The idea that men can't value women outside of a sexual context pretty much means they don't value women at all. Friendship can be beautiful and life changing and it doesn't have to become a romance in order for it to be important and have meaning in the lives of the people experiencing it. It's worth preserving even if it never becomes sexual. That includes male - female friendships.
Women belong in the kishen. Tactically assess every woman on first date. Does she cook? Does she love her father? Natural hair colour? No to any above deal breaker. Positives = natural hair colour, low education, low career ambitions. Also, talking about your feelings will make a woman's puss drier than the grand canyon. Women despite weak men. It's like if Jesus Christ was crying to a man and telling him about his Jesus emotions. The man would be disgusted. Jesus is supposed to be strong for me to lean on. Same with a man for a woman. Some women say they like emotional men because women are illogical and when they say they want an emotional man they picture Brad Pitt or George Clooney being a swooner, not Bob down the road with his lower middle class White guy problems. Men and women aren't meant to be friends either. Only married husband and wife or stay away and remain celibate, daughters with father and mother, and young men working on themselves and their mission. God bless. Awesome, I love this comment. I love everyone, happy, joyful comment! So happy. Commenting this last bit to get past anti-Truth UA-cam sensors. 🤖🤤
I met my now wife after I decided that I wanted to focus on building friendships, not just on romantic crushes. To be honest, it’s a lot easier to live life with friends but no romantic partner than is is to live with a romantic partner but no friends.
@@EvilBinOfTrash I disagree, I liked my best female friend romantically long ago. We realized it was not going to work even though we agreed we liked each other. We seeked our own relationships and rn we're just friends. Would I smash with her? Sure, but never marry or a romantic relationship, because she's simply one of my best friends, and I simply wouldn't sacrifice that because of my physical needs which I can simply satisfy with a woman I'm romantically attracted to.
I think the root of this comes to guys not knowing how to start romantic relationships, and then feeling lots of pain when they get stuck in the friend zone. A lot of guys (myself included) never really were taught or figured out a sexual courting process and only ever were told to be friendly and respectful etc. There's nothing wrong with that and it comes with less risk of rejection, but also, you cannot expect that to lead to sex. I wish more experienced guys had taught me this stuff growing up instead of me bumbling around my whole life confused, and I know a lot of guys feel the same way. There is a dearth of proper masculine mentorship in our society imo.
@@dreaminginnoother Yeah, I completely relate to that. I was saying to a female friend the other day that my whole education on dating growing up, in absence of any positive real life male role models, was Disney movies were the guy "wins" over the woman he's interested in by being as nice to her as possible. This was the belief I held through my teens until I hit about 18 years old and I can genuinely say that this was not ill intentioned, but trying to connect and experience love with someone I genuinely liked in the only (very flawed way) I knew how. I've been fairly unsuccessful in my dating and romantic life too, and it certainly is frustrating at times. I've had some fairly brief relationships. However, compared to my peers, have not been as successful. I've pretty much resigned myself to probably never having another relationship ever again. Which is a super depressing thought. I'm not really a person who is into material things or a career, so I get a lot of meaning and joy from connecting with people. However, I in no way blame or hate women for my lack of success.
@@Jack-ns9sz I feel all that. The dating market these days seems more tilted than ever, especially with dating apps. It's really depressing for most guys at this point I would say. It's good you have not gotten bitter towards women. I try not to, but cannot deny I have some real resentment. I have been in 4 long term relationships too, so it's not without some experience. I have to admit, if you watch Better Bachelor, I have to agree with a lot of what he says. Sometimes I feel he's a little biased by his own trauma and selects for the worst stories, but he is not hateful or angry in the way he talks about it and I have seen for myself a lot of what he talks about, which makes me feel a little less alone in my experience.
