Top Challenges Foreigners Face in Malaysia

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  • @MaxChernov
    @MaxChernov  Рік тому +7

    NEXT: Watch the video with Nordin Abdullah, an Australian who's lived in Malaysia for 30 years and speaks fluent Malay: ua-cam.com/video/x4sU8v1fUvE/v-deo.html

    • @nicoanye9842
      @nicoanye9842 Рік тому

      Wow interesting.

    • @matthiasschuster9505
      @matthiasschuster9505 3 місяці тому +1

      Ever thought of including the timestamp and chapter for the title of the thumbnail? 06:05

  • @defgabc07
    @defgabc07 Рік тому +354

    I think it was a foreigner from a neighboring country who asking for a photo. Malaysians rarely take photos randomly with Westerners unless they already know each other.

    • @xeedsenterprise505
      @xeedsenterprise505 Рік тому

      @feruzz Betul tu? Baru2 ni nampak si Bangla kencing merata. Aku tegur. Stesen Petronas tu dekat!

    • @vister6757
      @vister6757 Рік тому +39

      True most Malaysians don't do that.

    • @quickservice9595
      @quickservice9595 Рік тому +5

      @@vister6757 I agree with you

    • @tyeoh2972
      @tyeoh2972 Рік тому +5

      Agree

    • @patrickm4529
      @patrickm4529 Рік тому +29

      exactly... especially in KL where kids grew up seeing caucasian all the time, it's really nothing special about them that makes us want to take photos with them... 😅

  • @lightsun-brightmoon633
    @lightsun-brightmoon633 Рік тому +273

    First time in my life I hear Malaysian wants to take picture with foreigner. As a Malaysian I don't want to take picture with random people

    • @leefonda6203
      @leefonda6203 Рік тому +56

      I agree, local Malaysians don't do that. I'm guessing these are workers from other poor Asian countries who want to impress their buddies here or friends back home that they are hanging out with a Caucasian girl.

    • @mrboskitv7197
      @mrboskitv7197 Рік тому +18

      @@suhanjayalian5044 kulihat ramai aja indonsiall yg berfoto dgn warga asing dari bangladesh, nepal…malah kawin😂. Mgkin di indonsial ngak pernah jumpa😂

    • @hawaadam784
      @hawaadam784 Рік тому +5

      Yup, same with me. First time i heard that.

    • @amirloqman9076
      @amirloqman9076 Рік тому +1

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 kamu sebenarnya keturunan Orang Indonesia Timur kan?

    • @loonaticzack3447
      @loonaticzack3447 Рік тому

      @@suhanjayalian5044 your bibik are fucking with bangla here 😂. come save your people from them 🤣😂

  • @gabriellin1352
    @gabriellin1352 Рік тому +187

    FYI, Malaysians don’t simply or randomly take photos with foreigners no matter how weird, ugly, beautiful, famous or infamous you are. That’s not our culture or the trend here. 99% of those people who do that are most likely foreigners of other Asia countries who works, lives or stays in Malaysia 😊

    • @msr.i.p3704
      @msr.i.p3704 Рік тому +9

      Agreed

    • @cj-fx2kj
      @cj-fx2kj Рік тому +1

      U pendatang chnese not malaysian

    • @irfannaufal504
      @irfannaufal504 Рік тому +18

      @@cj-fx2kj wtf bro...dia cuma kata benda betul. orang malaysia takkan ambil gmbar dengan foreigner melainkan da establish sebagai kawan utk memori

    • @astakonaaves8029
      @astakonaaves8029 Рік тому +1

      @@irfannaufal504 ada orang Malaysia ajak ambil gambar.
      kawan aku orang Melayu Malaysia ajak seorang perempuan orang putih bergambar sekali. tapi kawan aku ni kena reject.

    • @VSSiBurncodYT
      @VSSiBurncodYT Рік тому

      ​@@astakonaaves8029 mungkin dia igt artis la tu..mesti balik tu dia nk cek..kalau bukan artis dia delete

  • @yasin92anuar
    @yasin92anuar Рік тому +335

    Well after living in Malaysia for 6 years, Synne still failed to differentiate between a Malaysian and some foreign workers. Foreigners doesn't excites nor intimidates us to begin with. Unless she's some famous influencer, ain't no real Malaysian want to take to pics with a foreigner no matter how attractive you're.

    • @khairultazmantuaman5423
      @khairultazmantuaman5423 Рік тому

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 Hahaha......look who is commenting, the gorilla species from konoha. Indon2.....

    • @mir7684
      @mir7684 Рік тому +47

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044indon paling ramai

    • @sitimariambintibasharie9711
      @sitimariambintibasharie9711 Рік тому +46

      @@suhanjayalian5044sibuk nak reply tapi tak faham dgn english comment kat atas tu.

    • @sitimariambintibasharie9711
      @sitimariambintibasharie9711 Рік тому +36

      @@mir7684 tu lah.. Dalam mana2 komen dia kat video2 lain pun habis disebut semua negara tp yg pelik tak nak pulak dimasukkan sekali negara dia dlm list pdhal warga dia paling ramai kat sini.

    • @farizaisgreat
      @farizaisgreat Рік тому +27

      ​@@sitimariambintibasharie9711 Dia tak kisah kena kutuk ka teguq ka. Better jangan layan. Lama2 dia sedaq diri dia tak glamer pun. Deni terhegeh2 nak attention.

  • @damdameserdam
    @damdameserdam Рік тому +144

    As malaysian...even mixed race...even my mum look like european...i dont think malaysian love to ask stranger take picture...unless there are foreigner that pretend to be malaysian...such bangladesh indian or indonesian😅 we malaysian take care our privacy and respect other people privacy...we know its wrong to take picture with stranger...any stranger try take photo can go to jail...i can conform only non malaysia can do this because they dont understand the law and culture...

  • @kamwaichan8048
    @kamwaichan8048 Рік тому +71

    I am not sure Malaysians on the street will ask a stranger (especially a foreigner) for a photographer, why would anyone want a photograph of you? 💭💭💭

    • @amirulzahiri4336
      @amirulzahiri4336 Рік тому +4

      maybe some immigrants also... i bet most from nepal..bangladesh..

