When The Father Leaves, Feminism Arrives
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
- Recently, feminist TikToker Madi Hart revealed a story about her father who abandoned their family to chase his dream of breakdancing. We've got a lot to talk about with this one.
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She gaslit her dad big time. He did a response. He gave her mother $5 million as part as the divorce and paid all the childrens medical expenses. He lived a few blocks away from the mother and spent time with the kids. If anyone can get in contact with Brett please tell her to play the fathers response.
Here's the news I've been waiting to circulate.
This needs to be talked about all these entitled spoiled rich kids that have everything act like they have a “problem/trauma” just to be more relatable It’s disrespectful and outright distasteful to those that really went through this
@@itsyoboiasu1441 We also need to talk about UA-cam channels like this one that eat it up and go off on a tangent about 'the problem in society' and 'what do you expect from our culture' when the topic they are referencing is a completely fabricated story.
She spent half this video insulting and berating the man because, basically she doesn't like his hobby?
@bellidrael7457 I agree she needs to play the fathers response to be fair. I'm sure 1 of the many people she has searching for stories knows it is out there
This comment needs a thousand more upvotes.
Oof. This did not age well.
You should make an episode about the father's response.
There's a difference between abandoning your family and the mother divorcing you and kicking you out of your children's lives while clearly poisoning their opinions of their father.
Yes, this make the channel looks embarrassing.
Oof indeed. Especially after the father released yet another response,this time with video reciepts of family outings involving her childhood. Madi is/was lying for internet victim points and it exploded in her face.
On top of her going on to say on another tiktok that the original one of "feminism leaving her body" was a joke
Yea reminds of things the liberal media does
Nah. Not poisoning. Not “poisoning.” /
I hope you do a follow up video to this. The father posted a response video, documenting that he was not a dead beat dad, but a divorced husband forced out of his own house, paid her mother $2 million up front +$18k child support/alimony per month, and set up a $600k college fund for that girl.
+1
Amazing how quickly she made a video on this topic eating up all the BS that was said and taking it at face value to fuel her 'what do you expect from our culture' and 'this is just today's society' commentary.
I wonder why she needed to ask for money for medical bills when the total child support added up to like 5 million. Sounds like her mother was spending it on herself.
You know how Brett said that East LA is for rich hipsters who want to act like they're poor? Funny how true that ended up being for her.
I agree, there seems to bee more to the story than just one side...
@@bellidrael7457she most likely filmed this video before the father posted his response. Calm down
You dropped the ball with this story. He is the opposite of a deadbeat. He paid his ex wife and kids 5 million dollars.
Just saw Asmongold cover this story, the dad actually seems like a cool guy 😅
@@welshradz5132 yeah, although he wore a cringe bitcoin shirt.
Yeah lol and the daughter states "I don't want to go into the nitty gritty of the financial situation. "
I don't want to get into the thick of this.
Seems like a little bit of projection.
I would say 90% of people won't even see a million dollars let alone 5 million.
As well as she stated in her followup video that he was an absent dad, but in the same exact video she stated that the dad would take the family out to lunch.
My definition of an absent dad is someone who has no communication with their family and doesn't see their children. Also Brett Cooper doesn't show the dad follow up video in this so this seems like a one-sided story.
Word! He got a house just down the street, paid all the divorce fees, paid the child support, visited as much as he can, setup a college fund(which all four kids went to college and have amazing careers). Divorce is common but this dude continued to be a dad at least.
Yeah, Cooper should have included this. However, the point was not how much money the father paid, but the fact that he just up and left. In a disgusting act of selfishness, he broke his vows, and left his wife with their FOUR CHILDREN. And what for? To breakdance. He can pay as much as he likes, but no amount of money is going to fix the trauma of knowing that your own father thinks that his hobby-turned-career is more interesting than you ever were. "The breakdancing dad" lost the right to the title of Dad the moment he left.
It's one thing when a father leaves, it's a whole different thing when the father isn't allowed to parent.
Yup. Conservatives have been terrible at addressing this issue. They’ll happily talk about weak men and weak fathers but they barely do anything to address the feminist laws that financially incentivize mothers to divorce their husbands and allow mothers to force fathers out of parenthood. Women initiate 70-80% of divorces and in at least half of those cases, they will not share equal custody of the kids with the father. What is it going to take for conservatives to actually fight for better marriage laws? Instead, they always just go, “yeah marriage laws kinda suck, but men should just get married anyway.”
different conversation
Whataboutism🙄
@@windowsVDyeah, right, “incentivize a woman to divorce the father of her children and cut him out”. What a load of bull crap. No amount of incentivizing is gonna make women do this if her man is good to her and her kids. Women are always better off with their men. And ever heard of a little thing called love? Don’t be a shitty dead beat husband and father and chances are you’re wife will continue to love you.
@@abbiereynolds8016Yeah, it is whataboutism she sat their and choked down this dumb little feminists view of things with no pushback at all.
Her father made a response video, you might want to look at it. Turns out everything she said was a lie.
Link?
@@fetusmaledory497 - ua-cam.com/video/Zr6AaLNAT4E/v-deo.html
ua-cam.com/video/5Id3BmSvAgU/v-deo.htmlsi=8efeBX3JkapWlmI4
@@fetusmaledory497ua-cam.com/video/22yPs4RuyZQ/v-deo.htmlsi=xQ0TgwIHBsg_YqHi
@@fetusmaledory497 it's called "My Daughter's Viral Video Attack on Me!" (I'm posting a second comment because youtube typically censors links)
The sad part is you just believed this 100% without question. Surprise surprise she lied…
Of course, a rich girl on Tik Tok said it happened, so it must be true. Quick, let's use it as the vehicle for all our arguments about how bad society and our culture has gotten!
