Parents disown their son for being gay......How is this still happening?
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2017
- Chris & Grant on Bride and Prejudice. Heartbreaking moment his parents basically disown their only child because of their 'beliefs'.
Unfortunately this is a common story in Australia.
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She said that she knew that she hurt him.
She really dont care.
Prag is now mine neither do i about his and your pathetic life
W H I T E chill tf out
@@mari81032 owwwwww cool boy alert hes a homophobeeeee
He also don't care , if he really cared he would have not walked out
@@pragisnowmine8942 who cares. Only gay people care about that. Respect his opinions.
Respect to him for reacting so calmly, even if his heart was breaking.
TranscendentLion I would said fuck u both
@caporal pistachio and you are an asshole, he wanted the cameras because he was hoping that they would say that they would come and it would be a nice video to have. Don't you ever call someone being rejected by their own parents to his own wedding a drama queen, bitch
@caporal pistachio ok I get it, that was foolish of me to ignore the facts. I just really feel for him, my parents are the same way. I just started higjschool and I havent came out to my parents because of their beliefs. I guess I didnt look at it through the parents' perspective. Sorry for being a dick
@@justinjimenez255 you shouldn’t need to apologise, I think you were right and in the parents POV (they deleted their comment so I don’t know why they defended them) the parents just broke their kids heart and basically dropped him from their lives because of their beliefs, a good parent would put their kids above that, so don’t apologise for what you said, especially if you’ve gone through it yourself, I can’t imagine how hard it is being in that situation
@@corymorrow5329 thank you, I also should let you know that I came out to my parents. They don't support me but I know that I have friends that'll love me for who I am. I'm surprised your here after 6 months
If I were her I’d be disowning my hairdresser.
It's the Curse of the Gays....bad hair for the rest of your life
Raymond Bassford - OMG, I wish I would have said that!
Pretty sure the hairdresser already disowned her! 😂😂
Rather have a bad hair day anytime than go to a wedding like this...
Her hair looks fine...Excuse to cover up his sin... I see.
People who do not support you have no place at your wedding. They cannot bring a good vibe, loving warmth, excitement, joy, or their pride for you.
I mean it's definitely different if it's your own parents though, I can't imagine what he went through after hearing that
His parents dont love him welcome to the crule world even family well sell u out
@ghoul mist
Will an English translation of your rubbish appear any time soon?
They didn't want to be at his wedding and don't have to. No sleep loss over this....You can't make everyone accept this lifestyle. So he needs to go on and forget it...
@@temkawilliams7425 talk to Jaclyn Glenn about it
Leave them behind man, go and live your life and hope he's happy
I am agnostic , my parents are religious and I still act religious around them cuz I want them in my life and love them , I rather act alittle around them and make them happy then risk lossing them forever .
@@sakurakou2009 Shame they can't do the same for their son. Hey?
@@Raskolnikov32 or he can do it for them , also they did not say they were disowning him , thry only said they do not wanna be part of that part his life , he should have left it at that he the one who wanted then to either accept him or not . He was pushing it .
@@sakurakou2009 Don't want to be part of that part of his life?
That IS his life. That IS his life.
Also, why are you placing the onus on him to change?
Why?
I already know the answers to these questions.
My response: Grow up.
@@Raskolnikov32 you wrong with your answer , everyone have different answer , and I can only answer for myself and my own situation , why I keep faking being religious for my parent cuz I love them and do not want to loss them , to me they are more important then anything , so I would give it all for them to be haply and not get hurt , I know that my parents would get hurt if they know I left religion , and I do not want to make them sad .. you may ask so what about me and that they should also love me u conditionally , will I know my parents will still love me even if they know I am agnostic , but the relationship would not be the same , why cuz they will be worried about me , why worry cuz in their belief they think I will go to hell for not believing , yeah I do not share same belief but to them I am heading toward self distruction , what parent would see their beloved child walk in that path and support them , they do not support it cuz they love him .. that my answer , and why I sympathy with his parents even if they love him they can't support his way of living .
"We can't", translates to "Don't want to, cause we're stuck in our ways".
Unbelievable.
H Z and why is that
H Z say what you want, freedom of speech
Cat Scan he can say what ever he wanted, but he's not immune to criticism
mloik azerty no one ever said he wasn't
Patto4592 sticking to your beliefs is not a bad thing. Sticking to what you believe in is more important than a relationship
Live your life, boy!
“We love you but can’t be a part of that and we want you to respect that”. REALITY: we find you and your lifestyle disgusting. We’re not interested in being part of your special day. We demand respect from you BUT we just disrespected you. To Chris: as hard as it may be for you, turn around and NEVER look back. Family doesn’t mean blood relatives. These two people are NOT worth a second thought after that double slap they just delivered to you.
She did never disrespected him, she stood up after her beliefs and that needs guts.
Those were the most loving parents in the world. They had the guts in a liberal, socialist world to say NO to sin and said YES to God. The most loving thing they did for their son is they told him the truth. Imagine if they compromised their beliefs for the sake of "love" they wouldn't truly be supporting him anyways, they would just be there to not upset the apple cart.
All of you saying that they are bad parents are just displaying your anti Christian bigotry and intolerance. You don't respect the parents decision to follow their faith and religion, you want them to give it up, compromise to make their kid happy. I got news for you all...that isn't love. The kid KNEW his parents wouldn't respond favourably to his question because they are Christian.
@Masearte Abraha they should respect him for his choices it's his life he just wanted his parents to be at his wedding
@@Dm-ze3hd that disrespectful to him I feel so bad for him they're so cold for not standing by their son they dont have to accept his lifestyle but they should stand by him no matter what they're the ones who wanted children in the first place least theycoulddo is accept him for who he is
@@andrewjohn2124 I'm sure most people would not agree with you and before you or anybody goes spouting off God does not hate anybody he loves everybody
"I don't want that in my life." So you don't want your son? These people are so stubborn that they're blind.
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Lucien and Deriks PC gaming no non belivers are yust deceived
Bejdza deceived by what?
Lucien and Deriks PC gaming satan
This is awful! You can literally see his heart breaking as they start laughing when he says he's getting married to a man... I want to hug him so much rn :,(
Don't invite those nasty people who call themselves your parents. You don't need them. You are beautiful and whole.
@@jgbnino8157 needed to hear this
The mother did not laugh . The father snickered .
just christian things u see...
Those parents and nature know what's right.. Two men can't have a baby. End of story and seek help if you can't grasp that concept
its alright when she’s on her deathbed crying she realize that she should’ve been there for her son
On her deathbed she will "repent" and that will make the all the harm she has done go away. That's how Christians feel.
