My Early Life Was Really Bizarre
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This is the kind of content we want! Holy shit those 50 minutes FLEW
"Destiny are you worried about the dementia gene?"
"Not really. It would make the stream more interesting though"
LMFAO
Just imagine like Nathan putting the donation sound to a laugh track. They would make so much fucking money
And the thing is. He’s not wrong. Seeing a demented Destiny would be funny
Yikes. That's a man crying out for help. Destiny should be in a psych ward somewhere. Sad. Very sad.
i KNOW right? Hardly felt like an hour tbh. His conversations/stories were drawing me in constantly. Great video, i found a nice channel now
repent unto God
17:17 "My dad died from cancer 3 years ago."
Destiny: *_Nice_* .
He also said he was a box on his mom dresser and I lost it
Not sure why that person had to mention that
Simp attention & sympathy
Let's get that out onto a tray.
@@Cugelclever dead 💀 😂
Getting bad RNG early game really sux
He didn't curve out
top kek lethal
His team misplayed lol
it's all good. he drew brawl.
makes for stories with greater potential
>the business
_"Amway...it's gotta be Amway"_
Stuff of nightmares.
naka doots I don't know what amway is at all... Would u care to elaborate?
Check out r/ExMLM for an ex-user's experience in their own words, +comments
I didn’t know the name but as soon as he said, “The Business” I knew it was an MLM.
When destiny talks about his dad's "the business" thing you can feel the frustration he feels thinking about it.
So true xd
Literally said to myself "what is this some king of pyramid scheme?" literally right before he said Amway lol
MLMs destroy people's lives.
I agree we shouldn't romanticise shyness, it's not the same as humility. It's believing your ideas aren't good enough to be heard and you're placing the authority on anyone around you to shut you down on a whim. Can't be constructive that way, it's degrading
Joshua Pimm as one who is extremely shy around anyone I don't already know somewhat well, you are completely correct. It's nothing but a self imposed handicap. The fear of embarrassment is much worse than the actual embarrassment you'll suffer in many cases.
Yeah, then we listen to people like you and it turns us into fucking assholes. Thanks guys!!
I'd glorify the shy people over what it is you people are and are doing. It's like a crusade has began to try and turn everyone into fucking warriors. Like Sun Tsu did to his War Concubines. He cut the heads off woman to make them see he was serious and turning them into soulless killing machines instead. That's your people's agenda. Turning us all into heartless, soulless guardians against the outside world, fuck our feelings and freedom to live as sheep. Time to wake us up yeah? Oh and everyone is on the autism spectrum or autistic these days, YEAH FUCKING RIGHT.
I think I owe most of my intelligence and creativity to the fact that I grew up with no social life due to how shy I was at the time. I don't think people romanticise shyness as much as they instinctively associate certain positive traits with shyness, even if shyness in itself is undeniably a flaw.
That’s actually a nice way of putting it. As a shy introverted person I don’t see it as a bad trait, but it’s not a good habit to be shut down and not try
I work in special education. Destiny's "same page" speech about parenting is very close to what we try to establish between teachers and parents at our school. Consistency is key.
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It makes sense in a workplace but Destiny just sounds like somebody who was raised by passive-aggressive, gaslighting, undermining lunatics and now he's got mega control issues. In a more stable home kids grow up realizing people have different ideas and tolerances but they love you and it'll be ok. He also sounds like someone who hasn't raised kids, lol. They're not 'little shits' just because you don't like what they're doing. He described his 6-year-old as a pos, multiple times. He needs professional help.
@@dreamingrightnow1174 damn dude 10/10 armchair psychology LOL you're really smart
God I bet that would be hard in many ways.
@@lockelamora4184 it's hard for parents themselves to stay consistent internally let alone be consistent with their partner is doing or the teachers at school are doing (or even can do). What's important is that they try. For example, the whole "mom said no, so I asked dad" dynamic is usually unhealthy. Fortunately human beings (children included) are very resilient and adaptive so they can usually handle an imperfect environment just fine; simply including consistency in your framework or thought process will help a lot. Imo
Your story about the music program perfectly explains the sad truth of arts programs: they're made for people who are independently wealthy or who know enough about the college system to know where to find all the good scholarships. Music, painting, sculpture, any type of creative art that involves public presentations are the worst at scheduling.
Yup. I'm only able to go to school because I'm on full scholarship and live at home still. I'm in school 9AM-6PM, how tf am I supposed to do anything else with my life lol.
