Why Woke People Are Their Own Worst Enemies
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A hundred years ago, you would have to pay 50 cents to see a bearded woman
now you pay nothing and get still get ripped off cause its just a man in a wig
And four nickles and a bee to have sex with them
fuck 100 years ago 50 cents was worth at least 16 dollars in todays money.
yes!! at the circus freakshow...🤣🤣🤣
You got me crying😂
Imagine doing everything in your power to be an outcast, then have the nerve to get mad that people treat you like a weirdo.
But that’s the real me and I’m different and you also have to accept me or you’re a bigot.
its important that everyone adheres to my truths and if you dont, then you are part of the problem
@@MOMO-m0m0 I'm only complete when i wear a flower dress and dont you dare tell me otherwise
It's why they did it in the first place: to get attention.
In the 90s, the oddballs referred to themselves as living an Alternative Lifestyle and that was the end of it. Now, they think the rest of us have to pretend that their “alternative” choices are normal. Or else.
Dating can be difficult when you intentionally try to make yourself as ugly as possible 💀
@@HandlezX3 she should really try dating elephant seals or other marine mammals. To a bull elephant seal she's got the ideal body type.
@HandlezX3 not for procreation. You're right. They don't understand they are making themselves a fetish for those who also have a mental disconnect. One big cycle.
friendlyneighborhoodmadman
😂
Ugliness is subjective. You can find anyone ugly or the most beautiful person in the world
Klyde: "Mean, judgmental people shame & stare at me".
Also Klyde: "LOOK AT ME! PAY ATTENTION TO ME!.....especially in a way that makes me feel like a victim so I can complain about it & make a passive aggressive & smug TikTok."
Yet the ones who love your beard and think its beautiful will get branded "fetishizing" or "objectifying".
@@JohnSmith-zw8vp
Or mentally ill.
"People fetishize my beard"
No, trust me, they don't. Some people like clean shave. Some people like a good beard. Nobody likes squiggly pubes on a double chin.
Maybe one or two people ONLINE in some Discord channels they're in, but not real life.
LOL
FACTS 😂
Classic self-victimization! The mind games are wild!
Nah, the craziest part is: if you don't like the beard you're a bigot, if you like the beard you're fetishizing.
Like, what even?! 😂
You know at this point im pretty convinced that character customization is real
Everyone is making fugly characters for attention so probably.
It's not, human skeleton is a ground proof of that
I'll stick with my Tony Hawk Pro Skater 1 character, thanks 😂
@@IntrovertedOreo WORD
It literally is, think about body modifications. That shit has been around for a long time.
eli was trying super hard not to get cancelled
LITERALLY poor Eli 😂
Eli braved something for us all in the name of entertainment.
Lmaoooo
i noticed something. Klyde doesnt even ask anything about Eli. Its all "Me" "Me" "Me" "My beard" not a good date
Noticed it too, its very painfull to see
This is the type of person you’d make as a joke character in a game of DND.
Ruthless
Kinda looks like JonTron 😅
@@BurnDoubt Dollar Value JonTron
A druid, I'd imagine.
@@HaloLvl43Legit well she's definitely not the Dollar Shave Club JonTron 😂 😂 😂
I died laughing when he said “even the girl with no arms is gesturing more than klyde”
😆😆😆👌🏽
She’s likable because she gives off vibes of confidence instead of passive-aggressive projected self pity
I honestly was won over with “I like snakes more then cats”
@@supergonk6485gonk
@@supergonk6485a❤
@@supergonk6485yes she was so cute!
- Is a woman
- Takes testosterone
- Non binary
?????
exactly make it make sense frfr 💀💀
When you’re void of personality/talents/skills.
She claims the title "non-binary bearded woman" ...I don't think she knows what non-binary means.
@@ShootingStarfruit It means insane, so it fits the bill i guess.
@@scorpixel1866 Nah, it means non-binary. The binary genders(man/ woman) have always been societal constructs and some humans have always naturally deviated from them. The bearded person in the video is likely insane though since they seem to live outside of reality and contradict themselves.
“I constantly play victim, make no attempt to take care of myself, and wallow in self-pity over problems I did to myself. Why does nobody want to be around me?”
That's what I heard.
That woman walked in, was completely put off, but then remembered her woke roots and forced herself to pretend she was attracted
I loved the crossed arms and rocking back and forth with carefully controlled facial expressions
@@michaelsorensen7567LMAOO
She deserves it tho. That’s what these pronoun users get. Theys/thems get to date fellow weirdos
@@LucasFernandez-fk8se Yep, they live a lie. Now they get to roll around in the filth and can't complain.
rip bozo@@LucasFernandez-fk8se
she looks like a character you create in game to see the limits of the character creator before you delete them and make a serious character
I tried to create Abdullah the Butcher in a wrestling game once,that is a close proximation of the result.
