How do women abuse men | Sahil Adeem & Eram Saeed |
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Halat aur Halaaatt...
Very well said Sir.
Thank You.
May ALLAH Almighty grant You ease n sound health.
Aameenn.
ساحل صاحب آپ کو اللہ تعالیٰ جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے آمین
True Sahil, v r living in extremes. Either v criticize on everything or keep quiet on everything.Bus sabr karao har cheez par. Is there a balance?
Good thought provoking conversation
His thought process is so clear... MashaAllah
Beautiful explanation.
Beautiful perspectives ❤
Well done nicely explained
Thank you Sahil Bhai
Best answer making corrections in question
V.nice halat ar halaat me difference point ♥️
Exactly Yahan Kisi k pass 4 pessy aa jayen wo samjha hai k bas Mai to Patta nahi kia bn gya
Bohat Zabardast 👍👍💯
May Allah bless u health to further Allah's msg
I agree with you Mr. Sahil most of personality problems in men and women stems from bad parenting
سر پاکستان کے مرد کو ماں اور باپ دونوں کی طرف سے سیکھا یا جاتا ہے کہ مرد بن مر د بیوی کی بات نہ سن وہ بھی بیوی کو ہمیشہ یہ سمجھتا ہے کہ میں مرد ہوں میرا کام بیوی کو حکم دینا ہے
میری جان وقت کے ساتھ سب ٹھیک ہو جاتا ہے بس تھوڑا صبر کرنا پڑتا ہے خاموشی بہت گہرا اثر چھوڑتی ہے
I agree
@@ummyhassan اسی فلسفے نے پاکستانی معاشرے کو تباہ کر دیا ہے۔ ایسے تو پھر لڑکیوں کی تربیت کرنا بھی چھوڑ دو شوہر کا صبر اور برداشت اسے خود ہی ٹھیک کر دے گا۔
@@artistki6488 exactly 💯
@@faisalkhan-sd9qq a
Good lesson
Sahil Sir .... mn khaab mn ny ap k live session mn Ap sy discussion kii.....😄..... i realy want to join your live training session ....👍...Muslim Identity ....👍
Mohtaram Sahil! Eram ka argument bilkul kuch aur tha. You wasted my time.
Eram! What you said is absolutely beautiful. ❤
In our society ppl say aulad mard key naseeb say dulat aurat key naseeb sey and the jahil mothers in law repeat it so much to constantly torture the daughter in law and incase lady does not have kids every one blame her forgetting the ridiculous quote.
And how about a mother in law constantly taunting a noble son in law?
Shaandar advice
Thank God at least someone is talking about men's problem.
I am a doctor .my husband do not let me to my parents ..he feels jeolous from visiting them.
He is too much controlling.does not allow me shoping for my nephews etc
Saying he is very loving to me
Leave him my dear... As soon as possible... You need to value yourself
Mrd k liy or ort k liy ap dono k haqooq or fraiz ko study kren kafi had tk krni he islaam k hisaab se bhi or ikhlaqiaat k hisaab se bhi phir koi action len
Tahqeeq zaror kr len
It's like you are telling my story
Please share complete story. Does he give reason?
A husband can restrict meeting anyone whom he feels disturbing his household.
Is he a doctor or non doctor?? He seems to be a foolish person not capable of keeping a qualified wife with him.
Full video link b dia kro
absolutely right women bahut na Shukri hoti
Can some one explain the halat....
Sahil Sir halat ko example sy sumjana chaheay the apko ... k so halat sy kiya mtlb ly rahay hain
It is v difficult to do tarbiat if s 40 year old when he lives in the same environment since born
I have seen this triangle from outside.
And I'm trying to find a way to go through this process. 🤔
why he joined this woman?
many people don't like this
This woman's argument is totally baseless. Men constantly look around and have affairs despite having loving and loyal wives taking care of everything at home. Sahil gave the best answer and we totally agree with whatever he said. This woman should not be included in Sahils lectures and talks.
Exactly..look at her makeup .
