Jessa, there is no timeline on being a mess, about struggling or about moving forward. It is an individual journey. Putting a timeline on it will stress you out, as you well know. Love those pups!
Dogs truly are (wo)man’s best friend, aren’t they? It’s so sweet to see how they love on you. They clearly know you need your snuggle time with them. Thankful you have them and they have you. ❤️
Life is so much better with Dogs!! You take as long as you need to heal. The amount of time it takes to heal is an indicator of how much you invested into the relationship. You are doing well, considering..
Good morning! One day at a time is what I had to lean on when my ex-husband of 20 years left me and our 3yr old son in 2016 for another and moves across the country. But it does get easier to cope. But healing is different for each person. Be only who you are and what makes you feel good. You're smart and beautiful, you got this!!!
Jessa you take as much time as you need, you had an 8 year relationship so it will take a while to cope with that lose. Don’t be hard on yourself sweet lady. Go on dates, make new friends but don’t put pressure on yourself. Fur babies are the best.
Such beautiful big baby dogs. I love the way they sit it your lap and snuggle 🥰 take your time, be kind to yourself, just seeing you and the pups is lovely. You don’t need to make elaborate content. Take care of yourself. Lots of warm gentle vibes coming your way xoxo
These beautiful fur babies are going to get you through this , they will be with you every step of the way on your healing journey hugs to you Jess xxx
Grieving isn’t a linear process and everyone moves at their own pace. Your timeline in that process is unique to you. You are embracing your vulnerability and still putting yourself out there which takes incredible strength! You do what you can do and be gentle with yourself! Self care can be a challenge so be sure to take care of you! Love and hugs❤️
They say it can take half the length of the relationship to get over the breakup, you’re doing absolutely beautifully with the process. Take deep breaths and stay present, you’re kicking ass!
I love that you posted this. I can't tell you how many times I've filmed hours of footage and then succumbed to the pressure that it is not good enough and just delete the files. This is enough in so many ways. Sorry that you're feeling anxious buddy. Sometimes it feels like living right on the threshold of fine and panic attack and the littlest, silly thing pushes you to anxiety. Ride the waves.
Ronan is the cutest!!!! His face looks like an owl. Oliver is the sweetest lap dog. There is no time frame to the feelings that hit you from a loss. I lost my Dad in June and have good days and bad days, good moments and bad moments. I am glad that you are dating again, just keep it light and have fun.
Ohhh myyyy, Oliver was ohh so snuggly and looked thoroughly exhausted from his slumber pawty. Dogs are the absolute best! Much love to you, Ollie, & Ronan! And happy thanksgiving!
Goodnight from Ireland and thanks for your video. I’m grieving also so I’m with you in the ups and downs the high and lows the good things and the bad things each day brings. I lost my husband to a heart attack very young then recently the eldest of my four daughters to cancer. Nobody will ever understand your grief because it’s yours uniquely alone. But together we can help each other. Your videos make me feel less alone in my grief and I’m here if you ever want to talk ❤️
The puppy cuddles in this video!! I could barely focus on what you were saying, that's how cute they are. Would love a food for the bad days video, that's probably my biggest struggle. I'm excited for the reintroduction video - you are truly rewriting your own story! Sending love
Jessa dogs are truly loving and faithful!! They will always be there by your side and give you unconditional love and affection!! Glad that you are dating again!! It’s a very good therapy that is helping the healing process!! Be strong and positive as well as happy beautiful lady!!🤗🥰❤️🙏🙏
When I’m anxious, this trick helps …I pretend that I ‘just arrived’ (body and soul)..no past, no future, it really helps clears my mind and anxiety. Also, have you thought about the possibility for a meet and greet for local fans? A lot of us are on the East coast (I’m in NJ) :)
I am new to your channel so not sure what videos you have done in the past. Some video ideas from me are: video of you with your dogs in the dog park, video of fun outings by yourself, walking while talking about a tough day or a good day, preparing food for down days, hobbies that cheer you, books or other things you find comforting at this time, preparing for a fun date plan, how you meet new people, journal ideas for coping with break ups (if you journal at this time of your life), ways you lower your anxiety, plans for your holidays, vacation plans, and plans for your future. I am interested in your discussions of sad moments and positive moments, as it helps me to learn about break ups from someone else’s perspective. I don’t think you need to get over your break up quickly as that will understandable take a lot of time.