Bruh respect her opinions
@@Honedq No. I respect her right to have her opinion of course, but that doesn't mean I have to respect her opinion, and it doesn't mean I have to respect her. She didn't seem to even care.
His heart broke in this moment because of her opinions. Hateful ignorant parents who have 'opinions' like this will make their own children miserable, and it will lead to countless suicides, and countless families broken apart over an ignorant 'opinion'
If people aren't ready for their kids to be different than they wanted them to be, they should never be allowed to have children.
You're totally right - she end up dying of cancer. A follow up story last year said: His bedridden mother asked him for a hug, telling him she loved him. Chris refused. “I wasn’t ready,” he says. “Now I think that was a real arsehole move. The woman was dying. I probably could have done that. I feel bad about that.” Yvonne died days later.
@@enquvist whyd u say it twice
This is so very very sad...My heart breaks for people who come out and then their parents just bail on them... Sending great vibes and love to all of you...
They have to learn remorse there beliefs are only to divide us who we are god. Experience. They believe in god thst wants worship nio way. He wants knowledge how we learn to love and stay happy. She is monster cause of her expirence if ahe knew religon is liuminarti tatic and what there really doing she get back to her self awaken to truth drop her beliefs
Just like that's his choice to be gay, that's their choice not to accept his lifestyle... I agree with the parents and I will still love him, but not his ways....
@@guygrip2120 God also wants us to do the right thing and worship Him and not live our lives the way WE want to...
@@temkawilliams7425 GOD DOES NOT WANT YOU TO WORSHIP HIM AND BURN PEOPLE ON CROSS OK. HE WANTS YOU TO LEARN KNOWLEDGE OF LOVE. THOSE WHO ARE DIFFERNT THOSE WHO EXCEPT WHOS DIFFERNT. IF HE OR SHE LIVES IT UNCLEAN AND HURTS OTHERS THATS ANOTHER STORY. ITS NOT ABOUT LIVEN THE WAY YOU WANT ITS ABOUT EXCEPTING EACH OTHER IN HARMONY THESE PAGON RELI GONS HAVE HURT AND BURNED SO MANY PEOPLE. AND. THEY HURTING GOD DO YOU UNDERSTAND GOD IS IN EVERY THING HE IS YOU AND ME PRETENDING SO WE CAN GET BACK LOVE WE WERE. HIS GAY NESS IS ONLY ANOTHER EXPERIENCE WERE IS LOVE OF TURNING THERE SON AWAY. AND HURTING GOD IN HIM. THESE KIDS BORN THIS WAY TO FIND REACTION WE TA K E. THEY DONE IT WITH SKIN COLER RACE RELIGON. RELIGONS ARE MADE BY NEGATIVE ENERGY OF ARCONS. THEY CONTROL THE WORLD WE BEEN KIDNAP SINCE TEN THOUSAND YEARS AND NOW ENERGY IS FULL THE GOOD ENERGY IS COMEING DOWN. AND SINCE 2012 THE MAYA CALANDER. EXPLAINS. THE ENERGY WILL FILL UP HERE. AND NEGATIVE ARCONS WILL LEAVE CAUSE UNIVERSE CHANGED POSITION. SO PEACE IS COMEING AND ALL THINGS BE IN WITH GOD THOSE WHO CRUEL WILL BE LEFT BEHIND OK. GOD DOESNT JUDGE WE JUDGE OUR SELVES. WE BEEN HURTING OUR OWN KIND FOR YEARS AND GOD IN THEM. ONE DAY WEATHER ITS HERE OR IN HEAVEN YOU WILL SEE TRUTH I DIDNT LIE. THIS CRAP WORSHIP GOD HE WANTS YOU TO WORSHIP LOVE TO EACH OTHER HES IN ALL OF US. WHEN ARCONS LEAVE THE HEAD ELITE BUSINESS MEN RULERS. BANKERS KINGS AND QUEENS.CLERGY WONT HAVE INFLUENCE AND GOING TO BE SCARED. AND GODS LIGHT BE RULER. THE AWAKEN SLOWLY TELLIN PEOPLE.. LOT MORE TO SAY. THE ARCONS ARE YOUR DEMONS THEY DONT CARE WHO YOU. HATE. AS LONG THEY GET NEGATIVE ENERGY. TO LIVE ON THERE FULL AND WE DONT HAVE TO. HATE ANY MORE. THIS IS NOT FIFTEEN CENTURY. WHAT HAPPENS IS ALL RELIGONS HOLD TEN PERCENT OF TRUTH AND REST IS DIVIDE AND CONQUER. AND FEED FEAR. FEAR IS FOOD. AND CAUSE THE ILLUSIONS TO TURN IN TO REALITY. WARS. MURDER. DESTRUCTION. THE LIGHT OF GOD NOW HAS THE UPPER HAND. AND IT WONT MATTER WHAT PERSON IS HE BE JUDGEN HIMSELF. BY HURT HE CAUSED AND NOT BY. WHO HE IS. BUT HOW HE TREAT HIS FELLOW. MAN. AND. ANIMALS. EVERY LIVEN THING. WE REMORSE. AND THEN WE CAN MOVE UP TO LEVELS WE BELONG IN.
@@guygrip2120 You're wrong about God and you will see that.... God bless you, unbeliever....
I wish him all the love, happiness & success in the world. Any mother who chooses her beliefs over her own flesh & blood will face her own Karma in the end.
Trixie belle I hope that he disowned his parents, poor guy just wants to be witht the love of his life and selfish selfish people like his parents would give up flesh and blood for some science fiction novels. Pity.
makka y such a judgmental fool, that's what I don't understand about some of you paperback Christians. its totally fine to commit one sin and be a judge for others but its 50 times worse to get married to who you're supposed to be with. must be nice picking and choosing your own laws and regulations. what a hypocrite, get off your soapbox and take a chillpill. if nothing else you know what they say, "don't knock it till you try it" ;)
makka y you may want to consider taking your own advice hun, maybe if you removed the pole from your ass you could think more clearly. I'm not a doctor though, so... :)
makka y "traditional marriages are not necessarily ones we should support. They might be, but the criteria should be the quality of the relationship, not some easy formula of males and females. Sometimes traditional marriages can be quite harmful."
Its funny that all the abuse stories come from straight couples, which you reccomend but none from same sex couples. You sir, are living in a cesspool of ideals that are shoved down your throat so far that you have become brainwashed into believing in trash, essentially. if you choose to be ignorant at least keep it to yourself, lol.
makka y what a joke. please explain how the right to marry affects your existence, I am dying to know.
