Think of it this way. Would a man leave a million dollars on a table and walk away from it? No because someone would steal the $ from him and when he came back for the $ it would be gone. If he values you he wouldn’t put himself in a position to lose you.
That's called a break up. Men cheat, when given the opportunity to. He can do some things alone but his mission needs to be taking out the garbage and paying bills.
Before a woman came along a man had hobbies and Friends and when she came along she had her own hobbies and Friends so why should he give up all that he's still going to have his own space life on the side and take her alongside continue on. I agree with you.
But he needs to communicate his need for space. Some guys completely lack communication skills and expect us to mind read and suddenly drop off the face of the earth, and act like we want to fight when we try to talk about the relationship. Its INSANITY.
I figure them out they always pull away for a week after giving me lots of attention, it is an emotional manipulation trick to get me to be anxious and miss them. They all do that I think guys are mostly very insecure little boys inside of grown-up adult male bodies.
I agree. I think people should educate themselves on attachment styles (Secure, Avoidant, Anxious). A lot of eye opening information on why we all act the way we do in romantic (and general) relationships.
@Bella Noir I know, right! It is a vicious cycle and becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It's like anyone who's anxious gets it's probably going to make an avoidant run, but it's hard to control the fears of abandonment and just chill out... you're already ahead of the game if you know your style. The conundrum is what the hell to do about it! If you haven't already, check out Briana Macwilliam here on youtube. She is very knowledgeable...but it's pretty heavy stuff. I do love this guy though. I think he understands a good amount of the male/female dynamics, but Briana gets deeper into the science.
I don't get the one week thing. Things can be so good and that's just enough time for me to start questioning intentions and feeling bad about things. I'm going through this right now 😒
Nietzsches Muse Ladies ! If he pulls away after giving you attention for only a week ... he’s a player or was only looking for sex ! Why give a guy you’ve only known a week that much power ? Next !!!
We get ignored because we liked the wrong person. If it keeps happening, then we should take a look at ourselves and find out why we keep dating losers and start looking at the guys we won't even take a second glance at.
I definitely think if a guy can ignore you for quite some time then you’re not all that important to him, a guy did this to me years ago, led me on, then decided to treat me like I didn’t matter. He hung out with a bunch of different girls but made every excuse to why he couldn’t hang with me. I let it go. I realized he wasn’t worth it anymore. He tried 5 years later to come back thinking he could play more games with me again asking to give it another try and I told him that he was 5 years too late and that i wasn’t an option anymore lol. I’ve been done and love somebody else anyways. You’re awesome Elliot. Girls do wake up once they finally realize that they don’t have any other choice. Bc I did.
Faeries_Xylia 923 I had a man that I was dating break up with me after four years of dating steady and monogamously. He got all upset because I was a paralegal with two children from a former marriage and I bought my own house. I basically outdid him and he was ashamed and embarrassed. He’d never been married or had kids and I’m sure that he felt like as a single mother of two, I outworked him and I outdid him. I did!! His parents would occasionally pay for his bills if needed & he wasn’t ill. He came from a rich family. 3 1/2 months later he came back to me and just showed up at my front door. I told him I didn’t have anything to say. You did the right thing. This man wasn’t playing with me but he was just not grown-up enough for me. I was seeing one guy and after 10 or 11 months I found out he had a live-in girlfriend for four years. WTH!! I just backed out of that and then it was like nine or 10 months later he messaged me out of the blue. I guess he thought I had cooled off. Noo! If he screwed around on his 3 1/2 year long girlfriend with me when I didn’t know about it, he Was disrespecting The girlfriend and didn’t love her. It was also disrespectful of me. She ended up finding out about his cheating 6 1/2 years or so into their relationship even though they were engaged by then. She actually kept him after knowing of his cheating several times. I’d NOT!
Nicole R My last ex tried to pull this shit with me . 🙄 Anyways, I dumped his ass . 2 months later he’s texting me saying “can’t you even tell me you miss me ?” Miss your what ? Your lying , cheating ass ? NEXT !!! Ain’t nobody got time for that!
Ha that's how people get sucked into the twin flame shit. Thinking a man that treated them good for a lil then vanished is their perfect match. Miss me with that shit. If you ignore me best believe I'm gone!! Thank you 😘
Some of them treat you well or use you for sex just to hook you as a side chick while they have other ones on the side. I feel it could also be to boost their ego. A lot of them are narcissists who need a lot of admiration because deep down they are insecure and probably wounded. They also tend to be pretty flaky. My observations. It sucks! Where are the stable ones argh!
In that case I have never met a man who truly likes me, which leads me to be a 35 y/o divorced travel nurse who has learned to trust the Lord above! Hallelujah!!!! 🙌
I've heard that sometimes a Man ignores a woman bcz he doesnt want her to see him vulnerable since for him love is a weakness.that is to say, Ignorance as a way of holding back his true feelings.
Sometimes its more complicated. Some men are afraid to get hurt and when we start to feel we are falling for someone we pull back out of fear and/or self-preservation. Its shit because you may really REALLY like the girl/guy in question but the fear of getting shot down outweighs the desire to pursue the love interest. Risk outweighs the reward so to speak.
@Nicky Styles The real question here is... have you ever been in a case where you as a male (I suppose you are) have ignored a girl you really liked or were interested in because the risk outweighed the desire to pursue?
Love casts out fear. - you'll never know if you don't try. I guess, it's also good for girls to show signs that his into the guy to give him a little hint or courage to go for it... But if his disappears and don't text back anymore...... 🥺 His probably not interested
Beatrix Oliveira - men’s mission is women - women’s mission is [fill in the blank] - men have the power of choice and chase and women have to fill their time in until chosen.
I’m so happy being single tbh lmao no more games. If a guy is truly interested he’ll make the effort to get to know me, if not, I know where I stand ☺️
Everything you just said is spot ON! If you have any kind of self respect, you don’t put up with it. I can say this because after my divorce, my self confidence slipped and I put up with bs like this! Thank God THAT’S over! I say this with respect and kindness but If there’s no neediness/confidence issues and you have self respect, the guy is point blank playing you. I’ve seen men with multi million dollar businesses, busy 24/7.. but when they are interested? THEY WILL MAKE SURE YOU KNOW THEY ARE INTERESTED. if this guy/girl isn’t? Move along!
I agree with you, I dated a guy that I really liked, we went on a date and the rest of the time it was mainly texting and no phone call, I felt like hes hiding something, i text him and he didnt respond, i haven't text him since, he texted me asking me if he did anything wrong, I haven't responded. I dont have time for an adult to play games, too many fish in the sea to stress one.
