LIFE UPDATE 2021 | I LEFT MY HUSBAND | WHY I LEFT MY HUSBAND| WE BROKE UP | IM SINGLE | CRISSY MARIE
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I’m so proud of you! I watched my mom be unhappy for 26 years and my mom and dad are finally getting a divorce. Thank you so much for not settling.
Why is it titled "Why I Left my husband" if you were never married? Click bait?
Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Love this
I'll advise you when you start new, include God in your plans, and make sure He is a part of all your decision-making. Sending lots of love!!! 🥰🥰🤗🤗
@Anonymous Laydee and why should she have used birth control been a married woman think about how dumb you sound sometimes its good to mind the business that pays you.
@Anonymous Laydee married people use birth control if they want to but you can't control how many children a married couple have that has nothing to do with you
Amen. 🌻🌻🌻.
God is the source of everything 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
I just wanted to say : THANK YOU FOR THE REALNESS. I have nothing against the “perfect families “ that are portrayed on UA-cam and I wish everyone one the best but sometimes I’m left wondering “ where are the single moms , the parents who both work, the ones that don’t have 5 bedroom
Houses?” . I literally thought everyone on here was a SAHM and there’s nothing wrong with that but sometimes I wanna see someone I can relate too. I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 so the growing pains are real. And sometimes they grow together and sometimes they grow apart . Good on you for recognizing that ! Happy journey !
I’m 28 and I got married to my husband at 21, we have a 4, 2 and a 1 year old. I left my husband on April 25th, honestly I couldn’t continue to be unhappy and be treated the way he was treating me. I had to accept that I wasn’t setting a good example for my two boys and my daughter. I agree with a comment I read that as women we need to a stop settling. I’ll keep you and others that are in a similar situation in my prayers. When one door closes another one opens.
ETA: just like you I love the father of my children as the father of my children but I’m also just not in love with him “like that” anymore
@grace emma Smh 🤦🏽♀️
You can marry older and still divorce
@@kellyk.8000 isn’t it strange how people think making comments like that are helpful?
i could see it in the videos. it sucks when love doesn’t work. Going through the same thing. He’s always working and always tired. i’m always with the kids.
He is from a village in africa
Am from the states in United States
WOW …….. what a statement to say .
I never knew this. I know no one is perfect but your family seemed so perfect. I’m glad your telling your story.
I just saw her nursery video then this was next !!!! She looked great. It's sad.
I pray you both can reconcile and seek he first the Kingdom of God and all his righteousness and other good things shall be added unto you. Psalms 27. Children need to be brought up in the admonition of the Lord. God Love you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and he shall direct your path. Satan is working overtime to destroy families but God is sufficient to fix everything that is broken. God is the burden bearer, cast it upon him trust me you will be amaze what God can do.. Not only being bitter with the x-partner can hurt the children but sin on a whole can hurt the children and Satan knows that. Satan is seeking who he may devour I encourage you to seek God's face for supernatural healing. Ephesians 6.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
I’m so proud of you ❤️I don’t know if anyone has told you lately but I watch all of your videos! I absolutely adore you and your family. Keep your head up mama your doing great
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Rivera's Plus 3...well said!! U took the words right out of my 👄!! 😍Much respect and love!!💞May God🙏💕🙏 continues to bless this family new journey!!
