I was quite happy when we moved Christmas down a generation. Now instead of having to pack into someone's too small living room with all my aunts and uncles and cousins that I only put up with one day a year, just me and my siblings and parents get together with our kids at someone's house and we can actually breathe and enjoy spending time together.
@@PowerSpirit50 as I've read from somewhere, renting an entire disneyland for a day is not even that expensive. Still expensive, but not as much as people expect it to be. Maybe I'm capping
As a latinian myself Reimu is so relatable here, god every party people have to bring in people I don't know or couldn't give a shit about and then we have to like introduce ourselves to eachother, but now that I'm an adult and I'm not forced I just ignore them and just do whatever I want in the house.
It is true that bringing back a complete stranger without warning, especially during a family event, is very bad, but until you come out with a prejudice that they are going to separate anyway, it's totally messed up. The prejudice that came out of nowhere
@@slashain What prejudice? You don't know her family or their relationship, why are you making such a big deal out of this? She's got her own perspective on her family members and their relationships, and in this particular instance she was annoyed because she was trying to get her own work done and they brought along another member without being told beforehand, just inviting themselves in. You're ignoring context and inserting your own experience and then getting upset about it. For someone who is more introverted like Reimu and more focused on her own goals then love-life, I can get the frustration of having to meet new faces and not really having a choice at family gatherings. Especially when contrasted by family members who make a big deal out of finding partners, looking at it as a sign of success, while she can't exactly discuss her own individual success (nor in many cases will she be able to explain it to family members out of the loop of online media and tech literacy). Doesn't mean that she should get the final say on who is let in or out of the party, but doesn't make the feeling any less valid.
If the cousin/sibling in question brings a "stranger", introducing them as the "BF/GF" during a family gathering, then I'm with Reimu on that. But if they've already introduced the significant other before the gathering, then yeah, it wouldn't be weird for them to join the family. You'd expect their relationship to mature into marriage after all. Having them in the picture would make for good memories, whether it does or doesn't work
I'm with her on this one too. My sisters fiance took 2years before coming over for Christmas because he didn't wanna impose on the family time. It wasn't til I got to know him that he started coming over for holidays and stuff. Now I can't imagine a Christmas or holiday event without him and his family around but that took time and you don't just show up to the house of a lovers family member you've never even spoke to before let alone never met. That's basically having a stranger in your house joining you for Christmas. People that put their family in such a position are selfish as hell as well. How bad would it be if you turned around and was like "Nah I don't want you here, I don't know you" which is not only your right to do but the most reasonable response. You'd still be the one in the wrong for acting like a rational human being not wanting a stranger in your house for Christmas or whatever is going on.
The problem is the level of entitlement they have about the whole concept of having a huge family. If I tell you I want to be alone then you do exactly that but they dont, they do what they did in Reimu's aunt's case and THATS the issue.
Yeah definitely Bad manners of that Aunt, not just for showing up when she was told that Reimu wasn't up for it, but also showing up with +2 unannounced
Unbelievable how many people are crapping on Reimu in the comments. Like she has to be tolerent of uninvited people bringing another uninvited person who also brought along a loud stranger just because it's the holidays.
@@MotoroidARFC well there's no one saying i can't be a unsufferable prick to everyone who ever stepped inside my room but i choose do not do so. it's one of these hammered down quotes you see everywhere, just because you can doesn't mean you should. And just to be clear my problem is with how unsufferable rude she was being over the mere presence of a relative and her bf, there is obviously something very wrong when you see the tone and words she uses for them. Which begs two questions, if whatever place she lives has a "security dude" why not just ask him not let her in...? if the bf was being loud and she was working and bothering her... why she didn't explained so? even if i agreed with her stance, the whole situation was created by herself not doing anything, which Makes me think she one of these two faced condescenting people who never say anything upfront, acts "chill", sends tons of "hints" of being bothered but refuse to say it when confronted, are nice in front of you but bad mouth you to others when you are away.
What happened to Enna? Is it the christmas effect, she's feels so much more wholesome and happy, its beautiful. All the clips I've seen of her lately are so wholesome and cute, even this roast with the "that's love Reimu", it was filled with positivity rather than the angry/depression of before. I'm in love with this new Enna.
There is the idea that when a girl introduce her boyfriend to the family the relationship became "formal and serious". It's a meme since the dawn of time.
@@herredward9277 A meme (/miːm/ MEEM) is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads by means of imitation from person to person within a culture and often carries symbolic meaning representing a particular phenomenon or theme. - Wikipedia The more you know...
On the Flip Side ennas issue is that, despite people trying to help her, her expectations in actual practice become higher and ability to connect with others falter, according to her experiences. With Her talking about how she wants someone, however the people she has met she just didnt vibe with, but also she doesnt really leave the house alot. But I do wish happiness for everyone one day.