@@bellidrael7457 it's even more complex thinking that is money bought her talent and influence and opportunity at some level.
Imagine getting called out for being a Deadbeat Dad when you:
1. Moved 1 mile down the road to be close to your kids.
2. Paid out 2 MILLION dollars in a lump sum to the Mom.
3. Paid 18k a Month later reduced to 12k a Month in Child Support.
4. Put 600k into College Funds for your Kids
5. So you’re all in for about 5 MILLION dollars
BUT people still want to call you a Deadbeat Dad……….
Welcome to murica
Kids need fathers. Anyone who doesn’t agree with this does not live in the real world.
Sometimes that's not always an option. If the father dies suddenly that's obviously something that happens. Also if he's an abusive prick that hits the wife and/or kids does she just go "well they need their Dad".
The problem nowadays is that men more likely act like children than not. These days they are just another child. Yes, we do need men.
@alexakaa.charlesross8919 she should pick a better man to have kids with girls control sex way more than guys do
@@alexakaa.charlesross8919 true again we need fathers not bodies
Thanks, Captain Obvious.
Breaking dad gave his wife $2 million dollars cash. Paid 18 thousand $ a month in child support PLUS alimony. He also put $600 000 dollars in college fund for the kids. Lives about a mile away with side walk all the way. Saw his kids very often. Kids do not know shit what parents do.
It's the deadbeat dad trope. No matter what the dad does, he'll always be a loser to some ungrateful kids. Seems to come packaged with the feminism bundle.
Dad replied, and the daughter lied or gaslight by the mother. Redo the video.
“Not all men are toxic.” - Brett Cooper, 2024
Thank you!
the majority aren't, the ones most females don't even see _by the numbers_ 🤣
Not all women are toxic neither and these subjects have multiple layers and do not have a simple solution for it depends on the circumstances of the situation at hand.
No but hell of a lot of women are! Lol
@@lawrencetalbot8346 using toxic feminist logic but it's OK because I'm a guy that dislikes women:
Such cringe pandering.
This video needs an update that includes Maddie's fathers response video
She shouldn't have taken a side to begin with. She didn't know all the details and immediately believed the woman playing victim. Not too surprising though. Brett Cooper is a failed actress, herself.
When you find out none of this is true except he breakdances.
Such a deadbeat dad that when he divorced her mom in 2005 he gave her (the mom) 2 millions $ in settlement and 18.000 $ then 12.000 in child support and put 600.000 $ in a college fund.
in the usa 12.000 means 12 dollars. 12,000 is what you meant.
Money still doesn’t make you a good father
@@MegaSizeBunny he moved a mile away and kept in touch with the kids throughout their whole life..
WTF else you want from him????
@@PokmalacHUN What society should want from him to be a good FATHER, not a good breakdancer. As in, he stays with his wife, parents those kids, and he NEVER leaves them in doubt that they are loved. Fathers are there to protect and love their kids. It doesn't matter that he was a mile away, or that he "kept in touch" (If the texts were any indication, he didn't seem to do a very good job of it). He still left. He still chose himself and his breakdancing over his little kids, and that is horrible. No amount of money is going to change that.
@@dhekwucieoejdufNo, they are entitled to speak in their own language/dialect, they do not need to conform to any other countries standards on the internet. More people globally write it as 12.000 than 12,000
Gives family $5M in the divorce. Gets called dead beat. Good game journalism
Children have a right to a mother and father in a stable relationship. The government/judicial system needs to get this through their heads.
The government is only _half_ the problem, the other half is the ♀of the species.
Yes and it is also the mother and the father who has to take responsibility for their own actions as well and you will find out that there are times when the courts will find with the father then the mother as well.
Tell that to the deadbeats who leave then!
@@anitathompson32680% of divorces filed by women. 98% of alimony goes to women.
@@anitathompson326 Naturally this is something all broken parents need to hear in our culture, men or women. You have to admit that our courts have created incentives for marriages to dissolve. What do they do to help families?
This is fake news! The father responded. Please address.
Turns out she lied. The father made a video and he paid the mother millions to support the kids and also lived a block away.
The Dad responded and seems like a nice guy that paid a lot in the divorce
+1
plus he showed tons of video/pics of him spending quality time with his kids so not just money. Seems like a very involved dad who admitted that he should provide for his kids and did.
My first son was born Christmas Eve 2023. He will only be fatherless if I die. Love that little guy. Honestly, I'm looking forward to number 2, 3 and 4.
Congratulations. Being a dad is the toughest and most amazing role you will ever fulfill. God bless
It's not you he has to worry about, it's his mother destroying everything and creating a *single mother home* with the state subsidizing it.
@@DTreatzSir, Tate isn't on this channel.
@@georgewhitworth9742 Doesn't make that fact any less true. Women initiate 80% of divorces with the single most common reason of being bored. Even after that, many women refuse to allow the father to be a part of their child's life and fighting for equal rights in the courts costs more in financial resources than most men can afford. Try fighting in the courts into the six figures when you're earning 40K. That's the median income in the USA right now.
@@GunnyO326 they only do that in some parts of america, don't generalize an entire species over a few cases.
This is why you fact check before saying shit online
An entire month later, the fact that there isn’t a follow up video even until now just shows that Brett isn’t interested in the truth and that she is more concerned about publicly contradicting herself. She is fine disseminating a lie that has destroyed a man’s life and livelihood. To her everyone is open season as long as she can profit from their misery.
