Longest Case in Australia History - Family Court Chaos - Mystery&Makeup | Bailey Sarian
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Hi Friends Happy Monday !
Today I wanted to talk about Andrea and Leonard Warwick and their relationship and how it turned into the biggest and longest case in Australia History. Honestly, I wasn’t having much luck finding images so, just pretend its a podcast.
Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day and I will be seeing you very very soon!! Love and appreciate you guys SOOO MUCH
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Bailey Sarian
A big THANK YOU to Mary Rogers for helping me find information on this case
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the fact that leonard killed his daughters uncle that day of her second birthday shows that he really never loved her, it was all about controlling and causing misery to Andrea
Isabel Leigh I’m honestly thinking he didn’t even know it was her birthday, he did it for the crime, that just shows he’s more careless and disgusting then we thought
Agreed. Most abusive relationships are about control, not love.
Isabel Leigh *SPOILER ALERT!*
Aye, its about power and control. Horrible man. Horrible, because I'm being 'diplomatic ' and don't want to swear.
Sadly most of the time in circumstances like this they only want to child to hurt the other parent and have some form of control..
Instead of blaming victims for staying, START BLAMING PEOPLE WHO ABUSE OTHER PEOPLE! Get. Better. Idols.
Also, that eye look is amazing.
YESS! Address the behaviour of the persecutor! Stop telling victims to ignore them, or to just deal with it
My boyfriend is emotionally abusive, he’s gotten better but I lost friends because they blamed me for it :’)
My daughter has a huge issue with people blaming girls for “distracting the boys in class” because of how they dress. No, teach the boys to respect a girl no matter how she’s dressed.
Blame the abuser not the abused.
And
Unsocially Awkward, I do hope you are getting help to get out of there. ‘He’s getting better’ is not a reason to stay x
@@unsociallyawkward1815 I hope you’ve been able to leave and if not I understand if you need anything let me know.
@@unsociallyawkward1815 I may not be able to get you out of a bad situation but I’d gladly be a listening ear.
2 years free of my abuser thank you for standing up for why we can't "just leave" our abusers
I'm so happy you're in a better place now.
Wow! How scary for u!!! I’m so glad u got out! Congratulations girl!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️
Been there. Glad you got out! I'm thoroughly convinced I probably would not be alive if I hadn't gotten a divorce. I reported the issue to his chain of command (military) but no one helped. Showed up to a deployment with obvious finger prints on my arms and not one person asked if I was okay - people think it's easy, but it's not. I'm happy for everyone who got out!
If there was a care button as well as a like button then I would give it to you!
Me too. People don’t understand that it is a constant struggle to survive, and that doesn’t allow time to plan a safe exit. Not to mention the terror we feel...I sometimes wished I would die so I could rest and have peace.
I have six years of freedom.
On 3 September 2020, Leonard Warwick was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole.
Not like he has much life left to live anyway 🙄
Thank you for the update
they should’ve just made him disappear. cops are always framing criminals that don’t deserve it but let these guys get away with everything
They need to pull a book out of the American police handbook and just go “oh no I drop my gun…I hope it doesn’t go off…” -phew phew-
And this is from someone who lives by one of the largest police forces in the US.
@@AdamIshak01 The 'oops I dropped my gun and accidentally shot Leonard 6 times' would have saved the lives of quite a few innocent people. Everyone knew who was on rampage at the time but it took decades to finally charge him. Where are the 'bad' cops when you need them?
When anything goes wrong in my life, I'm just gonna blame Leonard.
Allison Cvek that’s what I do 😂😂
Lol right!?
Pffft, friggin Leonard... 😂
Allison Cvek yaaasss same
me-stumbs toe....LEONARD DID THIS
Does anyone else think that Steven is kinda cute?
Just me?
Ok
👏🏻Thank 👏🏻you👏🏻so👏🏻much👏🏻
As a survivor, I applaud your comments regarding the "why don't you just leave them" crowd. Unless you've lived it, and I wish no one had to, you have ZERO idea of how hard it is to "just leave".
BAILEY BACK WITH THE WISDOM. 🙌🏻
Yes!
Agree to the highest degree!
Lauren O all my respect goes to you, stay strong 💜💜
💯💯💯 I totally agree.. And its frustrating, but u can't even be mad cause they are well intended, but until u live it, u don't get it. I used to say it too. Then I went thru it. And when I would leave, mine, my mothers, and my sons lives would be threatened and various horrific things.. In graphic detail.. The police couldn't help.. I literally told a cop that maybe when I was found dead because of him, my mom would be able to get the law changed and it would be able to save others going thru what I went thru. I mean.. I don't wish it on ANYONE, but if u don't know, u don't know, and u should keep ur opinions to urself and just be glad ur not the person in the story ur listening to. And I'm SO grateful to Bailey for highlighting this.. I honestly love the person she is. And for anyone going through it right now, I will keep u in my prayers..
Yasss her comments made me happy..we are all strong..keep pushing
"iT's FuKkEn' LeNnArD!!!"
i died
🤣🤣 me toooooo
hahahah me too!
I pray that any woman who asks the question "Why don't they just leave?" never finds out the answer to that for themselves.
anyone*
@@Cursedluckycat Sure, if you need to be politically correct or whatever.
@@victoriastang unfortunately it happens to men too. I just watched one of Bailey's videos about a man in a very abusive relationship and she stalked him (he kept letting her back in.) and she eventually killed him. it happens to so many people and it's horrible. people are ignorant and just love to say "why didn't they leave." "they could of done -." it's so hard for survivors to hear this..
@@Cursedluckycat Yep, I know.
well said!
