5 Things Every Marriage Needs // Dr. R.A. Vernon
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I love this teaching Pastor please don’t stop 🙏❤🔥🔥🔥🔥
RIGHT!
Love this
Was married for 47yrs. and he divorced me for another woman.
@@gloriasuggs5946 Sorry to hear,how to live and love like Jesus need to be addressed instead of carnal things
Lick smell....wow can't listen anymore...my husband loved me and enjoyed me and I didn't have to do all of that...a true MOG lovessss PEROID because their mind been renewed!!!
My grandparents were married for 78 yrs. One of my last wonderful memories of them at 98 and 95 was seeing them sitting in the hospital. He's sitting close to her , whispering something in her ear and she's laughing. I wondered, what can be so funny after 78 yrs. LOVE and LAUGHTER
What about the men that don’t have any sexual desire that doesn’t initiate anything and the woman having more
Wow
Beautiful
@@msclassylady6620 ĵ
@@msclassylady6620 then what are you doing there?
I really appreciate this. We've been married 41 years. I needed to hear ALL of this. This is real talk
Speaking truth. As a saved woman, we like eye candy too. When a man loves God, respects his woman and values her, then all things are possible.
THIS is what pre marital Counseling is made of 👏🏽👏🏽 no more 4 sessions in Ephesians.. How’bout 12 months of REAL talk !! ha-ta💃🏽
Pastor Vernon you have to get someone who will treat you the same way as your late wife you really need a help mate it’s no healthy for you
Our marriage happened when we were still dealing with things. The beginning has really been strained. I don't know how to really make this short cause it is really a lot. My husband is from Cleveland, Ohio and introduced me to you Pastor and Sister. I love him. Our journey is 10 years long with many errors on both sides. I know now I can't point one way cause I have to own my part and focus on allowing God to correct that . I am truly new in christ because I had been astray for a very long time. Plz will and can you lift us / my family up in prayer. God allowed me to have what I have wanted and even been disobedient to him for. So he said if I stay we have to be married. Because God had told me a few times to leave to let him fall. Because I need to focus in him and my husband is a distraction when it comes to my walk with him. But he allowed me to move forward. Because of that I need to I have to honor Christ in all that I do especially in my marriage. And I am doing it . Plz pray for us
“Life should be hard not your wife”🙌🏽
My GOD........Amen!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😌
Daaaannnggg!
@@orlandoengland9184❤😂😢😮😊😅
pastor you are in the house what a blessing to me
I am a single woman and I really appreciate your honesty. I think that women sometimes get so offended when someone says that we need to put in effort to keep our man/husband interested physically. The way that you explained it is in a practical and real manner. I think that it may be hard for women to find balance with pleasing a man/husband and not losing themselves. But that's where the leaning on God, Holy Spirit, Jesus comes in, as well as, real communication between the two people. Thank you. I'm going to utilize your advice. Praise God!
I love this … and much of the difficulty is because some people did not take the time to learn balance and who they were/are as a single.
It’s important to keep ourselves up period… but it’s hard to do that when you didn’t practice it before, when you don’t have a partner that is supportive etc. it’s hard to find that balance.
Great teaching, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@ddirtdid Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@Margart526 Her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@ddirtdid Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
Yup, cause you cannot depend of the false evidence of the love of god to save your marriage
Team 25th Wedding Anniversary!!! Me and My husband is 25 years in May!! So tell it Pastor! God Bless you with health, longevity and wealth in your marriage!!!
You must have Love ( friendship), Laughter, Lust ( stay in lust for your spouse and limit Lust for porno and external things/persons...go home), Live ( pursue/plan/ pray together), Lean on the good Lord at all times. Thank you for the straight talk.
Yes indeed
I'm not sure the Bible agrees with lust
I'm strong 💪🏽 and stand 10 toes on everything you said, pastor, but my mind and heart aren't resting peacefully on the lust part. Where in the Bible does it mean you can lust on your spouse? I'm totally confused about that part. Help me to understand. Thank you
I am a 62 yr. old woman single & satisfied by choice. But thank you Pastor Vernon for enlightening the world on a Godly marriage.
What made you watch this video?
@@faithtvonline I am proud to say The Word Church has been my choice of worship over fourteen years. I will always love and respect this true man of God.
@@michelewalker2473 That's wonderful, Michele. ❤️
Praise God for this wonderful testimony. Very few women I have heard saying this. It really takes courage and strength and above all, seeing yourself as God sees you; as His child. That makes you enough and complete. God bless you so much woman of God!
