Inner Space: Talinda Bennington On Husband Chester's Suicide & Mental Health
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- Опубліковано 28 кві 2024
- Talinda Bennington, wife of Linkin Park vocalist Chester Bennington, joins Dr. Barbara Van Dahlen on Inner Space to discuss the circumstances surrounding her husband's tragic suicide in 2017, her journey over the last 2 years, and the work she's doing to help others.
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*"When my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done. Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed."*
Don't resent me, when you're feeling empty, keep me in your memory, and leave out all the rest.
*LEAVE OUT ALL THE REST*
@nipulkradmsinatagras8293 💚RIP Chester, God bless you as well!!🧡
In 2016 I heard my first Linkin Park song by chance, it was New Divide. I was 7 years old then. My mother came into the room and said "Oh, that must be Linkin Park!". Then I looked into music on my iPad and actually discovered the “Linkin Park” field. I clicked on it and discovered a couple of songs, for example “Breaking the Habit” or “In the End”. I liked the songs and sometimes I listened to them. Then came July 2017 and the news said, "Chester Bennington hanged himself!" My mother was devastated. I was a little sad, but it wasn't that bad for me as I didn't know who died. I was only 8 years old. But now, at the beginning of 2021, I've rediscovered Linkin Park. I've listened to a couple of albums and it's only now that I realize what a terrible tragedy happened in 2017. Miss u Chaz💗
Yeah.our brother chester and I don't care what anybody says he was and still is and will always be the best there ever was.i can't live a day without hearing his music.weed alcohol and brother chester is the party that's never going to end for me anyways as long as I have any breath in my lungs.C.HA,Z. FOREVER R.I.P. BROTHER
Brave woman, good mother, thank you for these great things.
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Mmm yeah great but moved on soon
Living with a person with depression, there is a chance you can get depressed yourself. There are some hellish moments by living with a person with depression. It is not like "he is just sad I should cheer him up" it is like dealing with his emotional rollercoaster. As much as I liked chester, behind closed doors he might have some unstable state and moments which could happen frequently. And Talinda could not handle herself. For some people who think she was just plain cheater while taking care of his kids until now. I hope someday you would experience how to live with depressed people. Depressed people can be kind hearted most angelic human being on earth, but also there are times they can be the most unreasonable person and you cannot easily understand and they could occasionally hurt you without meaning to
Thank you, I do know we aren’t easy to deal with as. Thank you for still being with as I’m the good and the bad.
yea when my son was/is suicidal it triggers my suicide ideation but i have to hide it lest I make HIS worse. It's so hard.
@Sophie [Jodoin] Bennington What?
@Christy Slow Shocked to see someone mention brain inflammation. It's so true. Science hasn't fully acknowledged it yet.
@fukachan1412 Yes, it is hard living with depression for either or any person. I have lived with depression myself for so many years (probably my whole life to a degree), but realize that people do not understand those who have it, and depressed people are only trying to reach out to get help, understanding, and all of what they need when they accidentally hurt someone. So I believe it is best to have a strategy of how you can protect yourself physically and what words you can say to communicate healthily and effectively to the person without hurting them, while keeping hope and prayer, and keep loving them. And if you need to move out and you can where the depressed person has someone else who truly knows enough that is about it that they help them, maybe find a different house to live in. Just someone advise from how I see it 💜
I have mental health problems, PTSD & Depression. I try to educate people by not being ashamed that I see a therapist & take medication.
I love that you have used Chester's microphone so your children can say what they want to their Dad. It broke my heart when your son said he says via the microphone for his Dad & recently passed dog to show up in his dreams. I really hope that works.
Dreams of loved ones who have passed i think are a way our loved one who have passed can keep them alive in dreams. It was a beautiful, touching idea. Plus reclaiming the room that Chester had passed in. That's very important. I comend for setting up a foundation in Chester's honor 320.
You are such an inspiration.
Everyone should not be ashamed if a loved one chooses suicide. As you have said they are not themselves when they choose suicide. 💗💗💗
Good for you for seeking help. Rather than ignorant people who are actually doing nothing but judging others. Wish you a good health 🙏🏻
@abbycatlover2013 I agree, and you are a brave soul for saying all that without fear of what critics of people who love Chester Bennington might say. I agree about the dreams part and reclaiming the room 💓.
Also I agree that no one should be ashamed if someone they know chooses suicide, or even if an individual themselves chooses it, because most likely no one can relate to or maybe have even witnessed what they have gone through in their life, especially if it happened internally.
We all have pain we go through, we do not know how God would judge it, and no one has the right to act like God by judging someone as shameful for wanting or trying to take their life, especially people who have not been through the experience or at least had a loved that wants to take their life. Those kind of people don't realize that those who desire to take their life are just trying to escape horrible pain that no one should be forced to go through, especially from people in society that cannot connect to their experience or their situation.
God bless you💕
omg people just picture yourself in her situation. I too love Chester, for me he was like an angel walking the earth, but he was still human and sometimes living with someone with clinical depression can be hell on earth and many times you just miss those signs that should alarm you. It's not always crystal clear, especially with mental illnesses. I think she handled it admirably and honestly thought that 320 is an amzing campaign and truly honors Chester's life and brings a light to his struggles making a space for people to learn and also trying to erase the stigma. Like she said: Chester wouldn't want to leave them with a burden, especially a shameful one. and I think that was his life message in general.
