I wish I'd seen this video a year ago. As it is, I just blasted free from his control 4 days ago! He had come back around, telling both me and our 10yo that he knew he was sick and had screwed up and would do better. He insisted on taking us to the beach for Christmas. Had me invite my daughter and granddaughters to join us. We weren't even there 24 hours when the psychological abuse started. He then amped it up before the 6.5 hour drive home! It took a brief intervention by law enforcement, but he ended up driving home alone with no one to abuse.
I left (moved) and went no contact, while my husband was at work! I’ve been completely no contact for 1yr and 3mos! My address and phone number were changed at that time! I am doing great and I want to help someone that needs help, because I am healed now and thriving! My story was very intense, yet I made it through it! Watching videos like yours was very helpful! Thank you so much! God bless! Also, I have no social media, therefore there is no way for him to keep up with my progress! My friends and family have all detached! My life is so peaceful now as I have been traveling to different countries and having different experiences in life!,
Yes…all true! My ex moved out over two years ago because I filed for divorce w/o him knowing until he got served while on a jog. Since then, he has played so many different games. Most I handled with silence, but a few my attorney handled. I am currently dealing with another issue. Detaching completely has been the struggle b/c he is always defying court orders. Two more years until our son graduates from high school, but who know what his dad will still try to do. Narcissists are a menace.
I left (moved) and went no contact, while my husband was at work! I’ve been completely no contact for 1yr and 3mos! My address and phone number were changed at that time! I am doing great and I want to help someone that needs help, because I am healed now and thriving! My story was very intense, yet I made it through it! Watching videos like yours was very helpful! Thank you so much! God bless!
Yes, do not make it an ego game. I know it is tempting. But narcissists are are smarter then you and if you are still have good feelings for them, they can catch you again. It is not easy to navigate their stories. And you do not have to be successful from scratch. But you learn every time more. If you succeed, you can feel really proud. Thank you. You are such an instrumental expert person in this field 👍💜
"Do you."......."Hammer meets Nail" + No Contact!! Obviously some situations make that more difficult...fall back on "Grey Rock" if that is your particular case.. Spot on Anoushka. Chapeau.
Hi 👋 love your video and you! Glad I found you on my feed! My mom is a covert narcissist and just realized she’s a compulsive liar and I can’t trust her at all. She hates me . Keeps wanting me to be jealous of the mother of my nephews 🙄 whom she just “loves” I’m so done with her!
Please please please....be self sufficient and have independent money streams. I was discarded prior to moving to another area for his new job. I haven't seen or heard from him since. He has taken off to a CEO salary and I was left behind jobless, as I was looking for work in the new location. It's the best thing you can do for yourself, take care of you first.
i have one thing to say to you Anoushka THANK YOU! I've been watching a lot of your videos! you've changed my life for the better. keep up your good work on this topic. Your helping so many people with your wisdom!
I still live with my narc wife and two daughters so what about when my kids, who hate me because of her, want lifts in my car, where do I draw the line ? Anybody
What about the job scene? When a narc in charge has total control. I'm too old to start a new career at 60. That's something rarely discussed on here and other related pages. Workplace narcissist job owners. Those in charge . I feel like a slave. 20 years of good, solid performance at this job and almost got fired last year by the new owner for a minor delay.
I am in my 50s. I am a teacher- i was a teacher for the public schools. The amount of bullying I have trudged through these last few years is hard to describe.
I just wanna know WHO are these people, who are trying to get back with a narcissist. WHO are these people, who are watching how to get back with them.🤪
I am aware that the narcissist only realized months after I had gone for good already having blocked. I received messages in very strange ways and instinctively knew they were coming from him, all of which I ignored. I am certain he was trying to gain a reaction by me unblocking and communicating 😂
I still liked this stunning girl whom i thought is an acceptable narc after doing plenty of research here on YT about narcissistic signs and behavior…i decided she is but I have yet to have full proof of it until maybe around after a year or so…currently taking screenshots discreetly as collective evidence of all her seeking attention on social media like shared notes, pics etc…let’s admit it folks they’re not perfect like we are and we should not be quick to judge them from the start
I wish I'd seen this video a year ago. As it is, I just blasted free from his control 4 days ago! He had come back around, telling both me and our 10yo that he knew he was sick and had screwed up and would do better. He insisted on taking us to the beach for Christmas. Had me invite my daughter and granddaughters to join us. We weren't even there 24 hours when the psychological abuse started. He then amped it up before the 6.5 hour drive home! It took a brief intervention by law enforcement, but he ended up driving home alone with no one to abuse.