I'm a widow now and very satisfied being single...my husband gave me 35 yrs of true love not lust so I have enough to last me thank you Jesus !!! 😇
That’s good Pastor smelling good is very important ❤
LOVE , LAUGHER, LUST, LIVING, LEANING
Your “best friend” you can tell “anything” too and be yourself !!!
Let’s start here…. fraternities and sororities are demonic, I only bow to JESUS as he is ALPHA and OMEGA, also when it comes to marriage we must seek first the kingdom of God and the Holy Spirit will guide us to our husband’s and wives so that we’re not operating in our flesh. God bless
I'm glad you mentioned this! 👏👏👏 You can't serve two masters. And nothing about God is in secrecy.
God ain’t stopping it, god would rather punish people who try to honor him
This was an excellent and much-needed podcast. I'm a single lady who is patiently waiting for my guy who loves God first and then me. He must possess the attributes Dr. Vernon spoke about. 🙏
Waiting on Him!
Waiting on him too!!!
Preach paster
Sir, you are so right. I see unhappiness in the faces of my married friends. There is No Romance in the marriages. I cannot help them but wish that I could. I see the looks on the faces of the men. I sometimes wonder why they continue without working on the issues. Please keep telling the TRUTH! I will recommend this podcast to the ones that I am close to.
I wouldn't have a man in my life that doesn't fear Jesus either.
And his life has to show it consistently.
That’s a blessing most women could care less about a man that is after gods heart
Straight Wisdom! 🔥🔥🔥This is what is needed!! So many marriages suffer because the Church often sugar coats the components of marriage. Hearing this wisdom prior to marriage better equips you for a successful marriage.
Pastor I’ve been married with my husband for over 25 years and was and been the sexiest wife ever but he never saw that. Instead he was spending a lot of time with his friends. So now I thought since the children are grown and all, it’s time I do self care like taking more care and loving myself. He never changed till now he still goes to his friends. It means he must be getting something better from them 😢
no scam dealing with Montanahack1 lf not for Montanahack1 whom got me 2btc i would have been in the street begging
I agree with everything you said. Remember; only God can make a Male a real Man! Marriage is a union that God joins together! It is not easy, but the fight is worth the victory! May God be the glory!
This is so needed. When is the marriage conference.... we'll fly in for it! Let's go!
So true. A marriage conference is in order.
Dr. Vernon, thank you for laying this out on the line. There are a lot of people we need to hear these key principles to a successful relationship, whether dating or married.
I'll never forget the time when my late ΑΦΑ (Alpha Phi Alpha) hubby removed his eyeglasses while in church. He confided in me stating that seeing all the young women in their short skirts was a little bit too much eye candy. He did not want to give into the enemy and be tempted any longer. We were blessed to be together as BFF's for 28 years.
I am learning at age 65
Glory be to the Father
Dr Vernon,
I had many moments my husband prayed over me randomly, usually in the wee hours of the morning. I felt so covered. Honestly, I miss all of that!!! To God be the glory!!!
That's so sweet what happen to him?
So true. It's the laughter and friendship for me. My husband is hilarious without trying. It really keeps you going especially in the hard times.
Love laugh lean thank
I’m late to the party but this was a word!!!!! Newly engaged❤
Amazing! Will be 40 years marriage April 2nd.. Much needed word of God!
Happy Anniversary
I accidentally came across this. Thank you for sharing your lived authenticity of life, love and JESUS. May God continue to bless you joyfully!
I made mistakes and regret it 💯, but I know that God got me.
Your teaching is honest and right on time. Young people really need to understand the principles of love and marriage, not the "reality show" marriage. Thank you Pastor Vernon for this teaching. I've been married for 38 years and this broadcast put me in check.