Absolutely!
True, shout-out with this comment
I don't know if she is being honest or not. I never knew her well, not more than the wife of my favorite singer. Her body language, locked legs, swallowing a lot, speaking with low voice speaks about grief. It's brave to go in front of the camera after such thing. And starting the activity and helping other people. After all, it's what Chester was doing.
People speak about truth. What truth? None of us was in their home, in LP tourbuss, a few met him in person and spoke with Chester. Even his closest friends, guys from the band, his wife says they had no idea, no signs this would happen. So how fans or aside people could CLAIM it was a suicide, or murder, or he was or wasn't depressed?
There are lines not to be crossed by third sides. People love drama so much. Just pay some respect to the man and keep a minute silence. He did more than enough for all of us.
I had the same thought. It's all speculation.
Of course she's not being honest; she would absolutely have been threatened to keep her mouth shut about what really happened... or else. I don't know if you have looked into his autopsy report & heard about one of the police who was at the crime seen? He wouldn't give his name for security reasons but said it was definitely a cover-up. It was never reported that the door he was found h@nging from was 10cm shorter than he was & he also had 3 br0ken ribs; I'm sure you know he & Cornell were working on a project to expose child s3x @buse & name names. It is also very likely his real dad was J0hn P0d3sta, very high up in U.S politics & I've heard he was the 'older family friend' who @bus3d him. If you look at photos, they look almost identical.
@aireswildchild Very true. The best we can do is avoid assumptions like there was some conspiracy involved in his death, and show respect by meaningful moments of mourning, showing love and support to his family, bandmates, friends, and fans, listening to Linkin Park music or any music he made if an individual so desires, and carrying on his legacy of loving patience to fellow human beings we encounter, even if they are causing a problem and we need them to stop.
I had a situation recently on one of Linkin Park's videos in which someone was making assumptions about Chester and causing harm through that and maybe leading other people to make assumptions that were not true on the subject, and I had to draw on the inspiration of Chester's legacy to me to help me have the patience I believe God has been leading me in to respond reasonably calmly and tell the person to stop. Fortunately after some go arounds, they did.
👏👏👏👏👏
I never comment on UA-cam but I feel like there is a need for a comment here that is different from the rest. Everyone shits on Talinda for recovering well from her husband’s brutal death. I don’t think a lot of people here went through something like this. She has children, she was a single mom at the time, she had a lot of attention on her, her husband’s family was busy asking for his money, her own son started having depression. As much as it might have hurt she probably didn’t have the time to cry. She had to put her children’s feelings before hers. It’s the same as having a rush of adrenaline. She went on vacancy a month after his passing, and for you it’s because she didn’t care. But the father of her children died in their house, it must’ve been heavy to live in it. They probably needed some time out, some time to relax. Some time thinking about something else. Everyone spends their time accusing Chester’s closed ones and the band of moving on too fast. But those people have cameras on them, asking them to act dramatic, to show their tears. I can’t imagine the pressure of having to perform grief to avoid looking suspicious. The reality of losing someone means that sometimes you’re too drained to even cry. These people don’t owe you their tears just to make everything look more tragic and make you feel comfortable.
She remarried. I’m happy for her. She can have someone to help her raise her children. They didn’t have as much time as their older brothers with their father so I can only wish for them to have a male figure in their lives that can take care of them. It’s not like he’s ever going to replace Chester, but there’s no need to be selfish. He wasn’t just your idol. Her life doesn’t have to be so tragic. So I’m happy for her and for her kids for finding some sense of normalcy again.
And can you guys please stop accusing her of not helping him ? He was a grown man, he was talking about his problems because he OWNED them. He was taking care of himself, like everyone recovering from depression does. A lot of people lose themselves to depression because they think that feeling loved will change their lives. But the reality is that you have to save yourself when you have depression. People can understand you, implore you to stay, if you’re too sick and confused to take that decision on your own, help isn’t going to change that. The only thing someone else can do for you is hold your hand while you heal yourself. He was openly talking about his problems because he thought he was healing.
And maybe he was recovering. Or trying to. But his friend died, and prior to his death he drank. See the thing with mental illnesses is that you are your own prison at some point, and he might have felt alone, or felt like he failed himself by drinking. Who knows really ? No one. But it’s extremely toxic to accuse other people for what’s happening in someone’s head. She couldn’t understand him back then, and was she wrong ? After all everyone thought he was finally handling it. I mean he was laughing the day before, who could’ve known ?? It was just too much for him at the time.
After all she’s done to raise awareness, you come for her to say that she hasn’t done enough ? She’s basically admitting that this tragic event pushed her into educating herself even more. She wants to help people do what her husband couldn’t do. And you come for her ? She already must feel so guilty.
Guys it’s time to stop romanticizing everything. You don’t own Chester. Stop listening to the people in this story who make the most drama. He was a human being, not just your favorite singer. Not everything has to be an episode of Criminal Minds. Those people have feelings and you’re just insulting them and their experiences because you have some savior fantasies. At least for the sake of the kids involved you should just swallow your words and show some respect so they don’t find all these terrible comments all over social media when they’ll be able to use the Internet. It’s still their parents.
Thank you! Everything you've said is so true in these situations. We appreciate you voicing this.