@@Sky_314 People with anxiety tend not to realize this for a decade, if ever. Things start to click when the selfishness, lack of self-awareness, self-victimizing and playing the blame game stops. I'm not sure a bunch of people with anxiety hanging out and enabling each other will ever lead to that though. Not to mention having a career where they never have to leave their houses. Might seem like a paradise for someone with anxiety, but I'm pretty sure it will turn into hell, sooner or later. Unless they get ahead of it somehow.
@@Nomans_Nomen man you're just a bundle of love and cuddles, aren't you? Sarcasm aside, i don't entirety disagree, but speaking as an ex-hikikomori i can absolutely say spending time with my equally damaged and anxious friends online gradually helped me figure out how to like interaction. I definitely think streaming can enable really shitty and unhealthy lifestyles, but as long as you have a support group of people who are actively working improve i think most people will gradually make healthier and healthier decisions, eventually elevating the whole group. It's important to realize that while they all have issues, they have largely DIFFERENT issues, and that allows them to complement each other well.
@@kishinslayer2228 That could happen but it could also go the opposite way. Getting your socialisation from people online is dangerous, no one has their normal filter so people isolated from society can easily get sucked into - divorced from reality echo chambers. The only way to ensure you can bond with people in the real world is to go outside and meet people in the real world, anything less and you're bringing about your own alienation from society.
@@hurrdurrmurrgurr reminder the real world is full of completely out of touch and divorced from reality echo chambers too lmao. That's just life in general you're talking about. People are people, regardless of where you are. But honest people who take responsibility and don't lose their desire to improve and grow don't often fall into those sorts of holes i think. They just kind of naturally avoid people who would be detrimental to them.
glad i'm not the only one that like that last line from Enna it's such a gremlin like tone but at the same time there's a certain charm to it that i find it so cute
Estoy con Reimu esta vez, la Navidad es un evento familiar, puedes pasar los otros 364 dias con amigos, tu pareja, etc. Incluso puedes visitarlos o acompañarlos en Navidad pero solamente hasta antes de las 12 porque al final del dia, es un evento para celebrar en FAMILIA, y no, no digo que tu pareja no lo sea, pero el tambien tiene una familia con quien pasar ese dia, tal vez haya casos donde ambas familias de la pareja decidan pasar la festividad juntos pero aqui en Latinoamerica eso es muy raro de que pase, despues de todo seria raro llevar a un desconocido para algunos miembros de tu familia que aun no lo conocen y estoy hablando de tios, abuelos, primos, etc. El ambiente seria algo incomodo.
I'm with Reimu on this one, as a latinamerican is well known that christmas is a family event, let the bf/gf be with their families on this ONE day! If they get married that's different, but if they are only bf/gf gtfo of my house.
@@CartoonHangout idk about where you live, but in Mexico most families won't let you go before midnight, so basically you can't go to somebody else's house.
@Xenomaniac tú lo dijiste, si ya hay la confianza, pero en el caso de los primos o primas que llevan parejas desconocidos por la familia, no se siente bien, y joden un poco con el ambiente de la fiesta.
My family is ecuadorian and our partners are allowed. Then again the three of us kids are serious about our partners and don't introduce people for fun.
@@anzol4523 in most families if they have been together for at least 3 years then maaaaybe they are part of the family. But most of the time the family only fully accept them when they couple get married. I'm not saying EVERY family is the same, but in my experience that is more less the common thing to do.
big family is pretty fun when i was a child, all family member gather in grandma's house in chinese new year we cook a lot of food, and there's two table, one for children the other for adult it's really happy to shear food with all the family member and everyone just talk about something funny, they try not to ask older child when they got bf(or gf) or not they are really cool
My family isn't quite as large as what Fox Mom described, but we did regularly have 15+ people at Thanksgiving/Christmas when I was a kid (more, if my uncles and aunts from out of town came in). That was just the maternal side of the family, mind you. My dad's side of the family is much more numerous (siblings far apart in age, uncles/aunts the same age as some of their nieces/nephews, etc.), but scattered much further apart. They didn't really do big get-togethers, so I've barely met any of them in the near 40 years I've been alive (and many of them are dead now).
well by my experience, unless it's a crowd, bringing just one person was never bad or needed to be stated. In some families i've seen people being okay with bringing up to 4 people so dunno
I'm with Enna on this one. Relationship is a serious thing, a commitment, not just for fun. If you have a relationship, you need to take care of it. Just like when you got friends, you take care of your friends.