Just your friendly reminder that it doesn't matter which political aisle - left/right/sideways.
Political leanings only want one thing: your time, attention, and money.
It's funny how Brett harps on the "hipster part of LA" where "rich kids pretend to not have money" - but yes Brett, I can assure you, is herself, worth millions.
It's low-side pandering, as a people's champ, with a casual cool 4m subs and a DW exclusivity contract.
Make no mistake, all these news outlets and influencers are playing the same game: extracting from you (us).
the fact that this spoiled millionare kid throws her own father under the bus for some clout is a damning representation of the people who are entrusted with our art and culture, hollywood, disney netflix, is infested with the likes of her
@PhatCunt as this story gets circulated through certain parts of the internet, I really don't think his daughter's comment sections and message inbox is going to be too pretty to look at in the following days.
Me personally, my father died when i was 2, and my mother never remarried. I grew up healthy with everything i needed from my single mom. That being said, my grandfather was a huge part of my life. I think i may not have needed a father, but i definitely had needed that male figure in my life. My grandfather taught me how men should treat women. Just my take though 🤷🏼♀️.
Sure, but you weren't dealing with a mother who had male issues. That is a huge aspect to lonely/angry/unhealthy single mothers and the feminist movement.
The mistake in his teaching is to think that women deserve this treatment just because they are women, not that they should earn this type of treatment. That's why conservatives are idiots who serve as fuel for feminists too, they can't combat this outdated mentality that women are worthy of being treated like ladies simply for existing.
oof but did your mom teach you how to treat men? thats way more important for you sweetie.
I think there may be a difference in widows vs failed relationships. Might make for a good psychology study.
You just need a decent male figure to look up to issue is being young If there aren't any in the family it's difficult for a kid to pick a good role model.
Dad made a response, you should know better than to just trust 1 side of the story.
Daily Wire sickenly silent given the dads now 3 responses.
you need to give an update this is not acceptable. you portray the father in a negative light but you don't have the facts correct.
There is an update to this story Brett... You might want to update this... The dad responded, and the girl responded too... Basically... She lied about her father
"Believe all women" strikes again 😂
She didn't lie, you just choose to believe a man's word over a young woman's. Typical. (Also, let's be intelligent and realize no one knows the truth except the people involved in that situation.)
@@hiwelcometochilis2022
This is you: she didn't lie..
Also you: no one knows the truth..
This is called "shooting yourself in the foot" 😂😭🤣
@@googleedood9721 Sorry you didn't understand what I said.
What I meant was you are trying to factually state that she lied, but that's not the case. (For context, when someone lies it means they say something that is not true.) You're assuming/deciding she did because a man says so. You do not know which one is lying, so you cannot make the statement "Basically... She lied about her father", that in itself is spreading more lies and makes you look unintelligent, and it's telling you assume of the two people in the situation that the old man is telling the truth rather than the young lady (especially given proof on both videos the father forgot his daughter's birthday for example.) My foot's fine btw 😊
@hiwelcometochilis2022 And her response video was all backpeddling ending with "yeah, I'll probably delete this video".
Do we believe a girl whose literal career is contingent on clout chasing, who couldn't refute ANY claims her father made, and also said she would later delete her response video...OR the father that made claims and ALSO complimented the his child that was trying to misrepresent him for internet clout.
A reasonable person could examine this interaction and come to logical conclusion. They would need to be reasonable though.
Unreasonable, emotionally driven women are the cuase for this girls feminists ideas. Single, unhappy, resentful women that also want other women to be the same.
Are you by chance single?
The father actually made a response video, turns out she grossly exaggerated everything she said
On top of the millions he paid to his wife and children, he started breakdancing 7 years after the divorce 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Have you seen the response video by the pops? Pretty awful for the daughter to portray her father so poorly.
You gotta do a new video now that the break dancing dad has responded....
New update. The reality is she a screenwriter and had a whole video on her perspective her father abandoning her family to pursue break dancing. However, her dad payed her mom 5 million dollars in 2005 when he got a divorced and moved out. He even paid her medical bills which in her other video, which was wrong. He has put 660,000 in her bank account. So she is wrong but he does say he can understand her point of view. He also wasn't break dancing when he left. He learned that years later.
The father already posted a response and it’s worth watching. I could be wrong but it sounds like either she’s exxagerating things, mom wasn’t honest with her kids, or a combination of both.
The dad wasn’t a deadbeat at all according to dad.
need a revision.. lol he lived down the street from her and didn't take up break dancing until 6 years after the divorce for health. He has a real job NOT breakdancing ans he is successful and IS active in their lives. PAID her medical bills. UPDATE this please.
story was updated, dad didn't deserve to be dragged apparently. He paid out 5 mil and tried to be with kids, but mom separated them.
Turns out the daughter was bullshiting
The guy in the second half of the video who is doing breakdancing made a response to what his daughter said. He actually really liked the video and wasn’t really hostile or blamed her at all for how she saw what happened growing up however he did say that she and her siblings got over $600,000 that he donated for all of their college funds as well as the wife got $2 million in the divorce from him that he didn’t really seem bitter about or anything. But she called him a deadbeat so there are a lot of assumptions online that her mom has been filling her daughter’s heads with lies.
THE FATHER DID NOT ABANDON THEM - he did a reply video - and in it he explained he **divorced** his ex, and like 5 YEARS later did the break dancing thing. The Ex, her mom, got **5 MILLION** in cash and prizes in the divorce and the dad lived **1** mile down the road.