Very much well said.
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Thank you.
Thank you for that statement. ❤️
Chester and I have the same birthday 3/20 and I share so many of the struggles he had. It’s just chilling that we have the same birthday
I really don’t get why people hated her for it. I’m pretty sure Chester loved and trusted her. Just leave her alone already!
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I guess because he went to his friends funeral and saw all that pain and then copy cat it.😢 and did it at their house. She s mad at that and felt he was selfish .Some wonder if Chris and him planned it together. They both left behind a ton of destruction
@@MiamiGirl123 Those words are unkind and do not help Talinda, Chester, or any of their family, friends or the LP community. Please do not talk like that again.
1 Peter 3:8 "Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind."
Ephesians 4:32 "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."
Luke 6:35 "But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil."
God bless you, and have a good day! 🤗
To be honest, I'm also suffering from depression and anxiety. I totally understand how Chester was feeling. 😢
how could he do what he did when he had it made?
@@sticksbassmoney doesn’t buy happiness. Look at Robin Williams
@@luckywin2142 didnt rw have bad health probs?
@patchelton7942 I have too. You're not alone, there are so many people on here who have experienced it, and who have been helped by Chester's music. Have you listened to any of Chester's music? It has helped so many people through depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and I think self-harm, etc. type situations by letting them know they are not alone and someone cares and hears. That is so powerful in a world of so much hate, where many people rather judge another person without knowing them well enough, rather than truly listen to them.
@@sticksbass Yes, I believe Chester had bad health problems, that can compound it.
Chester will be always be in my heart rip my hero
If someone falls down, what do you do? You pick them up.
I learned about Chester's suicide after I came back from Gamescom 2017 where I had the best time of my life... and then I was shattered, his death really hurt then and still does now. I wish I could have met him :(
It's okay. I'm a fan since #2000 ##HYBRIDTHEORY and I wish.... in #2009 I coulded say hi.... in person.... no VIP ticket access :(
Don't feel bad. You are awesome and wonderful just for being a fan... 🌻
@void1754 Oh, I'm so sorry, he helped so many, including me with depression and other issues. I also wish I could have met him, thank you so much for commenting. 🥲💜
I'm shocked at people commenting on her engagement. What business is it of anyone?? People deal with grief and complex feelings in different ways. And if a positive thing happens to come into your life (or was already on the way) what does that matter to the issue at hand? She's clearly still hurting from a major loss and choosing to share and be proactive to try to help others. She also clearly addresses the fact that at the time this happened she didn't know enough about what she could've done. No one ever expects something like this to actually happen.
Suicide is a personal choice, the people in your life don't make you do it, it's something you choose or fall victim to. And other people shouldn't stay stuck in their lives because of it.
@@lizybethmendoza2817 You sure seem like a nice person ;)
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Rest and peace Chester Bennington my favourite singer of Linkin Park and my favourite band
Thank you both for your hard work and bringing this disease to light. It's happening! People are listening! THANK YOU!!
@behape_4evr Yes! Thank you for your comment, it's so good every time to see more people who are on board with spreading awareness about what is actually going on will mental health and the issues therein. I so very much want more people to awaken to the difference between a person and an illness or a challenge they have in their mind! 😄🤗
ok i'm just gonna say this, something's off here and doesn't sit right with me and i've felt that, no matter how i tried to ignore that feeling since the moment chester passed and talinda has become super active on social media. having sad that, i don't necessarily buy into the murder conspiracy theories and i'm also not one of those accusing her of not loving him, especially now with her early engagement...to those people i say, you have no idea what it's like to spend over 10years with someone who's suffering from depression. no matter how much you love that person, it takes its toll. all i say is, there's more to chester and talinda's story we don't know of and probably never will.
No conspiracy he was murdered along w/Chris Cornell. I thought conspiracy people were mad and nuts until you start to connect the dots. Chester and Chris were working on a documentary about child trafficking. John Podesta looks just like Chester and I believe is Chester's dad. Podesta has links to the Clinton's and Epstein which is all connected to pedophile rings no joke, I wish it was not true.
@@mjohnson1741 i know about all of this, have looked into this a bit myself as well. not saying it's impossible, but not convinced either.
@@KB-ej8hm At least your keeping open minded, namaste.
The murder conspiracy theorists are honestly wasting their time trying to prove something to themselves. I think with so-called “evidence” they’re trying to present is unfathomable and I wouldn’t see how that could “prove” a murder.
@HOW DARE YOU exactly! Why would she let him leave alone knowing that the next day would be a horrible time for him!!!
God bless this woman❤️🙌🏻
Chester sir was a great artist, in his great lyrics he mentioned """"" LIFT ME UP, LET ME GO....." indeed sad. The Catalyst
I’m glad she’s been able to find love after a loss. However, I honestly hope that at a time so soon after Chester’s passing, that the engagement is not an escape from the pain.
Rest In Peace Chester. We’ll always love you, and I wish you the best Talinda 🙏
A lot of people that commented here deserve to experience trauma, just to finally understand, or at least get a glimpse, of what Chester went through. What a disgusting bunch of humans. It’s like you refuse to believe that the people you look up to are capable of making bad decisions.