Reimu having 12 cousins is so relatable… I can’t even remember all my aunts, uncles, in-laws, and cousins because I have 6+ aunts/uncles on each side and they each have 2 or 3 children. My generation is a whole ass classroom dude 😭
why everytime Reimu talks i can feel the aura of "Rich kid"? (Security dude, like a from a private residential zone) X'D. Also i'm from latam and many of my family members would start chatting with the boyfriend like he's part of the family (the only exception if they already knew he doesn't like to interact or if the family doesn't like him) also also, 14-16 cousins and still we're a "small" family
I have no coue where she lives but I know in some apartments with multiple floors people need to be cleared to go up. Even if you’re not super wealthy. I live in a rural area so don’t ask me the particulars tho 😂
She’s allowed to not want to talk to a person if they came over to her house not only uninvited but specifically told she didn’t want anyone to come over
I'm in Reimu's situation, lots of cousins, all starting to get married are married or with Boyfriend/girlfriends and I'm just still single just wanting to do my own thing lol
Nina is lucky, she doesn't need to deal with obnoxious people who steal all your sht or call you once a year to see what else they can squeeze out of you
Reimu built different. And I thought it was very common knowledge and culture to introduce your loved one to yar family even if it may or may not last.
@@findingliospugolini8979thing is, Reimu knew that it would fall apart quickly which is why she's dismissive of him. Based on her experience, she knew she wasn't going to see him ever again.
@@MotoroidARFC Thats stupid "Oh nobody wants to be with me more than 1 month...that means every relationship will end in 1 month", Pretty stupid mind set, Reimu just have social problems
As some with 11 grandparents( marriages and divorces and stepparents) and lots of uncles and aunts big families stink. This year I was like a ping pong ball bouncing around all day never able to rest.
"Why, they're gonna break up in a month" Because most people don''t see that. I only care to introduce my SO(s) to people I care about (unless it just naturally happens, like we're all hanging out together for something anyway), after like Years of dating.
I always went to my best friend's family gatherings bc they didn't want to interact with anyone else and they would all want to meet me fsr and I just had my glasses off so I said hi and smiles but don't really remember a single person lol
I agree with Reimu, Christmas is about family... Because what's strongest thing in the world? That's right family. You know it's wrong when Enna is scolding Reimu about "love". THAT Enna 🤣 Enna wants to get married at Disneyland? That explains why Enna is depre evil and good at roasting xD
She is latina, most latin america countries, Bringing your SO to christmas or new years eve, its not a "Yeah i brought a random", you usually bring the SO to meet the family because they are probably thinking already about marriage
"At least you have uncles and aunts to hate!" Nah Nina gotta disagree with ya on that one. Trust me, I know most families are generally chill, but some can get really horrid. Like for my fam it just turns into a thing where every holiday is just not a holiday because they'll show up at some point and you're now miserable, and they'll bother you through the year about money, problems with the grandparents, some other bullshit, all kinds of drama and fights. And you get stuck at their house or whatever for hours for visitation and there ain't nothing to do, you gotta sit there and listen to them complain about how bad their lives are and it's all the government's fault and absolutely not because they all skipped out on school and got themselves arrested and shite. But then you also gotta listen to them try to give you life advice and just nod like it's amazing because they're somehow "wiser" than you despite being dirt poor entirely of their own making et cetera. Nah fam, I'm good.
I've got a "large family", but to me, it's all just strangers that show up to Family Reunions. People that pretend to know me when they see me, behave like I owe them something when I'm left asking myself "how are they even related"
that's what these event are for, to get caught up and interact. Like i know social media made that optional but if you don't engage or at least pay attention to what they are talking they will keep being strangers to you
I have 14 cousins and thats just from my mom's side, my oldest cousin is already married and has a kid, my second oldest cousin is getting married soon, my third oldest cousin was engaged a few months ago, im the 4th oldest and I felt pressured to get married but the problem is im worried about money, my own mental state and my studies
I do feel for Reimu tho xD So many people just coming in and then they have their partners you dun even know like man--Now I have to introduce myself? xD
One end I understand Reimu, you're not in a relationship for getting the entire family, But on the other end, they're still part of the life of your SO and if it's important to them it should be for you, Family isn't that important to me, small family lots of bad history, and just generally exhausting, but if my SO wants me to be there at her family events I'll be there no questions asked no problems and I'll show up like a first date with royalty if needs be
I get you reimu, I have 9 aunts (only by my mom's side) and honestly? I dont even know how many cousins I have now, too many that's for sure Luckily I live far from them XD
Kind of reminds me of Christmas with the Italian side, except with cousins it’s “aunts and uncles”. Remember asking how I was related to someone I didn’t know and was told it was my dads second or third cousin once or twice removed or something.
huh, never stopped and counted my cousins before... weird to finally be able to say that my cousins are in the double digits amount and those are only the ones I have met and know
I mean i can see wanting a bigger family to spend holidays and stuff like that with,but most of the times bigger families are just more people to fight with. (Coming from a huge a family which cannot stay in the same place together for an hour without starting to fight) I remember going to Christmas on a my Friends house (she also has a decent sized family) and people where all together, laughing, drinking and was like "that's a complete different reality bro"
People bring their friends to Christmas in my family. There's about 39 between aunts uncles cousins in laws and outlaws. And half of those people bring at least one friend. Then the neighbors come by throughout the day. One of my uncles has been married 4 times. All 3 of his ex wives come.
