I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years because she wanted to remain a virgin. Now she wants to...
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- Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
- I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years because she wanted to remain a virgin. Now she wants to...
0:00 Story 1
20:30 Story 2
author: u/THROWRA1010102 and u/ParticularLibrary618
#reddit #redditupdate #redditrelationship
So basically the OP from the 1st story was a rebound in the end,damn thats gotta hurt
First dude's chick opened up her legs for a really rich guy. Red flag, throw her away.
She kept talking about how all the rich and successful people around her when the guy was in College. She's a bright red flag.
The bigger red flag is how she swung by her ex just to get even in a argument. She definitely wouldve cheated later on in a marriage.
@@demonvictim Yup
Ok so let me get this straight: Op breaks up with this girl because it was basically a one-sided relationship. She then disturbs his peace, lies to him, she did string him along, and now wants closure without his consent?
Screw the "good-natured" part, she screwed the first guy that showed her attention and that she thought was attractive, throwing her abstinence away, and because she is now miserable, she goes and disturbs op because hes trying to live.
If a girl is willing to do all that, she's not worth the troubles at all. Op is nicer than I ever hope to be, i would have told her off and let life sort her out.
She told him she was waiting until marriage but gave it up to another guy without marriage🤔. It wasn't about waiting. It was about the guy. OP was not him. Not rich or exciting enough. Sorry OP. Should have moved on sooner.
They had a conversation about why she did what she did, and it made sense albeit kind of messed up. But having money and status did not hurt once bit
Ellie is a walking red flag. Even though he shouldn't have entertained her nonsense, OP dodged a bullet.
Its not nonsense, unless your talking about her coming back. Its not the end of the world she wanted to save her self at first but did it wrong.
First guy dodged a major bullet.
It seems like Ellie showed her true nature. She wanted to string this guy along and play little games. Then she went back to this rich guy lost her v card and now she's with him. And it seems like to me she just wanted to rub it in his face.....
I'd run away block her and go on with your life boy
Horrid human being she deserves nothing she loses good day mam
He broke up with him lol, not her fault, she felt pressured
@@OldDannyDevito or she simply changed her mind about the whole not having sx thing?
whats your deal, are women in your opinion that weak minded that it has to be 'she was pressured'?
and regardless to if she actually was/felt pressured (pressing x for doubt), she still f'd up by how she treated op as a back up, tried to manipulate him into getting back together again by using the fact she's open to sx now, and then dumped him (regardless of him deciding not to do so, she didn't know his answer at the time she was dumping him again) soon as the new guy came around again.
her wanting to stay a virgin and then changing her mind isn't an issue. her behavior towards op at the end is.
Oh look, they finally added the original posters info, so we can get a follow up. Guess this one might be legit vs the other hundred that are sus bot stories or fiction.
I wish I can meet him from the first story
13:30 - Yeah I bet she initiated with the rich guy. Funny how that worked out
Story one, I am positive she only had relations with the second guy because she felt like she had to or he would dump her the way OP did. Seems like Ellie is influenced by men in her life. she needs to think for herself and hold herself to higher standards. These guys seem to be in the shallow end of the dating pool. I hope in the future she can pick herself up and fix her self-esteem. She can do better than she has been. OP can now go screw whomever he wants and himself.
Ngl I'm getting too old to keep entertaining reddit stories but this one actually kept my attention so I'll give my opinion.
First off the fact that she dropped her pants quickly for the rich guy and initiated without any pressure is definitely a red flag and I feel like its more nefarious then her just feeling pressure from the breakup and she likely felt pressure to keep this rich guy around for a luxurious life.
Compare that with her not stringing around like the guy in this story claims but making it clear off the bat that she wanted to wait until marriage for the OP I really think she saw OP as a permeant option that would stick around due to him agreeing to her wanting to wait until marriage but knows that the rich guy she got with can fuck anyone he wants in the next 24 hours.
Lastly it's a huge red flag that she was calling OP about getting back together just because she had an argument with the rich guy, back to doing airstrikes in Conflict of nations now./
I'm glad story one OP learned his lesson and
Story two: can maybe
understand forgiving some
sexual infidelity during a long distance relationship, especially when young, but the real problem is the blatant
disrespect. Introducing me to the men she's cuckolding me for is tacky and disrespectful
can anyone tell me which text to speech tool
does this channel use
So Ellie was heavily influenced growing up by an older male role model in a position of power. Then once she realized his views weren't what she really valued, she was seduced by an older male, possibly a role model, in a position of power. All I see is a young, naive woman being taken advantage of by a man who knows how to take advantage of naive, young women. I was in her position 10 years ago. Older men really know how to get young women.