That's terrible… but I admit, I laughed out loud.🤣
I just do the first part
😂😂😂😂
LMAO!!!! Too true!!
Eli seems like a very sweet person. I hope she finds someone she can truly mesh with.
For sure. She seemed like a nice girl
i felt so bad for her, it almost seemed like she was trying not to laugh at some points... it really felt like she was forced to go on a date with the "special" kid in the class 😬
@@baby_muppy😬😬😬😬😬
@@baby_muppy I don't, with a name like Eli and that hair cut, there's such a high chance she's a he/they TikToker who is all about people taking hormones but just is too much of a wimp to do it herself.
She seems like the kind of person Klyde was before the hormones. Neck deep in gender ideology and proud of it.
Unless she returned back to her real gender and seeing how many mentally unwell people are just given hormones on demand scared her into reality, she deserves every ounce of suffering she signed up for. You wanna include "non-binary" as a gender? Now you get to date this person for "inclusivity". She paid for this to happen to Klyde through her support and activism and now she's getting what she paid for.
Right? She seemed so nice ❤
"I don't like people who harm animals and mistreat wait staff" "Yeahhh people fetishize my beard" That was a huge jump in the conversation to make it about itself, wtf.
Thank you for calling that thing ‘it’. That’s the only appropriate pronoun.
@@TinaHemphillExactly!!
To be fair, there was clearly a cut there, but even still its a weird thing to stay
@Riki-io4ydsmd
@Riki-io4ydwhat’s a humyn and how did you get that past autocorrect?
Eli: "I've never been on a blind date before." Buckle up, Eli.
😂😂😂😂
😮
Eli was never heard from again. lmao
*half an hour later*
I’ll never go on a blind date again.
@kevinleewilliams5119 Another blind datee needs your help, here. I'll mark them on your map
out of all the contradictions, they missed the most outrageous one right at the begining : how tf can you be non binary and a women at the same time? that defeats the whole point of being non binary
If there is not already a "C" in the LGB alphabet soup they should add it to stand for "Confused"
@@larky368 The “Q” in LBGTQ+ stands for both “queer” and “questioning”... apparently
the point is to not make sense.
@@larky368they're all confused
Anything goes my guy don’t think about it 😂
"Yes! Yes! I was hoping you'd be a furry!"
It's both disgusting and adorable at the same time. Like a puppy looking at you for safety while it poops.
what is that comparison
💀💀💀
@@jaxondumoIt's a very accurate comparison lmao
I dont know whether to be horified or impressed with that analogue
@@doomguy7724 analogue? 💀
I'm actually happy for the furry guy that he had a nice date. Also interesting that he seemingly took to suit off once he was fully comfortable. The suit really is a protection mechanism, I think. Once there's no need to protect himself the suit can come off
That’s exactly one of the main things a fursona typically is. It’s meant to be an escape from reality or way to express someone’s self without severe judgement, or if there is judgement, it’s directed to the fursona and not the person. Depending on the person, it can be a good or bad thing.
How can bearded women claim oppression? People used to pay good money to see them.
goes onto a youtube series complaining that their beard gets in the way of their life and wishes that people wouldnt care about it
spends the majority of the date talking about their beard...
its a biological woman who was takin test for years@@curtisgordon7379
Better yet, how can you be a bearded woman and also non-binary? Aren't those contradicting?
More like a tittied man. Dime a dozen.
Isn’t it a dude wanting to be a woman while keeping his beard? Strange times to be around
You know you're a bad blind date when someone who would normally be the weirder partner is scared out of her/its/whatevers mind.
😂😂😂
"Non-binary bearded woman"
> Non-binary
> Woman
????????
Words have no meaning anymore.
His hers. Only 2 options. Nobody is an 'it'
@@comentaristametaforico9287 Yet when we point out the contradictions in their delusions, we're the bad ones
@@thevalorousdong7675 well technically he and her are reserved for humans, so if something else comes up you would call it an "it", unless you want to "humanize" it, like we do with our pets.
Which is weird for me when people talk about their gods and refer to them as "him" or "her", instead of "it". I mean, they're just dragging down their gods to human levels xD
I was born female, grew up into a woman, I have polycystic ovaries, and one of the side effects is excess hair growth, I feel embarrasment and shame before the non binary lgbtq+ agenda pushers became a thing, it increases my shame x10 because I dont want to get confused with them, its become a nightmare any time i see a hair
polycystic ovaries are commonly a sign of not eating enough animal fat. Eat animal fat. Drink raw milk, eat raw cheese, eat eggs, meat, organs...stop eating plants.
So u have to shave a beard every week or...?
Im so sorry you're going through that. I am sure the beginnings of hair growth is not going to make a random stranger think you're in the TQ+ part of the LGBTQ+ because they're still quite uncommon. You could also look up Daquana White, she has PCOS and films herself waxing her full beard every week or so. It might make you feel less alone.