I wish more women were strong as u. I see so many scared to leave. They rather stay, and be unhappy. U go Mama do what makes u happy 💃🏽💕
This right here is so so true
Most women are scared and rather be stuck in a “dead” relationship to say I have a husband, I live with my children’s father, I got a man and know how to keep a man, the list goes on...they can know its infidelity, abuse, addictions and yet still stay. I honestly respect a divorced woman more then a married woman because divorce women have more courage and self confidence to leave and not trying to stay miserable to keep up with an image. Granted not all marriages are unhappy
My fiance and I split for 5 years when our daughters were small. We took that time to mature and grow alone. I completely understand your choice to end the relationship and grow your own direction 💜
I've been separated for a whole year and I've made up in my mind it doesn't take anyone that long to figure out if they want to work on there marriage and still be a parent to our children. So today we are moving miles away to start a new for all of us. Being a single parent is hard but we do it. I do everything for them. That's it that's all. Keep strong everything will fall in line for you🤗
I'm frustrated u know I get it hope God fix it all
Divorce is tough and no joke, so many emotions but when you eventually come out the other side you will see your growth in every manner..Your kids are the best thing to hug and tell them how special they are to Mum and Dad right now. ❤
My ex and I haven't been together for 3 years. It has taken me this long to realize that I literally am ok by myself. A relationship does not define me. We work together as best we can to make sure our children feel loved and protected and supported. The more time passes, the easier life becomes. The traditional family that we used to know is not the norm anymore. And while we want perfection, we also don't want to harm our children in the process. I'm proud of you, Crissy. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you mama!
Kudo sista, for putting the kids first
It seems that dysfunction is the norm. But not getting counseling to try to work things out and improve relationships is also normal too. People give up quickly these days. Not singling you out, but ppl these days will jump in fast and jump right out just as quickly.
@@bbyoung8429 You do realize that everyone doesn’t pray to god right
Yes we as women settle for a lot we sacrifice for a lot we do it all we have to start loving ourself more and putting ourself 1st we try and try and try again to make it work .but is always the same results and I'm proud of you God got this he has something good in store for you and your babies...life is about the journey..and this chapter is just apart of it..
Amen
Yes!! indeed #1 law of nature is self preservation & it is key✨
"He's from a village in Africa" pls ma'am😑🤚
There are villages in remote areas in Africa...whats the problem?
I am from Africa. And it really doesn't mean the whole of Africa is a village.
@Anonymous Laydee not all African men depends on the country (region, religion, upbringing) the very traditional African men yes can be like that
Yep that sounded so wrong probably she didn’t mean it that way
Hey hun! You do deserve better. Dont worry about the negative comments or questions. Stay focused on you and the babies. Stay strong and blessed! Everything is going to be alright. 😍😁
All those things make you who you are, totally appreciate it all and the fact that you are wanting to share. This is your testimony, thanks for sharing wishing you all the best going forward
thank you!!!
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Crissy and Dee for better or worse means nothing when love fades? I sensed from Laila's bday the lack of chemistry between you two. I'm really sorry that this was a mutual separation. I wish you guys would have fought harder for your marriage. Im a 43 year old woman and I'll say this to you Crissy bcuz I know we all want to be loved and feel loved but your high school sweet heart will always keep one thing in the back of his mind about you and that is this "if she left her husband who she made a life long commitment with because he was always gone (working)and she fell out of love with him who's to say she won't do the same to me." Things might appear to be ok for now but every relationship is tested and you must realize how a man thinks. He'll be there all the way supporting you, loving on you and giving you that glow that I'm now seeing in you spirit, but that thought will always be in the back of his mind about you .bcuz men think like that. I wish you well, but as much as you broadcast about loving this new guy for 21 years, bare in mind that 21 years ago you had no child, now you have 5 children, 21 years ago as high school sweet hearts you were not a married woman soon to be divorced, you were a high school girl living at your mom's house. Your life has changed, you are a mother of 5 children , 3 small babies and one son who has had some challenges and is getting the help he needs. I want you to feel loved but don't sell yourself for short-term happiness even if that happiness last for 5 years. I can see that you are already invested with your high school sweet heart and all I've said may just go through one ear and out the next but sis I'm here to support even if my comment differs from the 400 who suported your change.
Thank you Lisa!! 🙌🏽
@@CrissyMarie You're welcome my love.
