, keep on doing what you love. I wonder what poetry books you refer to, I would like to know. Please have a good week, and thank you so much for sharing life with all of us. Bye until next week. Take care!!!
Hi Susan! Thank you for your prayers . I’m in the Knoxville, Tennessee area we were spared any damage from the hurricane! So many weren’t so lucky. I feel very blessed. We lost over 100 trees on our property last August during a storm and are still cleaning up from that. So very thankful.
My part of FL was spared this time. I know what it’s like to lose so much when we get flooded. I pray all those so badly affected will be able to recover🙏🙏🙏🩷🩷🩷
Little Poet... YOU are my hero. Your experience as a young teen hit my heart very hard. You did a most loving thing . I think you're the most beautiful angel ...thank you for sharing part of your story...you look so beautiful inside and out ..
Susan, thank you for sharing your story about your pregnancy and birth. I'm glad the story has a happy ending. You're terrific, and we love your stories, your fashion sense, your decorating, Desi and all the rest.
Your channel is my favorite, I always watch for your videos on Saturday when you put them up. You are an inspiration to me, and when I first started watching your videos years ago, you helped me to age without growing old. When I turned 60 I felt that I could not follow my dreams and when you are old everything came to a standstill. You helped me change my mind about age and dreams. Thank you. I love Desi's voice. Thanks for sharing your life❤
Susan you're beautiful! At any weight. You're genuine and you're fun and an oasis in the craziness. This has been the strangest month of my life. We've had the plumber out 4 times, had breakers replaced twice, the car battery died, the neighbor threw food over our fence and gave my border collie food poisoning, our washer quit, we repaired it, it quit again and we bought a new one, a possum broke into our utility room (that was a surprise WHOO) I didn't know I could scream like that, and last night I went to throw my dog a bite of cheese and forgot the island was there and broke my hand. Goodbye September! Good riddance!! I needed seeing a good friend like you! You're so open, your weight is perfect and I love your beautiful little house. You're radiant and you're happy. Don't let the doubters get you down. You were incredibly brave to get through giving a baby up for adoption. That's so heartbreaking. Love to you and Desi xx
I wish I could read every comment and delete the stupid ones! I’m sorry people are so rude. You are just perfect the way you are…. I so look forward to your videos! We are struggling with the after effects of Helena. We are so blessed that we are safe but it doesn’t look like we will have electricity, water, internet or phone service for many more days. My son lives 2 hours away and today as I sat on my front porch trying to cool off he drove up in my driveway and said go pack your bags….I’m taking you home with me! So the first thing I pulled up when we arrived was your channel. It made my day! We have a lot of damage around our house and some to our house but we were so fortunate! It truly looks like a war zone in our county. You brought me happiness today. Thank you!
Wow, Susan, that's so crazy !! You look so pretty and stylish! What the hell is wrong with people nowadays! Besides that you are so deep and intelligent, you blow my mind with some of your insights into life! As far as I'm concerned, you have it pretty much together ! Plus, you are Beautiful to boot!!!🎉
“Get off the scale! I have yet to see a scale that can tell you how enchanting your eyes are. I have yet to see a scale that can show you how wonderful your hair looks when the sun shines its glorious rays on it. I have yet to see a scale that can thank you for your compassion, sense of humor, and contagious smile. Get off the scale because I have yet to see one that can admire you for your perseverance when challenged in life.”
- Steve Maraboli
As a German woman who lived a few years in the USA I'll never understand why so many American ladies seem to get their self confidence only from their looks. There are more important things like kindness, humor, being friendly, respectful and loving. You show us all this every week, dear Susan - and on top of this you are also beautiful on the outside. I guess there always will be people saying alot of crab because they don't love themselves as they are. Love to all of you.❤
@@kokoslores9666 You are right- we lived in Germany 4 years and my mother noticed the same. It almost seems like USA women are brought up with just a smidge of vanity that will either grow into self confidence, or into fear about what others 'think'. There is YT channel I watch that shows women of all ages/sizes walking around in shopping areas, especially Italy. Those women are so self-caring and confident they wear whatever they want- many are wearing comfy athletic shoes with dresses instead of heels. And the clothing they wear is complimentary to any woman, but whereas here the tops, dresses, skirts, everything is form-fitting for the most part, there the clothing is billowy and comfortable looking- dressy or casual. They aren't necessarily trying to show off their perfect hip size and aren't obsessed with large "boons" (as my daughter called them at age 4). They walk with confidence- but you can always spot someone from the States in the crowd- LOL! Unless you buy a designer, the price/material ratio is much more affordable there. Ladies, we need to support each other instead of letting 'fashion moguls' decide how we wear what we wear, and other details about our 'looks'. Anybody want that channel name? There is no talking and she films it slightly slowed down so you can see how certain materials move over our curves- small or large...all are included. (You may see some models walk by in stilettos) The music makes it even more interesting, but there is always the mute button. :)
Love to you Kokoslores!!!! Well said, good to get some international perspective too.