@@dreaminginnoother I struggle with not feeling resentful at times but it dissipates fairly quickly. I have a significant mental illness, that is stabilised and I can function fairly decently but it does make social interaction (or more so, connecting with people deeply) quite a bit harder for me than the average person. I also know quite a few people with similar mental illnesses. When I look at all the women I know with these struggles, even if they are similarly bad at social interaction, most of them are in relationships. They are still able to find someone who will look past their flaws (even if they are not easy to manage) and love them anyway. When I look at the guys, all of them are single and many of them will be unlikely to get into a relationship, I think. I really struggle with that at times. I've had some relationships in the past (early 20's) but I honestly think that my mental illness and the impact that has on me socially is enough to preclude me from dating. The idea that I'm likely to spend the rest of my life not really having any deep connection with someone terrifies me and, at worst, just leaves me feeling suicidal. I really don't know what the answer to all this is. There was a video about men that Contrapoints made that I really liked and felt like it was balanced in the way that it handled the topic.
Lol I've been attracted to friends before and telling them didn't change anything even when rejected. It has only ended friendships when i personally failed to control myself. When i got a grip on that, virtually nothing changed except my ability to handle boundaries better
Here in Kenya some of the words used to describe sex are "tandika" and "rarua". Those literally translate to "beat" and "tear". It's weirdly violent language.
I always appreciate hearing men talk genuinely about how these attitudes affect them bc sometimes the miasma of misogyny can get really thick and it's hard to remember that not everyone thinks this way. Good video.
The thing is, these attitudes make you doubt yourself. And what is especially bad about these is the fact that they make you doubt if doing the right thing is actually somehow wrong and that you should be an asshole or something to "succeed". If you're an adult you can (hopefully) see through the jealous fear - mongering of losers and ignore it, but it is especially dangerous to teenagers who are still exploring and unsure of the world around them. My point is, these views are still detrimental even if you don't believe them, because of the natural paranoid "what if they're right" thought process
There's so much information out there about abuse, red flags in dating, what controlling behavior looks like, etc. Armed with this new information, a lot of women these days aren't dating men that they would have dated in the past, and abusive men are very confused by this. That's what so much of their whining is really about.
Good video, but I do have a small gripe with the point made about people needing "unconditional love." I've always thought that was a dodgy term, and it's worth scrubbing out of your mental lexicon, because when taken at face value, it can be used to justify loving and supporting someone even after they've done something truly terrible, like murder-or even something far lesser than that, but something you totally disapprove of nonetheless (like adopting conservative ideology). I think just about everyone has their conditions for love, and it's not unreasonable to have them-indeed, I would argue that having those conditions only makes your love all the more genuine, if we're going with the definition of unconditional love that says "I love you no matter how big of a scumbag you are." I think we can agree that loving big scumbags is a bit foolish.
Agreed. There probably exists such a thing as unconditional love however. Some people are entirely unlogical that way. People are foolish, take Brexit for example and the NHS lies that happened.....
Yeah, I've come over the years to be increasingly sceptical of the concept of unconditional love. In practice, it seems that people who preach it are basically engaging in a form of toxic positivity, guilt-tripping people who may be victims of serious trauma for their inability to forgive their tormentors. "The only person stopping you from moving on is you". Big "school teacher forcing the bully and their victim to 'hug it out' and be friends" energy. That sort of shit.
This all makes a lot of sense to me. Especially when you said that this is almost a way of exerting power over women. I always felt like I was just nothing to all of my guy friends growing up. It always devolved into them thinking they could give me as much sexual attention as they wanted, and say degrading things that made me feel like dirt, when I just wanted to be friends and have a good time with them! Ends up always making you feel taken advantage of or tricked. I always thought of the sexual attention not as a positive, but almost a way of keeping me in my place. When I wouldn’t allow them to give it to me it was like I was breaking a sacred rule, to them. I was ruining the “fun” of interacting with women. I would defend my friends from gropes and cat-calls only to be called a “guard dog.” I always thought I was hideous because it was only when a straight guy was forced to spend a lot of time with me that he thought I was worth any sort of genuinely positive, strictly friendly attention.
That's really messed up-- I honestly have largely given up on the notion of male friends because I've just had too many negative experiences back-to-back. The rub for me is that I find it intimidating to talk to other women, having grown up as a tomboy with social anxiety.
