It’s ok Matt you always get there eventually 😆 I agree with y’all on the stories. Get sick as a family 🤣 Good episode. Hope you feel better soon Matt! Hopefully Amy you don’t get it too bad, good luck guys have a good rest of your week!
Matt, telling Amy to go to bed and "the house will wait" is not helpful. Tell her to go to bed (or go play video games) and let her know *you* will take care of the house! She doesn't want to go to bed and wake up later to an even bigger to do list.
Lmao… yall are fantastic and thanks for all that, but has anyone here lived in an 800sqft house with two dogs and 2 kids? There’s no sleep being had my friends. That’s why I try and take the kids and go and do things with them away from the house and get away and let Amy relax… but per your advice maybe she doesn’t need all that. 🤷♂️
That’s the worse for me. IF I get a chance to relax and dad has the toddler, it’s like a bomb went off. Even after a couple hours of nap / tv. So it almost makes it not worth it. Thankfully, he’s gotten better about jumping in and cleaning up after they play, but for a while it was the most frustrating inconsiderate behavior.
I suffer from severe migraines, but my boyfriend is self employed and works long hours operating two different businesses. We have two dogs, chickens, and cats. My dog is a young German Shepherd, who NEEDS his walks. There have been so many days where I have come from working all day while suffering from a migraine (which makes me vomit repeatedly) and I have to come home and walk my dog and take care of the rest of our animals even though I would love nothing more than to sleep the rest of the night away. Not doing those things is not an option, so yes the husband is the asshole for not staying. He could have gone the house chores and walked the dog for her.
What I always appreciate about Matt is how he is always willing to have the conversation, is open, respectful, and concedes if the facts check out. As a man being raised in our patriarchal society, I think a lot of people probably share those patriarchal beliefs we have all been taught and don’t have the opportunity or openness to challenge them. It’s all about having the conversation and being willing consider a schema that might be different from your own. We don’t always get it right sitting down at our kitchen table, but at least we try 🤷🏼♀️ Ps, thanks for listening and being with us!! ❤
@@Amy.TheFlameyes!! For sure. Well said 👏🙏👭🏻 I love you and Matt too! And of course the whole THT and FKS fam! Lol hope you know I was kidding about “Matt giving men” 🤣
@@lilswtangqtgrloh absolutely!! Matt was getting some heat in some other comments- thought I would just pick one to give my two cents 😊 personally I thought your comment was funny 😘
I am struggling sooo so badly 😢 I have been thinking of writing in but I'm scared of your response because deep down I know what I need to do... life is so hard sometimes.. So hard it makes one wonder if it's all worth it. Dont worry I don't mean that in an I wanna hurt myself way I just mean it in the fact that I've been delt such a horrible hand in life it's hard to see the good in much of anything when the things you want are literally impossible to get. Love you guys and so glad your doing well.
I don’t know what you are going through specifically but I can understand the feeling; I am sending you love and good vibes stranger, for what it’s worth. I hope you find a light at the end of your tunnel.
😢I’m sorry you’re struggling! Feel free to write in, but also know that even if you don’t we are cheering you on and sending positive vibes. Life is hard sometimes and I don’t know your situation, but as long as you keep trying “this too will pass” as they say. You’ve got this! ❤
Suck it uppppp sickypants , you are a "grown" adult and can handle a few hours alone , get some damn sleep because you are sick ...no need to shame your partner for not being there every single second you "need" them...
The badge of honor thing and the “calling in sick for household duties” - is perfect Amy! I’ve never heard it better explained than that
It’s ok Matt you always get there eventually 😆 I agree with y’all on the stories. Get sick as a family 🤣 Good episode. Hope you feel better soon Matt! Hopefully Amy you don’t get it too bad, good luck guys have a good rest of your week!
Matt, telling Amy to go to bed and "the house will wait" is not helpful. Tell her to go to bed (or go play video games) and let her know *you* will take care of the house! She doesn't want to go to bed and wake up later to an even bigger to do list.
Facts
Matt’s takes are always terrible.