0:47 ❤Desi!❤️
Anyone who comments on your weight is without class. It would never occur to me to make such a comment. Love you and Desi! ❤
This! So sorry folks make weight comments. No one’s business.
Comments on your weight? What? You are a medium-sized attractive women. You're well-proportioned & stylish. What is wrong with people?
There is some jealous 😢 weirdos of her. They been trouble maker gossipers. They NEVER show there pictures though.
Hurt people, hurt people. No normal decent person would even dream of criticizing someone they follow. This really made me sad and angry at the same time. Shame on all the critics out there. Everyone is just trying to do the best they can and you try and spread joy and compassion. What in the world more could you ask for? You’re perfect just the way you are and I look forward to seeing your videos every Saturday night. Don’t let them get to you, pity them. See you next week 🙋♀️👍🏻
I completely agree.
My heart broke a little watching you share that painful part of your life. I, too, had often wondered, but couldn’t imagine asking about it, because I felt, well, you’re so transparent about most things, you would have shared it if you were comfortable doing so. I just don’t understand why people feel they have the right to know such personal information 😞. But we humans can be a curious bunch, I suppose. I love who you are, Susan, and look forward to your beautiful videos every week. The fact that you’ve not only survived the trauma, but are now thriving, is a very hopeful thing. You are good medicine. Shut out the noise and keep doing what you’re doing. We’ll be here waiting ❤
Beautifully spoken❤
Couldn't have said it better.
Lots of Love from England xxx
True words! Greetings from Germany. ❤
So true, and yes, she is a medicine that feeds my soul when I’m feeling a little down.
So well said!!!! 💝
Oh my goodness I never thought of your weight at all! I just love your personality and you give me hope as an older woman. God Bless you !
Sooo AGREE!
You are so sweet! I have a few more pounds to lose but I do appreciate your kindness!!! There are so many things more important than each other's weight! Much love to you!!! xo Susan & Dez
Yes, why are we even talking about Susan's weight when she doesn't need to for her age. She's looking fine, younger than her age. Am here for her words of wisdom and Desi. They are the reason I survived during pandemic ❤❤❤
It's hard to imagine Susan that you don't realize how many woman you have inspired and helped through some very hard and challenging times. Sharing your life with us, taking us all on this journey with you, the incredibly beautiful content you provide here on this platform each and every week. I would venture to say the majority of your subscribers look forward with great anticipation each week watching your next video in great anticipation. This is what our world needs right now, more platforms delivering high vibe content to counteract all the negativity we all face on a daily basis in this world we find ourselves living in right now. You my dear are a very very gifted powerful healer. Thank you for all that you do. I think I can safely speak for all here, we love and adore you and our sweet Desi ! ❤
True words!❤
I couldn't have said it better...
Sweet, sweet Susan. We love you for your understanding and your wisdom. We truly don't care what your size is. You are truly beautiful. Thank you for being there for us. What can we do for you?
Your talking about Sean is very emotional for me, as my son is adopted. I know he was missed, too. He knows his birth mother, but they don’t have a relationship. They live within a half hour of each other. He has half siblings. He has no ongoing relationship with them. It’s just casual, and he doesn’t see them.
I guess that for you there is I hope happiness with the pain. Because I believe Sean had wonderful parents. That’s precisely why he’s not in your life. YOU did your job. You gave him the life you wanted for him, but couldn’t give him. And it was good.
If I had you here, I would give you a great big hug. We are, after all, two sides of the same coin.
You are absolutely stunning - you are so youthful at 70!! Truly an inspiration for this 67 year old woman! It is such a shame that women feel they need to go on Ozempic to be stick thin at all costs. Society has lost the ability to see beauty in every age and size. Thank you for reminding all how important that is!
Wow, your vulnerability sharing your story was amazing. Thank you for trusting us with that. You are a very special woman!💐
Thank you for sharing. My sister had a baby when she was just out of high school and gave him up for adoption. After my sister died a couple years ago my niece found him. He was raised in a wonderful loving family and had a good life. He is 50 and married with a family. He had moved out of our state. My niece talked to him on the phone but we haven’t met him yet. My mom told me she loved him more or at least as much as any other grandchildren. It was heartbreaking for her my sister to leave him at the hospital but my sister did the right thing by giving him life. I comment her for that. We will all be together someday with our lord in heaven. Sometimes the hardest things in life to do are the best. May God bless you and my sister by doing a very unselfish thing by giving life to these precious babies. ❤️🙏
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It is an act of great love ❤
I’m 64 and I wear X-Large size 14 & I eat Oreos 😂 you look beautiful ❤
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@@anngosda7333 we only live once, enjoy your life. And I’m sure you’re beautiful!
