the real tea on modesty...

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  • Опубліковано 3 лис 2024

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  • @redskittlez12
    @redskittlez12 Рік тому +60

    Kiki I appreciated this so much. Especially the part where we shouldn’t judge other peoples journeys and recognize that God convicts us of different things and we need to trust Him and listen to the Holy Spirit. Thanks for your effort in these videos, it really helps us all grow together ❤️

  • @mandyemerson8059
    @mandyemerson8059 Рік тому +14

    I let go of calling myself a baddie and now I call myself a goodie🥰

  • @differenthandlebutokay
    @differenthandlebutokay Рік тому +23

    i love ur videos girl, God has 100% convicted me of using the word “baddie” and I was so confused as to why, you broke it down perfectly thank you sis!

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +2

      yes same! God fs made me do a double take on that lol

  • @natnat5141
    @natnat5141 Рік тому +13

    Oooooo first one letsgooo I’m ready for the tea
    I think the way how you explained everything was well said and backed up with scripture it’s so amazing because I was just speaking to my friend about how I need to go clothes shopping and we were having a convo about a few outfits I picked out. God bless you sis and thank you for shedding light on this topic

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +2

      thank you! modesty is such a huge topic in this community it really needs to be discussed more

  • @channahkatalayi2167
    @channahkatalayi2167 Рік тому +19

    Hi Kiki!❤️ LOVED the video and I find that everything you said is absolutely the truth. Loved how you touched on the topic of trends and sexual appeals on social media’s. I find that young (and everyone else too)girls in today’s society want to dress “sexy” because they see it so much on social media and it becomes that they do it under a sexual desire without realizing. I always told myself that if a man sees me in whatever piece of clothing and lust just by looking at me, it would be a sign that I shouldn’t wear it. I even tell myself sometimes if God was there in FLESH would I be comfortable pressing myself like that infront of Him. The moment I started doing that it revealed a lot of things to me. As Christian’s, we are meant to be set apart from this world which means that we cannot look like the world as well. We are meant to be the reflection of Jesus Christ which means that it is not only internal but also physical. Yes we are in a modern generation, we aren’t going to dress up like those back then but we still have to be careful. I love your videos girl they always boost me up spiritually! ❤️

    • @channahkatalayi2167
      @channahkatalayi2167 Рік тому

      Presenting*

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +5

      omg that part when you said how would you dress if Jesus was in front of you is GOOD! everyone needs that mindset! i’m so glad u enjoyed it love 💗💗💗

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia Рік тому +7

    Not you using the call ended sound to end the video 👀 I was confused for a second 😂😂 and great video🤍
    The best thing to do in most of these situations is pray that the Lord convicts people not to speak down to them in a self righteous manner but to speak the truth in love and showcasing the fruit of the Spirit

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +2

      yessss someone noticed LOL and exactly! i agree!💗

  • @AnjelLovely1
    @AnjelLovely1 Рік тому +4

    I love your approach to this subject. You are coming from a place of love and HEALTHY correction (because of the scriptures). I love to dress comfortable and I love me a good cropped hoodie,cropped top or a fitted shirt and I'll have a field day 😂. But watching this I know have to start asking God if how I dress is fine. Thank you Kiki.
    Side note: The hair, skin and brows are giving LIFE!

  • @All_Things_Made_New
    @All_Things_Made_New 11 місяців тому

    Your channel popped in my feed… It’s really nice to hear wholesome Godly wisdom

  • @britneyarne3347
    @britneyarne3347 Рік тому +2

    come thru hair and skinnn!!! you’re glowing sisss ✨✨✨✨

  • @monika7727
    @monika7727 Рік тому

    11:44 🙌 ohhhhh myyyyy gossssshhhhhhhh this is exactly what I’ve been thinking about, to or to not accept as friends / get closer to those who don’t have the same beliefs / spiritual maturity as me!! ❤

  • @brendajepkoech4065
    @brendajepkoech4065 Рік тому +7

    If this ain't God using you I don't know, today I was looking for outfits to buy,then decided to go through tiktok and I started comparing outfits there and I realised I was becoming so concerned on outfits than I could on normal, I was like im done before I loose my mind on things like clothes ,I decided to delete tiktok and instead I prayed to God I wanna look good and be comfortable in whatever I wear but still have modesty based on your words.