Hilda pineda you did right! Who has time to play dummy games? You don’t respond message to me then do not expect to hear from me. Last time my ex called me told me he loves me and want to be with me then no calls almost two months. He called to wish me merry Christmas but I was busy at work. Then he called later I fall asleep early night (thankful for that) and still not responding back to him, why would I? If I could wait two months for his call then he can wait two months too if even I ever respond back! Grow up I’m not your nanny dude! Like you say too many fishes in the sea to stress for one fish. And this was he guy I thought I loved truly! Bye Felicia!
The problem was, he is married. He wanted my attention, but go the attention by other girls. He is married, that is all. I wasn't going to mess around.
I honestly don't even want to get attached to anyone anymore. I met this guy online and I thought we were going to meet but he just started ghosting me and idk why 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I agree! I want a man that has drive and ambition! I would be second in that aspect absolutely, because i don’t think either person should “lose” themselves in a relationship, you still need to be your own person and have your own ambitions for personal growth!
Your hilarious.. Away with the chair! Never assume...I've had that happen on more then one occasion. I end up walking away and they never see me again. Love yourself above all else. A woman of value walks away. I agree with you Elliot. Great video! 👍
Agreed. Women need to set boundaries or at least more boundaries. As you said: "guys r conditioned". To me, I don't mind losing a guy anymore. A- there are more B- I'd rather lose a guy in the process than losing myself
Yeah. I do believe in everything you said. Relationships don’t have to be a priority both for man and for woman, buuuuut, the person who you choose has to know that has a huge space in your life. In Brazil we say that “Who does not give assistance, gives up to competition” I don’t know if the translation makes sense! 😂 But its something like that, without attention, there are competition ( with others guys )
This always happens: I am interested in a guy, he is interested in me, he makes a tiny advance, I don't act on it because I get shy and a little bashful, he ignores me, I'm hurt even though I understand the reason, I try to make things work, he isn't down anymore, I accept and move on, he comes back and wants my attention like crazy, gets no attention from me because I've moved on, he keeps seeking my attention. What is going on here? I don't understand at all.
He showed very much interest in me at the beginning and when I start falling for him after 2-3 dates, he started to be a bit distant, took hours to reply my msg etc and I dumbed him for treating me that way as I don't deserve it. I'm sure that he learned his lesson and happy about it even though it still hurts me and I still think of him almost everyday.
From my experience I would say exhaust all the patience in you , all the kindness , all the tolerance but when the shit gets in/on your nerves move on like he is dead never look back!
Yeah. He's taking me for granted, and it's my fault. I've made it way too easy for him. Or he doesn't truly like me, even though he tells me he loves me.
J.S. Phoenix it’s hard to move on I understand but you are right and good in giving yourself time to letting him go and giving up on him. I’m going through that myself but mine is not sex based it’s because he is a heroin addict.
@@melatimohdsalleh1880 I'm sorry, that's rough. I've been in relationships with addicts and it was pure hell. I still have codependency issues that I need to work on.
I said this to my boyfriend of 2 months, who told me 3 days ago he loves me and then went totally silent on me for 2 days with the exception of quick inconsistent, meaningless texts. Then I blocked him. Please help if anyone thinks it was hasty. "I think you're fantastic. I feel very uncomfortable with inconsistency and silence when trying to build something solid. I'm gonna take a break from this. I am getting way too involved for casual. I do love you but I'm a quality woman who has to honor myself."
Felicia Greer im currently going through the same thing. Dated one month, he then travelled to work in another place. And the texting/calling just ain’t been the same since. He ignores my call and rather call me back. He takes days to reply a simple txt. I decided to turn off my phone for a few days. Silence and inconsistency is a love killer For real. It’s very hard when you initially thought he was the one.
I agree with you completely elliot, I'm a 23 year old woman, and I also dont value finding a man as a number 1 priority. My goals and career, my passions, definitely my priority. As well as financial stability and having my daily goals met. Beyond that... time I give to friends, keeping in communication with my best friends and family.. that all comes first. That being said, I wouldn't ignore a guy in interested in.
I may get lynched by a hundred or more more women here but I have to agree we need to grow a backbone. I'm stuck in a situation for the last 2 years where so many times I should have walked away and I don't because we both fell in love with each other. We do talk on a daily basis sometimes for hours on end and see each other as much as we can but there are complicating factors in both our lives come and his more than mine, and I know it's most likely a dead-end relationship. I just can't get my backbone strong enough to walk away. So I agree with you one hundred percent Elliott we need to get back bones because I seen it on my friends also not walk away when they should have
Even if a guy really likes you, he can still pull away or ignore you. I've done this too girls that I liked before because they started showing too many Red Flags. So he may start ignoring you without explaining why. He will do this because he doesn't want the conflict that come with a harsh breakup, He doesn't want to argue with you, He wants to break it to you gently. He's made up his mind to leave you. so he figures if he starts pulling away and ignoring you, then maybe you will get the message and break up with him.
That's just so dumb because when a man tells me he doesnt want to be with me I immedietly dont want him anymore and its easy to move on. I feel like its more about the ego and the man wants to leave u as a possible option. Its always best to be upfront with someone. All the men who ever did that to me (what u said) ended up trying to reach out again when I'm just over it. I feel like they dont want u to lose interest also but tbh i dont want anyone who doesnt want me. It turns me on to feel adored and cherished and desired. To be neglected makes me needy when i'm not inside so i just move on to someone who meets my needs.
We had been together for 3 months and the first 2 months were ok but once he started shallow talks,replying late, taking me for granted and not investing his time in me I saw that as a clear sign to leave and I left him few days ago I just don’t know how other girls can take that pain for years! I know it’s hard girls but make yourself a priority we deserve better than this ! and thank you so much Eliot for making such type of videos you are ALWAYS brilliant 💗
@@shevettejackson. men aren't afraid to love they don't have the brain capacity to wrap their minds around what it means to love, I've seen that only women & children truly love, Men do not, they only have one job provide protect through that is their way of showing love, asking anything more gets you played like a fiddle.