Dogs really are a woman's best friend! ❤️ I would love to see an introduction on who you are! Your likes and dislikes, dreams and hopes, and of course we can never get too much dog mama content!
You do what makes you feel JOY as sometimes it is hard to control personal anxiety, remember to breath slowly! I love your Dogs are very cute & you get out there when you need positive company!💜🌻🌈☮
the time to move on will come naturally, with time. give yourself as much time as you need to process. sending you positivity & light during this time! we love watching your videos
Jessa, I jjust have to say that your transparency is so appreciated, and here lately, I have found myself utterly captivated by the one on one videos you have been posting. I am really excited for you AND I'm here for you. ❤ - from Mary in Georgia
Hey Jess. Keep the strength up and working through slowly it is the best way to recover from any thing, You are doing great. Love Oliver and Ronan. Wots of woof to you all :))))
I’m so glad you posted this. Thank you for your authenticity and for continuing to bring us along on your journey. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Jessa, Ronan and Ollie!!
Your dogs are so so cute and lovable and dating is scary, and make sure you take care of yourself and ensure you’re safe. Just have fun and you take your time with everything but yes totally agree we are social people and just enjoyed this great dog video. You are a wonderful and inspiring woman and thank you so much for a great video.
Jess, there are no words to describe how much you sharing your journey with us means to so many… or how it’s helped me personally retroactively heal even more deeply several years past my own heartbreak of this same awful flavor with so many similarities in betrayal…. your story has truly stopped me in my tracks. So as someone proverbially on the “other side” (even though that’s not really a thing) I want to tell you: take all the time you need. Grieving AND healing come in waves & the path is cyclical, I like to visualize it as layers of a spiral. ❤️ The only timeline you’re on is your own & you don’t owe anyone appearances of “togetherness” or okay-ness! No part of the process is separate, it’s all your healing, especially permission to feel & just be on your bad days. Here for every part of it & sending you such deep love & appreciation 💕💕💕
Jessa: Things will come in waves. One week, you'll feel great and the next week or even just a day, you will feel vulnerable and be back at sadness and sorrow. THAT is normal. Grieving is a process. YOU CAN DO THIS. We are here for you.
I was literally sitting cuddling my dog that looks like a mini-me of Ronin when I opened youtube and your thumbnail popped up. Was a funny mirror image.
How sweet that your dogs had a slumber party as well as snuggle time with you! I think it’s great you can be there for your dogs and be a comfort for them in the midst of the anxiety you are experiencing. It takes a strong person to care well for their pets. You do a great job with them!
Your pups are the best companions and healers and helping keep our mental sanity. One day at a time and at your own pace. You’ve got this. Enjoy your puppy snuggles and cuddles.💕💕💕💕
Hello Jess, You do have your life together. Keep yourself busy, which you are doing a great job at. Don't ever put a time line on your life, that will only stress you out more. You are doing your best, one foot in front of the other. I love watching your video's. I love your puppies, they are so freaking cute.
You obviously have a dogheart. So everything will be okay one day. Especially with the wonderful support of all the nice and good people leaving their comments here. This is awesome!
