Three Things Every Single Should Know! // Dr. R.A. Vernon

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  • @keturahb4622
    @keturahb4622 Рік тому +93

    Don’t marry potential marry reality ❤

    • @lisashelton4718
      @lisashelton4718 Рік тому +2

      Exactly

    • @malikm869
      @malikm869 Рік тому +2

      All potentials are full of drama,spot on.

    • @georgiarose3811
      @georgiarose3811 Рік тому +1

      So true. I learned the hard way.

    • @hiskingdom
      @hiskingdom Рік тому +1

      Pastor Vernon please encourage seeking singles to pursue a relationship with Christ first. And encourage them to ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Good looks and attractive body parts can get a Believer in trouble …and Satan knows this. After all, he can disguise himself as an angel of light. But the Holy Spirit can give us discernment concerning the heart of a person. Singles Be not wise in your own eyes.
      I am in the satisfied single category…I did not realize my status until I started reading God’s word. But I truly know and understand singlehood.

    • @pamelatisdale2452
      @pamelatisdale2452 5 місяців тому

      This was an awesome teaching!

  • @ladellhill3571
    @ladellhill3571 Рік тому +65

    Don’t sacrifice your peace for a piece ❤

  • @donotwastetime
    @donotwastetime Рік тому +44

    I’m GROWN AND ALONE but not lonely.😻😻

  • @shirleywilliams9242
    @shirleywilliams9242 Рік тому +17

    I’m GROWN AND ALONE, SINGLE. BELIEVING GOD FOR MY MAN🙏🏽

  • @samp7377
    @samp7377 Рік тому +29

    I’m grown and alone but God is with me

  • @beverleyelliott-butcher4900
    @beverleyelliott-butcher4900 Рік тому +46

    SINGLE, SAVED & HOPING... I MADE MY REQUEST LIST TO GOD... JUST LIKE I DID 30 YEARS AGO. GOD IS SO KIND & GRANTED MY REQUEST.... WAS MARRIED 22YEARS TO MY MARVELOUS (LATE ) HUSBAND.

    • @kellgolden9263
      @kellgolden9263 7 місяців тому

      Thanks for being vulnerable. Believing that your honesty is healing you today!

  • @loveone4life361
    @loveone4life361 Рік тому +26

    Pastor Vernon has Bars! "Better to keep your peace, then getting a piece".

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 Рік тому +11

    Grown and alone but living in joy and peace.

  • @claudettejackson2399
    @claudettejackson2399 Рік тому +11

    I am grown and alone.. Trusting God for my glorious husband.😃

  • @annwatler9712
    @annwatler9712 Рік тому +6

    I'm grown and single but I'm not alone 🙏🏽

  • @msbubblyqueen3536
    @msbubblyqueen3536 Рік тому +7

    I'm Single & Satisfied Emotionally Mentally & Physically … Yes I Have Grown & Learn How To Control My Sexual Drive A Few Yrs Now… Def Not Entertaining Or Watching Anything To Get My Thoughts Off My Focus On God… I'm Way Past Those Lustful Sinful Thoughts…I'm Saved & Whole… I'm Grown & Alone...My Kids Are Grown To God Be The Glory…..I Been Through It All Long Enough To Know Better & Yes God Has His Best For Me When That Time Comes ..Amen!!
    ❤❤🎉🙏

  • @marybennett250
    @marybennett250 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤,😊 being single and satisfied is a gift and a blessing
    Everyone has a need to have a mate
    To God be the glory!

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 Рік тому +5

    I love your teaching Doc, Keep it Real!!!! I am a single sista hearing you!!!!

  • @audreybolling2793
    @audreybolling2793 Рік тому +6

    Which means black women need to be open toward men from other cultures/ethnic groups.

    • @Simply_JustKim
      @Simply_JustKim 5 місяців тому

      Kamala Harris, Susan Rice and Ketanji Brown Jackson all married to men from other cultures . I guess black women need to be more open?

  • @vanessafletcher1167
    @vanessafletcher1167 Рік тому +13

    I’m fifty five 🙌single loving the Lord ❤❤ season of singleness!

  • @exposed5834
    @exposed5834 6 місяців тому +1

    Another lifechanging message. This right here hit to the core and all I can say is, Yes Lord, I'll trust you.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 Рік тому +7

    Keeping myself busy with good things . Staying in God's will not sinning .Single and satisfied. This is good teaching this is relevant. Whatever God has for me will be for me AMEN it's so much better to be alone than marry WRONG wait on the Lord don't be desperate to be married.

