This is great to know because I was fully on board with divorcing him since it seemed the whole time he failed to stand up for his wife and demand his mother show her some respect.
I hate when people throw around the word “grand parent rights” like what Op says, it only counts if under a custody battle, and that only happens if both both Op and her husband can’t parent their child.
@@yeyosilver7067 Trust me I do. If you choose your mother who is actively disrespectful to your wife over your wife you're a mama's boy. You never let your family disrespectful your spouse if the disrespectful is not warranted.
@@kossettereaditte7552 I said this because the issue in the video is not about a "mama's boy" and the very definition you wrote is not what is told in the video It doesn't surprise me that you got everything wrong, you don't understand the basics of interpretation lol
I feel so bad for the OP because the things she doesn't get is she just doesn't have an in-law problem she has a husband problem because the fact that this man has no problems with having his exes still flirt with him in front of OP pretty much says that her opinion of them being married doesn't count to him and he loves the amusing entertainment that he still thinks that his exes find him attractive even though they're probably just doing this to show the OP look I still have the power to make him feel something for me and then on top of that this man doesn't even defend the OP against his own parents pretty much says that he checked out of the marriage a long time ago and only saw her as a foot holder and an incubator to give his mother a grandchild that way she could be happy and move away from him and give more the attention sadly to his own child which also shows that he doesn't care about the OP what so ever so I hope that some of the top comments opened up the OP's eyes to understand that her husband is more at fault for everything that's going wrong in her marriage then her in-laws
whats with this BS that just cause you are married to someone they should automatically believe you and take your side like one of those "metoo" "women"..
MIL sounds like a piece of crap. But I feel like OP is trying to make her self sound like she’s perfect but I feel like there’s a lot the OP isn’t talking about and is probably to blame for some of this
So I’m not the only one who thinks this. Don’t get me wrong mil sucks and so does OP’s husband but there is something about op I don’t like. For example the whole Grammy/Gram thing was unnecessary because grandmother terms are so universal. Also OP says that at her MIL didn’t want her to have her son but now she’s all over him, uhmmm ma’am you said that your mil was unhappy at first because you guys were still young establishing your careers. I mean it’s not MIL’s business to dictate when op should have a baby but OP is definitely embellishing the story. I think she’s trying to make MIL sound worse than she is in reality. Like I said if this is true, I would hate to have a mother in law like MIL and wouldn’t want my kid around her either, but something tells me OP is a red flag too.
You have to give your husband goals that are not only recognizable but also approachable. Simply saying "she needs to respect me or else" is hard to accommodate. Bullet point 10+ things you would like to see. See what your husband can get done. To be honest "she can't be gram because that's what I wanted my mom to be called" is an insane level of mind reading no one is expected to do
How hard is it to tell the delivery person you don't accept the package. How hard is it to walk into another room with your child when the MIL calls. OP is making her own life difficult. I don't feel sorry for a wife who ignored the red flags before she got married.
@@umm3766 She didn't just ignore her, this whole story is littered with instances of nasty comments and passive-aggressive behavior. As an example, telling your child and their wife that you were "dreading" the news that they are pregnant and that they "won't make it as parents" is wildly uncalled for and hugely disrespectful.
In comments OP said that she and her husband decided to cut off mil completely, so this is a happy ending story
Great ! That was the best thing to do I think.
This is great to know because I was fully on board with divorcing him since it seemed the whole time he failed to stand up for his wife and demand his mother show her some respect.
I hate when people throw around the word “grand parent rights” like what Op says, it only counts if under a custody battle, and that only happens if both both Op and her husband can’t parent their child.
Scary she’s a NICU nurse. 😬
😂😂 "The better mommy that ever mommied in mommy town"
Long MIL stories are always the best
Oh honey, you dont have a MIL problem, you have a husband problem. I like that "older person" bit in the end, spot on
Imagine she breaks up and he crys for mommy lol
Stand your ground Good for op ,
Honesty why do people marry mama's boys
You definitely don't know what a mama's boy really is
@@yeyosilver7067 Trust me I do. If you choose your mother who is actively disrespectful to your wife over your wife you're a mama's boy. You never let your family disrespectful your spouse if the disrespectful is not warranted.
@@kossettereaditte7552 Bro that's not the point here lol
@@yeyosilver7067You said I don't know what a mama's boy is and I explained what it is. If that's not the point,, then explain the point.