Reimu wants to be alone. Why reimu. =< Nina you are lucky to have family that loves you. A portion of my relatives are grouchy and weird whenever I am in the same room; like they don't want me around at all.
Ah I remember being introduced to my fiancées whole extended family at Thanksgiving dinner. We had been dating about 3 years so I was essentially cross interrogated 😔👌 being the only minority was fun too 🙃
It's so weird how that bf was loud and obnoxious. Usually you'd expect SOs to be on their best behavior when meeting the relatives of whoever they're dating.
depends on what is considered bad behaviour. On my countrie basically everyone born before the 2000's speaks loud, period. So unless there was someone sleeping, the "good" behavior wouldn't be speaking low it would be not cursing
I love how enna just going from roasting reimu on not knowing how to love, to "I want to get married at Disneyland"
I think it's edited tho, I think she said it after they were discussing where they want to have a marriage or something like that
Disney princess dreams.
It's about a minute of the discussion skipped
Best part of the roast
Very telling what kind of gf Enna will be.
Lol at Millie being surprised of the number of cousins. Knowing filo fams 12 is just the bare minimum for cousins! Hahaha
Me with parents that both have like 10 siblings, I dont think I can ever remember my cousins name even if I tried to memorize
@@flaria185 my mom has 7 siblings. I have...17 cousins.
@@UtterlyShagged dude my mom has 10 siblings, i have like 30+ cousins 🤣
@@deezillusioned9909 yikes, family gatherings must be huge
@@UtterlyShagged yeah, but some uncles and aunts dont come with their kids so its fine i guess. Still, duper crowded tho
I was quite happy when we moved Christmas down a generation. Now instead of having to pack into someone's too small living room with all my aunts and uncles and cousins that I only put up with one day a year, just me and my siblings and parents get together with our kids at someone's house and we can actually breathe and enjoy spending time together.
Enna is so freaking cute. 'I wanna get married at Disneyland.' So cute.
She cannot afford that.
@@PowerSpirit50 If she would be sparing more of her money, she could.
@@PowerSpirit50 as I've read from somewhere, renting an entire disneyland for a day is not even that expensive. Still expensive, but not as much as people expect it to be. Maybe I'm capping
@@amonfan6429 roughly how much is it? I imagine Disneyland would charge a lot to make it worth not taking any other customers for a whole day.
@@PowerSpirit50 ok
Reimu is so relatable. She's just like us.
Fr fr
You mean single and grumpy?
@@Outside998 😧 too far
@@Outside998 shut 🤏
@@Outside998 Ye pretty much
That fuckin ending tho
its always funny that Enna is the most capable to understand love, and at the same time doesnt give a shit about love
All Paradoxes are true
As a latinian myself Reimu is so relatable here, god every party people have to bring in people I don't know or couldn't give a shit about and then we have to like introduce ourselves to eachother, but now that I'm an adult and I'm not forced I just ignore them and just do whatever I want in the house.
Latina*
😱😱😱😱 having to talk with people oh no 😱😱😱😱😱
I'm with Reimu with this one
It is true that bringing back a complete stranger without warning, especially during a family event, is very bad, but until you come out with a prejudice that they are going to separate anyway, it's totally messed up. The prejudice that came out of nowhere
@@slashain What prejudice? You don't know her family or their relationship, why are you making such a big deal out of this? She's got her own perspective on her family members and their relationships, and in this particular instance she was annoyed because she was trying to get her own work done and they brought along another member without being told beforehand, just inviting themselves in. You're ignoring context and inserting your own experience and then getting upset about it.
For someone who is more introverted like Reimu and more focused on her own goals then love-life, I can get the frustration of having to meet new faces and not really having a choice at family gatherings. Especially when contrasted by family members who make a big deal out of finding partners, looking at it as a sign of success, while she can't exactly discuss her own individual success (nor in many cases will she be able to explain it to family members out of the loop of online media and tech literacy). Doesn't mean that she should get the final say on who is let in or out of the party, but doesn't make the feeling any less valid.
If the cousin/sibling in question brings a "stranger", introducing them as the "BF/GF" during a family gathering, then I'm with Reimu on that.