And paid $18k per month in child support and created college funds but that story isn't as sad as she wants it to be
@@ericede Yep - sorry, let those parts out.
Oh, no worries - I was just adding to the full story, not disparaging youi.
The dad posted a response video on X and it sounds like this girl is a bit of a drama queen. He lived a mile away from his kids and paid their mom $5mil in child support/alimony.
It's quite obvious given her mannerism she's a drama queen. Women always tell on themselves that it's merely a question of when.
The dad responded to these claims in a video which details how all of these happened. Dad provided reasonable explanation and I believe you would need to update this video or create another one
Have you seen the Dad's response? Definitely worth a reaction, especially when discussing the desire to appear more persecuted and victimized exhibited by the daughter.
My daughter wouldn’t know her father if he was standing next to her in a store. I am so grateful to have my father (her grandfather) step up and show her the love and male role model is supposed to show lil girls. She just went to her first Daddy Daughter dance with her poppy and she loved it!
Let me clarify some things about my child’s “father” he is a meth user who does not have a job whose grandmother pays for his rent, his electricity anything that is an necessity is paid for by his grandmother, and just recently, I discovered that his grandmother was thinking she was sending money to my baby by giving it to him and then he was giving it to us but he was just keeping that money. I never got any of it, he is a narcissistic, abusive drug addict who only cares about himself. My child is better off without him.
Awe that’s sweet
Why did you choose her father to procreate with?
@@davidrubinstein5359Sometimes people make mistakes. Sometimes they choose wrong. Sometimes someone completely switches up on a woman after pregnancy. No use beating a woman over the head who already has had to take the responsibility for two people. Trust me, she regrets it more than you know. Coming from a Christ-redeemed, still-heartbroken single mother.
Three cheers for all the stepping up grandfathers
@@user-du8xh5kj8i The issue I see is that this grace is only given one way. Men get abused by family courts constantly and are still called absentee, deadbeats.
I'm the only person sitting here taking care of my son with Autism and I'm a dad. When are all of the other people gonna come Help me because of the dead beat mom, I deal with.
Yeah they don’t want woman to be held accountable…shocking right 🙄 No even Brett would have to admit woman are vastly to blame for this feminism sh!t show and she forgets that woman initiate divorce and leave 90% of the time and get full custody 95% of the time with fit fathers in the picture but again she puts that on men her argument is basically “strong men don’t allow woman to do this” yet she wants freedom but if she wanted true freedom that means men not telling them what to do and “suppressing them” they then ran with feminism and circled it back to “weak men made this happen” trying to place most of the blame on us which is peak delusional thinking but not surprised many conservative woman believe this to because again they lack true personal responsibility and act like damsels in distress funny how that works huh?
Speaking of deadbeat mom, they're already growing 😮
What other people? No one comes to help single parents regardless of the gender lol
@@louderthanwordsInclusivitysomeone's *coping* lmao
See it goes to show that not everything is the fault of the men for the mothers can be just as fallible as well.
You need to do the 2nd video follow up to this. The Dad's response is hilarious.
+1
It even better, the daughter tries to double down after and made herself look even worse lol
@@Shadowzdota The problem is, so many people took her at her word. When the reality is she's just a dumb rich Tik Tok girl who had a wealthy upbringing and wanted sympathy for how hard she thinks she had it.
This video is proof of that. She goes off on this guy when he did nothing wrong, or at the very least, he admits his faults and even blames himself for the divorce.
@@Shadowzdotashe…literally proves he was lying what are you yapping about 😭
@@MAX_AND_CHEEZ if by prove, you mean she constantly contradict herself, sure
You should watch the father's video in response to this. It gives a lot of context to his "abandonment"
She tried to double back and say that video was meant as a "joke"
And she tried claiming that shes a comedian. If this is one of her jokes then no wonder her comedy career hasn't taken off
He paid 5 million in child support, no clue why that wasn't used for her medical bills, and her response is 'Oh, well uh, I don't really know the facts about the financial stuff so... I won't go into that...'
@@bellidrael7457 aka a lie by omission
@@bellidrael7457and the medical bills she wanted paid were for "trauma counselling" after a break up, not an actual complication
Mistook her earlier vid about a man paying and feminism leaving her body, as parody. Also her previous video was about getting multiple std's in a year and I still think that *was* parody. It's entirely possible both the dad and the daughter made this whole thing up completely. But then again there is the judge being named in the dad's story, so maybe she is just so clueless, and her mind was poisoned by the mother.
I was raised by my father after the age of 6. Best thing that has ever happened to me. He took care of me more than my mother had ever had before and he is so supportive as I’m going into college.
I was raised by a single mother and she allowed me to focus on my education and now I'm looking for work and it is hard. But that is what life is and she told me that if there is a challenge that you need to stand up and face it. It is true that children need a father and mother. But there are times when a child needs a parent who can be there for you and teach them what they can and hope that they turn out all right.
@@JustTooDamnHonestthat's what we're saying....a child needs parentS..... it's both halves that develop a proper functioning human....there are many things that you can't learn from a woman that's why father should be there....a male representation is the foundation which lead people to respect woman....a man with a single mother is more inclined to get away from the right path but in majority cases they are not feminists because they are men and get the feeling of being a man so they get a inclined respect for thier own gender.... but girls don't get that... that's where the problem begins
@@hardikbhardwaj236 Yes and there are things that they can't learn from a father neither for the mother is the caring halve of the couple, but there are women out there who are just as tough then some men and are not scarred to slap the taste out of child's mouth if they misbehave.