Just evil, the lack of empathy is actually chilling
You are being judgmental, they are loving parents who are not being cruel to their son, they do not have to accept what is against their religion.
Nigga its their belief not your you fucking sociopathic dick
SwItCh Flikks and so what if it’s their beliefs? Racism is also a belief, it doesn’t mean it’s right.
Free Speech Advocate They pretty much disowned their child. You say they aren’t being cruel, yet they are sacrificing their relationship with him since they can’t accept a part of him. It’s like not accepting your child for being left handed.
Tony Mario, I've never known a parent to disown their child because the child was gluttonous, or divorced, or a thief, or multitudes of other things that they believe are sins. These folks are hateful, cruel people who clearly do not love their child unconditionally.
Unbelievable. Clearly Chris expected this, but that doesn’t make it any easier. Essentially his parents have agreed to never see their son again unless he “changes the way he chooses to live his life”. It’s more than sad, it’s pathetic.
Good on Chris for being strong enough to leave that house without getting emotional. His parents are not worth his getting upset about.
No, their son is not worth it...
@@temkawilliams7425 soon you're gonna have a child and your child will turn out to be gay, it's not your fault, not your child's fault either but it's you who brought the child. When that time comes you will remember this. Mark my word.
@@xsplitxxsplitx5851 Already have one and she know better to do that bs...
@@temkawilliams7425 that doesn't mean it's over. She's gonna get married eventually so it goes on and on and on. Let's see what happen to your grand children, yeah? Are they WORTH it or not. 😊
@@xsplitxxsplitx5851 Like I said, she know better to do that bs...You raise your kids like you suppose to and I'll raise mine. My family would never accept this...I was raised one way only....
You don’t love him wholeheartedly, you love on your conditions. However, as a gay man, I would never subject myself to asking for approval from family or friends who clearly has demonstrated that they are not interested in my happiness. I would not ask any of those idiots to be at my wedding.
I know but the little boy in him still wants that hug. It breaks my heart to watch this, as a mom.
Well said.
I love your response! ❤️
They are his parents they are not idiots because they do not want to accept his life style , the mom said they still love him.
I'm glad you dio bae!!!
I absolutely love yours!!!!!
Love you so very very much, my bae!!!
Relationship with fictional man in the sky, whom you've never met > your own son
His sad excuse for parents don't deserve him. Hope he's happier without them.
PeripheralPurity great point.
Atleast they're parents but they can't be grandparents. He could never be a parent or have a biological offspring of his own. Good parents their better off than a son like him.
Blessings Joy well, he could use a surrogate
If God>their son then it means
Their love>dissappointment
But if its
Close-mindedness>their son
The its
Their love
PeripheralPurity God is not fictional. We will just see how it is in the End of Time. It is actually happening right now EVERYTHING the Bible said in the Revelations. War and rumors of war, famine, earthquakes, rise in sin, natural disasters, persecution of Christians, Love growing cold, false prophets, FAKE JESUS claiming to be him, and many more. In the End of Times, anyone whose names are not written in the Book of Life, will be thrown into the lake of fire, where there will be mourning, weeping, gnashing of teeth. I hope you’re name will be written in that book, victim of the world.
People who choose their faith and religion over their own kids, is horrible! That should never ever have the right to have kids.
D Valentine Bernabé tell that to Abraham
D Valentine Bernabé Lol atleast "people who choose their faith and religion over their own kids" can produce and give birth to kids if you get what i am saying. 😂😂😂😂😂
No what's really sad is when you abandon your wife and kids to live as a six year old girl. That's the problem with the LGBT, "I've changed and moved on and screw everyone else!!"
God is more important than only one induvidual
Blessings Joy first off you can get cancer or HPV from hetero sex too so get off your high horse. You simply googled cancer risk factors for gay men and copy / pasted it, proud of you Joy.
But in all seriousness anal sex in general creates multiple risk factors for both parties involved... But what you convieniently choose to ignore is the couple involved doesn't just have to be gay for the risk factors to exist.
So a quick shout out to any ladies out there enjoying butt stuff. Get tested because you can have similar concerns regarding anal sex.
Thanks Joy
“I don’t want to get into an argument with you.” What a dismissive sentence and really shows off her inner narcissist nicely.
Exactly the narc condescension. They have been fucking with his head his whole life. They dont actually care that hes gay, its just a way to shame him as below them, the inferiority complex all NPD have
"I dont want to get in an argument with you", or if she said it bluntly "I cannot sufficiently defend my point and give valid points in this discussion"
Let me clarify that just being straight up 100% real with someone & on point you don't want to argue if you don't want any BS just being straight up to the point and put the card on the table {period} nothing to do with narcissism
He started tensing up for a fight and they're not interested in all that drama. Simple.
If the child committed suicide after this she wouldn't blaim herself at all, she'd say , "see what the lifestyle did".
Exactly, this is so sad, I myself have mental issues from my mom never accepting me
Unrelated but he looks more like a white supremacist than gay lol
@@ruruve7011 well your mom did the right thing.
@@tylermanter1548 NO, MOM DID THE WRONG THING. AND IT'S PARENTS LIKE THESE THAT ARE CAUSING LGBTQ CHILDREN TO COMMIT SUICIDE.
That’s exactly how my fiancé’s parents reacted. Almost to the word. It was heartbreaking to relive that. I’m heartbroken for my fiancé and for this gentleman. It doesn’t make sense. I wish him well. He deserves a life of happiness.
I hope you have found your happiness. I would have gladly danced at your wedding.
This woman is dead inside. The "beliefs" she has lived by her whole life are based on misinformation, indoctrination, lies- and definitely not on love, acceptance, or forgiveness. I hope she feels the wrath of indignation from all that see her for who she is. While her beautiful son moves forward towards the love and acceptance he truly deserves.
kenoathio...............the good thing is that once the old parents are finished hating on the son they can then direct it towards each other as they get older.............it may even lead to a divorce or one killing the other or perhaps they can run off and have an affair or one can die leaving the other terribly lonely and begging the son to speak to them LOL...........i laugh when folk like this think they are perfect as they are far from it...........wonder how many fetuses she aborted before the son was born or after it because she had affairs.........the parents both deserve each other as they are both disgusting human beings because they hurt their son for trying to include them in his life.
kenoathio same applies to the lgbt propaganda movement, also based on lies and mis info.