But if they've already introduced the significant other before the gathering, then yeah, it wouldn't be weird for them to join the family. You'd expect their relationship to mature into marriage after all. Having them in the picture would make for good memories, whether it does or doesn't work
I'm with her on this one too. My sisters fiance took 2years before coming over for Christmas because he didn't wanna impose on the family time. It wasn't til I got to know him that he started coming over for holidays and stuff. Now I can't imagine a Christmas or holiday event without him and his family around but that took time and you don't just show up to the house of a lovers family member you've never even spoke to before let alone never met. That's basically having a stranger in your house joining you for Christmas. People that put their family in such a position are selfish as hell as well. How bad would it be if you turned around and was like "Nah I don't want you here, I don't know you" which is not only your right to do but the most reasonable response. You'd still be the one in the wrong for acting like a rational human being not wanting a stranger in your house for Christmas or whatever is going on.
The problem is the level of entitlement they have about the whole concept of having a huge family. If I tell you I want to be alone then you do exactly that but they dont, they do what they did in Reimu's aunt's case and THATS the issue.
Relateable
Yeah definitely Bad manners of that Aunt, not just for showing up when she was told that Reimu wasn't up for it, but also showing up with +2 unannounced
That's why I have a lock on my door... take the hint...
enna is probably the best shojo heart out of them www
Reimu just got roasted and didn't bat an eyelid. Lol
I dunno if she can even feel it from Enna anymore.
Reimu is in the right here tho.
Don't just bring people unasked that they don't even know.. or rather don't bring ANYONE unasked
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My little sister did that, Reimu.
I feel you.
The duality that is Enna is something I wish I could aspire to be
That ending was Cute and ADORABLE! Great Job! :)
If you have a Disney Pass, you have a better chance at marrying Enna
Awesome... Now I just have find enna and romance her...
And in order to afford anything Disney, you need to be rich. Prices are insane nowadays.
Her voice is so comical
Unbelievable how many people are crapping on Reimu in the comments. Like she has to be tolerent of uninvited people bringing another uninvited person who also brought along a loud stranger just because it's the holidays.
yes she has. And this is a anxious introvert that barely speaks talking
@@ricardomiles2957 riiiiiight. Reimu cannot control her own home. She's not allowed.
@@MotoroidARFC well there's no one saying i can't be a unsufferable prick to everyone who ever stepped inside my room but i choose do not do so. it's one of these hammered down quotes you see everywhere, just because you can doesn't mean you should. And just to be clear my problem is with how unsufferable rude she was being over the mere presence of a relative and her bf, there is obviously something very wrong when you see the tone and words she uses for them. Which begs two questions, if whatever place she lives has a "security dude" why not just ask him not let her in...? if the bf was being loud and she was working and bothering her... why she didn't explained so? even if i agreed with her stance, the whole situation was created by herself not doing anything, which Makes me think she one of these two faced condescenting people who never say anything upfront, acts "chill", sends tons of "hints" of being bothered but refuse to say it when confronted, are nice in front of you but bad mouth you to others when you are away.
What happened to Enna? Is it the christmas effect, she's feels so much more wholesome and happy, its beautiful.
All the clips I've seen of her lately are so wholesome and cute, even this roast with the "that's love Reimu", it was filled with positivity rather than the angry/depression of before.
I'm in love with this new Enna.
I think she got drunk in this collab
@@Chopchopok that explains it
Enna is always wholesome. She's not a boobtuber or sex fiend. She's a gamer.
There is the idea that when a girl introduce her boyfriend to the family the relationship became "formal and serious". It's a meme since the dawn of time.
I dont think thats a "meme" ...
That's just a tradition, not a meme.
@@herredward9277 A meme (/miːm/ MEEM) is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads by means of imitation from person to person within a culture and often carries symbolic meaning representing a particular phenomenon or theme. - Wikipedia
The more you know...
@@bondrewdthenovel3598
Yes, but no one who uses the word “meme” contemporarily would ever mean it in that way.
Fucking hell I didn't expect that sudden romance bomb from Enna. I nearly choked.
On the Flip Side ennas issue is that, despite people trying to help her, her expectations in actual practice become higher and ability to connect with others falter, according to her experiences. With Her talking about how she wants someone, however the people she has met she just didnt vibe with, but also she doesnt really leave the house alot. But I do wish happiness for everyone one day.
Then that's on her not anyone else
@@Sky_314 People with anxiety tend not to realize this for a decade, if ever. Things start to click when the selfishness, lack of self-awareness, self-victimizing and playing the blame game stops. I'm not sure a bunch of people with anxiety hanging out and enabling each other will ever lead to that though. Not to mention having a career where they never have to leave their houses. Might seem like a paradise for someone with anxiety, but I'm pretty sure it will turn into hell, sooner or later. Unless they get ahead of it somehow.