It's bad, but also treating OP the way she did was... not great. You can be both victim and abuser, so while she might not be as bad, she still acted badly which was unfair
So what? He was supposed to take her back in? News flash: Actions do have consequences.
@@thirteenthdemon1204 That's not what I said in the slightest. I said that young women are easily taken advantage of and therefore shouldn't be villainized for not knowing any better.
Sounds like a modern woman.
Story 1 damn bro ur ex is horrible, and to all guys out there the Virgin topic is bull shit bc they mostly always break the vow on the next Chad type guy/rebound
I saw the content of this story on another channel
This has to be AI. It always uses the word ‘concise’ OR the phrase ‘you see…’.
It is AI
Anyone know what the song is?
fallen down slowed from undertale
They broke up because he wanted sex and she didn't, it clear that she felt awful and tought that having sex was a problem for guys and felt pressured....
Lame and that shows a lack of maturity
'...was a problem for guys.' well, because for some guys (or people in general) it is?
and if she felt pressured by anything (if at all) it was by that new dude, who, according to her own words, was really persistent. in other words, if op would have been 'persistent', instead of respecting her and her decision, like any decent human being would, she most likely would have slept with him as well. the next dude simply didn't respect her as much, pushed for it and when it was done, she realized she's actually ok with doing it and whatever. then she and the new guy had drama, she IMMEDIATELY runs to op as a back up, thinking now that she's okay with having sx, she can use that to manipulate op into taking her back and as soon as the new guy came around again, she jumped ship again.
it's pretty hard to have even just a bit sympathy for her, not gonna lie.
So he should have compromised on what he wants from a relationship because she isn't willed enough to stand by her values not his problem
this. it's very clear she didn't want to do it with the other guy... men really don't understand how to show love without sex
@@hakatatata when exactly was it clear that she didn't wanna do it with the other guy?
when she stated that SHE initiated sx with the other guy HERSELF?
if she wouldn't have wanted to, she wouldn't have done it. she could have said no, she obviously didn't.
'men really don't understand how to show love without sex'
like, what does that have to do with anything? for some people, men AS WELL AS women, sx simply is important in a relationship, for some more, for others less. nothing to do with not knowing how to show love without sx. classy generalization, btw.
going with that, i guess we can also say that women use sx as tool for manipulation (just as the ex tried to do with op).
Bruh.
You probably aren't enough to make her trust you
So, with the first story, they’re both low-key wrong. Clearly all he wanted was sex. To say he stayed because he was in love with her is bullshit because if you were in love with her, you would’ve waited until she was ready. Clearly he wanted sex and in the beginning I guess it was easy because there was really no pressure from either side but once you realized you were ready for sex, and she still wasn’t. you should’ve walked away. So to say she’s stringing him along is low-key bullshit because at that point she knows you, but she just did not find you worthy enough for her virginity. Which of course is going to hurt anybody because basically three months later she fucked somebody else. Three months later she gave her virginity to some other guy. And she initiated it. That’s gonna hurt anybody’s ego. Is she wrong for that? hell yeah.
I’m not defending that at all. But he low-key thought he was just ready to fuck her and just you know get the sex over with.
But for her to say oh you hurt me so much and holding onto this vow of virginity for my dad is what ruined my relationship. why didn’t she just call him and try to talk it out. Fuck that respect of boundaries Shit. You gave it up to the next guy immediately. So yeah, I called bullshit on that. Both of them look better just walking away and just letting things go. Neither one of them were right for each other. Three years she still didn’t feel you were not worthy enough for her virginity, but she gave it up to the next guy and you just wanted sex anyway. Just let it go.
Second
I remember this story. She and op suck. They aren't good for each other
Breaking up with the person you love because she wishes to keep her commitment of celibacy is a shtty thing to do
His ex is a harlet and it's bizarre people blame op that she probably thinks “she's forced to have sx” in order for relationships to work.
And the fact she did it with a man who is not only several years older, but she only knew for a handful of time, fcking gross. She handed her virginity to someone else, which is obviously gonna make op feel like some type of way.
Breaking up with someone because you fundementally want different things makes WAY more sense than being a slut for the first guy you run into after said break up and then crawling back to the ex afterwards like nothing happened.
@@Harvest133being horny isn't “fundamentally different things”
@@_juju_jojo_ celibacy is fundamentally different than non-celibacy, regardless of the reason. He didn't want to be celibate, she did. Should've ended things right there.
However, I suspect she wasn't actually celibate and just didn't find OP attractive. He was just a nice safe option.
It's more then ok to break up with someone if they don't want to have sex
@@Harvest133it's not even like he was left to jerking on his own, he said himself they did things, just outside of typical sex. They probably were incompatibile anyway, but it wasn't like he couldn't get off