13 years this year free from my abuser. Thank you for the kind words and standing up for us survivors!🖤
Awesome! This year makes 14 for me. And wow saying it out loud makes it seem like it was so long ago but it feels like it was recent. The effects are still very fresh in my mind even though I have since moved on, had 3 kids and been with the same man for 10 years. I was 14 when I started dating my abuser and 21 when I finally left him. My entire teenage years were ruined because of him. And being a child made it sooo much harder. You'd think my mom and family could've protected me but when I would run away and chose him over them what were they supposed to do?? My mom didn't know the extent of my abuse and thought I was just being an unruly teenager and I was sent to live with my grandma, which made it that much easier to see him and be with him. Sorry for pouring my story out to you but thanks for listening.... No one else around me (besides my fiance) knows just how bad it was for me.
Well done ❤ 10 for me
@@blanning2058 I'm sorry you went through this, I read some great books after I eventually left that helped me understand. I'm still broken though just not as broken. If you can get a hold of it read Why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft it's amazing. Sending hugs I hope you can heal xo
@@marikadolinsky9912 Thanks, I'll try to check it out. Not much of a reader but if it's interesting and I can relate, I'll read. I like how you put that, 'I'm broken just not as broken'. I think we're all gonna be broken for the rest of our lives it's just a matter of how we piece ourselves back together!
@@blanning2058 maybe they have it in audiobook form
*Leonard kills Andrea's brother* "oh they're gonna arrest him now"
*Leonard kills the first Justice* "oh they're gonna arrest him now"
*Leonard attacks the second Justice* "oh they're gonna arrest him now"
*Leonard attacks the family court* "oh they're gonna arrest him now"
*Leonard attacks the third Justice* "...."
*Leonard attacks the lawyer* ".........."
*Leonard attacks the church* "................."
What a frustrating story, but great video Bailey ❤️
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Her make up bomb af tho
Right?! Why did NO ONE stop him?!
If you look at one of the top comments, Leonard has now been arrested 3 life terms ever since July 2020 :)
I want to know why they couldn’t arrest him on kidnapping or something when he kept running off with Trudy and keeping her too long. And why couldn’t they just revoke visitation completely? Not that that would have stopped his anger attacks, but they just kept giving a slap on the hand that only poked the beast
Thank u for sticking up for women in abusive relationships, it's not just black and white. 🌷⚘🌹😘
Debbie Perez she stuck up for people not women. My dad used to be beat by my mother. Not very nice,
@@riordanparata5243 Yes, everyone can suffer from abuse. Women's issues are just highlighted more because, historically, we have been considered property for the vast majority of the existence of civilization. There were no laws protecting women until relatively recently and there still aren't in many countries around the world. It has been and still is encouraged by some cultures. When people say "women", please understand why. It's the same thing with issues like Black Lives Matter. Yes, all lives matter, and that's the entire point they're trying to get across! But people are so hung up on the word "black" that they can't see that they want the same thing we all want - for EVERYONE to feel safe and for EVERYONE to feel like they matter. People seem to think that history has absolutely nothing to do with modern-day issues, but social progress is incredibly slow. There are people who are alive and in power right this moment who were around when women's and civil rights weren't taken seriously yet. We are not that far from those times, and it's dangerous to pretend that we are.
My point is, I'm sorry that happened to your father. Our culture is progressing to a point that male abuse is being taken more seriously now. But also please understand the reason why we place more emphasis on marginalized and vulnerable groups. They're the most at risk.
@@lelnope30 This is beautifully and clearly expressed. One of my first housemates was beaten by his girlfriend... and then years later I dated and then got engaged to a man who was viciously treated by his ex and the mother of their child (I still recall some of the horror he went through as she continued to abuse both their child and the system)... yet based on the experience of others I have read about; known; and myself, I also understand the need to keep strong focus on female victims of male violence (or, indeed, the victimisation of any minority people at the hands of members of a majority).
What saddens me terribly, in addition though, is the fact that the people most at risk of male violence are... other men. Especially young men, and often at the hands of other young men. It should be seen and known, and bears repeating.
@@lelnope30 👏👏👏 *perfectly* stated!
@@lelnope30 Wow, beautifully said!!
I couldn't have said that better myself even if I really tried, so thank you.
I am currently pregnant, and in an abusive relationship. This story makes me realize I need to get out before I have this baby.
@Nathalie Marie I finally got out late October had my baby girl November 4th
You can get out girl you are strong an resilient. Us women have to stay strong for our babies. I was in an abusive relationship an on my last night with him i went toe to toe with him. An now i do what i can to help women in these situations
I know I’m replying to this late, but I hope you and your baby are doing okay Cassie ❤️
@@cassiewoods3918 that is awesome....more power to you for being so courageous.... Must've been very hard..... I really wish all the happiness, peace and progress for you and your baby....
@@cassiewoods3918 that’s amazing!!! Congratulations on both!!!
Nobody gets into boiling water. It slowly comes to a boil, sometimes you don’t know when its time to get out.
Ricardo de la Rosa I love that.
yes. and you do try to stay in there until it's just too much
That is the perfect metaphor.
I love this
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Very BEST Analogy EVER!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤
UA-cam DIDNT notify me when you posted .. suspishhh but anyways once again my Monday is now complete😊
Trenicia Starling lol I read that in Baileys voice
Me too!!! Super suspish!!!!
ULTRA SUSPISH!
Saaaaaaame
Trenicia Starling same!! This is the latest I’ve ever watched her videos! I knew my Monday didn’t feel right 😫
The way you handled talking about abusive relationships just- made my day. We need more people like you in this world, honestly.
Evan Fox you are so right.
Agree!!!! 🙌
I am one of the fortunate ones who have never been in this kind of relationship. My mind does not comprehend the situation, but my heart is torn when I hear and see these women with no safe way out.