If your unaware of the lgbt agenda than your as brainwashed as any religious person.
Kal El What agenda is that may I ask??
How is it a lie that man is meant to be with women? That's called BASIC BIOLOGY
MRios1128 I said being gay was a lie you fool
Just when I think things change for the better I watch a video like this. I could never give my child up for any reason in the world. Their your children. Even as adults they need you!
If ur in my area I'll be happy to be your stand in mom. Xoxo
O K - Not O K. False framed topic irrelevant to the thread. Let me guess - an “Info Wars” maven? Lightweight.
@O K Shut up, homophobic scumbag.
You can see his heart crumble through his eyes
my Mother told me that my brother and I have taught her more about being human than any other two people she's ever known. she repeatedly tells me that I was planned, i was wanted, and that she has thought of me every single day since before I was born.
im one of the lucky ones.
I’d love an update on the wedding. I bet it was lovely and they were surrounded with people who know what love is and know how to show it. My dad did the same thing to me. He completely removed himself. Went from being the best dad anyone could ever want to completely absent. He reached out to me one day almost 5 years later. We lived a world apart at the time. We spoke on the phone almost daily for months. One day he said he was sorry for the years we had lost, missing on the joy of being together, camping and fishing (always hated fishing and camping) but always went because it ment being with my dad. So we made plans for me to fly out to him but he died a week before our scheduled meeting. The last time i saw my dad in person he asked me not to contact him again. While it broke my heart, i stubbornly listened to him. How I wish I could look at his beautiful deep blue eyes and hug him one more time. How I’d love that be the last memory of him. Its been almost 20 years since he told me not to contact him again. I can still remember, the smell in the room, the pain in his beautiful blue eyes, the excruciating pain in my chest. When I allow myself to go there again, it’s just as raw. My father confided that his faith had a lot to do with his self inflicted absence but that above all he felt uncomfortable with the notion of having a gay son who was in a relationship how would he relate to me. He figured not having to deal with it would be easier. It eventually became unbearable for him. Which is when he reached out to me. I’m thankful we had these few months to catch up on the phone. Love your family today. Tomorrow could be too late and you don’t want to live with the burden of regret.
How can ANY PARENT DO THIS? It outrages me that a parent, especially a "mother" would turn their back on their child!!!! He didnt do anything wrong! U cant love him for him! That's a disgrace! I'm so sorry for this man that he had to be hurt so horribly by the 2 people in the world who should love him and support him the most! Unbelievable!
If your child is a murder, would you support him?
@@Alexa-pc6ux the two are not the same! How can anyone really know what they would do if their child was a murderer unless your child murdered someone. On the subject of this video though, my baby sister is gay and that is something that I believe no one can choose. You have a choice to murder or not murder someone! You dont have the choice to be gay or not be gay!
@@sunniemorales4406
You're the disgrace of humanity...
@@Alexa-pc6ux thenonly disgrace is you
@@Alexa-pc6ux STOP comparing love to murder, homophobic scumbag and disgrace to humankind yourself.
parents like this need to know LIFE IS TOO SHORT
Don't worry, they will come to realise this at some point.. maybe when it's too late, but they always do.
There are those that disappointingly are totally engrossed wiith Ego & Stubborness. 👎
Kids like him shouldn't force there kids to love them, if they have strict code they live by i say bravo to them but this dude need to his shit straighten up and move on,
Carl Jackson - He gave them the option and they declined. OK, he knew their point of view. Once his “mum” confirmed her perspective he wisely put the ball in her court. She couldn’t even muster up the civility to lie by wishing him good luck. So he left her house for good; good move on his part.
@@jerrysmith7449 like i said also, mother and father do not have to accept them, or support them, if they are living in their house with strict rules than that what u gotta live with, if not cya later boy, and he did works both ways
How cruel to do that to your own son like even if it's not your belief, you should still go and be there for him
Or at least don't disown him....
Tessina Rout no, staying away is the best thing
Lord of Frog’s backup dancer That’s twice I’ve seen this brain-numbing stupid comment from you: can you REALLY not see why the two scenarios are in no way related? One is harmful to society while the other isn’t, in any way. Why am I having to explain this......did you not take to education?
Genghis Smith what is ‘harmful to society’ or not is completely subjective. Many people have the opinion that homosexuality is harmful to society
Lord of Frog’s backup dancer Oh, I think I can ignore the opinions of someone desperate enough to use that old failed ‘argument’ linking paedophilia to homosexuality. Strange how you types can never give workable reasons as to WHY you believe homosexuality is harmful to society! No matter, these days you bigots are irrelevant.....at 60 I NEVER thought I’d live to see ssm legalised. Now I’m engaged to my much-loved partner of many years and we are fully supported by our friends and families. Our wedding will be FABULOUS, partly because you sad tossers won’t be there. Cheers, loser.
Thats what my parents told me too, because i am biromantic asexual. I now act straight until I move out. I feel so much for everyone going through this ❤️❤️❤️
What is a biromantic asexual? I've never heard that?
@@shawnpope9311
Biromantic is similar to Bisexuality in the sense you like two or more genders- The difference here is Biromantic people are not sexually attracted but are rather romantic attracted instead. It's on the Asexual spectrum, there is also "Homoromantic" people who are Asexual but experience a romantic inclination towards someone of their gender. The key difference here is to understand romantic/emotional attraction vs. sexual attraction.
Also I'm sorry to hear you going through this, OP. I hope you get out of there soon and find happiness and someone who will love you. 💞
@@shawnpope9311sounds made up if you ask me
No such thing. That’s not a sexuality.
I'm so happy for him and his fiancé. I wish them all the happiness and hope that the world we live in becomes a more accepting place soon.
It will never happen
Absolutely
They got divorced
Even if someone's parents don't like someone's preferences, they still should be there. Why? Because that's what parents fucking do! I don't get why people are disgusted by two people of the same sex being together. People seem to only think of the intercourse side of the relationship anyway. How about looking at the love two people have for each other, or the things they do for each other? How they lift each other up, push each other, care for one another. But no, all you care about is what other people think, and how it's against your beliefs.
Yeah, they clearly love him. Because pushing your own child out of your life because they're gay is definately how you show love.
Sade Tuck
Not Just Australia. Here in the United States it’s Rampant.
Do you know where else this is rampant? In the Middle East where you will actually be sent to prison, stoned or killed just for being gay. It's a good thing people like the gay guy in this video don't live in those cultures where people are ACTUALLY oppressed
@@jamieA7Xfan90 It's not a competition. Some places are just horrific. It's all oppression. People still lead compromised lives and suicide from isolation and loss, but you see those middle east killings are more hidden from view in the west. Sanitised out. Regime hidden.