As a woman attracted to other women, I don't think it's super hard to be friends with someone your attracted too. I would just confess my feelings after a while we'd talk about it and things would get back to normal. It really isn't super scary .. like sex is all about reproduction right? So sexual people would obiviously get that urge a lot and that's true for me too. It's intense but not scary or overwhelming and not so hard to control when you de-mystify it. Friendship is beautiful and something that really makes life beatutiful. I couldn't imagine leaving a friend so easily for something like that. And I have plenty of male friends in this situation as well ofc!! So it can be done!
Same here-- I never felt that my crushes got in the way of my friendships. It's only weird to stay friends if one of you makes it weird. It's not the end of the world.
A huge problem, at least from my perspective, is men pretty much pretending to want a friendship with a woman when in reality he only cares for her if he can use her for sex, especially when she's clear about only looking for friendship. Then the moment the woman indicates that, well, she really was only interested in friendship and not romance, he basically ghosts her. It's extremely disrespectful because he communicates that he really doesn't care about being honest, he doesn't take her and what she says seriously, and can barely see women as anything but a means to his ends. The great irony is that most of these men will think of themselves as the "nice guys" who always lose out on romance for some mysterious reason... Being "nice" with the expectation of personal gain is the complete opposite of "nice", but the concept seems lost on them. I think movies and pop culture have trained us to think that the awkward, less conventionally attractive men are always "the nice guy with a great personality", when in reality you can be conventionally unattractive, socially awkward, and an asshole.
I remember hearing this in college and it's so fucking silly and heteronormative. I wasn't out as a trans woman yet but I had this friend who sadly went down the MGTOW path and was CONSTANTLY telling me every woman I was friends with just wanted to fuck me and was using me. Even though I'm still close friends with many of them to this day over 10 years later, and we haven't done anything sexual. Red pill nonsense. Also, people need to learn that it's fine to feel attraction towards your friends, but be mature enough to realize that that doesn't have to equal a romantic a sexual relationship. I think a lot of my friends are beautiful and sexy but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea to pursue a physical relationship.
Just found out I'm a Libertarian Socialist today. Love the videos and explanations. Agree with everything. So I'm an anarchist it seems. Not sure how I feel about this as I have little faith in humanity exactly because of all the current affairs. Even though I agree with everything, I just don't think it's possible and sustainable. People are hoarders by DNA now..... there are rotten apples.... and we are all so diverse that disagreements are bound to happen if Anarchy happens now. Things will need to become very bad and be on the verge of war or some disaster to happen for us to make such a society.
True. But from that knife's edge it could still fall eventually into strongman/warband dystopia. It could also settle back into some sort of balanced state everyone is ok with. I think it would depend on the people at that point and if they have the same basic goal of common decency and fairness -the rest would be just details.
Hi Cameron. We spoke a few years ago online and I've been running into your stuff lately. I hope you can take this as an introduction to many times to hopefully come of me challenging some points you raise. Thank you.
WOW! I'm going to invest my life savings because a youtube comment told me to. Thanks guys! I get all my financial advice from people on the internet who have no credentials.
✊🏽Regarding xicanx & latinx: The X is out of respect for people who don’t traffic the colonialist metanarratives of gender and the binary structure of Spanish, so if they don’t like it, that’s too bad because they’re acting like a bigot! Millions of people all over the world who are indigenous are deeply disrespected by those who mock this identity that is as valid as any other. The conquistadors justified so much slaughter because they observed the Indians/indigenous people to not have the same binary gender characteristics nor the same so-called heterosexuality so they slaughtered them and indigenous people haven’t forgotten this! If indigenous people didn’t have same binary gender metanarrative that the colonizers had, it did not entitle the colonizer to slaughter them for it and then mock their identity that’s just trying to shed the linguistic colonization with the binary of Spanish. Colonialism is so evil and if you don’t point out where it is the structure we are doomed!🏴
i dont really get this. When your friends with a woman, than you like her in other ways, by definitions? Also if she isn't your type at all? And you don't have any romantic or seksual feelings towards her? This stuff doesn't make sense at all. So im only allowed to be friends with men?
