high and low moments after breakup
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- Опубліковано 29 гру 2024
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This video, this entire process, has been so comforting, normalizing, and eye-opening to the difficulties of being forced to deal with losses and betrayals so many people don't deserve to feel. These comments feel like such a familiar space of shared experiences, heartbreak, and deep understanding. Thank you for sharing what you've had to deal with and how it has genuinely affected you. I know it isn't easy, but I think this method of dealing with this phase of life (community, sharing, honesty) helps everyone. I look forward to continuing to watch you progress through this.
You have expressed what I have been feeling, too, perfectly. So well said. Thank you. 🙏
Totally agree!!
This is well written and expressed so well and I agree with you and you said this so well
wow. you are a beautiful soul. I cried three times during this video and I don’t even know you. new sub, sending you so much love
Christian!!! I follow you both but Jessa always have had a beautiful soul and amazing person to watch her grow highs and lows. We are all here for her!
That counseling session sounds like pure manipulation and “ feeling crazy” is definitely the sign of being with a toxic person... Making this raw video is definitely going to help so many people and you my dear are Brave!
So true, a toxic person will always try to make you feel crazy. HUGE RED FLAG 🚩🚩
You’re talking about some of the most dark traumatic things and yet there’s this light and love still beaming from you.
I love the story about the tea. It’s amazing how important seemingly little acts of kindness can be. Thanks for sharing the details. Hopefully these sessions can help you heal.
I don't think I have ever watched a more honest and tender and heart wrenching video than this one. What a sweet sweet soul you are Jessa. I think you have deeply touched people more than you realize. There are sooo many who have experienced this kind of devastating heartbreak..many who possibly did not totally know how to process it all at the time.....but you just paved the way for that....i don't think we could love you more than we do after watching this video. You have beautifully shared the ups and downs. And one thing clearly stands out...you are a warrior...soo strong...soo smart...soo beautiful....nothing lacking...you are "enough" to achieve whatever direction your heart wants to go in. Love ya girl!!!💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏
Totally agree! ❤ Jessa!
Said very well💕🙏
What Sarah's family did, by sending you that card, was a class act.
Thank you for sharing. xo
Cheating ISN'T BRAVE! I love that, it's the easy way out, it's what a coward does. I feel you Jessa, your not alone 🙂
It’s not brave at all. I saw someone say that it is either in UA-cam comments or IG, I forget which, but they’re wrong. Cheating is one of the most cowardly forms of disrespect one can inflict on another person.
YES. A coward who is in absolute denial,.....
Today was the day I finally deleted every picture of my ex-boyfriend from my iPhone. He broke up with me 3,5 weeks ago and I’m devastated. But deleting the over 1000 pictures felt like a huge relieve for me. I cried the whole time because I watched at nearly every single picture before I deleted it. Oh, and I’m pretty sure that he lied to me too and cheated. But hope to move on. Wishing you all the best. You are e hero for me for showing every emotion and be honest.
Jessa, I can’t tell you how much good you are doing in sharing your journey. I never spoke about all the intense emotions I felt because I could not afford a therapist and online places did not exist yet, my family was in a state a thousand miles away, and friends in person and online did not want to hear about it. So I turned to books and nature to try and muddle through the healing process on my own. Several years have gone by now and the healing process continues with bouts of intense anger still popping up at times. I pray your healing process is quicker and more complete with the support systems you have wisely organized for yourself. Very smart. 👍. But these videos are helping me and others in ways it is hard to express. I am personally learning that it is never too late to heal more completely. It does help to hear others stories and how they are dealing with realities. It really does. So blessings to you and all commentators who are also touched by your bravery in making these videos. 🙏 🌹
Thank you for normalizing the process of grieving a loss and walking us through the highs and lows. I remember when breaking up with my girlfriend it felt like it came out of no where and I experienced a lot of the same emotions as you. You are a beautiful soul thank you for your vulnerability ❤️❤️
It does feel like you are in a dream. Anyone in that place would understand. Thank you for continuing to share your journey back to who you are. Just always remember....no one can take you away from yourself. Be well and keep on moving forward.