@beeburn2880 While I agree that lots of people who have commented on youtube on the Chester Bennington videos don't seem to have an inkling of what he went through and act very wrongly and not realize that people in positions of influence are human and make mistakes like everyone else, some people do understand at least some of what it is like, because they have had depression or other mental health struggles.
I've had depression myself, and when I get upset, angry or frustrated at the way someone is treating Chester or one of his loved ones, I keep myself calm and patient by remembering the kind of person Chester was, and the kind of example he left for me: to love people patiently, instead of expecting them to measure up to a certain standard or look or act a certain way, like many of the people who are attacking Chester do. So I encourage you to use that example he left us to keep your head up and be able to stay about the despair they can get you mired in if you stoop to the level of their nonsense. Chester's speech at his last show is good for doing that 🤗💚🧡❤🩹
I'm depressed...sometimes I want to reenact Saw movies..this world is hell ❤
R.I.P. Chester
I saw and heard you hurting and I couldn't help you.
Im sorry I failed you.
@andreasullivan2419 Right here with you in the same boat ❤🩹🧡
How do you fail someone who doesn't even know you?
Maybe he took his life because maybe he knew that her and her now husband had something going on. He was alone in his house. We honestly don't know why. He said the 1st divorce was very difficult for him and to probably have another or someone abuse your trust... Shit. There's something about her I don't like.
I don't think so.
I think you have no idea of what really happened, or were you there and see that house was empty??
Please, stop reading gossipish bullshits. This woman is trying to live further, while leading the action towards mental awareness, dedicating this to him.
or you really think she had to live stream how she cries, screams, asks for help, and stay in that condition for the rest of her life. You think she must give up on her and her children's lives?
You really think that person that suffered from the loss, does not deserve to feel relief, happiness, care, and support?
@@to252 everyone deserves to be happy hell so did Chester Bennington I bet shes happy spending his money. Vicky hasn't remarried in behind Chris???? I dont trust her it's just a vibe I pick up on it's me, I ,my it's not all bout her
@@glendahoman1157 I think it is none of your business to judge how these innocent women struggle with their losses.
It is not your money, you really think that CB would be happy to know that his loved person and kids would have problems with money? Of course not. She could just disappear and not give a shit about the problem of mental awareness. But she did not. She is doing everything in order to spread the information about mental problems, about its severity, about the programs and services that can help everybody who are losing their battles. She is doing her best to not allow the her loved one's name disappear, she is acting for the sake of him, his life, his battles. She called her non-commercial campaign "320" because of the date when the Angel was born in the earth: March of 20th.
Just leave her, please. But if you are the type of person who thinks that people have to be killed in their loss and never smile again, never allow themselves to feel alive, I would say, PLEASE EDUCATE YOURSELF.
If you're a fan of CB, why did not you get his message that he was sending all over his incredible music? Conquer the hatred with Love...
I miss Chester. 😭😭😭🕊🕊🕊
Legends Never Die ❤❤🤘🤘
She seems a little disconnected.
Is she drugged or just a psychopath?
Both
But I can see her voice cracked while she saying about Chester !
You guys should experience trauma yourself. If you can still show emotions in a normal way, there is a chance you can express yourself in a way that normal people can easily understand. But if you were so stressed & lost, you will feel numb and disconnected.
Everybody hating on Talinda, Chester chose to leave her and his family, remember? You can't judge how long it takes someone to move on, it's so personal
100000%
You also can't judge someone who is so stressed, with money not being an issue, that they leave their family.
You can't judge Chester! You don't how much he suffered. You are so cruel. Never forget you can be in the same situation maybe in the future. You never know how your life changing. By the way Talinda chose to be with him in bad and good times. That is marriage about not only money. And I don't judge her. But you shouldn't judge Chester. That's a shame.
People like you makes other to commit suicide. You are rude and heartless I'm cyring now. That's why i hate life. Judge yourself before you write something like this.
Mental health can be seen and diagnosed but falls considerably short with the help that is needed. Costs are so out of reach for most people. Therapy only lasts for so many sessions in Uk. Particularly the nhs in Uk are so stretched. People are just struggling everywhere.
How many sessions does it cover?
@cindyroberts6056 That's so true, and that's a reason why I am hoping to find a way to start making mental health services better and more available and affordable with the help of people I know ewhen I can. I have experienced and seen the need for mental health support throughout my life.
Talinda makes me tender! She's not a fake person, you can see how much she suffers from Chester's death... it's normal to change your mind and have a negative opinion about that person! But I don't know whether or not she was involved in his death! I'm thoughtful... but you can see that she is a good person and a good mother!❤
SHE IS FAKE
Engaged to another man after one year after his death, not dating BUT engaged so when did she start dating?. She's full of crap! I always felt this whole story was weird..🤔🤔🤔
Where did u learn that it was a year? Who told you? Why did you click on that article which disturbs the PRIVATE LIVE OF YOUR BELOVED SINGER'S FAMILY?
Why are you blaming his widow, without knowing a single thing about what she has been through?!
The conversation was mainly about how she is battling to raise mental awareness in the world, the issue that made your beloved singer be struggled and feel pain for most of his life. But you decided to point out to some gossip and blame someone who is trying to be alive and be okay for her and your beloved's singer's children.
very sad proves to show even money and fame will not buy you happiness
🙏🙏🙏🙏that's where legends Exists ☺️ lift me up let me gooo
Really proud of you Talinda, you said it! Something great has come out from the worst situation. I think something is changing in the people's minds too, we have so much work to do, but you definitely have started something really big.
