Husband Nasha krta hai kya mn Talaq ly lu? | Sahil Adeem
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- Опубліковано 21 чер 2022
- Sahil Adeem answered an essential and common question of a girl.
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May Almighty Allah bless you brother Sahil Adeem and give you more strength and courage to spread the teachings of our Deen in an educational way 💖👍
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bilkol mene b pora time hr lehaz se diya 22 saal baad lo khola pora khtam hone k baad mujhe b yehi sunne mila itne saal guzar liye pr ma btaon jb apka zameer mutmain ho jay tu ap faisla le le esse halat ma bache b pori trha khtam ho jate ha or agr ap haq pr ho tu Allah pak khud asaniya krta ha mujhe b lagta ta k alag hone k baad dunya chore gi nai rehna khana pina sb pehle se zyada acha kr diya Allah pak ne alhamdulillah agr ap haq pr hotu kisi se b drne ki zrorat nai ma b pari likhi nai ghr ma koi kama nai raha pr Allah jb pther k ander ek kire ko rizq pohnchata ha tu hum insan ha or ye b suna ha ap ne izzat or zillat dena Allah k hath ma tu mujhe Alhamdulillah izzat b mili jitni shoher k hone pr zillat milli usse zyada izzat milri alhamdulillah❤
For Telling "حق" :
1) Positive Reinforcement
2) Negative Reinforcement
3) Punishment
positive Reinforcement : Adding something good to person life
Negative Reinforcement: Taking out good from the life
Punishment: Adding negative to persons life
Brilliant answer brother Sahil! You are an inspiration. I’m a psychologist and domestic abuse advocate in the UK.
For the sister who asked the question. Before anything your own mental health is important. I’ve seen women in same situation become depressed with the passage of time. And in depression you can’t bring up your children in a good way. You can’t serve justice to your children. Think about your Islamic duty towards your children. X
I want divorce 😢 because my husband is not good way😢
So true ! So authentic suggestion.
Exactly its true. Allah ko apna helper or protector bnayeh woh iss iss trah ap k lyeh waseely bnaye ga jo ap k wahmu guman main bhi ni hon gay. Ap himmat kijyh mamlaat bhtr hon gy in sha Allah. Its difficult but not impossible Otherwise ap k bachy bhi mutasir hoon gy.
Excellent bayan..May Allah Pak blessed you
JazakAllah khair❤
Depression sets in a hopeless heart which is running low in Faith. Drugs for adults are a way to run away from those depressive thoughts. Only reviving faith in God and a body active in service helps strengthen a person to come out of depression and curb the urge for doing drugs.
Spot on💯
Allah paak hamaien sahi tor par samjhnay ki toufeeq day bilkul sahi kaha jab tak punish nai hogi socity change bhi nai honi Allah k rules follow karnay main hi sakoon aur nijaat hay Allah paak ap ko salamat rakhay sakoon day dunya aur akhirat ki kamyabiyaan day ameeen
Indeed...100 true
This is why at end all women suffer their life they cry why our children didn't turn good muslim as I sacrificed my life...this is why we need to leave zani or drugs or drinker
Agreed...if u thought u have given ur 110% for getting him on track and its still not working. U can go for last option.But remember u have to first try ur best.
best answer ❤❤❤
Soooo true..!
i always agree with the point sahil bhai u tell us but in this point we need to make people realis that when you leave your roots it happens morals are for both male and female but in our society khawateen k morals bhi wo nahi so askin some one for something u should first stand in ur role jo k koi nahi
Allah bchion ko taqat de ameen ameen ameen
I appreciate your think of view.
Allah ap ko apni Eman may rkhy ameen
MashAllah sahil brother excellent 👍
Excelllent bayan
Admire you sir, but people don't understand your concept , as that needs a little deeper understanding and most of us wants to live and die in shallow waters. Our forefathers has made pleasing RAB an alien concept.
Bilkul drust
Ameen
Salam
Ye ulma ourat ko kehte hen k shohar jesa bhi ho guzara kro
Or mard ko kehty hen k agr biwi achi nhi hy to dosri shadi krlo
Orat insan nhi hy .wo bs guzara kre apne liy acha na sochy
To aap chahti hain wo ek se zayada shadi kare?