I've had only unhealthy relationships. It's difficult been in a relationship and learning how to be in a healthy relationship. Also the last guy I dated. Smoothered me with love. And he didn't have a purpose for himself. Now I am dating a guy that has a purpose for his life. But I wish he would spend a little more time with me. I am battling to find that balance. It's frustrating
It all depends on the situation. If a man is ready to be in a relationship, but the girl he truly likes is not emotionally there yet, then I think the man can choose to back off until the woman is ready. Meaning, both felt the instant attraction, both went back and forth with seeking validation and attention, both backed off a bit, then like a seesaw one would invest and devote more time than the other, etc. At the end of all this, if the man believes he displayed all the qualities he knows the woman wants, yet still she isn't emotionally ready to dive in, then I feel ignoring her is the last move he has left. By ignoring her for however long is needed, it will 100% cause her to truly think about him in the present and future. It will speed up the emotional process similar to how drunk ppl tend to eat and drink water to "sober up" faster to drive. She'll either reach out or she won't. If she reaches out to you by text, calls, and finds you to talk about things in person, then ignoring her was the right move. If she doesn't after enough time has passed, then the man has a choice to make. Continue ignoring or go all in by telling her how you truly feel.
I agree with a man on a mission. A man puts his job/business/ education first, if he's losing money, etc, he'll start self-focusing till he's stable again. I understand this about men. If they need space, I'll give it, I have my life too, he's secondary too. Put yourself first. It's tough.
And this is why I left my "ex" because we had one fall out that I can understand he would be upset for but I feel like he held onto it for too long when I said sorry and he didn't reply. Then he became mean to me so in hindsight, he just wasn't the one. Not the kind of guy I'd be happy with and I initially left because I realized I wasn't happy with him. And among my part-time job, and full time university college education..he was the thing that would add to stress rather than someone I could go to relieve it or someone that helped me relax.
was dating a guy who we were each other routine when I say that I mean he was always there for me we became inseparable. Then he went through a death in the family and he pushed me away and would pull me back in. Then he went MIA for a week I sent him a text going off (which I regret) and he claimed he cares for me and blah blah blah. And he said he wasn’t right mentally due to his father’s death but would be on IG looking like he was perfectly fine. It’s been nearly a month and he hasn’t spoken to me. I know he doesn’t give a damn about me. But it’s sad he used his own father’s death to gain sympathy and use it as an excuse to be an asshole
OMG! Something similar happened to me. All in 3 years. Everytime he left it was first his brother then his grandma. I didn't want to come off insensitive but I really didn't believe him. I say that because he told me his brother passed away but he didn't talk about it for the rest of the day nor didn't leave then to grieve and etc. Turns out after I threw my hands up and said fuck it he's doing the same thing to another girl. Leaving every few months and not coming back after 5-8 months later. I feel like he only wanted me in his life because of my company. Nothing else. Once when we separated my best friend spoke to him and asked if he missed me at all or anything while we were seperate and he said "well she was fun having around" Like haha okay. 🙃 theres more to the story, but yeah.
I’m SICK of these fluffed up Hussey commercials, promising fairytales. Give it to me RAW AND UNCUT Elliott! I don’t have time for Hussey’s confusing BS lol
Hussey has most of his videos raw and dry - great advices, wisdom and emotional maturity. It's only when he's trying to sell a product, he flips the other side - which is a shame. I personally ignore his "product" commercials and only check his videos. Hussey's videos on UA-cam are real gemstones, you can't deny they are solid and very very good. He knows what he's talking about. I still consider him the best in his league, even above Elliot (sorry Elliot, you're next in the list).
I saw another video like this that applied to my situation more and the man said a man is trying to ignore you because he’s trying to “train you” not to address problems at hand. Most women that are ignored will stop addressing to problems to alleviate being ignored. He got the wrong one because that chased me away. 🤷🏽♀️
Moving a curtain, chair, cat, fixing his camera, hair, shirt (remember the one with a tag still on?) and leaving this in the video, that's the kind of confidence you need to have to get a good guy. Or a woman.
Word's of wisdom indeed... Have just recently delt with this situation. Hurt like hell realizing that I was nothing more then a puppet on a string in regards to how he felt about me. Thankfully I am aware of how worthy I am & I deserve to be valued.
Totally agree, I think a man first priority should be to reach his goals, then, he'll be happy and motivated to look for the next thing to accomplish, other wise to prioritize his relationship, that will be something fleeting, prioritize his relationship it it is a ticking time bomb for the relation to end in a men's frustration
Only a head gamer will ignore you. Because a man who has a good intention of you will never ignore you if he likes you. It’s a very simple logic and common sense! So dump them before even they start to approach you so they cannot victimize you with their head games.
Isn’t it common sense everyone will put effort on things they like and want to have. Why is it even a question? If he ignores you, be thankful he is doing you a favor avoidig you from having a shitty partner.
I fully agree on the second one...I need to know he is driven enough to make something of himself...coz if we end up together I'd like a driven go getter as myself that will know the difference of quality time and doing what needs to be done for whatever quality time we want to share.... TEAM WORK IS DREAM WORK 🙌👌💪
Omg! I just loved your authenticity! Much love from Brazil. P/S: I would love for a guy like you to ask me out (preferably in Portuguese, so I can understand better lol😜)
Hey Elliot I have to say you are my favorite dating coach because everything you teach just makes sense and I love your sense of humor keep up the great work you have helped me tremendously
What ??? U lost me . A mans mission is to make a woman feel she’s his number one priority . We should be number 2 or three ... wtf ?? I’m not saying to not have goals and passions .. but guess what your number one priory in life is your relationships in your life and the people you love .. jobs come and go . You could lose your job tomorrow and be replaced .. my husband made me his number one Priority . In the meantime He always got promoted . He was a police officer who passed away he was very passionate about what he did .. GUESS WHAT AFTER HE PASSED AWAY .. HE WAS ALREADY REPLACED !!! I’m so disappointed in you ... ugh !!!!!!!
I'm watching nodding my head along with you and then 6:23 happens! YES! I actually had to do this after a year of one step forward, three steps back. It felt amazing and I do still miss him but I sure don't miss the relationship we had.
I’m at that awkward stage where some days I’m blasting Two Steps From Hell or some anime soundtrack, got a backbone or 2 and ready to take on the world; and other days...it’s iffy. 🥴
I think you're right about the fact that a man should put the mission first because how else is he going to provide for himself mindless come together with another and try to make it work
Elliot Scott-I am falling in love with your videos and messages to women. To me you are very "clever" and what you say really resonate with me. Your videos regarding "texting" awesome! Please,keep going and spreading the message. I feel like women lost their respect and perspective how we should be treated, somehow along our way and you help us to get back on our feet. Recently,I watched one of your videos where you "burped" talking in your car .........I started laugh so hard I almost fell of off my chair !
