Making Relationships Work | Part 4 | Dr. John Gottman
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- Опубліковано 4 січ 2010
- This talk is in 4 parts. Watch the Questions and Answers by Dr. John Gottman on Making Your Relationship Work . This was filmed at a Seattle Rotary Meeting in October 2009.
Learn more about Dr. Gottman and relationships at: info.gottman.com/relationship...
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I watched all four parts and I loved it all! I have been guilty of a lot of what he talks about and I am anxious to try some of his ideas! Thank you!!!
Genuine expertise and mastery of the field is revealed by the rsponses to these diverse question. Well done, Dr Gottman.
this guy's my new all time hero!
it reminds me of better times, when I actually felt people were more attentive.
I watched part 2 as an assignment in my sociology class but now I'm done with that class and I love gottman's theory even more. It's helpful and opens eyes from a third perspective to help myself and my relationships with others.
"We always partner with those who are less mature than we are.." haha. He's so awesome! :D
I learned far more from John Gottman than Helen Fisher. I really respect Gottman's work.
Bravo to the question the guy asks @ 6:40 to the video. Excellent!!
Coming from a broken home and a very stressful family dynamic, I am surprised that both my husband and I actively try to do all of the things he pointed out in the Masters, without realizing it. All of our married friends keep telling us that our love will die down and eventually we'll become like them, but 3 years later and we are even better at it now then we were at the beginning of our marriage. I am noticing a lot of his Disasters behaviors in our friends and I wish I could send them this without offending them.
Very interesting! Im excited to try these out with my partner, ive been looking for ways to make our relationship even greater and i believe this may be the key
I think with the issues you present, we have to consider the fact that we have to be able to look at things from the other persons perspective, and even if we can't fully see it and agree with it, we have to be able to accept their position on that and not be dismissive of it. If we can't deal with it, then it would seem that we would either have to change their perspective, be changed or end the relationship.
-I don't claim to be right or know much though, just a thought!
There I am, having stumbled upon someone who actually has some answers, and I'm zoned in, I'm taking notes, I'm inspired, I have hope, and here comes a 3 state buffet critic pacing That Mic like its a poo poo platter...jebus...where is security when you need them
If you're a therapist who sees couples...take the time to get familiar with this couple's work!
In the late 80s my wife and I watched a video series about couples understanding each other to strengthen their relationships, has anyone else watched it and do you recall who the couple was, one line from the video, A man speaks 1500 words a woman 3500,
I am a late comer.. :) I love these videos and the thing about people who stay together but are unhappy what does that look like wow. I needed to hear that. I see so many couples who do this :( But when they come to therapy how do we help them realize this is what they are doing and bring them back into the relationship together living together but being separate. So all this information is good, but how about a seminar/youtube video about techniques to help these couples make change. Just knowing their issues is not enough. WoW the Q&A was great!!!
these principles are illustrated in the Bible already for 2000 years already. It says that husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church. Wives should respect their husbands. When a man finds a wife, they shall leave their families and cleave to one another, form a new family. All that this talk has done is to prove the validity of the concepts presented to us by apostle Paul 2000 years ago. I always find it appealing how the principles mentioned in the Bible still hold true today. God Bless You all!
I Watched all 4 parts and that’s all I could think of.
@@JL_27 this is Ashley Pearson I love my husband and I wish he was in church then a na aa meeting at 7
@@user-zu1em4jf4p I wish he was in church too!
@@JL_27 I sent him the verses and wrote them out and prayed for our marriage. I'm trying to be a good example with my actions and confessing my mistakes so please pray for us and our family if you would please!?
I'm literally outside with a blanket, some Mormons fed me and gave me a book of Mormon and a blanket. Please just pray for me it's cold and scary to sleep out side if your a girl
Can we Photoshop out the guy in the background with the black shirt, pink tie, and light colored jacket?
I am from INDIA,
I feel as like environment since is necessary to pass Graduation degree
Relationship since should be compulsory to pass all graduate degree, and every one have to learn:
RELATIONSHIP SINCE
COMUNICATION MASTERY
CONFLICT TO CONNECT
ANGER MANAGEMENT
ANNE GRAM
AND ALL THE THEORY WICH BRING COUPLES CLOSE TO EACH OTHER
What about a relationship where one has kids but not the other?
How can we help a child after he/she has experienced her parents discord?
Consider first, is it your place? Do the parents want you involved with their child? Perhaps, the best option is suggesting to the parents that their child talk to a therapist or that they talk to a therapist about how to talk to her.
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Guy with the pink tie was so disturbing.
Is discussing politics, ethics, religion, sports, etc a good idea? In fact, is discussing anything where one may be "victorious" by being right a good idea? Wouldn't this cause a sense of intellectual superiority that would harm the relationship?
Things can be discussed in non-competitive ways. That would be an odd marriage to never discuss anything important.
What's with the pink tie? Very distracting
Dr. Phil divorced?
Wikipedia says he was married @ 20 years old and divorced just a few years later. He has been married to his 2nd wife since the mid 70's.
I assumed he was referring to the constant rumors that have been going on about him and Robin, not that this is his second marriage and they have been married now for a long time.