Last thing, I want you to know that for a lot of fans , Chester is never gone. We remember him constantly. His voice is a precious legacy that we feel in our bones every second that we listen to it.
Sorry for my English
Thank you so much Talinda
Papercut, firstly, your English was perfectly fine..don't apologize. Secondly, this woman does NOT care!! She doesn't want anyone who is a Linkin Park fan to follow her on social media "she requested that". You are very polite and have great manners...but now you need to seek the truth of the situation. It is very bad. Chester's life was stolen. That is why I responded to your comment. It is not to be forgotten or ignored. It would be very wrong to do that. But see for yourself and please seek the truth.
It really doesn't matter how long it was time waits for nobody we have to keep going and if that's what it took for her to keep going then so be it
I'm pissed, I shouldn't but I am, she was engaged when this video came out. I haven't even been able to get over chester's dead and it took her 1 year to find another man ? Really weird...
And started dated her now husband 3 months after Chester passed makes it even worse! Told by Chester brother in law!
Really??
You dont know his personal life.
@@cb-zc8dv His wife did nothing after Chris Cornell died for two months and then sent him home to be alone on Chris’s birthday.... you really should sit with that and re-think defending her.
@@bobsidog you there is remark if u haven't gotten over Chester's death its creepy not it means ur a true&loyal fan I dont think she loved him like she should have. The more I read bout her the madder I get Chester was a loving caring soul who had been thru hell shame on her karma is a bitch. I hope that dear sweet dude found peace in the afterlife. God I miss you Chester hope yoy&Chris are singing loud!!!!
I loved that she rides her horse. I was going through a lot for many years and I would ride my horse to just get out in nature and just ride. Riding can help you not think about everything going on at home and life. It’s peaceful. You can talk to god’ Or maybe for her Chester. ❤️
Her strength is amazing. I wish I was 1/2 that strong. I bet Chester is so proud.
I just think it's weird that her Twitter was hacked just hours after he was found dead and then not only that she was literally texting draven off of his dead father's phone just a little while after he died. Nobody else finds that odd?
What’s that thing about twitter and texting of his phone? Never heard about that
@@AnnaMartynova519 Dravens mother did an interview about it, the day after Chester died Talindas twitter was allegedly hacked. There is some surviving screenshots on Google. It was very odd.
I’ve just checked, all the twits were on Jul 21 meaning after his death and I think she hacked. Or maybe there are some other twits posted on Jul 19?
Chester Eternamente. 😍
Give this lady a break!! It is what it is, no matter what he was so depressed. It is soo hard for people that don't have depression to have the ability to recognize how depression is. It scares them ,they just can't understand. They lash out and say your not normal like me. This indeed makes someone with depression hide their feelings more and act like, nothing is wrong. It is horrible to hide your feelings of despair. We do isolate, self medicate, cry alone vomit theses feelings out. No person wants to make others nervous or sad. This depression is awful. It makes you feel sad alone and guilty for having your loved ones have to deal with it.
Brave women. Great mother. Keep moving forward.
She is so beautiful and strong. I absolutely love her. Especially since everything point to his death being a murder rather than a suicide.
She has really protected her family with so much strength and courage.
Woman espetacular talinda eres mui fuert todos nós sentimos a perda de CHESTER BENNINGTOM imagina a esposa os filhos 😢😢😢🇧🇷 THANKS chester Nice 👏 THANKS Linkin park 🇧🇷🇧🇷
I'm going to leave this video in like one's so people can share light in discontent and discomfort and discourage of her....
He was off depression meds for 4 months. She KNEW that. She shouldn't have let him get off them.
She is not his Dr or his babysitter
His choice.
Talinda is a very brave woman. No one can make anyone take their medication. He was an adult and it was a decision that Chester made. As heartbroken as so many people are over his passing, we should lift Talinda and her children up. My father remarried 2 days short of 6 months after my mom died. My ex always had a side "chick" during his 5 marriages. That is just how it is. I personally am happy for her. She could have just as easily slipped into a deep depression but she made the choice to find help not only for herself and her children but for anyone who suffers from mental illness. #TeamTalinda
It is the year 2023 , and I'm seeing this interview , for those still unwise enough to tell, she was the main reason he killed himself, and anyone who has being in his situation can relate, he unfortunately had a horrible childhood and little fatherly guidance, he was lonely and left to face his daemos.Despite the ods he became successful and a great artist, but that kind of environment did not help him to get his needed relieve and clarity, finally he make a fatal mistake, he trusted this woman who wasn't and never will be a wife as a partner, he trusted her, more than he should, he loved her, she betrayed him,the pain, the shame and the sadness was too heavy to bear, take a look at this interview and remember she engaged and married her lover short after his death, also already divorced him.But here she is with the complicity of many pretending some misterious causes worsened his depression, for all those who loved Chester, let him be a helpful warning even now, help him leave bihind even more reasons to be missed, leave out all the rest.
Thank you for your thoughtful response!
@@DCP It was VERY thoughtful response☮️♾🖤
Do you have any evidence to back up what you said or are you just a basement dweller who has to make up shit about people when they're grieiving?