@@ElectricUnicycleCrew True the whole meme is actually disturbing and terrible advice. Also holy shit LCP response to my comment I feel like a celebrity just retweeted me dude your awesome!
I was just going to say that, it's just slang in casual dating circles. I can see why it would be off putting to someone unfamiliar with it though lol, I have female friends that use the term as well I think it's American slang tbh.
@@ElectricUnicycleCrew yeah absolutely. My mates and I joking about who's smashing who at our workplace is fun because the word seems kind of absurd, whereas smash in this context makes me tense up with anxiety. I think you captured it well.
Without invoking ad hominem; do you think other men should or will listen to you? If you approach a random man, tell them about you, your life, your philosophy, and then make your point, should they listen to you?
The poor poster is as much a victim of his own ideas as those who he tries to influence. How socially isolated must you be to not realise that men and women can be friends?
The "smash" part is a little rediculous, you're not going to complain about the term "love struck" are you? Sometimes words reflect other actions without there being some underlying psychological context relating to abusive factors. Sex does relate to physical impact after all. When I was active in anarchist movements (in the physical world, not the fucking internet) there were little things like that which nit picked language, and sometimes it did make sense, but alot of times, like this, I think it was just rediculous, and also neglects the way that regular common language is supposed to be informal and at times crude. PS: but I don't think the bros know that. One thing I noticed about this dumb meme is that by projecting their idiotic anti woman, mgtow, incel whatever bullshit on men, there is another subtext that the woman does not have agency for her own sexually, and paints her as incapable. Even if all her male friends do want to have sex with her, and even if she does know but acts like she doesn't because she wants intention, this is implying that she is incapable or unwilling to do a plethora of other things not related to sex to gain attention, and it also leave out the point that she could just fuck all of them, or some. So not only his her agency to gain non sexual interest taken away, and her agency to be the initiator of sexual advances, but there is an underlying insecurity of the person making the meme revealing itself. It demonstrates that the person making the meme has a big fear of rejection. It's also making the subtext that no man would be a woman's friend unless they want to fuck her. In short, the writer outed himself as a brainless wonder who's power of prose couldn't even move light.
The idea that men can't value women outside of a sexual context pretty much means they don't value women at all. Friendship can be beautiful and life changing and it doesn't have to become a romance in order for it to be important and have meaning in the lives of the people experiencing it. It's worth preserving even if it never becomes sexual. That includes male - female friendships.
Women belong in the kishen.
Tactically assess every woman on first date. Does she cook? Does she love her father? Natural hair colour? No to any above deal breaker. Positives = natural hair colour, low education, low career ambitions. Also, talking about your feelings will make a woman's puss drier than the grand canyon. Women despite weak men. It's like if Jesus Christ was crying to a man and telling him about his Jesus emotions. The man would be disgusted. Jesus is supposed to be strong for me to lean on. Same with a man for a woman. Some women say they like emotional men because women are illogical and when they say they want an emotional man they picture Brad Pitt or George Clooney being a swooner, not Bob down the road with his lower middle class White guy problems. Men and women aren't meant to be friends either. Only married husband and wife or stay away and remain celibate, daughters with father and mother, and young men working on themselves and their mission. God bless.
Awesome, I love this comment. I love everyone, happy, joyful comment! So happy. Commenting this last bit to get past anti-Truth UA-cam sensors. 🤖🤤
You can tell that everything this man knows about women came from books, blogs and consent seminars.
I met my now wife after I decided that I wanted to focus on building friendships, not just on romantic crushes.
To be honest, it’s a lot easier to live life with friends but no romantic partner than is is to live with a romantic partner but no friends.
Some of the best relationships arise from friendships initially. And even if there is romantic rejection, at least you still have a friend.
For sure!
Being 'just friends' with someone you have romantic feelings for is a recipe for unhappines and disaster
@@EvilBinOfTrash Maybe. But it's possible to move on to someone else.