Destiny states that he thinks being a shy person is a bad thing, I completely agree. In my younger years, I was the shyest person I've ever met, and that habit only became worse. So that went on for a few years and now it's made me an anti-social, which goes hand in hand with extremely terrible social anxiety in my case. I'm in 10th grade now studying extremely hard for each grade in my honors English class, because I'm so shy, so anti-social, that I can't say anything when we discuss books, causing me to make a low grade for that event, lowering my average grade drastically. I expect these kinds of things will make it difficult to find a job and live in general. From a child living such hardships, please, don't make the same mistakes my mother made.
EDIT: Thank you for the video Destiny I loved it!
What mistakes do you think your mother made?
Datura I feel as if my mother would have made me be a more sociable and exotic person, my early life would have steered me another way, although I’ve never blamed her for the way I am, because she was having some quite serious problems at the time, therefore, she couldn’t worry about me too much.
There is nothing wrong with being shy, but if you feel it is interfering with your development and well being then it is something you should address. If shyness persists after you've tried to overcome it, it would be worth seeing somebody about it. Typically it won't just magically go away on its own. Perhaps you school has a counselor you could see for free.
There is no advantage to being shy, literally not one.
Simp thanks for that ray of sunlight on this kids cloudy days...
I was shy as a kid too. I know its a hard thing to break out of. Dont be worried about it, look for a solution in yourself. Some people dont crave the social ladder that many do. Personally I dont see anything wrong with it, aslong as you can handle loneliness and being that quiet guy whos a janitor or pushes the trolleys
Full time work: ~40 hrs/wk
+Drive time: ~5 hours/wk
Full time student: 12 credit hrs (~36 hrs in class)/wk
+Drive time ~2.5 hrs/wk
+Homework: ~24 hrs/wk
=roughly 107.5 hrs per week GG
"Wanna know how I got these scars?"
I always thought my family was pretty well off, but the more I hear about other people's upbringing the further down the middle class scale I think we were lol.
Smitty Games hey man, if u thought u were well off, then u were, don't compare, it'll just make u feel bad, if you're satisfied, that's the best thing
Avaneesh I was on the lower end but I never cared. I could have been born in the third world, an orphan or with aids.
born with aids? thats a tough one
Red T a lot of kids in Africa are unfortunately
I spent a large portion of my child hood living in a trailer in a family friends drive way had no idea we where poor until my father declared bankruptcy when I was in 8th grade shits just weird that way.
Thanks for speaking up against being shy. It's a struggle and I agree wholeheartedly!
Finally a decent guest 🙃
wrong title, this is the realtalk of 2017 fam
prollynot paris I'm calling it right now, the next official real talk will be in december
This is the kind of stuff Im subbed for 10/10 my dude
Lol I'm 2 years into my bio degree, haven't worked a day during term time bc my parents are paying all my living expenses. I know I couldn't manage my workload if I had to work a full-time night shift...
ImperialGoldfish Ok?
My favorite part was Natsumi showing up midway through the conversation and being like "wtf"
"Super middle class"
"indoor heated pool"
Definitely upper middle class.
Your not upper middle if all those things are debts. upper middle is like 200k a year at the lowend
@Seth Belfort damn correct it 4 times instead of also mentioning lowend should be low end. Math my specially I care little about English
Destiny can get 4k concurrent viewers listening in rapt attention while he talks about life/anything. That's some fucking job security right there.
That said, this was really interesting.
Hatsuharu how is that security? Those people could disappear in a split second
very few people have real job security these days.
Zack Lyle he doesn't need to be super skilled at a game or constantly start shit and feed on that drama. He can just be him and people enjoy that. It's crazy
if this is like some super long greentext bait I swear to god...
//The Simpson 75// everybody walk the dinosaur
spoiler alert: it is
@@ownagemunky and then he realized it was a dream and woke up in a wooden cart. God dammit todd
@@jarretklosinski2273it just works
Are you afraid you have the dementia gene?
Idk, it would make the streams really entertaining
Luv ya destiny
Lmao start killing cats and pissing on the floor mid stream
"My only fuck up is Nathan" LUL
11:50 Dude I can totally relate to this, I'm terrified of drugs and a large part of that is that I'm scared I'll ruin my brain
Lifelong weed use will lover ones iq by 8 points
Also get enough iodine
@@celinak5062 this has no scientific basis lol
@@BananaRama1312 every daily smoker I've ever known that didn't have a legitimate medical reason is a fucking retarded bum if that counts
U won't bc it'll always come back it's the withdrawals that are horrible for a week sometimes a month. Can't sit still nor can u sleep. When u do it's only for an hour max
@@daviedood2503guess I'm not the only one watching this half a decade old video
45:00 plain cheeseburgers, no cheese.
also known as burgers 8^)
The irony when he gives parenting advice (good advice imo) is that just before that he said he's more thankful for the way he was raised than anything and he was raised with none of the principles he recommends. My only concern is that I hope he's emotionally available enough and can provide all the love and tenderness it takes to raise a well rounded son (or daughter)
Destiny got pissed on the floor, put down and spoiled in this debate.