If it makes you feel better, I’ve worked with a few women with PCOS and I instantly knew they were women. Despite facial hair growth, I’ve never instantly assumed they had a gender identity thing. Sorry these people make life more complicated.
Hair is natural. Don't be ashamed
These people were contained on Tumblr until about 2012, then they managed to poison the real world. Their memetic skills were underrated and now we are paying the price
I'm certain Klyde keeps the beard as an excuse for when things go wrong.
"It wasn't my lack of social skills and personality, they're just a bigot."
That's actually a good point. In a way it's self-sabotage to avoid taking responsibility. Very interesting.
Fully on brand for someone claiming to be "non-binary". "I'm not the problem, society is."
That's god damn right, responsibility to the responsible! These "people" are rather odd.
@@mleszzor6866nah when I hear the word odd I think it could be something interesting.
You know like oddities.
These ppl are just disgusting. As mentioned above it just shows that there's always more to it.
Company I worked for made one of these whack jobs my supervisor, and I found out that the reason he started to transition to the most horrendous female I've ever seen. Probably because the kid looked just like George Fisher from cannibal corpse.
But he did it because he has a micro penis. Like so small and he was so big it was physically impossible for him to have sex.
Which if it were me I'd still rather have a micro dick than become a woman.
Also you literally commented something the person in the video states. Did you not watch the video?
Never has a generation being so obsessed with sexualization while being so terrified of it.
I want to say it's all the broken families.
Except: honestly...in the days where marriages worked...were parents any better at helping their kids cultivate a healthy understanding of sexuality?
You've just described the Victorian era.
@@everObvious No... it's the lack of bullying at school. Bullying is an essential part of growing up. You get told (by very blunt ways) that you're either acceptable, or you naren't. The changes usually fall into lplace when you're young and you grow out opf being a circus act.
@@learningpianoat61 Bullying makes us 😟LESS terrified about our sexuality? Connect the dots for me, please.
@@learningpianoat61 Such nonsense
If I have to endure one more person talking about how their life is so hard because of something they’re doing to themselves, I’m going to explode. Today, one of my employees was telling others how hard it is to “exist as a trans person in this country” (USA) and then immediately after that, literally the very next sentence, talked about how they got their previous job because they’re trans because the business was trying to be more conscious of DEI.
I dont think being trains is something to do to yourself. In some cases maybe but many trans people just want to live in the society as the opposite gender just like most cis want to live with their assigned gender. They and anyone dont know why, they just do. If there was a known reason then you could fix transgenderism and genderism all together.
The thing is being trans in the US in today age and period is the best experience they could ever hope to have.
Not many country support the trans ideology nor the trans movement. They should be grateful to live in the US.
@@Artsu1993Its a mental issue/fetish that gets out of hand😭
@@Artsu1993not at all dude
@@Artsu1993
Wtf is a transgenderism? Ahh.. now it makes sense. Let's make up words and add "ism" at the end of it to make it important. Now I understand your strategy. Wow very manipulative lol.
A big part of being attractive is personality. heck, even bearded ladies who were side show performers could find life partners and have children with them.
That girl with the no arms situation seems like some genuinely fun company.
She's cute, good for her.
Yeah she’s seems sweet and fun.
I would totally go out with her. She's freaking adorable
I'm gonna need her number 👀
Couldn't do it. Too many "how do you...?" questions. She'd want to kick me within the hour.
"Im non binary, and I am a bearded woman" Isn't non-binary people who don't have a geneder?
I’ve heard people speak on using your brain like you do as being a part of toxic thinking.
Yes that person had colored hair, why do you ask?
Like it’s a gundamn says: it makes sense, if you don’t think about
Shh, they're all confused and stupid 😂
@manwithausername4089anything that has to do with non binary makes no sense.
@manwithausername4089 Gotta love how outrageously sexist gender ideology is. A woman has a masculine trait? Well shit, she may as well be half man!
I'm so proud of how far JonTron's come.
😂
Lmao
Idk how Eli had that much energy to sit through that whole date. I know her heart sank when she saw them
The disappointment in Eli's eyes was priceless. Been there, bro/sis/person
I’m totally stealing that bro/sis/person 😂
Human/homosapien/child of Adam
@@dankmemes8254 Human/snyth/child of atom
I say he/she/it
@@kevinhibbard320Mutant/Ghoul/Securitron
Armless girl actually seems like a person people would want to be around.
RIGHT?! She looks like a very charming person, I would love to have a conversation with her.
She's not focused on her lack of arms. She is self confident and carries herself with a positive attitude. There's nothing 'wrong' with her, she just doesn't have arms.