Can we just have a round of applause for all the police that collected blood/body fluids before they had tech in the hopes that in the future it would help 👏🏻
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My heart when Bailey is sticking up for abusive relationships and not allowing BS comments about not leaving.
SO REFRESHING! IF EVERYONE COULD TRULY LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY! TY❤️⚓️
Yaaaas. I thought that was really respectful. I've been in an abusive relationship and I have no idea why I stuck around for 2 years. I think it was because I wanted someone who would abuse my foster sister like she verbally abused me...I thought I loved him, but I really must have just been holding on to him because I owed him for saving me from her. I think I was more likely to grt hit by her than by him, but it was getting pretty close in both cases.
@@SUGAs_Shadow85 my dad was like that to my mother too. He was abusive, possessive and somewhat paranoid
I stayed with my ex for 6 years cuz he was with me when I lost my grandpa and I thought holding onto him meant holding onto a piece of my grandpa cuz no other boyfriend would have a chance to meet my grandpa and I didn’t want that ... I left when he tried to run me over , luckily that’s the only time it got physical, the whole time it was just emotional abuse and cheating
@@simplytitanium7919 it's really hard when someone you love is connected to someone who brainwashes you. Then you start to think that you have to keep them around for that person or the memory of that person. I'm sorry
why doesn’t she have like millions of subs, i’m obsessed with all her videos
I think Bailey is happy with the subs she has, it's not ALL about numbers... QUALITY over QUANTITY!
Krista Mitchell of course, but i bet if u tell ppl about her videos she would gain soooo fast
She will soon... she's growing fast now
Autumn Arnold Okay, so tell people then 😏
Autumn Arnold Right?! She’s so awesome!
He was literally just found guilty YESTERDAY. They haven’t sentenced him yet, but that is scheduled for next month. Crazy.
Thanks for the update🙌🏾
That’s so-
Yes thanks for the update! I was going to google it because I needed to know what happened!
I'm just watching this episode today. This should be a top comment or something!
Thanks for the info.
What?!
What makes me super mad is that people like him don't even really care about their children, they fight for custody just to be bullies and upset their partner.
Or so they dont have to pay child support🙄
Thank you for shedding that light on abusive relationships. I’m so happy that more UA-camrs are talking about it so that there’s overall more awareness about the topic. Keep doing amazing things Bailey 💕
Ada Florescu same! I’ve read about how your brain literally betrays you in those situations. Also abuse is a cycle, sadly, so it repeats itself until someone takes it upon themselves to break the cycle. I can only speak for myself, I grew up extremely abused. My “dad” was completely sadistic. Abused me in every way you can abuse a person. Just one example to keep this as clean as possible; physically violent while sexually abusing and making fun of me for crying. I was 6 years old. It started as early as my memories and continued until I left the home in my teens. I found myself in abusive relationships not because I consciously sought it out but because it was what I was used to. If someone was nice for too long it felt too weird to me. There is hope! As of 5/25/17 I am 100% abuse free and never pass on standing up for myself. Please feel free to contact me if you want or need to talk about any aspect of this issue. I sincerely love helping others 💕 (any and all conversations can be anonymous and everything will stay between us)
I’m so sorry you had to go through that♥️
Awesome comment!! Hugs
JackieViolet 🤗 hugs!
To add to my previous comment, ANYONE who needs or wants to talk about any of it can contact me. I don’t normally comment so idk if I’m allowed to leave my email here. I am sincerely here for anyone in need. All conversations can be anonymous and WILL be kept confidential. I can’t change my past but I can use it to help others heal from abuse.
YES BAILEY! She said "we are NOT going to have ANY of THOSE comments". SIS WILL SHUT THAT DOWN! Thank you ma'am. We stan an understanding queen.
WE STAN BAILEY YAAAASSS!! That part hit me like a ton of bricks and I loved that she added that!!!
ya better!
She kept her word. I don’t See any of those comments. 👍
They couldnt charge him for repeatedly disobeying court order?! This story is nuts dude.
I guess laws were different in 1900's Australia
Yesenia Rivera 1980’s Australia
Not sure about Australia, but here in the states, custody issues are civil matters, not criminal. So they can't be enforced by law officers. I've been down that road and it's super frustrating.
Erin Modlin same
Erin Modlin No, but they can be held in contempt of court which jail time/time varies depending on the offense in the US. A friend of mine had to have his ex wife held a couple of times.
They did that in Australia to Leonard according to this.
As a woman that was raised in a home with domestic abuse and then still ended up in that kind of relationship, I can honestly say you don't see it coming and it is VERY hard to get out. Thank you for telling people not to hate on those who don't leave.
Same and ended up in multiple abusive relationships. We can’t see our programming until we can! Hope you’re doing well now. Blessings ❤
Girl, your eyes! When you blink and all the colors become visible, it's like one of those gorgeous moths that show spectacular colors when they spread their wings!
Marion von Hagen bruuuh🥺🔥
Described perfectly 🦋
I am imagining butterfly while she was doing her eye shadow. 🦋🦋🦋
Some ones thirsty...
She does such beautiful makeup I love🥺
Oh, i remember way back then, my mom had this one employee that was abused.. she would come to work with bruises on her arm and body.. the husband was smart to not hit her face but once he did so we knew... and for years, we try to talk her to leave him and she did, but he always found her and drag her back home.. and he's "friendly" with the police so you know how that goes.. after a few failed attempt, we (my mom and some of her friends) just collet some money and gave to her, and told her to bring her kids somewhere far far away and not even contact any of us to tell us where she go so that no one would accidentally exposed where she went.. so like, more than 10 years later, my mom got a letter from her saying that she's remarried and have a job... so we're glad she's doing ok and her husband never found her..
that's so nice ! I'm relieved that she's safe now
That's fantastic
I wish there were so many more people in the world that would and could do that for victims...
