The RIGHT Way To Form An Unbreakable Bond With Your Horse

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 142

  • @peachiixsky7497
    @peachiixsky7497 4 роки тому +317

    The way you apologised made me realise how some people treat horses as a vehicle rather than a friend. Horse's are a gift, we don't deserve them.

    • @reeselaggy1652
      @reeselaggy1652 3 роки тому

      Is that a good thing or bad I honestly can’t tell

    • @Bahddie_bby
      @Bahddie_bby 3 роки тому +5

      Yes we do but the people who hurt them don't need them

    • @Ra-rg1vk
      @Ra-rg1vk 5 місяців тому +1

      Some of us do. I sing to my horses while riding them

    • @Schmusan
      @Schmusan Місяць тому

      💯💯💯

  • @Ella-Llasa
    @Ella-Llasa Рік тому +34

    The humbleness of “Thank this horse, for putting up with me…” love this positive, compassionate, interaction. ❤

    • @raynaemurray
      @raynaemurray Рік тому

      It’s nice to hear anemone else say that. Thanking them for their cooperation, patience, and respecting their agency. I’ve said this for years. ❤️

  • @The_mare_stare
    @The_mare_stare 3 роки тому +7

    He actually looks like he has a permanent smile. How sweet is he

  • @apbeauregard
    @apbeauregard Рік тому +4

    I love that you used the word respect. I use that word. Ppl need to realize it's respect we need to give them. If we want it we have to give it. Doesn't mean the word no doesn't exist, but the respect u have for them has to be behind it.

  • @jess1e-
    @jess1e- 3 роки тому +13

    Just a little random tip for anyone seeing this !
    If your cantering and it’s too fast and your horse won’t slow down don’t panic I saw a girl who was cantering and the girl screamed so loud (it was a normal canter) and the horse got spooked and it went crazy and she fell off (she’s ok) but the moral of the story is stay calm horses don’t like screaming

  • @ChelseaMiddlebrook
    @ChelseaMiddlebrook 2 роки тому +9

    I so agree with this method. I do not want my horse to fear me. Mutual respect. It's a relationship 💗

  • @-.icywave.-5885
    @-.icywave.-5885 4 роки тому +59

    Dude your horse is gorgeous! Sorry that I’m off topic and everything, but still you guys can’t say I’m wrong!

  • @jamiepennock546
    @jamiepennock546 3 роки тому +10

    This is excellent. I just bought an abused auction horse, and this is the only video that shows trust before respect

    • @annat4792
      @annat4792 3 роки тому +2

      Aw that's so great. We have a neglected and abused horse too. He used to be so dangerous and now he is the biggest teddy bear and everyones favorite 🤣

  • @rumuelnathanael8043
    @rumuelnathanael8043 4 роки тому +104

    0:38 That scared the f outta me lol

    • @JesusRodriguez-im6yq
      @JesusRodriguez-im6yq 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @micahmidstar2577
      @micahmidstar2577 3 роки тому +1

      Mhm

    • @deviIish
      @deviIish 3 роки тому +2

      SAME💀 i was more scared than the horse

    • @instafireflied
      @instafireflied 3 роки тому +2

      Same. Even a year later from you. Whilst you’re just minding your business , people like me 🙋🏻‍♀️ nearly fell off my bed. Good times. Lol

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 4 роки тому +99

    Yes, pressure and release with proper timing, rhythm, and feel. Good job. That is horsemanship.

  • @augustluna7219
    @augustluna7219 3 роки тому +50

    Man, I have been searching for YEARS for someone who is fair to their horse like you are. I am so impressed, I hope I can train like you one day.

  • @shuginubi
    @shuginubi 3 роки тому +2

    I'm against violent breaking of horses, that's why I like your approach, sir. Horses are human's best friend ever, without them, there werent be mankind as it is.

  • @gmac1027
    @gmac1027 3 роки тому +3

    What a sweet boy!🐴🥰
    1. I'm in love with the horse.🐎 😉
    2. I'm in love with the horse.🐎 😃
    The bond between you is awesome!

  • @Andrew10621
    @Andrew10621 3 роки тому +8

    What a beautiful boy. I hope all people watching this treat these beautiful beasts of God with the respect they deserve.