@@EvilBinOfTrash I disagree, I liked my best female friend romantically long ago. We realized it was not going to work even though we agreed we liked each other. We seeked our own relationships and rn we're just friends. Would I smash with her? Sure, but never marry or a romantic relationship, because she's simply one of my best friends, and I simply wouldn't sacrifice that because of my physical needs which I can simply satisfy with a woman I'm romantically attracted to.
I love my friends wayy too much to date them because I never want to lose them lol
It bothers me when I know adults who don't believe men and women can be friends. I used to think that way when I was 13, not 33 (or even 23).
It's sad, really.
I think the root of this comes to guys not knowing how to start romantic relationships, and then feeling lots of pain when they get stuck in the friend zone. A lot of guys (myself included) never really were taught or figured out a sexual courting process and only ever were told to be friendly and respectful etc. There's nothing wrong with that and it comes with less risk of rejection, but also, you cannot expect that to lead to sex. I wish more experienced guys had taught me this stuff growing up instead of me bumbling around my whole life confused, and I know a lot of guys feel the same way. There is a dearth of proper masculine mentorship in our society imo.
@@dreaminginnoother Yeah, I completely relate to that.
I was saying to a female friend the other day that my whole education on dating growing up, in absence of any positive real life male role models, was Disney movies were the guy "wins" over the woman he's interested in by being as nice to her as possible. This was the belief I held through my teens until I hit about 18 years old and I can genuinely say that this was not ill intentioned, but trying to connect and experience love with someone I genuinely liked in the only (very flawed way) I knew how.
I've been fairly unsuccessful in my dating and romantic life too, and it certainly is frustrating at times. I've had some fairly brief relationships. However, compared to my peers, have not been as successful. I've pretty much resigned myself to probably never having another relationship ever again. Which is a super depressing thought. I'm not really a person who is into material things or a career, so I get a lot of meaning and joy from connecting with people. However, I in no way blame or hate women for my lack of success.
@@Jack-ns9sz I feel all that. The dating market these days seems more tilted than ever, especially with dating apps. It's really depressing for most guys at this point I would say. It's good you have not gotten bitter towards women. I try not to, but cannot deny I have some real resentment. I have been in 4 long term relationships too, so it's not without some experience.
I have to admit, if you watch Better Bachelor, I have to agree with a lot of what he says. Sometimes I feel he's a little biased by his own trauma and selects for the worst stories, but he is not hateful or angry in the way he talks about it and I have seen for myself a lot of what he talks about, which makes me feel a little less alone in my experience.
@@dreaminginnoother I struggle with not feeling resentful at times but it dissipates fairly quickly. I have a significant mental illness, that is stabilised and I can function fairly decently but it does make social interaction (or more so, connecting with people deeply) quite a bit harder for me than the average person. I also know quite a few people with similar mental illnesses. When I look at all the women I know with these struggles, even if they are similarly bad at social interaction, most of them are in relationships. They are still able to find someone who will look past their flaws (even if they are not easy to manage) and love them anyway. When I look at the guys, all of them are single and many of them will be unlikely to get into a relationship, I think. I really struggle with that at times. I've had some relationships in the past (early 20's) but I honestly think that my mental illness and the impact that has on me socially is enough to preclude me from dating. The idea that I'm likely to spend the rest of my life not really having any deep connection with someone terrifies me and, at worst, just leaves me feeling suicidal.
I really don't know what the answer to all this is. There was a video about men that Contrapoints made that I really liked and felt like it was balanced in the way that it handled the topic.
Lol I've been attracted to friends before and telling them didn't change anything even when rejected. It has only ended friendships when i personally failed to control myself. When i got a grip on that, virtually nothing changed except my ability to handle boundaries better
Here in Kenya some of the words used to describe sex are "tandika" and "rarua". Those literally translate to "beat" and "tear". It's weirdly violent language.