How is having a heated pool indoors “extremely middle class”
That would he upper middle class
Dementia is so fucked dude. Any discussion about it legit makes me tear up, just like, the possibility of my mom or me developing that, fucks me up hard.
I dont understand why people criticize destiny for saying that you have to make people less shy. Being shy/introverted can destroy peoples lives, not being able to naturaly communicate with people because of your shyness and not being able to engage in social interactions can fuck up your career, social life and overall life experience. Of course you could let your kid sit alone in his room for his entire childhood but not encouraging him to interact with other kids to possibly find friends and new opportunities will fuck him up in the long term. I wish my parents would’ve helped me deal with my social anxiety when i was a kid, i had to literally re-learn handling social situations in college because of the lack of social confrontations as a kid.
My mom never let me out the house, still trying to control my life years later.
Charisma on Command UA-cam channel is really helpful for learning social skills
listening to destiny talk about his life makes me feel like i live in the fucking brady bunch
Wow I (ignorantly) thought music degrees were easy street, because you were just playing and listening to music. Destiny sure set me straight on that shit, jesus. Newfound respect.
FTWson they're still easy. Just a lot of time
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@@rmsvideos1335 They're not all easy, depends where you go.
Where in the video did he talk about this? I’m too lazy to watch the whole thing myself.
indoor pool is middle class?
Nill Hicks middle class in his giant state
Did you listen? They could not actually afford the pool. They were living outside their means big time.
Hence middle class with a pool.
PolishPipebomb I think where he grew up has cheap housing, and so it's not unrealistic for a indoor pool to be middle-class
Using the 15% figure one may conclude that the American upper middle class consists, strictly in an income sense, of professionals with personal incomes in excess of $62,500, who commonly reside in households with six figure incomes.
You can afford an indoor pool on $62.5K a year.
So, yes.
Nill Hicks watch more of the video before u comment
damn destiny, coming in strong with the childhood strengthing bro, look at this homie, from a bad situation to a chill life with a great kid . nice clutch bro, 1v no money clutch
I get that you think being shy is bad but you shouldn't judge people who are shy. There are lots of people who are shy or lack confidence because of awful experiences that they have had in the past or the fact that a lot of parents raise their daughters to be quiet and ashamed.
Beautiful character development for Destitty.
Middle class with an indoor heated pool and every game console? That’s not middle class. That’s wealthy. Tippy top upper middle class at least. Interesting story nonetheless
"They always lived way above their means"
Destiny has 4 aces (adverse childhood experiences) this is something that more people ought to be aware of, the effects of aces i mean
Yep, gaming might be an addiction that ended up paying off or he has more Resilience then others
Damn bro I respect you for saying this about yourself. Most people would never be this open. Thanks.
When you talk about how chill you were working at the casino I thought about Bruce Banner in Avengers going "I'm always Angry." Whatever works.
you hustled your way up from bad rng and now you're saving money, converting the alt right and generally doing alright. gg.
38:35
This little bit is a great perspective
"Plain cheeseburgers, no cheese, just the burger and the bun. A double cheeseburger" what
I used to be the stupidest guy ever from grade 5-9. Man I was racist and genuinely thought I was a nice guy. I was polite but I was 100% an asshole. I moved to a co-ed school in grade 10 and finally started to chill out. I had my first real relationship and that really helped me cope. She really pushed my boundaries and sorta forced me to get a job and stop fucking around (age 19 after a gap year). I worked at a call centre and lived on my own. My gf didn't get along well with my mom and I had sorta ostracised my family. I remember dreading work because I was grossly unqualified and shitting bricks all day hoping I didn't get difficult clients. Anyway I quit the job and my gf left me. I still kinda miss her 2 years later which is a bit pathetic, but I'm stronger than ever before. And have become much more genuine and confident. She really transformed my life and I'm so grateful for that. What a weird fucking world
Oh shit and my gran was also into Amway lmao
I 100% agree that picky eating is a negative trait. My little brother went through a long period where he wouldn't eat anything that wasn't home made and that was a nightmare for my folks. He also managed to offend friends of the family who owned a restaurant because he would go out to eat with us and refuse the food!
