How to tell if a guy is SERIOUS about His Pursuit

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  • @kanjagkollaeller
    @kanjagkollaeller 3 роки тому +68

    1 what is his intentions w/you?
    2 potential future envisioned?
    3 no social secrecy
    4 accountability is key
    5 genuinely interested in you
    6 building his relly w/YHWH

  • @denissevargas2385
    @denissevargas2385 5 років тому +67

    100,000,0000% true! Thank you for creating this.

    • @joehouston2833
      @joehouston2833 4 роки тому +1

      In dating, that honor begins when you follow the second principle of dating: provide clarity to the other person. In Ephesians 4:15, Paul says a hallmark of the people of Jesus is that they “[speak] the truth in love.” Proverbs 24:26 declares an honest answer is a kiss on the lips. It is a sign of respect and love to tell someone the truth. So muster the courage to graciously tell the other person what you think, how you feel, and what you would like to do.

  • @ruthchristian1692
    @ruthchristian1692 4 роки тому +25

    Instead of asking my friends for advice about a guy, I'll just click this lol thank you for the video. Christian advice is always the best advice !

  • @softlifeera404
    @softlifeera404 3 роки тому +12

    Yes i want my husband to have the accountability traits and being genuinely interested in me and having a real relationship with God but cautious because the devil will send someone with these traits too sooooo now im celibate healing and chilling until God sends him 🙏🏽

  • @maamecxo3701
    @maamecxo3701 5 років тому +19

    Let the church say AMEN🙏🏾I totally agree

  • @tinashemushazhirwa3346
    @tinashemushazhirwa3346 4 роки тому +16

    Wish i could like this twice🙏🙏🙏

  • @92Kandee
    @92Kandee 5 років тому +45

    Is it wrong to want a man that is financially stable? I know his money is his own, but as a husband; he will be the head of our home & therefore, i need to know that he can provide for us. Talking about money makes some people uneasy but i feel it's necessary to have these conversations to prevent marrying a person who's financially irresponsible.
    Can you actually do a video on what to ask on a first date? 😂

    • @CgirlAJGM
      @CgirlAJGM 5 років тому +18

      That's a must, I would say.
      The men should be able to provide for his family. That's the order God established from the beginning.

    • @92Kandee
      @92Kandee 5 років тому +3

      @@CgirlAJGM but you know how men are, they'd feel offended if we were to tell them we expect them to provide for us. How do i go about discussing it with a potential partner?

    • @CgirlAJGM
      @CgirlAJGM 5 років тому +15

      @@92Kandee well, I don't know about the men where you're from, but where I live it' s the opposite: men are expected to provide for their family, and they feel pretty bad and ashamed if they can't do it.
      That's the order God established, and a godly mature man will understand that's his role. If he doesn't, he's not ready to form a family, so move on sister...

    • @bombonzrocks
      @bombonzrocks 4 роки тому +14

      Keke_SA Trust me sister, a real Godly man would never get offended with the idea of giving and provide his family. In this fallen world and specially in this fallen generation men of the world don’t respect women... not all of them, but the vast majority only want our bodies and then bye. Or stay with me but you pay your things and you pay me if you can. But that’s not of God. In a real relationship of God both help each other to grow and work hard to shine together, but the man will always know that his priority is to love and provide his family. Love and provide. ‘Cause there are men that have no problem with providing but then they don’t want to love their wives and children... and that’s so sad too. God bless you sister, that Godly man is on his way to your life... keep praying.

    • @bombonzrocks
      @bombonzrocks 4 роки тому

      Angie Garcia That’s true. God bless you!

  • @lodorv2647
    @lodorv2647 5 років тому +19

    I see a godlydating101 video. I like the video.

  • @heavenlyjoy
    @heavenlyjoy 5 років тому +1

    I’ve been waiting for this video. Saw this on Facebook and came on UA-cam to watch it❤️

  • @andrearonaldo11
    @andrearonaldo11 5 років тому +3

    Well done! I also like how you get straight to the point! Keep it up!

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner 5 років тому +2

    Wish I knew some of these basic things roughly two years ago. Thank God for growth and thanks for this!

  • @christinereinerahman9904
    @christinereinerahman9904 4 роки тому +1

    🙌🏾 I needed this, thank you.