First of all, I fully support you using footage, even if the video didn't turn out as you originally planned! Videos are so much work -- you don't have to make really complicated ones. The dogs are beautiful and so are you ❤️ Most importantly, there is no time limit on grief, do not imagine pressure that isn't there. Heck, I'm still trying to process my first breakup from nearly 3 years ago. This channel can become whatever you want/need at the time. Sending hugs. -K
Jessa, you have a unique gift for showing your authentic self. I have been watching you for years and you are gifted with a calming presence. You are one of the only creators that I listen to on normal speed. You help me to slow down and enjoy the present moment. I appreciate that so much. Keep being your authentic self and working at a pace that feels good for you. We are ALL works in progress. Hugs 💕
♥️Jessa♥️ So sorry for the struggle with anxiety. I EMPATHIZE... and want to ENCOURAGE YOU that you will NOT always feel this way. You're doing GREAT!!NO PRESSURE to "perform " or "please"... just take things at your own PERFECT pace. ♥️♥️♥️ THANKS for posting this, AS IS! It's always a JOY to see those precious boys! 🐾🐾 Much LOVE to you three 😊🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️
Jessa hi, it's so nice to see how those beautiful dogs love you,they know also know how much you love them,live your life my dear,we all love you and are by your side, whenever you feel like making a video with whatever we will support you,all my love ☀️🌼❤️
Awww, your pups are going to be so amazing going through this rough time but you got this girl!!! 🤩 You have been handling this so amazingly wish you nothing but peace and happiness💞💞
Thank you for being real. And for continuing to bring us along for your Uphill/downhill adventure 😘 mental health awareness is important ☮️❤️🥰 you ROCK Jessa🫂🍄🌻
Your dogs are so beautiful! I adopted a German Shepherd Mix, Jar, last year and he was my saving grace. I lost both my grandparents this year. Jar really helped giving all the love and getting me out of funks!
I think you’re doing great. You take as long as you want and as long as you need to heal. You have been traumatized and you are grieving a relationship whose dreams won’t be realized. It takes time. You are making progress. Be gentle with yourself. 💗
Loss is loss. You DO NOT have to and honestly CAN NOT operate on anyone else's timetable. We'll be here for you. Do what you want to when you can and when you want. Thanks for it all. Have fun with Kayce (Casey?) (sp?) tomorrow while the boyos have fun with Clay. PS You are SO BRAVE. You are getting out and doing it all, you're taking all the steps and making all the right moves for your own heart and mind and soul. I had a horrendous breakup 7+ years ago and you're showing me what to go back and do to untangle my still damaged heart today. Thanks.
Hi Jessa...I know I like field trips. Maybe to the dog park or shopping at a farmers market or going on a hike. Idk? Maybe you could take us to see something special in Phili. There are some suggestions. How about a cooking video on one of your favorite foods. 🤔 Those boys of yours are simply gorgeous. Give them big hugs and rubs for me. Take care everyone ❤
You are doing great! I'm going to the same thing, last week a real high and now super anxious again. I guess it's all part of it❤️ would love to hear how you experience dating after a long relationship :)
Girl, BE A MESS...it's so totally okay...expectations are dumb and oftentimes harmful...be a mess, it's the only way to get to a place where you are authentically not a mess anymore...just wiser.
Lucky dogs : ) Even thought it may not look like it, you have been given a gift... : ) make the best of it! Take your time.. recapture you! Then you do you!!
I met my girlfriend a week after she had broken up with her ex. I gave her space to feel what she had to feel, we are still together now three years later! New experiences are good for the soul and sometimes you just never want them to end, so you stick to one another:)
It gets to me when i think I’m over it. Some silly comment or thought, time is a good healer. Mine was a 36 year turbulent marriage. I knew it was definitely over when he told me he had found someone. And two days later my son said his dad and her were meeting with him. And crap just kept coming and i almost lost it. My daughter was my rock she found out things at the same time as me. We walked every day for a couple of months. She kept me sane. Im in a much better place mentally now. Jessa this has been months for me now. Most of the time I’m doing fine. I have leant to go with the flow. Nobody knows exactly what we’re going through and we can’t expect them to. You know what you need, believe in yourself and this time will pass. It takes time.
I think everybody should go on dates whenever they want to, personally, I felt the need to rebounce quite quick, but this is the type of person I am. I was always respectful of everyone I have dated, of course, there people outhere who would disagree, but to each their own :D. Do whatever makes you happy, just be honest about it, and it will be great. You never know when you meet the love of your life.
In time this will just be part of your past . Your new life that fills you with happiness and joy will be worth the tears and sadness you endured. I have all the faith in the world in you …your beautiful inside and out
I love the pups💚.Since the break up I also having a hardtime and a little bit anxious meeting other people dont know if thats normal😂but thats normal for me. In the past month it is more of me time but lucky you jess,you have the dogs😍😍
Patience…don’t put such a great expectation on yourself. Grieve…you have experienced a significant loss in your life. Not to mention dealing with the betrayal and the anger that comes with that. There is no road map for this. Just be…and know you are not alone.