Do you have any proof of what you’re saying? What makes you think she was cheating? Even if true we don’t know if that’s the reason. Chester had been depressed for many years.
I am married ok? my husband is my best friend!! he really really is! if something like that happened to him I would be literally broken for the rest of my life, why she seems fine?
She's fine because she never loved Chester !!!
YOU REALLY THINK THAT HE WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEE HIS LOVED WIFE DEDICATING HER LIFE TO PAIN AND NEVER ALLOWING HERSELF TO EVEN SMILE?
Why are you judging a person without knowing a thing about what she is going through? Do not compare others with yourself.
Long-lasting and never-ending grief is going to make a person crazy, depressed, and definitely will make the person die by suicide. Therefore it is okay, it is needed to heal the grief and heal the pain, and let the happiness enter life. Unless you want his children to become orphans
Just have 2 more small comments, then I'm out: Two "soul-mates" are dead, "now we can have a plastic surgery party!" AND someone needs to hear Samantha Bennington's comments, especially when she says her & Chester's son, Draven, was getting phone calls from Chester's phone after his death & they were not welcome to CB's funeral.
What’s the thing about phone calls? Never heard of it before
@@AnnaMartynova519 Talinda didn't allow Chester's ex-wife Samantha and the son he had with her, to attend the funeral.
@@Dylan-bl7xl that’s disgusting
Stop, they were there just not with all their previous friends from the times of their marriage. It's been so long now and you still spread lies. Samantha was acting as every hurt ex-wife I suppose.
this interview is awesome i love chester so much, talinda is doing such a good thing by helping others with mental health. Keep it up! I suffer from depression and I feel for everything that's said in this
Thanks for watching! We very much agree. We hope you're getting the support you need, don't be afraid to ask for help. It's okay to not be okay!
He was murdered and obviously Talinda was already cheating on him!
@@mjohnson1741 and you know this because????? Judemental sally
@@mjohnson1741 yup
@@mjohnson1741 HE WAS NOT MURDERED,YOUR AN IDIOT THAT DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT SO BYE BIOTCH!
Reading the comments here makes me understand why this woman wouldn’t want anything to do with any of you.
Yet she's more than happy and willing to do these sensationalized interviews that essentially she light on her "virtue signaling" endeavor. If she really cared she would do this silently and not bring her kids into this publicly. Her and Cornell's wife act identical it's disturbing.
@@Domewall so raising awareness for mental health is sensationalizing now? My God, you really are stupid.
@@Domewall Her kids aren't anywhere in this interview, you damn idiot
they promote her as a woman who was successful in helping her husband mentally with his depression and mental health, this is ridiculous, the truth is that she drove him more in his depression and left him emotionally, if she had not done what I said chester would still alive, what is the purpose of promoting her as a leader in helping people with depression if she does not help her own husband? Everyone has rewarded her after Chester's death, the truth about her on how to get out or rather NEVER get into depression is: get another person before your partner dies and when he dies marry the person you had already known and that’s how you will never go into depression and more importantly: get rid of guilt in front of people and you will see how you will live very happily helping others because you never felt what others feel ...
So true. Absolutely agree
She’s indulged into this whole Depression Organization because she feels obligated to do so because of she is GUILTY.
She was UNFAITHFUL.
She is RESPONSIBILE for his death.
why she never helped him while he was still there? it's very frustrating ...
Im sure she did. When you listen to him talk about his battles, its clear he has had therapy and medications. Theres just not enough and its so hard to treat
@@toeachitsown2050
if his close circle (family/band) manipulated/abused/neglected him and caused those symptoms, wouldn’t it make more sense to address the abuse? ... you know, address the root cause?
@@bobsidog yes, of course. His abuse was from childhood though and perhaps he never addressed it directly
@@toeachitsown2050
uh, no ... this is just another blameshifting thing his abusers are floating, pathetic. Just gaslighting him all over again. And they are using this 30-year-old trauma to shift the blame unfairly to his mother and sister which is disgusting. ... try again ...
@@bobsidog sorry, what are you referring to?
And ready for the next marriage I see........dang, she was engaged probably during the time of this video.
Oh yes,most men (like you?) would stay alone and raise 3 kids with no shoulder to lean on ;)
I'm not sure if you just forgot the fact that for the whole duration of his marriage with Talinda which is 12 years Chester was battling depression and substance abuse (the latter being the reason Samantha divorced him), neither did she leave him nor expose her and his own struggles to the media even after his first suicide attempt (which she tried hard to conceal not to traumatize children). That's the kind of wife she was. And she did not leave him alone at home during his "hardest times"-they were on holiday together with kids and her and he left earlier convincing her he has to return for photoshoots and promoting One More Light. She still did not get married, she is currently engaged. And she only announced engagement in September 2019, which is more than 2 years after Chester's passing away. So your facts and assumptions are wrong. I hate how people jumped on bandwagon of pouring dirt on this woman whom Chester truly loved and cherished. And I have no doubt she loved and cherished him the same way-and only God knows what she went through in their marriage.
I mean I love Chester probably more than anybody commenting here but it’s still been more than 2 years since his passing. Talinda probably started dating a year after which is reasonable or maybe just ran into someone she clicked with, it happens. Being engaged a year later potentially is also something that does happen. So even as a big Chester fan, I don’t see a foul here, little early for most but it’s not like she’s engaged 3 months after he died.