Jessa~ YOU are so profoundly kind, wise beyond your years, beautiful, loving, and I truly thank you for opening your heart... teaching and sharing your experience out to those who care and love.
Thru the tears and smiles. You are amazing. You are seen.
So many peoplem, myself included avoid feeling these feelings. It took me so long to recover from such a deep break up....I experienced the same thing as you 10+ years ago. I left myself for years trying to run from feeling it all. I've since learned the best way it to walk through it. Slowly, gently, step by step. Witnessing you do this is so painful and beautiful at the same time. You are doing it with grace and kindness for yourself. We are here for you girl. Keep processing, we will hold the space for it.
Absolutely brave of you to put these videos out of your raw emotions!
I love them! 💕
One day at a time, one step at a time. Give Ollie and Ro extra love and hugs! They always help!
You’re right, cheating is not brave. But YOU are being extremely brave. The way you are sharing your feelings, going through and ‘feeling’ your feelings and acknowledging them, treating yourself gently, is a good way to validate yourself during this truly difficult time. And what is so amazing to me, is the way you continue to maintain your state of grace and respect for yourself. 💗
Hi Hallo 🥰🌺🌷 ma'am I'm so glad and excited join you plz 🌹🥀🌻🌺🌼🌹🥀 I'm serious your journey for you
you are the sun, and all her shadows ~ may you dance in all your glory , and flourish through all the fears
That’s so beautiful. Thank you.
Jessa, you were always the shining star of your channel. Keep rising high like the eagle that you are.
Having to stop and throw up along the way to airport,.....I can absolutely relate. It IS a physical response because you are physically sick with heartbreak. Absolutely a part of depression. Been there, done that,...over an unfaithful partner,...SAME BETRAYAL as well. Lies, total meltdown of character from my partner at that time. I was devastated. This happened in late 1987. I met the LOML in early 1989 and married him on December 30, 1989. Would NEVER have thought that I would find anyone. I was 32, ready to live single, was truly content and at a great place in my life. In some ways, things were still fresh from the previous breakup. DO NOT be embarrassed about a partner who was an absolute failure with lack of transparency, and a liar who had an absolute lapse in character. YOU MATTER, YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND YOU ARE LOVED.
From the depths of me, Thank You for sharing this trauma and tears. I don't know you but am comforted that a raw honest humble vulnerable sweet person like you walks the face of this planet alongside me.
Throughout my life, I’ve experienced so highs and lows like you are describing. The lows always seem to be filled with greater highs. May your life continue its climb to the top of the greatest high.
I was absolutely shocked when the man I thought I would marry left me for another woman. I felt like I was literally dying...but then my mom took me for a drive at night far up where we could see the city lights and when she parked she blasted "Benny and the Jetts-Elton John" and she said "feel that power that is inside of YOU! Don't let anyone take that power from you. You have it in your soul." I hope everyone else feels like they have power inside of them and that they know everything gets better with time ❤
Forgive me Jess but I must say this. Since my first visit to your channel, from what I could see, Sarah never seemed “present” in your relationship. As if you both were living two different experiences. You full of light, love, patience, understanding, devotion….and Sarah, it was like she was going through the motions. Perhaps that is her personality. When she went to do the pacific trail then ended it abruptly, I feared for your relationship. I am an outsider, I do not know you or Sarah, simply and observer of what you put out there. Sarah will be just fine and I sincerely feel you will blossom. Love will come back to you, don’t be afraid of it, welcome it. I have never been through what have had to endure but I must say, I’m so proud of you and how you are getting through all the heartbreak. Those pooches will gladly receive all you have to offer until you are ready to share it with another human. All the best to you sweetheart - sending good vibes your way❤️
Sarah, was checked out and had moved on ….I remembered watching a video of her caring for the dogs and putting lunch in the microwave and I thought she was emotionally disconnected along with the videos on the PCT you could tell she was struggling….
I am so sorry she did not have the courage sooner to communicate the memo to you.