Oliver looks so tired, lol. I can’t believe you can carry Ronan. He must be all fluff! You are doing great. I would be worried about you if you didn’t go through this process.
There is no time limit to set on your self to not feel anxious. I am 54 and have had some great relationships and some horrible relationships. I can only imagine how you were blind sided by her actions. I have had relationships that I was going through the “mourning” process while I was still in the relationship because i could see are the demise and ultimate end. You did not have that. Everyone needs a different time timeline to heal and process. There are so many stages of reflection and growth you go through. By looking at yourself, her and the relationship. It’s all a healing process. For me personally a month is no where near enough time. But again we all live in a different timeline. I have usually taken 1-2 years to get to the point where I started dating. Yes I need people and friends around, but I make sure they are just that. I try to get to a point where I can be at peace with myself before I date. Trying to Figure out what makes me happy and what I need and don’t need. That changes and evolves as we grow and mature. Especially coming out of such a long relationship like you and “her” had. I think she showed a huge insecurity jumping from one long term relationship to another relationship. It seems she is not confident enough to be in her own skin, her own space alone with just her. It is hard at first but eventually you end up cherishing that time and don’t dread it. That’s when I feel I am ready to date. When I don’t need someone there to distract me from me. And on the subject of trust it is a hard balance. I have been hurt many times. By being cheated on, lied to , and even an exes suicide attempt. Those things shape you and rock your world. But unfortunately those hardships are a part of life and make you stronger. I have been single for 2 years now and ok with that. I would love to have a partner in my life but not just to have a partner. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me, respect me, grow and laugh with me and travel with me just as much as I want to be with them. Not just be with someone to fill that space or fill my time. You are a strong woman and you got this. I think you are doing a great job. Sending ❤️ , thoughts and prayers. Angela Mula
It appears puppy’s 🐶are mourning with you, they are certainly feeling sad 😞 for you and themselves keep on supporting each other god created puppies 🐶 and cats to do exactly what they are doing a support system as you are to them Please keep mending your broken heart 💔 and please get well soon a lot of people out there are on your journey ❤️💐🌷💐
Jessa, there is no timeline on being a mess, about struggling or about moving forward. It is an individual journey. Putting a timeline on it will stress you out, as you well know. Love those pups!
Dogs truly are (wo)man’s best friend, aren’t they? It’s so sweet to see how they love on you. They clearly know you need your snuggle time with them. Thankful you have them and they have you. ❤️
I agree, the dogs know, I am so glad Jessa has Oliver and Ro to love and support... Loving blessings to all reading..
Life is so much better with Dogs!! You take as long as you need to heal. The amount of time it takes to heal is an indicator of how much you invested into the relationship. You are doing well, considering..
Good morning! One day at a time is what I had to lean on when my ex-husband of 20 years left me and our 3yr old son in 2016 for another and moves across the country. But it does get easier to cope. But healing is different for each person. Be only who you are and what makes you feel good. You're smart and beautiful, you got this!!!
I love the idea of a video reintroducing yourself, by yourself. I love this times 1,000
Jessa you take as much time as you need, you had an 8 year relationship so it will take a while to cope with that lose. Don’t be hard on yourself sweet lady. Go on dates, make new friends but don’t put pressure on yourself. Fur babies are the best.
Such beautiful big baby dogs. I love the way they sit it your lap and snuggle 🥰 take your time, be kind to yourself, just seeing you and the pups is lovely. You don’t need to make elaborate content. Take care of yourself. Lots of warm gentle vibes coming your way xoxo
These beautiful fur babies are going to get you through this , they will be with you every step of the way on your healing journey hugs to you Jess xxx
Grieving isn’t a linear process and everyone moves at their own pace. Your timeline in that process is unique to you. You are embracing your vulnerability and still putting yourself out there which takes incredible strength! You do what you can do and be gentle with yourself! Self care can be a challenge so be sure to take care of you! Love and hugs❤️
They say it can take half the length of the relationship to get over the breakup, you’re doing absolutely beautifully with the process. Take deep breaths and stay present, you’re kicking ass!
