Women can't even have one thing in this country.. we have to always live in constant fear.. Suhel said it best. Well, we just have got mcps as men. All of India's problem can be solved with one thing : mindset change, men and women both.
These people should ask these questions to women of Kerala where every other woman is a nurse or aspires to be one and has no choice but to work. They have managed the so called 'work life balance' for ages. Men are very much happy to look after the children after sending their wives to the 'Gulf' ironically for a state which is known to have a large amount of liquor consumption. Indian courts would not usually allow men with such actions near children and would happily label them as 'evil influence' to society.
Men and women hv different bodies.and are different emotionally. The sooner we understand ths the better. It's all about roles. As long as we don't respect a housewife s job, v will keep having such debates
@@Volvo-f2y Exactly. Some women make the choice to be a housewife totally out of their interest and free will. Such factors are never brought into consideration and then feminists continue to rant about the wage gap.
But that's the whole point of the debate. Women don't have the choice. Even the most educated women at some point of their career have to abandon it ..to raise a child and they are looked down when they choose career over babies. The whole mindset has to change then only we can have equal respect for the housework.
the mindset of some men around home/family responsibilities is extremely wrong - they don't help around the house with chores, expect women to 'raise' children and then perform 'conjugal duties'. Advice to women - choose a husband who doesn't have such a mindset and believes that a man is the 'dominant' partner in a relationship and the woman is the 'submissive' partner in a relationship. Men and women should share 50-50 of the household chores, spending time with kids and also with work and income. It's about a relationship of equals, not a dominant-submissive relationship.
You cannot enforce it. Every family has their own problem & dont call it male domination Not every man can take household chores after coming from 10 hours work but there are some people There are families which have working women also that doesnt mean were working women is not there it is male domination
@@sanjeevkushwaha4043 You do not want to contribute. What are you ready to do for family? Only rights, not responsibilities? If you think like that, you do not need tha family.
I really like Barkha Dutt, however, I was quite disappointed with the way she ran this panel. I heard more from her than I did from the panel and others. She also interrupted a lot sometimes trying to interject her own point of view. As I mentioned earlier that I like her and I have seen many of hers one to one interviews which, I enjoyed. She needs to take a step back and let others she has invited, speak. Give direction to the discussion and bring it all together by saying as few words as possible. Don't get me wrong I love listening to her. If there was a program where she would pick a topic and talk about it for 15 minutes, I'll watch it. This, however, is not that kind of program. She doesn't need to be so much in the forefront. I am only half way through and I'll watch the rest. I'll also watch a couple more of these programs. If the same trend continues then sadly I'll stop. Edit: I've never been more annoyed with Barkha Dutt. LET OTHERS SPEAK. Stop interfering, let other finish before interjecting.
Why these people r ready to talk about extortion practiced by corporate world, specially in sales and Marketing, production, hospitality, hospitals, even in education, everywhere in most organizations, leave the wages even humanity never exists. People are ready to work at the cost of their beautiful life and dignity. Saala Lala, owner, top Management kuch bhi kah deta hai yaa kar deta hai, and no rules and regulations. It is for both.
why we need others? what is the requirement of husband or wife when everything can be sourced? everyone is selfish.everyone lives for himself only. dont expect anything from others.that is our weakness.
the job of maintaining the house is a full time job.the man is considered to be a man of the field and now as women are also having a career it is the house that suffers most as the balancing act is bit difficult----------
Hi Most men in India are ashamed to work at home. And if they work in the house then many times they are also called like.जोरू का ग़ुलाम I too managed work at both I work in the office and also handle the house alone .
men are stronger and financial independent so thaey have better chance to escape marriage at all.What about girls who are forced to marry? Situation in village is really very difficult. Plenty of rural girls can't even to finsih school because of this. Many rural husbands are abusive and there are no NGO, courts and police who support them. In rural society women who left hers husband is considered bad, infertile women are blamed, while men are allowed to beat wives and force them into intercourse.
Bogdana Nedavnya That I can understand.. forcing girls from families may be high in rural india.. I am from kerala... Its not a serious problem here because more parents like their daughters to have a job.....here men prefers to marry employed women to ensure financial security .....
Why don't Barkha understand simple thing that a mother can't let her child grow without her? Men could have opted not to work rather sitting at home & taking care of his child..Reverse scenario could be played but child needs her/his mother more than anyone ever .. It's not all about feminism at all..
What i understood ,barkha does not do anything in her home..I am preety sure barkha will never be wife for more than 1week..She just doesnot like those who are happy with their husbands
happiness with husbands is when husbands love wives unconditionally and do not view them as robots for chores. The same with wives that do not expect salary from husbands and do not view them as gadgets for money.
It is hightime we should abandon marriage and do whatever we want to do rather than expecting and blaming others. blame comes from expectations only.please dont expect and dont blame.