4:15 if every card is maxed out, you are not living at the edge of your means. You are living above your means.
oh shit dude if i found that many opiate painkillers. hollly shit
sweet jesus.
Right? Fuck, I would be set for a couple months.
Imagine stumbling across a stash like that dope sick.
polymorph ine id probably end up keeping 1/3 for myself
Kleingirl - Id either sell them for something better, keep them for reserve, or eat them all uncontrollably and risk APAP shutting my liver down. They all sounds like wonderful options.
What the fuck is wrong with you people ?
Your descriptions on the classes at your music school were fucking A1
24:22 had me weak
I know someone at my job who was trying to get a music degree and work. Lol.
I mean an art degree can be rough because if you are putting your all into it you are sinking so much time you wil not get credit for , but art+ time is the only way to improve.
Music sounds like it's on another level though.
did he lose this debate?
edit: changed to lose
squad fam loose indeed Cx
dont steal joomFACE you FUCK
"Fuck Day Shift!"
Alright, his story checks out. Destiny's legit.
I like how he makes it seem as though he had a 18% interest rate on the planet Saturn.
+Destiny Steven.. man, it's amazing you've turned out as well as you have.
Destiny I was a music major that dropped out as a supervisor at a restaurant. I know your feels.
As soon as i was on solid foods i was given what my parents were eating and it was all i was going to be given. It only takes one or two not eating protests where dinner got cleared and nothing else followed to learn that trying new foods was the better option. Now im a massive foodie
props to you for sharing this
shit dude those poor dogs :(
The dog was trying to communicate. That's why they piss on the floor, because they can't talk. It's anxiety. Don't give the dog trouble geez that makes it way worse.
Literally how I felt about my minor in music. I was on campus all day for a 2 hour class and another practice later that afternoon
Your grandma should have been put in a home. It sounds like she had no idea how to take care of herself.
Vegard Fjeldberg it's harder than you think to get the power over someone to make medical decisions for them. His grandma was going (I assume by herself? He didn't say) by herself to all those doctors appointments. Plenty of witnesses that could verify her mental state as being stable enough to be independent.
17:45 Destiny channeling his inner Karl Pilkington I see
Your parenting style matches with child psych bro, good on ya
This video is 49:33 long but it took me five hours to watch because the chat is gold
BRO thank you. my dad was in Amway for so long and every time I bitched about it nobody got me.
Im a somewhat picky eater, it is bad, its the worst actually and i wish i wasnt built this way. As ive grown up ive gotten over a lot of my food fears gradually, but there are still foods i cannot eat without gagging every time i try them again. Its always been somewhat holding me back in specific social situations. Its a good thing to prefer quality food, but when there are too many specific things that you are unable to consume its nothing but negative
Those low credit classes will fuck you. At my quarter system CC 12 units was full time, and one quarter I tried doing 12.5 units spread across 5 classes. I ended up dropping two of them because the 2 unit class (publishing the school's literary magazine) and 1.5 credit class (intro to guitar) each took more of my time than some of the 5 unit classes I'd taken. I also ran into scheduling conflicts that quarter because those two classes had out of class obligations. I missed the release for the literary magazine because it was scheduled during my final for another class for example.
I once organized a support group for people with extreme social anxiety, but everyone was too shy to come so I ended up alone. As always...
I agree Destiny. The dog piss thing was like reading a creepypasta
0:35 oh, the formative years. Battle on bro
35:40 we need more people like Destiny
"As long as i have a cool computer'n shiet" - Destiny
I can relate to that!.
I love this stuff keep it up!
Its so weird that he can just pull random stats from memory but then can't remember shit like, who nuked Japan or the Gremlins movie. Dude is weird.
Ive been shy my whole life 😔
dan bay 🤗
I was a picky eater as a kid and now I eat most things, I think it's okay for kids. As a kid certain foods pretty much made me vomit.
wtf is this thumbnail
The curriculum of my degree changed meaning 4 classes i spent 3 months doing full time, didn't
count to my new curriculum lol
If you ever do return to college, you could take Honor classes because for the most part, they are self teaching and discussion based classes. So egos allowed bro.
