it takes a brave and courageous woman to have the courage to say what you have said. Not every women could own up to what you have said you are so brave.
I don't usually leave comments, but seeing you reminded me so much of my mother. Your story hit close to home; it mirrors hers closely, except she didn't choose the path of divorce. It's a poignant realization for me as I find myself contemplating a similar choice.
I am seeing a warrior, a lady who went through a lot and bring her light back. Now shinning and spreading that "light". May Allah subhana o talla may bless you...
Extremely inspirational talk…it is solely your journey with your faith in extreme power… your honesty, your struggle and your strength touch our hearts…May God bless you always..
I love you so much! Always thought or you as the mother figure I never had and when you called us your daughters and sisters today, I really felt the love. You bring hope and light into our darkness. May Allah bless you and your family forever and ever ❤ Thank you for sharing everything. It's okay for you to cry in front of us, you have shown us by example that vulnerability is indeed strength. Bohot saara pyaar aur dua 😍
You are a fighter !!! Keep growing!! All I want to say ,every xyz woman in this world whether she lives in a palace or small Hut , whether her husband is a millionaire, you need to earn, job karna chahiye , experience gain karen!! Kya pata kab kaise zarurat parhe!! Aurton ka taalim haasil karna aur fir job karna bahot zaruri ha!! Allah bahot bada hai apne bandon ko girne nahin dega !!
Oh wow. I had no idea at the levels of hardships you’d faced. You are proof that there is life afterwards but that true change comes from within by shifting your mindset, environment and belief. Well done.
when i introduced with your youtube channal.. it was much needed that time for me .. ur words gave me strength in that particular time and made things clear to me .. removed my confusions.. when a person remains in continous tension , his thinking power is not same like before , things are confused for her .. specially all what is happening is never expected. we listens from people very much but experience something like that is totally diferent. u even dont know that someone is manipulating u , gaslighting u, even he and family is narcissist.. there are many psycologists but u speaks with the connection of ALLAH SWT.. lot of blessings for u..
Aj ma ny ap ki first time video dekhi pta ni kuo Allah ki trf sy tha shyd dekhna ma ny ap ki video skip kiye bgair sari dekhi mery ankhay or dil barh aya or mjy etni himat meli abi ma 23 year ki or financial problems ki waja sy lgta h ma koch ni kr pao gy or ap ki life sun kr mjy mery mana ky leye rona aya meri mama ny be boht boht pareshaniya face ki sirf hmary leye wo abi be es age me kam krty h mery leye wo be 52 year ki h aj ap ki batay sun kr mera be dil ny kaha ma kr skty ho koch na koch kro gy Allah behtr kray ga Allah ap ko or himat dy logo ky help krny ki ameen sumameeen
Assalam Alaikum! Allah nay aap ki awaaz main aik baat rakhi hay. HE knew it! There is SINCERITY in your talk. I relate with you when you said people leave you, when you have tough times. I understand! I have lost faith in the word "Love" but let me say...I love you ❤ I am still lost with the word of "Love" but let it be...it. Haan ALLAH SUB SAY BARA HAY!
Ma sha ALLAH stay strong Yes every pain has different frequency of attracting ALLAH attention and we connect at different levels with ALLAH like finger prints every story is unique n different. Yes some times Leap of faith in darkness is most daunting thing as lady. ALLAH dont judge us on gender But on Taqwa
I may understand the pain that still reside in ur heart... N I may understand how does it feel.. Bcz m going through it... I really appreciate ur persona❤.. May Allah bless u always... 😘
Aoa thank u so much maam for sharing ur story.... After listening u i hv got so much courage.... I am single mother... I am dentist nd jobless i dnt hv parents as well... I lost hope bt nw again i will standup in sha Allah
Alhamdu lillah thanks for your advice for all women kind May Allah bless and protect all our mothers and sisters and daughter saaameen yaaraab Al aalameen ❤❤❤❤
So motivated and determined story. Keep your spirits up. You are an iron lady. And when you talk about ALLAH or Islamic talks you get emotional.. No doubt we are nothing to be between a man and ALLAH ,SO GOOD TALK SO GOOD MOTIVATION. May you live long ma'am AMEEN summa AMEEN
mashaAllah jazakallah for sharing this I'm listing you when you start fb page your story and mine are quite same and i hope so i will be successful like you for me and my kids Ameen sumna Ameen
Going through exact same situation. Came from tx to md 2 months ago pls pray for me . I m lost all i have is Allah and it’s enough. No contact no pro bono idk what Allah has decided but prays will help jazak Allah
Your story is an eyeopener for me especially.. Ma'am you r truely an amazing strong lady...u have been through soo much...we as viewers didnt know about how broken u were when u gave life coaching and motivational talks...May Allah bless You with more happy and satisfied life ahead...