You should watch his interview where he speaks about his birthday-Talinda was home with him, it was his choice to watch tv all day and nap before having family dinner and home made desert-not sure where you get your information from ;) It was his decision to return home from vacation after assuring everyone it's for the morning interviews and photo-shoot. I understand life is easier when you find someone to blame. Same with your allegations about her not talking to her LP family-especially when part of that family spits vile,cruel abuse towards her on every occasion forgetting the fact Chester was happily married to her 10+ years. Talinda expressed all of that very well on her instagram recently. Fortunately she's way more outspoken than some of LP "fans" that come to her page to abuse and ridicule.
@@undertherowantree1717
funny how everyone wants to do damage control for tali’s f-ups ... SMDH
It’s like smell fishy why she didn’t make an effort to give a beautiful grave for chester! Chester deserve to have a grave so that his kids, family , relatives and fans can visit him! Why? I think Talinda can afford that, and it’s Chester’s money! He work hard to earned! Or maybe Chester know that she’s cheating on him ? to fast to move on i cant believed! I am also a widow my japanese husband died same Chester suicide! I am not perfect but honestly I am still a widowed until now it’s been 10 years since my late husband died! Yes! I am just a human sometimes im attracted to someone but I chose to stay single maybe because i still love my husband or maybe I’m afraid to love again! But no regret im happy with my two daughters we’re just like a sister’s ! I’m sorry I hope Talinda is happy now and the kids well! I miss Chester’s voice and smile 😊 forgive me if my comment is too harsh!
gentot ha maybe they do have something for Chester. They probably kept it low key and just in the family because it is incredibly personal.
mark rigg I think so! I agree 😞 i hope her new husband love thier kids! Because we all knew that Chester is a loving father even to his son in a first wife he always make time to bonding and support financially! 😞
Whoa did they really not bury him?
Tali and the new guy Michael have now divorced ~ i guess they accomplished what they needed to. They home-wrecked and ran off Chester ~ tali tipped Michael out, and he left. ...🤬’n jerks!
Writing helps me very much too let old stuff out of me too people who i can trust, on my channels at youtube😌
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Alguien que pueda sub en español 🙏🙏🙏
Didn't know she remarried so soon
Yh she did to a fire fighter
Man, she reassembles Chester so much. I picture her bald and the resemblance is uncanny
I can't believe people go to these videos just to shit on her in the comments. She didn't do this when he was alive because she didn't understand how bad it was. The same way his band mates, and everyone around him, didn't. You don't want to believe that it could be that bad, you're in denial. So stop giving her shit for not 'stopping' him (not to mention, she couldn't stop him. At the end of the day, he is the only one who could have helped himself).
And even if you don't like her, the message she is trying to spread is a good and important one, and by making the comment section flooded with hate towards her you're taking attention away from it and interfering with that cause.
12:05
When she’s sloppy with her words the truth slips out.
^Freudian-slip:
*the best situation possible came out of losing their father*
if that’s not shady then idk what is 😳
Do you know him personaly? No, so dont judge her.
Pilgrims Nest
sorry broh, When people put themselves out in public and make a video you kind of get to “be there” so yeah
That seemed like an answer in response to what she'd like her work to make her kids feel when their older.. what's more worrying is at 1.25 she says well that's part of the story, right?? When asked to explain what happened to Chester. But she's nowhere near as shady and evil than VK..I think this one quickly clicked onto that she had no choice but to shut up and move on. But that other thing..knew all the way what she brought Chris into cos of her money hungry ways and wanting to mix with the wealthy and powerful. And she was at least 4 even 5 months pregnant at their wedding..that's 100% truth.
When she said the best situation possible came out of losing their father, you totally misunderstood her. She just wants to make sure that the *least bad* situation comes out of Chester's passing for her children. She wants to minimize damage. Though she's still very suspicious to me.
Love you talinda... you're everything chester needed in life...blessed to have you helping
And it's a free country so I say it from my heart cause us the fans are still hurting and she it's a liar
His suicide didn't affect me. I tend to be numb to emotions. But then an old friend of mine killed himself and he posted a photo of Chester before he did. It made everything change. Suicide is such a dark topic. It's hard to fully comprehend.
When i lay on my couch and watch TV my depression instantly rise, becouse there is too much shit to be seen xD
If you widowed and married again like Talinda Friedman Bentley no longer Bennington why she keeps using his name for fame? I think I did a knockout there.... I don't like her since the interview she did to #CNN she said: "I CAN'T RELATE" 🙄😵😱
Did she not f*cking cheat on him??????
WRONG! NOT THE MUSIC WORLD THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD ACHES FOR THIS MAN EVERYDAY!!!
nope
The she talk, She looks like Chester
You don’t except someone will commit suicide. You comfort yourself with the thought that it will get better, unfortunately most people don’t see the signs and when they do see it it is already too late. I attempted to commit suicide, nobody in my surroundings was expecting this. People with suïcidale tendencies don’t talk about how they want to kill them selves, but you can hear the cries for help if you listen.
Very true and the worst is you can't talk about your deepest thoughts your pain and about your suicide thoughts its something people don't want to hear so you keep it and hide it you put on a fake smile and lie all is fine and thats so sad and painful
She was already engaged when this video came out lol.