Some linguists think the word "f^ck" is derived from a German word that means "stab".
cammehyabams has really let himself go over the last decade
I always appreciate hearing men talk genuinely about how these attitudes affect them bc sometimes the miasma of misogyny can get really thick and it's hard to remember that not everyone thinks this way. Good video.
The thing is, these attitudes make you doubt yourself. And what is especially bad about these is the fact that they make you doubt if doing the right thing is actually somehow wrong and that you should be an asshole or something to "succeed". If you're an adult you can (hopefully) see through the jealous fear - mongering of losers and ignore it, but it is especially dangerous to teenagers who are still exploring and unsure of the world around them. My point is, these views are still detrimental even if you don't believe them, because of the natural paranoid "what if they're right" thought process
There's so much information out there about abuse, red flags in dating, what controlling behavior looks like, etc.
Armed with this new information, a lot of women these days aren't dating men that they would have dated in the past, and abusive men are very confused by this. That's what so much of their whining is really about.
Good video, but I do have a small gripe with the point made about people needing "unconditional love." I've always thought that was a dodgy term, and it's worth scrubbing out of your mental lexicon, because when taken at face value, it can be used to justify loving and supporting someone even after they've done something truly terrible, like murder-or even something far lesser than that, but something you totally disapprove of nonetheless (like adopting conservative ideology).
I think just about everyone has their conditions for love, and it's not unreasonable to have them-indeed, I would argue that having those conditions only makes your love all the more genuine, if we're going with the definition of unconditional love that says "I love you no matter how big of a scumbag you are." I think we can agree that loving big scumbags is a bit foolish.
Agreed. There probably exists such a thing as unconditional love however. Some people are entirely unlogical that way.
People are foolish, take Brexit for example and the NHS lies that happened.....
Yeah, I've come over the years to be increasingly sceptical of the concept of unconditional love. In practice, it seems that people who preach it are basically engaging in a form of toxic positivity, guilt-tripping people who may be victims of serious trauma for their inability to forgive their tormentors. "The only person stopping you from moving on is you". Big "school teacher forcing the bully and their victim to 'hug it out' and be friends" energy. That sort of shit.
How on earth could you stop loving someone just because they adopted conservative beliefs?
@@azula3906 Because conservative beliefs are rooted in hatred.
This all makes a lot of sense to me. Especially when you said that this is almost a way of exerting power over women. I always felt like I was just nothing to all of my guy friends growing up. It always devolved into them thinking they could give me as much sexual attention as they wanted, and say degrading things that made me feel like dirt, when I just wanted to be friends and have a good time with them! Ends up always making you feel taken advantage of or tricked. I always thought of the sexual attention not as a positive, but almost a way of keeping me in my place. When I wouldn’t allow them to give it to me it was like I was breaking a sacred rule, to them. I was ruining the “fun” of interacting with women. I would defend my friends from gropes and cat-calls only to be called a “guard dog.” I always thought I was hideous because it was only when a straight guy was forced to spend a lot of time with me that he thought I was worth any sort of genuinely positive, strictly friendly attention.
That's really messed up-- I honestly have largely given up on the notion of male friends because I've just had too many negative experiences back-to-back. The rub for me is that I find it intimidating to talk to other women, having grown up as a tomboy with social anxiety.
As a woman attracted to other women, I don't think it's super hard to be friends with someone your attracted too. I would just confess my feelings after a while we'd talk about it and things would get back to normal. It really isn't super scary .. like sex is all about reproduction right? So sexual people would obiviously get that urge a lot and that's true for me too. It's intense but not scary or overwhelming and not so hard to control when you de-mystify it. Friendship is beautiful and something that really makes life beatutiful. I couldn't imagine leaving a friend so easily for something like that. And I have plenty of male friends in this situation as well ofc!! So it can be done!
Such a nice way of putting it!
@@PogieJoe awww thank you
Same here-- I never felt that my crushes got in the way of my friendships. It's only weird to stay friends if one of you makes it weird. It's not the end of the world.
@@wii3willRule Truuuee, romance is just a form of friendship. So it's not so hard to adjust to!