@@Nomans_Nomen man you're just a bundle of love and cuddles, aren't you?
Sarcasm aside, i don't entirety disagree, but speaking as an ex-hikikomori i can absolutely say spending time with my equally damaged and anxious friends online gradually helped me figure out how to like interaction. I definitely think streaming can enable really shitty and unhealthy lifestyles, but as long as you have a support group of people who are actively working improve i think most people will gradually make healthier and healthier decisions, eventually elevating the whole group. It's important to realize that while they all have issues, they have largely DIFFERENT issues, and that allows them to complement each other well.
@@kishinslayer2228 That could happen but it could also go the opposite way. Getting your socialisation from people online is dangerous, no one has their normal filter so people isolated from society can easily get sucked into - divorced from reality echo chambers.
The only way to ensure you can bond with people in the real world is to go outside and meet people in the real world, anything less and you're bringing about your own alienation from society.
@@hurrdurrmurrgurr reminder the real world is full of completely out of touch and divorced from reality echo chambers too lmao. That's just life in general you're talking about. People are people, regardless of where you are. But honest people who take responsibility and don't lose their desire to improve and grow don't often fall into those sorts of holes i think. They just kind of naturally avoid people who would be detrimental to them.
Enna at the end bro, she's so cute 😭
"Do you wanna talk about it, Reimu?"
And the rest was history
"I wanna get married at Disney Land" - Enna Alouette
Aloupeeps, WRITE THAT DOWN
not that we have a chance or anything but WRITE THAT SHIT DOWN!!!!
The way Remiu speaks is exactly how she looks just tired of everything lol
reimu is so relatable, almost sound like a latinamerican young adult
Millie:You have 12 cousins?
Me and every latino family: why? is that weird?
I mean tbf, the only time I could introduce an SO to my whole family is at Christmas lol
Reimu probably grew up with a huge family, so she's probably sick of adding others to the mix 😂
glad i'm not the only one that like that last line from Enna
it's such a gremlin like tone but at the same time there's a certain charm to it that i find it so cute
Estoy con Reimu esta vez, la Navidad es un evento familiar, puedes pasar los otros 364 dias con amigos, tu pareja, etc. Incluso puedes visitarlos o acompañarlos en Navidad pero solamente hasta antes de las 12 porque al final del dia, es un evento para celebrar en FAMILIA, y no, no digo que tu pareja no lo sea, pero el tambien tiene una familia con quien pasar ese dia, tal vez haya casos donde ambas familias de la pareja decidan pasar la festividad juntos pero aqui en Latinoamerica eso es muy raro de que pase, despues de todo seria raro llevar a un desconocido para algunos miembros de tu familia que aun no lo conocen y estoy hablando de tios, abuelos, primos, etc. El ambiente seria algo incomodo.
"I wanna get married at Disneyland" lmao i literally spat the water i was drinking w
I'm with Reimu on this one, as a latinamerican is well known that christmas is a family event, let the bf/gf be with their families on this ONE day! If they get married that's different, but if they are only bf/gf gtfo of my house.
@@CartoonHangout idk about where you live, but in Mexico most families won't let you go before midnight, so basically you can't go to somebody else's house.
@Xenomaniac tú lo dijiste, si ya hay la confianza, pero en el caso de los primos o primas que llevan parejas desconocidos por la familia, no se siente bien, y joden un poco con el ambiente de la fiesta.
My family is ecuadorian and our partners are allowed. Then again the three of us kids are serious about our partners and don't introduce people for fun.
bf/gf IS family for my latinoamerican family darn it
@@anzol4523 in most families if they have been together for at least 3 years then maaaaybe they are part of the family. But most of the time the family only fully accept them when they couple get married. I'm not saying EVERY family is the same, but in my experience that is more less the common thing to do.
big family is pretty fun
when i was a child, all family member gather in grandma's house in chinese new year
we cook a lot of food, and there's two table, one for children the other for adult
it's really happy to shear food with all the family member
and everyone just talk about something funny, they try not to ask older child when they got bf(or gf) or not
they are really cool
It's like Millie is sitting on Nina's lap, almost
My family isn't quite as large as what Fox Mom described, but we did regularly have 15+ people at Thanksgiving/Christmas when I was a kid (more, if my uncles and aunts from out of town came in). That was just the maternal side of the family, mind you.
My dad's side of the family is much more numerous (siblings far apart in age, uncles/aunts the same age as some of their nieces/nephews, etc.), but scattered much further apart. They didn't really do big get-togethers, so I've barely met any of them in the near 40 years I've been alive (and many of them are dead now).