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @mohdyaseenshaikdawood3801
    @mohdyaseenshaikdawood3801 Рік тому +84

    Malaysian dont do that (requesting photo selfie from stranger) unless you are super famous like blackpink probably. i beleive she bumped an indonesian probably working in malaysia. These are common there not here. Malaysian respect your privacy and we are more reserved unless you started friendly conversation with us

    • @astakonaaves8029
      @astakonaaves8029 Рік тому

      kawan aku orang Melayu Malaysia ada minta bergambar dengan perempuan orang putih. tapi kena reject. orang Melayu yang taksub dengan orang putih yang kebiasaannya minta bergambar.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @mintyworld22
    @mintyworld22 Рік тому +484

    That's odd. Malaysians generally never asks strangers for photos unless the person is famous or an influencer, I guess those people not Malaysian. Also, chewing food with mouth open or talking with mouth full is considered rude in Malaysia too.

    • @astakonaaves8029
      @astakonaaves8029 Рік тому +2

      My friend ask strange from western to take pictures together. Weird.

    • @babibrain
      @babibrain Рік тому +42

      It could be challenging to recognize foreigners since it is very multicultural. Malaysia has a lot of foreigners only Malaysian can easily differentiate them.

    • @astakonaaves8029
      @astakonaaves8029 Рік тому +3

      @@babibrain My friend are Malaysian malay. He ask foreigners to take pictures with him and she (foreigners) politely reject him.

    • @Dasa22222
      @Dasa22222 Рік тому +8

      Usually this attitude is from our neighbours country

    • @kamaliam.a8231
      @kamaliam.a8231 Рік тому +20

      finally, somebody had spoken the truth.. we r not amaze with foreigners.. please..

  • @naimanuar4069
    @naimanuar4069 Рік тому +496

    I don’t think those people who asked you photos are Malaysian. They probably Indonesian or Indian from India. Malaysian generally too shy to ask

    • @naimanuar4069
      @naimanuar4069 Рік тому

      @@suhanjayalian5044 indon sedar diri sikit la. Korang memang tak tau malu

    • @nofayusop82
      @nofayusop82 Рік тому

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 freak indonesian

    • @vister6757
      @vister6757 Рік тому

      Not too shy but we have seen enough foreigners. They are nothing special unless the foreigners are superstars, celebrities, sportspersons, influencers, or the like.

    • @annesalleh1094
      @annesalleh1094 Рік тому +41

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 dah ko ckp kota Malangsia betul lh tu org indon..Malang kn kota di Jawa Indonesia pak...

    • @amirloqman9076
      @amirloqman9076 Рік тому +43

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 betul lah orang Indonesia kan suka sama bule.

  • @ThePro-ce1rs
    @ThePro-ce1rs Рік тому +96

    Bila masanya orang malaysia suka nak selfie dgn mat saleh😂😂. Rakyat Malaysia dah muak tengok ramai mat saleh berkeliaran di malaysia. Rakyat Malaysia ni sebenarnya jenis tak ganggu privasi orang lain terutamanya foreigner.. Malas nak ambil port

    • @isMeesadin
      @isMeesadin Рік тому +6

      dia syok kot sbb yg mntak bergambar confirm bangla etc

    • @princeeunus2891
      @princeeunus2891 Рік тому

      Haram jadah :
      Possibly foreigners working in malaysia mostly want to take pictures.. malaysian got no interest.. maybe they want take picture and make her feel special and welcomed or appreciate her... this kind of foreigners are mostly arrogant and look down at asian since thousands of years...
      asking what do we do with your photos... telling malaysian to take photos with their family more rather than with friends is really fcukedtup girl... while she is taking pictures and making this video with her own brother(family)... clearly a fcukup..
      Foreigners Dating Foreigners in Malaysia is difficult... fcuking norvegans..

    • @nahhh...
      @nahhh... Рік тому +9

      Xtau la betine ni syok sndiri ke camne ahahahah

    • @faridahad5840
      @faridahad5840 Рік тому

      Skrg Aku lebih risau mat Dan minah salleh yg dtg ni...nak pulak yg DTg berdua Sama jantina..risau LGBT Aja..😅..bukan X suka minah n mat salleh tapi budaya mereka terlampau terbuka..mmg X sesuai dgn ajaran Islam n asia

    • @ashleighAshlee
      @ashleighAshlee 9 місяців тому

      Mindset betina ni dia Ingat dia ni mat salleh so tahap selebriti LMFAO

  • @batsuperman2387
    @batsuperman2387 Рік тому +201

    I am 99% sure that the people that asked to take picture with her are Indonesians.

    • @Kane_2001
      @Kane_2001 Рік тому +24

      Suruhanjaya Lian tengah aktif

    • @zimsam59
      @zimsam59 Рік тому +7

      TRUE WELL SAID BRAVO 👏

    • @amirloqman9076
      @amirloqman9076 Рік тому +10

      ​@@Kane_2001 nama sebenar dia Jhoni Hantarto alias Jhoni Andreas Faska.

    • @mahani3173
      @mahani3173 Рік тому +8

      Bukan 99% tapi 200% Indonesian kalau wanita, lelaki pula dari Pakistan, India, Nepal Dan Bangladesh. Cuba tengok reaction culture shock bule sendiri diIndonesia

    • @amirloqman9076
      @amirloqman9076 Рік тому +4

      @@adiraemilee because mindset zaman colonial Netherlands East Indies never faded

  • @mekongriver64
    @mekongriver64 Рік тому +49

    Malaysia is one of the most easy countries in South East Asia, very easy to travel in the country, never you feel alone there and very easy to make friends, yes beautiful islands and near to many beautiful countries, if you have money in your pocket you can have a wonderful life there, very nice place to be retired and you can have everything there cheaper than in Singaporean, missing to be there

    • @12567NoYouCannot
      @12567NoYouCannot Рік тому

      EASY to Make FRIENDS?? !!!!!!!!!!!! This PLACE is WORST than Washington USA and that's a LOT to SAY!!! MALAYSIA is by FAR the WORST Place to make friends; the people HERE Are SO UNFRIENDLY & hateful towards the foreigners.

    • @patriciavandevelde5469
      @patriciavandevelde5469 Рік тому

      What island and highlite do you recommend me to live !!!! I m 62 European woman

    • @mekongriver64
      @mekongriver64 Рік тому

      @@patriciavandevelde5469 for sure Langkawi, Tioman and also Perintian, Langkawi is in the West cost and the other 2 in the east cost, Kuala Lumpur is nice city and you can find everything like in Singapore but cheaper

    • @forzajuve4935
      @forzajuve4935 10 місяців тому

      Thats interesting, I'm from Denmark and we are actually prohibited to travel to Malaysia because the risk of kidnapping and terrorism is so high. Unless we have a legit government supported reason to go to malaysia then we cant travel there. The government guidelines say to never have your phone or laptop out in public or you will get robbed, never carry money or a purse in public or you will get robbed, never travel anywhere alone or you risk assault and kidnapping.
      Ive never been to malaysia so I cant say from experience, but is malaysia really that dangerous?