I don't know which ulama u follow read research and all plz
@@alisajid659 talak leke achay husband se shadi karle simply,
@@fatimaurooj4691 Talak Allah ko nek kamon mein sabse napasandida amal hai or ye ek ultimatum hai Quran mein iska poora procedure diya gaya hai or agar sare mard bhi yahi karne lage to?
You are so nice sir. Kafi hosila Mila mujhy b ap Ki baton se Mai b tot Gai hn 3 beitia Hain Meri but shohir bas
SubhanAllah❤
Right
Sir can you please point to the ayat of the Qur'an you are referring to. I know the ayat about men being care takers of women and in that ayat punishment is used but which ayat are you referring to discipline and punishment after trying all other avenues
Ek ek word apka such hai
Or jin ke parents help na kren stand lene ki wo lrkian kia kren bechari bozdil si zmane se dri hue jin pr phir ilzam b lga dete hn log .
Woh larkian bhi Islam nahi perhtien agar perha hota to weak na hotien.
Spot on. Always make your self independent. Good advice. Take a step in the name of Allah. Don't put up with any kind of abuse. Physical, emotional and financial. Yes first do your own self assessment. Allah has given exactly the same powers to both men and women. Use them with collective wisdom within the available resources. Never ever be scared of people. This is shirk giving priority to people rather following the blessings of Allah.
Assalamu alaikum mai bs 1 hi confusen me hun k mai alima hu baqi nashe k masle ne mere zehen pr v asar krna shuru kr diya hai and husband v hai kya kiya jaye
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Sir sahil ke students ki koi virtual team nahi bani?
Good
Same suufring pain widower or divorced man tooo
Sir how to ask question to you
Mere sath bhi yahi condition hai Kuch hosla mila app ki batao se
دعا ھے اللہ عزوجل اپکو وطن عزیز کے 2 نمبری نظام سے جو گندگی میں لتھڑا پڑا ھےبہترین عطا فرمائے ھمت نا ھارنا جیت جاوگی
And AlhamdullilAllah its my own heart and my amma's face which made me to decrease the usage day by day.... :"(
Agr koi many he na K wi drugs abuse Hy then
Bachay kis k pass jayen
Please mujhay btayen k bachoon ka decision kesay lain
Aoa sir ya bataie k agar shohar shok say khushi say sharab pita ho or kehta ho normal log sharab petay or wo theek han jo petay han to orat Kia karay rok kar to daykh lia ab apna ghaar to tabah nahi karsaktay bachay ho sath to agla bhi koi haji to nahi hoga ghar bachay sab he talaq par tabah or phir ya to fashion bhi hay paysay walo ka unchi society ka orat Kia karay bas ya baataie
May I know your field of studies and education.thanks.
Psychology
Neurobiology
History
Islam
Philosophy
Kabhee byti nay kha Mera aba gee galat kam karty hai main kaise roko
Mera hasband mujh pe ilzam lagata hai k may galat hun kiya karon sahil bhai ap batain kuch guide karen aisi situation may kiya karna chahiye
Sister ap ak wazifa kre or hasband ka ilaj krwain or pareshn mt ho ap inshallah apko fahida hoga
Mri czn k sath bi same masla tha ye wala
My boss is a womanzier women from staff entertains him women seem nude to him. He is known but the upper command don't take actions rather one widow in staff lost her job.
Sir aap sy cintect kasy kary
Assalamualekum warhmatullahi wabarakatuhu.
person they not take care of family 3 kids and wife every time then what do
Great man, mashallah Mashallah, Allah ap ko booth khushiya dhy ameen
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Ask yourself how long you can help that person, If you have tried everything but this person is not willing to accept his condition then leave him but only for sake of Allah,If you really love him then think about his Akhira or choose to live with him only for sake of Allah.
What important is to know Allah has given you choice and you are not sinful for leaving him, it's your right.If you are with him just because so called what people would think syndrome then plz leave him
Totally blank about my life
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brother Sahil Adeem jazk-Allah hu khaera....mere confusion duur ho gi
Same Mera ye hi hal hai mere 3bete hai or Mera sohar shrab peta hai or Gali galich karta hai marta bhi tha bhot or Maine bhot sabar bi kia 16 sal se ab main thak chuki hon plz mujhe koi hal bta den main bacho ko bi nahi chor sakti or sohar k sath nahi rehna cahti plz koi hal btao
Sister ap Wazifa kre or hasband ka ilaj krwain inshallah apko fahida hoga ga
Mri czn k sath bi same masla tha ye wala ab wo set h
Bhanay chae hai divorcay k bus. Ladka Ameer ho bighra ho to jee hamari byti sudhar laiy gee or ladka gareeb ho to hum baradari say bahir nahe krtay istakhara thek nahe, bla bla bla.