Thugs would lay in wait and ambush anyone alone or what they could manhandle, at a hookup native bushed area, to beat but to push/throw gay guys off the cliffs at the heads of Sydney harbour and the police were complicit in the 70's/80's and were not caught.
The issue we have here is that the mother didn't want to accept or even show love towards her own son and so he didn't want to deal with her toxic ass anymore and left her life for good hopefully.
That's not true. She told him she loved him , but just not his choice...She don't have to accept this because that's her choice....
@@temkawilliams7425 Gay is not a choice. She has to accept her son like he is.
@@Nonalhomophobie Being gay is a choice and she don't have to accept his lifestyle.... That doesn't mean she don't love him, unbeliever...
@@temkawilliams7425 Being gay is NOT a choice until you prove otherwise, dumbass. It's not a lifestyle either and there is no valid reason to not accept it. And she doesn't love him indeed. Stop taking homophobic douches' side.
@@temkawilliams7425 It isn't a choice or lifestyle or whatever, its who he is and if she can't accept that then she doesn't deserve him!
Yeah, no. This isn’t disowning. They politely declined his invitation. They did not beat him, they did not deny him shelter, food, or water, so yeah, it’s tough, but far from disowning. Especially since he’s an adult, he’s not under their custody, so they don’t own him. This makes it literally impossible for them to have disowned him.
Agreed he's a disappointment to his parents what can you expect.
My God...so much this. This comment is the most reasonable I could find. The parents have every right to not be ok with their son's choice and they did politely state their opinion on the matter, they love him but don't really share his ideology and don't want said ideas in their routine. What's the problem with that? They respected his way of life, just didn't want to be part of it. This comment section full of leftist and brainless people can't do the same, they have to shove their ideas and ideologies down the world's throat. Before anyone say I'm an extremist or conservative prick, I'm not, I'm just trying to be reasonable and I like both men and women.
Melon Boy To disown someone does not only mean in the legal sense. Disown also means to "refuse to acknowledge or maintain any connection with", which is accurate.
HarshDude126 Here it is, folks. The unending patience and rationality that the LGBT community has. I respect the fact you think cussing people out makes your opinion more correct, but I’m going to have to disagree.
HarshDude126 Also, are you serious? I’m not sure if you’re a troll or mentally disabled. It’s great and all that you preach about love and acceptance, then bash on Christians. But go ahead, pull the victim card every time something doesn’t go your way. But don’t complain when people look past it and call you out for it.
Misleading title. Nowhere did the parents mention disowning him.
Yes they did.
Non à l'homophobie No it didn't. They respectfully declined.
Xoreign
Just a heads up the individual you are responding to will resort to ad hominem attacks for disagreeing with him-her. Apparently, according to him-her, disagreeing with his-her worldview is defined as bigotry. This individual you responded to is a walking logical fallacy. Proceed with caution.
John H But he’s correct. They did.
He said, “You can have all of me or none of me.”
He gave them that ultimatum, and they chose the latter.
That pretty much sums up it, really.
I don’t think you’re a bigot or homophobic. You’ve given me no reason to believe that.
I think you’re a bit illogical and jumping the shark, but that could just be me misreading what you’ve written.
Ghosts Don’t Exist That was the binary option that he created. According to him, the parents didn't want any part of him. But that's misleading. They still said they loved him. They honestly do. Not agreeing with his decision does not mean they disowned him. It's common sense. it was his fit.
Goated parents
becoming rarer these days
dumbass troll your parents should be ashamed
If you’re gay the best thing to do when you graduate high school is move to a distant metropolitan area within your own country and never look back. Leave them all behind. You’ll thank yourself years later.
William Kilgore, thanks for the tip! And I will remember you so I can thank you.
Excellent advice sounds like my life 7347 miles away!!!!
I was disowned by my parents. Best thing to ever happen to me. I found people who really loved me to be my real family. What shitheads for parents.
Lucky you!
Or maybe they loved you enough to protect your soul or at least try... Sometimes parents know best but you got it figured out so do you buddy
As hard as it may be, but people have got to let go and move on from their parents, as they won't be around forever. But as long as you always had love for them when coming out, they are the ones in the wrong for displaying the all-the-sudden hate.
@@DerekJetson Protect his soul? There is no point in protecting something you don't even can't prove nor measure at expense of your child's mental health and emotional well being. His parents wouldn't know best if they were bludgeoned into a bloody pulp with it. And yes, he does have ii figured out. He's figured out his parents aren't willing love and support he needs.
@@DerekJetson Souls don't exist. Live your life sad then, cause it's the only existence you're ever going to know. There is nothing after your bodily functions cease.
Title is incorrect. They dont disown him, they said they loved him just not going to his wedding. He is the one that gave them the altimatum that he will get out of their life. Very misleading title !!!
Toad Guy
The father laughed at the invitation. That’s not love lol
Don't Bother, title says disown, its an obvious fake title
Toad Guy
I guess you never watched the video. They didn’t talk to him for 18 years.
That's horrible.
Don't Bother
I guess you jumped to conclusions. No indication of 18 years of silence. I guess making baseless assumptions is easier than acquiring the truth.
It was hard for all of them the facts are right there in the footage!!!
It was hard for the son only.
That went better than i expected. I find it very commendable of him that he respected his parents decision.
He's holding them emotionally hostage.
No he isn't.
Non à l'homophobie In his mind, they should accept what he wants, nothing else. He is not being fair or understanding of their point of view and belief. I'm glad they stuck to their guns.
I wish Chris and Grant all the love in the world! ❤They do not deserve him. Those "parents" will have to face the maker hopefully oneday...and I hope they are judged just as harshly pieces of shit.
Rebecca Bonner so true! they will regret the decisions they've made and it will be priceless!
makka y Hahahahaha 😂 We have a tough guy over here! I can say whatever I like and impart whatever ideas I wish lol You seem a bit backwards, you can believe whatever you like. Would love to meet you, but obviously you are just a pathetic keyboard warrier with nothing better to do.
Sarah Brown Exactly!! He was wonderful, they'll realise when it's too late what they've missed out on.
I hope I do see gay marriage implemented, never say never. I'm proud of all the Australians that do stand up for what is right. I'm not a huge fan of hate for something that is not hateful. When consensual adults do something, that is not hurting you, them or others, it is honestly none of your business.
makka y what a sheep.