Also there are harsh realities where the child suffers the most when mommy and daddy have problems or when one or the other leaves and the one who leaves gave up or they ran away from their mistakes or gets a divorce and it is mostly deadbeat fathers and at times the deadbeat mothers.
I found my male role models through films, tv shows and martial arts school that I trained in and taught there for 15 years. I never forgot being a male and yes it is no substitute for a real father and my mother knew this, but she made it work and I didn't even want to know my father when I was younger, but it was my mother who convinced me that I try at least and now I hang out with my father(who lives in Texas) from time to time and he knows he f*cked up and I also have reminded him that those are years that I'm never getting back and that he left and o he knows. But I was hospitalized at one point and after getting jaw surgery(misaligned jaw) and I found out that my father traveled all the way from Texas to California on a motorcycle with a bad back just to see if I was ok and that proved to me that despite all of his flaws still gave a sh*t.
So yes this is a subject that is not always black and white for there is a lot of grey and people need more then one conversation if they want to get to the core of the problem and blaming people without getting to know them doesn't help anyone.
@@hardikbhardwaj236It's more the father than the mother, the fact that single father households do _exponentially_ better than single mother households shows that.
It's ok to say fathers matter more, truth hurts, suck it up.
@@DTreatz i know that... I'm just saying that both are important so society should start promoting long lasting marriages....i completely agree with you that fathers do much better at parenting and that's also because men do know thier responsibilities and also thier limits...they know that they need to teach thier children morals.....
On contrary women still think that becoming "independent" is some kind of godly power....and let's be real women doesn't know, understand or take responsibilities.... that's why they are doing everything bad....they doesn't want to face the consequences of being in power...they just want everything on a silver platter....so they do bad in everything men does and even in things women does
We need an update on this video clear my man’s name he might’ve not always been present but he helped out in the best way he could especially financially he isn’t a “Deadbeat dad”
He was present, too. Seems the daughter was badly brainwashed by her mom to believe he was a loser
The father posted a video responding to his daughter.
Never trust a first date with your credit card by herself.
She could write down all the info and use it to run the card to the limit
That was my first thought too.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought "wait, left his CREDIT CARD?"
Maybe he was smart enough to hand her a prepaid card.
I think she made that up.
It's wicked easy to report those charges and have them removed
Her father replied, looks like she’s telling the story her mum told her
You need to review the father’s rebuttal video. Absolutely blown away by the actual facts behind this case. This man is about as far as you can be from a deadbeat father.
Yea i sense a little bit of personal grevience from brett. If im not mistaken, her relationship with her own father is kinda not good. I sense this video was and her defending the daughter was kinda based from that.
Ohhhhh boy Brett you jumped the gun on this one.
I wouldn't call someone paying 5 million dollars over time in the divorce and 18K a month in alimony, a dead beat dad.
But a rich girl on Tik Tok said it happened, so it must be true and we must take it at face value and use it as the vehicle for all our arguments about society and culture.
Now we need the follow-up with you reacting to the father's video about this mess haha
I’m a girl who grew up with a very active mother and a passive father and I just want to say that being present is not enough to be a good parent. Both of my parents are career oriented, but my mom put in the time as a mother after she got home from work. She spent time with us and helped us with our homework and she was always there. But my dad did none of that. I spent several years of my childhood scared of my dad because I thought of him as a stranger living in our house. I knew he was my dad, but I didn’t know him. I wish with all of my heart that things were different because now I’m 21 and I don’t like to be alone with him because it just feels awkward. I never had a bad relationship with him, but that’s because I never had a relationship with him. I recently realized that his passiveness is part of what led to the negative view of men that I had for so long. I am lucky to have realized that my views were incorrect, but many girls aren’t that lucky. So any new, old, or future fathers out there who are reading this, please do your best to build relationships with your children. All of them. Girls and boys. They need you.
I'm a father of 3 that's rarely home because I'm constantly at work trying to give my wife and kids the life I've never had. I am not passive when I am there but I do worry my kid's will grow up feeling the same way.
@@markmitzlaff8672 I think if you just make an effort everything should be great. My dad just never really made that effort. He wouldn’t remember even the major things happening in our lives, much less the small things. For example, I’ve been in band since 5th grade. So I’ve played my instrument (the alto saxophone) for 11 years. A week ago he asked me what instrument I play. Whereas my mom could tell you that I play the saxophone. If you asked what kind she could tell you alto. If you asked when I started she could tell you. If you asked how much it costs she could tell you. If you ask when my next concert is she could tell you. But my dad hasn’t been to one of my concerts since I went to college. He went to my high school concerts because my mom forced him. He’s been to a few football games that I’ve performed at, but he usually wants to leave before halftime anyway because he’s not a fan of the college I go to. Band is such a huge part of my life and it has been for years. I don’t expect him to understand everything about band or music or anything like that, but I would expect him to remember the instrument that I have played for half of my life. All this to say that if you actually pay attention to the things that your kids do and love, you’re on the road to being a great dad.
@@everythingeden Thank you for the invite, I played French horn for 5 years so I completely understand about band. I think there is a definite difference of leaving early because they were bored vs. not being there because they are working to be able to pay for said thing you are doing. i.e. I work 50+ hours a week to put my 2 oldest in private school at my church and my 3rd will be there soon.