    • @mekongriver64
      @mekongriver64 10 місяців тому

      @@forzajuve4935 wow I don't know why your country say about Malaysia like that but is very friendly welcoming country and very nice people the I formation your government give is very wrong really, Malaysia is very safe and beautiful country

  • @GobiSubramaniam
    @GobiSubramaniam Рік тому +184

    Dating here in Malaysia are hard because it is VERY different than in Europe. First of all, dating is considered a foreign culture so some people are uncomfortable of being alone with others. Secondly, dating in Malaysia often happens to get to know another person while in Europe, it could be done for sexual interaction which usually does not happen here. Thirdly, Malaysians attend to seek long-term relationship with someone and therefore, they could not ask a girl out on a date as often they could be asked in Europe. And lastly, religious factors plays a bigger role here in Malaysia compare to Europe. Malaysia has four major religions - Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism and Christianity - and of all these four, only Christians could go on dates easily while the other three religious followers could be more conservative and conserved.

    • @mohdariff4432
      @mohdariff4432 Рік тому +20

      you were spot on bro. we kindly a lil bit reserve in terms of relationships because we value the time we spend to reach that point, because we've been thought what ever happen, family number 1. because we have been thought ASIAN culture compare to Open culture in western country.

    • @GobiSubramaniam
      @GobiSubramaniam Рік тому +5

      @@mohdariff4432 - Yes, which is a common feature in most Asian cultures regardless of their religions.

    • @narutokun5765
      @narutokun5765 Рік тому +2

      Bro, totally i agree with u.....

    • @farahharis5016
      @farahharis5016 Рік тому +12

      Agreed with u,I have a friend n best friend indian..she never go out for date with a man..because her family too strict on tht matter..they can have relationship once engaged..for me I'm really proud to be conservative and reserved..we gain respect from others..

    • @GobiSubramaniam
      @GobiSubramaniam Рік тому +6

      ​@@farahharis5016 - Problem with Westerners coming to Asia is that they often associate terms like Traditions and Conservative to Religion ideals.
      In Asia, if I were to define Conservative and Tradition into a sentence, it could be "Asia is a DIVERSE society with COMMON SHARED TRAITS." These common traits may or may not have links to religion.

  • @cgt_rtx7217
    @cgt_rtx7217 Рік тому +37

    I saw in tiktok some of Malaysian happy living in Norway for 15 years bcause the weather.. now i see Norwegians happy living in Malaysia..

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @KhalixMR
    @KhalixMR Рік тому +21

    In Malay culture, chewing with one's mouth open is considered rude. This is one of the dining manners that we've learnt early on.
    Some other things considered rude are talking while you're chewing, and making sounds while you're chewing (the 'chap chap' sound).

    • @imanmanimanman7667
      @imanmanimanman7667 Рік тому +2

      Warga asing la tu tapi dia anggap warga Malaysia nak buat macam mana😢😢😢

    • @KhalixMR
      @KhalixMR Рік тому

      @@imanmanimanman7667 tu lah..masyarakat dah global sgt sampai susah nak beza...dah le orang Melayu muka banyak range 😂

    • @alamshah9432
      @alamshah9432 Рік тому +1

      Itu dh thu bukan malaysia, warga asing ramai di sini, muka plak sama. Tabiat org malaysia di didik., tp kalau org asing tak sama mcm malaysia cara didik kita.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @ashraff_khan
    @ashraff_khan Рік тому +40

    Nooooooo Malaysian wants to take photo with a stranger 😅.. that's probably foreign workers especially from indonesia or philippines.. We Malaysian have our pride and we don't look up on foreigner not anymore.. Those probably in the 90'. Now we're well developed and modern country world class citizens

    • @alamshah9432
      @alamshah9432 Рік тому

      Tu la, tak mungkin la rakyat Malaysia. Itu warga asing, cara dia ckp pom itu bukan warga Malaysia. 😂

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

    • @IlalangSalmanSetiadji
      @IlalangSalmanSetiadji 5 місяців тому

      'Well developed' banglasia talks alll mighty. Indonesians are starting to retreat from you slum ravaged country. Came to KL once and was so dirty, never wanting to go back, it is like little Dhaka.

  • @ftinftin8937
    @ftinftin8937 Рік тому +36

    The reason locals won't ask for photos is because we are a multi-cultural society we are so used being surrounded by different faces. Unless the person is a famous figure or artiste we definitely won't miss the chance.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @khai77
    @khai77 Рік тому +109

    I am Malaysian. Stories I hear of asking strangers to take a photo with is weird even to me. Feels rude and invasive no? Not sure if this is a generational thing. I propose all foreigners just say no and walk away and we will track if this trend dies by the next generation 😁

    • @nurhendry5464
      @nurhendry5464 Рік тому +2

      Big soport for but still depend on individual...
      If you are frendly then its challage for to take best shot picture. Even japan people the one will not bother you but if you ask them and say hai...they are friendly

    • @patrickm4529
      @patrickm4529 Рік тому +14

      ​@@suhanjayalian5044 you just never get tired of saying bad things about other countries do ya? As if your own country Indonesia is the most perfect country in the world 🙄 you must be fun at parties i guess 🤷

    • @amirloqman9076
      @amirloqman9076 Рік тому

      @@suhanjayalian5044bukannya keturunan Londo Ireng keturunan pencacai penjajah Belanda macam kau ni suka sangat lah bergambar dengan orang asing (bule)? Tahu lah kau tak suka sangat lah dengan orang Melayu

    • @Babu_belanda586
      @Babu_belanda586 Рік тому

      @@suhanjayalian5044 selalu nya bngsa iq gorila begitu teruja dgn bule bila trnampak bule terus bngsa iq gorila meminta mau berfoto betapa joroknya bngsa iq gorila

    • @damdameserdam
      @damdameserdam Рік тому

      @Suhanjaya Lian we malaysia know its wrong and forbidden 🚫 can't take photo of stranger unless u want go jail...only non malaysia don't know this law...all malaysia know its forbidden...plz don't comment If u don't know our country law...as mixed race even my mum look like european-one time guy the foreigner try take my mum picture and the guard stop him...and ask to delete unless want go to police and see in court end up to jail...we have law for that...all malaysian know what the meaning privacy...even take picture from our people from Facebook can go to court 😄...plz don't show your stupid mind and comment...