Wait but how she remarry if she was already married
I'm literally gonna cry
He's been sentenced, but annoyingly he has lived almost all of his life a free man which is disgustingly unfair.
Ikr I don’t want to hear about a sad wrinkly old man in jail. It will make me feel remorse for him. They need to get him in there young when the crimes he did were still fresh.
Three life sentences at age 73 does nothing and the daughter and mother have lived their life in fear for nothing the interview of the daughter and the mother is sad.
It’s unjust is what it is.
@@radbunnie2297 If he was 90 or had Alzheimers I would feel the same but these days you can be 73 and pretty healthy and active. It sounds like his mind is functioning just fine, so at least there is a modicum of justice.
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The fact that the Jehovah Witness community still helped andrea and Trudy, even though they knew they were at risk, gives me a little extra hope in humanity. It’s literally so nice.
(I’m not a Jehovah witness lol)
I love this reply section y’all are literally so nice 😭❤️
Im a Jehovah’s Witness and honestly it means so much to see your comment! Thankyou
I’m a Jehovah’s Witness and this comment made me smile
I'm a Jehovah's witness and thank you for your kind comment. We're always there for each other, no matter what.
@@YaffeAgape your username 😶
Would be nice if JWs would treat their own family who leave the church the same way though
Dudeee I’ve been refreshing the UA-cam page all morning waiting for this bad boy to pop up ❤️❤️❤️😭
Right!!
Me tooo!!!!!
Same..but my time is "all night"
IKR
Same. I found her last Monday. I binged all week long, and was super excited for today!!!
The way the courts handled this guy is why so many women stay in abusive relationships because they aren't protected. Its safer in their minds to appease their controllers than to try & break free. So sad. Poor Andrea!
Not only in their mind, it actually is. The first weeks after a women leaves a partner they are far more likely to be killed than at any other time. And still people act like leaving is the easiest and safest Thing to do
It’s great now days but back then here in Australia it was hard
@@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188 hints why for awhile after I left I didn’t tell my ex where my family I was living with lived and I do my custody exchanges where I am never alone and someone in the house has a gun.
If a person keeps breaking the restraining order, or even only once, that person should be arrested, and charged for entering a prearranged area, that the court has forbidden that person to enter. 3 month imprisonment, for the first time, and up to 7years, for the second time. Problem solved.
Exactly!! I called the law several times on My abusive ex in hopes that he would be locked up at the very least long enough for me to escape. He would be back home beating me before the ink could dry on the paperwork. His mother works for the city we lived in!! And when I was able to get away he would find me and torment whoever was helping me and eventually drag me out by my hair. Finally after 8 years I got away and have been for 4 years .. Still hiding in fear!!
Smh.
This Is why Aqua Tofana was a thing.
I wouldn't complain if it came back
🤣🤣 Aqua tofana is now stuck in my head
Aqua Tofana.
What's Aqua Tofana? 😉😉😉*cough*
@@moxiemaxie3543 * whispers * Aqua Tofana
This man was RIDICULOUSLY EXHAUSTING. How no one managed to turn around and k!ll HIM idk. Poor Andrea and Trudy 😭😭 I hope both of them are living quiet peaceful lives, they deserve it.
me personally i would k!ll him frick Leonard
You need merch that says “get better idols” lol!
Aston Grace yes !!!!
Dark Mystery I accidentally typed “mercy” and not “merch” lol
YES! I'd wear this day in day out
she said she's working on it! she had a design but didn't end up liking it
shelby okay cool lol
Bailey thank you so much for saying what you said about not supporting ppl blaming abuse victims for not leaving.. it shouldn’t need to be said but I’m glad you addressed it! You are so awesome!
I don’t understand why the courts couldn’t throw Leonard into jail for violating his visitations, restraining order, and etc. LIKE TOSS HIM IN THE SLAMMER for being noncompliant.
We don't know what their system was like back then. I've talked to people while traveling in Europe and they say "In the US, people pay for their crimes." Im like, not really. Lol After watching true crime shows about other countries I see what she meant.
Because parents have a right to their children. No parent wants a court to tell them they can’t be around their kids... Not saying he was right (he definitely wasn’t) but that’s why in my opinion.
Nicole Blackmon I don’t really believe that. Having a child doesn’t make you a parent and Leonard was definitely not a parent.
@Elizabeth Gonzalez, exactly!...
Australian, parents started divorce in 2006 (didn't end until 2011), family court system sided more with my father, he claimed my mother was "unfit" and had planned "abandoning" him for a long time (she had left with all his debt paid, and no money for herself). The judge had told my mother he would send her to prison if she tried to claim custody again.
Australian court system is a joke guys and gals.
I use to say that "why didn't they just leave" then I started donating stuff and helping out at the local women's and children's domestic shelter and after talking to them I understand why you can't just leave. I'm sorry for the times I ever made those comments.
So glad you tried to understand the situation through their perspective and changed your opinion! We need more courageous people like you sir.
Bailey: *adds bright blue eyeshadow*
Me: ☺️
Bailey: *adds bright yellow eyeshadow*
Me: 🤨
Bailey: *adds bright pink eyeshadow*
Me: 😮
Bailey: *adds purple eyeshadow*
Me: 🤤
Bailey: *adds lashes*
Me: 🤯😍
lashes always make the look better!
As she was adding the blue, all I could think is that is the most beautiful blue
It's the bombest look I've ever seen. Homegirl is talented .
It always blows my mind how well she knows colors!