@@everythingeden Honestly what you describe is most fathers though. My sister is a teacher and whenever the school can't reach a mother, the father is utterly useless when it comes to giving information about their children. They don't know what grade their kid is in often or what their blood type is. I heard it's the same issue at doctors offices. And they don't have the excuse of "I am busy working and providing" anymore, since the mothers work full time as well and still care about their kids
@@fehyndana7725 maybe you’re right. I mean I only have one father and nothing to compare him to. I’m 21 and the only guys that have ever been in my life are my dad, my granddad, my 2 brothers, and one boyfriend like 6 or 7 years ago. My experience with men has been so limited that I guess it’s not really my place to talk. All I know is that I wish my dad was more invested in my siblings and me. Also, there are other things that have happened that I’m not willing to say on the internet for everyone to see. Maybe those things would make my viewpoint more understandable. But like I said, I’m not willing to share everything.
Her father responded, everything she said was a lie.
This video didn't age well
Only child, my mother kicked my father out when I was 2.
She married a new man when I was 19, they had a relationship for 10 years before they married. He never accepted me, so my mom kicked me out.
My grandparents raised me more then my own mom.
I am 38, have a wonderfull husband, 2 sons, and very happy❤
Not all kids growing up without a father (figure) end up messed up. Not all fathers are fathers, and not all fathers should stay in a childs life. You can't miss what you never had.
But I do think that couples get married, have kids way to fast. Just date, get to know each other, get a base together, then start with the rest.
Truer words need to be heard for that is another thing and that is people treat marriage like a friendship bond when it is more then that and if you just get married out of the blue then that is doomed to fail for you haven't build up a relationship in order to get to know the other person better.
@@JustTooDamnHonest exactly! When my husband and I met we started dating, getting to know each other, then the rest followed. But I agree, marriage is not a friendship, and yet there are so many (bad) examples that people follow online.
My husband and I had our ups and downs, faced medical issues, and here we are happy and still in love. We have a life time, but we will get there.
DeadBeat Moms is something our society is not ready for. They are too sensitive. So many stories like this exist. And even mom who walk out on kids only to come when they are teenagers. Horrible.
Not all kids growing up without a father (figure) end up messed up" finally someone says it! I know so many single moms with children (for reasons i won't state, but none of the cases were the wifes fault) who's kids are completely fine due to good parenting.
@@houseofhas9355 it is horrible, and there are so many fathers raising kids as a single parent, and those kids turn up just fine as adults
A father is a daughter's first "love" she will then use her dad as a prototype of sorts upon which she will base her future husband's traits. In my country, we say that daughters end up marrying "their dads," and sons end up marrying "their mums." Meaning that we go out in the world and look for traits that we loved in our parents to find our soulmates. Because we crave the familiarity of being loved and feeling safe. The way our parents made us feel.
If for some reason that is disrupted, we lash out, we lose sight of what we are supposed to be looking for in a future husband/wife and then when we stumble upon what we originally craved (in this girl's case the masculine guy who takes care of her and she feels comfortable and safe around) we think we have discovered something completely new and revolutionary. No, you haven't. You just finally found what was cruelly taken away from you as a child. A father figure. Someone you feel safe and comfortable around. Someone around whom you can feel safe enough to maybe even start your own family.
This is how its supposed to be in every country. Most of my girlfriends looked a lot like my mom. Mom was a tom boy that rode motorcycles. Dated a lot of tom boys. An nothing catches my attention faster than a woman on a bike. An I was never around my mom much. 2 weeks a year before she died when I was 10.
That’s how it should be tbh. We should aim to have a good mum and dad figure, that tells the sons and daughters how to act and what to look for in a spouse.
It's almost like....
a certain.... sociocultural movement in the 1950s.....allowed a _certain group_ (♀)...
to destroy...the *nuclear family*
huh....who could have guess..., oh wait, J.D. Unwin did:
_Unwin also stated "In the past, too, the greatest energy has been displayed only by those societies which have reduced their sexual opportunity to a minimum by the adoption of absolute monogamy (para. 168). _*_In every case the women and children were reduced to the level of legal nonentities, sometimes also to the level of chattels, always to the level of mere appendages of the male estate._*_ Eventually they were freed from their disadvantages, but at the same time the sexual opportunity of the society was extended. Sexual desires could then be satisfied in a direct or perverted manner... _*_So the energy of the society decreased, and then disappeared."_*_ He points out that "No society has yet to succeeded in regulating the relations between the sexes in such a Way as to enable sexual opportunity to remain at a minimum for an extended period." - _*_and thus all societies have collapsed._*
- J. D. Unwin, _Sex and Culture_ circa 1930s 💊
what the freud😂
Should double check this because he responded and change the whole story
The dad is good she lied the breakdancing guy is one of the coolest dudes I’ve ever seen she’s an entitled spoiled girl the dad did his best paid 5 million initially and 16000$ monthly as child support she was 5 years old I doubt she knew all this but her mom is different she probably fed her with lies and raising her was also her mom’s responsibility as much as it was her dad’s so she could’ve also paid the medical bills she talked about in the video
When the father leaves, the kids are doomed
There is actually a lot of research that proves that point right. You might hate me for that but statistically, kids without fathers are more likely to fall for drugs, to end up with teenage pregnancy, to end up with lower grades of education and in lower income groups. So, yeah, divorce screws the kids up. Learnt that in university when I graduated. But as far as I know, this is still valid.