If anyone knows her and she's still single please send her this way, I am 6'1 supposedly funny own a business and have arms 🙏
@@Level80Paladinz Dude we all feel that way, get in line xD
@lazytyrant9010 you got arms pal? Let's see em
I’m 100% woman and I have this one single hair that grows on my chin that I have to shave once a month. Thankfully it grows super slow. It’s one of my biggest physical shames and I don’t want to sound like a shallow jerk but if I had her beard I’d be ending things real fast
If you pull it out it will take even longer to come back.
How much would electrolysis for a single hair cost?
@@stevenschnepp576 forgive but what does that mean?
@@leannezezeski-sass2773 It's a cosmetic procedure. Basically, they zap the hair at the root to prevent its coming back.
@@stevenschnepp576 unfortunately I’m broke, I’ll have to resort to what that other guy said and pluck it
The ending really hit close to home. I was laying in my bed about to go to sleep and I saw one of your videos. I instantly remembered how happy watching them made me. I had a shitty day at work and I’ve just been sorta depressed but this reminded me that there’s always hope for a better tomorrow.
Taylor the furry and his date? Yeah, that was actually unexpectedly awesome
hope youre feeling well friend.
Nope. These people better not start claiming just because they’re “different” you have to be attracted to them BECAUSE they’re different or you’re a terrible person.
lol man that shit's already happening
They already do this. If a man is not attracted to a trans female, he is "transphobic"....lol...no...I'm just normal.....
It like a malformed sweetie, probably tastes the same, but it looks weird so I’ll never know 😂
Wouldn't be the first time leftist ideals plunged society into chaos
Those are just assholes and they exist everywhere and every single group, even the most basic of people going yass look how unique I am "live laugh love" I am so quirky. "You don't like I am quirky well screw you, you misogynist pig. The basic ass men that are like Beer, guns, going out with the lads tonight who will be like "you don't like me because I am too much of a man for you to handle"
Being an entitled asshole no matter how one identifies including the most normal of things is universal. It's just more noticeable with people that stand out more than the more normal appearing people and therefore is more memorable.
Plenty of trans people exist for example that fully get many people will not want to be in a relationship with them because they are trans and are chill with it. It's just the loud minority of a minority that often gets heard on those kind of things. Loud minorities also most typically are the assholes as assholes in general are skilled at getting negative attention because they revel in it.
Like as a gay dude I have heard plenty of women go to me and other gay dudes I have met encounter women go maybe you are gay because you have not met the right woman yet and get offended that I respond no "no I like cock".
This ticks me off because I actually have two female friends who have beards for reasons beyond their control (one has a congenital birth defect affecting her hormone production and the other had ovarian cancer) which also caused them other heartbreaking irreversible damage like infertility, NOT something they did to themselves.
If people have to walk on eggshells around you for fear of pissing you off, YOU'RE NOT OPPRESSED!
Correct.
If people have to walk on eggshells around you for fear of offending you, *you* are the oppressor.
Laser that shit off
Totally agree, so sick of this sh*t
Yeah, I have PCOS and as soon as I could, I saved up money for lasers. I definitely feel for your friends. The majority of us with wacky hormones hate this shit because we've spent our whole lives trying to not make a spectacle of ourselves.
Ovarian cancer gives women beards? How large was hers, if you don't mind me asking?
Honestly, the furry guy was super wholesome. Dude just chose to be himself and he had the fortune of meeting a girl who liked him for it
Agreed, furries aren't weird it's just a hobby and interest like most others. People keep crapping on the fandom for only looking at certain things that have happened and then just blaming it on them being furries. People don't call conventions for Star wars or Star Trek or other large franchises weird but they'll call furries weird.
@@CrypticCamera5157 Honestly, I agree. They ain't hurting anyone. I really wouldn't qualify them as "degenerates", not even close. Sure, some of them can be a bit cringy sometimes, but it makes them happy. And that's a good thing. I believe we should celebrate people finding happiness in doing things they enjoy.
@@MagnusPeccatori Are all of them degenerates? No. But far too many of them are for me to trust my kids around one.
Ok furries, you can shitcan the this little psyop you got going 😂
@@CrypticCamera5157
There is a big difference between them. You can go on any of their social outlets and find a plethora of fetishistic content. Obviously many normal people and children exist, but the overall internet prescence is pretty odd. My friends who are involved only reveal so to people once they trust them.
Edit: also, you must have never been a fan of star trek or star wars who attended conventions pre 2000s because they were some of the most ostracized nerds out there
It's almost like Clyde is playing a character. With that beard, weight, and social skills her dating prospects are going to be miniscule.
with a k
nat 1 charisma
It’s Kyle with a K! How dare you 😅
8:03 "even the girl with no arms gestured more than clyde" no fucking way💀
Ooff 😂😂
with a K. dont forget, thats what makes it special
@@Dailon750such a snowflake complex
That was wild lmao
Way 😂
Grabs popcorn. Looks at the person on the date. Puts popcorn away and has some fruit.
