I Got It from My Mama
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- Опубліковано 19 гру 2023
- The plaintiff gave her daughter a loan so she could attend a women’s conference in Miami. However, the plaintiff says her daughter failed to pay back the money and blocked her, so she’s suing. The defendant claims her mother didn’t give her a deadline to pay back the loan. Furthermore, the defendant admits she blocked her mother but that’s because they got into a separate dispute.
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Starting off fake crying and start to laugh is INSANE
Crackhead behavior, surprised he didn’t say it
She only wanted to be on a Show for some extra attention to make over millions of people to feel sorry for her
My mother does that too! A real narcissist
yep she crazy
Exactly!!
“Give her some tissue if she crying fr” JM please 😂😂😂😂
I had to pause to lmao 😂😂
Read this at the exact moment he said that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
this the part that took me out 😭😭😭
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The mom certainly showed her true colors at the end. Clearly doesn’t have an ounce of empathy, remorse or regret towards her daughter … and that’s pretty sad smh
treat your children well or they'll ghost you the first chance they get ..
She shouldn't have borrowed money from the mother she didn't want to be bothered with.
Yeah fuck them deadbeat dad's smh 🤦♂️
Not true nature can turn anyone into a selfish scum bag
Being in the nursing field treat your child/ children good because it's the best thing to do everybody's have to get old some day.
@@RacieRainyou clearly didn’t listen to the whole case. Some people hone in on one thing and don’t pay attention to anything else. She has every intention on paying her mother back, but just because someone lends you money, doesn’t give them a right to mistreat you OR change the terms of the repayment agreement.
I confess: my mind shut down when I saw the mother's crocodile tears quickly metamorphosize into laughter when she was called out by JM. There are very few legitimate reasons to abandon your child. You gave her nothing, and then, you have the audacity to sue her? (May God's blessings and grace be with the daughter -- now and forevermore).
Aaaaaameeeennnn
Exactly!! Makes me appreciate my parents so much. They weren’t perfect but they did a lot for us & would have never abandoned us. They for damn sure would never sue us even if it was over a million dollars!! That’s insanity after being a dead beat!!!!!!
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When the defendant called the plaintiff by her first name. I knew there were issues between them! Which is truly sad!
Well, she didn’t raise her. Why would she call her anything other than Lisa or whatever her name is?
I cannot stand mothers who treat their child like garbage and then once the kid defends themselves or ghost them... all of a sudden they forget everything they've done to their child and play victim.
Smiling lovingly over at her like she did a good job because her daughter speaks well.. Didn’t do a damn thang
Happens sooo often, even expecting the child to look after them in their older age.
This lady was pissing me completely tf off! She should have been begging for forgiveness, not fake crying, smirking & tryna be cute. Ain’t nothing cute about being a dead beat parent 😒
When the daughter called her by her first name i said "Oop"😂😂😂
She wasn't a mother to her
There's nothing more annoying to my ears than hearing someone fake cry 🙄
seriously. They're just talking in a crybaby voice for no reason LOL. Just basically manipulation.
JM always letting his emotions get in the way of ruling with impartiality.
Every dang time!!
In the end he saw through the mother bs. Crazy she switch as soon as he walk out the room.
17:28 daughter was being manipulative and she feels justified because of their history. Judge should have ordered her to pay‼️
Exactly he didn't help her by not doing his job. He basically said it's ok to disrespect your mom in her home and refuse to leave because she sent you to live with your grandma and aunt.
As he has done plenty of times before. He's always said that after a year, that's enough time to expect repayment. He's very fickle, and he often lets his personal feelings do the ruling.
Or given her a date to pay
Case had already finished and 5secs of outro is at 1728 ? 🤷♂️
I AGREE
Mother should have chalked it up to back child support and left it at that. Just making things worse.
Id rather go to JJ than JM. At least she doesn't take things personally.
Nope. JJ cares about nothing. Judges shouldn't put their personal opinions in the verdicts.
The ending told me everything I needed to know about the mom smh
Exactly!!!! Talking about “I don’t want to be a part of anything…. I already have my grandkids” Ugh she made me sooo mad and sad! I’m crying!