I mean they need to at least tell her someone is coming along
well by my experience, unless it's a crowd, bringing just one person was never bad or needed to be stated. In some families i've seen people being okay with bringing up to 4 people so dunno
I'm with Enna on this one. Relationship is a serious thing, a commitment, not just for fun. If you have a relationship, you need to take care of it. Just like when you got friends, you take care of your friends.
Reimu is so real
Reimu having 12 cousins is so relatable… I can’t even remember all my aunts, uncles, in-laws, and cousins because I have 6+ aunts/uncles on each side and they each have 2 or 3 children. My generation is a whole ass classroom dude 😭
why everytime Reimu talks i can feel the aura of "Rich kid"? (Security dude, like a from a private residential zone) X'D. Also i'm from latam and many of my family members would start chatting with the boyfriend like he's part of the family (the only exception if they already knew he doesn't like to interact or if the family doesn't like him) also also, 14-16 cousins and still we're a "small" family
I have no coue where she lives but I know in some apartments with multiple floors people need to be cleared to go up. Even if you’re not super wealthy. I live in a rural area so don’t ask me the particulars tho 😂
Yeah, she is a rich kid, she never went to get groceries in her life until a couple days ago, and she thought everyone has a bidet in the house.
She is the worst kind of rich kid...a Latina rich kid...
She’s allowed to not want to talk to a person if they came over to her house not only uninvited but specifically told she didn’t want anyone to come over
Tbf, with the whole bidet thing, I can 100% believe she is one, I really never knew what the fuck a bidet was up until that one clip.
Why do i get the feeling Enna is going to marry Donald Duck
Oh man what a punchline to all of that from Enna.
security dude ??? bro what kind of house has a security dude
Nina : "You want to talk about it Reimu"
Reimu : *Joker plays*
That rich coming from Enna .. lol
She saw an opportunity to roast and she takes it like a champ.. another normal day in ethyria
That cute enna at last.
I'm in Reimu's situation, lots of cousins, all starting to get married are married or with Boyfriend/girlfriends and I'm just still single just wanting to do my own thing lol
The literal definition of TMI
Nina is lucky, she doesn't need to deal with obnoxious people who steal all your sht or call you once a year to see what else they can squeeze out of you
Reimu built different. And I thought it was very common knowledge and culture to introduce your loved one to yar family even if it may or may not last.
It is common, just not on christmas T . T that's like a family exclusive event lmao.
Where I’m from, you bring your S/O on Christmas if it’s serious/getting serious. Like, potential marriage.
@@findingliospugolini8979thing is, Reimu knew that it would fall apart quickly which is why she's dismissive of him. Based on her experience, she knew she wasn't going to see him ever again.
@@MotoroidARFC Thats stupid "Oh nobody wants to be with me more than 1 month...that means every relationship will end in 1 month", Pretty stupid mind set, Reimu just have social problems
@@GrEEnF1Re1 not Reimu, her materialistic cousin who goes through boyfriends pretty quick and only cares whether they have lots of money.
As some with 11 grandparents( marriages and divorces and stepparents) and lots of uncles and aunts big families stink. This year I was like a ping pong ball bouncing around all day never able to rest.
lmao enna is too cute
Being I meet most of my family in the forever box I thankfully dont have this problem
12 cousins ROOKIE NUMBERS
"Why, they're gonna break up in a month"
Because most people don''t see that.
I only care to introduce my SO(s) to people I care about (unless it just naturally happens, like we're all hanging out together for something anyway), after like Years of dating.
I always went to my best friend's family gatherings bc they didn't want to interact with anyone else and they would all want to meet me fsr and I just had my glasses off so I said hi and smiles but don't really remember a single person lol
I agree with Reimu, Christmas is about family... Because what's strongest thing in the world? That's right family.
You know it's wrong when Enna is scolding Reimu about "love". THAT Enna 🤣
Enna wants to get married at Disneyland? That explains why Enna is depre evil and good at roasting xD
I'd say Christmas is about loved ones, not just your family.
Family is overrated.
She is latina, most latin america countries, Bringing your SO to christmas or new years eve, its not a "Yeah i brought a random", you usually bring the SO to meet the family because they are probably thinking already about marriage
"At least you have uncles and aunts to hate!"
Nah Nina gotta disagree with ya on that one. Trust me, I know most families are generally chill, but some can get really horrid.
Like for my fam it just turns into a thing where every holiday is just not a holiday because they'll show up at some point and you're now miserable, and they'll bother you through the year about money, problems with the grandparents, some other bullshit, all kinds of drama and fights. And you get stuck at their house or whatever for hours for visitation and there ain't nothing to do, you gotta sit there and listen to them complain about how bad their lives are and it's all the government's fault and absolutely not because they all skipped out on school and got themselves arrested and shite. But then you also gotta listen to them try to give you life advice and just nod like it's amazing because they're somehow "wiser" than you despite being dirt poor entirely of their own making et cetera. Nah fam, I'm good.