@@_Basir Stop your judging...its typical of asians!! Pakistani men.....see your country situation!! If u care too
Ye chaar shadion wali ijazat kii waja sy sab mard full time aashiq hein
Exactly
Apka ye jumla bohat skht ha ap ALLAH pr aitraz kr ri hen tnkeed k ALLAH ne maaz ALLAH ghlt kia ye ijazat de k? Ghlti to ha bd nzri krne wale mrdon ki or be prd phirne wali aurton ki .... ALLAH se maafi mangen toba kren plz ....soch k bolna chahiey hme
Today when everyone seems to praise Sahil, I'm sorry in my opinion his discussion is more like criticization rather than created love between partners
Discussion should be concluding like whenever I listen to maulana Tariq jameel , he make my heart realize again and again islam is the best religion and surely I promise myself to follow it all with my heart in happiness and in difficult times
Same here I don't feel like admiring him. He uses harsh words I think all religions have been spread through love and practice
@@cricketwithabdulhadinuman3764 exactly
Atleast he is addressing the situation accurately. Most Men get gaslighted of they bring up being in a toxic household.
Men abused women too - in a same way- denies her being, molist her self respect & esteem too
99% of women are the victims. They are talking about 1% men.
👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
mian ameer admi kee biwia mar khatay howay kush rhtay howay dykhi hai or gareeb admi achay k liayy danyt daiy to osay par zalim k tag lagtay dykhay hai, orat ameer admi kee sakhtiya bardasht kar lyti hai magar gareeb admi ka pyar pyar nahe lgta osay, wo jitna bhee khyal rkah laiy ek galti par zero ho jata hai
Assalam o ALAIKUM SAHIL BROTHER BLUR NON Mahrum
اسلام علیکم ساحل صاحب کیا آپ کو بھی ٹی وی اشتہارات کی طرح عورت کی موجودگی ضروری تھی، میرا خیال ہے نہیں
She is not a model
Everyone has right to talk, she is sitting million miles away 😊
True, for many women their husbands are only ATM machines
Those are the Deshi types!! Yep...
Applies to all materialistic women, either desi or aborad......
@@salmanarif6651 Western Muslim women are generally not like this....we work and we value and understand how it is to earn money...Its usually those whom have not worked and been brought up in a household where those young girls have experienced their mothers behaviour towards their husbands...and it has a knock on effect. Kids role models are parents and first teachers....
Yar women ki zimadari men py hy. Ab wo atm k tour py istemal kr skti hy. So no issues. Hum kaam krny k liay bnay hain. Larkion ka asal kaam chill krna, bachun ki behtreen parwarish krna hy .
@@thebigshift quran mae to likha hae keh naik aurten shohar ki farmanbardar hoti haen, ap keh rahe ho mardo ka ATM banna theek hae. Comment se pehle thori si common sense use kar leni chahiye
Bohat achi baat sahil bahi pr woman ko b khy k Sar py Dupta ly na sar g
Bey tukki baten
میرے شوہر یوں تو 5 وقت نماز پڑھتے ہر رمضان ختم القران ۔۔۔بیان بھی سنتے لکن ۔۔۔پھر بھی وہ اسلام کو بس اتنا ہی سمج سکے ہیں ۔۔۔کہ ماں کے پیر تلے جنت ہے ۔۔۔اور وہ جنت ہر صورت حاصل کرنی ہے بھلے بیوی بچے ذلیل ہوتے رہیں ۔۔۔۔۔
اللّه ھدایت کرے ۔۔
Most of the people pray namaz cause they’re used to it, Bachpan say namaz parhtay hain. Lakin Amal kisi chez per nahe. Namaz on ka apnay Allah k sath Mamla hay. Allah dekhay ga k tum nay apni bivi aur apny ass pass k logon say keya. Allah ko zarorat nahe hamari kisi ke namaz ke Os k pass farishtay bohat hain Sajda karnay ko.
عورتوں میں نا شکری کی انتہا ہو چکی ہے 🥲
Mrd b nashukre hote ha Kyo k sb insan aik jese nhi hote 😢😂
Paydasih s
یہ تو ہمیں سننا پڑتا ہے
But there are lots of men now a days,who like luxurious life at any cost,though wives like to make life honest n simple....i hv seen so many ppl around jahan aurten fazul khrchi nhi krtin...kafayat shuar hoti hn...mrd apni mrzi se pesa khrch krty hn.jahan dil kia betahasha,jahan mrzi na ho ,kanjusi.