I love it 😆 I'm 60 and wear 10, 12 or 14 in whatever brands, but "I feel good!" I would make James Brown proud 🤣
Hahaha..my kind of girlfriends 😊
You kind of remind me of myself! I weigh more, but I'm 5'9". Our hair & makeup is similar. So is our shape. I'm 73. I've always embraced being feminine. I think you're absolutely lovely. Please don't let anyone shame you. Be your glamorous, curvy self. You're also thoughtful and interesting. So much more than looks!
70 years young…WOW!!! You are gorgeous 🤩
My favorite thing about you is your honesty!! You have such a beautiful outlook on life!!
Susan, a year ago, my husband of 35 years asked for a divorce. I moved out with my little dog, Sophie. That’s when I discovered your videos. You have been inspiring & encouraging me each week. The courage you impart to me & others like me, are so appreciated & such an antidote for feeling invisible at 70. Keep up the good work! Ignore the alligators out there.
You are so sweet!! Happy Monday!!! I am so sorry you have been going through so much...so many ladies are in this boat and making big decisions about where they go to live and how to live. 35 years is a long time...lots of love and shared memories...how are you? I hurt so much after my divorce..but there was relief too..freedom is such a beautiful thing for a woman...let me know how you are! xo Susan
Mine was 28 yrs so i understand ..it has taken 20 yrs because of his(ex) personality and the same year my son took his life.. i hve 3 other sons and 1 daughter and 4 granchildren ...i am thinking of you and you will thrive in yr new life ...God bless
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Hang in there. You will be OK. Us ladies are mighty strong ❤ Love from Ireland 💚💚💚
I can't believe anyone would comment on your weight. You are beautiful
The only people that would make rude remarks about her are people that wish they looked as good as she does
@@carolkokx9638 Or mostly they're just insecure about everything. Some are probably thin and attractive but they're so caught up in society's and their chosen community's standards, they feel they're never good enough. I really feel sorry for people like that.
yes she is gorgeous
You are beautiful in every way. Thin is unattractive. I’ve never had a man friend tell me that they like thin. Men like a butt . They like neat but not a lot of makeup. You girl are as near perfect as as you could be. Jealous women tell you the opposite of what they know is true. Be you.
I love your videos. Thank you for all the time you put into creating them. You are so special
Susan, I’m shocked anyone would comment on your weight. You are a beautiful woman. You do NOT have a weight problem. Like all of us, it fluctuates, but you are fortunate to not have to worry about weight the way some women do with obesity. You are normal. Being a size medium at our age is awesome, and no small feat. I cannot believe your views go down when you gain a few pounds. That is insane. Your weight doesn;t even show in most videos. And when it does you are normal, and beautiful, and look ten years younger than you should.
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You are Classy, Healthy, Kind, Funny, Smart, Talented, Creative, Brave, Successful, Beautiful and Blessed:)...
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Every Day:)! You are Empowered and a True Blessing:) 🙌 ❤
Yes she IS!😘
Such a true sum of Susan~She’s a very beautiful complex and talented woman 👩 💕
Who are these people incredibly cruel judgmental and petty! Please DO NOT dignify acknowledging their comments. My advice is block them immediately!
Lost my husband about 3 weeks ago after a long illness. Watching you encourages me. I never miss! Thank you so much 🥰
So very sorry for you Debbie. God Bless. 🙏💐
Luv Gangsta Desi.. He never has to be in a closet ever again. He has a home and a garden he can roam freely. Thank you for your kindness.❤️🐾
That made me teary 🥹 and I agree.
Why was Desi in a closet?
I am shocked at people's attitude about weight! I'm 67 and wear x-large. Life is too short not to enjoy a cookie! I don't give a crap if others think I am too heavy. I am healthy and strong with a loving family and grandchildren to enjoy. You are beautiful Susan!
You are dearly loved. Hugs! ❤🙏❤
This is why I love you so much, even without knowing you in person. In a world of fake social media, you are genuine and authentic. Just listening to you speak, radiates the beautiful soul that you truly are. I LOVE that you speak about personal subjects and ones that are difficult to talk about, like your son Sean today...but that's why we love you and feel a special connection with you my beautiful soul sister❤ I truly don't think you realize how many of us sisters you touch every week, with your beautiful soul..and of course Desi is just the icing on the cake🎂 thank you for taking the time out of your life to be with us on a weekly basis! WE LOVE YOU!!❤❤❤ Have a wonderful week Susan!🥰
You look amazing, in all of those photos and at your different weights. Our wealth is in our health. And beauty shines from the inside out.❤
You also gave the beautiful gift of life to another couple. Bless you. ❤
So well said 💕
I was adopted at 6 weeks. Always had 2 birthdays. Celebrated my birthday & then my adoption day. I knew how much I was loved & wanted. I believe my biological mother was very brave. She gave my parents a precious gift. She must have been very unselfish.