It’s odd how the lashes always just bring it together. I wish I could do my makeup I only wear mascara/liner once in a while
That side comment as to toxic relationship made me cry.....You never realize you're in such a bad relationship until you're out....You're so right
Peggy Joseph Same!
Me: sees 43 minute Bailey Sarian video
Me: CLICKS IMMEDIATELY
Right? All those minutes are entertaining! ! ALL OF THEM! ❤💙💜💛💚
Such a freakin' treat!! 😍😍
Right. Priorities.
This case seems like the perfect example of why people don’t leave - the torment doesn’t end when the relationship does
you have single-handedly became my favorite youtuber by just being yourself. you are so special. thank you so much.
Seth Clabough PRETTY 🥳 MUCH
U have really nice hair
You said the exact thing I was thinking!!!!!
Right? Mine too
My mother was in an abusive relationship and for many years I was afraid of late night noises because I knew it was my father hitting her , my point is that my mother was/is a strong woman but it wasn’t as easy as people think to just walk away. Thank you for shedding light on this issue and giving ways to get help!
same except it only got physical a couple of times. still the fear was there. I always got in the middle of it, trying to protect my mother and trying to control the situation. it did take a toll on me, even as a kid. it's tough but hang in there. we're better now
I hope you and your mom are out of there and doing well!
Its often easier to stay. That's what I heard.
with Andrea it is easier, cheaper, and temporarily safer than leaving.
100% it’s not easy. I was in a mentally abusive relationship and when I finally ended it I was scared out of my mind
Shower thoughts: I would buy like 100 bailey merch items in all the colors of her eyeshadow if they all just said, "It's F*ckin' Leonard"
RIGHT ON! ME2
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"Do not leave comments saying well, why didn't she just leave him?" THANK YOU 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Much thank yous
Yess, I was so happy about that. After being in abusive relationships sometimes you dont even clue in that you *can* leave. For whatever reason you have sometimes it doesnt even feel like an option
I can't like this enough tbh
@@Tiana.OC6 Yeah it took me a year & a half. For some reason it just didn't occur to me before that. At least it wasn't longer.
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The fact that this guy kept getting away with everything and kept harassing his ex-wife and taking their daughter away like that infuriates me and my soul
Ive experienced it. You feel even more helpless once you realize you're in a abusive relationship but not even the justice cares. Not worth their time. Judge said, its fault for getting with him. "Just stop contacting eachother ". Denied my order of protection even though he broke into my apartment,had defense wounds and he had a DV legal track record(found out in court)
@@moxiemaxie3543 That judge is awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
@@serenatsukino5252 thank you for your compassion
It should.. This also makes my blood boil ! 🤬
It was a different time.
the laws have changed to stop this kind of madness
70% of women who are killed by abusive partners are killed within the first two weeks of them leaving.
Thank you for sticking up for us survivors. ❤
Edit: I was put in the hospital multiple times by a partner before I finally got enough courage to leave him while he was out getting cigarettes. So seeing so much support for this comment means alot ❤❤🥺🥺🥺
Edit: leaving your abuser increases your risk of death by homicide by 700% which is a terrifying statistic.
This comment should have more upvotes. Leaving puts women in danger, and often, their experiences with the legal system assures them they won't have any protection.
Exactly, thank you ! I point this out every time someone asks why women don’t just leave. If it was that simple, we would. No one wants to be abused.
That's why you should never tell them you are leaving. You sneak your stuff out and then you disappear when he leaves.
@@aprilnicole6847 obviously you've never been in a situation like we are talking about.
Fear for your life will make you feel incompetent. Also I've been tracked down and stalked by exes.
It sounds an awful lot like you're saying "it's your own fault for not leaving"
@@aprilnicole6847 you’ve obviously never been in an abusive relationship
Warwick's 23-month trial was concluded on 6 April 2020, with the verdict pending. Justice Garling noted, "I can inform the parties that it will take a considerable period of time." On 23 July 2020, Warwick was found guilty of all offences for which he was charged, except for the shooting of his brother-in-law Stephen Blanchard.
On 3 September 2020, Leonard Warwick was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. During sentencing proceedings, Supreme Court Justice Peter Garling said that Warwick's crimes "cannot be viewed as anything other than an attack on the very foundations of Australian democracy".
Thank you for the update!
3 life sentences!
6:50 - 8:10 yaaassss!!!! Thank you. As a domestic abuse survivor, (physically and emotionally) thank you. Shut it down!!!!!! 💗💗💗💗💗
You are so strong I am so happy for you ☺️💪🏻
Same we survived
Yes when she said it I was like Yesss Girl out loud.
Us both ❤️
I’m a domestic abuse survivor too!Physically, emotionally, mentally, and verbally. I’m 11 and we left my abusive father 4 weeks ago. It’s been hard to heal I have been struggling with nightmares, flashbacks, and depression and anxiety, but our family is already starting to get better.
Praise Bailey for standing up for those who have been in toxic relationships!! Thank you for shutting those comments down!
I respect her so much for that
I'm a stalking survivor. It's literally the worst thing I've ever experienced. This story broke my heart. I know what it's like to feel hunted like that.
Tell your story 💓
im sorry you went through that.
I couldn't imagine being stalked. I would never feel safe and would be more paranoid than when I get high... sorry, I don't want to make you feel that way, but I already get paranoid sometimes because of my anxiety. I am so sorry that happened to you. Use it to your advantage!! You got this, girl!!
Thank you so much for the supportive comments. That really means a lot to me.