Popcorn has less calories
Fact, I was about to say that, it is very satiating and very low on calories.
@@mikel2976buy my freakin cookbook
This chick definitely puts a little popcorn in her salt n' butter
fruits have nutritional value (vitamin c, d, a,etc) and you can still get fat with popcorn
This kind of video is actually important to me. Been 5 years of a VERY debilitating illness that incapacitated me for a very long time so I fell behind on growth. On the bright side, it appears that my depression issues were directly caused by the condition and now that I'm on medication that is functioning, I am no longer even having those thoughts but getting back into it is weird.
I wasn't the most socially aware before either so I already had an uphill battle in getting back into actual social situations to begin with and tutorials/highlights of common social ques I often miss is very very helpful to me. More of this content if you can please
Ironic that the furry had a beanie that said "love is dead" when it seems like hes genuinely met someone for him :P
When I was in middle school, the big thing was mental illness. Everyone was pretending to have ADHD, schizophrenia, insomnia, etc. It made them "special" and they got all sorts of attention from the other kids and adults. Then it was cutting with the emo phase.
This idiocy is just an extension of that phenomenon. Attention-seeking losers who never grew up just keep getting deeper down the rabbit hole.
Yo when I say this everyone acts like they don’t remember that weird time period of “my ‘self diagnosed’ mental illness makes me cool!” My middle school experience it was inverse, with the emos coming before the mental illness superpowers but it still stands. Most definitely a weird time when you, being a normal kid, feel like an outlier because everyone wants to be “different” via MENTAL ILLNESS!
Which is insulting to the people who actually have those conditions and problems, such as me (ADHD, Dyslexia, Depression).
Yeah I am sure at some point they started over diagnosing ADHD. I am positive this was the case with me.
@@joelofjudah9144 You were most likely just hyper and needed some sort of activity to channel that energy into. Growing up in my time, there were ZERO kids my age diagnosed with ADHD. The people that make Ritalin are worth $219 Billion dollars......you can figure out the rest.......
At least then people could make fun of it. Now you're expected to kowtow to it.
“Living my truth” is starting to become more and more “living my imagination”
Excatly!!!!
it always has been. "my truth" never made sense because truth, by definition, is not subjective.
More like living my delusions
It's the same thing.
"My truth" is the definition of delusion
Aw my name is Ingé too! Haven’t met any others in the US. She seems like such a sweetheart. I hope she finds someone ❤
Great video, always appreciate when you encourage people to get up and try, just genuinely try. Especially with fitness, and as someone who used to be a personal trainer it was wild to see the difference between clients who genuinely tried and believed they could change vs the clients who always complained and blamed “thin people” including me simply for being thin totally dismissing the work that’s put in to stay healthy.
New sub here and I like what you said about making a list (when you’re happy) of things to do when you’re depressed. I appreciate that and will use it. Glad I found your channel. Excellent content.
Eli’s body language is screaming “NO!!” from the moment he/she walked in.
I noticed that as well
She's obviously a woman. Don't buy into that "preferred pronoun" bullshit.
And weak morons giving in and using the stupid he/she pronoun bull$h!t is why we are in this position to begin with.
@@Novaellara If it's clear to you she's a woman, then why the hell do you keep saying "they"?
And who cares what is obvious to "other people"? The only morons who are confused as to what pronouns to use when referring to her are other woke gender cultists.
@@Novaellarashe is clearly a woman. Do not fall for that garbage.
I would imagine dating would be difficult if you have a severe mental illness.
It's already difficult and I only have 1 i think.
Fun fact it's not because of that it's because I'm fuckin ugly.
W virginity i guess
Hot/Crazy matrix would disagree.
Thank you for summing up well 🥂
Right
I like how you genuinely express care towards these people and arent just attacking them, I need to be better at it.
Great break down and AWESOME recommendations at the end there!!
this is what happens when you teach a generation that believing that you are unique is a virtue. There is nothing they can do that has value other than serving as a sad warning sign.
When I grew up I was tought that everyone is unique in their own way. I thought that meant I never had to do anything in particular to be unique. Clyde here took it as an invitation to look like a freak.
100%
Being randomly strange and as unattractive as possible because they're obsessed with getting attention or validation from online strangers isn't unique, it's brand boring generic sheep npc mentality that makes Gen z so incredibly boring and dull
We've taught people that for a few generations but for some reason this last generation went over a cliff with it.
No this is what happens when you take all bullying away.
To give credit where credit is due, klyde is the only non binary person I have seen that genuinely looks non binary!
I mean, I still see her as a butch lesbian, but she seemed genuinely nice and I wish her the best (which is much better than that bearded mess)
But how can they say non binary and woman in the same sentence?