Golden_Steve That’s if he/other people can even make it in an Honor’s program anyway
"how to steal nanna's social security payment" Finally Steven giving his viewers some usable knowledge
35:58 that skill is really nice to have feelsgoodman
wow his life is so similar to what ive went through, much more respect to destiny
24:19 the worst thing is that you can google or see youtube videos to know how to really use an instrument and you have your own schedule you do it at your home you can practice at your home and there is no actual need to go to collage to do this stuff only just to have a degree but thats basically it.
Destiny, Why don't you do a podcast? even if you just put these types of videos up for podcasts with a few ads. Id listen to this shit at work all day every day.
Yeah I'm only in high school and I'm not very good at saxophone I just treat it as a side for fun thing more then like I want to go hard and be super good and shit but I looked up the college shit just for shits and giggles and it's like 20-30 hours of class a week and then obviously you're going to need to put in like 15-30 hours of practicing, not to mention you constantly have to buy shit like reeds and spend another 1-2 hours a week cleaning and maintaining your instrument so if you do a fulltime job you could theortically be spending 100 hours (assuming you aren't in some marching band shit as well which would add another like 40-50 hours meaning you'd be getting a nice 18 hours of sleep per week if you wanted to be on top of everything completley and have a full time job, also as a saxophone player you're supposed to know how to play all of the different types of saxophones obviously so you should set aside like another 1-2 hours a week for each of the main 4 to make sure you can just pick one up and play it no problem if need be) and that means you have no free time and still are getting less then average sleep all to make garbage money unless you're a savant or like okay money but focusing more on the musical theory and teaching side of things rather then playing your instrument
Holy shit your grandma with the dogs gave me nightmares
jesus, i didn't know people who were this bad at their money existed
my parents were bad but this is another level
Dude, I FEEL you on the music major bullshit. I wanted to do vocal music ed like my mom but couldn't handle it mostly because I had to attend 12 performances per semester for ZERO credits, but if I didn't go to enough concerts, my private vocal lesson grade dropped by a full letter. The fuck is that?? It made me start to HATE music so I switched to English ed instead. Jesus, it was the absolute worst. I was in so many choirs, too. Plus music theory, plus master class, plus performances, plus diction class... AND THEN I had gen ed stuff like biology and geology and shit. NO THANKS!
I went to UNO as well (even though only for a year) No scholarships, and by the end of the year it seemed pretty much everything had gone to shit lol. Its crazy to hear you have a kid with your past partner.
Destiny DESTROYED BY HIS EARLY CHILDHOOD
did he just classify gremlins as a horror movie lmaoo
I didn’t know you were a music major that dropped, I’m a music major too and I have to work and I already had to drop the education half of the major just to stay afloat
i fucking hate being shy. it sucks. i feel anxious meeting new people. i was pretty confident in middle school but then got bullied :/
Holy fuck. When he talked about his grandma and the dogs. Everything fucking fell into place. This has to be way he can't form long term emotional commitment right? I'd stake my armchair psychology degree on it.
I don’t see being shy or introverted as a bad trait, I guess because I am one, but I try to break out even though I hate talking to people
I love that last bit about hating people who are rude to waitstaff. Far too many people in our society think that's okay and its fucking repulsive. Ultimate turnoff.
I really like Destiny's ideas on parenting, though I don't necessarily agree with the one set of rules for every parental figure. He sounds like an honest to heart father, and I really hope the best for his family.
Being an introvert is not a flaw and forcing someone to be something they are not can have even worse effects down the road. I would suggest you read a book such as quiet: the power of introverts in a world where people cant stop talking. As far as being a picky eater making him try things is the best way. I would advise though not to make him finish things he doesn't like. Some of it just takes time and some things you just wont like. I can say this as someone who was very picky as a child.
Not watched the video yet, did he have a problem with introverts or shyness/anti-social behaviour? There's a difference.
Introvert and shy are two different things, I'm not shy in any sense I just fucking despise being around other people consumed by ego which is most people most of the time
@F J We all have egos, some of us just have more control over them, anyone who says they don't have an ego or find it easy to control are lying
no destiny, no being picky, it's bad, you better eat your sea food -.-
From the financial struggles your parents had I would think you would understand better the role of people's choices in their economic situations.
Anyway I'm happy for you for being able to support yourself financially by streaming.
yes, because saying there are environmental factors means there are only environmental factors. it totally implies no choice involved
I know this late AF but this fantastical view that ppl have of agency is completely insane. You doy have agency beyond your genetics, history and your environment. That is simply scientific fact.
I don't eat anything that lives in the water either! Probably a good thing since all of our rivers and oceans are becoming polluted garbage dumps.