These “parents” don’t deserve to have had a child. Spoken by someone who wishes he’d had a son or daughter but got married too late in life. :( I know that had God blessed me with a child, I would have given that kid unconditional love!
I don’t know about they don’t deserve a child like there’s a Lotta reason why they chose that way reason if they’re not ever religious, I don’t know if that will ever change them about having a gay son I think that’s more of a personal belief by religion is one of the reasons why do you don’t accept another reason is there not used to it or they’re just following what other people will think there’s a lotta reasons religion is not the main reason
It doesn't excuse anything. Their son did nothing to justify being disowned except share who he really is
If he were a pain, nightmare or an awful person, it would be more justifiable to disown him
The Mom in me Loves and Accepts you!! You are an amazing human!
Wait you support her ? Ist surprised me😅
Karolyn Michelsen what are you saying? You said the mom in me and the you? 😐
@Tony Mario its not immoral its amoral
Can I disown my uncle? He keeps trying to run into me with his car
Z Blade Still better than gaayy, IMO.
Uh yeah
Z blade----what have you been doing?
It mean u want attention for urself is why he said that to u, That what gays do nowadays is for attention
Carl, what are you even trying to say?
If him & his husband to be have a son they won't be part of the grand kid
2 men cannot procreate
@@CashCollecta I think he meant adoption
@@CashCollecta No shit Einstein. But they can have a surrogate, adopt etc.
He's better off without them. If they DID go, they would have just caused an atmosphere and made it all about them. At least now he can be happy on the greatest day of his life.
I wish him love and happiness x
I’m in agreement, the Parents didn’t actually say, they would disown him. They did however say that their beliefs, wouldn’t allow them to be a part of it.
So the young man has to alter who he is, as person just to be in their lives. Sorry, that definitely wouldn’t work for me ! Like he said, “ All of me, or none of me !
My heart breaks for all. I know it’s not an easy road, but clearly the Parents are not unconditional in their Love.
I’m thankful everyday, for my Family. I am one of 17 children, same Mother and Father. I am the only gay child. I never came out to my Family. My siblings didn’t have to. So in fairness I didn’t either. I brought boyfriends home, nothing was said.
When I met my first Partner, we dated 6 months, prior to moving in together. We had gatherings, family invited and involved. When I lost him to Cancer 6 years later. My Parents, his Mother and 12 my siblings attended his Funeral ! He was considered an in law, and was treated with the same level of Love and Respect ! His Mother and I, had a very special Loving relationship, and she was a widow of a Baptist Minister ! I was truly blessed, to have such a Loving and supportive Family !!!
❤
You are truly blessed
If these are the types of beliefs people have to the point that it makes them prejudiced against certain individuals, no one should respect them
What wretched people. How can you have a child and not show them unconditional love? Disgusting. I'll be your mom Chris.
it is unconditional**** love (they don't know what it is, and their religions don't believe in love)
She said she still loves him... she just doesn't want to support his lifestyle by going to his wedding
@@garibaldistudios5406 that’s loving conditionally
"You think it is worth sacrificing your relationship with me over your beliefs." He gave them the ultimatum, not the other way around.
He didn't give an ultimatum. They're the ones who left him with no choice.
STA RASA BELUM sorry but if you don’t show up to an extremely important day of my life just because of your beliefs, you aren’t deserving of my respect.
Kudos to the parents. It can't be a one way understanding. The son can't expect the parents to go against their own moral beliefs because his changed along the way. Each to their own and respect to the parents for being so cool headed and trying to explain things to a confused son.
sorry, you dont need them in your life...walk away and leave. When they are older they will sorry.
How do choose to abandon your kid like that...
I hate it when people imply we chose to be gay. Why on earth would we choose to be shut out from our families... that's just something the parents tell themselves so they won't feel as bad for turning their backs on someone who didn't choose a part of their life that the parents disagree with
@Ruby Heart why is it that you think gays like to be gay, esp when they are teenagers (when fitting in is very important) despite the threat of being attacked, abused and also kicked out of their family?
@Ruby Heart No, you can't "decide" not to be gay if you are gay.
Have there been any updates? This is just horrible. Whenever I tell my parents these stories, they're in total disbelief. The thought of not being (sometimes too much) involved in their children's lives is unfathomable.
How very sad any parent could give an answer like that to their Son. When one or both come to you in their old age needing help. I can't be there is the answer. Go live and enjoy your life. I wish you well in life. Thank you for sharing your story.
The entertaining thing about this is about 6 months after the show the father grew sick and went into the hospital, then his mother begged him to come back and look after her. Now thats worthy of a long sip of tea. www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-4807904/Bride-Prejudice-Chris-says-dad-terminal-cancer.html
OMG how sad! The best advice ever given to me is to limit your time with negative people. Any religion that excludes any group or persons for any reason is not a religion ~ it's a cult to be avoided. The only commandment there is ~ is to love one another - period. Now that's a kind of "god" that would deserve worship.
My beliefs are different about homosexuality I don’t think it’s normal completely but if my son/daughter was gay and they asked me to come to the wedding I wouldn’t sit there and blatantly tell them I can’t and blatantly tell them “i know this is hurting you” like how ruthless do you have to be to your own child to tell them that.... like I said I would not reject a proposal because I would love them and what they decide to do with their life 👍👍👍
As a Christian she is taught to love not hate or judge. She should have attended the wedding.
No as a Christian that is an abomination towards God. You can't enter the kingdom of Heaven living like that. The parents did right.
@@1-o-f-1 It is not an abomination. You're just a hateful bigot blabbering violent speech like it is normal and using your god as justification like a coward, but your religion does not get special treatment regarding homophobia. The parents did nothing right and are as disgusting as you are.
He made his bed,he goin lie in it. Im with the parents 1000%
You are 1000% a m*ron then.
I agree. Being gay is a choice.
@@tharunsankar4926 It is not a choice.
These parents were very loving and kind but held to their beliefs.........i really honor them for not caving into their sons ULTIMATUM to comprimise their values.
Lol he deserves that. Its a choice. And its the wrong choice
Homosexuality is NOT a choice, it is NOT wrong, and you are a cruel *mbecile to claim he deserves such a disgusting attitude from his parents.
you choose to be straight? fn dumbass
Being gay isn't a choice, but being a homophobic bigot certainly is. I hope Chris has a better life with his new family.