I love that you posted this. I can't tell you how many times I've filmed hours of footage and then succumbed to the pressure that it is not good enough and just delete the files. This is enough in so many ways. Sorry that you're feeling anxious buddy. Sometimes it feels like living right on the threshold of fine and panic attack and the littlest, silly thing pushes you to anxiety. Ride the waves.
Ronan is the cutest!!!! His face looks like an owl. Oliver is the sweetest lap dog. There is no time frame to the feelings that hit you from a loss. I lost my Dad in June and have good days and bad days, good moments and bad moments. I am glad that you are dating again, just keep it light and have fun.
I could watch a dog cuddling video every day! You have 2 precious armfuls. So good for your soul. ❤️🇨🇦
Ohhh myyyy, Oliver was ohh so snuggly and looked thoroughly exhausted from his slumber pawty. Dogs are the absolute best! Much love to you, Ollie, & Ronan! And happy thanksgiving!
Goodnight from Ireland and thanks for your video. I’m grieving also so I’m with you in the ups and downs the high and lows the good things and the bad things each day brings. I lost my husband to a heart attack very young then recently the eldest of my four daughters to cancer. Nobody will ever understand your grief because it’s yours uniquely alone. But together we can help each other. Your videos make me feel less alone in my grief and I’m here if you ever want to talk ❤️
Dog cuddles are the best. Struggling through a break up like this is hard Take care.
The puppy cuddles in this video!! I could barely focus on what you were saying, that's how cute they are. Would love a food for the bad days video, that's probably my biggest struggle. I'm excited for the reintroduction video - you are truly rewriting your own story! Sending love
Jessa dogs are truly loving and faithful!! They will always be there by your side and give you unconditional love and affection!! Glad that you are dating again!! It’s a very good therapy that is helping the healing process!! Be strong and positive as well as happy beautiful lady!!🤗🥰❤️🙏🙏
When I’m anxious, this trick helps …I pretend that I ‘just arrived’ (body and soul)..no past, no future, it really helps clears my mind and anxiety. Also, have you thought about the possibility for a meet and greet for local fans? A lot of us are on the East coast (I’m in NJ) :)
I am new to your channel so not sure what videos you have done in the past. Some video ideas from me are: video of you with your dogs in the dog park, video of fun outings by yourself, walking while talking about a tough day or a good day, preparing food for down days, hobbies that cheer you, books or other things you find comforting at this time, preparing for a fun date plan, how you meet new people, journal ideas for coping with break ups (if you journal at this time of your life), ways you lower your anxiety, plans for your holidays, vacation plans, and plans for your future. I am interested in your discussions of sad moments and positive moments, as it helps me to learn about break ups from someone else’s perspective. I don’t think you need to get over your break up quickly as that will understandable take a lot of time.
Dogs are great therapy. No matter how bad I’m feeling, my dog can always make me feel better.
Dogs really are a woman's best friend! ❤️ I would love to see an introduction on who you are! Your likes and dislikes, dreams and hopes, and of course we can never get too much dog mama content!
Your dogs are so sweet. Whenever you need a hug there is always a pup waiting to love you.
You have such a beautiful heart. I love how you treat your babies. I know in my heart, you’ll find someone else.
You do what makes you feel JOY as sometimes it is hard to control personal anxiety, remember to breath slowly! I love your Dogs are very cute & you get out there when you need positive company!💜🌻🌈☮
Hi. Great to see you. Even a short vid is nice to see but it helps you a lot. Braver ! Keep going Jessa. We are with you.
the time to move on will come naturally, with time. give yourself as much time as you need to process. sending you positivity & light during this time! we love watching your videos
Sometimes keeping it simple is all that's needed, glad you checked in with us & are keeping it real.