Very emotional and motivational. One thing that is common in every tragic story of a woman and which brings me to ask certain questions, it is that it's always a man behind the abuse whatever sort it is, so is the women we need to fix to at last become a warrior after all the abuse and suffering or is the men needed to be fixed?? Are these men not going through the same upbringing that a woman goes through, it's the flaw in their mothers or the society ??? Who to blame ??? Or yet wait again for a survival story of a woman becoming a warrior eventually....
Thanku Earm. shearing zindagee maira bhi apny Rubb py buht trust hai hamisha us n save kia but zindagee buht mushkil hai .dill kabhi kabhi bilkul hoples ho jata hai Kuch sumjh nai ati.
عزیز ارم سعید! بلاشبہ آپ نے اپنی آپ بیتی شیئر کر کے بہت ہمت کا ثبوت دیا ہے،ہماری خاطر اپنے درد سے دوبارا گزرنے کے لئے شکریہ،یقینا یہ بہت مشکل کام تھا۔ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کا اجر ضائع نہیں کرے گا انشاء اللہ
I am doing same after 18 years of marriage,at age of 41 with 3 kids....I want to set example for my kids to stand up what's right..never worked but Allah will help
People have Billion & Billion True Stories to tell others . First of all , We all have to know , What are Beautiful Manners?Cruelty, crimes,abuses, mental health problems.Which things have to fix, in personal matters, families.Awareness is necessary to tell others.A peaceful, healthy, happy life for everyone. Thanks to shares.We were Students of Psychology in many years ago .Golden memories.
I m from pakistan n in newyork at the moment with my 3 yr old beautiful daughter and i passed the same phase n i took myself out with help of my daughter and I believe she is the one who took me out from that abuse and after her i trying to build a better future for her by studying again i was doctor n wanted to do usmle n i m done with all exams by now after that divorce and i have applied here in Usa for residency but i m losing hope again as its very difficult to get when you crossed your years but i did tried but due to again that marriage was stuck , and i also feel guilty that i m not there for her and sometimes my depression make me so harsh on her , i was only studying when she grew up alone and now still struggling I don’t know how to stay strong more n what should I prioritise her future , time for her or the way she need father
You are the best mother❤ may Allah make things easy for you bless you with the best. Thank you for taking a stand for yourself. You are really strong. I will pray that your life gets better. I know we humans are sent on this earth for test but whoever has strong faith will eventually gets through it. May Allah give you peace of heart and mind.
Assalamu alaikum . Thank you Eram for sharing your experience .You are an inspiration for many of us . I can relate with lots of things you said . I am from India, and now at 60 years of age with many ups and downs in personal life , I have one msg for my younger sisters and daughters . To fight injustice and abuse , a woman needs to be a woman of substance . That is what I call woman empowerment and it comes from her relation with Allah. So , focus on why after all we have been sent on this earth .
I totally agree with u Mam erum...I can understand this situation how much this situation was hard for ourselve but at the end Almighty Allah made us very strong as compare to before n totally keep faith on Allah only he is ur best friend n protect u from bad ppl...so thankful to Allah he is our lord and best n best companion.....
U know Eram ma... I lv to call u mother ... My own mother she loves me I know but she supports this violence she had gone through n when I speak against it... She says me n tries to validate those acts of men through quran.. Says herself that she is shareef that she tolerated all this... I had gone thru alot in my childhood for this... Lot to share but I muster my courage now
I could relate to your story Erum your words are exactly my words and the story so similar so unbelievable the only difference is I refused to marry the 2nd time, i don't even want to try!! I came from Kenya grew up in UK so I was very independent ended up marrying a pakistani guy who I let destroy me and my life. Women need to be educated about men and marriages especially in our culture and religion.
Aoa ma'am m Soo happy that you shared your story with us... That's how life is ... However it's crucial for a women to be independent... No matter what married or unmarried or divorced or what so ever...
Their is a huge difference between doctor and a Muslim.....apne sahi kaha appearance sai kuch nahi hota hai lekin hijab mandatory hai ...mai dil sai apko like karti hu i hope ap hijab kai relate aur study kare gi inshAllah apko pata chalai ga that hijab is mandatory/farz not an option
Its really hit me wen u said an abuser is a very manipulative I gone through tat till today I think becoz of my mistake I got divorce thank u so much fr realise me its nt my mistake
You are my inspiration erum aapi...I'm 29 and fighting lonely but only thing I know that one day I'm gonna overcome it
Insha'Allah.