This is the one reason why I mentor our gay youth....so then they can feel they have an option when families throw them out on the street....I am here to listen to the kids, make suggestions, listen to their crisis if need be and just be their for them with a kind word or a pat on the back when they need it. I never had that one parent to turn to as well and found myself turning to teachers and close friends in my life at that time...and although Ive been out and proud nearly 30 years I will never understand the reason why parents would kick their own children out on the street.....whatever happened to loving your children unconditionally? I am so proud of you sweetheart the way you stood your ground with your folks but so upset the way they handled themselves speaking toward you like that...UNACCEPTABLE!!! I also send you my love and best wishes on your upcoming marriage and I am so thrilled for you both! May you live life together happy, joyous and free! Anytime you need to chat I will be here for you...I speak to my kids mostly everyday and they bring me such joy and are doing so much better....all our kids want is to be loved, understood and accepted for who they are.....not letting being gay define who they are as a person...because they are so MUCH more than that...hoping to hear from you dear...WE LOVE YOU!! XO "MAMA" STEVE❤❤
As a brown person this shit is common in non-white cultures that are patriarchical.
I’m single and straight but have been questioned if I’m gay and that is not a pleasant conversation to have in our culture.
It forces me to have to explain that the reason why i’m 44 and single is cause I cannot get no pus sy. 😂
love and wishes! You bro will live an awesome life! Let them fade away, they are not good parents.
I am a mother. There is nothing my son could do that would make me not stand behind him, or love him. Nothing nothing nothing. To the young man in this video, I love you just as you are and wish you happiness with your new husband.
Thank you for existing in this world ❤️seriously
What if he became a terrorist, would you still stand by him?
There's no in-between when it comes to love somebody either you either accept and love them 100% or you don't love him at all it's like do or don't there is no try
Your comment is very hypocritical, frame it this way "...either the kid loves his parents and loves them 100% with their Christian beliefs fully or he doesn't love them...it's either do or don't." Do you see your problem now?
Andrew John you mean a belief that goes against there own son?
But their son was not the one who chose not to accept his parents, however you frame it. He invited them to his wedding, and they said no. That was the rejection. He asked them if they were willing to lose him over their beliefs and they said, yeah, it's been nice knowing you. Bye! How accepting do you expect anyone to be? What would you do if your parents essentially told you they didn't care enough about you to just go to your wedding? The ugliness of their 'standards' is disgusting. I don't blame him for saying goodbye after that. The blame is on them. Horrid people.
They cannot be made to accept his lifestyle. He's a dirt bag for trying to force his lifestyle on his parents, knowing they wouldn't accept it.
@@ineedfilessexuality isn’t a lifestyle though. You can’t control if you are straight or gay. There are people that pretend to be straight to please their parents and it’s the worst. Pretending and feeling lonely. Idiot
Respect to the parents for not letting the son bully them.
So he has a right to be gay but she doesn't have a right to accept?? Title says how is this still happening... the same way racism is still happening
He’s gay, he didn’t choose to be gay.
Masearte Abraha That’s how he is. They need to accept how their son is. Not accepting him isn’t going to change the fact that he’s gay. They’re his parents and sooner or later they’ll realize what they’re doing.
Masearte Abraha I’m not demanding anything. I’m criticizing them as parents. He’s gay, that’s how he is. They should accept him because it’s how he is. I’m not forcing anything I’m criticizing them for what they’re doing. Same way I would’ve criticized them if they couldn’t accept a black grandchild or an interracial relationship.
Masearte Abraha Being gay is not a lifestyle. A lifestyle would be going to the gym, going on a diet, or traveling. That’s just how he is.
Masearte Abraha Well it’s how he is, so they should accept him. I’m not forcing anything. But they are close minded, and I can criticize their thinking. If you disagree then let’s just leave it here, but I still feel bad for him.
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I’d imagine on their deathbeds they’ll reflect on what arseholes they’ve been
Bro up until finding this video I was able to handle people bashing people for being gay and supporting them in the comment section of coming out vids but when they said that they would not come to their sons wedding because he was gay shocked me to my core and I started to tear up and then when they said that they loved after saying that they would not come to one of the most important times in this mans life just made me start full on balling 😥😭
The pain on his face says it all. Just heartbreaking to watch.
Update: there was a follow-up article about Chris in The Guardian. Apparently, ever since the mom died, things have been getting better. Her obituary, since she obviously had no input, was the first time the family acknowledged that Grant was her son-in-law. Chris basically said that she always made it "my way or the highway" and that once she was gone everyone in the family got happier "for no particular reason, it was the craziest thing".
The dad still bears some blame, of course, but what a piece of shit the mom must have been when the cameras were off such that her whole family gets happier and more loving once she's dead.
I can’t find anything about his mum only his dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer not long after the wedding
And that was back in 2017
@@lauranicholls9677 It's part of an article called Return The Key: The Parents Who Reject Their Gay Children. Seems like the dad didn't live very long after the mom passed away, but the family in general was a lot happier once she was gone.
You could tell by her eyes that she was a very rigid person. She must have had a lot of bitterness inside of her. I can't see anything nice in her.
I can relate with this guy... My parents basically can't support me because of their own "beliefs."
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My dad was the same way so we basically have no relationship now. His loss. My husband and I have an amazing life.
unpopular opinion: I think people who have their beliefs should stick by them and it's okay if they can't participate in something that contradicts their beliefs. just wanting to let that out.
Everyone is entitled to their beliefs, of course... as long as you adapt those beliefs to what you experience, instead of trying to shoe-horn everything in the world as to fit them. And if having your son, whom you raised and loved, turning out to be homosexual, doesn't at least result in you trying to better understand him (meeting his partner, attending his wedding, or maintaining at least a semblance of communication), you're doing the latter.
Any valid opinion merits tolerance... as long as one go out of his way to ensure it's valid.
And I think beliefs should be based on smth more than just a guess. There is no logical proof that the world is created by God. It's just irrational. Learn neurouscience and philosophy to understand why.
Blind belief is ignorance and it's not cool
gcyeow1963 I have the same unpopular opinion
Bokar N'Diaye
Good advice for the son to follow. He tried to shoehorn his beliefs on his parents.
Jackson Scott
Actually from a skeptics point of view it does make sense. What he is saying is preach, but don't practice. Another way is saying it is just talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. Or don't put your money where your mouth is.
You can either have all of me.
Or none of me
I agree with him. 18 years I never called to them upon any issue. And I kept my problems to myself. Sacrifice my happiness for you but pretended to always be happy to live up to your beliefs and you can’t do this for me????
People can’t understand how repulsed most people are by this degenerate behaviour. It’s revolting and his poor parents… They must be so hurt, incredibly embarrassed and ashamed.
