Sarah Kay If I should have a daughter Segment from TED TALKS

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024
  • Beautiful piece that makes me reaffirm my stubborn belief in young people.

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  • @MeganJoyce47
    @MeganJoyce47 2 роки тому +120

    Listened for the first time at age 14. Here I am 10 years later with a daughter of my own! Such a beautiful poem.

    • @BrainFoodCafe
      @BrainFoodCafe 2 роки тому +1

      wow.. and 10 years later.. I am single again..

    • @diamondjackson3624
      @diamondjackson3624 Рік тому +1

      I first listened when I was 13 and ten years later for me too

    • @rawmansi
      @rawmansi Рік тому +1

      i chanced upon this 10 years ago too! today i found it again :)

    • @kaynjt3247
      @kaynjt3247 Рік тому +1

      I am in the same position. It's incredible.

  • @TheKirstie92
    @TheKirstie92 7 років тому +123

    This has been my favorite for a while, but I just lost my mom and listening to it again, it took on so much meaning.

  • @demdelthepoet8885
    @demdelthepoet8885 Рік тому +27

    Heard this piece for the first time when i was 16-17, and now...i'm 29 and this piece still resonates with me 🥺🥺 and wow, Sarah sounds so young here!

  • @davelovesdrums
    @davelovesdrums 2 роки тому +28

    Years later and this is still my favourite poem I've ever heard/read ♥️

  • @familyannamarie5052
    @familyannamarie5052 3 місяці тому +3

    I heard this 5 years ago when i was pregnant with my son... now I am pregnant with my daughter and I had to find this because I will write this down and remind her of these exact words!!

  • @mysticmoth1111
    @mysticmoth1111 2 роки тому +15

    The first time I listened years ago I loved the beauty of the message. But now it's so much more powerful because I've internalised all the truths she shares.

  • @KylieFlowers
    @KylieFlowers Рік тому +5

    I remember purchasing this book (one of my favorite poems) when you came to my high school (wow.. almost ten years ago?), and I loved this poem for the mom I could one day be. Now I read it to my daughter, turning one this week.. and I love it even more. Thank you, Sarah.

  • @littledreamer08
    @littledreamer08 11 років тому +46

    My absolute favorite poem ever.

  • @pluviophile9419
    @pluviophile9419 2 роки тому +9

    I remember in college, my professor in a major education course used to let us pick a TED talk and present it in class, I chose this. One of my all-time favourite.

  • @lindacosta5688
    @lindacosta5688 2 роки тому +23

    My daughter told me to listen to this
    She is my ❤️

    • @arjunaseneviratne616
      @arjunaseneviratne616  2 роки тому +2

      Linda... it was the other way for me. I told my daughter to listen to this :)

  • @anneblackwood9013
    @anneblackwood9013 Рік тому +4

    Here I am years later still watching this to reparent myself lol

  • @Jennifer-z6c
    @Jennifer-z6c 3 місяці тому

    I have heard this a million times but now I am 29 weeks with my baby girl. It hits different. Delilah.

  • @azraalagic6935
    @azraalagic6935 6 місяців тому

    This is up to today still my favourite poem and it still makes me weep every time.

  • @LadyMoonsparrow
    @LadyMoonsparrow 2 роки тому +11

    What a wonderful and powerful poet!

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 роки тому

      who paid you to say this

    • @arjunaseneviratne616
      @arjunaseneviratne616  2 роки тому +8

      @@anjel1884 its another person's opinion friend. If it doesn't fit your idea of it... it doesn't really mean a whole lot to either Carolyn or to Sarah. That is what creative work is all about. Some like your work, some hate it. But none who are creative artists attempt to either vilify other's for their likes and dislikes or attempt to shove their opinion down someone else's throat.

  • @BantuMadikizela
    @BantuMadikizela 3 роки тому +11

    what a great piece!

  • @princessmondejar9481
    @princessmondejar9481 3 місяці тому

    I was 16 when I first listened to this, I'm 20 now and I hear everything differently

  • @CheqMaSwag
    @CheqMaSwag 10 років тому +7

    Thanks Tumblr! that was amazing.

  • @joanclaeys9527
    @joanclaeys9527 10 років тому +9

    Ur inspiring

  • @love4075
    @love4075 2 роки тому +4

    So beautiful i wish i had a daughter.😭

  • @gordonpearson7494
    @gordonpearson7494 2 роки тому

    So damn wise and beautiful.

  • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
    @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 роки тому +3

    No hearts breaks that chocolate can’t fix (nice)

  • @mademax1
    @mademax1 2 роки тому +4

    life didn't w8 for me to get back up again... kicked me when I was down...

  • @samoselan6590
    @samoselan6590 2 роки тому

    Soooo trueee bestie!

  • @ManoloRafael
    @ManoloRafael 2 роки тому

    “They’ll be days like, my mama said”

  • @stephenwestcole
    @stephenwestcole 2 роки тому

    The solar systems?

  • @ChaChalynnnn
    @ChaChalynnnn 4 роки тому +2

    ❤ y Micayla

  • @TKAllen
    @TKAllen 2 роки тому

    💙💙💙

  • @davashe_n
    @davashe_n 2 роки тому +1

    🥺🥺🥺❤️

  • @jeffjohnston1961
    @jeffjohnston1961 2 роки тому +1

    Never mind

  • @jennib7387
    @jennib7387 2 роки тому

    Your brother did NOT commit suicide. It was a tragic accident. I have it on a Coroner's report.

  • @SomeCatchyName
    @SomeCatchyName 2 роки тому

    less is more

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 8 місяців тому

    i can’t read by lamont carey is so much better then this crap

  • @azzidopintea4953
    @azzidopintea4953 2 роки тому +2

    Oh Zendaya is a feminist?

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 роки тому

      yassss she is ! a queen! unlike Sarah

    • @KR-vu9mo
      @KR-vu9mo 2 роки тому

      @@anjel1884 what’s wrong with Sarah :(

  • @dmmusicmusic
    @dmmusicmusic Рік тому +1

    this is so incredibly vapid and hollow, nothing could be emptier except those who applaud it or believe it has substance; damn, you people need to try and read some.

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 8 місяців тому

    i hate this

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 8 місяців тому

    this is terrible

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 8 місяців тому

    worst poem ever

  • @guiandre9347
    @guiandre9347 2 роки тому

    What's happening here?

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 8 місяців тому

    this is soooooo trashhhh

  • @anjel1884
    @anjel1884 2 роки тому +1

    god, this is awful!

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 роки тому +5

      If you hate her, then why are you here?

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 роки тому +1

      @@hariomkushwaha9773 school made me watch.

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 роки тому +5

      @@anjel1884 your school has good taste and you don't 😂

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 роки тому

      @@hariomkushwaha9773 lol youre crazed. you like a poem that is harmful where she just assumes what her daughter will be like and enjoy and stereotypes her, plus that god awful singing job in the middle of the poem is so random, uneeded, and straight up stupid. Hariom, get a life.

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 роки тому

      @@anjel1884 haha you r funny (love the personal attacks on me but I'm more self depreciating so i don't feel bad and i initiated that so prolly well deserved).
      Secondly, I honestly don't want to argue with you bcz you are probably a kid still in school and i don't want to waste my energy on this bcz i have realised long ago, that you can't change opinion of someone who doesn't want to. So have a nice day😂