@@lindsayosterhoff2459 that's horrible... No one should have to live that way. I'm so glad they're not a problem anymore and I'm glad you're ok! Maybe consider getting a ccp? My confidence and feeling of safety has risen a lot since I got mine
The worst part of being in an abusive/controlling relationship is that the victim feels helpless, & is afraid that they can't make it on their own. It doesn't help if there's no family or no shelters available, their fears are justified. But once they get the chance to get out, they can breathe.
I love your attitude toward these cases - you’re respectful but straight to the point and blunt about it and I LOVE IT. It’s like hearing the story from a well researched friend lol. Thank you for being you!!
“Truth or consequences she’s coming for you” I’m crying 💀💀💀
UPDATE: Leonard got sentenced with life without parole on September 3rd, 2020
True 👍
Ooh that was my birthday! Best 21st bday present ever ❤️❤️
Sweet!
@@alittlefrog2395 birthday twin! I turned 18 🥰
Hallelujah!
I’ve seen videos recently of other women calling women “weak minded” for not leaving abusive relationships and that makes me feel disgusting and vile that there are other women putting down victims
HARD CLAP for defending Andrea for going back! Been there did that, got out and so proud. it's not easy at all.
@Haylie Renée YOU ARE 100% BETTER THAN HIM. Sending you love and strength!!!!
Man. I’m goin thru it too. I’m starting not too care anymore.
@Haylie Renée you need to stop caring about what they say. Why want someone who makes you feel that way. And when you do finally get out, you won’t feel bad anymore. You’ll be the best you’ve ever been. You’ll be confident and happy and not torn down all the time. It’s so not easy I know. It’s HARD. I hope anyone in that situation is able to get out ❤️
It definitely isn't. We're fighters 💪
I’m 68 yrs and really enjoy your show. You are unique and I encourage you to remain as you are. I’m a newly retired RN and trying to adjust. You give me inspiration during these Covid times.
Bless your heart for your years of service. I don’t think people give nurses nearly enough credit. Enjoy your well-earned retirement! ☺️
thank you for your service QUEEN
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Yes! Thank Goodness for Bailey for us seasoned, retirees to deal with the "Horroooorrs" of this Season of Plagues" and insanity. (I'm to turn 64 this month 🎉🎋🥳)
Anyone watching in July 2020- Leonard has been found guilty of these crimes!
Thank you
Here I am in July 2020. Thanks for the update! I have some googling to do.
Thanks. I love a conclusion. 👍🏼
thanks for the update!
Hahah it’s almost august now 😂 thank you for updating!
As an Australian, this story fills me with shame, and I hope our family courts continue to improve to protect survivors of abusive relationships.
Such a huge issue in Australia even today....😔
@@ariellewilson5867 Urgh, I'm sorry you've had that experience.
"...a low class woman with tattoos and a rough manner...I feel like this is a personal attack."
Dead 🤣
What
You dont like how she talks
plz dont talk
I'm a granny
I know Gods watching over us all
Hope you can stay safe and happy
@@lindaarrington9397 She's quoting Bailey. From minute 36:58 - 37:07. She's not saying Bailey is "low class" etc. She's saying that part made her laugh.
Dying from laughter even though such a serious subject!
Yeah I cracked up at the expression on her face, too
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For my 2021 friends: Leonard Warwick was sentenced to 3 life terms in Sept 2020. Thank goodness! Rewatching again!
Thank you for the update I always wonder when watching these videos before the people are sentenced
This was a frustrating video but I am glad that they finally locked him up
HOORAAAAY!!!
Anyone watching this late: he was found GUILTY and sentenced to life in prison just nine days ago. A Grimm’s style happy ending for sure, but at least he will never be released.
Thank you !! I was reading other comments about this, so happy.
He's around 72,if I'm correct.hope he has 15 more and no sooner discharge due to illness or cause of the age.
Glorious! Thank you!
Oh finally!! Thank you for this news !!!
But Grimm"s takes are so dark and never had a happy ending. There a just like an example for others
When she said that the low class girl as "have tatoos and being rude" felt like a personal attack.. I laughed so hard😂😂😂😂
She makes every story really worth to listen to and watch
I hate when you start putting on your lip products because I know the video’s almost over 😭
Why was Leonard not arrested for violating visitation orders/not dividing assets?? Can anyone from Australia clear this up?
WestCountryGirl he would have been, and then released. Back then domestic issues weren’t taken all that seriously.
custody is not a criminal charge so law can’t do anything about it
Ashton Nobles well custody isn’t (ie if you don’t turn up as agreed etc) , but if he was actually violating the agreement as in ‘kidnapping’ or withholding the child then yes that’s a criminal offense.
@@lisathomson3057 sad thing is they still aren't taken that seriously, at least not in my country. this year around 20 women were killed by their partners here, after they went to the police multiple times. 20 women in my country is a lot lot
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh where u from?
The way you stood up to victim shaming in the beginning made me so happy :) GO OFF MOM ILY💕💕💕
3 and a half years free of my abuser, Thank you Bailey for standing up and explaining you can't just get out of those types of relationships.
im so fricken proud of you!! im so happy you got out im still in one but reading your comment made me happy to know you got out🩷
Your really strong and brave for getting out of that relationship I hope you live a happy life with all your loved ones 💗💗
Love ya girl. I have leukemia am 65 and when i watch you it is like listening to a girl friend talk and do makeup. I am confined to bed...you cheer me up so much. Even though your stories are sad. Love ya Bails.
Hey You!! How are things going for You? I Hope You get better And better, with Lot of love from italy.
Praying for you love! I feel like she's a girl friend and we're gossiping too ☕☺️ Even my boyfriend likes listening when I'm watching her ❤️
You are so strong. Hope you get better
I hope you are well, I also enjoy the feel of girlfriend talk, I am 62 and it feels wonderful to hang with a girlfriend.