  • @martinriver801
    @martinriver801 Рік тому +60

    As a westerner who moved to Kuala Lumpur this year I totally understand what she means about the dating culture. If you're not interested in the locals there are very limited options for you and if you're not part of a major demographic group you're going to be lonely as most people stick to their own kind. Even if you are interested in dating a local its going to take you a long time to progress in your relationship as people's concept of a relationship is a lot different than the people in the west even if they're in their 20's. If you value having romantic relationships before marriage you're going to have a really tough time here.

    • @onncpp
      @onncpp Рік тому +11

      Yep.. Intimacy is only after marriage

    • @inovasitiglobal6062
      @inovasitiglobal6062 Рік тому

      ​@@ieynna09 I love your confidence level

    • @akudandiy4746
      @akudandiy4746 Рік тому

      @@ieynna09 🤣

    • @Abdallah_79916
      @Abdallah_79916 Рік тому +2

      @@onncppthat’s good, better than the west here I tell u

    • @malakispanien
      @malakispanien Рік тому

      @@Abdallah_79916Dull and boring country you got, no dates, no fun. Nothing better than the West. I can see soo many millions want to immigrate to Malaysia lol

  • @SuhaimiAmir
    @SuhaimiAmir Рік тому +30

    3:00 I don't think that's Malaysian. Probabbly also a foreigner/tourist.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @lromycl
    @lromycl Рік тому +77

    Maybe I'm just not aware of my surrounding but I don't really think chewing with your mouth open is a thing in Malaysia 😂, pretty sure I was taught since young it's rude to do so 😅

    • @aidenho6085
      @aidenho6085 Рік тому

      Only posh people with good etiquettes chew with mouth closed. Only peasants chew with mouth open

    • @felreizmeshinca7459
      @felreizmeshinca7459 Рік тому

      ​@@daughterofMostHighGod I do hear it from time to time, but I guess it is not as common or depends where you go. 🤔 For me and my family or friends, we don't do that.

    • @azryniskandar1346
      @azryniskandar1346 Рік тому

      Prolly for gen Xs & Ys but certain baby boomers still chew with their mouths open. Table manners & etiquettes are still odd to some especially ppl from rural areas.

    • @micakal1602
      @micakal1602 Рік тому

      ​thanks @@daughterofMostHighGod

    • @chriso5842
      @chriso5842 Рік тому

      The Chinese do that.

  • @imranzaidi1486
    @imranzaidi1486 Рік тому +28

    I kinda agree with her on everything except the taking pictures part? I don't think I've seen anyone do that, that is a super weird thing to do. Are you sure they're even Malaysians? They might be foreigners or foreign workers though, we do have a lot of them here..

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @mahmoud88789
    @mahmoud88789 Рік тому +556

    Dating is difficult because you are a vegetarian 😂😂

  • @六爷-r7o
    @六爷-r7o Рік тому +27

    As a Norwegian Russian, the lady speaks fluent English with a perfect accent. I am impressed.

    • @henrirobert1079
      @henrirobert1079 Рік тому

      She speaks american with a discusting accent.... another reason for not dating her...

    • @mindawareness
      @mindawareness Рік тому

      russian invade urakine... bad russians...

    • @brandoparedes4305
      @brandoparedes4305 Рік тому +2

      i live in Norway and norwegians in general have a good english. They have the opportunity to travel around countries in their life so they take advantage of these opportunities and create international networking.

    • @六爷-r7o
      @六爷-r7o Рік тому

      @@brandoparedes4305 But she is also Russian, and the Russian accent of English seems eternal for Russians.

    • @natalias1212
      @natalias1212 Рік тому

      ​​@@mindawareness she do not invade. You need to stop spreading hate

  • @shamsulanuaraliash8475
    @shamsulanuaraliash8475 Рік тому +15

    Tip - we have minimum wage (although not the best) and paid monthly (unlike such as in America, paycheck to paycheck). We have strict Employment Act (which many do not know).
    In Malay culture, it's a no no to talk while eating.

    • @pkwanchua
      @pkwanchua Рік тому

      Same with Malaysian Chinese culture, a "No-No" to talk with food in mouth ! Consider as rude, bad manner by Chinese Malaysian elders !

  • @CRUZEOO
    @CRUZEOO Рік тому +45

    5:24
    "people chew with their mouth open"
    definitely not by most malaysians, the malays dont do that, we have this thing called 'adat' , english doesnt have a word for it but its similar to 'customs'. or simply it means unwritten, traditional code governing all aspects of personal conduct from birth to death.
    example: like you see alot of malay kids/youngsters, when they greet the parents, adults, elders they will take your hand and bow and put your hand on/close to their face or forehead as a sign of respect.
    so eating with your mouth close is one of them.. its considered rude to eat with your mouth open on a table with others

    • @mohdhadri7119
      @mohdhadri7119 Рік тому

      👍👍👍👍👍

    • @PENIUPWISEL
      @PENIUPWISEL Рік тому +5

      In english it's similar to ethic/moral.

    • @lromycl
      @lromycl Рік тому +6

      @@jsurfin1 As a Malaysian Chinese, I've been taught it was rude to open your mouth while chewing, it's common sense 😂
      Have you interacted with any Malaysian who like to open their mouth wide while eating? I'm pretty sure I've not observed that before, probably some older folks might do it but I can't recall such thing happened.

    • @jsurfin1
      @jsurfin1 Рік тому +1

      @@lromycl So you’ve been taught proper etiquette. Good for you but it doesn’t mean everyone has had the same education. Like you said, probably older folks tend to display such behavior so it does exist. No need to get defensive. I’ve lived in Malaysia for quite a number of years so this is just my observations.

    • @lromycl
      @lromycl Рік тому +4

      @@jsurfin1 1. I'm just sharing my perspective since you specifically mentioned Chinese
      2. Again, I'm sharing fact based on my observation. I acknowledge that I might not be too aware of my surrounding but I don't remember seeing this being a common occurrence in Malaysia as a whole.
      It's not a defensive statement, you shared your observation and I shared mine 🤣, let's just leave it at that ✌️

  • @UncleDougDeli
    @UncleDougDeli Рік тому +14

    If you are a beautiful foreigner then the more Malaysian will not ask to take a photo with you because when it comes to stranger, we are super shy but we are also super helpful and friendly with foreigners.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому +1

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @brothersman524
    @brothersman524 Рік тому +43

    I agree with her on many levels
    I am from the UK born and bred but I do know a lot about Asian culture being of Pakistani heritage so I get the western perspective being bought up in western society as well as the Asian cultures. I have also travelled around 20 countries in Asia including Malaysia which I have been there 5 times
    I am planning to retire in KL soon so this is quite helpful.
    I've visited Kapas, Redang, Perhentian, Penang and Langkawi. I actually love Langkawi more than Penang.