  • @kimberlysimon3469
    @kimberlysimon3469 5 років тому +14

    straight to the point 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 God bless you for being open.

  • @Tfouch09
    @Tfouch09 Рік тому

    I’m so blessed I have a man God brought into my life that checks all these boxes! Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!!!

  • @mickeymichelle9067
    @mickeymichelle9067 3 роки тому +2

    I see the Lord has really grown me up🥰 this is amazing!

  • @CaitlynCarrie
    @CaitlynCarrie 3 роки тому +8

    I’m a year late on the video but this is soooo good 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @PamelaGrace31
    @PamelaGrace31 5 років тому +6

    Your videos are amazing! Please keep them coming!

  • @theedailyshannon
    @theedailyshannon 5 років тому +4

    Yeah I don’t really care about the quality lol you guys are doing great. I looove it. So thankful for you guys. Wish y’all the best♥️ either way I’m filled UP.

  • @khh26
    @khh26 5 років тому +13

    Idc what it is I just love seeing y’all post 👏🏾🔥

  • @roseannjabonillo9290
    @roseannjabonillo9290 4 роки тому +3

    God's will in the right time 💝

  • @jeneciagallimore7096
    @jeneciagallimore7096 2 роки тому +1

    Wow god bless u man u hit the nail on the head

  • @astridrogers3640
    @astridrogers3640 5 років тому +1

    This video validates a lot for me thank you!

  • @jaceemae4648
    @jaceemae4648 2 роки тому

    Thank for sharing that! Great message for men's.Have a bless day. ✌️

  • @Patrizia4Christ
    @Patrizia4Christ 2 роки тому

    So good! Thank you for sharing. I can say that I have been blessed with a man of God just as you described him!!! Hallelujah! And btw. that colour (T-shirt) makes your melanin pop bro!!!

  • @patienceawodiran9030
    @patienceawodiran9030 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much, I was so blessed by this

  • @Growninfaith
    @Growninfaith 2 роки тому

    Amen!! Thanks brother!!👍🏼🙏🏼💓😎🤗

  • @dianedehart
    @dianedehart 4 роки тому +1

    Accountable! Very good point

  • @ludniethelisma7434
    @ludniethelisma7434 5 років тому +1

    You on point with everything you said

  • @justjny5799
    @justjny5799 5 років тому +6

    Lol this video is an answer to my prayers

  • @mauriceglass2854
    @mauriceglass2854 5 років тому +6

    Thank you for this video it helps so much

  • @fondasmith4696
    @fondasmith4696 5 років тому +1

    Love this! Thanks!

  • @Swest1
    @Swest1 5 років тому +1

    Great information and thanks for it!

  • @cherlissasellman598
    @cherlissasellman598 5 років тому +1

    Love this!!!

  • @madisonb3
    @madisonb3 5 років тому

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @KarlElTv
    @KarlElTv 2 роки тому +1

    Great vid!

  • @lavender7natural
    @lavender7natural 5 років тому +2

    Great stuff

  • @antoniomaqueda7249
    @antoniomaqueda7249 2 роки тому

    AMENNN ONLY GOD'S APROVAL!!👍🏾👍🏾🦅🦅

  • @couronneeclatante224
    @couronneeclatante224 5 років тому +1

    Excellent !

  • @moxie3610
    @moxie3610 3 роки тому

    This video is gold im saving for when i have a mans and imma compare him. He better be ready 👀

  • @janicerichards8959
    @janicerichards8959 2 роки тому

    On Point and correct Amen lot of women engage for 5-10 yrs😎😎😎. I am into Asian & Korean movies ❤❤❤. Everything you are saying is displayed in these movies. Except the part about God. Which is extremely important. Thank you very much my Friend, Men in our culture needs to learn these qualities some are so busy just having fun with everything in skirt never really interested in a decent relationship. A Young Man teaching facts upon facts.💯💯💯👍👍👍

  • @digitalbimpetv
    @digitalbimpetv 2 роки тому +1

    Very Deep Words

  • @cspann33
    @cspann33 4 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jvrennystar14
    @jvrennystar14 3 роки тому

    He's right!

  • @Withlovekailey
    @Withlovekailey 2 роки тому

    I love everything that you said

  • @faraboverubiestv1481
    @faraboverubiestv1481 5 років тому +4

    Whew a word from on high 😳🏃🏾‍♀️😩

  • @arkansas99
    @arkansas99 2 роки тому +1

    A lot of good advice, but a small digression - women are able to get turned on by looks, and there does not need to be any relationship!