It is beyond words to be blindsided….by someone you are emotionally engaged with to do this as you are proving , the collateral damage is devastating ….If anything you deserved honesty from her…thank you for being so brave in this …..it is a reminder to all of us..that honesty in our relationships is the best gift we can give to one another. Regular check ins with your partner and being a good steward of one another’s soul is very necessary.
Yep had the same feeling
yes, she looked unhappy (sarah) in the videos before the breakup..
These videos have been super healing, and its been almost 4 years since I found out my partner was cheating on me. Thank you for being so genuine and honest on here. It has been so normalizing. I have often looked back and felt shame for my feelings, which is ridiculous considering my world had imploded, and the reality i thought I had been living for so long was a lie. Or rather a very complex web of lies.
Also, thank you for normalizing medication. I hope anyone out there going through something similar will be encouraged to consider the option as well. If i could go back to chat with myself in that time, the first thing I would insist I do, is talk to a doctor about taking medication. When you're in the thick of it, it's sometimes harder to see how much you need it and how much it can support you through a severely traumatic time.
Sending you love and compassion as you process this trauma and grief
I’m so glad you made this video. Primarily for yourself, to let out your emotions, to share with those who care what you’re going through. It’s one of the hardest things ever, in this world to go through, betrayal from someone you love. The highs and lows will continue, but with each passing day, those highs will start winning! I know, I’ve there❤️
I struggle so much with being vulnerable.. I can’t describe to you what it’s like to witness you opening up in such profound ways. You are inspiring me and we are all rooting for you during this transitional phase. Sending you love ❤️
Do you wonder (I'm sure you have) what would have happened if the dogs woudn't have woken you two up? What would she have done? Gone through with the wedding? Thank goodness you found out when you did so you could avoid THAT heart break. You are strong enough you could have handled it but oh my, the complications!
Jessa thank you for this, i wrote before that i went through a similar breakup , i have been watching your videos almost from the beginning and your character and smile and how you are was the main reason i kept watching your adventures , i feel for you and i say it again - you don't deserve this and you will get through - the high moments will start to prevail , keep strong :)
Wow. This is so moving and the emotions you’ve shared are so raw. I’m old enough to be your mom and I just wanted to hold you tight and tell you that so many people love you, like a mom would do for her own daughter.
Being blindsided in a relationship is one of the worst experiences in life. I have been through so much trauma throughout my life from childhood molestation by my father, to being sexually assaulted multiple times in high school, and a 6-year abusive marriage. There has been even more trauma mixed in all of that but recently my partner cheated on me and it was a TOTAL blindside. We had been (from my perspective) doing really well and I trusted my partner 100%. When I found out, it was devastating on a level I cannot even explain.
I am sending you all the love and support of my heart. We will BOTH get through this.
I feel you. Went through the same. It takes a long time with high and lows. It gets better , but you'll never forget ❤
I'm in MA too, Boston is always home!!! I'm crying with you right now (in the video). You're doing amazing and I'm so proud of you for these videos you've been sharing, and you're helping me cope with something too, so thank you ❤
Your story is so raw and real. I know its a tough time but I really love the way you are dealing with everything. Allowing yourself to feel and go through this is so important. I went through this, in silence, 3 years ago. I didn't want to show my emotions because we have children and I didn't want to expose them to my heartache. Looking back now, I wish I had. We all need to experience these things and really feel them in order to heal. You are helping me in the sense that watching you makes me relive things and feel everything in a different and more healing way. I know this is hard for you but you truly are helping people. You are a beautiful soul. I see you :)
Jessa, I have watched your videos for a long time and I have never wrote a comment. Well when their was two and now. I have to say this video absolutely broke my heart to see you at your low point. I appreciate you being so real, raw and honest. I am cheering you on from New York and keeping you in my prayers. Your a Brave, Strong, Amazing Woman and you are going to come out of this on top.
To feel loved, treasured and protected is the ultimate validation.