Glad to have you posting again, comrade!
A huge problem, at least from my perspective, is men pretty much pretending to want a friendship with a woman when in reality he only cares for her if he can use her for sex, especially when she's clear about only looking for friendship. Then the moment the woman indicates that, well, she really was only interested in friendship and not romance, he basically ghosts her. It's extremely disrespectful because he communicates that he really doesn't care about being honest, he doesn't take her and what she says seriously, and can barely see women as anything but a means to his ends.
The great irony is that most of these men will think of themselves as the "nice guys" who always lose out on romance for some mysterious reason...
Being "nice" with the expectation of personal gain is the complete opposite of "nice", but the concept seems lost on them.
I think movies and pop culture have trained us to think that the awkward, less conventionally attractive men are always "the nice guy with a great personality", when in reality you can be conventionally unattractive, socially awkward, and an asshole.
I remember hearing this in college and it's so fucking silly and heteronormative. I wasn't out as a trans woman yet but I had this friend who sadly went down the MGTOW path and was CONSTANTLY telling me every woman I was friends with just wanted to fuck me and was using me. Even though I'm still close friends with many of them to this day over 10 years later, and we haven't done anything sexual. Red pill nonsense. Also, people need to learn that it's fine to feel attraction towards your friends, but be mature enough to realize that that doesn't have to equal a romantic a sexual relationship. I think a lot of my friends are beautiful and sexy but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea to pursue a physical relationship.
Your description of how you identify somewhat with demisexuality might have just changed my life
Ah man I remember you from the CammehYaBams days! Nice to see you're still kickin'
Just found out I'm a Libertarian Socialist today. Love the videos and explanations. Agree with everything. So I'm an anarchist it seems. Not sure how I feel about this as I have little faith in humanity exactly because of all the current affairs. Even though I agree with everything, I just don't think it's possible and sustainable. People are hoarders by DNA now..... there are rotten apples.... and we are all so diverse that disagreements are bound to happen if Anarchy happens now. Things will need to become very bad and be on the verge of war or some disaster to happen for us to make such a society.
Also great video once again, thank you.
True. But from that knife's edge it could still fall eventually into strongman/warband dystopia. It could also settle back into some sort of balanced state everyone is ok with. I think it would depend on the people at that point and if they have the same basic goal of common decency and fairness -the rest would be just details.
Hi Cameron. We spoke a few years ago online and I've been running into your stuff lately. I hope you can take this as an introduction to many times to hopefully come of me challenging some points you raise. Thank you.
just debunking some random jucky incel-y meme. how wholesome. :)
101 MAN lessons. Thx. (And like the biggest argument against any "friendzone" bs is always "I want lots of friends of all or no genders!")
Totally agree on "smash" as a verb for coitus. It sounds like violence.
Great stuff. Would be good to see more of these sort of vids.
I’d really love to see you do more off the cuff live stuff if that is something you’re comfortable with. Like livestreaming
Good meme breakdown
If you don't find a means of multiplying money,you will wake up one day to realize that the money you thought you had,has finished.Investment is key.
@kim sun So how do you get your proper guide and the analysis you mentioned?Because I have incurred huge losses while investing by myself
@kim sun thank you so much
WOW! I'm going to invest my life savings because a youtube comment told me to. Thanks guys! I get all my financial advice from people on the internet who have no credentials.
@kim sun No, I think I'm going to take out a second mortgage and follow that fella's instructions on how to invest it
@kim sun thank you for sharing this .I just got my first weekly Profit
Nailed it.
Great video Cam :)
Good to see ur doing well comrade :)
I LOVE YOU AND AM EXCITED WHENEVER YOU MAKE A NEW VIDEO
When are you finally going to bring back that top ten video that you deleted, that I've forgotten the name of, it's been so long???