Jessa, I jjust have to say that your transparency is so appreciated, and here lately, I have found myself utterly captivated by the one on one videos you have been posting. I am really excited for you AND I'm here for you. ❤ - from Mary in Georgia
Love the honesty! well done
Hey Jess. Keep the strength up and working through slowly it is the best way to recover from any thing, You are doing great. Love Oliver and Ronan. Wots of woof to you all :))))
I’m so glad you posted this. Thank you for your authenticity and for continuing to bring us along on your journey. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Jessa, Ronan and Ollie!!
Beautiful puppies! I'm so glad you have them to cuddle when your having a bad day! Xx
Your dogs are so so cute and lovable and dating is scary, and make sure you take care of yourself and ensure you’re safe. Just have fun and you take your time with everything but yes totally agree we are social people and just enjoyed this great dog video. You are a wonderful and inspiring woman and thank you so much for a great video.
Jess, there are no words to describe how much you sharing your journey with us means to so many… or how it’s helped me personally retroactively heal even more deeply several years past my own heartbreak of this same awful flavor with so many similarities in betrayal…. your story has truly stopped me in my tracks. So as someone proverbially on the “other side” (even though that’s not really a thing) I want to tell you: take all the time you need. Grieving AND healing come in waves & the path is cyclical, I like to visualize it as layers of a spiral. ❤️ The only timeline you’re on is your own & you don’t owe anyone appearances of “togetherness” or okay-ness! No part of the process is separate, it’s all your healing, especially permission to feel & just be on your bad days. Here for every part of it & sending you such deep love & appreciation 💕💕💕
Jessa: Things will come in waves. One week, you'll feel great and the next week or even just a day, you will feel vulnerable and be back at sadness and sorrow. THAT is normal. Grieving is a process. YOU CAN DO THIS. We are here for you.
I was literally sitting cuddling my dog that looks like a mini-me of Ronin when I opened youtube and your thumbnail popped up. Was a funny mirror image.
How sweet that your dogs had a slumber party as well as snuggle time with you! I think it’s great you can be there for your dogs and be a comfort for them in the midst of the anxiety you are experiencing. It takes a strong person to care well for their pets. You do a great job with them!
Your pups are the best companions and healers and helping keep our mental sanity. One day at a time and at your own pace. You’ve got this. Enjoy your puppy snuggles and cuddles.💕💕💕💕
Hello Jess,
You do have your life together. Keep yourself busy, which you are doing a great job at. Don't ever put a time line on your life, that will only stress you out more. You are doing your best, one foot in front of the other. I love watching your video's. I love your puppies, they are so freaking cute.
You obviously have a dogheart. So everything will be okay one day. Especially with the wonderful support of all the nice and good people leaving their comments here. This is awesome!
Fur babies are awesome.
It's nice that you are getting to meet new people.
Life has ebbs and flows.
First of all, I fully support you using footage, even if the video didn't turn out as you originally planned! Videos are so much work -- you don't have to make really complicated ones. The dogs are beautiful and so are you ❤️
Most importantly, there is no time limit on grief, do not imagine pressure that isn't there. Heck, I'm still trying to process my first breakup from nearly 3 years ago. This channel can become whatever you want/need at the time. Sending hugs. -K
Jessa, you have a unique gift for showing your authentic self. I have been watching you for years and you are gifted with a calming presence. You are one of the only creators that I listen to on normal speed. You help me to slow down and enjoy the present moment. I appreciate that so much. Keep being your authentic self and working at a pace that feels good for you. We are ALL works in progress. Hugs 💕
The best thing about dogs - unconditional love! You give them love and you get their love back - times ten. Be safe…
♥️Jessa♥️ So sorry for the struggle with anxiety. I EMPATHIZE... and want to ENCOURAGE YOU that you will NOT always feel this way. You're doing GREAT!!NO PRESSURE to "perform " or "please"... just take things at your own PERFECT pace. ♥️♥️♥️ THANKS for posting this, AS IS! It's always a JOY to see those precious boys! 🐾🐾 Much LOVE to you three 😊🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️
I love your pups so much! Ollie is just closing his eyes and enjoying mom time so much!