Exactly like he can lift a finger and not wait for her to feel better to continue doing the housework. You got hands too, bro. Pick up a broom.
Lmao… yall are fantastic and thanks for all that, but has anyone here lived in an 800sqft house with two dogs and 2 kids? There’s no sleep being had my friends. That’s why I try and take the kids and go and do things with them away from the house and get away and let Amy relax… but per your advice maybe she doesn’t need all that. 🤷♂️
That’s the worse for me. IF I get a chance to relax and dad has the toddler, it’s like a bomb went off. Even after a couple hours of nap / tv. So it almost makes it not worth it. Thankfully, he’s gotten better about jumping in and cleaning up after they play, but for a while it was the most frustrating inconsiderate behavior.
Also just getting over being sick, perfect episode ❤ wishing good health for you guys and everyone else over here!
Same here, Amy! Been taking care of the sick husband for the last week and I keep psyching myself out 😂 still not sick though!! I think…. 😂
Me nodding vigorously to the comment saying the primary parent doesn't "get to be" sick.
Woohoo!! 🎉❤ love you guys!!
I just got over being sick.
I still had to work on those days too.
Fun...
A bug is crawling throughout the Midwest 😷 sending good vibes a
I suffer from severe migraines, but my boyfriend is self employed and works long hours operating two different businesses. We have two dogs, chickens, and cats. My dog is a young German Shepherd, who NEEDS his walks. There have been so many days where I have come from working all day while suffering from a migraine (which makes me vomit repeatedly) and I have to come home and walk my dog and take care of the rest of our animals even though I would love nothing more than to sleep the rest of the night away. Not doing those things is not an option, so yes the husband is the asshole for not staying. He could have gone the house chores and walked the dog for her.
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Lmao Matt… he’s is giving “men” 😒🙄🤣
What I always appreciate about Matt is how he is always willing to have the conversation, is open, respectful, and concedes if the facts check out. As a man being raised in our patriarchal society, I think a lot of people probably share those patriarchal beliefs we have all been taught and don’t have the opportunity or openness to challenge them. It’s all about having the conversation and being willing consider a schema that might be different from your own. We don’t always get it right sitting down at our kitchen table, but at least we try 🤷🏼♀️
Ps, thanks for listening and being with us!! ❤
@@Amy.TheFlameyes!! For sure. Well said 👏🙏👭🏻 I love you and Matt too! And of course the whole THT and FKS fam! Lol hope you know I was kidding about “Matt giving men” 🤣
@@lilswtangqtgrloh absolutely!! Matt was getting some heat in some other comments- thought I would just pick one to give my two cents 😊 personally I thought your comment was funny 😘
@@lilswtangqtgrlit’s ok, I understand 🥰 sometimes I do give “men” 😂 thanks for listening - Matt
When Matt sleeps it’s loud cuz she is cleaning. When she sleeps u can hear a pin drop… cuz he’s playing video games with his head set on haha
Exactly!!!!
generally speaking... i feel like most women can power thru sickness because we have to endure periods every month🤧
I am struggling sooo so badly 😢
I have been thinking of writing in but I'm scared of your response because deep down I know what I need to do... life is so hard sometimes..
So hard it makes one wonder if it's all worth it.
Dont worry I don't mean that in an I wanna hurt myself way I just mean it in the fact that I've been delt such a horrible hand in life it's hard to see the good in much of anything when the things you want are literally impossible to get.
Love you guys and so glad your doing well.
I don’t know what you are going through specifically but I can understand the feeling; I am sending you love and good vibes stranger, for what it’s worth. I hope you find a light at the end of your tunnel.
Write in, there is always hope! If you were looking for a sign to do it, here it is! Write in! You got this!
😢I’m sorry you’re struggling! Feel free to write in, but also know that even if you don’t we are cheering you on and sending positive vibes. Life is hard sometimes and I don’t know your situation, but as long as you keep trying “this too will pass” as they say. You’ve got this! ❤
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Suck it uppppp sickypants , you are a "grown" adult and can handle a few hours alone , get some damn sleep because you are sick ...no need to shame your partner for not being there every single second you "need" them...