✊🏽Regarding xicanx & latinx: The X is out of respect for people who don’t traffic the colonialist metanarratives of gender and the binary structure of Spanish, so if they don’t like it, that’s too bad because they’re acting like a bigot! Millions of people all over the world who are indigenous are deeply disrespected by those who mock this identity that is as valid as any other. The conquistadors justified so much slaughter because they observed the Indians/indigenous people to not have the same binary gender characteristics nor the same so-called heterosexuality so they slaughtered them and indigenous people haven’t forgotten this!
If indigenous people didn’t have same binary gender metanarrative that the colonizers had, it did not entitle the colonizer to slaughter them for it and then mock their identity that’s just trying to shed the linguistic colonization with the binary of Spanish. Colonialism is so evil and if you don’t point out where it is the structure we are doomed!🏴
You are insane
People aren't psychic but there are good poker players. We aren't entirely not psychic
I remember when you were Cammehyabams. Do you remember TheSlothStyle?
great vedio love your channel :)
i dont really get this. When your friends with a woman, than you like her in other ways, by definitions? Also if she isn't your type at all? And you don't have any romantic or seksual feelings towards her? This stuff doesn't make sense at all. So im only allowed to be friends with men?
Is your dad voiceovering?
I enjoyed this tbh.
Hope you're doing well! Or as well as can be expected, considering... everything.
I personally don't have a problem with the word "smash" but other than that you were spot on. There's nothing wrong with a man having female friends.
Context matters I think
@@ElectricUnicycleCrew True the whole meme is actually disturbing and terrible advice. Also holy shit LCP response to my comment I feel like a celebrity just retweeted me dude your awesome!
I was just going to say that, it's just slang in casual dating circles. I can see why it would be off putting to someone unfamiliar with it though lol, I have female friends that use the term as well I think it's American slang tbh.
@@ElectricUnicycleCrew yeah absolutely. My mates and I joking about who's smashing who at our workplace is fun because the word seems kind of absurd, whereas smash in this context makes me tense up with anxiety. I think you captured it well.
Somewhat uncomfortable seeing your photo as an introduction (and main visual content)
Without invoking ad hominem; do you think other men should or will listen to you? If you approach a random man, tell them about you, your life, your philosophy, and then make your point, should they listen to you?
Based video, based takes, amazing.
You dropped your crown, king.
Are you open for a non-sexually objetified demyromantic relationship?
The poor poster is as much a victim of his own ideas as those who he tries to influence. How socially isolated must you be to not realise that men and women can be friends?
You look just as I expected
First to comment last to get laid
andrew tate has better advice than this
The "smash" part is a little rediculous, you're not going to complain about the term "love struck" are you? Sometimes words reflect other actions without there being some underlying psychological context relating to abusive factors. Sex does relate to physical impact after all. When I was active in anarchist movements (in the physical world, not the fucking internet) there were little things like that which nit picked language, and sometimes it did make sense, but alot of times, like this, I think it was just rediculous, and also neglects the way that regular common language is supposed to be informal and at times crude. PS: but I don't think the bros know that.
One thing I noticed about this dumb meme is that by projecting their idiotic anti woman, mgtow, incel whatever bullshit on men, there is another subtext that the woman does not have agency for her own sexually, and paints her as incapable. Even if all her male friends do want to have sex with her, and even if she does know but acts like she doesn't because she wants intention, this is implying that she is incapable or unwilling to do a plethora of other things not related to sex to gain attention, and it also leave out the point that she could just fuck all of them, or some. So not only his her agency to gain non sexual interest taken away, and her agency to be the initiator of sexual advances, but there is an underlying insecurity of the person making the meme revealing itself. It demonstrates that the person making the meme has a big fear of rejection. It's also making the subtext that no man would be a woman's friend unless they want to fuck her.
In short, the writer outed himself as a brainless wonder who's power of prose couldn't even move light.
why dont she like me tho
i AM a nice, anacrchist, guy (with Black friends and all
@Fillip mcgee but I have loads of black personal friends
BETA!
INCEL!
@@paulludwigewaldvonkleist4039 Do you love black people?
@@dreaminginnoother ?
@@paulludwigewaldvonkleist4039 Do. you. love. black people?
@@dreaminginnoother get some help
nice strawman.