Prayers for the daughter. 🙏🏽
FINALLY I'm glad you didn't defend the Mother
Call me devils advocate but you feel like this but didn’t have a problem asking her for money? You should’ve asked someone else
Now that’s true she shouldn’t of took it so what she offered it
I agree
No one sees that she's holding that money over the mother's head. I would just tell her to keep it and allow her to learn the lessons she couldn't teach her
This!!! Judge let his emotions get the best of him on this one. That girl has no intentions in giving it back
@@StyleMeTeem you right i was thinking the same…she trying to get her mother back from the past
Judge Mathis acted on pure emotion. This ruling was unfair. The plaintiff should have been awarded her money and possibly he could have broken it up into payments.
Exactly he was very bias on his ruling she was not intending on paying her back and she still not going to pay her back
she owes her after bringing her into this world unprepared 600$ is nothing
Exactly@@ebonyrave
What are are you talking about, he did order her to pay, he just gave her more time.
Exactly.
Suing your daughter you never raised. smh
Well then the daughter shouldn't have borrowed the money from her mother
@blackestknightx8881 💯 facts
@@blackestknightx8881nah, it’s back pay. I don’t understand loaning money to a child you never raised, instead of just giving it to him
Mathis had way too many cases of Deadbeat Mothers sues their own kids. As a Black Man, this what bothers me about these SELFISH BLACK PARENTS who has Kids UNPREPARED, They think their Kids owes them when they wasn't asked to be here
@@PrincessZaire100 that's not how the arrangement was set up. It was agreed upon to be a loan. The person that borrowed the money understood that as well
The daughter had no right to be on social media exposing the family environment. I would ask her to leave too and if she didnt, i would of asked to police to excort her out. Not every one is attention seeking always on social media. Have some respect for peoples home. Mom should of been paid tue money she was owed. The judge was not fair in this case. Note where is her father?
She was raised by her father (side) his sister, and the mom stated "she reaches out to her father requesting the daughter to call her".
the mother should clean her house and have it presentable, so that she shouldn't be embarrassed about it.
I’m on the fence with this case and the judge. His daddy issues come out every case now.
💯 facts
I used to like judge Mathis but the more cases I watch, the more I question his ruling
@@blackestknightx8881right. He usually says 90 days is reasonable payback time, now with this case it’s pay whenever. Be fair across the board. I’m not taking up for her mother being a deadbeat either. Separate issues.
The hairstyles is so corny….
I agree with you
Judge Mathis your Rude and Disrespectful for talking to the mother like that
I agree sometimes he gets on my nerves. Yes he can be very rude.
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I get her mom wasn't the best but i wouldn't take money from someone i thought was that horrible. She should have got it from the folks who raised her. Im sure she showed off for social media...
Sounds like she probably burned some bridges with the Grandma and Aunt. Probably doing what she did to her mom to them. I don't doubt it was a scam and she went to party and made up a story to get the extra $200.
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No seriously, everyone siding with the daughter and there has to be some level of accountability for her part. My mom didn’t raise me either but I can give credit where credit is due for trying when I got older. Now as far as this case I totally agree with you and JM just irritated the heck out of me.
Idk, I feel like after abandoning your child & they still want to deal with u, nothing should be a loan. She should have just given it to her, that’s the least her mother could do
Let’s not blame the victim
Yeah the defendant shouldve done better raising her daughter but Judge wasn't going let her make it cause he was holding her accountable for what his dad did. The daughter say she forgive her but she tried to manipulate Judge with the backstory to get out of 600 bucks she knows she owe. If she don't want a relationship with her she shouldn't have one with her money either.
Judge your wrong. She still needs to pay her mother.
What if your Mom didn't raised you or disown you, Would you still borrow money from her and you pay her back, even if she didn't have a damn about you?
Agreed!
I agree too! The daughter is not that innocent
@@knightclassic1 key word is borrow.. She should've just asked for it if she wasn't going to pay it back.
@knightclassic1 no matter what this is business, I'm not certain how you're built, but when you owe anyone, PAY THEM.
JM got abandonment issues and is totally biased… judgements always based on emotion and not facts and law.
The judge Verdict was A horrible decision on this case , you could see he didn't like the mom . I get it , The daughter felt as though Her mom wasn't the Best of mom BUT mom was there when she needed that money ! Hmmmm ?