  • @bethanys-herd
    @bethanys-herd 4 роки тому +43

    Love this! All so so true, build them up rather than terrify them - you'll end up with a much more willing partner who trusts you and looks up to you!

  • @channongard4396
    @channongard4396 4 роки тому +58

    I have a 1/2 Arabian kill pen rescue that I've been working with...I had a scary bolt with him and I now realize I should not have even been in the saddle on this horse yet. I stayed on, but it shook my confidence quite a bit. I just subscribed to your group and am hopeful to get back on the right track with this horse. God bless you for the work you are doing!

    • @gerrycoleman7290
      @gerrycoleman7290 3 роки тому

      Lots of the correctly applied ground work.

    • @algie471
      @algie471 2 роки тому +4

      Same thing happened to me but I am slowly building my confidence with my horse, today was my first time trotting him! I am so proud of myself! ❤😸

    • @good__enough
      @good__enough Рік тому

      Chandon, how is it going?

  • @jilltisdale455
    @jilltisdale455 11 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU! horse follow closely style. People think I’m crazy that I don’t bully my horse into submission, “make him” by a whip. my 2 yr old will swim for me bare back and hackamore.

  • @peachypixel
    @peachypixel 6 місяців тому

    You are so gentle and confident, I really aspire to be as solid of a horseman as yourself someday. Thank you for posting these videos! ❤

  • @ravenslair117
    @ravenslair117 2 роки тому +5

    You have a kind and gentle approach and I just love watching you interact with your horse. I would love to do the clinic...!!! :-)

  • @Kelly_Ben
    @Kelly_Ben 11 місяців тому

    Love this video! Here's a test... when you're with your horse, suddenly move quickly. If they whip their head up/ away, they're afraid they're about to be "disciplined". They're not respectful, they're reactionary and anxious. Is it effective? Sure. Is that the relationship I want with my horse? Nope.

  • @1suitcasesal
    @1suitcasesal 3 роки тому +2

    Finally, a trainer that makes sense!!!!!

  • @rodrickdixon1350
    @rodrickdixon1350 3 роки тому +2

    👍🏾 like the demo of the wrong way and the right way to train.

  • @EliannaCH
    @EliannaCH 3 роки тому +9

    My new favorite horse trainer!!!
    I love how you build there trust like that!! thank you!!

  • @suzystone244
    @suzystone244 4 роки тому +18

    Ground work is so important. I love to just be with a horse. On his level. This upload soothed me ❤

  • @ottb.harvey
    @ottb.harvey Рік тому

    yes!!! you need to teach your horse that its okay to be scared, but to not react dangerously, especially young horses and ponies who tend to be very alert.

  • @southofzero2510
    @southofzero2510 3 роки тому +5

    Amazing video, and excellent horsemanship! It's great to see creators like you on my feed.

  • @earthtolaina
    @earthtolaina 4 роки тому +17

    He is absolutely beautiful, and I’m glad I found your video! I’ve been working with my pony and he is only 3, and definitely we both need to gain trust and respect for each other. We are both green, and both stubborn. 😂

  • @danawilliams1202
    @danawilliams1202 2 роки тому

    I love this man. I never believed in breaking a horse, you train them to have mutual respect.

  • @johannanattrass8331
    @johannanattrass8331 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you!! The horse world needs people like you and you are putting yourself out there and giving others guidance. As a fellow horseman I sincerely appreciate what you are doing for these wonderful animals!

  • @LotusLady86
    @LotusLady86 3 роки тому +10

    This is so good! The best video I've seen explaining how you keep the spirit of the horse while desensitizing to keep them safe and confident.

  • @panda-man123
    @panda-man123 3 роки тому +6

    I’m glad 😀 I found this video I’m trying to create a bond with a pony and it looks like that I love ❤️ my 🐴 so much he is so nice I love my horse 🐴 I would never let it go never let it get hurt never let it get yelled at

  • @bbbLPSjones
    @bbbLPSjones 8 місяців тому

    im literally crying this is wonderful

  • @desireeadele1812
    @desireeadele1812 4 роки тому +11

    I just found your video's. Great stuff. It's great to see someone working with horses like this. I do the same kind of work and it has made amazing improvements. Trusting each other is important 🐎🙂

  • @r_rowan1373
    @r_rowan1373 3 роки тому +3

    That’s a beautiful horse breed

  • @denisedspain7991
    @denisedspain7991 3 роки тому +2

    He’s a pretty horse. Good information.