My heart hurts for you so much. I know that pain and its more painful than any of the major surgeries I've had. I think you, from what you've shown, you're handling it so well, with such responsibility, eloquence and thoughtfulness. Thank you for being open and sharing this and validating and even help guide those who may not have the slightest clue or support in how to handle this type of situation. I WISH I would have had this type of content access when I was younger. I've lost so, so many people in my life to death, including a pregnancy, I've felt so much heartache and abuse in my life, losing those people. It's not easy or fair but it can be an opportunity to grow into someone who can be more understanding, more compassionate, more loving. Many of us are 'going through something' and I think we all forget this and neglect compassion, especially when life is just so fast. When strangers treat us poorly, likely it's not personal, it's just a reflection of their pain, their struggles, their trials, what they're going through.
I LOVE that your first high was being able to reach out. That’s huge, and resonates so strongly with me. You are processing all of this with such grace and intelligence.
Anyone who has lost a loved one through divorce or break up can definitely relate to your experiences. You are absolutely helping others by sharing your story. Thank you!
As a man, I went thru such a heartbreaking breakup that I had make the decision. As a man I never have cried so much before or since. Dealing with loss is digging with a shovel in your heart filled with blood. It really sucks. Coming out of this watch Dr. Petersens videos about loss and grief. Place yourself on a path to heal your mind. Also you look very thin so please make sure you adjust your diet and eat healthy . I feel you. It hurts like hell will never end, but I promise you it will end when you make the will to start digging back up to the surface and join life. Prayers for you girl, you can get your feet under you and move.
You have so much grace. I am so sorry that this is your journey right now.
Blimey, Jessa, The more I watch these videos, the more I'm so glad you dodged that particular bullet that was Sarah.
Wow, really feeling all the emotions right through the camera. I can see that it helps you to process these emotions through video making so keep making content for us. We support you!
I so totally agree with the embarrassed part. So true. I was caught in a relationship just like this. I felt like that as well. I felt that I was totally committed to the relationship, but when I found out my spouse was cheating and lying, for a long time. I felt like an idiot that I did not see it. When she left, it was like she died, but yet I knew that she was still alive but with someone else. It was devastating. I went through all the emotions, but depression and pain was at the forefront. You are a strong woman, you will get through this. My motto is "Keep moving forward". You are greater then this pain. Peace to you.
Just found your channel, Jess. I was cheated on in 2020 and thought I was getting engaged. Sadly, I am still suffering from it, so you are an inspiration. I was also told by my ex that he wanted me to be happy and knows what I have to offer. The hurt hearing that upset me and still does. I’m glad I’m not alone in feeling hurt by that statement. Wishing you the best. We both will be ok!
Jessa, you are Seen and your being is Respected and Appreciated! Keep moving thru and don't forget to put on your Superwoman cape! :D
My breakup situation is very different, but it really is _enormously_ validating to listen to your stories and experiences. It's nice to spend some time, however parasocially, with someone else who is Going Through It. We really do need t-shirts. 🥴
Sending you so much love, strength, and support. The vulnerability in your videos is truly moving, and I appreciate you bringing us all along with you on your journey in processing such indescribable grief. Loss in all its forms can be so soul-wrenching, and it can be hard to imagine that anyone's ever felt the way you do. Even though our circumstances might be different, this feels like such a shared experience in grieving. And I appreciate you for giving so many of us the gifting of feeling seen.
Hi Jessa Bloody hell , I’m 60 and I was in tears with/for you. Like the Tea bit. Had to laugh about the paddy at airport gate. , Don’t blame you 1 bit.
To do and to put that video out you must be moving forward , so Well done Sweet. I hope you now can step forward to your future , Please.
Wish YOU WELL
The videos are just getting better as you allow us to witness your unfolding.
You got this !
I love to listen to Abraham Hicks when I am needing alignment or even when I am in alignment. It congers up new impulses that gather new ideas and that is refreshing , satisfying, and relieving. Love to you!
Oh and remember the thumbs down folks , well that’s there shit not yours .