I admire you always taking care of your kids giving them love and time they deserve. For Gold to be gold has to go through fire and thats you. To get to where you are you have pay sacrifices . So keep going you are doing great never give up. You have your beautiful kids. From England ❤
This story sounds so familiar. I am an American woman who married a Kenyan man. We never had kids, but I did have one daughter when we got married. He was very business minded and hardly had time for me and my daughter because he worked so much. I often felt very alone in our marriage. I accused him of marrying for citizenship often because the love he gave didn’t feel genuine and it felt robotic and transactional. I believe he is a good person and I still have love for him. Lately, I have been wondering if I made the right decision with leaving our marriage. Questioning myself, with maybe it was just cultural, or we spoke different love languages.I somehow stumbled on this video while at work and I must say it was encouraging to hear someone else’s story that was so very similar that ended with such a positive outcome. So glad to see you still smiling and moving on with life. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much! Keep your head up!
It was definitely a cultural thing and to be honest I do feel bad for men from other diverse culturals because they are literally raised to study hard and work hard to be providers for their families. They are often taught that there are certain duties for women and certain duties for men. In America we tend to glorify and dramatize this conceptual idea of a fairy tale romantic marriage with no problems but that's not reality and the very qualities most American men lack are the things people hate or despise in men from different countries. There are other jobs that require people to be away from home for months at a time and it's sad that sometimes being a provider can leave you without a family to even provide for.
a man works he's butts off to be a provider, which takes him from home all the time, but because of your selfish interest of looking for perfection you left him, smh... this marie lady, a man saved her life with her two kids and alcohol addiction bu marrying her and providing for her, and she wakes up one morning that she no longer in love with him and went back to the single streets... you modern ladies are delusional and would deff regret yo wrong decisions at old age lol smh..keep waiting for a perfect man...
@@mrdeecroft3114 Americans are so entitled to everything perfect life Wch will never exist .
@@mercedesiryn2904 so unfortunately, see me waiting for her to say the wrong thing this brother did so i could roast him too but all i could hear is, i'm no longer in love with him..woow, nd see ladies in the comments screaming ''i'm proud of you''... this gat to be some sick joke
I can appreciate this video so much! I am in the same predicament. I have been with my partner 9 1\2 years, 2 little girls and the love is just not there anymore. We too are friendly and not on bad terms but have come to a mutual agreement. I am looking to relocate to another state right now and start a new chapter in my life too. Thank you for sharing your story🙏🏾 I am excited for you on your new journey ❤️
I support you 100%, please do what makes you happy. I am a dedicated subscriber and I watch all your videos. #mommypower
Life is a give and take
African men are raised to know HARDWORK to provide the family is a priority.
Their love will not be lovey dovey , but he will go all hard to work and bring home the bacon .
It’s two choices getting the lovey dovey love and go half n half on bills
Or get a good man with good intentions and not necessarily lovey dovey .
Either way sendg u love ,I hope u find some one that’s good for u
I felt this on such a real level. I'm a single mama too and although it makes me sad for my son that myself and his daddy couldnt stay together as one family, my happiness and his happiness are more important than anything. And you're so right, family is WHAT YOU MAKE IT. My son knows he is VERY loved and that's really all that matters at the end of the day. You're such a strong beautiful woman, Crissy! Cheers (with a non-alcoholic drink 🤣) to a great co-parenting journey and NEW BEGINNINGS! ❤
XO, Mandy
awww youre raising a king and hes got an awesome mommy
How do you get to this point where ur best friends and love each other but not together??? When u say no love between u guys do u mean intimacy?? How did you guys make it work before if your so different??
Great points. I believe she got bitter of the lack of effort on his part to be intimate with her when he was around. It was already hard with him not being around much in the first place.
@@renee2105 what, exactly, are her girls going to suffer? Lots of people get divorced and coparent. They'll be fine.😒 Better for them to have two happy healthy emotionally stable parents vs two miserable people just going through the motions.
@@renee2105 how do you know that they didn't try? Bold of you to assume, but go off, hun.🤷🏾♀️
The next man in your life will be one lucky man, you’re such an amazing woman! ❤️ tfs.
awww thank you!!!