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Bailey using any brush as a phone in her stories is my favorite thing ever
It's amazing
And the beauty blender
right?? hahaha
Confused lol
I want a picture of that for merch. Lol I was hoping she'd have it by now. 🤣
"Unless you've been there it just dosent make sense" THIS.
I soooo appreciate the fact that you said you would delete any comments asking why she didn't just leave. Victim blaming is horrible and not helpful at all. You explained that so well, and if you haven't ever experienced an abusive relationship I hope you never do.
I think your theory of Leonard just wanting Trudy for manipulative purposes in proven with the fact that Trudy later moves out after Leonard's wife couldn't, or wouldn't, get along with her. This poor girl was just trapped in this horrific, manipulative web perpetrated by her father. It's really sad.
I can’t imagine getting into a relationship that ends up being this chaotic like what in the world. I hope Andrea and her daughter are well.
Ok I have to ask? Is that u in your profile picture? If so, is that really your hair color? It's gorgeous!
Bianca, PLEASE read Ricardo de la Rosa's comment!!!
Tammy Allen I agree! I when there’s a child involved, it’s even harder to bounce
Easier being single
Never blame the victim of abusive relationships. I was in an abusive relationship and I had no idea how awful it was. I truly thought I was in love and everything he did I deserved. It wasn't until months after the relationship ended that I was able to see how horrible he was and how lucky I was that I got out. Abuse is no joke and you should never blame the victims
Girl, same.
Same, destroyed me
Amen to that! I had a daughter in an emotionally abusive relationship and she is the reason I left it. I couldn't imagine my daughter growing up thinking that emotional abuse (or any abuse) is considered love. I tell her now that if it hurts, it isn't love. I am married to a great man that loves and cherishes my daughter and myself. But sadly before he came into our lives, the damage was done and even now I still have a wall up. It is crazy how even the emotional abuse has a long standing effect on someone.
But it is really frustrating when you're trying to help out the victim/survivor and she either attacks you, sides with her abuser and makes you sound like a crazy liar, or bails him out of jail because "love".
Same here. Then he went on a hate campaign against me, and used the courts to punish me for leaving. And the courts have been supporting him.
I just want to say even two years after this came out, thank you. Thank you for letting people know that getting out of an abusive relationship is hard. Its not easy peasy lemon squeezee. So just simply thank you
Thank your for shedding light on toxic relationships and deleting the comments from people that have never been in one.
I can’t even imagine how scared and helpless Andrea must have felt during all of this, but I totally can’t believe she gave up her daughter to him! 😬
Same
Jennifer Foster she was probubly worried that if she kept running and hiding, that one day he would find her, take her and things could end worse for her.
ugh yes I got so excited when I realized that it’s Monday 😩 never clicked a notification so fast
IKR
Loved how you announced the deletion of negative comments regarding why she couldn’t just leave her abuser. As an ex domestic violence survivor it is very difficult when they manipulate you and isolate you from your family to rely on them solely. I am glad I was able to get out but not happy for him to do this to anyone else😔🥺
Thank you Bailey❤️
That is truly terrifying for a mother to have to drop her child off at an abusers house and not know when she will see her child again :( this makes me so sad, I have a 2 yr old daughter & I can’t imagine this happening
Been there, it's awful
I can...9 years and still on going...
I don’t understand how they kept giving him visitation at all.
Family courts are somethin else..
Family courts will give kids back to someone who fed them antifreeze. It’s messed up
Picel Bit Iv been looking into the secret family courts here in the U.K.. and it’s shocking!!
The family courts are only about money. They will exploit these kids until the end.!! Sad reality
@@bloupe6521 Exactly! It is just about money...not protecting children.
Thank you so much for the comment you made about domestic abuse relationships/manipulative toxic relationships. You couldn’t be more right. Every situation is different but in the end every toxic relationship is difficult to end. Love your videos, thanks for being a real one 💓
I will say that as an abuse survivor, the abusive partner usually controls the money, cuts the person off from family and friends, and convinces them they are worthless. Add in if they have kids, no money, no family or friends, leaving is terrifying for so many reasons. Not to mention, as abusive as they be, they always have that upside where they 'feel bad' and sweet talk promising its the last time.
Your really strong and brave for getting out of that relationship I hope you live a happy life with all your loved ones 💗💗
Update on the case : "On 3 September 2020, Leonard Warwick was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. During sentencing proceedings, Supreme Court Justice Peter Garling said that Warwick's crimes "cannot be viewed as anything other than an attack on the very foundations of Australian democracy." Taken from an article in ABC in Australia.
So, what evidence did they finally find to convict him?
@@gentrykoda She literally said in the video that the laws have changed and circumstantial evidence can be used over physical evidence..
I agree with the abuse thing. I was in a mentally abusive and physically abusive relationship for 4 years. He ended up leaving me for one of the girls he cheated on me with. I was literally on my hands and knees begging this man who hurt me not to leave. I was scared to be alone.
Looking back now, i don’t understand why I did that or even allowed it. Today, I have left men that tried to manipulate me. I now have a wonderful boyfriend who does literally everything.
I'm so sorry that happened to you and I'm very glad that your happy
you didn't allow anything to happen. he did everything. you are not at fault.
I'm glad you are happy now. :)
Sounds like me...in the weeks and months before I decided to go to court and get a RO and have him legally removed from our home while he was in Hawaii with the girlfriend at the same place we had our honeymoon 6 years previously ( on my dime, that's so disgustingand betraying)...
That's what happened to me, my ex boyfriend was manipulative, he leveled me for the girl he was cheating me an even in that moment, with all the lies and the betrayal, I was in my knees, begging for him to come back to me. As today I still wonder, what was I thinking, because I'm not the type of woman who would let anyone do that to me, but he was so manipulative and emotionally abusive that I was brainwashed to believe that I could not lived without him. I'm a happily married woman, with a wonderful Man.