Now a days, women in india are are given equal rights for education and jobs. Why do they expect given alimony from male This should be stopped by law Women now a days are not behaving like Hindu women wheels they do they western women Why do they alimony? and they also should be punished in jail if they are proved culprit because men and women are equal and this is for my daughter too if she is proved culprit Bharkha You need to discuss this as well
Shyam Saha Congratulations both of you for being contented. This is the balanced life.When the spouses are happy to each other, no one can interven in your lives whether it is Barkha's propaganda or western cultures.Always maintain your status quo.
Modernity in India and western countries help Islamic countries to gain ground by polygamy and producing many children. On the contrary, modernity in India has resulted in career hungry women, who after into job, fight for equal pay and for equal pay marry late and think children are not necessary. Now in India urban hindus are also into live in relationship, no interest for marriage despite good financial conditions, leading a life which is against biological clock late night parties, getting up late, sitting for long hours, all this result in infertility, low hindu population levels.....................
What about girls who are forced to marry? Plenty of rual girls can't even to finsih school because of this. Many rural husbands are abusive and there are no NGO, courts and police who support them. In rural society women who left hers husband is considered bad, infertile women are blamed, while men are allowed to beat wives and force them into intercourse. Plus population in rural India among nonmuslim communities are very high . High population leads to poverty, and family with many children consider kids as a "one mouth to feed", not a precious person.
Jis desh ke gharon me democracy nahi hai, us desh ke andar democracy kaise aa sakti hai. Nahi ho sakta hai aisa. - Varun Grover
Women can't even have one thing in this country.. we have to always live in constant fear.. Suhel said it best. Well, we just have got mcps as men. All of India's problem can be solved with one thing : mindset change, men and women both.
These people should ask these questions to women of Kerala where every other woman is a nurse or aspires to be one and has no choice but to work. They have managed the so called 'work life balance' for ages. Men are very much happy to look after the children after sending their wives to the 'Gulf' ironically for a state which is known to have a large amount of liquor consumption. Indian courts would not usually allow men with such actions near children and would happily label them as 'evil influence' to society.
Men and women hv different bodies.and are different emotionally. The sooner we understand ths the better. It's all about roles. As long as we don't respect a housewife s job, v will keep having such debates
True Wisdom
Priya J It's only the feminists who don't respect that.
@@Volvo-f2y True feminists respect EVERY WOMAN, INCLUDING HOUSEWIVES.
@@Volvo-f2y Exactly. Some women make the choice to be a housewife totally out of their interest and free will. Such factors are never brought into consideration and then feminists continue to rant about the wage gap.
But that's the whole point of the debate. Women don't have the choice. Even the most educated women at some point of their career have to abandon it ..to raise a child and they are looked down when they choose career over babies. The whole mindset has to change then only we can have equal respect for the housework.
the mindset of some men around home/family responsibilities is extremely wrong - they don't help around the house with chores, expect women to 'raise' children and then perform 'conjugal duties'. Advice to women - choose a husband who doesn't have such a mindset and believes that a man is the 'dominant' partner in a relationship and the woman is the 'submissive' partner in a relationship. Men and women should share 50-50 of the household chores, spending time with kids and also with work and income. It's about a relationship of equals, not a dominant-submissive relationship.
You cannot enforce it.
Every family has their own problem & dont call it male domination
Not every man can take household chores after coming from 10 hours work but there are some people
There are families which have working women also that doesnt mean were working women is not there it is male domination
k mangina
@@jibintsaji8372 right 😂😂😂
@@shuhaizism4551 Family should involeve mutual care. If husband can't take chores, he should get a maid to help his wife.
@@sanjeevkushwaha4043 You do not want to contribute. What are you ready to do for family? Only rights, not responsibilities? If you think like that, you do not need tha family.
I really like Barkha Dutt, however, I was quite disappointed with the way she ran this panel. I heard more from her than I did from the panel and others. She also interrupted a lot sometimes trying to interject her own point of view. As I mentioned earlier that I like her and I have seen many of hers one to one interviews which, I enjoyed. She needs to take a step back and let others she has invited, speak. Give direction to the discussion and bring it all together by saying as few words as possible. Don't get me wrong I love listening to her. If there was a program where she would pick a topic and talk about it for 15 minutes, I'll watch it. This, however, is not that kind of program. She doesn't need to be so much in the forefront.
I am only half way through and I'll watch the rest. I'll also watch a couple more of these programs. If the same trend continues then sadly I'll stop.
Edit: I've never been more annoyed with Barkha Dutt. LET OTHERS SPEAK. Stop interfering, let other finish before interjecting.
I would like a debate on what is good for the children and not just men and women . Possible?
Why these people r ready to talk about extortion practiced by corporate world, specially in sales and Marketing, production, hospitality, hospitals, even in education, everywhere in most organizations, leave the wages even humanity never exists. People are ready to work at the cost of their beautiful life and dignity.