  • @zoiesnyder9802
    @zoiesnyder9802 3 роки тому +2

    Love how you explain things and you pointed out when he did a good thing as he did it so that new horse people know what to look for with their first horse :)

  • @TruthCowgirl
    @TruthCowgirl 2 роки тому +1

    amazing.. i cant even put into words how amazing this is .. god bless and keep upthe good work brother

  • @primeslimer
    @primeslimer 4 роки тому +8

    thank you so much! ive been looking for a respectful way to start a horse and ive finally found it here! really appreciate what you do, thank you. ❤️

  • @dragonvyx8619
    @dragonvyx8619 3 роки тому +4

    This is amazing and how it should be for every single horse and trainer!!❤️ thank you for this.

  • @bendover4154
    @bendover4154 2 роки тому +1

    I need some important advice.
    Recently one of my horses sustained an extensive eye injury. I don't have a clue how but panicked I was able to rush him to the vet. Our vet is apparently a magician too as she fixed him up 100% !
    Now I love this horse more than too many can even imagine but I noticed how he responded / interacted with one of the vet's assistants. A girl in her early 20's. Obviously he really likes her!
    I'll be back in a week for a followup visit so I'll pay very close attention. I'm also going to ask several of the other girls there to interact with him to see if it's any girl (which I hope) or if there really is something special between these two. If it's any girl, I can ignore it & live happily ever after.
    If it's what I suspect, I might have to give up my horse as he'd be happier in her barn than mine.
    The last thing I want is to give away my favorite horse but... if he'd be happier, do I really have a choice?
    Under exactly the same circumstances, what would you do?

    • @paulacorso7954
      @paulacorso7954 9 місяців тому +1

      Very good idea to watch a second time and see, maybe more times if possible. Your horse may have smelled another horse on her or smelled treats or, and hope this isn't gross, she may have been on her period. I think God gave you that horse and you should watch and pray hard before giving him away. Or hey get good friends w the vet tech and learn from each other!
      Glad ur vet fixed up his eye!

  • @QuietAZdesert
    @QuietAZdesert 3 роки тому +1

    I like your patience...it goes a long way...

  • @tomphillips2000
    @tomphillips2000 2 роки тому +1

    You have it right man good job

  • @horsebitchbarnwitch
    @horsebitchbarnwitch 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for posting. Im super green and my neighbor has 2 horses. One is 27, and she is a total sweetheart. The other is 15 and he is a bit rambunctious and my neighbor doesnt want me to ride him... and i totally am afraid to ride him. So far, ive fed him hay and pet him and once was on the same side of the fence as he. I havent ridden the 27 year old yet either. I told you, super green. I try to see them every day and when I dont see them, I miss them. I'd like to gain his trust so I really want to join your class. Thank you for having the class!11

  • @roleyypoleyy5469
    @roleyypoleyy5469 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for the video man! I'm gonna try it on my horse to see if our bond can grow even stronger!

  • @rolo2351
    @rolo2351 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing technique bro im sure there’s some psychological explanation as to why his behaviour drastically changes . Phenomonal

  • @mikeburton1703
    @mikeburton1703 3 роки тому +1

    what a beautiful grey.......i would love to own em.......

  • @VcntyPrxy
    @VcntyPrxy 4 роки тому +12

    love your videos mate- very ethical and very real. keep it up!

  • @staciamackie1782
    @staciamackie1782 4 роки тому +2

    That horse is stunning

  • @minersroad6654
    @minersroad6654 2 роки тому +1

    🐎Just love this💖
    'Wish you have more 🐴horse clinics

  • @chrig844
    @chrig844 3 роки тому +1

    You're awesome I can't wait have great bond with my ponies

  • @stevenbertrand8508
    @stevenbertrand8508 3 роки тому +3

    Great video... Not sure how it took me so long to find this one... I for sure prefer this method and it has been one I have been using because I "even as a noob" thought the other way was too much. I also liked the comment at the end. "your horse does not want to throw you" Last year my young green broke philly threw me... But it was my fault... I had the cinch too tight... she bolted on me with out one of my feet in the stirrup and I got thrown.... and boy did she feel bad for it... once I was able to stand up and take a seat on the hay trailer she cam right up to me and put her head in my lap as to say... "I'm sorry dad" She didnt even pay the hay any attention.