Love this Dr. R.A Vernon. This is meat for me as a single person. I need him keeping his eyes only on me, and him being my super hero always in and out of our bedroom. People stop being friends and only get with others for other benefit and when it doesn't work they mad. I need my best friend to love, laugh and sharing life experiences with. Thank you for your transparency. 🙏🙏🙏😇
Ok, I am listening to you for the first time. I was a virgin when I got married almost 59 years, and 5 children later, 9 grandchildren and 5 great children. I was saved at the age of 16 and filled with the previous gift of the Holy Ghost! My husband found me in Church,I was not a street woman a clean woman in Love
With JESUS! But that was not my husband thought of are marriage. I never stopped trusting GOD for are marriage. My husband cheated on me for years, but God gave me children when I wasn't supposed to have children and I feel that God gave our children to get in His will and serve Him. So I can tell you this much I was and still am a beautiful woman in Christ. I know one true Truth about GOD'S WORD is a wise woman builds her house and a foolish woman tears down her house. You got to have wisdom and if a woman don't have wisdom in her marriage to seek God in her situation, love don't mean a thing for a man , you got to have true love for God more than true love for a man. Man will fell you but GOD has NEVER fell me yet. Yes, I had to learn to trust and love my husband all over again through CHRIST that STRENGTHENS me in the WORD.
Lalalalaaaa .. YES!!!. LAUGHTER IS VERY IMPORTANT... WITH U 100%
Excellent teaching Dr. V, this is grown folks food, I’m loving it. God bless you and your bride.
I am struggling with my marriage
Pastorrrrrrrr, thank you for this factual truth and transparency. The church, the married, and the singles Need this. I received it as a single women of God. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing! I agree with all you had to say. I felt the anointing on this message. Well stated. Your message was everything I ever dreamed of having in a marriage,
and still do. I married a man knowing I shouldn’t have because I didn’t want to continue living in sin with him by not being married. We’re still together, I’m his caretaker now. Please pray for me. I just want to be happy.
Pastor, this is a straightforward, REAL talk.Thank you. This is very much NEEDED, even by Christian men and women!❤
Most Pastors don’t talk this real n raw.
Team 25th Wedding Anniversary!!! Me and My husband is 25 years in May!! So tell it Pastor! God Bless you with health, longevity and wealth in your marriage!!! I Agree with this word!!
One of my Best memories it's was the visit of Adventist church of Naples, Florida, Happy Sabbath an from st Kitts & Nevis church Adventist, happy Sabbath all,god bless Adventist, thanks to all invited me,Dr Guzmán.People are church are more commit to married and families.
I agree with your bluntness as a pastor talking real to the sisters and brothers.....The raw truth will keep the marriage holy and hot 🔥
Great teaching 👍 .I wished I had this teaching 28 years ago
I love it!! I admire you and lady Vernon’s relationship from marriage to family to church. You are such a blessing and an inspiration to me. I tried everything to get my husband to come and be a part of your marriage ministry when we were going through, but he always had excuses. We’re divorced nowandGod still reigns in my life.
Happy Anniversary to you and your Beautiful Queen Woman Wife Family
Blessings many more love ❤️ prayers 🙏✝️ Faith Favor Forgiveness Happiness Hope Healing ❤️🩹 Strength Wisdom Guidance Joy Understanding Thank you for sharing your Happiness and Love ❤️
I really enjoyed this pastor! Very enlightening! Thank you 🙏🏾
Thanks for the teaching pastor
Yes sir! That attraction works both ways. Appreciate your realness
no scam dealing with Montanahack1 lf not for Montanahack1 whom got me 2btc i would have been in the street begging
On telegram
Good evening Pastor Vernon and Lady Vernon
Thank you Pastor for this amazing word! It’s the truth and we all need someone that will keep it raw, uncut and real…
Raw unadulterated speaking, you are so real I see a true man of God, who knows that you overcome. By the words of their testimony testimony.
Wow am so touched by this teaching 😢. I think my husband and I have somethings missing out here and by God's grace we are going to work this out and have our marriage working for good. ❤
Thanks so much and God bless you real good 👍 🙏 😊
So good!! Glad 😊 it looks like my husband and I are on the right path! GLORY!!
This is real talk. Thanks for being real. I'm a Single 60+ lady and I truly appreciate your teaching. This was phenomenal.
Oh my God!! This is real stuff and I love it... God has blessed me with a husband that i can't stop loving. This year is gonna be our 21st anniversary and we're still loving each other like we've just started. We enjoying each other and yes my man/husband is my best friend and lover. He was sent by God and as such nothing can separates us. Thanks for those 5 things, it refreshes our relationship and reminds us how blessed we are. Continue to shine for the lord and your reward is awaiting you. Blessings
Love this , my husband and I are married for 26 yrs and we still go to bed holding hands❤❤🤗🥰
@@normawilliams-coulthrust5798 that's great...I love these things I can tell you that if a person can decides to leave each other and divorce then they can decide to stay together until death....I love it keep on doing it right...blessings
God bless you pastor for being practical about marriage, most marriage talks and councilor based their topics most on women, we need more teaching on men, women are suffering more in marriage for husband behaviors
AMEN!!!5L thank you Dr.❤❤❤ R.A. Vernon
I watched this twice and I think you hit all the right places " Nailed it"
REAL & RAW. 👍🏼👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯
Come on now! This is raw. I love this teaching.