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I clicked as soon as I got the notification omfg I’ve been blessed
sad biss same!
Bruh my notification didn’t go off this time 😢
Your Enthusiasm is refreshing. Thank you.
I got the notifications late annoying
when you said “… and do you remember what Leonard does?” i was thinking in my head “no i do not” and you said “….well if you forgot he was a firefighter.”
thank you lol
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The most dangerous time in an abused woman’s life is when/shortly after leaving 🙁🙁
Exactly
Yes this is true as they are more likely to go back because they believe the abuser.
@@Oddballkane not only that, but also because the abuser realises theyve lost control and do anything to gain that back, which can also mean "If I can't have you, no one can".
I know I was in a relationship with a man who dumped me then with in a few days he was contacting me again he started asking if I still loved him at that time I wasn't sure I said yes turned out he just wanted a friends number so he could date her.
Yes it's been 1 year for me and Im still paranoid that he will find me
We appreciate you Bailey ❤️ and your theme songs
Especially the theme songs 😎😄
Oh the intro songs are litt 😄
I was abused and manipulated for 5 years. And people loooooove saying "why didnt you just leave"? My response, "you ever been in an abusive relationship? No? K then."
Kayla Myers I’m proud of you for leaving! It’s like waking up from a very vivid nightmare but the comfort of the devil you know....sigh sadly too many of us have been there, including men. Abuse is so much more common than people want to admit. 🤗💖 here’s to living our best lives after leaving!
literally
I hope you are doing well now.
@@muskaan3711 I am! Thank you very much! I am not with my abuser anymore and the man I am with now, is very genuine and sweet and not like anything ive encountered. Thank you for your response and checking on me..❤
🤗🤗🤗 sending hugs to you
My mom was in an abusive relationship with my father 20ish years ago, and then again with her second husband, and it truly is hard to leave, thank you for acknowledging that 💞 Only reason she was able to safely leave both times was family and friends helping us (my mom, myself, and my 2 older brothers).
Not only do people in abusive relationship "do stuff that doesnt make sense", its also VERY hard to run away. Especially when you thought you loved that person. And people in abusive relationships cant speak up because they are scared of their abusive partner hurting them more. And people that are controlling and abusive somehow find a way to find you even if you do run away.
ghostee 😫🙏🏼
Gaslighting is big. My abusive ex had my father so wrapped round his finger Dad (i.e. my only living relative apart from my kids) emailed him when my Mother died... 18 MONTHS after I tricked the f**ker out of my house. I got a condolence card in the mail within the week, and that is how I found out.
Needless to say, when it comes to me and Dad, now, it's just lies to ensure some inheritance for my kids. He was always self-absorbed, but he crossed the final line that day.
It's so sad, but also hopefully contains a useful lesson for those who don't "get" the power and reach of an abuser: they will literally reinvent reality to try and keep even some hold over the victim (i.e. "posession", cause yes, you long ago ceased being a person and became an object to them).
exactly..I cannot believe Im still alive after a relationship like that..😰
@xghostee 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I have chills.
They also threaten your family, and friends. You also feel trapped.
Thank you for being respectful towards everyone's religion and towards abuse victims! 💕
Damaris Lopez I agree!!. 😊
Damaris Lopez if your delusions encourage you to stay in a bad situation no matter what, you need to fix yourself
@@christinagarcia9353 umm what?
@@christinagarcia9353 you come across as self absorbed
All people deserve respect but not all religions or ideas deserve respect
If you are stuck in a abusive relationship , remember that just as there was a life before the abuse , there will be a life after the abuse ❤️
Many women are *stuck* in these relationships because leaving will ensure that there is NOT a life after the abuse.
It's common knowledge that a woman is more likely to be killed when attempting to separate from her partner than at any other time.
Anyone enduring physical and emotional torture deserves more than this vapid reminder coming at them.
"wisdom" Ah, insipid content-free language at it's finest. It truly has no innate meaning.
One size fits all bits of wisdom do not exist for those in anguish. How can one be comforted by something that denies the dignity of individual experience.
The horrifying truth that there is no "life after the abuse" for many, ads insult to injury.
*Think* before you speak, think about the person hearing your words, not about how wise you'll sound.
Thank you so much for talking about how abuse affects your brain. When somebody goes through trauma, the frontal lobe shuts down to protect itself and so it's hard to even talk about it. When survivers try to talk about it it doesn't even make sense because the the part of the brain that makes executive decisions and uses logic and all that it isn't working. Also in an abusive relationship the cycle of abuse the love bombing the gaslighting the defamation the discarding all that triggers hormones in your brain and survivers get addicted to it and it's hard to give that up.
Never respected you more than hearing you shutting down those who drag DA victims. 🖤 thank you for using your platform for giving tidbits of truth.
Bailey: *shutting down toxic comments and victim-blamers*
Me: *sits back to LOVE that Tea!* 😍😍😍
Bailey I am a survivor of domestic abuse and I just want to say thank you for sticking up for us and not allowing more abuse by those who don’t understand the cycle.
Same 💖 except I haven't survived yet...im in the midst of it 😭
Bria Abbondanza you can do it I promise!!
Thank you, I'm trying..but walking on those eggshells ugggh!
How did you get out? And how many yrs did it take you?
Bria Abbondanza it took me 5 years of planning and saving. Of coarse my heart strings pulled me because of the children😢
What the heck?! This case gave me anxiety! How is this possible?! No so so bad. Poor Andrea and Trudie and all those innocent people that died... so sad.