@@songbird7450I thought she was a fat neckbeard dude tbh
Some people pull off an androgynous look pretty well.
I don’t think they look very androgynous.
(I don’t mean this in a hateful way at all, just my opinion)
I’m a “real” androgynous women, I have boy like features, a small frame, short hair, I don’t dress feminine (only on special occasions).
People look at me in confusion until I speak. I sound like a women in person, but when I made videos, people thought I was a little kid.
I look like a 16 yr old boy but I’m an adult woman. I could be an actress for those Catch a Predator shows 😂
Id actually argue using how far you've come a great conversation piece when one is able to properly timed. If you've known someone for a couple dates and gotten a bit personal, it really helps open the door into getting to know someone.
I like how you have a soap company as a sponsorship 👍very clean
Seeing Kyle just stare at Eli unemotionally, with her eyes locked directly onto hers genuinely unnerved me.
fr😭
I met a lot of people like this, socially stunted to one degree or another. They ALWAYS had some quirk that was their total personality, and the quirk was self induced most of the time, ie: completely made up. But this is another level.
How to ruin all chances of being found attractive by literally anyone:
It's really incredible how in your videos, despite maybe being a little brutally honest, you always try to help people - by not only presenting what is most likely the truth of their situation, but also including definitive details and methods for how to improve.
The thought and care you put into these videos is really evident
15:12 I don’t even think the furry expected that.
Imagine your first blind date was this beard lady the trauma is going to make her never do this again
Let's hope it does
Fun fact this is a joke
How dare you assume it's a her. Bigot.
😂😂😂😂
Eli: "do you ever go on hikes or anything?"
Klyde: "of course not, i'm a victim. also, have you noticed my beard? i am very alternative."
Can't hike. Beard gets in the way
Love the transition to computer screen savers intermittently throughout the video
You hit the nail on the head about fibromyalgia. I was a nurse for 12 years. The fibromyalgia diagnosis was given mostly to women who had psychosomatic pain symptoms.
When someone who likely aligns with you politically feels awkward to date you, you are likely the problem.
Oh yeah
I’m using this
Not really. There’s more to people than their political ideas.
@@PaperPlateClorox Political ideas are usually a doorway into someone's values as well, so if your political ideas align, your values probably do as well, which means if you still aren't working it comes down to physical attraction or social interaction.
The "Id go on a second date" was as believable as "Klide was funny" so awkward
"People fetishize my beard.".
No they don't.
I think we would be surprised. There are people out there attracted to feet, is a beard so strange?
@@SporkyMcFly When the person who has it is a woman, yeah. And it sounds more like something this person just made up to enhance the victim/"LOOK AT ME" points they're clearly going for.
@@DruuzilTechGames I agree with that sentiment. But I would not be surprised to know it to be true given how many weird fetishes are being encouraged in today's world.
@@SporkyMcFly Fair enough.
Nightmares. Not fetishes.
thanks for the depression episodes tips. you encouraged me to make a list.
just stumbled across your channel. gotta say i love it and ive been binge watching your videos for much of the day while being stuck at home with covid
That girl with no arms has a ridiculously beautiful personality
My gf keeps pointing out when people are ot wearing bras xD
@@RekySai XD same
Instantly likeable.
And face. She’s gorgeous
And boobs
Being attractive to your partner is the whole point of a relationship. The relationship isn't for you, it's for both of you. You should be trying to make your partner happy and fulfill their needs, not your own. The same goes for them
This is a wholly masculine (logical) viewpoint.
Lotta women don't feel this way. Lotta "doing my makeup for me." Lotta "I don't owe a man anything." (Presuming a cis het dynamic.)
@@everObviousI totally do my makeup for my husband. If i was only thinking of myself, it would be no makeup and lounge clothes all day 😂
@@biffm.2806 My wife and I struggled with this topic for a while. She was very much a "I don't have to do anything for anyone, I'm just who I am." Laundry, dishes, cleaning the house, etc. Over time she became more amiable to it and now we both split work on whoever's available. I do more work, but I'm also physically and mentally more durable than her. Both of us try equally hard according to what we're capable of, which is how a relationship should be
@@biffm.2806 😐 Your candor is refreshing, albeit a bit misplaced...unless you think you're NOT the exception? (I was careful to say "lotta.")
😉@rainyriderr1112 gets it.
@@rainyriderr1112 yes, my husband and I also have a nice balance in our relationship. Definitely a must if you want things to work out.
“Oh no! I did everything in my power to make myself unapproachable & I succeeded! Then when I lean into how antisocial & rude I am, people don’t like it! I am victim!”
my biggest question is, how are you a non binary woman
THANK YOU!!! LMFAO This is another example of the stupid shit today's society allows. Let's face it....biologically, you are male or female (with the exception of birth abnormalities). You can identify as whatever you feel appropriate (good on you, no judgement here), but you are biologically born as something not reliant on a 'feeling'. I think idiots like this cause issues...how is the general public supposed to support people that are part of other communities when the members of these communities contradict themselves?????? Stupid shit.