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He does the most. If she felt betrayed or abandoned, don't borrow money, and then block the mother.
She cry then smile wow
I can't. 😂😂😂😂
Wow the daughter is something else. That ending the mama was right. Nobody has to kiss her a** to be able to see the child she hinting at. She tried it . Judge was wrong she should have 30 days to pay her.
But she said it wasn't a child
What is it to give your child $400.00 when you went 19 yrs paying hardly anything? Just gift it to them…..400.00 is such a small amount to gift your child when you’ve been an absentee parent.😢
You have a point. However,maybe the mom wasn't in the position to give it to her.
@@kerrywhite5253 very true! However, thats the cost of being a parent…making sacrifices. It’s tough but being a parent is a choice.
He be in his feelings a lot!!! Her mom needs to take accountability for whatever she neglected in her childhood.
True. On the other hand, if the daughter is stating she'd pay her back, than that's what she needs to do.
This case was sad on both sides. I'm at a lost for words because there's so much deep rooted pain and anger here understandably so. The loan is the least of their problems.
Its always Struggle Black Families, its been going on since Dr King Jr passed
Absolutely the truth. I wholeheartedly agree
Every race faces Abandonment. Black ppl just gets publized and shamed
$600 for 19 years of no support in anyway... Seems fair to me 🤷🏻♀️
Maybe the mother should have gone to the event with her as well, might have been beneficial for both.
The mother's attitude at the end just shows how much she had never cared about her daughter or their "relationship" .. it was appalling
She went from "I don't know what happened to our relationship" ...to...."I don't want anything to do with you" quick 😔
$600 should've been given to her, Not Loaning, Her Mother been owe her more than $600 for Abandonment and Pain & Suffering for haven't been in her life in 19 years
@@knightclassic1 exactly 💯 I am so happy JM applauded the daughters level headedness and accomplishments though having been without Lisa. Because she did have a mother, which was her aunt and grandmother.
The "mother's" demeanour and switch up at the end made my stomach churn
She acts like my dad 😢 I don't even bother him because there's no point.
@@Fannyyyyy_ i'm so sorry...and she has a father too, which means he might have also been a deadbeat if he wasn't deceased or anything of the sort. 🤗 You are better off! Stay strong.
@@gabriellawisteriaI think she talked good about her father
While I sympathize for the daughter, I do believe she got on sm acting out and tbh, that would have fired me up as well. The way sm has a hold over ppl, I can absolutely believe that happened.
SM?
@@PrincessZaire100 think social media
On point, I get ppl are hurt about not having their parents in their life but you can’t continue to hold that over a person head especially when they have tried to build a relationship. Believe me I’ve been in the defendant position but I never still til this day hold that over my mom head. I must understand that is year I will not get back. All I can do is accept who she is now. My sister went to her grave hold a grudge against our parents. I feel like this our parent could had did a lot worse but that’s not what happened
Yes!!! Same space with different places
Exactly how I see it too.
He should never down a mother to the child idk he’s wrong for that!
I think she should have paid her and I believe she did do that to her mom
I feel the defendant had the idea of using her mom & when she asked for her stuff back she'd fake a fallout.. mentally she probably feels that her mom owes her. Smh we never know what our parents went through we should be more mindful of that
And u can tell the mom don’t fuck over her she wouldn’t be saying how she a good person
oh well if she was using her? her mom do her owe her 😭😭😭 are you crazy? that's hella child support 🙇🏿 & if she went through sht, why have a child? & then another? didn't she say, "her son?" ... accountability, is the word of the day 🤎
“Give her tissue if she crying for real!” Come on now unc 😭
Unc be showing out sometimes for no reason 😂😂
@mrs.carter3060 FOR NO REASON 😂😂😂😂
Idk why but I felt like the daughter was just waiting on her chance to tell JM exactly why her & her mom didn’t get along…..she stood there very quietly & patient….then boom!
If this is the way Judge Mathis ruled when he was a REAL judge in detroit, no wonder he had to step down to be a fake tv judge. I feel sorry for the men who got sentenced to ridiculous amounts of time, just cause Greg was in a pissy mood that day.