@@kossettereaditte7552 I said this because the issue in the video is not about a "mama's boy" and the very definition you wrote is not what is told in the video
It doesn't surprise me that you got everything wrong, you don't understand the basics of interpretation lol
My one thousand forty nine 😂
I feel so bad for the OP because the things she doesn't get is she just doesn't have an in-law problem she has a husband problem because the fact that this man has no problems with having his exes still flirt with him in front of OP pretty much says that her opinion of them being married doesn't count to him and he loves the amusing entertainment that he still thinks that his exes find him attractive even though they're probably just doing this to show the OP look I still have the power to make him feel something for me and then on top of that this man doesn't even defend the OP against his own parents pretty much says that he checked out of the marriage a long time ago and only saw her as a foot holder and an incubator to give his mother a grandchild that way she could be happy and move away from him and give more the attention sadly to his own child which also shows that he doesn't care about the OP what so ever so I hope that some of the top comments opened up the OP's eyes to understand that her husband is more at fault for everything that's going wrong in her marriage then her in-laws
She has a husband AND in law problem
okay its a good story, but I've always been bothered by the TTS saying "opus"
I kinda like it, cause it sounds more like a person's name....
And 1049 for MIL.... I just don't understand why
@@ReddifyRabbithole 1049 is explainable. Roman numerals for 1000 is M, 50 is L, and -1 is putting an I before another letter. So, MIL= 1000+50-1
@@Maninawig but 1049 in Roman numerals is MXLIX, I just looked it up but I see your logic... darn AI lol
I hate when my one thousand forty nine is disrespectful to me!
(MIL in roman numerals is 1049, which is what the AI pronounced it as)
"My 1049" For those confused m means 1000 in roman and IL means 49
thank you
Love that the husband is such a wuss that he won’t defend his wife
Soooo MIL isn't bipolar just an AH
whats with this BS that just cause you are married to someone they should automatically believe you and take your side like one of those "metoo" "women"..
God damn how early am i rn
MIL sounds like a piece of crap. But I feel like OP is trying to make her self sound like she’s perfect but I feel like there’s a lot the OP isn’t talking about and is probably to blame for some of this
So I’m not the only one who thinks this. Don’t get me wrong mil sucks and so does OP’s husband but there is something about op I don’t like. For example the whole Grammy/Gram thing was unnecessary because grandmother terms are so universal. Also OP says that at her MIL didn’t want her to have her son but now she’s all over him, uhmmm ma’am you said that your mil was unhappy at first because you guys were still young establishing your careers. I mean it’s not MIL’s business to dictate when op should have a baby but OP is definitely embellishing the story. I think she’s trying to make MIL sound worse than she is in reality. Like I said if this is true, I would hate to have a mother in law like MIL and wouldn’t want my kid around her either, but something tells me OP is a red flag too.
LONGER STORIESSSS
What a b.
You have to give your husband goals that are not only recognizable but also approachable.
Simply saying "she needs to respect me or else" is hard to accommodate. Bullet point 10+ things you would like to see. See what your husband can get done.
To be honest "she can't be gram because that's what I wanted my mom to be called" is an insane level of mind reading no one is expected to do
How hard is it to tell the delivery person you don't accept the package. How hard is it to walk into another room with your child when the MIL calls. OP is making her own life difficult. I don't feel sorry for a wife who ignored the red flags before she got married.
8:13 you being petty here
Thank you! I thought the same thing. This was so unnecessary as a lot of grandkids call their grandmother that.
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too bad its got 3 (at the time i commented this)
want to make your videos lazier? Make an AI play that parkour map, bc you're terrible at it!
mil did nothing wrong tho? imagine being soo triggered over not being liked and ignored
you're disgusting if u think that , she treated the mom like an incubator a fkn object and was terrible to her
I agree@@adjahouda3073
Not being liked is fine, but show basic respect.
@FroggyGirlDreams she didn't show any disrespect all she did was ignore her? What's the big deal
@@umm3766 She didn't just ignore her, this whole story is littered with instances of nasty comments and passive-aggressive behavior. As an example, telling your child and their wife that you were "dreading" the news that they are pregnant and that they "won't make it as parents" is wildly uncalled for and hugely disrespectful.
That last person's advice is so solid. 🫶🏽