No man should have to deal with kids that young. She either dates their dad or focus on her KIDS not bringing a new stranger around these babies. Single mothers need to stop this ish, endangering the children. She has kids from 2 previous relationships. It's time we evaluate the women since she's the common denominator. Stop focusing on the "next man." That sounds so gross.
So the next man has to deal with her and all of her kids? Does that sound right to u? What would a man get from the relationship with a single mother with two baby daddies, five kids, and a whole lot of baggage? Only a fool would get involved with a woman like this smh
@@kraokingxyz1397 I’m sure there is a man out here who will love her and her kids.
@@neeshalove9922 Yeah they're called simps
Dang I’m so proud of you. You are such a strong women. This hit me so hard in my heart. 💕 I have been watching you for so long now. You are a very realistic mommy and I as a mom look up to you and love how you are so strong 💪. Stay happy and stay positive girly!! Love your little family!!
Crissy Marie, wishing you the absolute best and many prayers to you & your family. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 Keep being “Gorgeous”, greater to come and thank you so much for your transparency.
You we're lucky to have him. He picked you up, from sounds like the gutter. Took care of you and the kids. Tried to teach you to be an adult and stand on your own feet.
You offered very little in return. You took away his family because you weren't happy? That's on you. You need to work on yourself. Be able to offer someone anything. All you did was take.
This woman sounds so immature. I am unsubscribing.
I love your transparency and honesty. I have been watching you for a while now and you always remain the same. You are so humble and so genuine. I am sorry to hear about you and your husband. But the positivity glow you are wearing is beautiful. I pray you continue to shine and win because you deserve it. 🥰🥰
I have tried my best not to say anything to you. But I feel in my heart, I just don’t see how this could be. You have three children by your husband, young children young girl children. It’s a very dangerous thing for you to get involved with someone right now. You sound like you have already started a new relationship. Which in my opinion is dangerous, you have daughters and to bring men around your daughters so soon it does not sound right to me. I know you did not ask me of my opinion, but I just want to give it anyway I’m not trying to be mean, but I feel in my heart to say this to you. Please be careful what you do and how you speak in front of your children. It sounds like you started a relationship with another man already from one of your videos that you have spoken to earlier. Just be careful.
I think she will be fine. This is a strong woman right here.
I thought that people tried their best to work out problems in marrriage (as long as it isn't abusive) but I guess with each year comes new rules. I hate divorce.
@@renee2105 that's true. It's why Jesus should be at the center of your relationship, you can never go wrong😊
Family isn't always blood related. You can make your family however u want. That's the good part
Where were your first 2 older children during all the drinking and homelessness? And where are they now? You only seem to talk about your 3 toddlers. I'm new to your channel.
Exactly my thoughts. Smh.
Her mom has her older boys. She says it near the end of the video.
Assuming that her addiction is now managed as she is raising 3 girls and had a partner so why are the 2 boys not join them as a family?
This is captured and said so perfectly!
Nicely said!
This is definitely a true statement!
Thank u so much for making this public I’ve been with my husband for 8 years and things have been so hard I’m only 29 with two kids and we just split he’s not family oriented and I realized I do everything alone just me and the kids ! Our break up is still fresh but I feel good about my decision! Thanks for sharing your personal life you motivate me that I can do this & it’s great to know I’m not alone being single it’s other moms going through similar situations I’m always watching your videos! Keep them coming you rock! To all the super MOmS!!