Saala Lala, owner, top Management kuch bhi kah deta hai yaa kar deta hai, and no rules and regulations. It is for both.
The panel on far left is so dashing... Love you odia girl :)
why we need others?
what is the requirement of husband or wife when everything can be sourced?
everyone is selfish.everyone lives for himself only. dont expect anything from others.that is our weakness.
Family is about making comprpomises which will satisfy both spouses.
the job of maintaining the house is a full time job.the man is considered to be a man of the field and now as women are also having a career it is the house that suffers most as the balancing act is bit difficult----------
Hi
Most men in India are ashamed to work at home.
And if they work in the house then many times they are also called like.जोरू का ग़ुलाम
I too managed work at both
I work in the office and also handle the house alone .
Pahle equal responsibility too le loo...... Dono work kroo dono kaam kroo.... Equal...
I. Live alone... Aur sarre ghar k kaam khud karta hoon🤣🤣🤣🤣merko kisi randi ki bhii jarroorat nhi haii...
@@kajalkangra9423 your behavior tells what type of person you are.
They're talking about Choice... Do men have a choice?... No. Men HAVE to work ... How's that fair?
men are stronger and financial independent so thaey have better chance to escape marriage at all.What about girls who are forced to marry? Situation in village is really very difficult. Plenty of rural girls can't even to finsih school because of this. Many rural husbands are abusive and there are no NGO, courts and police who support them. In rural society women who left hers husband is considered bad, infertile women are blamed, while men are allowed to beat wives and force them into intercourse.
Annoyed guy don't worry buddy after few decades neither man nor women will have a choice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bogdana Nedavnya Go and make women financially independent... plenty of laws are here for woman if somebody forces her she can go to court ....
@@ananthakrishnan5184 Rural women do not have such opportunity, especially if fathers lock them at home and torture for disagreeing to marriage.
Bogdana Nedavnya That I can understand.. forcing girls from families may be high in rural india..
I am from kerala... Its not a serious problem here because more parents like their daughters to have a job.....here men prefers to marry employed women to ensure financial security .....
Why don't Barkha understand simple thing that a mother can't let her child grow without her? Men could have opted not to work rather sitting at home & taking care of his child..Reverse scenario could be played but child needs her/his mother more than anyone ever .. It's not all about feminism at all..
Camera person u r killing my ears
Very true
What i understood ,barkha does not do anything in her home..I am preety sure barkha will never be wife for more than 1week..She just doesnot like those who are happy with their husbands
happiness with husbands is when husbands love wives unconditionally and do not view them as robots for chores. The same with wives that do not expect salary from husbands and do not view them as gadgets for money.
Barkha is a men hater
It is hightime we should abandon marriage and do whatever we want to do rather than expecting and blaming others.
blame comes from expectations only.please dont expect and dont blame.
Now a days, women in india are are given equal rights for education and jobs.
Why do they expect given alimony from male
This should be stopped by law
Women now a days are not behaving like Hindu women wheels they do they western women
Why do they alimony? and they also should be punished in jail if they are proved culprit because men and women are equal and this is for my daughter too if she is proved culprit
Bharkha
You need to discuss this as well
MGTOW
thanks Barkha
why why why???
maa...judakal baat karenge,..jai.hnd..d forcd me 2 say dis
WHO THE EFF IS COUGING
Race between high class thing for poor girls, ........talk about bahrat
Abe khud hi bolegi ya sunegi bhi....😡😡
Thank god my wife hasnot watched this video..This brakha will destroy my family
Do you care for your wife? What are you doing to make her happy? Don't you think that she also gete tired, she is not a robot for chores.i
Shyam Saha Congratulations both of you for being contented. This is the balanced life.When the spouses are happy to each other, no one can interven in your lives whether it is Barkha's propaganda or western cultures.Always maintain your status quo.
Exactly bro she did
Modernity in India and western countries help Islamic countries to gain ground by polygamy and producing many children. On the contrary, modernity in India has resulted in career hungry women, who after into job, fight for equal pay and for equal pay marry late and think children are not necessary. Now in India urban hindus are also into live in relationship, no interest for marriage despite good financial conditions, leading a life which is against biological clock late night parties, getting up late, sitting for long hours, all this result in infertility, low hindu population levels.....................
What about girls who are forced to marry? Plenty of rual girls can't even to finsih school because of this. Many rural husbands are abusive and there are no NGO, courts and police who support them. In rural society women who left hers husband is considered bad, infertile women are blamed, while men are allowed to beat wives and force them into intercourse. Plus population in rural India among nonmuslim communities are very high . High population leads to poverty, and family with many children consider kids as a "one mouth to feed", not a precious person.
Feminist or communist se bachkar rahna😂😂😂