I called off the wedding after my Fiancée of 8 Years cheated on me at Her Bachelorette

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
  • I called off the wedding after my Fiancée of 8 Years cheated on me at Her Bachelorette
    author: u/throwaway_999666222
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  • @juanhaines7295
    @juanhaines7295 7 місяців тому +103

    I heard this one before. The audacity of some people calling op a misogynist or he should "work it out with her". The misandry needs to stop.

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Місяць тому

      Its so fecking annoying that people have to add on the disclaimer all the time, even when his fiancee sucked some other guys member he has to be like "Not all women though, I'm not a misogynist"

    • @darthbiscuit
      @darthbiscuit 10 днів тому

      Reddit is a cesspool of weak degenerates

  • @FroggyGirlDreams
    @FroggyGirlDreams 7 місяців тому +95

    Im sorry about your 28 Fahrenheit

    • @kappadream569
      @kappadream569 7 місяців тому +4

      That's just pure laziness, posting stuff read by bot without even doing an ear check

    • @A-Warthog-cc1wm
      @A-Warthog-cc1wm 7 місяців тому +11

      Can someone get her a blanket? 😅

  • @theauditor3224
    @theauditor3224 7 місяців тому +50

    so a man gets cheated on. and because he doesnt forgive her. he hates women and isnt a real man. God damn thats just..thats just incredible

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 7 місяців тому +5

      what do you expect form people these days they always think the man is in the wrong it a sad world

  • @eric98292
    @eric98292 7 місяців тому +3

    Honestly, this is one of the most mature cheating breakup stories I've heard in a while. He handled it better than most.

  • @TopAndBottomText
    @TopAndBottomText 7 місяців тому +14

    I am almost finished at the story, and by far, this is the saddest for me.

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Місяць тому

      Its one of the saddest in the sense that there was no real lying from her and you could tell she was remorseful and she basically ruined both their lives for no good reason. I don't think she is a bad person, but man she has created a bad situation out of nothing.
      I do have to wonder if she is lying about the cheating though, I can't imagine her being this close to being married and suddenly putting another mans cock in her mouth as a hehe moment.

  • @analyticgeometry9014
    @analyticgeometry9014 7 місяців тому +13

    I'm at 13:16 and it seems like there was a lot that was missed?

  • @IdrisLehu
    @IdrisLehu 7 місяців тому +90

    you literally started your relationship by being friends with benefits with your ex fiance but "casual sex is not for me" mkay dude

    • @listener709
      @listener709 7 місяців тому

      Also constantly mentions how good at bed they are and how proud of his pecker and how woman think he is so masculine by wearing makeup

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 місяців тому +5

      That’s not what he said lol

    • @InvasionAnimation
      @InvasionAnimation 7 місяців тому

      ikr

    • @DustyHoney
      @DustyHoney 7 місяців тому +4

      @@abcdefzhij That’s what “fwb” stands for, you’ve been lied to.

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 місяців тому

      @@DustyHoney No, the guy didn't say "casual sex isn't for me".

  • @Ulfrick_viKingPin
    @Ulfrick_viKingPin 7 місяців тому +8

    I've been drunk around random guys and they've tried touching me or encouraging this sort of behaviour and even in my drunken state, it made me feel sick and I started avoiding them when they started thinking they can get in my pants. If you love your partner, this sorta shit, these sorta thoughts do not plague you.

    • @carlanash1129
      @carlanash1129 5 місяців тому +3

      Same, i was drunk( and I think someone put something in my drink) and I still said no and got out of there

  • @NoblesseOblige-17
    @NoblesseOblige-17 7 місяців тому +24

    Fuck, this is just depressing. Feel bad for both of them (him more so, of course).

  • @Trentreid19
    @Trentreid19 7 місяців тому +4

    Last I remember about this is that he started to date and a while later he met up with her later down the road. Guess she got worse in looks and they started to go as friends to dating, (I think). But yeah, it an old story I heard on FB.

  • @desrayann
    @desrayann 4 місяці тому +3

    I must be a dinosaur but the fact that no one saw a problem with what his fiance did! Not even her meaning this is normal for them! The fact that the OP was so relax and so understanding shows that he as a doormat mentality! The fiancé and friends are all disgusting 🤢 🤮 and the fact that this OP took her back in the end is completely sick! To each their own but it’s just crazy how people don’t respect their bodies and a committed relationship mean no much these days! Because even if she was drunk she wasn’t single and shouldn’t entertain this kind of behavior!

    • @Douglas-nt7jd
      @Douglas-nt7jd 4 місяці тому

      He didn't take her back? He told her to stop contacting him.

  • @KilroyWasHere83
    @KilroyWasHere83 7 місяців тому +7

    This is incomplete. There was more to this story. They started being friends again and were very slowly working towards trying again.

  • @fonandoozmando5961
    @fonandoozmando5961 7 місяців тому +6

    She sounds really sweet, shame that no one is really immune from peer pressure, worst when it comes from the wrong people

  • @seilvox
    @seilvox 5 місяців тому +4

    I can't believe how many times I've seen stories of women finding another woman who's either getting married or is married and peer pressuring her to a strip club. Like, holy shit?
    Not only are you pressuring someone to cheat, but you're literally doing the thing that men do to women. Pressuring them into sexual situations??? Hello???