I am a guy that thinks you are a very good looking woman and your weight is not a factor in that judgment. Your smile, your laugh, your personality is what is the most important thing to me. Your talent for creating a beautiful and restful place to live and your caring about other people and nature is a talent that few people have. Thank you
Good grief who would say you are overweight,...some people are so petty. Ignore them😅
They are Jealous. Plain and simple. Susan has so much going for her, they can't stand it. Too bad there are women that like to tear other women down.
BTW - I'm younger than you by at least 10 years, and to me, you look perfect! Your weight, the way you dress/ style, make up, the jewelry you wear.... everything! And let's not talk about your sense of humor and the masterful way you put together your videos. I'm too busy being grateful you're sharing your life with us, to waste time trying hard to find fault or risk offending you with nosyness. Thanks, Susan!
For those of us whose lives have been touched by adoption in one way or another, I appreciate you sharing your story as a birthmother. You are a blessing!
I do too. My husband and I adopted back in 1994 and 1996 and my girls are half sisters. Blonde hair and blue eyed beauties. God answered my prayers to be a mother. ❤
I am overweight and I used to think I was lesser than people of normal weight .I realized that my weight doesn't change who I truly am personality wise. Life is too short to have angst over such a superficial thing . I am not here to please others so those who don't like me the way I look oh well it sucks for them .
Damn right
I didn’t ever know about your beautiful son (Sean, Shaun, Shawn). I’m so sorry that you have had to live with that pain for most of your life. I too had a son Shaun that I couldn’t keep. My reason was different, as he passed away at two months old. I always look up at the stars to speak with him. We aren’t looking at the same stars, because he’s above them. But, it brings me comfort. You are such a beautiful woman, and my heart just breaks for you. You are in my prayers ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Oh I am so sorry you lost your baby too. I am sending you hugs for when you remember and are crying. It is just too much for the heart to hold onto. Love to you .
That’s beautiful Miss Patty.
Such a tender and heartfelt comment🙏💕
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@@dorisdaylight8415 Thank you! Prayers for all Mama’s who have had to live with this pain. I honestly burst into tears when I heard her story, my prayers are for her and all the beautiful women who have lost a child. It doesn’t matter the age, a child and Mother are so closely united forever. You too are a beautiful soul ❤️
Susan im so sorry about your 1st. Son but im glad you got to see him i cant imagine the love and joy you felt when you saw shon❤
You’re beautiful no matter what your weight is! It disturbs me that viewers stop watching a creator because of their weight. That’s so shallow of them and speaks volumes as to the kind of people they are. I’m interested in your content and how sweet you come across in your videos, not your waist size. I, for one, don’t measure a person by their size or looks. It’s sad that our society has become so unforgiving of any little “perceived” flaw they see - perhaps they need to take a really hard look at themselves in the mirror. But, truth be told, they probably don’t like what they see in their own reflection. As the saying goes, hurt people hurt other people. If you want to get healthier, please do it for yourself, not because of comments or statistics. “YOU DO YOU!! That’s why your true loyal followers like me love you. ❤️🥰👏👏
I’m Okay when I Scream. That hit home. No one is truly prepared for this stage in life. So many things to be grateful for, but also so many mixed feelings, emotions and loneliness. Your transparency is inspiring, makes me feel comforted.
Keep doing what you’re doing.
Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.❤❤
Thank you Penny...we are just fine when we scream...I think it proves we are in the game of life! I love your words!!! be yourself!!!
Yes! Be you. They'll adjust!
Bless you for choosing life for Sean! So glad you connected.
Amen ❤
It’s shocking to me that anyone would make rude comments about you, Susan. You are a beautiful soul who helps so many to not feel as alone or different. I can imagine that it must not be easy to publicly share about difficult times in your life. You are brave, Lady!
Sweetie, you’re a beautiful soul who shows what’s possible as we age and how to do it gracefully. And your photography/videography is simple gorgeous! And you’re real! AND Mr. Dez is the icing on the cake!! What’s not to love, whether your 130 or 170!💞🥰
I watch because you seem honest and kind. Plus, you're so talented. You write poetry, decorate, garden, love photography, and play fantastic music! What you do each week takes guts! Thank you.