Jessa hi, it's so nice to see how those beautiful dogs love you,they know also know how much you love them,live your life my dear,we all love you and are by your side, whenever you feel like making a video with whatever we will support you,all my love ☀️🌼❤️
Sending love sweet message. May your angels keep you close. Bles.xxx
Awww, your pups are going to be so amazing going through this rough time but you got this girl!!! 🤩 You have been handling this so amazingly wish you nothing but peace and happiness💞💞
Thank you for being real. And for continuing to bring us along for your Uphill/downhill adventure 😘 mental health awareness is important ☮️❤️🥰 you ROCK Jessa🫂🍄🌻
Glad you took the time to check in. It’s always great to see you and the pups doing well. Happy Thanksgiving🍂🍁🌻
Your dogs are so beautiful! I adopted a German Shepherd Mix, Jar, last year and he was my saving grace. I lost both my grandparents this year. Jar really helped giving all the love and getting me out of funks!
I think you’re doing great. You take as long as you want and as long as you need to heal. You have been traumatized and you are grieving a relationship whose dreams won’t be realized. It takes time. You are making progress. Be gentle with yourself. 💗
Loss is loss. You DO NOT have to and honestly CAN NOT operate on anyone else's timetable. We'll be here for you. Do what you want to when you can and when you want. Thanks for it all. Have fun with Kayce (Casey?) (sp?) tomorrow while the boyos have fun with Clay. PS You are SO BRAVE. You are getting out and doing it all, you're taking all the steps and making all the right moves for your own heart and mind and soul. I had a horrendous breakup 7+ years ago and you're showing me what to go back and do to untangle my still damaged heart today. Thanks.
omg your dogs are the cutest!! Hope you're doing better today xx Here for you and rooting for you :) xx
Animals are unconditional love and healers. I'm happy that you have them in your life. Take care. :)
Hi Jessa...I know I like field trips. Maybe to the dog park or shopping at a farmers market or going on a hike. Idk? Maybe you could take us to see something special in Phili. There are some suggestions. How about a cooking video on one of your favorite foods. 🤔 Those boys of yours are simply gorgeous. Give them big hugs and rubs for me. Take care everyone ❤
Hey there! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your fur family. Hang in there!
Your babies are just adorable..I can’t even 🥰🥰
Beautiful lady with her gorgeous dogs! Love you Jessa! Hope you have an amazing day with Casey, Clay and her family!
You are doing great! I'm going to the same thing, last week a real high and now super anxious again. I guess it's all part of it❤️ would love to hear how you experience dating after a long relationship :)
Girl, BE A MESS...it's so totally okay...expectations are dumb and oftentimes harmful...be a mess, it's the only way to get to a place where you are authentically not a mess anymore...just wiser.
Lucky dogs : ) Even thought it may not look like it, you have been given a gift... : ) make the best of it! Take your time.. recapture you! Then you do you!!
Ronan and Ollie so cute. Ollie so comfy on Mommas lap. Stay strong and well. Take your time. And keep Hugging those pups.
I met my girlfriend a week after she had broken up with her ex. I gave her space to feel what she had to feel, we are still together now three years later! New experiences are good for the soul and sometimes you just never want them to end, so you stick to one another:)
It gets to me when i think I’m over it. Some silly comment or thought, time is a good healer. Mine was a 36 year turbulent marriage. I knew it was definitely over when he told me he had found someone. And two days later my son said his dad and her were meeting with him. And crap just kept coming and i almost lost it. My daughter was my rock she found out things at the same time as me. We walked every day for a couple of months. She kept me sane. Im in a much better place mentally now. Jessa this has been months for me now. Most of the time I’m doing fine. I have leant to go with the flow. Nobody knows exactly what we’re going through and we can’t expect them to. You know what you need, believe in yourself and this time will pass. It takes time.
Live each day and focus on the joy. Enjoy making new friends and expanding your support network. Sending hugs and paw-pats
You are wonderful! I love that you keep it real!
You got this ❤️ TRUST IN THE UNIVERSE!
Happy Thanksgiving to you and the babies🐕🐕🦺. I'm glad you have them.
We just got snow ❄️ today...here in Montana. Be kind to yourself. 😘
I think everybody should go on dates whenever they want to, personally, I felt the need to rebounce quite quick, but this is the type of person I am. I was always respectful of everyone I have dated, of course, there people outhere who would disagree, but to each their own :D. Do whatever makes you happy, just be honest about it, and it will be great. You never know when you meet the love of your life.