I’m so sorry but I kinda feel like the mother isn’t as bad as this case made her out to be..she couldn’t care for her child so she left her with family but was apart of her life the whole time… that’s real & that’s showing love rather than other mothers that put their kids in the system 🤷🏽♀️
Right , that’s real that she acknowledged that she wasn’t ready to be a mom . She could’ve abandoned her or put her in foster care .
I feel the same way!!! JM really just gave her the green light to do whatever she want cause her mom didn’t live with her 😒
Sorry for what?
@@shani9165 she also could've not had a slutty lifestyle...
Fathers do it everyday. Can't care for the child leave the relationship and leave the child with mom. Whats the difference ?
The daughter is horrible! Give your mother back her money!!!!
The daughter is terrible????? You must be a bad mother too !
@@LaCrystalHendrix not as bad of a mom as yours! Lazy eye hoeeee!
@@LaCrystalHendrixshe is terrible person. Y’all letting sob stories that doesn’t have to deal with the case blind y’all
@@tagz3924 you must be a bad mom too
She is terrible 😢
The daughter doesn’t even seem fazed by the tears her mother sheds. 😬😢
Edit: However, I do feel like the mother WAS OWED her money. I don’t agree with Judge Mathis on that. If you & someone don’t get along, never take ANYTHING from them.
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Judge Mathis was on the right person side on this one! Unless the “mom” was paying child support while somebody else was raising her child, I feel like she shouldn’t have sued her daughter because if she actually raised her she would’ve spent waaaaaaayyy more than $600
I didn't agree with JM but when I read your comment it opened my eyes to the bigger point. You are right. The mom should have seen it that way too. Hope the mom read your comment. At first I was like daughter should pay her mom back in a timely fashion. But when you point out she didn't even raise her probably didn't contribute financially in her upbringing the mom should have left it alone. Thanks for a good eye opening comment
I agree
She better charge that $600 to the streets. Her crazy self 😂
Very bright inspiring young lady.
The plaintiff exhibits "textbook narcissism" and sociopathy. I can relate and it's a shame.
Yes I did state that I said this is the reason ,she has some type of mental illness but not an excuse
TEXTBOOK! & a lot of these commenters sympathizing are giving textbook “raised by”
syndrome (but don’t know it yet) and/or apologists.
That mother is a piece of work
So if i can not provide a good life for my child, I'm wrong for leaving her in the care of her father and his side of the family? He probably would prefer a mother abort their child or neglect them.
RIGHT, JUDGE MATHIS CAN BE TOTALLY WRONG SOMETIMES AND HE GETS RUDE AND UPSET😮. SHE DID BEST, ESPECIALLY WITH HER FATHER/FAMILY.✌️
Parents should do EVERYTHING in their power to raise the kids they had. Would you say the same thing if the father wasn't there? JM would probably prefer that she got her act together at some point. Her best was never to show up as a mother as a minor at all. Atleast admit it outright, that she didn't even try to be there period. She tried not to even mention it and try skip over the point, and got defensive and say, "So you want to go there!"
@lotusgsxr750 she did, and she determined what was best was for the child's father, you know, the other parent and his family to raise her until she is in a position to do so.
That's not the point, HIS point is, how can you abandon YOUR child and act as if SHE owes YOU.
@@Shaun.T32 did she borrow the money or nah?
This made me call my kids and remind them I love them and support them each answer every day.
Smh the judge did right on this one.
I like how not only do they look Alike but they showed up to court matching as well
This not right she grown she trying to get revenge… This not the way young lady if my mama ask me to leave her home I got to go….
Simple as that.
Who sues their kid off 400?! And thats if you RAISED THEM. She really thinks she doesn't owe her?
Worst trauma 🤔🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ this guy has way to many momma issues
You would be surprised at how many have and still suffer!!💔
He’s right though. It is one of the worst traumas. Our parents are apart of our identity which is super important when it comes to self actualization. Take the parents away, and it is impactful on the way we view the world.
People who never experienced it never will understand. To go through that is soooo traumatic. Thank God I’m a very strong individual who went to therapy. I worked on my trauma but I still to this day never talk to my mom or dad.
The sight of her mother enrages me!! Thank God this girl has resilience because her mother is the epitome of narcissism and that’s not easy to overcome especially when it’s the one person you expect to protect and understand you.