My kids dad left. My son 17.5 & daughter 19 have never talked back to me. They’re very loving. My son is about to graduate and will be working at Ford. My daughter went to trade school and is a phlebotomist and works 2 jobs. Both never have gotten into trouble. There’s exceptions to the rule. I hate the fact they don’t have a dad. I had to jump into action and make a wonderful circle of of men to teach my son how to be a man. I never tried to be their dad and told them we have to be supportive of each other. I moved next door from my parents so that was helpful cause my dad was the most masculine man I knew. I will tell you my son says it’s sad that he walked away & that he will never do that to his kids. Just writing this to let people know that there is hope but you have to put the work in and know that your kids need more than just a woman’s support. Without the Father in heaven this wouldn’t have been possible. Raise your kids up with Christ.
If kids have a dad willing to leave his kids, they was gonna be doomed either way
@@yvonnehorde1097 I feel like that’s happening more because of the environment they grew up in rather than them not having a father tbh.
I went to a suburban school where most of the kids were middle class. The kids who didn’t have fathers (including me) still thrived, were respectful, and went to get a higher education.
The *overwhelming majority* of *SINGLE MOTHER HOMES* are because of females breaking up homes and bad choices in mating. 💊
My father left before I was born, but I married a conservative, strong, protective man and he is a wonderful dad to our two kids ❤
The *overwhelming majority* of *SINGLE MOTHER HOMES* are because of females breaking up homes and bad choices in mating. 💊
That's great but I bet he forced feeds religion down their throat or his own beliefs
Her dad did jail time because of how corrupt the court system is. Came up a little short on an initial 1.8 million he agreed to pay. He even brought receipts to show how many millions he paid in child support and other expenses. I wish my rich dad “abandoned” me like that.
You should research a bit more about the father you are being so critical about. This case is another one of a mom spreading lies to her kids. Look what the father said
" That basically looked like a cockroach running around." Killed me, cry laughing at your commentary and this story!
I’ve noticed how different I am (politically and belief wise) compared to my friends and the one difference from me to them is that my strongest relationship in my life is with my dad. All of their fathers are gone or left. It really has an effect on
The crazy thing about this story is while we shame the dad for doing it, if a mom did it we would tell her to live her dream, do her life, and evolve beyond parenthood. Weird.
This girl knows nothing about what she's talking about. Madi was abused and brainwashed by their mother. He man did a lot to maintain relations with (and pay millions to) his family. This host swallows the entire story whole.
Pure arrogant delusion.
I’m genuinely sorry for the dads that leave. I can’t imagine growing up without a dad. My son’s mom left when he was about 3 and came back for a while. California gave her custody immediately and after 5 years old he came back and I raised him solo. He is now 23 and it’s been just us. I can’t imagine leaving for anything ever. MIND BLOWING 🤯
I wonder if the fathers who had their sperm stolen from used condoms and had their lives thrown into turmoil from child support would have anything to say. I wonder if maybe everything in life isn't plainly black and white and maybe it's better to mind your own business just because you aren't capable of putting the shoe on the other foot? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
If I may ask, how his relationship with his mom now?
Well good thing that
The *overwhelming majority* of *SINGLE MOTHER HOMES* are because of females breaking up homes and bad choices in mating. 💊
At least my absentee father was an alcoholic and not a break-dancer 🤣
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Same.
I guess if you're looking at the bright side...
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Except he responded to the video. He didn't 'walk out on them', he and her mother got a divorce. He lived nearby, he paid MILLIONS in child support, owned a business, and got into Breakdancing later in his life as a hobby to stay fit.
And in response to this, the girl basically said 'I mean I don't know the financial stuff so I won't really talk about it...'
Are you going to do an update now that her dad responded? I would love to hear your take on it!
Much love ❤️
Her dad made a follow up video and then she made another follow up video and she was so scared and losing it cause she got called out but he was such a good dad that he said good things and was still trying to support her…
I’m so happy my parents have a stable happy marriage ❤ me and my siblings are so lucky.
My son’s father left us and has never been involved. I begged him for any kind of involvement. Instead he chooses to drink and live his life as though we don’t exist. It is the most heartbreaking situation I have ever been through. I regret so much and wish I could give my son a father who loves him. I feel so sorry that I chose such a stupid guy to be with. It is the single worst situation I have ever been through. I can’t even put words to how I feel. Men, please stay with the child, even if you choose to leave the woman.
and women please let the dads stay with their kids, as that is way more of an issue than the dads leaving lmao thought that was obvious but I guess not haha
@@BigBananaBus That’s not true at all. Especially not in my situation. I begged the father to stay. I begged him to do ANYTHING for his child. But he chose differently and I decided that I would make the best of single motherhood and raise my son alone. SO many women beg the men for the bare minimum and the men make all the excuses. Some are the cases that you talked about. But a real man would still push to be a present father no matter the situation, obviously unless he wasn’t allowed legally.
your experience doesnt define the normal circumstance, sorry that happened but Im telling the truth@@user-du8xh5kj8i
I'm thankful my son's father is absent bc he chose alcohol over his son. He cowardly hides from child support thru his new wife who helps him do that. Doesn't say much for her either lol. My son is aware of his dad's issues. It breaks my heart too bc he's such a good kid, smart and funny. He knows that when he's old enough he's welcome to pursue his own relationship if he chooses. When I hear of women with custody battles, dads not showing up for their weekend, and fights over money and holidays, and having to trust a guy with a lack of priorities with the health and safety of my son every weekend ..it's an understated blessing I didn't have the stress of that hell on top of single parenting.