  • @theretroguy4519
    @theretroguy4519 2 роки тому +1

    I have a 4 Old Arabian Mare and i will make the Same Training. Man i love youre Videos

  • @erinjean2695
    @erinjean2695 4 роки тому +3

    Really glad I found your channel, thx for the videos

  • @BayanoSunIzem
    @BayanoSunIzem 11 місяців тому

    Man I’ve never really rode a horse before (a few times that I loved but never learned) but I wish there were places that would teach to train like this, in this way

  • @pdoll96
    @pdoll96 3 роки тому

    I’m a beginner..not an owner but praying to be..learning groundwork and I love your method and philosophy. God gave these beautiful creatures to cohabitate with and take care of and the respect should go both ways and love should
    Always be the premise.
    Thanks for what you do.

  • @kristenthessing706
    @kristenthessing706 3 роки тому +3

    That is amazing

  • @nedcherry2066
    @nedcherry2066 4 роки тому +3

    I just found your videos and I LOVE this way of training. God bless you.

  • @blakericker3248
    @blakericker3248 9 місяців тому

    Great video! Great trainer!

  • @lesliedoney1
    @lesliedoney1 2 роки тому

    I pulled a 7 ur old mare from a killpen with her baby on Oct 8th, she isn't even halter broken but she looked just like my mare I had to put down last year. If i can get her broke, she'll be my biggest achievement yet. I've had 3 babies I raised from day 1, and my dad agreed im ready for a step up. I look forward to seeing how she turns out. Thanks for the video.

  • @aimhehehe7080
    @aimhehehe7080 2 роки тому +1

    I use to have a bond with my old horse till he got put down so now I’m trying to learn how to make a new bond with a new horse

  • @dirksimmang
    @dirksimmang 2 роки тому

    Finally a good horseman..
    I'm subscribing now...

  • @barbarab9548
    @barbarab9548 3 роки тому +2

    GREAT !! Great vid great training

  • @angeldivine408
    @angeldivine408 Рік тому

    This is definitely the best approach! Any advice on dealing with a rearing horse?

  • @Conny226
    @Conny226 4 роки тому +3

    Wow that was crazy I am amazed the horse did not bolt what a good horse 😌he was so stressed .

  • @erichicks9263
    @erichicks9263 2 роки тому +1

    The very best way to introduce anything scary to a horse is not to bring the object to the horse but to get the horse to go to the object.This is done by getting the horse to follow the object and use their natural curiosity.In your flag example in the video I would walk off moving the object and simply lead the horse somewhere.
    It’s foolproof,the hirse is always calm and never has to get “used” to the object.
    I started a lot of horses and this was foolproof with any horse.

  • @DukeCityKing50513
    @DukeCityKing50513 3 роки тому +1

    Love this video brother 👍💯. Keep them up.

  • @albertoruiz7829
    @albertoruiz7829 Рік тому

    I just bought a horse at 21 years old I have a good stable at work with lots of space I’m just feeding her rn and letting her get used to me

  • @learleywells4498
    @learleywells4498 3 роки тому

    Your horse is so sweet and he is a very beautiful horse! ❤️❤️ 😍😍

  • @gloom0259
    @gloom0259 3 роки тому +1

    Respect.

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 7 місяців тому

    ahhh man! I missed the webinar!! Will you be having another one. This horse is an arab so she spooks; however, is such a gentle soul and loves to please you. I feel that if I can show my little girl the right things to do, perhaps they can form this bind together. I have to train her yes but I want the bond to be between them.

  • @leealexander3507
    @leealexander3507 3 роки тому +1

    A frightened horse is in no frame of mind to learn anything.

  • @ddanaos
    @ddanaos Рік тому

    love this

  • @ano.theart3050
    @ano.theart3050 3 роки тому

    Fantastic

  • @igorfreitas2841
    @igorfreitas2841 3 роки тому +2

    Respect 🇵🇹

  • @shawndarris1265
    @shawndarris1265 Рік тому

    good stuff !