My bf and I have been dating for a month. He lovesss playing fortnite. We’re on a week holiday and he,not once texted or called me. When I asked him to hangout last week, he said “it’s only a week”. Like his at home,rather playing fortnite. He rarely speaks to me sometimes. When his friends comes around he just speaks w them. Everyone around us is telling me to dump him . But his a nice person. He does those stuff,but still I’ll feel guilty. He plays games w his buds until like 1am,still doenst message or anything. He doenst even put any effort,unless I start something,he will never do it. Even when I ask him something he will say no. When I ask him to wait for me, he doesn’t,he just walks off. I’m actually so tired of this. Other guys either asks for my number,or asks me when I’m gonna dump him. I told a friend of mine and he said “if he doenst see your values,someone else will”
"Rub your face in dog shit"....totally true and funny as hell. They really would though. I love your videos. I feel they're honest and straight to the point. Please keep it going.
Yeeesss! Call him out. I did & he left but he would have anyway. It was hard, it hurt but my value matters. I know nothing anyone does has anything to do with you. And....now he’s sorry because was immature and couldn’t behave right or treat me right. Well we will see...changed behavior and consistent effort over time.
@@tyd8077 don't see why you have to be mean about it. Then again, I'm not surprised. Women have a knack for being mean which is just another reason to fear them. I protect myself that's all I can do. I'll also admit I'm somewhat weak. I can handle physical pain all day long but the pain of loving and losing it is just more than I can take. I got thru It once and I'm afraid I couldn't make it thru it again.
@@thewholeeventhorizon I'm glad you can acknowledge your fears and weaknesses. In my experience, most men don't and instead channel that into hatred towards women. My response was uncalled for. I'm mostly just frustrated with guys in general. Apologies to you.
@@tyd8077 you don't need to apologize and I'm sorry I called you mean. It's too bad we don't know each other because I'd take you out. You seem like a genuine person. 😊. Hopefully we'll both find someone we can trust someday!.
THE "DRIVE" PART IS SO TRUE BTW, because if a man is just about the woman not about his drive and intention with her then he really does not know what he's doing
To be honest I wouldn't blame him for not liking me in the first place or treating me like and option or whatever. I would blame him for not being honest and brave enough to say it out that he is not interested in continuing. If people can just say it out then it would be much easier for both parties. For me, I think snugging out quietly is the worst. It just leaves the other with confusion which is really annoying. I 100% would like to know what's going on so I can react properly. Everybody has their own choice, it's okay whatever you feel but please behave politely by informing the other. Both of you are involving in that relationship (whatever kind of relationship it is) so they have the right to know what's going on and make good decision too. Ignoring after talking nicely to each other a lot without any alarm is just sooooo impolite.
Some guys have serious problens n they hide very well. Some people were raised in emotionally cold families n he dont bond emotionally. I am not hurt by it I got over by going to see a shrink. Then I meet another one who is emotionally capable but with much more serious problens which made me feel I was adopting a child. Haha.
@@victoriousjoy9338 Now are you going to raise him? I find a huge turn off when guys are unsophisticated to the point of reminding me of the emotional level of todllers.
If a man ignores you then he's just not that into you. An interested man will make time for you.
The only words a woman needs to hear when she isn't sure if a guy in is to her or not. Perfect.
Think of it this way. Would a man leave a million dollars on a table and walk away from it? No because someone would steal the $ from him and when he came back for the $ it would be gone. If he values you he wouldn’t put himself in a position to lose you.
In that order 👏👏👏
@Kitty Kat yes, I am done. done. done.
But it doesn’t make sense he told me he liked me but when I said I like you back he stays his distance I think he’s shy now
This is one of your best videos!
Best Quote : You said If a Man truly likes you he will not put himself in a position of losing you
Marilyn Harper I second this!
Give him space before he needs it. Let him pursue his mission and purpose.
That's called a break up. Men cheat, when given the opportunity to. He can do some things alone but his mission needs to be taking out the garbage and paying bills.
Before a woman came along a man had hobbies and Friends and when she came along she had her own hobbies and Friends so why should he give up all that he's still going to have his own space life on the side and take her alongside continue on. I agree with you.
Oh my God finally a smart comment!!!
But he needs to communicate his need for space. Some guys completely lack communication skills and expect us to mind read and suddenly drop off the face of the earth, and act like we want to fight when we try to talk about the relationship. Its INSANITY.
indeed his mission and purpose will be you :)
Ignore me. You get ignored back. Easy peasy. 😁
Tashea Key mood😂😂😂
Yup...not rocket science.
The Meek do you know how many men exist in this world. On to the next one
Period Poo!!!
@@clare_jordin Well go ahead and sleep with many man you can, that's no matter to as!!!!
I figure them out they always pull away for a week after giving me lots of attention, it is an emotional manipulation trick to get me to be anxious and miss them. They all do that I think guys are mostly very insecure little boys inside of grown-up adult male bodies.
how do you know those guys were outrightly malicious in their intent ? just curious
I agree. I think people should educate themselves on attachment styles (Secure, Avoidant, Anxious). A lot of eye opening information on why we all act the way we do in romantic (and general) relationships.
@Bella Noir I know, right! It is a vicious cycle and becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It's like anyone who's anxious gets it's probably going to make an avoidant run, but it's hard to control the fears of abandonment and just chill out... you're already ahead of the game if you know your style. The conundrum is what the hell to do about it! If you haven't already, check out Briana Macwilliam here on youtube. She is very knowledgeable...but it's pretty heavy stuff. I do love this guy though. I think he understands a good amount of the male/female dynamics, but Briana gets deeper into the science.
I don't get the one week thing. Things can be so good and that's just enough time for me to start questioning intentions and feeling bad about things. I'm going through this right now 😒
Nietzsches Muse Ladies ! If he pulls away after giving you attention for only a week ... he’s a player or was only looking for sex ! Why give a guy you’ve only known a week that much power ? Next !!!
He Won't
Put himself
In a position
To lose you
And if he is
Ignoring you
There's a reason..
Thanks for the anxiety 👁👄👁
But that goes for both sexes
We get ignored because we liked the wrong person. If it keeps happening, then we should take a look at ourselves and find out why we keep dating losers and start looking at the guys we won't even take a second glance at.
I definitely think if a guy can ignore you for quite some time then you’re not all that important to him, a guy did this to me years ago, led me on, then decided to treat me like I didn’t matter. He hung out with a bunch of different girls but made every excuse to why he couldn’t hang with me. I let it go. I realized he wasn’t worth it anymore. He tried 5 years later to come back thinking he could play more games with me again asking to give it another try and I told him that he was 5 years too late and that i wasn’t an option anymore lol. I’ve been done and love somebody else anyways. You’re awesome Elliot. Girls do wake up once they finally realize that they don’t have any other choice. Bc I did.