Who the Hell told you that you are too heavy at a size medium?????????? Do you know how many people would love to be your size?? I would !!! You carry yourself with such grace, attractiveness, you seem fun, and you always look gorgeous in whatever you wear....I weigh more than you and i don't give a flying flip what anyone thinks of me.... I have more men come on to me as a plus size woman then ever at 141 when I was 18..... I looked anorexic and felt like crap. I feel great plus size...I have been married for 43 years and my husband thinks I am the most beautiful sexiest woman ever. I have people tell me how great I look all the time. I'm not saying this with a big head, I'm saying this because you can carry yourself at any weight/size with pride, beauty, personality and be very attractive to others.
Who cares what others think anyway??
The world needs more of your kindness, grace and beauty. 🌷 Please keep the videos of you and your sweet, little dog coming. They make my heart happy. 🩷
Oh my, people can be so intrusive. I don't tune in every Sat evening to see if you have lost or gained weight. Ridulous. I actually tune in for desi lol. Really. I enjoy seeing you each week and what you have been up to, and I do love desi.
How sad that we are judged by our weight…life is so much more..the first thing I see is your smile ..😊..and how authentic you are
Who care's how much a person weights. Beauty comes from the inside and shines through. Kindness is what matters in my life. I'm from Massachusetts so the storm didn't affect me but my daughter lives in Tennessee and some parts got hit really bad. My daughter is safe. See ya next week.
I have gained weight now 68 years old and I try to lose weight it is very hard; People should never shame anyone on anything It is what's on the inside that really matters Love your channel
Susan,
You are a beautiful woman just as you are. Two things I would like to bring forward. Being the age we are, I am 71, if we are too thin, it ages us and we look gaunt. The other thing, UA-cam adds weight. I met another couple of UA-camrs in person and marveled how much thinner they were in real life.
Susan you are so brave for putting yourself out there. We are all the better for it. Thank you 💖 😊
Thank you for addressing this weight issue. I am 67, 5 ft 8 in tall, and weigh 169 lb. I wear a solid size 12 and am happy to be in this healthy body. I am so tired of seeing influencers who give a unrealistic picture of being over 60 in a size zero. In my humble opinion, being healthy, strong, self-confident, and always improving yourself in mind body and spirit is the only way to live.
I wait for your video all week long! Love you!❤
Your video completes my Saturday!
I look forward to SHRINKING TRUMP on Friday's and LITTLE POET on Saturday's. My 2 UA-cam favorites!!
Over my lifetime, I've heard more men say how they love curves and a women who doesn't obsess over her body. You are lovely.
Yes body shame sucks. Healthy and comfortable is needed. ❤ judgements are shameful. ❤ grounded balanced is most important. You are special. Thank you for being you. ❤
You and I are the exact same size! You are beautiful inside and out. Don’t ever change ❤️
Susan you are beautiful no matter your weight. I don't come to watch you because your thin or heavy, I love your heart. You are so great with telling a story with your photography. I enjoy spending time with you and Dezi once a week and look forward to it. To me you are beautiful inside out and that has been true since day one. Life is too short, do you, and enjoy it!! XO
I am 72 and I lost my first husband 26 years ago! We were in our forties. I moved on and remarried and my second marriage had been 26 years! Only lately I have been thinking about my first husband and wished he could have known our grandkids! It’s kind of made me have a troubled mind! Idk why but as I get older, I think about my past years ago!
I know what you mean. I am also 72. For the past 2 years, I have been thinking about my past and see it in a difficult light and it has caused some "troubled mind" as well; almost like a life review. I hope you can find peace of mind.
@@patriciagrana5504 yes. I think you look at the past because there’s not as much time left in the future!
I think that we sometimes go back to what happened years ago and look at it with what we know and can do NOW....not THEN. It is easy to shame oneself for not knowing or not having the resources that we have now. I see that the idealistic and naive young person I was needs compassion and forgiveness .
I didn't know you had another son. That must have been heartbreaking for you to give him up. Even at 14. Remember when we were very young we loved all our play dolls like they were real. At 14 you still would have been a great mother if given the chance. God bless you.
Oh thank you so much for being here...you sure touched my heart..happy fall and happy weekend, Susan & Desi
That must have been so hard to come to terms with. I can see the hurt is still there, it’s like unfinished business I think. God bless you Susan you are an honest and inspiring person. X
Your weight is perfect and so are you and Desi. My husband died of Alzheimer’s 6 months ago and your channel has helped me so much (I’m about 1 year older and a few pounds heavier). It’s hard growing older and knowing you will be alone the rest of your life. I really appreciate your support and honesty.
I am quite a bit younger than you and I am not a corny person whatsoever lol, and I think your videos are beautiful and relaxing to watch. Do not change for anyone especially your weight. Women can be so horrible towards others. Unfortunately, misery loves company. You go, girl!