Shauntice, sometimes GOD allows us to see a situation for what it is before too much time has been invested. Keep GOD first in everything you do……and HE Will direct your path. Do this in JESUS Name. I wish you and your kids the best that GOD has to offer🙏🏼
@@sandytx7661 seriously!! Y'all need to stop putting God's name in your human ideas. When two people stand before God and make a covenant for better or worse , what do you think that mean?? Unless people are just speaking idle words.. When things get to the "worse " we are suppose to lean on God and ask for His wisdom and guidance, and to have faith and patience there's nothing God cannot fix. He may even cause the partners to learn how to grow in His Godly character of Love, patience and long suffering. But these days everyone selfish... as things don't workout, they try and try on their own strength leaving God out the picture, and when they assumed that they try hard enough and nothing has changed eventually separate. Not giving God the chance to work things out, not allowing God to show them why thins maybe happening the way they are. If a woman is being abused that is something totally different but outside of that partners should allow God to bring about change in their marriage. We can do nothing on our own strength, but we can do much through Jesus Christ. Do not fill up this young lady's head with God allows you to see enough b4 you fully invest nonsense. Those are your thought, not God's. If God use to think that way, we would perish because we all are sinners and he sees us as filthy rags., but God is merciful and wish that none would perish but repent. God believes in marriage and would never want to see partners separate.
Wow it sounds like you used him to get what you needed and now you think you outgrown him and don’t need him anymore. He helped you and provided and the best he gets it’s his wife leaving him. What about your children? A lot of y’all don’t know your role as wives. Ungrateful woman, he met you when you were homeless yet ppl are telling you not to settle. He settled. This is so sad and that why men don’t want to marry blk women now.
She's Mexican and her situation has nothing to do with why these men don't want to get married. Alot of men simply don't want to marry and noone can make them do anything they don't want to do. I'm sorry ma'am, but your comment seems a bit desperate.
I used to loveeee you and D as a couple as well as parents, its kinda making me sad🙁, but you gotta do what you gotta do for the betterment of your soul... i respect your decissions and wishing you a loving freshly start❤️
Before even watching, my thoughts are with you Crissy. Hard decisions are hard, but necessary. 💕 You got this!
That's why I love your channel,because you share your truth and keep it all the way real,so keep sharing your platform to help other's,trust me you'll see the fruits of your labor. Be encouraged sis💚💙🧡🧡❤️❤️
@@CrissyMarie 😘😘😘💪💪💪
Start your life all over?? It’s not about you anymore. It’s about raising your kids and stop with searching for relationships when they don’t workout. Focus on your girls!
I’m sure she wasn’t speaking about finding another relationship. Starting over means finding yourself and just because you have kids does not mean it’s not about you. You have to love and take care of yourself too before loving anyone else including your children.
Crissy you do a Great job GOD BLESS YOU ONE DAY AT A TIME KEEP YOUR HEAD UP LOVE FROM DETROIT
I watched you a few times and I always wondered how you all got on with your husband's long absences. You seemed to be doing quite well and I didn't think for a second that you all weren't "in love" or "making it work." Nonetheless life happens and as long as you put your babies first, I see great things for you.
Unfortunately men come and go so do you sis💓❤💓❤💓❤
What is love? This people self😅, butterflies don't last forever. When that faze fades u need to look at what u guys have built together. No couple are completely compatible. When u "fall out of love" with the next guy what are u going to do? And the next guy? And the next??
I’m sending prayers!!!! Your doing a great job with the kids!
Omg go head girl!! This motivates me so much. I had my son and wanted to be w his dad so much but I ended up leaving cause I wasnt happy and I was making all the changes that he didn't deserve. I walked away too and I have a little family with me and kids. Keep going
Chrissy you have to get counseling because your baby girls little and you're going through a big change right now you're on a emotional roller coaster don't let your little ones do that right now go to counseling so you could be the best mom
I’m so proud of you! You are definitely using your platform! Please understand that you are helping others with your channel! Much support and love to you ! Thanks for sharing 😊
There are also single mom/dads like myself so I totally understand family is what u created that is well said ...
I'm sorry to hear this and my prayers are with you and those precious babies
The honesty and realness only just makes me love you more!!!