May Allah ease everything for you ♥️
Thanks for your kindness..
Inshallah
i support u ❤
I watched it many times and spread this msg to my beloved friend. Love from a woman of India 🙏❤️🙏
stay blessed
Thank you from bottom of my heart ❤️ dear sis was so needed 🙏
it takes a brave and courageous woman to have the courage to say what you have said. Not every women could own up to what you have said you are so brave.
I don't usually leave comments, but seeing you reminded me so much of my mother. Your story hit close to home; it mirrors hers closely, except she didn't choose the path of divorce. It's a poignant realization for me as I find myself contemplating a similar choice.
I am seeing a warrior, a lady who went through a lot and bring her light back. Now shinning and spreading that "light".
May Allah subhana o talla may bless you...
waoo the words
Whatever you say makes so much sense! Amazingly motivating. Please keep inspiring!
Simply inspirational! Bravo Eram
Extremely inspirational talk…it is solely your journey with your faith in extreme power… your honesty, your struggle and your strength touch our hearts…May God bless you always..
I love you so much! Always thought or you as the mother figure I never had and when you called us your daughters and sisters today, I really felt the love. You bring hope and light into our darkness. May Allah bless you and your family forever and ever ❤ Thank you for sharing everything. It's okay for you to cry in front of us, you have shown us by example that vulnerability is indeed strength. Bohot saara pyaar aur dua 😍
Came recommended to me, when I needed it the most.
MashaAllah. May Allah bless more strength to you. Ameen
You are a fighter !!! Keep growing!!
All I want to say ,every xyz woman in this world whether she lives in a palace or small Hut , whether her husband is a millionaire, you need to earn, job karna chahiye , experience gain karen!! Kya pata kab kaise zarurat parhe!! Aurton ka taalim haasil karna aur fir job karna bahot zaruri ha!! Allah bahot bada hai apne bandon ko girne nahin dega !!
My ALLAH, the Lord of Multiverse has absolute control over everything and HE always does the best!!!
How come only 29K views? .. this is an eye opener for all the women and actually Men too - All the Hearts and Encouragements to You Erum .. keep it up
Grt you are strong woman im also going through such things your story is heart touching
Dear erum… I can imagine the kind of pain you are going through… ❤ u r my angel. The reason I started following you is Im so proud of u. U r amazing.
stay blessed
stay blessed❤
You are my favorite lady my most favorite speaker
You are so strong, May Allah bless you with high rewards!
STRONG headed inspirational lady.
You are the BEST!!! mother. Don’t ever doubt Eram.
Oh wow. I had no idea at the levels of hardships you’d faced. You are proof that there is life afterwards but that true change comes from within by shifting your mindset, environment and belief. Well done.
Very motivating
That is so heart wrenching.
when i introduced with your youtube channal.. it was much needed that time for me .. ur words gave me strength in that particular time and made things clear to me .. removed my confusions..
when a person remains in continous tension , his thinking power is not same like before , things are confused for her .. specially all what is happening is never expected.
we listens from people very much but experience something like that is totally diferent.
u even dont know that someone is manipulating u , gaslighting u, even he and family is narcissist..
there are many psycologists but u speaks with the connection of ALLAH SWT..
lot of blessings for u..
So nice
Aj ma ny ap ki first time video dekhi pta ni kuo Allah ki trf sy tha shyd dekhna ma ny ap ki video skip kiye bgair sari dekhi mery ankhay or dil barh aya or mjy etni himat meli abi ma 23 year ki or financial problems ki waja sy lgta h ma koch ni kr pao gy or ap ki life sun kr mjy mery mana ky leye rona aya meri mama ny be boht boht pareshaniya face ki sirf hmary leye wo abi be es age me kam krty h mery leye wo be 52 year ki h aj ap ki batay sun kr mera be dil ny kaha ma kr skty ho koch na koch kro gy Allah behtr kray ga Allah ap ko or himat dy logo ky help krny ki ameen sumameeen
Allah apki mushkilat asan farmaye apko kamyabi sy nawazein. Allahuma ameen. Stay strong have faith.
May Allah bless you. He is always with you. Please don't lose hope❤
And now, see.... Look. Bravo 👏
Your Emaan, Your Faith 💪❤️
Bravo for speaking so truthfully on inspiring other women
So happy to c u living such a successful life Masha'Allah
It is rea!ly inspirational speech
Assalam Alaikum! Allah nay aap ki awaaz main aik baat rakhi hay. HE knew it! There is SINCERITY in your talk. I relate with you when you said people leave you, when you have tough times. I understand! I have lost faith in the word "Love" but let me say...I love you ❤ I am still lost with the word of "Love" but let it be...it. Haan ALLAH SUB SAY BARA HAY!