    • @narutokun5765
      @narutokun5765 Рік тому

      U really rich dude..... And please as local we dont which foreigner stay or retire here..... We local already have to much population..... I can say foreigner bring too much prob where they not respect local culture...... We know europe always think they re so special because they re white high caste like king and asian they slave......

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @damonlbs
    @damonlbs Рік тому +18

    I think she meant the western expat dating pool is getting smaller

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @roomeeartsy855
    @roomeeartsy855 Рік тому +25

    1. asking for photos? hahaha i don't think that's malaysian. just because they look like us it does not mean they are malaysian... as malaysian this is funny. real malaysian will only ask for photos if you are someone famous (if they recognize you). Are you? If not i can assure they are not malaysian. The least malaysian do is just look at you or stare from afar hehe
    2. dating is hard? maybe it's due to how your expectations... the higher your expectations, the less chance you got to date anyone. i've met a lot of foreigner who expect 'dating' in malaysia similar with the way their dating culture back home... when they can have casual sex, display their affectionate publicly... malaysia is modest, we don't do that... behave in public; all is good no one cares

    • @coffeemug3009
      @coffeemug3009 Рік тому

      Perhaps she is a walking red flag, that's why all the good quality men are avoiding her. Also her valley girl vocal fry voice is annoying af.

    • @Kane_2001
      @Kane_2001 Рік тому

      🇮🇩

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

    • @ВадимВадимович-ь6т
      @ВадимВадимович-ь6т 4 місяці тому

      casual sex is immoral and bad for society

  • @kays3956
    @kays3956 Рік тому +12

    Dating is hard for a Western female expat in Singapore too. My Russian teacher told me this. The locals are intimidated to ask you out and the male expats tend to treat the female expats like they are on Tinder dates but they end up marrying the local women. I felt sorry for her when she told me she wanted to marry not be on long Tinder conquests. I hope woman who wants marriage gets healthy men for marriage wherever and whoever they are.

  • @Valhalla369
    @Valhalla369 Рік тому +4

    Im a malaysian. Im quite certain those who asked to take pictures with her are from neighnouring countries who came to work here. Malaysians, regardless of ethnicity would never ask for such things from a stranger. We have bangladeshis, indian nationals, people from nepal, myannar who come to work here - i dont blame her if she couldnt tell the difference.
    Anyway, i am glad she likes it here and wish her all the best.

  • @harryalfonso8788
    @harryalfonso8788 Рік тому +20

    Malaysian are a reserve type. It's always Malay, Chinese and Indian first culture. Definitely different from the west.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @zaki-pq1ps
    @zaki-pq1ps Рік тому +21

    Ticket that people usually ignore is the one coming from city council. Ticket coming from police cannot be ignored as people can go to jail for that.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @nimay13
    @nimay13 Рік тому +19

    Being vegetarian in Malaysia is super tough. Props to her.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @joshuasinghofficial1148
    @joshuasinghofficial1148 Рік тому +9

    I dont think malaysian asking for her photo. Usually its foreigners that works here

    • @imanmanimanman7667
      @imanmanimanman7667 Рік тому

      Dia salah faham tu....kalau ada kawan2nya dari Malaysia tengok video ini harus perbetulkan minah Salleh ni.

  • @cmdaltctr
    @cmdaltctr Рік тому +17

    Dating is difficult everywhere if one is looking for perfection. I'm a Malaysian living in London for almost 10 years; everybody said it's difficult here too. Meanwhile, the population density in London is probably 3-4x higher per square km than in KL, and the city is diverse, yet many young adults still complain about the difficulty of finding someone! It's almost statistically absurd. I've seen my share of boys and girls who struggled in this because they look for something that does not exist - perfection.
    Also, it's not a mystery that many modern women look for ~6-foot men, tall dark handsome, high-value men with 7-8 figures salary. Just look at some interviews; I guarantee you'd be appalled by the women's requirements. But they don't know these men are just 1% of the male population and have much to choose from.

    • @almazblanco6676
      @almazblanco6676 Рік тому +2

      I am a Spanish citizen leaving in London since 2019 and I agree with you.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @mmamommamo6152
    @mmamommamo6152 Рік тому +9

    Lovely video. The weather in Norway is too boring. The prices are too high. I love Malaysia been there twice.loved Penang. Langkawi is pretty. And many things too see.KL is safe and very clean.

    • @markcovell1190
      @markcovell1190 Рік тому

      The Sovereign Wealth Fund in Norway is the richest in the world as they don't have corruption, I am not from Norway but admire how they invested the revenues from North Sea Oil to take care of their people , (unlike in the UK) and especially the infamous 1MDB Sovereign Wealth Fund in Malaysia.

  • @GTChow
    @GTChow Рік тому +26

    It's actually not hard to be vegetarian in Malaysia. There are many options and it is quite common to have a vegetarian friend here and there. I think we shouldn't be making assumptions of her dating life based on the limited information shared here. Many are jumping to conclusions here about her diet and/or her preference for expat guys only. She did not mention any of these things and it's her personal life. As a Malaysian, I am ashamed to read such shallow comments by fellow Malaysians. Stay respectful people, we are better than this

    • @MaxChernov
      @MaxChernov  Рік тому +8

      100% agree! There is not enough context to judge

    • @rohanarahim4327
      @rohanarahim4327 Рік тому +4

      So make the context max... dont come into malaysia with singaporean eye..

    • @lesterjong
      @lesterjong Рік тому +2

      Wow props to you for leaving this comment. Very good and wise reply

    • @COSMIXA
      @COSMIXA Рік тому +1

      There's more vegan / vegetarian food being incorporated into most omni restaurants now due to the demand.

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro...

  • @sizzlingsuzai
    @sizzlingsuzai Рік тому +2

    Im soooo glad hearing how much u love living in my country 🫠🥹🫶🏻

  • @nrc468
    @nrc468 Рік тому +6

    For foreign women, i think it is true that dating life in Malaysia or to any ASEAN countries is difficult as men usually look to foreign women not easy to adjust and adapt to the local life, culture and religious belief

    • @narutokun5765
      @narutokun5765 Рік тому

      Here principle date is want to know for marry..... Marry here is one time only in a life....i dont know europe people

    • @terrima4064
      @terrima4064 Рік тому

      I'm a married foreigner in Taiwan, and it's the same here, but a lot of foreign men marry local woman but not the other way around. Do you think it's because Asian men are not as open-minded as Asian women?