Thank you for sharing your journey. Your story will help validate this process for others. Sending you love and support ❤️
Sending you love Jessa!! Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for always sharing and opening up 🙏🏻❤️ im sure alot of us can definitely RELATE!! God bless you and I hope you get to heal sooner than you expect! 🌸❤️
I thank you for the Courage to be so open to the world about what you have been through. Anyone that has been though a breakup with someone they loved knows just how those feelings go. You have a big family of friends ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this. It's just so beautiful seeing you heal yourself right in front of us. Talking about and being present in our pain...that's how we heal. This really is one of the most moving videos I've ever seen. I've cried with you and I feel all of this sooo soo much. I recently went through an emotional breakup 2 months ago. This is so encouraging, relatable, honest and inspiring. Sending you hugs and love 💕
I feel so validated on this video. I am thankful for this channel💙.Thank jess for being you🤍💛sending you all the love❤️
You dont know how much of help you are to me on this healing process 🤎💙🤍💛❤️💗.can not put that in words right now...You are an incredibly amazing woman Jessa. You got this girl, we got this💪
Thank you!, for sharing ,I understand what you are feeling , I have been through same cheating partner and it does break you down somewhat, but you will grow very high from the horrible low you have endured! Believe me time heals all wounds,and this is a growing experience,you are beautiful and young and one day you will look back and say wow , I guess I am strong .And you can conquer the world, and get ready for your next journey. I promise you from someone that went through something similar it’s the beginning of a new life , you will Love again as every relationship we have we love in different ways . Best wishes to you and may you get of the horrible roller coaster ride of grief and sadness. ❤Take care of yourself.
Jess I cried my eyes out watching this video I truly did , it took me back to my own relationship breakdown like it was yesterday , the biggest risk we take in life is giving our heart and soul to another person , if I could reach out to you I would give you the biggest hugs you are truly a beautiful human being , never stop being you , and the next person you let into your life better look out because they will have all your subscribers keeping a close eye on them xxxxx
Jessa, Thank you for being so raw and open about your journey. This is not easy, what you're doing....., you are a brave person to share with us and maybe will help someone else experiencing something similar. Take care and stay strong.
You have the most beautiful spirit and heart, it will take time to heal. Sending gentle hugs and and to tell you how deserving you are of unconditional love. 🌸
Thank you again for taking the time to show your innermost feelings. In your place I would break everything including myself. Be well with yourself my dear xxx
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Thank you. 💚
Love you so so much. You’ve been incredible through this, and you’re making a beautiful new path forward even when it’s really hard. ❤️
love YOU so so much
Im so glad your friends from Boston were there for you.. your ups and downs were heart wrenching from start to finish.. with each vlog you make, i see more confidence creeping through. There will always be days where your tearfull, but they will become few and far between. I know you will get through this and maybe in the future you will meet someone that will treat you like with all the love in the world.. p.s. i hope your mum is ok.. x
I've been there Jes...
I was in the same emotional condition at the beginning of 2020. It was such a hard pill to swallow... I couldn't eat or think positively, though I was trying to do stuff for myself. I lost kilos till the point I was 47 kg. My hair was falling, I had nightmares that were waking me up in the middle of the night with tears on my eyes. It was awful... I was wishing all the time to die but I was to afraid to commit a suicide.
Not even two months later I got into another relationship but almost two years after, I haven't completely recovered my wounds.
I really want to send you as many hugs possible because a harsh break up in combination with all these things going on are definitely hard to bare.... Much love... I wish you to recover soon...
After watching one of your videos last week(?) you inspired me to add to my already large indoor plant family with some discounted Wal-Mart purchases. I just love all your indoor plants and I love the plant wall idea. Go for it. Sending best wishes your way this week.
You are such a beautiful person inside and out. It’s gut wrenching watching you go through your struggles. I wish I was that side of the pond so I could give you a big hug and tell you everything is gonna be ok. Love you loads xxx
Sending healing love and huge hugs!!