  • @joyguendoo5398
    @joyguendoo5398 5 років тому +2

    🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @digitalbimpetv
    @digitalbimpetv 2 роки тому +1

    New Subscriber 🤸‍♂️🤸‍♂️🤸‍♂️🤸‍♂️

  • @aminitawake8715
    @aminitawake8715 3 роки тому

    Yesssss!

  • @minswithmo
    @minswithmo 4 роки тому +4

    I’m a year late lol 😂 but this is so helpful! Thank you!

  • @chekoeyekpegha1707
    @chekoeyekpegha1707 5 років тому +1

    This is true.

  • @CharCharJars
    @CharCharJars 3 роки тому

    Subscribing Liking & Sharing.
    Thank you for seeking GOD to give us the word.

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 2 роки тому +1

    Does he want?:
    your body
    Your money
    Your greencard
    Your heart

  • @kimwilliams729
    @kimwilliams729 4 роки тому

    💜

  • @Papabackshots
    @Papabackshots 4 роки тому

    Hey how can I get in touch with you? I have serious questions and would like to ask YOU because I really need your help as a man and because you have experience and advice. I’d really appreciate it. God bless.

  • @rheaannamunthodoo3604
    @rheaannamunthodoo3604 5 років тому +3

    What if he interested but the Holy Spirit leads him not to pursue her?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 років тому +26

      Rhea Annamunthodoo of course it’s possible, but if God is telling him not to pursue then he should not be giving her the impression that a relationship may happen.

  • @iyan1am824
    @iyan1am824 3 роки тому

    It’s confusing. He did all this but still broke up with me. Idk

  • @meronteklu7935
    @meronteklu7935 3 роки тому

    Can you please make a vid ab dating a non-believer that you’re guiding to Christ?

    • @vashhLOVE
      @vashhLOVE 3 роки тому

      Meron Teklu he talks about this on his podcast

  • @EfeAikpokhio
    @EfeAikpokhio 3 роки тому

    What if God telling u who ur meant to be with? And he isn’t pursuing u but the both of u talk regularly also may I mention I just met this guy. Any opinions??

    • @lclark3279
      @lclark3279 2 роки тому

      I think this one is quite easy . If that is a promise that you believe God is telling you , that promise is on God . Not you . Because God could tell you I have this guy or that guy . But that guy MIGHT not be interested in you for whatever reason . God does not lie , but if it doesn’t happen you are going to blame God but in reality it’s something else . We are supposed to test every spirit and if it is him ask for confirmation. God will make it very very clear on his timing . If God is saying this person is for you and he is meant to pursue you he will . You can’t do anything to make that happen , that is between him and God . Wait on the Lord . Praying for his will over your life !! :)

  • @tammyi8991
    @tammyi8991 5 років тому +1

    What do you say about intimacy before marriage? Moving in with a guy before marriage? Is it possible relationship can work I know someone in that situation now.

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 років тому +18

      Tammy I the relationship may “work”, but that isn’t God’s standard towards purity. So I wouldn’t recommend that lifestyle to any believer.

    • @tammyi8991
      @tammyi8991 5 років тому

      @@GodlyDating101 what about intimacy before marriage?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 років тому +17

      Tammy I “For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:”
      ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭4:3‬

    • @tammyi8991
      @tammyi8991 5 років тому +1

      @@GodlyDating101 how do date a guy and don't have sex for two straight years or more and he don't cheat? Were you able to do that?

    • @dianasteven5671
      @dianasteven5671 5 років тому +13

      Tammy I it is possible to remain pure. I believe they have another video on how to do that.
      But I would ask first if you're a believer in Christ and how important that belief is for you. Coz only then can you choose someone with the same belief who is also of like mindset.
      You may sleep with a guy everyday all year and he'll still cheat. This isn't about that. This is about the character of a person. You choose a cheater, u best believe that's what u will be getting, celibate or not.

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 2 роки тому

    Even if a man persue hard dont mean he good for a woman. Because man act all picky and choosy when they think they the price but if a woman is rich or greencard everybody act like they wanna marry you😂
    If a woman is beautiful, rich, smart, citizen... men have the urge to settle down 😂😂😂