    • @ВадимВадимович-ь6т
      @ВадимВадимович-ь6т 4 місяці тому

      men look to LOCAL women not foreign

  • @pinkymoon5039
    @pinkymoon5039 Рік тому +16

    Her accent is interesting. Her voice has that stereotypical valley girl tone to it which some people find annoying but at the same time, her Norwegian accent creeps in. I wonder if its because of the influence of American media. I hear lot of Scandinavians speak very good English and some even adopted the American accent from consuming lots of American media.

    • @jsurfin1
      @jsurfin1 Рік тому +1

      She went to university in the States.

    • @sofiaglove
      @sofiaglove Рік тому

      It's so easy to pick up accent especially when you have lived and studied in a certain place for some time. It just happens naturally most of the time.

    • @pinkymoon5039
      @pinkymoon5039 Рік тому

      @@sofiaglove not necessarily but it's easier for some people to adopt a new accent.

    • @coffeemug3009
      @coffeemug3009 Рік тому +2

      Yeah, it's annoying when she does the vocal fry.

    • @sofiaglove
      @sofiaglove Рік тому

      @@pinkymoon5039 yup, that's what I'm saying and it's a lot easier when you are surrounded by them. My roommates were American for 4 years and without knowing it I picked up their accent when returned to Malaysia.

  • @MZD15
    @MZD15 Рік тому +10

    Islam is about if you like someone you set up a meeting with them under the supervision of guardian and talk to them to see if you guys are compatible. If yes then marriage. This is done to prevent perverts, guys looking to only sleep and run from taking advantages.

  • @rusman69wahid94
    @rusman69wahid94 Рік тому +9

    WHATTT? malaysian asking you for a photo randomly? Errrr never heard such kind.

  • @whatsname2649
    @whatsname2649 Рік тому +11

    Good interview. You couldn't have found a better person to speak to about Malaysia as a foreigner. A level headed lady. Surprise, Scandinavians are so very civilized. Good info on Malaysian ways! Thanx! 👍🇲🇾

    • @ocshaljufrian6109
      @ocshaljufrian6109 9 місяців тому

      Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, thank you sis and bro......Try it bro, you can ride the highest speed train for the first time in Southeast Asia. The highest speed is 350 kilometers per hour, the Indonesian fast train Jakarta - Bandung, the newest, most sophisticated in Southeast Asia, the first,.... the way to the beautiful and comfortable and beautiful and cool and cool city of Bandung, to lembang is Ciwidey ,thank you sis and bro

  • @hatchegg80
    @hatchegg80 Рік тому +8

    thanks max, i might be forced to go to msia as singapore is getting too expensive for poor me

  • @carlmeil4021
    @carlmeil4021 Рік тому +8

    Taking photo with her? Not ordinary for malaysian. 😂

  • @Maul565
    @Maul565 Рік тому

    Listening to her, she is basically a “tourist” for 6 years in Malaysia.

  • @mimpikujadigurulaskarpelangi
    @mimpikujadigurulaskarpelangi Рік тому +5

    Miss, next time just say NO if you are uncomfortable your photo taken. And as Malaysian i can say, taking photo with foreinger is very very very cringy. No Malaysian would do that. Malaysia people are reserved and polite, sometimes shy And rarely want to interuppt other people.

  • @asrie1234
    @asrie1234 Рік тому +1

    *Welcome to New home Town Malaysia*

  • @rashidrani2333
    @rashidrani2333 Рік тому +53

    Don't date...just get married 😂

    • @amanshahosman9082
      @amanshahosman9082 Рік тому +12

      Agree .. when you meet a nice local guy whom you like, just ask "would you like to marry me" . He will ask his mum for approval 😊. Once mum okay...your single day will soon over.

    • @azizahmad7447
      @azizahmad7447 Рік тому +12

      Mak tak setuju barang rosak 😅😅

    • @faisalchan7501
      @faisalchan7501 Рік тому +7

      ​@@azizahmad7447 tudia straigh to the point

    • @azure4100
      @azure4100 Рік тому +2

      ​@@faisalchan7501 Asian moms, you don't mess with them. God have mercy if you don't meet their expectations.

    • @MaxChernov
      @MaxChernov  Рік тому +3

      How do you know then if a person suits you?

  • @mrphangoldwing
    @mrphangoldwing Рік тому

    Hi, I just discovered this video and your channel because I arrived at Kuala Lumpar just yesterday from Singapore, and before that I am from Canada. I love this type of content. It's super informative. And I am just starting to appreciate Singaporean and Malaysian culture

  • @oscartangoromeo003
    @oscartangoromeo003 Рік тому +3

    After watching this video.. now i understand why she said dating in Malaysia is difficult.. it harder to find premium quality boyfriend here in Malaysia. Because most of them already married or most of them just going for a random paradise destination fling..

    • @al16899
      @al16899 Рік тому +1

      The best quality Malaysians and expats are not in Malaysia.

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 Рік тому +1

    I just returned from an extended stay in SE Asia. I found dating Malaysian women very easy. Perhaps because I’m not afraid nor tentative, and am very open and friendly. I found women to be intelligent, interesting and fun.

  • @bluesky842
    @bluesky842 Рік тому +9

    5:39
    Bro please let her know that Malaysians would NEVER chew with their mouth open like we're not some uncultured people here please let her know that people she saw doing that were 99.99% labours coming from neighboring countries and not Malaysians to clear the misunderstanding.
    And one more thing those people who asks her to take photo were most likely not Malaysians either perhaps Indonesian or pinoy.
    Thanks 😊

    • @alamshah9432
      @alamshah9432 Рік тому

      Org luar selalu nya, tp yg kene rakyat malaysia yg kene. Sedangkan malaysia ramai warga asing yg kerja di sini, warga Malaysia di didik, negara maju tidak sama metaliti.

  • @نورعيني5103حسين
    @نورعيني5103حسين Рік тому +2

    Yeah. I love Pulau Kapas as welll

  • @heesingsia4634
    @heesingsia4634 Рік тому +4

    Synne should go to places where people don't spend 6000 RM a month if she wants to date

  • @jamesgreen3616
    @jamesgreen3616 Рік тому +1

    She says the rent is 3,600 ringgit a month. I’m wondering if that amount is for herself or the total rent.