Vvvv. .. Me
Inspiring. MashaAllah ❤
Ma sha ALLAH stay strong
Yes every pain has different frequency of attracting ALLAH attention and we connect at different levels with ALLAH like finger prints every story is unique n different.
Yes some times Leap of faith in darkness is most daunting thing as lady.
ALLAH dont judge us on gender
But on Taqwa
Masha Allah so many answers for me. Love u for the sake of Allah ♥️
I may understand the pain that still reside in ur heart... N I may understand how does it feel.. Bcz m going through it... I really appreciate ur persona❤.. May Allah bless u always... 😘
Aoa thank u so much maam for sharing ur story.... After listening u i hv got so much courage.... I am single mother... I am dentist nd jobless i dnt hv parents as well... I lost hope bt nw again i will standup in sha Allah
I would like to suggest all women to study Surah Nisa with translation & tashree.
Stay blessed, sister
Alhamdu lillah thanks for your advice for all women kind May Allah bless and protect all our mothers and sisters and daughter saaameen yaaraab Al aalameen ❤❤❤❤
Mashaalah........
So motivated and determined story. Keep your spirits up. You are an iron lady. And when you talk about ALLAH or Islamic talks you get emotional.. No doubt we are nothing to be between a man and ALLAH ,SO GOOD TALK SO GOOD MOTIVATION. May you live long ma'am AMEEN summa AMEEN
Such hai. Allah ke hath main hi rizq ha. Allah tala is a raziq
Thank you for this video Erum ❤
You are a real hero. May Allah keep you safe and healthy. Loads of prayers for you and your daughters.
May Allah bless you more shama from japan
So so inspirational! Thanks for sharing ur story nd motivating people around u!
Love from UK. ❤
mam aap kai jaisi himat allah sab ko dain
You are right it’s very very painfully
You are love❤
You are right 1000%
Yes this is so true .. everything is temporary just go for spiritual enlightenment and u will see the results and u will find peace
mashaAllah jazakallah for sharing this I'm listing you when you start fb page your story and mine are quite same and i hope so i will be successful like you for me and my kids Ameen sumna Ameen
Marshallah you are inspirational ❤️ may allahtallah give you so much happiness
May Allah bless u ma'am.. U have been a shining star for me.. By the grace of Allah Pak!!!
❤ you are such an inspiration.
It made me cry a lot
Just can't stop crying
Such an inspiration and power you possess ❤ Beyond blessed to have found you😊
Mashalla may Allah swt bless you with much happiness, to you and your family thank you ♥️listening from uk
Good luck on
Allah loves you that's why He selected you for sharing His talks.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 you talk beautiful MashaAllah...Allah loves your surely ... Lots of love to you..😊 ❤❤
I can feel her single word
SUBHANALLAH
YOU ARE A GEM 😢😘❣️❣️❣️❣️
Much inspiring.
May Allah give more powder to you
Sending u love n light for being inspirational,n most importantly for being kind n understanding...
Well done 👍 اللہ پر بھروسہ کیا آپ نے اوریقن کیا
Going through exact same situation. Came from tx to md 2 months ago pls pray for me . I m lost all i have is Allah and it’s enough. No contact no pro bono idk what Allah has decided but prays will help jazak Allah
Your story is an eyeopener for me especially.. Ma'am you r truely an amazing strong lady...u have been through soo much...we as viewers didnt know about how broken u were when u gave life coaching and motivational talks...May Allah bless You with more happy and satisfied life ahead...
Very emotional and motivational. One thing that is common in every tragic story of a woman and which brings me to ask certain questions, it is that it's always a man behind the abuse whatever sort it is, so is the women we need to fix to at last become a warrior after all the abuse and suffering or is the men needed to be fixed?? Are these men not going through the same upbringing that a woman goes through, it's the flaw in their mothers or the society ??? Who to blame ??? Or yet wait again for a survival story of a woman becoming a warrior eventually....
Beshak
Thanku Earm. shearing zindagee maira bhi apny Rubb py buht trust hai hamisha us n save kia but zindagee buht mushkil hai .dill kabhi kabhi bilkul hoples ho jata hai Kuch sumjh nai ati.
i pray for u that ALLAH give u now the compatible life partner.. Ameen
No one would opt manly woman
عزیز ارم سعید! بلاشبہ آپ نے اپنی آپ بیتی شیئر کر کے بہت ہمت کا ثبوت دیا ہے،ہماری خاطر اپنے درد سے دوبارا گزرنے کے لئے شکریہ،یقینا یہ بہت مشکل کام تھا۔ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کا اجر ضائع نہیں کرے گا انشاء اللہ
a lot of hugs 4 u
I am doing same after 18 years of marriage,at age of 41 with 3 kids....I want to set example for my kids to stand up what's right..never worked but Allah will help
In sha Allah ❤
Same my story..