Susan you are truly beautiful…your face glows, your body is feminine…your voice is soft. You certainly don’t look like someone about to be 70! You rock!
Lots & lots of LOVE and RESPECT for you, Susan.
Dearest Susan, you impress me quite often, your ability to create a lovely home, your kindness and your generosity in sharing your joys and sorrows with us. Just because we watch you does not give us the right to know everything about you, nor to make unpleasant commentaries. You are beautifull at any weight, as you are truly beautiful inside.
Ah, and fluctuating weight… I have black pants in different sizes, that tells story.
Big hug for your lovely Desi. 🌷😘
I'm a member of the Birth Mother club too , my son is 46 ,I've never met him. I always think maybe one day I will. You're exactly who you are supposed to be. I sometimes think with everything going on in the world today that people would be so obsessed over ridiculous things. As always, I wish for you & Dez love, happiness & peace🙏💜🌷
I don’t watch your channel for weight inspiration. I watch your channel because of the peace and inspiration you give me. I like your decorating , thrifting and appreciating living in the moment.
One of the things I like the most about your channel is that you are so real and you share real life. While we may care about our weight and want to lose a few pounds, I think most of us are focused more on our health and trying to feel good and energetic. We have too many other things going on to worry about being as skinny as the next UA-camr. I appreciate that you share what works for you, fashion, interior design, and general reality day today. Oh and we cannot forget Mr. Desi!!! He keeps it all in perspective! 😊
I honestly think too skinny in older age just makes you look scrawny and more wrinkly. It doesn't hurt to have a few extra pounds if one becomes unwell, it is a bit of reserve.
Seriously, ignore the haters. I feel that these social media platforms have created a group of women who love to do this. Big hug for sharing your story - I cannot imagine the pain you have gone through.
What a beautiful story of your son, how unselfish you are!
We can be our own worst critics. The more critical we are of ourselves, the more critical we are of others. Give everyone a break, and accept each moment and everything as a gift. Life will flow more easily in every way. Thank you, Susan, for sharing here. I always learn something new.❤
I despise people shaming weight. It's ridiculous. I've been very thin but miserable. Now I'm fat but happy. My time is limited here on earth and I'm going to eat what I want. 70 lbs over weight. So what. It may extend my life another 6 months? Not worth it. Enjoy yourself and let the struggles go.😊
I have always said you can be thin or your can be happy.
Do not change anything. You are just beautiful. As we get older it's a new chapter for us to deal with. Just grow old gracefully. Do what makes you the happiest. You are beautiful just as you are.😊
Well. I watched and I cried. God bless you. Life is just hard at times. And so often we don’t understand why things happen the way they do or why each of us are faced with situations that we’re faced with. I fully believe God has a plan. He’s always had a plan. I don’t always understand it but I’m not sure we’re supposed to. What a wonderful mother you’ve been to both your sons. Seems you always did what you needed to do for both of them, no matter how hard it was. There’s no greater love than that. Thank you for another sweet visit!
Susan your home is beautiful and the way you’ve furnished it and decorated it is impeccable. As for you my dear, DITTO! Beautiful from the inside out.
Watching you brings me peace and joy and laughter. I found you last year and I feel so blessed you are part of my life. I’m 76 and I work hard to stay healthy. I have made conscious choices about the foods I eat, the way I stay active and choosing to do things that bring me joy. You shine as a beautiful soul. I’m so amazed that weigh would even come into the equation on your channel. I truly saw little difference in your pictures, I was just enjoying your beautiful smile. 20:52
You have no idea how much your being here,sharing your life has impacted my life! “Thank you” falls short in expressing my gratitude for what you and this community has done for me! You enrich my life and I am grateful!💜 Rude “keyboard warriors” need to get a life! It’s obvious the people who would make disparaging comments to someone who only wants to help other people by sharing her life truly need to get a life!!!!
Bless you Susan and blessings to Desi💜
I am saddened by what others can do to others hurtful words😥 We are only on this earth for such a short time in the whole scheme of things. Let's UPLIFT each other as women instead of tearing each other down. I watch all kinds of UA-cam videos and the size of the UA-camr NEVER effects my feelings towards them, it doesn't effect their talent or craft. People really need to get a life - instead of pooing on someone else's so they can feel better about themselves. Let's GROW UP ! There's a thought for the crab apples out there. You're wonderful and never let anyone affect your self-confidence. I know, easier said than done. 💌
Wow Susan you are so beautiful and in good shape; you are not fat. These commenters that are making negative comments are probably jealous. You look like your 20 years younger than 70. Please know you are beautiful outside and inside and your home is beautiful too; you are not fat. You look good ❤keep up the good work Susan. Thank you for sharing. You’re a sweetheart.