  • @vaquitadavis3541
    @vaquitadavis3541 Рік тому +37

    I’m grown and alone! But GOD is in full control and I trust HIM in all things🙏🏽❤️🙇🏽‍♀️

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 Рік тому +3

    I hear you Doctor!

  • @kiamarsh76
    @kiamarsh76 Рік тому +25

    I’m grown and was in the single and seeking or should I say mingling category. Since I just turned 47, I’m now trying to seek God more because I need deliverance over my addiction with my lover/flesh. It’s been exceedingly hard because you’re so right Dr. Vernon this situation-ship I’ve been bound to for the past 15 years got me hooked. Im a firm believer that soul ties create a stronghold that impossible to cut loose without the blood of Jesus, prayer, and fasting.

    • @thepassportlife
      @thepassportlife Рік тому +1

      Kia- Facts. May God meet you where u r. Give Him everything and study the Word. Mix that with prayer. I started with the book of James. God bless.

  • @elementbluevip4770
    @elementbluevip4770 Рік тому +7

    I'm grown and alone in the single and satisfied category. I mean, I'm not going to turn away a good man if he crossed my path, but I'm not thirsting over being with a man. My peace and my God mean more to me than being involved a man.

  • @vernettebotts7227
    @vernettebotts7227 Рік тому +9

    Amen, no one wants to be with no one who does not have a little something. This pulls on the relationship--being too needy

  • @user-ke5fv9fy5o
    @user-ke5fv9fy5o Рік тому +1

    BlkW Single 50+ everything u said was TRUTH. I will continue to watch

  • @UBROWN-ce2bk
    @UBROWN-ce2bk 6 місяців тому +1

    PASTOR. V. AWESOME TEACHING """ BLESSINGS 🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽💗💗💗

  • @stephaniegoldman5830
    @stephaniegoldman5830 9 місяців тому +1

    Great teaching❤!!!

  • @beverleyelliott-butcher4900
    @beverleyelliott-butcher4900 Рік тому +6

    I was way too busy working & taking care of others... & No one was teaching proper sexual reality... Now, I am finally available to acknowledge & admit my own human being self...

  • @andrealipsey94
    @andrealipsey94 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Dr. Vernon for sharing your gift. Gratitude!!!

  • @juneclaire9113
    @juneclaire9113 Рік тому +4

    Single and satisfied…glory to God!

  • @celestineglenn6538
    @celestineglenn6538 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m in a season of singleness, and will anticipate not staying single and listening to God for my next level

  • @miyoshiehairston2513
    @miyoshiehairston2513 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom. I definitely needed if for I am a saved woman of God who have been a widow for almost 10 years.

  • @HM-lo3lw
    @HM-lo3lw Рік тому +14

    I'm 8 minutes into the video and I just had to leave a comment! Thank you Pastor for bringing laughs AND biblical teachings and foundations to this podcast series! I always appreciate your transparency.

  • @elenapyle4524
    @elenapyle4524 5 місяців тому +1

    Good teaching

  • @wahomengatia5922
    @wahomengatia5922 7 місяців тому +1

    When I'm grown and alone I give my love life to God and trust that He got it. That alone gives incomparable peace. And that is winning.

  • @yolandaabraham1744
    @yolandaabraham1744 Рік тому +1

    Totally agree

  • @ErinBarrow
    @ErinBarrow 13 годин тому

    I also want to say Pastor Vernon most men I meet our only after me for my body and that’s all and they’re not in church or believe in God we don’t have the same beliefs Jesus and the word of God help me with this

  • @mdooms76
    @mdooms76 Рік тому +6

    You can have the body and looks and that man will still cheat if he chooses to. End of the day, both have to honor the commitment. It’s often stressed how women need to look a certain way but what about men who get fat and lose their hair? Nothing is said about that. People change and some change is out of your control. Better marry for true love. Looks fade.

  • @michaelbray7713
    @michaelbray7713 Рік тому +6

    Thank you Dr. Vernon for your teachings on your Bible cast. I was married for 37 years to a woman who was all those things you talked about that Godly man needs. It's been about a year and a half since passed away, and I'll admit I was not prepared for single life. My hearts desire is to be married again, but it's not easy; even for a Godly man. MDB.

  • @eeestabuuuni7790
    @eeestabuuuni7790 Рік тому +2

    "DO NOT MARRY POTENTIAL, MARRY REALITY" 🙌🏾🎁⛲️🙏🏾

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 Рік тому +2

    You preaching Doc!!!!

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 Рік тому +2

    Preach Doc!!!