Am thinking of you over this holiday. Peace and blessings to you. 🙏🏼💕🍁🦃
what a beautiful dog.
In time this will just be part of your past . Your new life that fills you with happiness and joy will be worth the tears and sadness you endured. I have all the faith in the world in you …your beautiful inside and out
Your furbabies are gorgeous just like you keep going and you will get there there is someone for you never give up lovely lady
I love the pups💚.Since the break up I also having a hardtime and a little bit anxious meeting other people dont know if thats normal😂but thats normal for me. In the past month it is more of me time but lucky you jess,you have the dogs😍😍
Love your dogs and they are so loyal to you good luck on your dating honey x❤️❤️
Good morning love your videos your doing amazing job
Patience…don’t put such a great expectation on yourself. Grieve…you have experienced a significant loss in your life. Not to mention dealing with the betrayal and the anger that comes with that. There is no road map for this. Just be…and know you are not alone.
Oliver looks so tired, lol. I can’t believe you can carry Ronan. He must be all fluff! You are doing great. I would be worried about you if you didn’t go through this process.
omg. ollie - sooo tired. so cute.
They are truly Handsome Dogs!!!!!
Hi Jessa,
When is your next live?
Ronan is such a beautiful baby 🤗💜, and Ollie is the cutest toddler 🤣. This may make not much sense, but that’s what they look like to me.
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Anxiety comes and goes,,,smaller and smaller waves of it with an occasional kahuna,,,,,you are doing fine,,,it takes as long as it takes,,congrats.
Morning Jesse, 2 am in 🇦🇺 Thursday, you are a beautiful young women with 2 unconditional loving furry friends.
You may just have the snuggliest dogs in existence. You’re fortunate to have them and they’re fortunate to have you.
You lifting that puppy while sitting down is very impressive. I wish I was that strong lol.
There is no time limit to set on your self to not feel anxious.
I am 54 and have had some great relationships and some horrible relationships. I can only imagine how you were blind sided by her actions. I have had relationships that I was going through the “mourning” process while I was still in the relationship because i could see are the demise and ultimate end. You did not have that. Everyone needs a different time timeline to heal and process. There are so many stages of reflection and growth you go through. By looking at yourself, her and the relationship. It’s all a healing process. For me personally a month is no where near enough time. But again we all live in a different timeline. I have usually taken 1-2 years to get to the point where I started dating. Yes I need people and friends around, but I make sure they are just that. I try to get to a point where I can be at peace with myself before I date. Trying to Figure out what makes me happy and what I need and don’t need. That changes and evolves as we grow and mature. Especially coming out of such a long relationship like you and “her” had.
I think she showed a huge insecurity jumping from one long term relationship to another relationship. It seems she is not confident enough to be in her own skin, her own space alone with just her. It is hard at first but eventually you end up cherishing that time and don’t dread it. That’s when I feel I am ready to date. When I don’t need someone there to distract me from me.
And on the subject of trust it is a hard balance. I have been hurt many times. By being cheated on, lied to , and even an exes suicide attempt. Those things shape you and rock your world. But unfortunately those hardships are a part of life and make you stronger.
I have been single for 2 years now and ok with that. I would love to have a partner in my life but not just to have a partner. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me, respect me, grow and laugh with me and travel with me just as much as I want to be with them. Not just be with someone to fill that space or fill my time.
You are a strong woman and you got this.
I think you are doing a great job.
Sending ❤️ , thoughts and prayers. Angela Mula
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It appears puppy’s 🐶are mourning with you, they are certainly feeling sad 😞 for you and themselves keep on supporting each other god created puppies 🐶 and cats to do exactly what they are doing a support system as you are to them Please keep mending your broken heart 💔 and please get well soon a lot of people out there are on your journey ❤️💐🌷💐
Dogs are the best my furbaby son is my world
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Hi. Dating. Yes 🙌 😎❤️❤️😊
I’ve always thought that you have cute puppies
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Love how you sit on the floor ❤️