Hi Susan, the ones who criticize you are probably jealous of how beautiful you are! I'm in Texas visiting my brother and his wife. Missing home and my puppy. Also, I'm so glad you got to meet your son. I met my birth mother at 34 years old and it was the happiest day of my life.😊❤
You answered some very personal questions. I too gave up my son at 18.I wasn't married but I was in love with his father. We we're high school sweethearts not even prepared to raise a child. You did the selfless thing for your baby and I felt my son deserved everything I had ever had plus more. I've never been contacted by my son but his life is with the family that loved and raised him. He would be 53 now. I 'all never understand why people have to be so judgemental and just plain nosey. For me your channel is a breath of fresh air. I just lost my husband in June and I just hope I can build a new life like you have. I admire your courage, strength and creativity. You should be proud of all you have accomplished❤
Susan, I understand your reunion story first-hand, from the perspective of your son. I understand. It’s complicated. My love to you. And a big hug. 💕💕
Susan the fact that you had your son Sean ( forgive me if I didn't spell his name correctly) is a beautiful story. I will be 69 in December I would have loved to say I have a son/daughter and he/she is 46 years old but in my case I cannot say that because I was 22 & I aborted my child. So please don't be sad but rather be happy. I thought about deleting this comment but maybe someone will read this & they will not abort their baby. God bless you & Desi! Just wanted to say you look great as long as you are happy don't allow others to make you feel uncomfortable.
Such beautiful filming! - Belinda
Susan it makes me sick that people comment and tell you to lose weight,and you're too heavy!They are trolls!You are beautiful inside and out.Your taste in color and clothes and decor is fantastic!!You are beautiful the way you are!Stay you!!❤
YOU helped give me the confidence to attend an event with extra extra weight I didn’t have 18 months ago. I am proud of myself for going and yes there were lots of PICTURES and I’m still embarrassed. It was good for me. Thank you. Thank you.❤
People can be so mean and rude. I think you are a beautiful lady inside and out. And it doesn’t matter what you weigh. God don’t like ugly. And, all those people judging you and trying to belittle you are ugly. You, as with alot of us out here have been through alot. But, you’re still hanging in there. Thank you Susan for being in my life. If only through UA-cam. You have taught me alot. And, I look forward to seeing you and sweet Desi every week. Please don’t ever change. The ones of us that love your channel and your content will always be here for you. God bless you and Desi. See you next week. Sending you much love and many prayers. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
thank you so much! Happy Fall!!!
People can be shallow. Commenting on your weight that is crazy. You are such a loving & beautiful person. It tells me they must judge & criticize themselves heavily if they do it “out there”. What a way to live. This video was awesome and thank you for being so candid. You certainly did not owe anyone this however I am sure perhaps you chose to answer to help someone else. I love you & Desi. Thanks for all the creativity and openess you share in your weekly videos. I look forward to them. 🎉❤
You are so refreshing! A class act. You look great...you are beautiful inside and out. I am 63, i love to cook and decorate. Starting to work less. I also have 2 sons. You are an inspiration to many. Your UA-cam fan in Oceanside, California! 🌻🌞🍁🎃😃🙏🏼✨️Let go and let God.
Thank you so much! You touch my heart!
Please don’t let anyone make you feel
That you have to share anything you don’t want too.
Love to you and Desi!
Love his sweet voice!
It's a blessing that you reunited with your first son, I celebrate you tears of joy; crying with you. Hugs and kisses for Desi 😘
I admire the fact that you did not let the loss of your baby affect your entire life. You are an uplifting spirit thank you
You are one very classy lady! Keep being you!
Oh, you are so sweet! Thank you for your kind words.
I love you for you! You represent the majority of us out here. We're not perfect. You always look so nice from head to toe! You exude love and caring. You are genuine! You touch my heart with every video. You help me to realize I'm not alone. I think those rude comments come from people who feel less than inside, they lash out cuz of jealousy or to make themselves feel better . I feel sorry for them. So glad you are a confident women who can let those comments float on by. Keep being you and sharing with us every week, I look forward to Fridays!
Ohhh I didn’t know about your son.
So sorry, you had to suffer all that at 14 years old where you were just a girl. ❤ big hug for you 😊 thank you for sharing 🤗☀️
Women are the worst to each other and it's so sad. I am 65 and have seen it my entire life. Instead of embarrassing and supporting one another, some women throw hate. Those kind of comments are coming from their own insecurity .
You are beautiful and amazing. Keep doing you because that's what keeps me looking forward to your videos every week. Love your energy.
Women "of a certain age" come from a time when they were socialized to conform to an ideal of appearance; to compete with other women for a man's attention, and to be compliant. Career and mobility opportunities were fewer then.