Bhai Jo Marzi karay storia husband kee bna bna kr Dalo Mera husband ya krta hai wo krta hai or Bhai k baray main koi zikar nahe hota Bhai Jo Marzi krta rha,
Nikah sirf nake saaleh aur shareef well settled highly educated banday se sirf allowed hai...kisi zani druggy junkie kisi k sath allowed nhi...agr acha rishta ho tu he shadi krni chahiyeh nhi tu khush rehna chahiyeh
Minar paksitan wali sari story sub ko pta hai planing thee
Jahal rakha jata hai aurto ko to phir woh sari life Apne husband pe dependant rehte hai chahte Howe bhe woh chor nahi pate addict admi ko bhe aur phir last us k baite us ki burhape mein durgat banate hai 😢
Isd behn ko sahi kaha sahil bhai
Death rate ha iss nashey mie high ha islye ye behn khud k aur apny bacho ka future khud secure krna shuru kryn
Hm hmmm
I ve relapsed 10th time and this is unfortunately my tenth time, pehlay Punjab k sab A class rehabs ka mehman bna phir almost Pak k sab rehabs ka now my ama aba accepted me as a exceptional case :/ :'( :'(
Go to willing ways
@@banogul6530 what if i relapse again after spending painful 3 months, in withdrawls lavish enviroment does not play effective role. Thats why i dont look for further rehabs, you know what my 2nd visit made my life even worse because before going there i was at level 1 but spending time in Xtreme deadly addicts taught me enough to try something new!
Work on the reasons of relapse
Agr ap ko kl ko koe beemari ho jaiy to ap ka husband chor day to Kia ye theak hai??????
Bilkul galt h ye insan ka malom hi bimari me chata h kitna wafa dar h
Zyada saal guzarnae ke baad hi tu aap zyada haq rakhti hain khula ka.logon ki baat na karen
BismilAllah
Is kee video main sari ladkio k ek hee bat hai mia aisa hai to chor Doo ya wo ladkiya hoti hai Jo achay ladko ko friend zone main daal kra paisay walo say shaadia krti hai tub aaib nazar nahe atay or jub paisa khtam to aib nazara atay hai karwee sachai moshray kee
Jub paisa khtam hoto bhanay chae hotay hai rishtay Tornay k
Alpha bravo delta jiskay kaam nahee karahay woh Sahil Baba ko contact karein ...hahahaha
Apny ek lecture ma kha tha ke aurat ma reham hona cheay usko compromise krna cheay or is ma ap kehry hen ke hmen step ly lena cheay khula ka sir can you please guide me? kya krna cheay women ko agar uska ek baby bhi ho or husband abuse krta ho hr trhn se mentally physically financially hr trhn se even my parents are paying for my everything and ab baby ka b kren or husband itna jahil ha ke in sbk bwjood divorce ki dhmkiyan dta ha
Sister ap pareshn mt ho ak Wazifa h or ak ilaj h is tara k mard k liye lekin bt trust ki hoti h sister
Mri czn k sath bi same masla tha ye wala us k hasband dusri girls k sath relationship me thy or wife ka haq ada ni krte thy
mra promise h inshallah apka masla hal ho jaye ga
@@mrajput-co4pv g btaden pr mujhe divorce bjhdi ha dhamki ke Tor py itna tng kea hua ha
@@user-ye9ce7yq2t sister sab se phly apko trust h mujh pr
Mra promise h apse inshallah apka masla hal ho jaye ga
@@user-ye9ce7yq2t me apse kuch personal share kro agar apko mujh pr trust h to
Sister tell me answer
Ek trafa khania soon k faisaly na karaya karay
Khna aasaan hai but
Unho ne bht details b sth bt ki h kehna b unke liye itna asan ni h agr ap ne video dekhi h to. Muslim ki life h hi mushkil that's why itna ajar h
@@quratulain6128 poori video daikhi ha ager kids hain to bs roo kr life guzarain oulad ki zeroortain itni keh sb difficult Allah haath pekray
@@tajimjejjsks6158 phir Ulaad imaan aur islam naeh follow karey gein..bus yahi soch lo,hum Allah key liay kuch naeh karyay..pakistan mein wife ka khuda mard hota hai
Le lo
Biwia husbando kee shikayat lay kr foran atee hai maa bytay or Bhain Bhai k liyay nahe atee bus husband ko target kro or Shaadi say darao logo ko
Shariyat k kanun me tu sar Kalam krne ka hukm hai Maine suna haipahle samjha fir datu fir nhi Manta hai tu uda do
All Pakistani mard is not Same like five finger
Baty karna bot ahsan huta h