Faeries_Xylia 923 I had a man that I was dating break up with me after four years of dating steady and monogamously. He got all upset because I was a paralegal with two children from a former marriage and I bought my own house. I basically outdid him and he was ashamed and embarrassed. He’d never been married or had kids and I’m sure that he felt like as a single mother of two, I outworked him and I outdid him. I did!! His parents would occasionally pay for his bills if needed & he wasn’t ill. He came from a rich family. 3 1/2 months later he came back to me and just showed up at my front door. I told him I didn’t have anything to say. You did the right thing. This man wasn’t playing with me but he was just not grown-up enough for me. I was seeing one guy and after 10 or 11 months I found out he had a live-in girlfriend for four years. WTH!! I just backed out of that and then it was like nine or 10 months later he messaged me out of the blue. I guess he thought I had cooled off. Noo! If he screwed around on his 3 1/2 year long girlfriend with me when I didn’t know about it, he Was disrespecting The girlfriend and didn’t love her. It was also disrespectful of me. She ended up finding out about his cheating 6 1/2 years or so into their relationship even though they were engaged by then. She actually kept him after knowing of his cheating several times. I’d NOT!
Ugh, dealing with that mess right now. Unfortunately, knowing it didn't make it hurt any less but this too, shall pass lol
Similar shit happend to me too. I blocked him and delete their numberss. Now anyone ignores or ghost me I'm out! ,
Should i totally block him from now...
Wow
Whenever I try to call out a guy on his bs, he automatically flips the script and plays victim
so true!!!!!
I don't think calling out is the answer. I think the answer is giving them the same time priority as they give you.
All the more reason to get TF outta there ♥️
MC1R Mutant Faerie A to the men! 🙌🏻🙌🏻✅💯
Nicole R My last ex tried to pull this shit with me . 🙄 Anyways, I dumped his ass . 2 months later he’s texting me saying “can’t you even tell me you miss me ?” Miss your what ? Your lying , cheating ass ? NEXT !!! Ain’t nobody got time for that!
Ha that's how people get sucked into the twin flame shit. Thinking a man that treated them good for a lil then vanished is their perfect match. Miss me with that shit. If you ignore me best believe I'm gone!! Thank you 😘
Very spot on
Some of them treat you well or use you for sex just to hook you as a side chick while they have other ones on the side. I feel it could also be to boost their ego. A lot of them are narcissists who need a lot of admiration because deep down they are insecure and probably wounded. They also tend to be pretty flaky. My observations. It sucks! Where are the stable ones argh!
High Five!!! Man and woman is inside this body 🤣
He really shows me that he's into me .. I also like him , but he ignores me and i decided to move on
Same here
Me too.
Same
me too
Same here.
In that case I have never met a man who truly likes me, which leads me to be a 35 y/o divorced travel nurse who has learned to trust the Lord above! Hallelujah!!!! 🙌
I've heard that sometimes a Man ignores a woman bcz he doesnt want her to see him vulnerable since for him love is a weakness.that is to say, Ignorance as a way of holding back his true feelings.
LIIIIESSSSS
So he gets to be single because a woman assumed he's not interested and walks away
Sometimes its more complicated. Some men are afraid to get hurt and when we start to feel we are falling for someone we pull back out of fear and/or self-preservation.
Its shit because you may really REALLY like the girl/guy in question but the fear of getting shot down outweighs the desire to pursue the love interest. Risk outweighs the reward so to speak.
You said it perfectly!!!!
@Nicky Styles The real question here is... have you ever been in a case where you as a male (I suppose you are) have ignored a girl you really liked or were interested in because the risk outweighed the desire to pursue?
@Nicky Styles valid point. But regret is worse than fear.
Love casts out fear. - you'll never know if you don't try. I guess, it's also good for girls to show signs that his into the guy to give him a little hint or courage to go for it... But if his disappears and don't text back anymore...... 🥺 His probably not interested
Bullshit
As women should be on their mission as well! No man's worth compromising bigger goals.
Beatrix Oliveira - men’s mission is women - women’s mission is [fill in the blank] - men have the power of choice and chase and women have to fill their time in until chosen.
I’m so happy being single tbh lmao no more games. If a guy is truly interested he’ll make the effort to get to know me, if not, I know where I stand ☺️
Girl yessss 🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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So true! Ladies should start calling out men more! listen up ladies
Everything you just said is spot ON! If you have any kind of self respect, you don’t put up with it. I can say this because after my divorce, my self confidence slipped and I put up with bs like this! Thank God THAT’S over! I say this with respect and kindness but If there’s no neediness/confidence issues and you have self respect, the guy is point blank playing you. I’ve seen men with multi million dollar businesses, busy 24/7.. but when they are interested? THEY WILL MAKE SURE YOU KNOW THEY ARE INTERESTED. if this guy/girl isn’t? Move along!
This is more complicated than a linear equation 🤦🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
Or quantum physics
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I agree with you, I dated a guy that I really liked, we went on a date and the rest of the time it was mainly texting and no phone call, I felt like hes hiding something, i text him and he didnt respond, i haven't text him since, he texted me asking me if he did anything wrong, I haven't responded. I dont have time for an adult to play games, too many fish in the sea to stress one.
Hilda pineda you did right! Who has time to play dummy games? You don’t respond message to me then do not expect to hear from me. Last time my ex called me told me he loves me and want to be with me then no calls almost two months. He called to wish me merry Christmas but I was busy at work. Then he called later I fall asleep early night (thankful for that) and still not responding back to him, why would I? If I could wait two months for his call then he can wait two months too if even I ever respond back! Grow up I’m not your nanny dude! Like you say too many fishes in the sea to stress for one fish. And this was he guy I thought I loved truly! Bye Felicia!
totally agree w your second point. a high value man puts his dreams first.
"If
A
Man
Truly
Likes
You
He
Cannot
Ignore
You.."
The problem was, he is married. He wanted my attention, but go the attention by other girls. He is married, that is all. I wasn't going to mess around.
You are hands down my favorite dating coach 🙌🏾. Advice given straight with no chaser...yasssss. Teach them one ☝🏾 lady at a time to stop tolerating bs
who is your second?
Deborrah Cooper..another YT who does not play at all lol
I honestly don't even want to get attached to anyone anymore. I met this guy online and I thought we were going to meet but he just started ghosting me and idk why 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too
Omg so sorry.... I hope you feel better and moved on now.