  • @desidefense1463
    @desidefense1463 6 місяців тому +1

    Definitely real Pastor

  • @anitajohnson5084
    @anitajohnson5084 Рік тому +4

    I'm grown and alone. I am a college educated with a degree,good job, my own place, I am a nice looking person, I cook and clean, BUT no man is asking me out. I am a communicator, approachable..but I guess the options are few. 🤔

  • @elizabethjackson6370
    @elizabethjackson6370 9 місяців тому +1

    I like that sometimes your assignment doesn't require company Lord thank you for keeping me while I'm single 🙏🙌

  • @lupepareja6800
    @lupepareja6800 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for keeping it real
    This is what the body of Christ needs. To live be happy laugh it’s beautiful queens

  • @kimmimcdonald7306
    @kimmimcdonald7306 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for your transparency Pastor Vernon 🙏🏾 I needed this

  • @BAM4_
    @BAM4_ Рік тому +1

    This is so real.

  • @cynthiamalone4822
    @cynthiamalone4822 Рік тому +1

    Oh my....what a word...I am 64 and gathered many gems to share..some to take to heart as a widow. 💎

  • @user-km2dh5xu5x
    @user-km2dh5xu5x Рік тому +2

    This. Was. Outstanding

  • @jessicaadams3570
    @jessicaadams3570 Рік тому +8

    Always keeping it real

  • @theresagibson2194
    @theresagibson2194 Рік тому +1

    This is so real

  • @beverleyelliott-butcher4900
    @beverleyelliott-butcher4900 Рік тому +4

    Single & Satisfied most of the time.

  • @deborahbrown8570
    @deborahbrown8570 Рік тому +2

    Grown and alone but not lonely.

  • @nubcvjimctcsharrelcromuel-2208
    @nubcvjimctcsharrelcromuel-2208 5 місяців тому +1

    BLESSINGS! Thanks for THE WORD without compromise!! Although I became separated in 2008, then legally divorced since 2010, GOD has graced me to remain single and Sanctified. While trusting HIM regarding my fruitful future, yielding my will to HIS PLANS, enables me, like numerous others, to surely live alone in Holiness, not at all bored or lonely. Step by step, we are further being prepared for the spouses we desire and shall have, while other Born Again Believers are further joyfully strengthened to remain single. IN THE LORD, we thoroughly grow, with true contentment.

  • @schwannclanton9320
    @schwannclanton9320 15 днів тому +1

    IM GROWN AND ALONE.PERIOD!!!!!

  • @bigpretty8381
    @bigpretty8381 Рік тому +5

    Well goodness pastor you keep it 💯💯💯💯 and I honor that!! I'm praying for you and thank you for the message!!!🙏🏽❤

  • @jacquelynherring8936
    @jacquelynherring8936 Рік тому +1

    Wow thanks ,for explaining it to the brothers and Sisters

  • @nicolefelder2545
    @nicolefelder2545 Рік тому +2

    This is SO REAL

  • @Emvee23
    @Emvee23 Рік тому +5

    Amen 38 and Grown and Alone

  • @kimberlyltodd8686
    @kimberlyltodd8686 Рік тому +1

    Teach, Pastor!

  • @rubyanitadouresseaux8778
    @rubyanitadouresseaux8778 2 місяці тому

    I'm grown, alone and satisfied happy❤

  • @Motherpat5
    @Motherpat5 5 місяців тому +1

    Dr. Vernon, you have the skill to take serious topics and put them in a way that people can receive the message I love it and ask the Lord to give that to me, LOL. Also, I don't know if you have talked about this or not, the man keeping himself attractive for the wife. Women like eye candy too. You don't have to wear a suit, or be dressy but please take some pride in how you present yourself. I can not tell you over the years talking to male friends who want someone they are attracted to but don't consider we want the same.

  • @makeliahill4276
    @makeliahill4276 Рік тому +1

    Great podcast as usually great teaching Dr. Vernon.

  • @marywilliams3520
    @marywilliams3520 Рік тому +2

    I'm asking God to work on me being pleasing to him doing my time of singleness. I'm also pretty busy right now working 2 jobs to pay off my house so I'm content because I'm so busy right now but all things will work out according to his plan. Great teaching Pastor Vernon.

  • @v.jackson2641
    @v.jackson2641 Рік тому +6

    Jesus came that we may have life and that more abundantly. This teaching is giving LIFE. Thank you ❤️

  • @littlebee41
    @littlebee41 Рік тому +5

    I am single, but I am praying for a husband in the next 6 months

  • @AddisonBrown-jl5bg
    @AddisonBrown-jl5bg 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for the sermon sister

  • @MaryHudson-dt4gu
    @MaryHudson-dt4gu Рік тому +1

    You are soooo on point. Very wise man of God. Thank you for this message.😍🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-bs3qp4yf6s
    @user-bs3qp4yf6s Рік тому +3

    Thank you Pastor Vernon, for insight on single and singleness. I to am single and waiting on God, to put the right God fearing man for me in my life.