That's ok why should she be alone time waits for nobody
damn took her 1yearto move on, she never loved him =/ prob contributed to death
@@BulgarianBicep Most likely
I really hope you're kidding. That's ridiculous.
@@RikkuChaser I wish I was. She was already engaged at least 2 months before this video came out which means she has been engaged in under 2 years of Chester's passing. I'm no judge but does not look right considering she was married to him over 10 years and just starts over in a year after her husband "commits" suicide.
A wonderful women
No .
Pretty courageous
Pm Spiro
Let me guess, she wants to start a non profit so she can launder money.
sad for her loss but she seems sooooo disconnected and just into herself.
So weird
Porque ella era parte del problema que bueno se caso y ojala y no pueda divorciarse de Michael Friedman. Que salvo los fans reales como yo. Ella es una loca y punto.
The truth is, committing suicide is selfish because you are not hurting yourself, you hurting others for rest of their life. Regardless, we are to be alive so we can be ambassador for Jesus Christ. That is the truth. We want to support people where this truth is lived. Help is available if anyone needs help with suicidal thoughts ❤🙏❤ The Bible is the answer for Life.
Chester actually wanted out of the marriage better he took his own life
This is a fact. Just read his first wifes book.
This is a lie .Annything that comes out of Sam is a lie .That woman is bitter af. Amd has lied about many things .She loves to spin the Chester and I were close friends amd made up. But those close to Chester know he hated sam . Just dealt with her cause he had to .
So we are supposed to learn how to be ‘emotionally well’ from that completely emotionless woman lol Her eyes have zero emotion/compassion for Chester.
I'm not gay but she is very pretty
She & Vicky, Chris Cornell's wife, had a plastic surgery party soon as their husbands passed. Chris & Chester, best friends, both die of hanging (not by their own hands) Chester right on what would've been CC's 53rd B-day.
1964 stop lying. and even when she did, it is none of your business.
@@Btooa What makes you think I'm lying? Minion?
You need your eyes checked honey.
1964 Also breast implants
She was gonna divorce CHESTER period. But she didn't for MONEY and NOT MAKE IT PUBLIC ANYMORE
These comments are fucking gross and it’s very clear that none of you have ever lost your partner or father, mother (in my case), sister or brother to suicide before. How she’s talking is completely fine and being “disconnected” as some of you are accusing of her of when you’re speaking of that person who committed suicide and trying to hold it together for a minute so you don’t burst into tears when speaking of what happened is normal. You’re all appalling, but I guess that’s expected from UA-cam’s comment section.
These people’s idea of real life is a twitter feed. It’s shocking to see how many people don’t understand how hard it is to move on after a loved one passes, especially after suicide. Their idea of anger is when amazon can’t offer same day delivery.
@@PetulaGuimaraes😂😂😂 So true!!!!
She’s indulged into this whole Depression Organization thing because she feels obligated to do so. She is GUILTY.
She was UNFAITHFUL and
She is RESPONSIBILE for his death.
Got any evidence of that? Maybe she wants to do it because depression took away her husband and she wants to help people who are going through the same thing. Be considerate, dipshit
DEFINITELY
Wow, what a strong woman Talinda is.. absolute respect and love xx
Love you Talinda! Mwah!
For a love that was supposedly that great and children, I believe it’s just disrespectful moving on that quickly, why make it public? I get that Chester left but he had depression and you signed up for that. You signed up for the chance of suicide when you married him. A lot of people say what business is it but it’s about respect.. that was supposed to be a proper bond, love, so for ten years and daughters etc seems too soon, disrespectful
NAMI helps
“The entire country is protesting for their rights, Talinda is using Chester’s $ to take his family’s free speech rights away” ~ does it get any more tone deaf than this?
This was recorded almost 2 years ago in 2018
DCP Entertainment i know its an update of what shes doing right now. She doesn’t care about anyone’s mental health. She’s a hypocrite and a phony.
chester was murdered !!
NO HE WAS NOT!
No he wasn’t
No he wasn't if chester was murder people would said that so stop taking at the end of day you wouldn't there when chester passed away
So fake
Yup
Holy smokes... that is one amazing Woman! Strong, eloquent, insightful, intelligent... a beautiful soul with compassion. Stay strong!
@Did you just Assume My Gender Normally I don't like that word being used against women. However she does fit the description...
We're twitter posts true or conspiracy
Не хуя не понимаю!
Stop bullshitting and leave the woman. None of you knows a thing about what she is going through. She is educating herself and many others, she is taking proactive steps to raise mental awareness, to stop the global stigma of mentally ill people, that it is okay to not be okay. Some of you calling this a shit, but exactly this issue made your beloved singer's life full of pain, lost battles, and endless struggles.
Instead of sharing the thoughts, supporting this non-commercial movement, you are spreading gossip awareness, and you are judging a woman, whom you do not even know in person. Even if you'd know, you really think that if she survived the loss, she has to drown herself in pain and repeat the heartbreaking thing of July 2017?? And never allow herself to feel alive, care for her children, feel the support and love??? Then, I may conclude you never get the idea of Chester's music and for what he was fighting for.
She screwed in a closet at a party. Enough said.
elon musuk would love to tap into to Great minds
Well didnt bother her that much she soon moved on
Scam
SHIFTING EYES........ TELLING LIES.............