You always nail it. Your encouragement is second to none, you give us all the strength to escape these narcs! Thank you so much!!!!!👍
Thank you for your lovely comment. Yes I want to empower every single one of you to live your life your way 😊
I left (moved) and went no contact, while my husband was at work! I’ve been completely no contact for 1yr and 3mos! My address and phone number were changed at that time! I am doing great and I want to help someone that needs help, because I am healed now and thriving! My story was very intense, yet I made it through it! Watching videos like yours was very helpful! Thank you so much! God bless! Also, I have no social media, therefore there is no way for him to keep up with my progress! My friends and family have all detached! My life is so peaceful now as I have been traveling to different countries and having different experiences in life!,
Yes…all true! My ex moved out over two years ago because I filed for divorce w/o him knowing until he got served while on a jog. Since then, he has played so many different games. Most I handled with silence, but a few my attorney handled. I am currently dealing with another issue. Detaching completely has been the struggle b/c he is always defying court orders. Two more years until our son graduates from high school, but who know what his dad will still try to do. Narcissists are a menace.
Shock for my Narc was my block in silence. Just I was gone.....silence.
The end. Game over! 😊
I left (moved) and went no contact, while my husband was at work! I’ve been completely no contact for 1yr and 3mos! My address and phone number were changed at that time! I am doing great and I want to help someone that needs help, because I am healed now and thriving! My story was very intense, yet I made it through it! Watching videos like yours was very helpful! Thank you so much! God bless!
Anoushka... you are an amazing soul. Thank you and I know all of this to be very true. 💖
Yes, do not make it an ego game. I know it is tempting. But narcissists are are smarter then you and if you are still have good feelings for them, they can catch you again. It is not easy to navigate their stories. And you do not have to be successful from scratch. But you learn every time more. If you succeed, you can feel really proud. Thank you. You are such an instrumental expert person in this field 👍💜
"Do you."......."Hammer meets Nail"
+ No Contact!! Obviously some situations make that more difficult...fall back on "Grey Rock" if that is your particular case..
Spot on Anoushka. Chapeau.
For sure I did what she wanted before because it was subtle and I didn't see it. Once I did, I wasn't going to unsee it and the fun and games began.
I just love you beautiful lady! Thank you for your support.❤
Dear Anoushka! So good to see you!
Hi 👋 love your video and you! Glad I found you on my feed! My mom is a covert narcissist and just realized she’s a compulsive liar and I can’t trust her at all. She hates me . Keeps wanting me to be jealous of the mother of my nephews 🙄 whom she just “loves” I’m so done with her!
Please please please....be self sufficient and have independent money streams. I was discarded prior to moving to another area for his new job. I haven't seen or heard from him since. He has taken off to a CEO salary and I was left behind jobless, as I was looking for work in the new location. It's the best thing you can do for yourself, take care of you first.
i have one thing to say to you Anoushka THANK YOU! I've been watching a lot of your videos! you've changed my life for the better. keep up your good work on this topic. Your helping so many people with your wisdom!
Excellent...❤💯🥰
I changed my number finally and blocked him on social media. Detached period
Think about it
I never usually do
I still live with my narc wife and two daughters so what about when my kids, who hate me because of her, want lifts in my car, where do I draw the line ? Anybody
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What about the job scene? When a narc in charge has total control. I'm too old to start a new career at 60. That's something rarely discussed on here and other related pages. Workplace narcissist job owners. Those in charge . I feel like a slave.
20 years of good, solid performance at this job and almost got fired last year by the new owner for a minor delay.
I am in my 50s. I am a teacher- i was a teacher for the public schools. The amount of bullying I have trudged through these last few years is hard to describe.
No contact👍
Anouska det eneste er No kontakt og det ved du jo også. Så ha en fantastisk dag 😉👍
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I just wanna know WHO are these people, who are trying to get back with a narcissist. WHO are these people, who are watching how to get back with them.🤪
I am aware that the narcissist only realized months after I had gone for good already having blocked.
I received messages in very strange ways and instinctively knew they were coming from him, all of which I ignored. I am certain he was trying to gain a reaction by me unblocking and communicating 😂
Just need me
Maybe sorry
Actually fucking love you even tho probably shouldn't
So alledgally shoking the narcissist could make u a (shokcissist)j.k.🤣🎉✌🏽✌🏻✌🏿💞💯💞✌🏿✌🏻✌🏽🎉
Gone ,I am gone , I am totally gone , I am not here on UA-cam , I am not watching this video and you are not seeing this message 😂
I still liked this stunning girl whom i thought is an acceptable narc after doing plenty of research here on YT about narcissistic signs and behavior…i decided she is but I have yet to have full proof of it until maybe around after a year or so…currently taking screenshots discreetly as collective evidence of all her seeking attention on social media like shared notes, pics etc…let’s admit it folks they’re not perfect like we are and we should not be quick to judge them from the start
pure clickbait... anyone know how to connect a doorhandle to the mains electricity supply, and make it look like an accident ?