Let's ignore the Mean Girls and wish them well. I love the Irish expression to critics: "Away off and chase yourself!", which I send mentally, not verbally (who needs a Donnybrook? = Irish brawl?)
Love your sweet soul. I am not one to comment I look forward to every video and the lovely scenery and music is so soothing for my heart. Life after the unexpected loss 2 yrs ago, of my precious man whom I met when I was 60 ( now soon to be 77) was miserable. You Dear Woman have helped me, along with my Faith to forge forward. Thank You for your transparency, keeping it real and sharing your heart. Take care you are very special💕
What I noticed about the clips where you are showing your weight is that you look absolutely beautiful and very confident at both ends of the scale. I love that! THAT is a great role model of how all women should feel! ❤️❤️❤️
Susan, you are the best. I like you just the way you are…beautiful, genuine, such an inspiration, intelligent, smart and the list goes on and on. Do not change. You share so much with all of us, you share your wisdom, your life with Desie, your home, shopping etc. I so look forward to Saturday nights to see what you have to say. Stay as sweet as you are, keep on doing what you love. I wonder what poetry books you refer to, I would like to know. Please have a good week, and thank you so much for sharing life with all of us. Bye until next week. Take care!!!
Hi Susan! Thank you for your prayers . I’m in the Knoxville, Tennessee area we were spared any damage from the hurricane! So many weren’t so lucky. I feel very blessed. We lost over 100 trees on our property last August during a storm and are still cleaning up from that. So very thankful.
My part of FL was spared this time. I know what it’s like to lose so much when we get flooded. I pray all those so badly affected will be able to recover🙏🙏🙏🩷🩷🩷
Little Poet... YOU are my hero. Your experience as a young teen hit my heart very hard. You did a most loving thing . I think you're the most beautiful angel ...thank you for sharing part of your story...you look so beautiful inside and out ..
You are my hero and I am so glad you are here!!! I am honored! Happy Monday!!! xo Love always, Susan & Desi
Susan, thank you for sharing your story about your pregnancy and birth. I'm glad the story has a happy ending. You're terrific, and we love your stories, your fashion sense, your decorating, Desi and all the rest.
Susan, you are a treasure ❤🫂
You look marvelous and do not listo the ignorant people. What's your lipstick color? It looks nice on you. God bless you.
Your channel is my favorite, I always watch for your videos on Saturday when you put them up.
You are an inspiration to me, and when I first started watching your videos years ago, you helped me to age without growing old.
When I turned 60 I felt that I could not follow my dreams and when you are old everything came to a standstill.
You helped me change my mind about age and dreams. Thank you.
I love Desi's voice. Thanks for sharing your life❤
Susan you're beautiful! At any weight. You're genuine and you're fun and an oasis in the craziness. This has been the strangest month of my life. We've had the plumber out 4 times, had breakers replaced twice, the car battery died, the neighbor threw food over our fence and gave my border collie food poisoning, our washer quit, we repaired it, it quit again and we bought a new one, a possum broke into our utility room (that was a surprise WHOO) I didn't know I could scream like that, and last night I went to throw my dog a bite of cheese and forgot the island was there and broke my hand. Goodbye September! Good riddance!! I needed seeing a good friend like you! You're so open, your weight is perfect and I love your beautiful little house. You're radiant and you're happy. Don't let the doubters get you down. You were incredibly brave to get through giving a baby up for adoption. That's so heartbreaking. Love to you and Desi xx
Gosh you have had a dreadful time. I know life can be crazy, it makes you wonder doesn't it. I hope you have a better October. Love to you.
@@dorisdaylight8415 Oh, you're so sweet! Life will be better in October!! Love to you too~
Wow! 12 unfortunate experiences....Sinister September!! I send Optimism for October and beyond.
I wish I could read every comment and delete the stupid ones! I’m sorry people are so rude. You are just perfect the way you are…. I so look forward to your videos! We are struggling with the after effects of Helena. We are so blessed that we are safe but it doesn’t look like we will have electricity, water, internet or phone service for many more days. My son lives 2 hours away and today as I sat on my front porch trying to cool off he drove up in my driveway and said go pack your bags….I’m taking you home with me! So the first thing I pulled up when we arrived was your channel. It made my day! We have a lot of damage around our house and some to our house but we were so fortunate! It truly looks like a war zone in our county. You brought me happiness today. Thank you!
Wow, Susan, that's so crazy !! You look so pretty and stylish! What the hell is wrong with people nowadays! Besides that you are so deep and intelligent, you blow my mind with some of your insights into life! As far as I'm concerned, you have it pretty much together ! Plus, you are Beautiful to boot!!!🎉
Thank you, dear Susan. You are so lovely. I love you so much!!!! Always be yourself. You are the person we love!!!!!!!