You're amazing🌹❤I can't thank you enough for sharing....you are helping me alot❤
Thank you for continuing to share your story 🙏🏼 will never understand who could possibly dislike this video…looking forward to watching you continue to heal and have more highs. Cheering you on virtually from WI 🥰
In this kind of situation you need to feel that your emotions are validated, sometimes it’s hard to understand that some people don’t want to listen to you. When my Mum and brother died I felt so alone and unworthy, that my feelings were wrong. That feeling that you are not in control of anything is terrifying, I’m still working on coping with my that. Almost 4 years on I’m still struggling with this. Jess, You are loved and respected. Take care sweet lady.❤️
Picking up the pieces is harder than expected but your doing it and that’s most important. Your stronger than your pain. Fight through it with both fist. And taking medication for this no one should shame people for. It’s needed. I myself suffer from depression and take it. I am a much better me now. My break up was traumatic 7 yrs ago. I went to canceling and she was an absolute blessing. I send you lots of love and hugs. I pray God gives you all freedom from all the hurt. I will not bash Sarah because we have all done wrong in life but i pray she knows in her heart the pain she has caused and not do it again. Stay strong.
Jess, this is too much for one person to carry alone. We are here for you. Your words are helping so many other people heal! And for those people who were unkind, let this be a learning lesson to all of us that you can never know what someone might be going through and that you can either make it better or worse for someone just by what you say in a single moment. You are a shining star! And shining stars rise above!
You are truly amazing Jessa. To share such deep emotions with us can be so painful and cathartic at the same time. You are helping so many people. It's so sad that so many people go through this. Life can be brutal at times. We need more people like you. I am thankful that I get to chat with you. Love you Jessa! Hugs ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ I am overly sensitive so things like this really affect me. I should not have watched this at work
Just found your van tour, then this. Oh Jess, I just want to jump in the screen and hug you right now. I know how it feels, I’ve experienced this too, and it’s excruciating. You WILL get out the other side, I did, I didn’t think I ever would, but here I am and I’m fine. You WILL get there, it’s rough, but there are calm waters beyond this storm, I promise you. Sending you love and hugs and good vibes and all the very best wishes 🌼
.....JESSA.....
PLEASE PONDER THIS...IT WILL HELP... WHEN SARAH MADE THE COMMENT ABOUT SEEING YOU HAPPY IN THE FUTURE..THAT MAY HAVE BEEN HER SOULS WAY OF VERBALLY ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR SOUL NOT ONLY DESERVES A MORE WHOLE SOUL...BUT ALSO HER SOULS WAY OF HONESTLY ADMITTING IT IS NOT WORTHY AND CAPABLE OF THE LEVEL OF LOVE YOU HAVE INSIDE OF YOU TO GIVE...HER SOULS WAY OF CONFESSING ITS UNWORTHINESS. SHE HAS ALOT OF MATURING TO DO AND YOU TRULY ARE FAR AHEAD F HER IN SO MANY WAYS.
THIS.
This wonderful story of the box of tea it is soooooo sweet, you are so lucky to have sweet people around you
I adore you and feel your pain. I'm not crying, but my eyes are sweating. I've never wanted a cup of tea this badly in my life.
You are the best thing on the internet. Holy shit. I'm in awe at how you find the words.
you are so nice 🤍
These videos are so helpful & comforting. This kind of vulnerability & honesty & candidness is such a valuable part of the grieving process. Sending you so much love, you beautiful woman. Your composure & bravery & gratitude leaves me in complete awe.
Not Sarah bashing here but her current relationship has a cracked foundation based on lies and cheating. It will not last but that’s not your issue. Continue living your truth and take the time to heal. You are doing great!
AGREE.
she wants to see Jessa "happy" so she doesn't have to feel guilty...
@@aleta5873 right?! What a careless thing for her to say to Jessa.
Change is hard, especially when it is forced upon you and you never saw it coming. You will have ups and downs through this adjustment period. Remember always, you did nothing wrong. Cheating is a act of selfishness! You are a powerful young woman and you will come out on top. It is painful now but you are better off without her. Take care and keep moving forward, baby steps. You are a loving young lady with a lot to do in life!!!
As far as the old lady that fell.....try to remember that everyone is fighting their own battle and her anger may not have been directed at you, but her situation, her life and things that you may not be aware of.....life is hard in a multitude of ways for everyone.