Aur is society mn biwi mrd ki tarbiat krey?what a joke
Konsi aurat simple he..name btayen
@@drasimorthopediclearning9838 بہت ساری ہیں ، آپ کے ارد گرد شاید نہ ہوں مگر میرے سامنے تو بہت سی مثالیں ہیں
Yess this is true ! Thats my point, there should be both sided discussion , both partners have to respect each other
Every one had faults whether male or female, highlighting a single gender , on the base of some women you are using term women that's completely un justified
There are many men who are wrong in their acts
So what we should start writing, men abuse her wife , men have extra marital affairs . Absolutely noo , we should nt
It only creats hate among 2 genders , just like as you showing
Your discussion should be concluding to solutions, rather creating hate
I'm sorry but I found this video more a sort of criticizing a gender rather than teaching good manner
@salman arif
Jin Mardo ki Ap bat kr rhi hain wo Society mein 0.1% hon gay ya is say bhi kam
Lakin sb kuch honey huay bhi apni wife sey chupata rahey tu bv itni bachi nae k ussey pta na chaley
Wwse apne mard ko bohat mazloom dikha dia... Ajkal k trend pe bat kerte hain.. mard ajkal ameer auratein job holder aurtein shortcut k tor per dhundte hain or shadi krte hain... The other day my husband talked about his friend who is marrying a woman just bcz she will get billions of Rs. From her father... Yh us larkay k ilfaz hain yar arabo rupye mai sari umar b kamaon tou na mil sakeyn mai isi aurat se shadi kruga... Ajakl k mard marde momin nahi china k mard hain... Or apko kya lgta ha us insan ki bkwas ka asar mere shohar pe nahi hua hoga??? Kya vo nahi sochega kaash meri b lottery niklti.... Mujhy btyn yh mashra kahan ja raha ha.. zara apni research krein mard ab ghar ka kharcha nahi uthanay ko tyar vo kehte hain hum ne koi thaika nahi lia aurtein ghar b dekhein bachay b or financial responsibility b lein....???? Jawab dein ...
Wo mrd nhi hijra hoga sorry to say ap ki hubby ki gathering 3rd class hogi jbhi aisy dost hn us k mra koi ho to mu pa hi uski mardangi nikaal dun
Rawiye per bolney sey bhi pro hoti hey phir kiya karey????
Sir you made husband embodiment of sins and faults and wife is the embodiment of virtues and infallible that is called injustice....
Sitting in islamic lecture but with open face with finaries its also called a denying of Allah's ordain
hum sunty h ap ko but smj ma koi bt ni atti ka molvi ka kuu khlaf h
حالت اور رویئے حالات کی وجہ سے ہی خراب ہوتے اور بگڑتے ہیں ۔ ہر بات کو فلسفانہ انداز میں نہیں کرنی چاہیے ۔ سیدھی اور سچی بات کرنی چاہیے دھیرے اور ٹھیر ٹھیر کر۔
Paksitani zada tar khawateen bohat sharper hai, ameer handsome caring chae hai, lakin struggle karta howa insan bilkul acha nahe hai os k istakhary khrab ho jatay hai, or agar koi married couple kush rahay bhee to yahe oratin indain draamo wlay kam karti hai achay balay mia biwi k zindagi main aaag laga dyti hai, sahil adeem har waqt mardo ko yarget krta hai lakin orat kee harkatay ahe bata ta, single ladka shaadi k liaya muntazir bythay hotay hai lakin shaadi shuda k sath extra marital affairs main rhti hai civic walay laray lagta hai, lakin kam amdani wala nikah k liyay khta hai to ek hee bat ka jawab dyti hai k tum logo nay nikah kr k hawas pori karnai hai, orat bhee to tyhora khud ko thek karay na takay mard kee jorat na ho ankh otha lar bhee dykh sakay, main to khta ho yar jo single mard bachay hai smana pack karo thanos say rabta karo ya dr strange say k yar kisi dosaray planeet kee portal khol doo jha ladies na ho, q k ya galat kar k galtiya nahe manti, meri saali madam police main job karti hai meri wife ko tawez kar k mar diya, or tadfeen k dosray din khti hai shaadi karlo main bacho ka khyal kar longi main na kee to police kee dhamki ddee marnay kee dhamki, meray to bharosa hee oth gya hai ab, dil hee nahe krta 3 saal ho gay hai dil hee nahe krta kisi ko dykhnay ka bhee, bus dil krta hai koi portal khol jaiy main yaha say door chala jaon, meri byti or byta dono par sali nay kabza akr rkha hai, itni koi dain kisam kee hai karchi police main job karti hai, har taqtwar apnay aap ko khuda smjh lyta hai
Brother me kese apne husband ko smjao Jo hr bt p gussa krta ha mje jahil samjra ha bt bt p dafa hone ko kehta ha... Mera beta Jo 10 sal ka ho gya wob chir chora ho gya ha.. Meri maa b mje sbr ka kehti ha.. Mei saas bt krti ha mere husband direct action krte ha..ap btye.. Ese me me apne bacho ki terbiyet kese kro... Sorry.. Me burai nhe krna cha rahi sirf wo radta bta de jis se me apne bache ki terbiyet kro or us k baap ka image b Acha rahe...