  • @clintcullum663
    @clintcullum663 10 місяців тому

    Nice work

  • @1lesa242
    @1lesa242 3 роки тому +1

    I like this a lot.

    • @1lesa242
      @1lesa242 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for posting

  • @harinu9339
    @harinu9339 3 роки тому +1

    the car and the goat talking together lmao

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 3 роки тому

    It is thinking of pressure like a dial going from 0 to 100. Start low. If you get the response you are looking for, then release the pressure. If not, dial it up a bit until you get the correct response then release.

  • @juneequestrian9540
    @juneequestrian9540 2 роки тому

    I love this advice.. I'm gonna try it

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 7 місяців тому

    I want to thank you for your video! I am a life-long rider, trainer, and competitor but recently bought my daughter her first horse. An 11 year old arab mare. They immediately took to each other but I have a problem I NEVER had for any of my horses before, I have to board this one 10 min from my home. We are there daily and I will be doing all of her training but I really need some help here. I do not want to be that person that visits and because I cant just step off my porch to be with her throughout the day, I feel like this is why she is digging in her feet and refusing to be lead away from the other horses. Where are you located and is there any way I could email or speak with you??? I pray you answer this message.

  • @aktanakhmetov
    @aktanakhmetov 3 роки тому +1

    That's a nice saddle! Which brand and model is it?

  • @katiefloss8421
    @katiefloss8421 2 роки тому

    I love your horse 👌❤

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 4 місяці тому

    Well, here I am revisiting your videos. I find it helpful to pray with and over my horse. I do have a question though, how can I get her to follow without the lead? Yes, she follows behind if she sees I am leaving but I would like to have her follow me in the field without the lead at ALL times. Suggestions for me?

  • @pdeewee4495
    @pdeewee4495 4 роки тому +1

    You’re amazing!

  • @StarxMoonOnPawzzz
    @StarxMoonOnPawzzz 2 роки тому

    I totally understand that line: " I don't believe in these crazy show things like going side ways"

  • @antonsilvis1181
    @antonsilvis1181 3 роки тому +1

    Lovely horse...tell me more please...breed, height, age?

  • @eversonkharkongor5056
    @eversonkharkongor5056 3 роки тому +2

    I'm waiting for so long this tactic,my horse always afrid I'm not getting the chance to ride till now.

  • @britters220
    @britters220 4 роки тому +3

    Ya spoop’t the poor guy. 🥺
    He is a good boy. ^_^
    Exposure therapy.

  • @rexythet-rex3513
    @rexythet-rex3513 3 роки тому +1

    Just curious what type of horse is he?

  • @josephwiebe8576
    @josephwiebe8576 Рік тому

    Could you do a vid about horses that have a sensitive mouth

  • @good__enough
    @good__enough Рік тому

    :-)
    Lovely.
    I smiled.
    I subscribed.
    :-)

  • @wetdewlap8741
    @wetdewlap8741 11 місяців тому

    So quick question, why would you just stress your horse out to prove a point of what not to do?

  • @allisonplaysaj2269
    @allisonplaysaj2269 4 роки тому +1

    No it doesn't hurt the horse to use a flag if you know what you're doing dont use it to just use it. Btw you did an awesome job.

  • @4AmySue
    @4AmySue Рік тому

    Where is the link for the steady horse clinic?

  • @cybertronicgamer9589
    @cybertronicgamer9589 Рік тому

    Will doing this strengthen my bond with my New forest pony? As he has separation anxiety, an has no trust in me to leave the herd. Will doing this help?

  • @bigshot1300
    @bigshot1300 2 роки тому

    what type of saddle is that?name and model please?

  • @harmonyryan6872
    @harmonyryan6872 2 роки тому

    Where is the link

  • @firefly_the_rescue9308
    @firefly_the_rescue9308 4 роки тому

    Subscribed!

  • @ethanwhit-gg7zg
    @ethanwhit-gg7zg 3 роки тому

    Hello I'm trying to re brame in my horse have you got any tips for that and I'm trying to get a better bond with it please consider doing this