When you're cheated on, it's not your fault. Don't take it on. It's the cheater that decided it was easier to lie and cheat than to be
kind and honest. Many try to defend the cheater and that's their right. To me, cheaters aren't trust worthy. I've been cheated on and I cheated in my first relationship, guys guys...I was 18yrs old. It was my 1st relationship and we were both dumb kids. It still hurt though. Since then, I haven't cheated but I've been cheated on. It hurts but it's also a clear cut and dry sign that they were not for me. Loss hurts...but we get through it and grow stronger for it. 8 years is a long time. I'm sorry this happened to you but the lessons, confidence, and growth you will get out of this....priceless. Sending you hugs, love, and strength. You Fkn got this!!!
So brave. No matter what, each day is a new day to be, to feel, to learn, to love and to be kinder than the day prior. Each of these things without realising will help you heal, it took me 1.5 years to feel better, but it does, I promise you. Cheating is unkind and selfish and cannot be justified. You are validated and you are loved ♥️
sending you all my love. you are such a beautiful soul. thanks fir the example of your courage in being in your coin; with All that this entails. bless sweetheart Jessa
Jessa! You are already sounding freer and a bit more relaxed. Hugs, hugs, hugs! A bunch of us have been there and we know how crappy this can feel. We are here for you. Not just today. Not just tomorrow. Keep breathing my dear. Let people in and keep helping. Thank you for sharing. It helps me to hear this too. It is easy to forget to keep open and willing to let people help. The tea… this is such a touching moment. Blessing for the family and the shared comfort!
As sad as this video was to watch, you told a beautiful story. Please write a book some day, and share this sad but beuatiful story to someone else who can relate. I wish you the best and will continue to follow you and prayers to an awesome young woman.
Girlie,
You are so calm and that's Awesome!!!!! I think what you are going through and I would not have handled that situation so calmly. You are a better person than me.
God Bless You and Your Family.
Wow this is so real and raw.I’m so sorry Jess that you have to go thru this.Sometimes the ones we love can treat us the worst and cause the most pain.Just thank god you didn’t marry or have children with her.You will get thru this and just know you are not alone we are all here for you.
Jess wish i could give you a big hug right now - You have done so well talking things through in the vlog. Sending love from over the big pond
I wish I could just hug you and tell you everything is going to be okay.
I am an empath. Though I do not know you, I wish that I could help take away your pain. But our pain is just as much our own as is our joy. And you've shared both with us so eloquently and shown our commonality, that we can alleviate eachothers pain by just talking about it. You have a clarity about you now that's palpable, you know what you will and will not accept and what you are deserving of. Hell yeah. Run with that. Thank you for showing us that revealing vulnerability and truth is the true sign of strength. Never apologize for crying.Tears are human. Turning off the emotional switch on someone you supposedly love is NOT.
Gawd bless u and your lovely soul and your dogs. In 6 months you wont know yourself. Keep grieving and keep living and life will continue and soon it will improve
Thank you for sharing. I believe this experience will catapult you into the true depths of your life journey. Heartbreak is like a right of passage.
I’ve never wanted to hug someone more.
Just something I noticed.... Is that you keep tissues in your bedside drawer. This isn't a diss. It's a recognition. I see you. I too cry in my bed sometimes and when the pillow is wet of snot I grab a tissue and blow into it haha. I just see someone that is taking care of herself and her emotions. What a rollercoaster this life is! My heart is with you. All my love from South Africa! Indigo xox
you’re amazing jessa!
Awww my friend *big virtual hugs* it's sorta breaks my heart to hear you cry even tho it's sometimes needed ..... right now I'm going through a unjust break up. Sending you love and support from NC!! You are treasured and seen always, my friend.
You are a brave and beautiful person. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and you will get through this and be happy again.
I hope these videos are acting as a therapy for you travelling through your loss. I'm a talker but many years ago I was going through a stifling loss and didn't want to burden others so I kept quiet. Eventually I ended up in my doctors office crying nonstop for over 45 minutes. As a male brought up on 'real men don't cry' it was so hard for me. It was also like releasing a stopper from a bottle. My doctor told me that talking was my release and indeed that proved to be true. I also found who my supporters truly were. So I wish you all the happiness in your future.