Just 12 cousins? Reimu that's weak sauce. Watch this:
*50 distant relatives incoming to a marriage event*
Enna saying it likes she's not one too
Bro since Reimu is latina I relate to this so much hahaha
We'll miss Nina; Ethyria 4ever
I've got a "large family", but to me, it's all just strangers that show up to Family Reunions. People that pretend to know me when they see me, behave like I owe them something when I'm left asking myself "how are they even related"
that's what these event are for, to get caught up and interact. Like i know social media made that optional but if you don't engage or at least pay attention to what they are talking they will keep being strangers to you
ngl... Reimu is spitting facts here.
Nono, Reimu has a point here
if you are a rude and anti social prick yes
Things like this explain why reimu is a ghost. Dead inside
I have 14 cousins and thats just from my mom's side, my oldest cousin is already married and has a kid, my second oldest cousin is getting married soon, my third oldest cousin was engaged a few months ago, im the 4th oldest and I felt pressured to get married but the problem is im worried about money, my own mental state and my studies
I do feel for Reimu tho xD So many people just coming in and then they have their partners you dun even know like man--Now I have to introduce myself? xD
i dunno, that's so weird, i have axienty, i'm an introvert and i barely speak in conversations yet i have no problems with these events.
Enna wanna say her lines with her future husband in a rollercoaster
"I want to get married at Disneyland" Enna, you can't even ride half the rides I bet.
One end I understand Reimu, you're not in a relationship for getting the entire family,
But on the other end, they're still part of the life of your SO and if it's important to them it should be for you,
Family isn't that important to me, small family lots of bad history, and just generally exhausting, but if my SO wants me to be there at her family events I'll be there no questions asked no problems and I'll show up like a first date with royalty if needs be
I get you reimu, I have 9 aunts (only by my mom's side) and honestly? I dont even know how many cousins I have now, too many that's for sure
Luckily I live far from them XD
Ngl Reimu might be my spirit animal
Partners are family
Reimu is my spirit animal
The ghost has security huh?
You're able to keep track of how many cousins you have? Damn must be nice
Kind of reminds me of Christmas with the Italian side, except with cousins it’s “aunts and uncles”. Remember asking how I was related to someone I didn’t know and was told it was my dads second or third cousin once or twice removed or something.
So true, I cant even remember who my nephews are anymore, never mind my 50+ list of cousins whose names are in the wind.
huh, never stopped and counted my cousins before... weird to finally be able to say that my cousins are in the double digits amount and those are only the ones I have met and know
Oh god Enna wanting to get married at disneyland is precious
3:06 Noted.
I love Enna lol
Platonically
I mean i can see wanting a bigger family to spend holidays and stuff like that with,but most of the times bigger families are just more people to fight with.
(Coming from a huge a family which cannot stay in the same place together for an hour without starting to fight)
I remember going to Christmas on a my Friends house (she also has a decent sized family) and people where all together, laughing, drinking and was like "that's a complete different reality bro"
People bring their friends to Christmas in my family. There's about 39 between aunts uncles cousins in laws and outlaws. And half of those people bring at least one friend. Then the neighbors come by throughout the day. One of my uncles has been married 4 times. All 3 of his ex wives come.
🤣🤣🤣 concuerdo con Reimu, a la verga los noviazgos de 1 mes!
I'm glad that i have a small family
I 100% agree with Reimu
"omg you have 12 cousins?"
yes Enna, maybe even more
also like 20+ uncles/aunts
also a f*ck ton of nieces and nephews
Reimu so based for this
Reimu wants to be alone. Why reimu. =<
Nina you are lucky to have family that loves you. A portion of my relatives are grouchy and weird whenever I am in the same room; like they don't want me around at all.
That's pretty ironic coming from Enna, ngl.
I have 35 cousins... those are rookie numbers
LOL 3:05 Enna to close it out.
... I have 19 first cousins and like 30 second cousins just from my mom's side. Large families can be exhausting.
Ah I remember being introduced to my fiancées whole extended family at Thanksgiving dinner. We had been dating about 3 years so I was essentially cross interrogated 😔👌 being the only minority was fun too 🙃
It's so weird how that bf was loud and obnoxious. Usually you'd expect SOs to be on their best behavior when meeting the relatives of whoever they're dating.
depends on what is considered bad behaviour. On my countrie basically everyone born before the 2000's speaks loud, period. So unless there was someone sleeping, the "good" behavior wouldn't be speaking low it would be not cursing