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      wow God really said “here u go 🫴🏾” lol 💗

  • @taylorjohnson7693
    @taylorjohnson7693 Рік тому +4

    Welcome back sister!!! I missed your content!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @quishaiesha
    @quishaiesha Рік тому +9

    kiki, can you do a video talking about fasting and the benefits of it and if you've had any experience with it?

  • @Dollydddolly
    @Dollydddolly Рік тому +1

    Kiki I’m learning so much from you and I just started watching im in 7th grade and your already making me view my life differently thank you so much (I hope your ok and continue making these videos praying for you)💕✝️♾️

  • @lisaprejzner
    @lisaprejzner Рік тому +2

    I was looking for something to watch and you posted! Perfect timing ❤

  • @kiarakhensani1759
    @kiarakhensani1759 Рік тому +2

    Not a lie told, Instagram is such a self demoralizing platform hence why we should not compare but rather work on ourselves for Christ ✨❤️. Love the vid Kiki my alias is also Kiki😂

  • @preciouskingsley-nyinah2148
    @preciouskingsley-nyinah2148 Рік тому +1

    Wow this video was very insightful! I’ve been in this modesty journey and I genuinely don’t understand it and I feel this video has really showed me what modesty in Christ really is about ❤️❤️

  • @agabriela1
    @agabriela1 Рік тому +4

    Kiki, I enjoyed this video and thought you touched on an important point being personal conviction. Though I felt you missed bringing up the other side of modesty which is to protect our brothers in Christ from temptation and sin. Of course there are limits to what we are liable for when it comes to tempting another, but at the same time just because we don’t have the desire to look ‘sexy’ or like a ‘baddie’ when we dress, doesn’t necessarily mean we won’t tempt another if we were to wear to say, wear a crop top with no i’ll intent. another thing you touched on was not judging other Christians for the sake of it, I hope this doesn’t come across this way. I didn’t disagree with any of your points, just felt a little that there was more that needed to be said for this to be complete. God Bless and thanks for your videos ❤️ We have similar testimonies and I love hearing what you have to say

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +3

      hi! so i kinda did touch on the not tempting another another brother in christ when i said not letting your “personal convictions” cause another brother to stumble. a lot of people use the term “personal conviction” as an excuse to sin and wear whatever they want even tho they feel it in their spirit it isn’t right. and to touch on ur other point i agree i feel like in every video there’s always more to be said but i touched on what i felt like i was really led to. on the judging part i was talking about judging another persons convictions because it’s literally not their place to period. i don’t believe it’s ANYONES place to tell someone what not to wear and what to wear. the basis of this video was to let ppl know if you truly are growing in Christ, every aspect of ur life including your appearance will change. everyone’s pace in modesty is different. hopefully more ppl got the main point 😭😭 thank you for this comment!💗

    • @agabriela1
      @agabriela1 Рік тому

      Honestly appreciate your reply so much, and don’t let my comment think that others will miss the point. I totally agreed with everything you said and you just cleared everything up so well anyway. Modesty is an important topic and you did a great job of approaching it ♥️

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      @@agabriela1 awe yes fs!!! ur the best!💗

  • @malissalabrana1722
    @malissalabrana1722 Рік тому +2

    Yess your back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @themyraaakn
    @themyraaakn Рік тому +1

    always dropping gems 🤍🤍

  • @AChosenMinistry
    @AChosenMinistry Рік тому

    I really appreciate how genuine you are and how you thoroughly explain. Definitely a new subscriber💌

  • @isabelcarreon4906
    @isabelcarreon4906 Рік тому +3

    You remind me of Nicki Minaj if she was saved lol! Beautiful sis! 🖤✨

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +5

      LOL the way i cackled at this comment 😭😭 thank you sis💗

  • @AlannaBoo524
    @AlannaBoo524 Рік тому

    I already hav the braid hair and an appointment next week and I’m really on the fence. I don’t want to deal with my hair for a month. I wear baggy clothes, don’t draw attention to myself, don’t follow trendy clothes, and I’m still learning.