Bibi tumahar kam hi ke sahabiyat ko padhkar dekho Jin ko Quran ke samajhthi in situation mai kya kiya hi , tumahari waleedain kee mutsuno agar wo Quran wo sunnah nahi bata rahe. Yehi aik solution hi.
Toxic relationship mein mazeed toxic insaan bray kero gi ap. Sbr sari zindagi kero nahi tou apnay pairon per khri ho ker ik acha mahool do bcho ko aledha ho ker. Husband ki izat ko qaim rkho bcho k dilo mein. Nafrat na dilao
People with anger issue is not always in anger they had mental issue so in right time convince him to go to get some help from physiologist . That's all I can say. Try to save your marriage one time by convincing him to get some help and tips for it's anger issue. Because children in single parent hood adopt many bad habits . Then if he doesn't try to change then look what damage children overall wheather living with father or not . And ask advice some expert person this is condition of our marriage what will be best for children to stay with father or not because if boy is above 7 then court give custody to father which is also isdue
Is lady ko kya yahi platform mila tha itrane k liye.mera mashvara h ki sahil sahab ko y zeba nahi deta.
When ur husband achives something,yeh tou tumhara naseeb hy m mitti m hath dalta hun woh sonna ban jatti hy
When loss occurs,tum tou ho he manhoos.falan oorat k naseeb m rizq zyada hy 😅
I have watched both situations,don't know i should motivate him or kill him
Video par likha h k biviaan zarur dekhaen...jabkae whi nhi dekhengee..balkae murd hazraat dekhengae aur apni bivion ko share karengae😅😅😅😅😅
Aapke Bayanat mein English bahut Hoti Hai Jo Ek kam Aurat ko Jaaye kam sunane Wale Ko samajh nahin aati isliye please aap Urdu ke Alfaz istemal Karen Shukriya
Ghalat bilkul Ghalat
First view
Islamic lecture k thumbnail pe aurto ki pix na lagaya karen
Bb
Oh please for God sake don't call to the man bechara
I will to see Sahil Sir not this lady very irritating
ایسا بھی دیکھنے میں آیا ہے کہ بیوی بچون کیco operation اور compromiseکے باوجودشاید اپنیےاندرونی احساس کمتری کے اثر سے وہ بات بے بات اہل وعیال کو الزام دے کر غصہ نکالتا ہے...بچون کو اچھے سکول مین داخل کروا تو دیتا ہے تاکہ کسی سے کمتر نہ رہین لیکن پھر اپنی مالی کمی کاذمہ دار ٹھہرا کر بچوں کو کوستا ہے.....تو پھر اس کا کیا علاج ہے....
Pakistani murd ....bechara.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
سر پہلے پڑدا کروا پھر اس کو اسلامی باتیں بتاؤ
I think this person have family problems ...... now comes to this topic from islamic topic......confused personality ......not know whether to opt Islam or showbiz...........this person need medical consultation.........
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Ye sahil adeem boht hypocrite lagta hy .. dont know why.. zarori nahi sub muj se agree karain its my personal opinion.. mujy boht negative vibes aati hain iss banday ki videos dekh k jo randomly news feed me smany aati hay fb ya youtube me ..
Do not agree
@@asmatshaheen1674me too… random short videos aur reel dekh ky hamesha wrong judgment pass hoti ha…. Kisi ko samjna ho to pura kaam dekhna chahiye
Sahir Adeem is very boring, unfortunately he talked all the time.