❤❤❤
Beautifully inspirational ❤️
People have Billion & Billion True Stories to tell others . First of all , We all have to know , What are Beautiful Manners?Cruelty, crimes,abuses, mental health problems.Which things have to fix, in personal matters, families.Awareness is necessary to tell others.A peaceful, healthy, happy life for everyone. Thanks to shares.We were Students of Psychology in many years ago .Golden memories.
I m from pakistan n in newyork at the moment with my 3 yr old beautiful daughter and i passed the same phase n i took myself out with help of my daughter and I believe she is the one who took me out from that abuse and after her i trying to build a better future for her by studying again i was doctor n wanted to do usmle n i m done with all exams by now after that divorce and i have applied here in Usa for residency but i m losing hope again as its very difficult to get when you crossed your years but i did tried but due to again that marriage was stuck , and i also feel guilty that i m not there for her and sometimes my depression make me so harsh on her , i was only studying when she grew up alone and now still struggling I don’t know how to stay strong more n what should I prioritise her future , time for her or the way she need father
Don't lose hope sister! Keep studying and try to find residency. Everything will be fine inshallah
@@ramshanisar9713 thankyou
You are the best mother❤ may Allah make things easy for you bless you with the best. Thank you for taking a stand for yourself. You are really strong. I will pray that your life gets better. I know we humans are sent on this earth for test but whoever has strong faith will eventually gets through it. May Allah give you peace of heart and mind.
Assalamu alaikum .
Thank you Eram for sharing your experience .You are an inspiration for many of us .
I can relate with lots of things you said .
I am from India, and now at 60 years of age with many ups and downs in personal life , I have one msg for my younger sisters and daughters . To fight injustice and abuse , a woman needs to be a woman of substance . That is what I call woman empowerment and it comes from her relation with Allah.
So , focus on why after all we have been sent on this earth .
Really inspirational... MashaAllah... May Allah give you more and more success... and strength
So powerful Eram. Love it!! Keep up the great work.
I am Soo happy to see independent empowered women.... Thats all you need now a days 🙂
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Excellent!! Well said
Mashallah thank you so much for sharing your story nd may Allah Pak bless you helth and good Life ❤😊
I totally agree with u Mam erum...I can understand this situation how much this situation was hard for ourselve but at the end Almighty Allah made us very strong as compare to before n totally keep faith on Allah only he is ur best friend n protect u from bad ppl...so thankful to Allah he is our lord and best n best companion.....
Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. Would really love to meet with you.
Luv ur shawl, very pretty!
U know Eram ma... I lv to call u mother ... My own mother she loves me I know but she supports this violence she had gone through n when I speak against it... She says me n tries to validate those acts of men through quran.. Says herself that she is shareef that she tolerated all this... I had gone thru alot in my childhood for this... Lot to share but I muster my courage now
I could relate to your story Erum your words are exactly my words and the story so similar so unbelievable the only difference is I refused to marry the 2nd time, i don't even want to try!! I came from Kenya grew up in UK so I was very independent ended up marrying a pakistani guy who I let destroy me and my life. Women need to be educated about men and marriages especially in our culture and religion.
independent women.. man can't see..
and in Pakistan a divorce women is curse for society. pll hate
very nice stay blessed
women needa knoe their worth. and need to raise strong men toooo...
Aoa ma'am m Soo happy that you shared your story with us... That's how life is ... However it's crucial for a women to be independent... No matter what married or unmarried or divorced or what so ever...
Hats off to you you are voice of today’s Pakistani women I really impressed with your struggles u r a inspiration for us n for me as well
Their is a huge difference between doctor and a Muslim.....apne sahi kaha appearance sai kuch nahi hota hai lekin hijab mandatory hai ...mai dil sai apko like karti hu i hope ap hijab kai relate aur study kare gi inshAllah apko pata chalai ga that hijab is mandatory/farz not an option
Remember its not an easy life to establish yourself on your own.
Its very hard. Hats off to you Eram!
Its really hit me wen u said an abuser is a very manipulative I gone through tat till today I think becoz of my mistake I got divorce thank u so much fr realise me its nt my mistake
May allah be always with you my dear. Had been a terrible journey. Mashallah you came out of this as a strong gem of a person.
OMG .....koi Sacha hone k bagajir aisi baatain Kar hi nhn sakta
Absolutely Right ▶️