Thank You for sharing your story, I am going thru the same situation. I woke up a few months ago and decided this is not where I want to be anymore. I am currently working on a shift in my future. Why stay in a situation that your no longer happy. Life is a precious gift from God that we should embrace everyday. Wishing you all the best and Higher Vibrations keep God first 💜🙏🏾💜
Men please watch this shit and learn about why you don’t take single moms off the street . She was a single broke homeless mom before she met dude and leveled up . She literally said she was homeless and he wasn’t and look what that got him dumped !
Kevin Samuels is calling
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SO TRUE!!!!
I don't get this girl at all. She had NOTHING, D saved her, she pawns her two kids off with her mother and go start a new family. Now you don't love him anymore. How can you not love someone who loved and helped you out of your clusterf#ck situation!!
The next guy will have to deal with your TWO broken family units and the new new life you want to start with him. Just ratched!
@@renee2105 If you pay attention, you'll see Chrissy isn't very responsible. I realized that when she told us in one of her videos that her mother is raising her two teenage boys because she was an alcoholic. Now we don't know what goes on behind the camera, but once D came in her life and helped her....her 1st priority should have been creating a complete family unit that included her boys. I'm a teacher and see this scenario all the time....Mom gets a new man and starts a new family and the other kids are pushed to the side. This is SO detrimental to kids and has an effect on their mental health....(hince her younger son is in a mental health facility).
But she doesn't get it! She announces that she's leaving D, has a new man, and wants to "start over" so she can do what....start another family with new guy???
I hope D finds a beautiful, responsible woman that share his family values and respects his culture. He waisted his time on this chic!
Well, Dee chose her and she's a pretty woman, so he likely chose her for her skin complexion and "exotic" features. She looks very different from an Afrocentric fully black woman, which is most likely how she got picked in the first place. No shade to Chrissy, because I actually like her and think she's an awesome mom, but black men aren't too bright. All you have to have is light/mixed skin and "good hair" and they will wife you and make you a stay at home mom, while the traditional, non ambiguous black woman is told to work like a slave and gets treated like trash. He knew he signed up for Chrissy and now he gets to pay the "preference tax." Chrissy deserves to be happy, so leave her alone and let her live her life.
I can't stand when people say your breaking up the family you have one life to live and it sounds like you tried long enough you need to do what's best for you their dad will always be their dad
You may not see this now because your children are small but this really does take a toll on the children later on. And they will tell u later in life it hard to hear. Deciding to divorce is really a lot to handle. I’ve learned through trial & era of life if you could really sit down with counsel & do everything you can b4 u say it’s over I would at least try first. Being out here in this world is something else.
Yes! It definitely takes a toll.
I understand people wanting to be happy and move on. It's just sad to see couples (with children) give up on their marriage so easily.
Family units are so fragmented these days and unfortunately it has become the norm. A few kids with one man....a few more kids with another man....and a brand new man.
This has an effect on the CHILDREN.
It's just sad....smh😔🤦🏾♀️
She left because she did not feel appreciated and he was always tired when he was home after working for months being gone... 😳👀 People really take marriage for a joke these days
@@ModestNation she knows her self worth! How are you judging her, looks like youre the type to sit back and stay while your husband cheats and treats you like a in home nanny
I absolutely love how u responded to what family is. I really do believe God has great things planned for u and your family😘
I ❤ your honesty. I have been a fan of your channel since I've first seen one of your cleaning videos. You rock Mom life. I am so in awe with all that you do. You deserve to be completely happy. Never settle.
Breakups happen but sometimes they give you the ability to see what God has in store for you. Keep your head up and keep moving forward you got this..
Sometimes when you are stuck in a bad place, you need someone to help pull you out. And that was what he did. All marriages aren't forever.
I don’t normally comment but this is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing ✨ cheers to growth and new beginnings. Lots of love from Toronto, Canada 🤍 #newsubie
Dude took you off the streets, helped you get clean, gave you a home and three children. Then you hook up with your "best friend" of 21 years? Sounds fishy and overall selfish.