    • @AnjelLovely1
      @AnjelLovely1 Рік тому +3

      Hey sis. Talk with God about how you are feeling in regards to getting your hair braided. Be honest with him let home know you what to get it done but you want to check with him (first) to make sure he's okay with you doing that. The Holy Spirit will let you know. When God doesn't want you to do something you'll know. I like to say if He wants me to do something He won't let me be lol. But when you decide not to do what He tells you not to do, there will be a overwhelming peace about it. I pray this makes sense.

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      havinf braided hair isn’t a problem at all lol girl where ur hair however just continue to use your God given judgement :)

  • @Dear_Veek
    @Dear_Veek Рік тому +2

    I'm happy to have found yr channel 😊❤️

  • @kenyabrawner2304
    @kenyabrawner2304 Рік тому +2

    Off topic but I love the hair!! ❤

  • @Journey2wholenesss
    @Journey2wholenesss Рік тому +2

    Heyy Kiki I love your videos, this was great!!❣️

  • @trulytiera
    @trulytiera Рік тому

    Wow, after watching this I immediately subscribed. Love your perspective on this topic.

  • @1tachi-.
    @1tachi-. Рік тому

    2:30 i think paul is talking about being OBSESSED with yourself and vanity. idolizing yourself, stuff like Gold and being obsessed with always looking good and ur appearance.

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      both what i said and u said definitely go hand in hand :)

  • @abowe_915
    @abowe_915 Рік тому +1

    Amenn sis ☕️💗💗

  • @LashonDCampbell
    @LashonDCampbell Рік тому

    @Journey With Kiki
    Good morning to you🤗
    I really enjoyed watching your video today
    you are refreshing and such a blessing
    Love your beautiful channel 🥰

  • @SMgail_
    @SMgail_ Рік тому

    Wow I love this video so much. I always felt the baddie Christian aesthetic was tacky. I just think the self love trend completely goes against humility which feels wrong when following God.

  • @erinlanaee
    @erinlanaee Рік тому

    New subscriber! I have a question. So you said that using the term “baddie” is basically blending the lines of being modest and giving in to the way of the world. So what about listening to Christian rap? Like would that same logic apply? Genuine question because I’m trying to make sure I’m not doing down the wrong path.

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +3

      i personally just don’t like christian rap i just never connected w it but i know it helps those who were into secular rap find a godly alternative lol the term “baddie” doesn’t even sound positive. rap music doesn’t need to be inappropriate. it’s all about the execution so the two are just a lil different

    • @erinlanaee
      @erinlanaee Рік тому

      @@journeywithkiki okay, thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @Khanyiie_dime
    @Khanyiie_dime Рік тому +1

    You are so pretty ❤
    Thank u for this video ❤

  • @Jessylovesu12
    @Jessylovesu12 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this 🥹💓

  • @kayylaurrr
    @kayylaurrr Рік тому

    hi kiki! i am a new subscriber and i have a question on what your favourite podcast is called because the link isn’t working. Also i am looking at getting a new bible, please what bible do you use? thank youu and your videos have been teaching me so much!! literally binging them.

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      hey! so the two i listen to are “30 mins with the perry’s” and “calvary chapel podcast” and for my bible it’s a women’s study bible and it’s called “daily devotional bible for women” NKJV Daily Devotional Bible for Women, Trade Paper a.co/d/d9GCxhm 💗💗 and awe thank you!!!

  • @tatijenee5796
    @tatijenee5796 Рік тому

    This was great Kiki!