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Місяць тому

      These women tend to be single or in rocky relationships, I've never heard of a woman in a good relationship who acts like this unless its for revenge or something. Some women will ruin another womans life simply out of spite for what she has and that's it, no real reason, no revenge story, its not like they're enemies... hell sometimes they are friends.
      Men have our fair share of A-holes but women go rouge for some reason.

  • @TheVercci
    @TheVercci 7 місяців тому +3

    That's the wrong username in the description, you added an extra 2 by mistake.

  • @NeoCreo1
    @NeoCreo1 3 місяці тому

    This is a very small section of a VERY LONG STORY. With twists and turns aplenty. I highly recommend looking for the complete one.

  • @hujefabagwan6823
    @hujefabagwan6823 7 місяців тому +1

    Which website you used for captioning videos?

  • @Mathemaniac187
    @Mathemaniac187 2 місяці тому +3

    I completely respect this guys decisions, but I wish it didn’t have to end this way. I know it does, but it’s always sad to hear of lifelong friends, especially ones who became lovers, parting ways because of one mistake, despite it being like the biggest possible mistake. I wish it didn’t have to be, and I wish she didn’t make it have to be. Screw the toxic friend who pushed like hell for it all.

  • @muddyness
    @muddyness 3 місяці тому

    Engaged for EIGHT years? That wedding was mever going to happen

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 7 місяців тому +1

    people blaming the guy if the genders swapped everyone would praise op

  • @anzu755
    @anzu755 5 місяців тому

    Tbh Bachelor's partys should be stopped.

  • @Joeball_7
    @Joeball_7 7 місяців тому +3

    first ha
    these kids got nothing on me

    • @Syralaa
      @Syralaa 7 місяців тому +1

      If they cant say first, theyll say second, so it wont stop the idiots from being idiots😂

    • @ryanrussum9924
      @ryanrussum9924 7 місяців тому

      ​@toriel truel._.

    • @ramonmeza566
      @ramonmeza566 7 місяців тому

      True​@@Syralaa

  • @edgarallanalejandro641
    @edgarallanalejandro641 10 днів тому

    That so toxic thinking i like working with my hands i even did construction with my uncles in his business in high school and i did military reserve training in college as well but i still like to do traditional femini this like gardening and sowing as well, so your still a man even if you dont do traditional male things i mean f my dad was in the navy for 19 years and he like gardening and cooking.

  • @amandam8609
    @amandam8609 2 місяці тому

    I want to be 28 Fahrenheit

  • @tathagatabhattacharya5911
    @tathagatabhattacharya5911 3 місяці тому

    Am a wierd, but when I read this on reddit, I felt these two, would have been perfect couple, except for the asshat friend...

  • @TheDCAUgothic
    @TheDCAUgothic 7 місяців тому +1

    You probably should have censored 14:14 since it's a slur. 👀

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 5 місяців тому

      Not a slur dumbass

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 4 місяці тому

      How

    • @att6484
      @att6484 4 місяці тому

      @@wooda7 wdym how its literally a homophobic slur. However I disagree with it being censored, it's part of the story and I think it should be said as posted, as a queer person myself.

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 4 місяці тому

      @@att6484 I have never once heard of it being a slur

  • @Lofirainv2
    @Lofirainv2 7 місяців тому +2

    turbo fake

  • @ianimations1656
    @ianimations1656 7 місяців тому +13

    This is why i don’t date. They tell you just to watch out for red flags, but everyone fucks up. I don’t want to be hurt again.

    • @IdrisLehu
      @IdrisLehu 7 місяців тому +2

      ok incel

    • @cavey001
      @cavey001 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@IdrisLehuThat's an insensitive, bullshit response.

    • @LadyZubat
      @LadyZubat 7 місяців тому

      ​@@IdrisLehu there's a difference between being an incel and being single by choice you dipshit!

    • @InvasionAnimation
      @InvasionAnimation 7 місяців тому +3

      @@IdrisLehu Attention Gardening tool.

    • @ianimations1656
      @ianimations1656 7 місяців тому

      @@cavey001 Thanks, that guys reply low-key ruined my day but seeing you stick up for me made me feel a lot better

  • @GuyShōtō
    @GuyShōtō 7 місяців тому +4

    I was wondering what the Fiance's friend mean't by Op not being a real man, but when I heard his appeal to the comment section to be nice, it instantly clicked for me. LMAO

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 місяців тому

      HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHA YOOOO OWNED HAHAHAHHAAHHAH WOONGNGSD

    • @GuyShōtō
      @GuyShōtō 7 місяців тому +1

      @@abcdefzhij U good?

  • @ScarlettNightNyx
    @ScarlettNightNyx 7 місяців тому

    Well nothing i can say about this, relationships and family are a joke to me, as to me everyone will eventually cheat and betray you so i trust no one.

  • @glenmassey3746
    @glenmassey3746 3 місяці тому

    NAH alcohol makes you lose inhibitions and maybe if she came clean, not a play on words, it might have been ok. But she went on and didn't say a thing. She was to immature to marry and would've ended worse if you had married.

  • @Brodyb510
    @Brodyb510 7 місяців тому +2

    2nd

  • @gusarmstrong563
    @gusarmstrong563 3 місяці тому

    Yeah, OK. Nothing says, "real man" like fingernail polish. Get real.

  • @swordive
    @swordive 7 місяців тому +1

    Second

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 7 місяців тому +2

    Cheating is healthy