Me too! And then he texted me a month later, i didn't know how to react
I agree! I want a man that has drive and ambition! I would be second in that aspect absolutely, because i don’t think either person should “lose” themselves in a relationship, you still need to be your own person and have your own ambitions for personal growth!
Cool post, your a wise woman.
If you’re not a a first priority for a man you’re the last.
Hi Elliot. I agree with what you said. Yes woman should start calling men out more. That is what I’m doing in this new year 2019! Love your videos. 💕
Your hilarious..
Away with the chair! Never assume...I've had that happen on more then one occasion. I end up walking away and they never see me again. Love yourself above all else. A woman of value walks away. I agree with you Elliot. Great video! 👍
Agreed. Women need to set boundaries or at least more boundaries. As you said: "guys r conditioned". To me, I don't mind losing a guy anymore. A- there are more B- I'd rather lose a guy in the process than losing myself
Yeah. I do believe in everything you said. Relationships don’t have to be a priority both for man and for woman, buuuuut, the person who you choose has to know that has a huge space in your life. In Brazil we say that “Who does not give assistance, gives up to competition” I don’t know if the translation makes sense! 😂 But its something like that, without attention, there are competition ( with others guys )
You’re my favorite dating coach it’s like talking to my male best friend
This always happens: I am interested in a guy, he is interested in me, he makes a tiny advance, I don't act on it because I get shy and a little bashful, he ignores me, I'm hurt even though I understand the reason, I try to make things work, he isn't down anymore, I accept and move on, he comes back and wants my attention like crazy, gets no attention from me because I've moved on, he keeps seeking my attention.
What is going on here? I don't understand at all.
Who else likes Elliott's video before they even watch it lmao
Good habit to get into lol. I approve
Me!!!!❤
Me!!!!!!
Hell yes! Ha it’s the highlight of my life! Ha 🤦🏻♀️😂you rock Elliot. Always spot on advice xx
Plant Based Chick His face alone deserves a like 😍
He showed very much interest in me at the beginning and when I start falling for him after 2-3 dates, he started to be a bit distant, took hours to reply my msg etc and I dumbed him for treating me that way as I don't deserve it. I'm sure that he learned his lesson and happy about it even though it still hurts me and I still think of him almost everyday.
From my experience I would say exhaust all the patience in you , all the kindness , all the tolerance but when the shit gets in/on your nerves move on like he is dead never look back!
Yeah. He's taking me for granted, and it's my fault. I've made it way too easy for him. Or he doesn't truly like me, even though he tells me he loves me.
Move on girl! You deserve alot better! :)
@@Sara-yi6dq : Everybody tells me that, and I'm about to give up on him. I've made too many mistakes and it's a sex based relationship. I want more.
J.S. Phoenix it’s hard to move on I understand but you are right and good in giving yourself time to letting him go and giving up on him. I’m going through that myself but mine is not sex based it’s because he is a heroin addict.
@@melatimohdsalleh1880 I'm sorry, that's rough. I've been in relationships with addicts and it was pure hell. I still have codependency issues that I need to work on.
@@PerrySkyePhoenix so tell him that guys ain't mind readers
I said this to my boyfriend of 2 months, who told me 3 days ago he loves me and then went totally silent on me for 2 days with the exception of quick inconsistent, meaningless texts. Then I blocked him. Please help if anyone thinks it was hasty. "I think you're fantastic. I feel very uncomfortable with inconsistency and silence when trying to build something solid. I'm gonna take a break from this. I am getting way too involved for casual. I do love you but I'm a quality woman who has to honor myself."
Felicia Greer im currently going through the same thing. Dated one month, he then travelled to work in another place. And the texting/calling just ain’t been the same since. He ignores my call and rather call me back. He takes days to reply a simple txt. I decided to turn off my phone for a few days. Silence and inconsistency is a love killer For real. It’s very hard when you initially thought he was the one.
You are too old maybe.
I agree with you completely elliot, I'm a 23 year old woman, and I also dont value finding a man as a number 1 priority. My goals and career, my passions, definitely my priority. As well as financial stability and having my daily goals met. Beyond that... time I give to friends, keeping in communication with my best friends and family.. that all comes first. That being said, I wouldn't ignore a guy in interested in.
Good video! I agree, we need to take a stand more as women and not have fear of losing the guy.
I may get lynched by a hundred or more more women here but I have to agree we need to grow a backbone. I'm stuck in a situation for the last 2 years where so many times I should have walked away and I don't because we both fell in love with each other. We do talk on a daily basis sometimes for hours on end and see each other as much as we can but there are complicating factors in both our lives come and his more than mine, and I know it's most likely a dead-end relationship. I just can't get my backbone strong enough to walk away. So I agree with you one hundred percent Elliott we need to get back bones because I seen it on my friends also not walk away when they should have
Even if a guy really likes you, he can still pull away or ignore you. I've done this too girls that I liked before because they started showing too many Red Flags. So he may start ignoring you without explaining why. He will do this because he doesn't want the conflict that come with a harsh breakup, He doesn't want to argue with you, He wants to break it to you gently. He's made up his mind to leave you. so he figures if he starts pulling away and ignoring you, then maybe you will get the message and break up with him.
That's just so dumb because when a man tells me he doesnt want to be with me I immedietly dont want him anymore and its easy to move on. I feel like its more about the ego and the man wants to leave u as a possible option. Its always best to be upfront with someone. All the men who ever did that to me (what u said) ended up trying to reach out again when I'm just over it. I feel like they dont want u to lose interest also but tbh i dont want anyone who doesnt want me. It turns me on to feel adored and cherished and desired. To be neglected makes me needy when i'm not inside so i just move on to someone who meets my needs.
We had been together for 3 months and the first 2 months were ok but once he started shallow talks,replying late, taking me for granted and not investing his time in me I saw that as a clear sign to leave and I left him few days ago I just don’t know how other girls can take that pain for years! I know it’s hard girls but make yourself a priority we deserve better than this !
and thank you so much Eliot for making such type of videos you are ALWAYS brilliant 💗
You very wrong dear, most men do just that they walk away from the women they truly want because they are afraid to love so they rather to like.
Why would a man be Afraid to love
@@shevettejackson. maybe because they've been hurt before, but that doesn't mean everyone is the same. Not everyone will hurt you
Very true, love is soon very deep. There are men who walk away from women they love very deeply.