  • @kitavick809
    @kitavick809 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Pastor Vernon. God bless you!

  • @bertitaredrick8570
    @bertitaredrick8570 Рік тому +4

    I trust only my God in everything

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall Рік тому +3

    You cleared all three bases Pastor, home run. This is too good. Single and healing.

  • @beverleyelliott-butcher4900
    @beverleyelliott-butcher4900 Рік тому +9

    Don't marry potential, marry Reality !!!

  • @terri-annebless4726
    @terri-annebless4726 Рік тому

    I'm Grown and alone,single and believing God for a wonderful man of God...A man who loves Christ first and himself..and will love me and my family..Wise in his ways to seek God's guidance. And follow Jesus ways! Love Christ and me without any compromise..And the rest I ask God for is between me and God he knows what I need/want in a man.Thank you Jesus for my Boaz!!
    I love being alone until God sent me the right man! I am not thirsty for no man! Thirsty for Christ Jesus 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @janetbrown4983
    @janetbrown4983 Рік тому +1

    I’m grown and alone waiting on god

  • @cariannp07
    @cariannp07 Рік тому +3

    Good teaching. Thank you for always telling the singles the truth🙏🏾

  • @sandrabraziel8271
    @sandrabraziel8271 Рік тому

    To all Christian women desiring a good Christian man that's right for you, God has provided him. There is No "Need" that a Christian has that is not available if you can believe for it. With God All things are possible. WHATSOEVER things we desire, when we pray believe we receive them, and we SHALL have them. Meditate on it sisters. Amen

  • @racheltoby9648
    @racheltoby9648 6 місяців тому

    THANK YOU THAT'S RAW 👍

  • @harrietmoton1941
    @harrietmoton1941 Рік тому +8

    This teaching is truly a Blessing 🙏 thank you Pastor❤📖🙏

  • @carolynlewis9680
    @carolynlewis9680 Рік тому +1

    Grow and alone Pastor!

  • @sabrinacriswell-weaks8940
    @sabrinacriswell-weaks8940 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for being real and bible

  • @NoName-pc7et
    @NoName-pc7et Рік тому

    I'm a grown & single Christian woman with osteoarthritis of my right knee. I walk with a cane & can get around, shipping etc.Hopefully, I am single for a season...God be with me. Amen

  • @reley6392
    @reley6392 Рік тому +6

    Awesome word, single with a desire for marriage

  • @deniseobryant302
    @deniseobryant302 Рік тому +4

    Profound message 🙏

  • @anthonydoc3798
    @anthonydoc3798 Місяць тому

    This is some seriously great teaching Pastor🤙🏾

  • @annetteprince9615
    @annetteprince9615 Рік тому +2

    Im grown & alone❤

  • @lisabeyond8166
    @lisabeyond8166 Рік тому +2

    I love this...keeping it real

  • @valarieford1778
    @valarieford1778 Рік тому +1

    I'm grown and alone. I work go to the gym sing in the choir and go to the four times a week 😊

  • @jackiecain2354
    @jackiecain2354 Рік тому +2

    I'm single. If God has a man for me, He will send him my way. That's my motto.

  • @judith018
    @judith018 Рік тому +3

    Dr Vernon this is great teaching. Keep it coming!

  • @kimberlyltodd8686
    @kimberlyltodd8686 Рік тому

    This is Realistic real talk!

  • @wandawofford4401
    @wandawofford4401 Рік тому +3

    Yes pastor thank you for the mighty word 🙏 🙌

  • @brendatindal6361
    @brendatindal6361 Рік тому +3

    Thank you pastor ❤ Tell the truth and shame the Devil

  • @jackpotjackson7927
    @jackpotjackson7927 6 місяців тому

    Grown and Alone

  • @sheilamackey3345
    @sheilamackey3345 Рік тому

    First time watching

  • @shewhofollowsjesus
    @shewhofollowsjesus Рік тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this has saved my life. I’m in a season of singleness

  • @sistalarrissa
    @sistalarrissa Рік тому +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
    GREAT BIBLE STUDY LESSON…Awesome word of God
    This is so real!!!
    Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @estherk1558
    @estherk1558 Рік тому +1

    Never marry potential, marry reality!😊

  • @kathleendavis5341
    @kathleendavis5341 Рік тому +1

    I'm grown in God 😊

  • @aweforu
    @aweforu Рік тому +1

    🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅5 Gold Medal Broadcast!

  • @rubybrown7752
    @rubybrown7752 Рік тому

    Real!!!