  • @limchbg1217
    @limchbg1217 Рік тому +5

    Probably those who wanna take photo with her may thought she is an actress or celebrity...😅

  • @somanrama5923
    @somanrama5923 Рік тому +1

    Dating is hard because you want a tall rich good looking Malaysian because you're probably taller, richer and more good looking than most Malaysian guys. Those few rare guys who are like that are chased by most Malaysian woman or are already married because the culture is conservative so yes there is tough competition. Here's a tip, look for a guy not only on an individual basis but also for his family relationships and community relationships. Do your research on different ethnicities and you should find a great guy.

  • @faristont4561
    @faristont4561 Рік тому +5

    Learn to differentiate between
    Malaysian and foreign workers. all those years living here and still can't tell.? LOL get off KL sis. you will see the true side of Malaysia outside of Klang Valley. east coast, northern peninsula, borneo. those are authentic parts. I swear, no one bothers to take pictures with random tourist unless you're already famous.

  • @kevinkuok9131
    @kevinkuok9131 Рік тому +7

    Mad dogs and Englishmen (and Norwegian/Russian women) go out in the midday sun! 😂
    I like her English accent.
    Ps: I am glad you have adopted the Malaysian habit of not wearing shoes indoors! Great!!

  • @kelfmo3740
    @kelfmo3740 Рік тому +1

    As an international student here in Malaysia dating has never crossed my mind.

    • @4pf-zz9fh
      @4pf-zz9fh 11 місяців тому

      that's so sad. wish you better buddy. .loads of intls i know in malaysia say the opposite, so anomalies don't count! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dogymal7260
    @dogymal7260 Рік тому +1

    Asking for photo together is a hint to have date with her. She has missed many wonderful times.

  • @badrulhisham5218
    @badrulhisham5218 Рік тому +2

    About difficult to dating. The main reason that People feel shy due you are foriegner but from good relationship with truly clearly sincerely caring true loving gentleman which respect you so much Just give trial for good relationship im sure you can make it. Anyway good luck to you forever and everlasting entirely.

  • @penukulbesi4006
    @penukulbesi4006 Рік тому +7

    If you don't miss your country, you should marry a local and become part of us.😂

    • @coffeemug3009
      @coffeemug3009 Рік тому

      We don't need entitled white privileged people like her in this country. She is only here because Norway's currency is strong, she knows in her country she won't get the red carpet white privilege treatment. We Asians should not give face to entitled foreigners who look down on locals and thinks we are so desperate for a selfie with her plain jane face.

  • @dande5009
    @dande5009 6 місяців тому

    Great vid. Very interesting.
    Former HK expat here 🙋🏼‍♂️

  • @maxyoong779
    @maxyoong779 Рік тому +1

    I know there is a very vey very nice nasi lemak at JB....... I want to get in touch with Ms Synne...... can?

  • @nicoanye9842
    @nicoanye9842 Рік тому

    She said it all, As a foreigner i relate, just to add, Malaysia is a nice place to live, bet me, many people prefer to stay in Malaysia. Socially and economically Malaysia is welcoming.🙏

  • @jesusnotgod5635
    @jesusnotgod5635 9 місяців тому +1

    Yup,dating here is hard
    That's why I'm still single untill now

  • @MYStaycation
    @MYStaycation Рік тому +3

    9:13 it's Ringgit not "ringdits". And the noun can either be singular or plural depending on the context, so you don't need to add in an "s" to denote a plural amount.

  • @helge1104
    @helge1104 7 місяців тому

    Great video also from norway been living in Klcc for 24 months and now back in Norway miss Kl so going back soon i hope great place great people hope to retire there ..

  • @advchtube8208
    @advchtube8208 Рік тому +1

    Aren't there a lot of Buddhists, Indians/Chinese (who practice vegetarianism) and other vegetarian restaurants too?

  • @deshwitat_2
    @deshwitat_2 Рік тому +3

    Asking for cold weather people to used to it like asking African to withstand the heat basically...😂😂... Its nice seeing an expat happy settling for now but dating advice i can give,try learn to assimilate with the culture..few difference make it interesting but too much will break it apart..

  • @KironManuelCards
    @KironManuelCards 10 місяців тому

    20 years before Instagram and WhatsApp an Indonesian guy came upto my western guest to take her photo. It seems it is to show his family that he is accepted by western people. Actually now on Instagram there are lots of such stranger phototrends. Here in KL there is a funny strict law rule so locals know the rules. There are churches that westerners should try to visit to know the law rules. Also when we visit Rome do as Romans do! Travel in Malaysia is great. I was in Ipoh, it is so under developed like 30 years behind KL and so behind Melaka!

  • @Ridz_Channel
    @Ridz_Channel Рік тому +3

    Its weird when you told that Malaysian always asking for picture together with you…in Malaysia we have multi ethnic from diff parts of south east asia wich look like us, maybe those you encounter are them. to tell that Malaysian loves taking picture with eurapean is a bit exeggerate, Malaysian would label you as “Perasan” (recognised yourself as pretty/attractive but actually you are not)…

  • @小池はwじあ
    @小池はwじあ Рік тому

    as a japanese who lives in malaysia, her opinion about local people's distances is quite similar to mine. Surfacely, they look extrovert and try to get along with foreigners. but in reality, they don't try to get along with foreigners in private during weekend. and they look like only get along with their same ethnic malaysian.

  • @SepakanSudut
    @SepakanSudut Рік тому

    i agree dating life is hard especially if you're older. In malaysia people get married very young and older people doesn't go out very much, so your best bet to get dates is online

  • @andrea9797mdd
    @andrea9797mdd 6 місяців тому

    Durian is my absolute fav. Singaporean here

  • @megatonhammer4723
    @megatonhammer4723 Рік тому +13

    Malaysians in general are much warmer and friendlier than Sporeans (not including those useless thugs on bikes who rob you at knife point). This casualness is unpretentious and welcoming when you’re in the right company. However, the flip side of this casual culture is also devoid of modern day etiquette like yes chewing with your mouth open and talking as well as coughing with your mouth open loudly.
    Yes the food is amazing, especially if you don’t care for your calories and cholesterol that is.

    • @raymondloke
      @raymondloke Рік тому +2

      In your dreams la

    • @megatonhammer4723
      @megatonhammer4723 Рік тому

      @@raymondloke your comment has no context. Maybe try growing a brain first before opening your gap?

  • @t700qwe8
    @t700qwe8 Рік тому +1

    Nice video.. Love Malaysia..

  • @Min-e5
    @Min-e5 Рік тому +3

    RM6000 per month and she's single. Wow.