@@shevettejackson. men aren't afraid to love they don't have the brain capacity to wrap their minds around what it means to love, I've seen that only women & children truly love, Men do not, they only have one job provide protect through that is their way of showing love, asking anything more gets you played like a fiddle.
@@shevettejackson. because it's better to be lonely than heartbroken. I've been both and I'll take lonely all day long.
I've had only unhealthy relationships. It's difficult been in a relationship and learning how to be in a healthy relationship. Also the last guy I dated. Smoothered me with love. And he didn't have a purpose for himself.
Now I am dating a guy that has a purpose for his life. But I wish he would spend a little more time with me. I am battling to find that balance. It's frustrating
I've been learning a lot from your videos. You're a clever man, Elliot!
It all depends on the situation. If a man is ready to be in a relationship, but the girl he truly likes is not emotionally there yet, then I think the man can choose to back off until the woman is ready.
Meaning, both felt the instant attraction, both went back and forth with seeking validation and attention, both backed off a bit, then like a seesaw one would invest and devote more time than the other, etc.
At the end of all this, if the man believes he displayed all the qualities he knows the woman wants, yet still she isn't emotionally ready to dive in, then I feel ignoring her is the last move he has left.
By ignoring her for however long is needed, it will 100% cause her to truly think about him in the present and future. It will speed up the emotional process similar to how drunk ppl tend to eat and drink water to "sober up" faster to drive.
She'll either reach out or she won't. If she reaches out to you by text, calls, and finds you to talk about things in person, then ignoring her was the right move. If she doesn't after enough time has passed, then the man has a choice to make. Continue ignoring or go all in by telling her how you truly feel.
I agree with a man on a mission. A man puts his job/business/ education first, if he's losing money, etc, he'll start self-focusing till he's stable again. I understand this about men. If they need space, I'll give it, I have my life too, he's secondary too. Put yourself first. It's tough.
ya; that’s what u call a high value man.
And this is why I left my "ex" because we had one fall out that I can understand he would be upset for but I feel like he held onto it for too long when I said sorry and he didn't reply. Then he became mean to me so in hindsight, he just wasn't the one. Not the kind of guy I'd be happy with and I initially left because I realized I wasn't happy with him. And among my part-time job, and full time university college education..he was the thing that would add to stress rather than someone I could go to relieve it or someone that helped me relax.
I can relate with this😪
was dating a guy who we were each other routine when I say that I mean he was always there for me we became inseparable. Then he went through a death in the family and he pushed me away and would pull me back in. Then he went MIA for a week I sent him a text going off (which I regret) and he claimed he cares for me and blah blah blah. And he said he wasn’t right mentally due to his father’s death but would be on IG looking like he was perfectly fine. It’s been nearly a month and he hasn’t spoken to me. I know he doesn’t give a damn about me. But it’s sad he used his own father’s death to gain sympathy and use it as an excuse to be an asshole
OMG! Something similar happened to me. All in 3 years. Everytime he left it was first his brother then his grandma. I didn't want to come off insensitive but I really didn't believe him. I say that because he told me his brother passed away but he didn't talk about it for the rest of the day nor didn't leave then to grieve and etc. Turns out after I threw my hands up and said fuck it he's doing the same thing to another girl. Leaving every few months and not coming back after 5-8 months later. I feel like he only wanted me in his life because of my company. Nothing else. Once when we separated my best friend spoke to him and asked if he missed me at all or anything while we were seperate and he said "well she was fun having around" Like haha okay. 🙃 theres more to the story, but yeah.
Nope Nope Girl, he was playing you !
I’m SICK of these fluffed up Hussey commercials, promising fairytales. Give it to me RAW AND UNCUT Elliott! I don’t have time for Hussey’s confusing BS lol
Swayze Yass finally someone doesn’t like Hussey. I find him to be full of crap.
truth is guys that show interest are the guys girls aren't attracted to. That is the real problem.
Camilla Cabello is nodding her head in agreement
Hussey has most of his videos raw and dry - great advices, wisdom and emotional maturity. It's only when he's trying to sell a product, he flips the other side - which is a shame. I personally ignore his "product" commercials and only check his videos. Hussey's videos on UA-cam are real gemstones, you can't deny they are solid and very very good. He knows what he's talking about. I still consider him the best in his league, even above Elliot (sorry Elliot, you're next in the list).
@@marishkaspirit 100% agree -
Start the movement Elliot !!!
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I saw another video like this that applied to my situation more and the man said a man is trying to ignore you because he’s trying to “train you” not to address problems at hand. Most women that are ignored will stop addressing to problems to alleviate being ignored. He got the wrong one because that chased me away. 🤷🏽♀️
Right they dumb foreal because it’s an instant block from me. I don’t hear from you for 3 days? Block
I did tha same as well, im tha wrong one tah have ah i dont give ah fxxxk contest with💯
Moving a curtain, chair, cat, fixing his camera, hair, shirt (remember the one with a tag still on?) and leaving this in the video, that's the kind of confidence you need to have to get a good guy. Or a woman.
Word's of wisdom indeed... Have just recently delt with this situation. Hurt like hell realizing that I was nothing more then a puppet on a string in regards to how he felt about me. Thankfully I am aware of how worthy I am & I deserve to be valued.
“I wish women would grow a backbone and tell a guy to f-off!”-best advice ever!
You are hilarious. The most natural unprepared youtuber 🤣👌 with good insight of course.
Totally agree, I think a man first priority should be to reach his goals, then, he'll be happy and motivated to look for the next thing to accomplish, other wise to prioritize his relationship, that will be something fleeting, prioritize his relationship it it is a ticking time bomb for the relation to end in a men's frustration
Only a head gamer will ignore you. Because a man who has a good intention of you will never ignore you if he likes you. It’s a very simple logic and common sense! So dump them before even they start to approach you so they cannot victimize you with their head games.
A man with a purpose is a powerful, sexy & Uber attractive being. The same can be said for a woman.
Elliot, you're the master. Nice video!❤
Anyone else totally find Elliot incredibly attractive? I could listen all day
I like that haha thank you
@@ElliotScottDating you are more than welcome 😂
Yes if he's shy or not confident
So true, damn it. Women, grow a backbone. Amen.
Isn’t it common sense everyone will put effort on things they like and want to have. Why is it even a question? If he ignores you, be thankful he is doing you a favor avoidig you from having a shitty partner.
I totally agree… We do need a movement. I’m in! When would you like to get started? 😁
I fully agree on the second one...I need to know he is driven enough to make something of himself...coz if we end up together I'd like a driven go getter as myself that will know the difference of quality time and doing what needs to be done for whatever quality time we want to share.... TEAM WORK IS DREAM WORK 🙌👌💪
yes i allowed him to take me for granted... so I'm not expecting his interest. walk away n let him go bout his business
Omg! I just loved your authenticity! Much love from Brazil.