Don't try to use logic with delusional people
I’m a detrans woman who still gets a sliiiight amount of facial hair occasionally but I shave it as needed and no one even realizes now after 6 months of laser hair removal. (I understand the people who view me as inherently psychotic but I will say I was straight up groomed by a “gender fluid” 19 year old girl at age 14, as well as a deeply psychotic gender therapist who was known to MASS-PRODUCE surgery and hormone letters for sexually traumatized teen girls seeking to transition, and I would never in a million years expect someone to be sexually attracted to me if I just indefinitely let that shit grow out until it became a full-ass BEARD. THAT’S NOT HOW BIOLOGY OR SEXUAL ATTRACTION WORKS. PEOPLE ARE DELUSIONAL ABOUT GENDER/SEX NOW!!
Im sorry that happened to you all the tran/gender stuff is gross I hope to goes away one day
@@yourlocallesbian6448 A lot of people are “coming out” as detrans now, a lot are still in a sorta in-between denial phase (“Oh I realized I’m just…nonbinary…”) It’s heartbreaking, but I’ve been meeting up with more and more other detrans people and we’re all trying to help each other and support each other. :) Thank you for having empathy for what we’ve been through!! So many of us were just kids…
@@nobuneko2005it's good you got the help you actually needed and stopped being trans. It's sad how transitioning is pushed so much when there's little evidence that it helps and the surgery and hormones has awful consequences
im happy that you're finding your way out of all that deceit 👍
Our culture is going through a troubling phase. I think people reject their bodies because they have lost sight of how essential they are. We have all bought into the lie that the part of me that is "myself" is a spirit, or a mind, and my body is something I "have" or something that is not essential to who I am.
It's sad. God made human beings to have both body and spirit - and both are essential and good. Even bodies that have been damaged by disability or some kind of past trauma. God gave us bodies to tell, his story. He gave us bodies to reflect his image. I think this is the essential truth our society has rejected or forgotten.
Wow glad youre ok now
jesus christ, oblivion npc’s have better chemistry than these people
Do deh, do do do do...
Wow thank you for the helpful tips, i gotta try this!
Holy cow. At 10:15 when you said "shop in the outer sections of the store where the non-processed foods are", I visually recounted every supermarket I know, and aye enough every single one of them matched that description. Is that a subtle design thing, or is it something that's well known that I'm out of the loop on? In any case, I definitely learned something that I didn't expect to.
Bro I'm so sick of people being "oppressed" and choosing to bee unhealthy
"Be".
@@NuclearNuke41
Be contains Bee.
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12:17, she was so close from hittin them with the "Damnnn, that's crazy"😂
0:48 Technically _all_ problems can be solved with lasers. The bigger the problem, the bigger the laser.
The beard is her identity. She wants the beard to be the focus instead of all the other reasons someone wouldn't want to be with her.
But the beard-fetishists can go kick rocks! That is really some next-level gaslighting. I am impressed.
HE
it’s she who fetishes her own beard
@@knightshade5284She
No it's a man. It "he"
In my personal opinion, think before you sleep is the best commentary UA-camr.
I agree
The Rageaholic would like a word with you on that.
Hes really good at this but I hear hes dating Brittany Venti, and that has my spidey senses going crazy.
@@sole__doubtwait can you tell me what so bad about her?
Who else's opinion would you have?
SMOOTHEST transition to an ad bruh 👏👏👏
First video I've seen of yours and i automatically subscribed. Why? Because how much you helped me realize how i can do things better! I really have nothing in common with the people in this video i just thought you're a great teacher at how to help people learn and grow. ❤
Never thought I'd be happy for a furry, but the way that girl went nuts for the wolf suit was very wholesome in a degenerate sort of way.
I agree. That was oddly very wholesome. She was pretty cute too, which baffles my mind. But good on them. Hope they stayed together.
@@madma11 I hope so too lol. If nothing else, it certainly won't be a boring relationship.
Lol I genuinely hope it went somewhere. I don't care if people do weird stuff, I just think a lot of people do weird stuff not because they want to do it but because they want to be "weird" or "edgy" I think this was two people who had a "weird" hobby that they both genuinely enjoyed. And yes she was cute as hell so he wins in public and in private.(I have no idea when they do their dress up but the guy obviously doesn't mind doing it in public)
I thought it was going to be cringe as fuck but her reaction was so cute and cheerful that it became wholesome
"nuts" lmao
I broke at, “the girl with no arms gestured more than Klyde” 😂
"Non-binary bearded woman"
*"We regret to inform you that the position you are applying for has been filled, thank you for your interest."*
Idk what it is about ur videos i jus love the format and the pictures you choose in between topics, subbed❤
You know you are in serious trouble when the furry massively outperforms your dating skills
YES
I actually think Taylor framed his improvement on social skills well. Rather than pitying himself or putting himself down he framed it in a way that he took initiative to improve himself and put himself in difficult situations to do so, which is admirable.