All those tears and then at the very end, we met the real mom. She has y’all fooled. Glad JM saw through her bull.
Judge ruled with personal emotions rather than law in this one! Any small claims judge would have ruled for daughter to pay back or given a reasonable timeframe which it should be paid back! Couple more
Of these and judge Mathis will definitely lose more viewers
the judge was wrong for that verdict ....
Defendant probably needs to let her mother go. When you say they can be good people but it comes with crossfires when you need help.. Thats some narcissistic ways
They both have beautiful brown skin
JM literally always rule from emotion. I knew he was going to find some way to say the Mom lost. Mom definitely seems like a piece of work tho. I think most people in the comments disagree on the ruling
When she said her daughter would clean her house and was like a friend, I knew it was going left after that. 😂
I literally go through the same thing when a woman is raised without a mother it does traumatize you, especially if your mother sees nothing wrong, and always criticizes you 💔
Smiling after crying is despicable. She can’t even fake cry every time she smiles.
That’s back child support , she ain ask to be here . Take care of your kids !!!!!!
She is a beautiful daughter on the inside. She has so much love and grace for her mother I pray that she and her mother, who, because she deserves that relationship.
The daughter running game!
the daughter chantall is so beautiful. and seems like a smart, sweet girl. she is very resilient and emotionally intelligent, with a good head on her shoulders. i am so proud of her, and i wish her the best!
It's a toxic, unhealthy relationship. Classic case of neglected child feels entitled to disrespect the parent because the parent wasn't there for them as kid and the parent feels entitled to a relationship and respect simply because they are the parent. Just pay the lady and go your separate ways. Call on holidays and birthdays, bring the kids over for supervised visits on the holidays and move on.
I feel sorry for the mother she not perfect geez have a heart.
I don’t she abandoned her child she don’t get sympathy
Great episode!!! Similar to what I’m going through. Especially with a parent with mental issues… a lot of elders back in the day with disabilities wanted children so bad for several reasons. To each is own yet the child suffers. I totally feel for the defendant. Smmh
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Same thing me and my sisters went through with our mom who is bipolar
@@Naturalbty85 no family members want to assist my mom. Pensive! Yet I do realize that they didn’t get her the proper medical treatment or learning how to cope with my parent so called disability. The 50’s era I’m pretty sure was rough. As a child I had to research cause I couldn’t understand why so called family wouldn’t help my mom. It’s society fault instead of helping ppl they encourage birth. Yet to once again have ppl go through torment. What a cruel World /Life. Yet I ask to be here before I was even born. My creator Got Us!!!
We choose to come in this life and the people we come through. We have to start asking "what did I come to learn by choosing this",?
@@sgrinnage exactly!!!
Wait, "Get her some tissue if she crying forreal" I'm weak.😂😂😅 I LOVE JUDGE MATHIS
My mother would cuss me tf out if was on fb live telling people her house dirty lol
3:44 “Give her some tissue if she’s crying for real” SCREAMING 🤣🤣
As someone who wasn't raised by my mom... I am on the moms side. I see a delay in mom and I can tell she did the best with what she had. My mom was a teen mom and my grandparents raised me. They wanted my mom to just MAGICALLY get a job and a home. My mom was barely functioning as a damn adult with parents that gave orders and NO MF DIRECTION. Talked bad about my mom to me like she was the problem. My grandparents took good care of me but dropped the ball on still being parents to my mom. My sister was easily brainwashed into thinking my mom was the villain when it really was my grandparents. They weren't bad people, the were just ASS BACKWARDS. The daughter reminds me of my sister. Selfish and will ask a blind dog for money...turn around and act like you robbed her if you ask for it back.
I hope your Children will turn their backs on you when they grow to be adults if you're going to take your kids out
@@knightclassic1 WTF?
@@knightclassic1You're petty never disrespect someone telling there story agree to disagree. A father or mother may have made wrong decisions like most of us do does mean you don't supposed to respect your parents. No matter what parents should still be respected being the strong one shows God your heart because at the end of the day you suppose to honor your father and mother.
yo mama had 18 years to get her life together stop with the excuses i understand people speak down on others but that should have made your mother want better for herself and her child. Dont make excuses for grown adults
She was raised in a "very well" home, interesting 🤔😂 the grandparents always raise their kids🙄
Lol
Wow, that mom was heartless so sad and the daughter looks like her.