P/S: I would love for a guy like you to ask me out (preferably in Portuguese, so I can understand better lol😜)
Hey Elliot I have to say you are my favorite dating coach because everything you teach just makes sense and I love your sense of humor keep up the great work you have helped me tremendously
Love this, my dad agrees he taught me a man should have a mission!
Seriously you just be praising man! I’ve binged watched your videos and everything you say is so accurate! My fave coach ever!!!
I like your comments, you are brutally honest and it’s hard for people to take this in. Keep it going and thank you xxx
What ??? U lost me . A mans mission is to make a woman feel she’s his number one priority . We should be number 2 or three ... wtf ?? I’m not saying to not have goals and passions .. but guess what your number one priory in life is your relationships in your life and the people you love .. jobs come and go . You could lose your job tomorrow and be replaced .. my husband made me his number one Priority . In the meantime He always got promoted . He was a police officer who passed away he was very passionate about what he did .. GUESS WHAT AFTER HE PASSED AWAY .. HE WAS ALREADY REPLACED !!! I’m so disappointed in you ... ugh !!!!!!!
Can we get another ASMR video? I promise I'll love you forever
I'm watching nodding my head along with you and then 6:23 happens! YES! I actually had to do this after a year of one step forward, three steps back. It felt amazing and I do still miss him but I sure don't miss the relationship we had.
When you call a dude out on his shit, they call you crazy. Most likely.
Good morning, I’m your number one fan!!!!
Elliot, this is why we looooovvveee youuuuu!
I’m at that awkward stage where some days I’m blasting Two Steps From Hell or some anime soundtrack, got a backbone or 2 and ready to take on the world; and other days...it’s iffy. 🥴
Two steps from hell is boss
Love your videos! I called him out on his bullshit the other day. Caught him in a lie. Tired of him taking me for granted.
You are telling us a cruel truthful
reality...Thank you!
Damn what a harsh reality. Thanks for the breakdown coming from a man 👑
Love the room.. setup...decor... furniture everything..
I think you're right about the fact that a man should put the mission first because how else is he going to provide for himself mindless come together with another and try to make it work
Lmao “ I need to start a fucking movement “😂
Very good video! I agreed with/learned from some and left the rest(:
Good for YOU!!!👍 you learned ! Score! :-) 💗
Elliot Scott-I am falling in love with your videos and messages to women. To me you are very "clever" and what you say really resonate with me. Your videos regarding "texting" awesome! Please,keep going and spreading the message. I feel like women lost their respect and perspective how we should be treated, somehow along our way and you help us to get back on our feet. Recently,I watched one of your videos where you "burped" talking in your car .........I started laugh so hard I almost fell of off my chair !
My bf and I have been dating for a month. He lovesss playing fortnite. We’re on a week holiday and he,not once texted or called me. When I asked him to hangout last week, he said “it’s only a week”. Like his at home,rather playing fortnite. He rarely speaks to me sometimes. When his friends comes around he just speaks w them. Everyone around us is telling me to dump him . But his a nice person. He does those stuff,but still I’ll feel guilty. He plays games w his buds until like 1am,still doenst message or anything. He doenst even put any effort,unless I start something,he will never do it. Even when I ask him something he will say no. When I ask him to wait for me, he doesn’t,he just walks off. I’m actually so tired of this. Other guys either asks for my number,or asks me when I’m gonna dump him. I told a friend of mine and he said “if he doenst see your values,someone else will”
Thank you Elliott. This video helps me a lot!
"Rub your face in dog shit"....totally true and funny as hell. They really would though. I love your videos. I feel they're honest and straight to the point. Please keep it going.
Yeeesss! Call him out. I did & he left but he would have anyway. It was hard, it hurt but my value matters. I know nothing anyone does has anything to do with you.
And....now he’s sorry because was immature and couldn’t behave right or treat me right.
Well we will see...changed behavior and consistent effort over time.
He think he has the power over me?! 😂
Love the dog shit analogy 😂
that's true tho!
Thanks Elliott! This is the perfect one for me today 👌🏽
I'm ignoring my crush right now becuse I'm shy as hell. I don't trust women to not hurt me so I just crush/love from afar. Safer.
@@tyd8077 don't see why you have to be mean about it. Then again, I'm not surprised. Women have a knack for being mean which is just another reason to fear them. I protect myself that's all I can do. I'll also admit I'm somewhat weak. I can handle physical pain all day long but the pain of loving and losing it is just more than I can take. I got thru It once and I'm afraid I couldn't make it thru it again.
@@thewholeeventhorizon I'm glad you can acknowledge your fears and weaknesses. In my experience, most men don't and instead channel that into hatred towards women. My response was uncalled for. I'm mostly just frustrated with guys in general. Apologies to you.
@@tyd8077 you don't need to apologize and I'm sorry I called you mean. It's too bad we don't know each other because I'd take you out. You seem like a genuine person. 😊. Hopefully we'll both find someone we can trust someday!.
THE "DRIVE" PART IS SO TRUE BTW, because if a man is just about the woman not about his drive and intention with her then he really does not know what he's doing
To be honest I wouldn't blame him for not liking me in the first place or treating me like and option or whatever. I would blame him for not being honest and brave enough to say it out that he is not interested in continuing. If people can just say it out then it would be much easier for both parties. For me, I think snugging out quietly is the worst. It just leaves the other with confusion which is really annoying. I 100% would like to know what's going on so I can react properly. Everybody has their own choice, it's okay whatever you feel but please behave politely by informing the other. Both of you are involving in that relationship (whatever kind of relationship it is) so they have the right to know what's going on and make good decision too. Ignoring after talking nicely to each other a lot without any alarm is just sooooo impolite.
Yesssss drive is not the same as a routine. Purpose and direction 👌
Some guys have serious problens n they hide very well. Some people were raised in emotionally cold families n he dont bond emotionally. I am not hurt by it I got over by going to see a shrink. Then I meet another one who is emotionally capable but with much more serious problens which made me feel I was adopting a child. Haha.
I married the child, tho I didn't know until too late! Big mistake!!!
@@victoriousjoy9338 Now are you going to raise him? I find a huge turn off when guys are unsophisticated to the point of reminding me of the emotional level of todllers.
I agreed 100% In everything you said right on point!!
Ok, i really agree with all ur points, it really makes sense.