@@user-du8xh5kj8i Nah its very true sorry to say, women leave the dads with the kid in most cases, not the dad leaving the family. sorry if facts offend you, but your situation isnt relevant when talking about facts. A real woman wouldnt argue with facts, men have to do all the work most of the time, while women cant even do the bare minimum. sad really. women need to step it up to mens level realistically. dads always raise better kids than women statistically so you're very incorrect.
Madi deserves no sympathy. She is an adult baby that tried to ruin her dad’s career with lies. She should be sued for defamation
You need to do a part two on this. The father told his side of the story. It’s either she’s lying or she just didn’t know the whole truth about his dad.
She said “feral” but I think she meant “primal.”
God feminism is out of hand and I love how Brett copper agrees
Brett and Candace are fundamentally misunderstanding feminism and their mindless followers are eating it up.
Feminism is things you don’t like, I’m guessing.
@@MoonshineH I like feminism, but I feel like it's being used for a wrong reason
Copper lol
@@Neurondeactivation5496So you like the problem, just not symptoms of the problem?
I don't think that this video aged that well..
Gotta watch his response. He said they weren’t meant for each other and paid a lot of child support when he left. Kids should have two parents but what’s worse is having parents who clearly don’t love each other. He said he set 600,000 for college funds while paying 12-18k a month. A lot of kids growing up in single parent homes won’t ever get the chance to go to college. This guy was absent but didn’t allow his kids to feel poverty.
Also he lived nearby, if he was absent it was the kids making the active decision not to go see him, or the mother filling their heads with lies about him and not wanting them to see him.
My grandfather died many, many years before I was born, when my oldest uncle was only 15- but the family still recall him with the most absolute fondness.
A good father is a treasure that lingers, long after they're gone- they leave a legacy of love, that their sons endeavour to measure up to- & that their daughters seek out...
"I've seen your DMs" my heart aches for her knowing the things she's probably read.
“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.”
― Socrates
Fathers don't leave.
Husband leaves a toxic wife.
This really makes me thankful for my stepdad who came into my life early and raised me as his own. I found an amazing husband who is just as kind and patient as my dad. I thank God for putting those men in my life.
I am adopted, and I genuinely praise the Lord that my birth father did not raise me and has never been in my life- even that he didn’t want me. SOLELY because I was adopted my a man and woman who loved each other and loved the Lord, and wanted a child so badly that they were willing to adopt. My Dad, the man who adopted me - raised me - loves me - and gave me away at my wedding - He is my father. He choose me, was always there, and has instilled in me such respect for the men in my life who have stayed.
I also have to say that my dad is a man’s man- he can fix anything- cars, house things, and so on, plays guitar like nobodies business, loves working out and exercising, love the Lord, etc etc etc…
And I now know how a man should treat me. How my husband treats me. I am working until we have children when I then hope to be a stay at home wife, I love keeping our house tidy and beautiful, etc!
Again, thank you JESUS for my birth father leaving me and allowing for my Dad to raise me.
He wasn't a deadbeat. He did a reaction video that explains everything. He didn't leave or abandon them. Her mother and him got divorced, she got custody, he spent millions on child support and alimony. He has a good relationship with all of his children who are all productive adults.
If you guys expect her to do a video about the adult girl she will not do it. Women like this will doesn’t like getting schooled
The saying "Accountability is modern women's kryptonite" exists for good reasons.
What people claim to be toxic masculinity, I believe is actually the lack there of. A friend of mine's daughter had a sister in law, who got together with a man who had all the characteristics of what's defined as toxic masculinity, he tried to act like a big tough guy, claiming to be gangster, talking a big game while being abusive towards his girl who also had a child with him. About 3 years in the relationship a video had emerged of this guy inside a bathroom, sitting on a toilet performing oral sex to another man. I don't know about everyone else but that doesn't look masculine of any kind to me.
In some parts of the world thinking women should be able to vote is considered feminism. It means very different things to different people.
ok well we're talking about the Western world right now i.e. the countries where there hasn't been a functional "Patriarchy" in 5 generations.
they shouldn't
that's one of the _many_ points where the problem manifested.
*repeal the 19th*
Yeah it's sad how many people have ruined feminism because as a female I like being able to have the opportunity to get a job, drive, vote, etc. Many women lie and say they are a feminist. But if a woman says she is but hates men then that means she is a misandry...
@@talesofgore9424 Yeah we should just call western feminism toxic feminism because that's what it has become...
"Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish (Proverbs 18:13, NLT)." If only social media influencers practiced this. Brett is slamming this guy based on A LIE. She never verified any of what the daughter was saying. 🤦♀
Father made another update 3/26/24 Typical Johnny Depp situation court wise. Ben is a good parent many people owe him an apology. Gentlemen learn from this man. His story today should scare away young men from children and Marriage.
even just absent fathers, who might be IN the lives but aren’t APART of their lives…this also happens. when dad’s fail to step up, help and provide for their wives while actually having relationships with their children, women/daughters feel the need to step up, do things ourselves, be self sufficient, and do and help their mom and be the companion our fathers aren’t…we feel like we don’t need to depend on a man because we haven’t seen a man we can depend on demonstrated in our own home.
sincerely,
me & my sister
I have my girls 50 percent of the time and it is a huge struggle keeping their mom and feminist propaganda at bay so I can’t imagine if I wasn’t there
It's kind of chilling how she said her dad left his wife and 4 kids when she was 5 years old
The silly, matter of fact tone with which she announced such a horrible thing is very unsettling
Leaving your credit card for a girl (on a first date, no less) to potentially run up, is actually a pretty non-Chad move. A Chad move would've said "ok we're getting X and/or Y" and paid with the card himself.