Really?
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Agree.
Hold up .sound it was a drug and sex thing . She's contradict herself alot
She tells lies y'all.....she was married ...but now she was never married...she has 3 girls ...now she has 2 older boys who live with her mom ....why not jus say I got 5 kids ....she got a new man who she says was her first love way back in the day ...now she's pregnant with his baby....and he doesn't want the kid ....she made a video about him bashing him ...saying she saw all these red flags but obviously ignored them...cuz now ur having his child....tragic ...smh....all of that...good luck girl ...
This is why u have to be equally yoked and use our discernment when dealing with these men I’m not going to bash bc there’s always two sides but focus on self love and healing and be the best mom for your children
YOU SOUND UNSTABLE!
I started watching you because you remind me of myself when my daughters were little (I have 4 & 1 son)….they’re all grown now & I remember their dad was in & out & I tried to make it work. Your a winner Chrissy!!! You will be ok remember God has your back!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Love & Light towards you both. You guys are doing amazing 💞
I saw this a mile away the new man no lol but I could tell she was not happy, and people talking about family and the kids I’m pretty sure it won’t be that big of an adjustment because he was barely there, I know he was working but still
Change is different but sometimes changes are needed. So happy that you have chosen to make yourself happy. Sometimes as women we sacrifice our happiness for the children but not understanding that it actually makes things worse. Good for you for choosing your peace. So excited for your new journey and I’m glad to be apart of the UA-cam family to see you and your girls growth. 💕
Just sending love your way...🖤
You're dope AF and a motivation in so many ways, please never change who you are.
Awwwe
I love the transparency of this channel, I’ve been watching you for a year and I love how you don’t keep up with this “perfect image”. You keep it raw/real which makes a lot of us viewers relate to you❤️ Thank you for your content
Wow.. I am sorry that you are going through this hun. I am going the same have 2 kids an I left there dad of 8 years. So I know how it is!! Your a great mom WE can do this!! 🥰🥰
Wow this is nothing but God that you posted this, I needed to hear this (at this time I my life)! I’ve love your vlogs and have been watching for about 9 months now! I recently moved 8 hrs away from my sons father, to help my mother after the death of my father in April of this year. With so much left in the air since our separation in 2011, I have struggled with guilt, negativity, anger, and bitterness. So much so, that I took it out on others and lived in denial of these feelings for years. With the longevity of my parents marriage (even through rough times), I found myself taking the blame for our failed marriage even though we both played a part. After 13 years of trying to save our marriage I realized I couldn’t...so I left in all in God’s hands. These were the roughest 13 years of my life emotionally and spiritually. Thank the Lord we are now at a place where we are good friends and can co-parent. We are still wading through things legally in our divorce process, due to me feeling shame and guilt for filling. But God has held my hand through it all, and has shown me that my father’s passing was a blessing in disguise. I have now pushed myself to wrap up my filing process and close this chapter in my life. I am now looking forward to growing closer with my family and falling back in love with God. I am also looking forward to the blessings, new opportunities/adventures, and like you a second chance at a joyful and healthy relationship (with someone special🤞). God bless as you and your family as you all enter this new journey 🦋! I can’t wait to see you soar Chica!!! 🥰
Can I just say you're an amazing human being, and a huge inspiration ❤
Sooo refreshing to hear y’all are good just not IN love. Hopefully that makes sense. I hope you both find the love in a spouse that you both deserve. Even in this video I can see the relief in your face. You are really glowing! Your video yesterday motivated me to do some self care. You’re glowing so much that it made me want to feel good too! I ordered the black dress in pink. I painted my toenails and took a nice long pamper shower (skincare routine.. etc.) last night. 😊
Girl u are very uplifting, giving me the strength to finally look deep into what I need for myself & my kiddos 💖
Hey Crissy💁.. You doing an excellent job raising your beautiful girls. Stay strong luv! 💛🙏
You're*** Thanks again for sharing your story Crissy🌹
You viewed your relationship in a childish way... A man married you with two previous children and you leave him...when you spend the time to discovery yourself... You will kick yourself. You need to go to counselling to understand what you are searching for.