Baty...unbelievable. he is saying what Quran and Allah says we don't want to hear..we made our life difficult by staying away from islam..so plz respect Allah order
yah Pakistan hy yahan baap or bahi hun b pichy fr b mashra mashra krty pichy ho jaty hn . apni e byti ko glt bolty hn . bjay k koi faisla lia jay
Bilkul sahi kaha sister Apne
Sister ak wazifa h is masle ka or ak ilaj hota h
Mri czn k sath bi same masla tha ye wala
Ab wo set h apne ghar me
Sar mera shohar Nasha karta kia karo bahot tang ho lary jhgry marpeet se
Sister ap Wazifa kre or hasband ka ilaj krwain inshallah apko fahida hoga ga azmaya hoa h mra
Kon sa wazeefa
If you are not qualified with ifta and if you are not a Mufti ! Then you have no rights to answer this question and if you do so then you will be held accountable on the day of judgment ! Remember this
He knows what he is telling.... He knows what he is accountable for
@@nailazabeen3285 There is a principle in islamic point of view that a non aalim is not allowed to answer a fiqhi question ! I respect him, I appreciate his work ! But he shouldn't involve in islamic jurisprudence without any qualification
@@aamirshariff6540 he is not giving her suggestions to divorce her husband.... Go watch the video again... He is trying to strengthen that woman to take right decision regarding guiding her husband to stop his drug addiction...plus trying to make her intellectually and emotionally strong so that she can handle this situation
He has definitely studied and knowledge and credentials..he told many times,he doenst like to portray wht he achieved...heard so many lectures he always quote....Allah key liay talaq...this is how it happens being a woman i can understand..he is saying what Quran says.
@@tabinda460 Dear respected one ! Eg- No matter how much knowledge one have about medical he will not be considered as a doctor ! Generally, we believe blindly whatever is being said on social platforms without researching its accuracy in regards with Deen e Islam.
What if he suggest you a medicine for a particular disease will you have eat that knowing that it's a non doctor who has suggested ! If you guys study islamic fiqh then you will actually know what is my concern. Let me not dig this matter into deep.. you guys carry-on
Jazakallahu khair
💗💗ALLAH💗💗 ALLAH 💗💗ALLAH 💗💗ALLAH 💗💗ALLAH💗💗🤲🕋🤲🇵🇰⚔️🛡🦄😔
Cap pehna kro. John Ebrahim na bano...
Just take a divorce and marry someone else. All this “become independent” “kam start karo” is coming from feminist mindset.
@@Eshaafridi468 video deki ha ap ne? Uska husband Kia karta ha?
Insaaf ki baat ki hai sahil bhai ne. Try to help, if doesnt work. Then ALLAH sabko palne wala hai, jo bachpan se palta aya hai.
One recommendation for Sahil Adeem too. Either discuss these cases in isolation, or if you want to discuss them openly. Bear in mind there is a wider audience listening and everyone can have there own takeaways. So cover all grounds. The thing about mistakes is only they are visible. Good behavior or satisfactory behavior is'nt. Sahil is wrong classifying pakistani male for the mistakes of selected few.
And that too on data. There must be more than 110 million pakistani males. Do you have a data on each one of them victimising a female, with cumulative female victim be ~ 110 million. ?
The net result of your statements can be more harmful by not positively appreciating those who are actually doing but on the other hand categorizing them with the bad ones.
For those who are watching this and not suffering from this. Positive reinforcement doesn't have to start when something has gone wrong and absolute depression has taken over.
If your man is fulfilling his role, positive reinforce it then. And men please do the vice versa too.
Depression does'nt happen overnight. And if you think you are not cause for your partner's depression, you can most certainly become the comfort for its cure.
Sahil mia saray husband baghrat hai ek app ful insan hai hay na
Asalamualeikum sir,how can I contact you,, I need your guidance please.
Email him
What is his email address?