What a smart beautiful daughter
They look so much alike ... Both very beautiful women.. I would marvel at my beautiful daughter and want to be a part of her life
Why do Parents who didn't pay NO CHILD SUPPORT nor help financially SUE their Adult Children for Money..
RUN GIRL RUN! I wish I was smart like her but made the mistake of believing my parent cared for me too and would change and regretted it big time. The mom seems like she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They will abuse you one minute and say they love you the next. They are two faced back-stabbers. The fact that she abandoned her daughter then had the gall to sue her for a measly 600 bucks is ridiculous. So sorry for you. You are truly better off on your own. God bless you. I am so happy JM understood cause he was exactly right in this case. :)
Damnnn JM KNW that girl ain't gon pay her😂🤦🏾♀️ SHE REALLY ABOUT TO 😭
That little ass $600 after not taking care of her, her WHOLE LIFE😭😭that’s her moneyyyy ! she owe her more then that shit. I hate bad parents🙄. The judge didn’t hear nothing else after she said she wasn’t a good MOTHER !
she went from crying to smiling and he seen right through her BS
I raised twins sons by myself! It was hard but I did it, they are 31 years old now living productive lives. I could have done better in my parenting, I was just 19 years old when I had them and had no direction. I did the best I knew how. We are working through things now, I told my sons I will never disregard what you are sharing with me that you felt I did, lets deal with this. That is the first part of a childs healing is for the parent to ACKNOWLEDGE their childs feelings and work through it. The daughter was wrong for exposing her on social media, I had that done. Her mom was right there she could have talked to her, she still owes her respect in spit of.
Give your mom a chance, she maybe a wonderful grandmother to your baby💔
She owes her mama the money regardless of the history they have. Judge Mathis awarded The defendant because of her history with her mother not showing up. If they would have been on judge Judy or any other show. It would have been completely different
Their lack of relationship is disheartening. All those comments at the end though from mom...sick
Daughter is disrespectful though even though she potrays as she is just trying to be a nice daughter trying to rekindle a relationship. Aint no way you should be putting your mom on social media without her permission. Healing needs to happen in both ends 🙏🏽
Aside from how sad their relationship is, the daughter should have been given a time frame to pay the money back.
I think their personal issues should be irrelevant to her owing money 🤷🏽♀️
The mother said she’s good 🙄🙄🙄🙄. She is NOT good! Daughter I pray that you continue on your spiritual journey towards peace. I’ve learned and it was a hard pill to swallow but your mother can’t give you something that she just doesn’t have. The moment you expect her to be the mother you want/need, the moment you’ll be disappointed every single time
Crazy and sad I don’t believe anyone should have to feel this way about any of their parents
Whelp, judge balls 😜 crazy was off his meds again!
She was manipulating the situation & cause she was wronged as a child the judge looked passed it, how u gonna get money from someone who doesn't talk to u or block all attempts from u
I have to go against what Judge Mathis said in this case about children growing up without their parents being disrespectful, there are more kids who grow up with their parents who are disrespectful and just flat out bad kids. When it's all said and done, these children grow up to be who they want to be
She said she HAD FORGIVEN HER MOM. HE SHOULD HAVE LET IT GO. He seems to PROJECT UNRESOLVED ISSUES OF HIS OWN ABANDONMENT FROM HIS FATHER ON TO OTHERS
Thank you. People think forgiveness means the same access and that’s NOT the case. Just because I forgive you, that doesn’t mean I have allow you to be in my life. Forgiveness means that situation no longer has any control over me emotionally, and that it’s no longer weighing me down. Forgiveness and forget are two words that don’t belong in the same sentence
How is this man a judge ..the law is the law she clearly owes her mother the money ..he gets emotionally attached to things in there personal life and chooses a side based on that and judges are not supposed to..he need to take notes from Judy
Lawd we have the same name, I’m afraid to watch🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣
I don't agree with the judge. She owes her mother money she admits so she got to pay. There should not be extra time for payment plans. The verdict is biased because of his contempt towards the mother. It is my opinion.