    • @lromycl
      @lromycl Рік тому +3

      To be fair, the place she rent probably contribute to more than half of her spending.
      Pretty common for foreigner to do so as the rent is relatively way cheaper compared to their home country so it's *justifiable*

  • @peterRobinson10101
    @peterRobinson10101 Рік тому

    eating with mouth open is a big nono in all south east asia.
    Durian.. the more exposure the more desire. I love it. esp MongTong the Thai Durian.
    She is a vegetarian so and loved Covid lockdowns... all u need 2 know really.

  • @sagepirotess6312
    @sagepirotess6312 Рік тому

    Cold weather... i miss it. I am from California, yes we have nice weapons. But spent 6 years in Korea. Loved the snow, wind and cold wind as you breathe it in.

  • @TheJhonquest
    @TheJhonquest Рік тому +4

    Date in malaysia hard because need to know your past background.... For a girl.. Especially westerner.. Woman.. Especially not muslim woman...
    Good woman will be good mother...
    "you know what i mean"
    For example we dont like woman are smoking and drink alcohol... Big No.. For me if the girl like that

  • @siddd88
    @siddd88 Рік тому

    Love to watch this interview talking abt Malaysia from a foreigner/expat pov.
    KL might be the best city for expact. Literally It's a cheaper/bigger version of Singapore. But less chaotic than Bangkok. Its central, varieties n yes, cheaper among other southeast Asian cities.

  • @ericchan225
    @ericchan225 Рік тому +3

    Seriously.. i am echoing so many other sane people. We dont take random selfies with white/strangers as if to show off in our social platforms or ego boost. Either your social circle is too small or the places you went is depraved of normal usual locals

  • @persianwhite3258
    @persianwhite3258 Рік тому +2

    I,ve been to Scandinavian,norway especially,i really hate the weather. I hate the cold weather elsewhere. I,ve travelled almost everywhere. To Synne, why dont you make comments on yr country instead.If dating is hard in Malaysia, why not you remain in yr country.

    • @MaxChernov
      @MaxChernov  Рік тому

      It’s not only about dating, no?

  • @ethos-
    @ethos- Рік тому +3

    Hooking up culture is not celebrated in here between expat

  • @HonorV2ultimate1tb
    @HonorV2ultimate1tb Рік тому +1

    wow!! 2000sq foot and balcony just $3600 ringgit... dont come to Singapore...just 600sq foot apartment cost $11,000 ringgit !!!...

  • @LoveandCare-wi3vq
    @LoveandCare-wi3vq 11 місяців тому

    God bless you max. Thanks for the video.

  • @alice_agogo
    @alice_agogo Рік тому +7

    "Never trust a vegetarian." 😀😂

  • @ChapalPuteh_
    @ChapalPuteh_ Рік тому +1

    About the photos, most Asian actually feeling "wow, its so great to have a photo with white people", it has different version of this "Social Contact" with foreigner, but here im saying about specific culture ... because, most of them really think its special to able to contact with people around the world ... most Malaysian are Oriental, feeling shyness is a must ... Even me as Native in East Malaysia feel also great even have a small talk with Chinese ... i dont know why, or maybe its about im easily attract with them or what, i even have in mind to treat them as family too(But not for that photo haha),Tradition and Custom make us aware of shyness and respect ... BUT, if you going to have deep talk with a person differ from you in here, i am afraid that we will being so nice ...
    Most Malaysian are hard to approach the foreigner first, because of the shyness ... just like me as native Dayak ...
    i learn this from Social Interact between Occident and Oriental ..... history prove that Asian are really "wow" with you, but too shy to make it first ... imho ....

  • @decTac
    @decTac Рік тому +10

    Dating in Malaysia is easy..just be yourselves..behave in public..be moderate.. Nobody cares..and nobody get nabbed.. 😆

    • @nikiyenc
      @nikiyenc Рік тому +2

      As malaysian woman I can confirm that dating in Malaysia it is so hard. It is nothing to do we as women behave ourselves. It is the men who DONT. They always ask inappropriate question and comments.

    • @vister6757
      @vister6757 Рік тому +3

      ​@@nikiyenc don't think it's hard to date. But it's hard to find the right person (life partner) for oneself.

  • @amberxIaoAya
    @amberxIaoAya Рік тому +1

    Vegetarian is easy survive in Malaysia, many Chinese sell vegan food if you see "素“ this word in front their restaurant

  • @Mor73-dq5jc
    @Mor73-dq5jc Рік тому

    I don't know why people are spreading false things about Malaysia but I'm enjoying living in my country & would never dream of visiting other country. For me everything I needed is in Malaysia & enjoying my life every second.

  • @tyeoh2972
    @tyeoh2972 Рік тому +1

    What kinda of dating do she meant? Seems like she has limited her own boyndaries with full of expectations. Asian culture is different from westerns.

    • @MaxChernov
      @MaxChernov  Рік тому

      what's the biggest difference?

    • @nusabudiman
      @nusabudiman Рік тому +1

      I don't think you should make such conclusion about her. Because no information about her expectations are being divulged from the interview. We simply don't know what are her expectations from dating.
      We also don't know what type of man she prefers for a date. Local men? Expats? Rich? Average income? Ethnicity? Religious views? Tall? Short? Skinny? Chubby? Handsome? Average looking? Caucasians? Asians? We don't know all that to make a conclusion about her.
      And we also don't know what is her main purpose of dating. Is it for fun? Serious relationship? A fling? Or a marriage? Until we get more information from her, I would say it is rather premature for you to conclude that she has full of expectations.

    • @nusabudiman
      @nusabudiman Рік тому +1

      ​@@MaxChernov Depends on individual how they perceive such differences. It could be a big difference for one individual and small for another.
      But one thing I can see the cultural difference between Asian and Western is that generally if you are dating or marrying Asians you are not only dating or marrying the individual him/herself but also the immediate family and for some, the extended family.
      I don't think this kind of culture applies to dating/marrying Westerners whose culture tend to give more emphasis on individual rather than family or community.

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    @aimanimann8135 Рік тому

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  • @ernzi
    @ernzi Рік тому +3

    I'd date Synne. 🤗

    • @cloudstrife112
      @cloudstrife112 Рік тому +1

      RM 6000 per month without travels.😂

    • @ernzi
      @ernzi Рік тому +1

      @@cloudstrife112 Shouldn't that be negotiable? 🤣🤣

    • @alese7531
      @alese7531 Рік тому

      @@ernzi exactly, she will negotiate a payrise