Wow, sounds like you guys basically connected to saved each other’s lives and to become a portal that brought 3 beautiful souls into the world. And I love the fact that you both recognize that it is what it is and your season as a couple is complete. Beautiful! I love “no love lost” stories. Love and Light you and your family always💕
Wow, that’s beUtiful sis
No lol she connected with him to get a place to say that dude didn’t need her ass . He literally saved her from being homeless . Tell the story like it is
@@kingredpill5669 I wasn’t there so the only story I have is the one she told and my response is what I got from it. We’re all entitled to our own interpretation. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
@@Lakeia-2010 she literally said she was homeless and he took her and her kids off the street . She said it out of her own mouth , how did you miss that
@@user-by2tb2hb3y it’s just funny when they ask why the dating market has gone to shit when they sit around and idolize people like this
You need the Lord! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
i’m looking at mine and ready to kick him out. he gets on my nerves. i would never get married again.
lol you can't make this shit up
You are a speaking rock that 8 out of 10 people need to hear. Could tell you had a deep story. I'm subscribed to you for life. Good Luck Beautiful Super Strong MOM/WOMAN.
Chrissy is talking more to you more often Possible?! If so please let me know how and where.
You’ve got this Crissy!!!!!! You have overcome so much and this too shall pass. I know this road all to well so have your moments to cry, scream, laugh, smile… ALL OF DAT! Your rebuild will be structured in your faith and unbreakable❤️❤️❤️❤️
Did you not know these things before you marry him.
I love that you took accountability for your part. You have shown me how resentment can corrupt the innocence and genuine love within a marriage. I have been harboring bitterness and unforgiveness. I have lashed out and been really mean. Time to reevaluate some things.
Girllllll I felt that few swigs of water within my soul before you had to pass it off to Sophia! The run and hug she did I felt that too 🥺. I’m rooting for you and the girls and your new beginning and I’m rooting for D and his new beginning as well. Your gonna be able to do it even on the hardest of days it gets better. It takes mature adults to do all the things in these situations the best thing is the girls get two happy healthy parents. And yes FAMILY IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT! You guys are still a family. Sending nothing but positive vibes your way lovely I’m a message a call a FaceTime away!!🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
I kinda knew this was the reason you’ve been a little off lately. I’m glad you’re finally at a place to talk about things. Keep your head up, everything will work out fine❤️
Wow this is sad😳 you will make it! Be 💪 strong… this too shall pass and you will be in a better place with kids soon👍🏾👍🏾😍
I love how positive you are about everything. You are a beautiful young lady and a great mom. Thanks for always giving us 100% of the "real you." 🤗❤❤
You are such a strong woman and a awsome mama you defently motivate me thank you
You are so brave, intelligent and loving Chrissy. You have made me a better mom. I do balloon garlands because of you. We will be an extension of your support team!! Yes it's sad to see love end. Your future is so bright. I can't wait to see the next chapter!!
This is very confusing to me, but thanks for letting us know!❤️
HI CRISSY LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE WITH US.
Don't ever settle.for Less or make yourself uncomfortable. But it's just sad when a family can be a family when kids are involved
I love your videos 💖 you have a great family , its good you broke up on good terms with you ex , its better for the children in the long run , you have be happy as well not just the kids so good on you wish you and your family all the happiness in the world ❤
thank you!!
I’m so happy for you! Doing what’s best for you and putting yourself first is one of the greatest gift you can give yourself! You are amazing mother and you give me so much inspiration!!! I’m excited to watch you take on your new journey!!! God bless you and your beautiful family!!!💪🏼🙏💙💙🎀🎀🎀
You was use to him being gone all the time the love vanished.