Agreed, but he needs to demonstrate not explicate. Use your new social skills, don't talk about where they came from
@@rathenslog8490 It's okay to talk about personal growth when appropriate. Don't just parrot the opinion of the speaker. The problem with Klyde was that the whole conversation was centered around herself and it wasn't talked about in a way that indicated the issue was something that was conquered.
In Taylor's case I think he talked about things he's overcome in a way that reflected well and fit with how the date was going. Clearly she was excited and wanted to know more about him, so it didn't come across as self-centered or unconfident like it did with Klyde. You're welcome to disagree but I'm going to stand by my impression that Klyde is an example of doing it poorly and Taylor of doing it in a way that reflects favorably.
@@nickw8160 I see your point. I don't think it's parroting the speaker if I happen to agree with him. Women really don't care about our struggles as men because they don't understand them. I'm this case she probably did understand as women are natural communicators and would find common ground in that regard. I would prefer she find my struggles and learning experiences by discovery than telling them to her
I thought I struggled with social skills but goddamn
I like how you often give tips for self improvement. Also: 10:47 what a legend, holy shit. Dude went from barely standing to running
That blonde 'furry-fancier' girl on the last clip was an absolute delight. Anyone would be happy to be around her. She seems genuine, open and an awesome good-hearted person.
Unfortunately though she has horrible taste in men.
@@kommisar.Why?
@@jannowak6645 Jesus, just look at him: he's wearing a FURRY SUIT. He's into dressing up in animal costumes while he has sex. It's fucking disgusting. Do you need any bigger red flag than that? He clearly has mental issues. Plus his tattoos are trashy.
@@jannowak6645 Because furry.
@@lainiwakura1776 I fought he is manipulative or abusive there for terrible taste.
Man, Eli didn't deserve the horrible fate of meeting such a... Person, I guess.
Just because Eli was marginally more presentable doesn't mean she's any better company. The hair? Nose ring? If she didn't go thermonuclear on you, you'd find out a decade later that she told everyone you sa'd her when you had never even been intimate.
@@bvoyelrwhat? We aren't talking about physical appearance, although it doesn't help... Look at the difference in personality. Only 1 person can even properly talk here
I'd call it an entity
@@Anon.G I wasn't talking about appearance either. Appearance is just a red flag for massive personality issues. Just because she can hold a conversation doesn't mean she is even vaguely fit to be in a relationship.
@@Anon.G Except a big point of the video is how appearances DO matter, and it's quite obvious by Eli's appearance she is woke as hell. She's trans and probably identifies as "pansexual" or some other such nonsense. Is she a horrible person? Can't say. Doesn't appear to be, but this is the sort of crap her cult puts on a pedestal, so the date merely forced her to put her money where her mouth is.
I thought I had no social skills but holy shit you couldn’t try to miss more cues or make things harder for yourself
“Dating apps are a cancer”
Me, who met my bf in Tinder:…………
Same
"I mean the Person without arms gestured more than clyde" got me off guard lol.
The reason that Klyde didn't ask about their date is because they don't care. They're narcissistic in my opinion.
I agree
I mean 😕maybe. If we stick to a clinical definition: it's quite possible.
I often blank on dates. It's not because I don't care. The pressure of thinking of something to say and holding eye contact makes makes me quite anxious.
I'd be the last to assume that social faux pas are due to a disinterest in others.
Someone mentioned they could be autistic
You clearly have no idea what narcissistic personality disorder is. People throw around this word so much it has lost all meaning. Klyde was extremely socially awkward and came across as being very shy and on the spectrum.
They all go for the "I'm cute because I'm pathetic" vibe. They think its endearing to be self absorbed as long as they claim to have anxiety.
I hate when people say looks don't matter because it's a lie unless the person is rich
Eli's face during that entire "date" screamed, "I don't want to be here, this person is cringe, what did I get myself into?"
Well that's what you get when you get involved with the "everyone has to accept everything (from column A) or you're a bigot" crowd. Eli couldn't just honestly say "I'm not feeling this, sorry. I'm out."
@@LadySuchiko Between that and the fact that she was on a TV show and they probably indicated that the show is supposed to glorify the star so they would make sure everyone thinks she's an asshole. Editing can be a scary thing.
@@joshsolders5543 Oh for sure. Them asking if there would be a second date RIGHT in front of the other person was just plain messed up. No one there could pretend that answer would be honest.