Learn a lot today! Thank you for this! Wake up call!👏🏽🙏🏽
Good teaching. Ty. Blessings
Bless you and your beautiful wife, this was a great teaching tonight. Amen.
Blessings Pastor RA and Lady Victory!!
Good Bible-Cast! Thank you Pastor Vernon!
Never heard of you, don't know who you are, this just moved into you whilst I houseclean...but WOW! WOW! Gonna send to my hubby ..real raw and on point...God bless you and wifey❤🎉
You don’t have to be the BEST looking man, but ya gotta have it going on in the other areas that are important to us women.
I LOVED this teaching. Blessed me beyond measure. I saw the 25th beautiful.
OMG!! YOU ARE SO RAW AND REAL PASTOR, THIS IS AWESOME, BLESSINGS, WOW!!.WOW!!!
God restored my marry life! Met a man during the horrible pandemic 2019. He loves me as Chirst loves the church! hell tried but Jesus prevailed! We both loving Jesus & us❤. Amen Pastor! We seniors(seasoned)over 60 too! We still newlyweds married two year! 1 Corinthians 7 chapter help us too🙏😊
I am loving this teaching. My man sent this to me. And I love him all the more.
Pastor Vernon keep on teaching and giving godly marriage advice.
Beautiful Brother. Thank you for the real.
Pastor you speaking truth, woman refuses growth, ultimate church folk you wouldn't believe it !!!!!!
Muchthanks for this free counseling and teaching
(so glad you teach what I've been saying)
Thank you for your guidance, I'm single but it truly blessed me. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I enjoy the podcast, I will always thank you for being RAW, we need more men of God that teach like you. My husband and I will learn how to keep loving, laughing,living, lusting, and leaning. To God be the glory. Thanks 🙏🏾
I love this message. This is my first time seeing it. We need this in our marriage.
My husband has stopped all of this after 13 years. Not living only existing. Quit going to church.
Funny man, Mr. Pastor! I have not heard it like this in a very long time. God bless your marriage!
50 YEARS here. Wow, can t believe it's been that long. Definitely keep God, our Creator, in our marriage!! Don't know how a marriage makes it without the true God and laugh together and be forgiving. And, remember, no one's perfect.
Know that the devil is always against the will of God for marriage. To succeed in marriage let's God be the center of your focus and resist the devil and he flee away from your home in Jesus Christ name
I am so blessed by all that you have said thank you very much God bless
Buffalo New York Listening
This is awesome stuff….I normally pray that I don’t marry the wrong person….in Jesus name
Pastor keep teaching truth, it’s a helpful lesson. Thank you😊
Pastor Vernon this was an awesome teaching. God bless you and your Beautiful wife. You are being real...🙏❤️😊
Way to worldly
The way god likes it
Speak on it Pastor, been married 32 years and you are the first pastor that is very transparent
THAT B WAS GRATEFUL
You are a wonderful teacher! May God continue to Bless you in sharing wisdom with others. The body of Christ needs practical instruction in living that keeps God first.
We needed this, Pastor
Thanks pastor for this teaching, this what I was telling our married women in the church,i appreciate you talking about it today ❤🙏🙏
Thank you Pastor Vernon.
OMG! This is so good! Thank you, man of God, for this teaching
Blessed and Powerful. Thank you Man of God 🙏🏽
God bless you Pastor and Lady Vernon
I enjoyed your podcast series 😊!!! A d the love ❤️ and keeping your relationship going. Don't let.lust leave your marriage ! Being best friends ❤️ and living . Dressing keeping it going!! Thank. God for the good anointed word!! Evangelist. Rhonda. Prater
I'm only 19 seconds in & hit the like button. 🔥 🔥
IT WAS BEAUTIFUL!!!!! 👊🏽❤️🌹
I appreciate you pastor and 1st lady 🙏🏾🔥❤️
Amen pastor leaning on the everlasting arms of Jesus🙏
Real talk, appreciate u being real even as a pastor
My dude ra Vernon
Money, money, money , job that pays more money and a preacher that take 10% of your money so you can marry a a virtuous woman! Amen!