  • @nahominevarez9649
    @nahominevarez9649 Рік тому

    Such a good video girl!! What camera do you use? your quality in your videos have been firrree

  • @chloelookingup
    @chloelookingup Рік тому +3

    I want to be a goodie lol

  • @sunmlia
    @sunmlia Рік тому

    Kiki can you talk about being a non denominational christian? I'm latina and at least in my country we don't have this, so I'm really curious. I would love to know more 🤍

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому

      hi! so honestly non denominational is just a church that isn’t associated w the different types of denominations like pentecostal, baptist, etc. we’re just a church that belongs to solely God.

  • @mxolisimxolisi5989
    @mxolisimxolisi5989 Рік тому

    We've missed you 🤗🤗🤗

  • @monika7727
    @monika7727 Рік тому

    14:38 is Holy Spirit and intuition the same thing? Intuition is basically the voice of God right? It’s a knowing voice

  • @DebbieAkan
    @DebbieAkan Рік тому

    Thank you for this Kiki

  • @_keshia
    @_keshia Рік тому

    Love the hair 😍

  • @bethtaye4589
    @bethtaye4589 Рік тому

    This was so good.

  • @Khanyiie_dime
    @Khanyiie_dime Рік тому

  • @Sofiatoju
    @Sofiatoju Рік тому

    🧡🧡🧡

  • @GracefulLiving1
    @GracefulLiving1 Рік тому

    I love tea. Great video

  • @neekietyson6374
    @neekietyson6374 Рік тому

    This was a great video but im trying to genuinely understand how can personal conviction be an excuse to sin… isnt personal conviction like when something is not literally written in the bible that its wrong but when you do it, you feel like your going against God? Im a little confused because wouldnt personal conviction cause us NOT to sin because we feel like we are doing something wrong? I hope you understand where im coming from so you can give me some advice, thank youu

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      so what i mean is like sometimes someone can be doing something that is blatantly against Gods commands and wants for us. it could be that they are having pre marital sex, smoking, drinking to get drunk, dressed very promiscuous and revealing, etc. they can easily say “well i still do this bc i haven’t been personally convicted of it yet” like that doesn’t make sense and they are just using “personal conviction” as an excuse to sin. like if u are gonna sin blatantly just say that. don’t say you just haven’t been personally convicted YET lol hopefully that made sense. i’m glad i saw this comment !

    • @neekietyson6374
      @neekietyson6374 Рік тому

      @@journeywithkiki ohhhh okay Thank you for taking time to explain, I understand now, God Bless❤️

    • @neekietyson6374
      @neekietyson6374 Рік тому

      @@journeywithkiki ohhhh okay Thank you for taking time to explain, I understand now, God Bless❤️

  • @vanessamutoni4869
    @vanessamutoni4869 Рік тому

    I’m starting to feel like I really need to dress modestly but idk what to wear I need to go shopping and I honestly need ideas on what to wear I don’t want ugly clothes help

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +1

      i can make a video on the things i wear maybe, then it could help certain ppl but it really all falls down to what the person is personally comfortable with

    • @vanessamutoni4869
      @vanessamutoni4869 Рік тому

      @Journey With Kiki yes please do ❤️

    • @Allthingsgraceful
      @Allthingsgraceful Рік тому

      Pinterest will help you sister

    • @Sharonogun
      @Sharonogun Рік тому

      Pinterest sis

  • @cambiakays1639
    @cambiakays1639 Рік тому +1

    Do you feel showing some of your stomach is ungodly, like a peep of your belly

    • @journeywithkiki
      @journeywithkiki  Рік тому +15

      not ungodly lol there’s a time and place for everything and using the judgement and discernment God gives you is most important especially when choosing clothes u wear

    • @cambiakays1639
      @cambiakays1639 Рік тому +1

      @@journeywithkiki okay thanks for your response bc I still have clothes that do and i don’t have sexual image or intention to attract people from it but was like I needed be modest!!