No just saddened for his soul. He is perishing.
He's gonna cry in the car 😂😂😂
With only viewing this segment of the show, it appears Chris disowned his parents, not the other way around. All they said was they couldn't partake in the ceremony with his partner. They didn't say they don't want him in their life. Chris made the ultimatum, not the parents.
George Crenshaw they clearly admitted they didn't want their son's lifestyle In their lives so they disowned him
D'andre' Durand All I saw was his parents turn down a wedding invitation for their son. They took a "hate the sin, love the sinner" approach. They did not shut him out of their lives because I see they clearly still love him regardless of what he does. And I also see it very much hurts them.
I absolutely understand the son's POV, but people tend to forget that following God's principles is not easy and those that do also feel pain. This segment shows that the parents fear their son will shut them out of their lives once he's married.
George Crenshaw other way around they shut him out of their lives with their brainwashed conservative mindsets
George Crenshaw I agree with what you stated. The parents did not disown their son, the mother clearly stated that they wanted a relationship with him. Just because they're his parents doesn't mean they have to agree with everything he does. He's entitled to live his life the way he wants to, but he was clearly the one that disowned them! And no matter what the haters say, his mother WAS loving him unconditionally! It was no surprise to him how they felt! And even if his parents had gone to his wedding, they would have given up on their beliefs, and he would not have given up ANYTHING! They have as much a right to them as Chris does being gay.
George Crenshaw
The son is going to shut them out of his life because they won’t be there for him. They hate the sin and the sinner, why else would they ignore their son for 18 years? His father literally laughed at the invitation.
You are exactly the man you were created to be, & if they can’t be there for you on such an important day, then you are better off.
Even though this was on camera, the discussion actually ended better than most discussions about this whenever there are parents who disagree with the way their son or daughter chooses to be.
If you're not willing to love and accept your child unconditionally, then don't have children in the first place. PERIOD.
They raised such a beautiful son, but, one wonders how? If they cannot see beyond some fictional religious BS, you don't need them or their negative energy your life.
It's their shame not ours for saying who we are when we're in touch with our heart felt feelings. Shame on them for the abandonment all because of their own self centered fear of abandonment from societies homophobic bias from what I believe is a miss interpretation of the Bible.its terrible what families do to us I feel your pain it's beyond words and please there is nothing to be ashamed about it's societies shame.you're not alone the opposite to shame is pride and I'm so proud how you handled this abuse. ❤ I have total respect and live for you and all of us who have and are still going through this painful 💔 wound that's been inflicted on us. My community of gay pride people are the strength that brings me hope change will come and healing can begin from this abuse of power. Thankyou for sharing ❤❤❤ beautiful soul shine your light and be you with pride x
"We Love You." AKA "Sorry Son, we "Love" You but our cult is more important to us than you." Makes me so angry, what assholes.
Pathetic people. Either way the son loses. How could you do this to your child?
blue cheese what do you mean either way ?
is it bad that he is gay?
I think it means that if they come to the wedding, Chris knows that they don't accept the way he is and are judging him. Or their relationship stays the way it's gone so far, and Chris is shut out of their lives. Either way, he loses, and that's not fair.
Your job as a parent is to love and nurture your child. You accept them the way they are and love them regardless of how their life turns out. This couple have failed their son.
Does it mean that i must accept my son who turned out a fucking psychopath,or supports the existence of 101 genders?
Th3EnterNal
No, it doesn't mean that.,
But for the record, you're comparing apples and oranges. Being gay is not equivalent to being a psychopath.
Th3EnterNal There is no such thing as 101 freaking genders. Like come on thats a load of bullshit.
Why is this an issue? I don’t understand, the parents have a right to decline and a right to their own beliefs and way of life. Why should they get the rocks thrown at them?
Yeah it might have hurt the son because his parents did not want to attend, but why feel forced to be a part of something you don’t believe in?
They are not real parents. They rejected his son for being gay. They refused to go to the wedding because he is gay. They don't accept him as gay. If you choose your sick beliefs over your child then you are not a parent. Their attitude is detestable because it encourages other parents to do that and with younger children. Do you know how many young LGBTs end up in the streets because of "parents" like them ?
Well, again, everyone has he right to live how they please. That’s a very one sided perspective.
Just because it’s not what you think is the right thing to do doesn’t make it sick. Yeah it’s messed up that they don’t want to see their son get married, but again they have the right to decline anything they don’t want to be apart of.
You can’t expect them to abandon their way of life. Yes children are important but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t lose who you are and or what you want to believe in just because your children want you to do so for them.
They, as parents, are supposed to accept their son as he is. If they don't, they don't have a son. They are sick indeed. Not wanting to be a part of homosexuality is being homophobic. No parent worth this name refuses to go to a wedding for this absurd reason.
I can expect them to abandon their sick beliefs, because beliefs change, not their son. They chose to believe that way, they can choose to unbelieve. Their beliefs are not what they are, unlike being gay.
It is blown off because liberals only do play equity and respects when all obey their shitty conviction. If a sensible one voice against their pink genocide they become toxic insolent rabbid acarides.
STA RASA BELUM you sound constipated
That is one control freak of a mother, wonder who made dads decision. What a hard hard hearted woman.
“we love you” with conditions, of course.
What a good mum
This is truly heartbreaking. How can a parent claim to love their offspring, yet claim "I've got very strong beliefs..." as sufficient grounds to overlook the obvious fact (that is staring them in the face) that their son loves his partner. "We love you, but we don't want to be a part of that" This has to be the surest, and possibly one of the cruelest, ways to alienate themselves from the love their son has for them - an absolute tragedy perpetrated by slavish religion-led dogma.
In the name of all that is good and decent, when are the various religions going to wake up to the fact that gay love can be just as true and beautiful as its hetero equivalent. So many people feel locked, slavishly, into a rigid set of "beliefs" that steers them to wreck their family relationships. Religions who won't accept that love is love are desperately mistaken and render themselves obsolete; they are leading their faithful into some dreadful, pointless and often irreparable mistakes.
I wish this young man every happiness and success in his future life. It is just such a tragedy that his parents have chosen to sideline themselves from it; maybe, one day, they will come to realise what a hideous error of judgement they made in rejecting him.
Love of God is greater than love of man.
How incredibly heartbreaking.
The parents will regret that when they're on their death bed and realize they've squandered the last years of their life over mystical beliefs
I might not have rich parents and i might not have a lot of stuff, but I thank God that my parents are nothing like this family at all. They lost a really good person and they too blind too see it.