So wrong and _definitely_ not true ..It only takes one punch to kill a person and whether it was in self defence or not you're going to jail ..that's something I certainly won't be preaching to my children. Stand up and defend yourself- yes but finish a fight, nah
bw I’m sure you are an American. Don’t get it Not abusive at all 🙄 You should stand for yourself this has nothing to do with being violent . That’s why we respect more our elders .
I think the stereotype that Tia is more hood and Tamera is the good girl isn't necessarily accurate. People forget that while twins are two different people, and while they may be different they have similarities too.
LMFAOOOO IM WEAK THE END WHEN TAMERA SAID “you guys i can brawl no for real” 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂 “i was the first one with the knife in my hand & said “COME ON TIAA” LMAOOOOOOOO😭😭😂😂😂😂
Why they always so shocked when Tamera says she can brawl, like y’all don’t understand that ya quiet and nice people when we unleash the beast of anger, it’s poppin off !! Watch out.
Dennisha Edwards Im actually over her always self deprecating. Its kind of sad. Like girl just be you and stop highlighting your weight all the time. Ive seen too many clips of her calling herself fat etc... and I dont like it. Shes the only full blk woman on panel and she should be nicer to herself
I was bullied when I was 5-7 years old school did nothing so my dad told me to break the kids nose....l did and she didn’t touch me again. So actually sometimes it needs to be done
Zinhle Malinga yes I used to wear dr martens to primary school so booted her in the face. Then my dad came to school and said, you didn’t sort it so we told her to and I was left alone 👌🏻😎 this girl bullied everyone........
Periodt. You see this first hand on "reality" TV. Those chicks know who they can and cannot throw drinks and turn up on. They don't try it with everyone. If a person knows you prepared to go to war, generally they will not f*ck with you. The may try you and that's the time to let them know. bet they won't try it again.
Amanda is so wrong about teasing and harassment being helpful. There’s nothing helpful about making someone question their self worth. It can lead to a lifetime of insecurities and low self-esteem.
Thank you for saying that. She may feel that way because she is a celebrity. Her life is fine. Us regular people can be affected by that in far worse ways.
It’s subjective. I don’t think she was saying being bullied is beneficial so much as she was saying that it toughened her up, which was beneficial. She didn’t crumble under her harassment, she came out the other side fortified. That’s why she made the immune system comparison. Nobody thinks getting sick is fun or positive but if it doesn’t kill you, it literally makes you stronger. Your body knows how to handle that virus the next time it comes around and it doesn’t hit you as hard. There’s experience gained.
I get what you are saying but she holds a valid point. I grew up having to defend myself. The schools I went to any could be getting "blazed on" (making fun of) at any day of the week. When it was your turn you learned how to stand up for yourself.
FEARLESSly MIACAMICHELLE yes, learning to stand up for yourself is such a vital lesson and there’s no other way to learn it than to actually be put in positions to have to do it. You can talk to your kid all day but it’s theory until they put it into practice. And it’s best learned young. I’ve met people where they were somehow sheltered to the utmost capacity as a child and then when they left the nest the experience of being hated on was jarring to them. It’s unavoidable, you WILL experience it eventually. No one in the history of the world went their entire lives without confrontation or adversity. So it’s to their benefit that they learn how to handle it.
i took it to mean that today’s children are taught to go get help but not really what to do when confronted by a bully or being harassed and there is no teacher or parent around to help you. are we teaching kids to stand up for themselves when, sometimes, all they got is themselves in that moment? may not be exactly what she said but what i took away from it.
My mom used to say IF SOMEONE HITS YOU HIT IT BACK OR I'LL BEAT UP WHEN YOU GET HOME lol... I'm totally against violence but teach your kids to defend themselves! If someone's lookin for a fight defiantly will find!
I'm against violence too... as in I'm not out here putting hands on anyone....But I will tell anyone if someone puts they hands on you, then it's go time.
Well my daughter got hit by a boy today and she gave him a shove and a right hook (he always picked on her) i am the same i dont believe in violence but you got to let them know they have to stand up for themselves
Abby Guitron he probably likes her. A dude used to call me names and mess with me when i was younger just for me to find out he had a crush the whole time🤣
We gotta stop teaching our kids, "if a person is picking on you and hitting you they probably like you." That is how we breed adults that stays in abusive relationships, "because, well, it must be love."
Dion Harder woah i never said it was okay. I was just giving one possibility as to why the boy might be picking on her for a no apparent reason. Once again, never said it was okay. Which it isn’t.
I didn't say you said it was okay but many people think this way. A person calling you names or hitting and shoving you does not equate to having a crush. That is abusive behavior. I used to think the same way as a child. You don't hit to show affection.
@@Sonicxis4ever I completely agree!! There's something very rare about her insight, her knowledge, her wisdom, her charisma..etc, I could go on about it 🤩
My mom told me exactly what tamera said. I'd get in trouble for starting a fight but not for finishing one. I was that kid walking away from arguments and being the better person until someone put their hands on me. Once that happened, no one made it passed 2 hits.
It was funny when Tamara said when her and tia used to live together and they used to hear noise she be the first one that grabbed a knife talking about come on Tia Lol
Love God it’s funny cuz she acts like a Disney princess that it’s hard to imagine her being so assertive and let alone grab a weapon, would’ve thought Tia would be the one and Tamera going “omg what are we going to Tia?”
@@LarryOfilms to me both the twins seem Hood to me like Tia was finna fight Keke Palmer about her husband before and and Tamera was right there Meaning they'll fight your ass Lol
🤣🤣🤣💞😂🤦🏾♀️😂💞😂😂😂 Can the real Tamera plz stand up🥰🥰 I adore Tamera.... she was hilariously amusing with her brawl presentation But, she will cut you deep🤣🤣🤣🤣
What Tamara says she says to her kids is the EXACT thing that I say to mine. They better never start anything physically but if they need to take up for themselves if they are hit first, they can. And I agree that we coddle our kids too much lately. There should be a healthy medium.
I went to school with my five brothers and my mom used to always say if someone messes with one of you guys then they mess with all of you guys. It’s safe to say everyone left us alone. I agree with don’t ever throw the first punch but definitely finish that fight!
Some people, other parents I've spoken to, dont agree with it because some kids will hit their parents back when they are hit. We teach our kids to always hit back. They have every right to defend themselves.
🤨😫 this is why lessons are important. When I was a child I will hit back one of my lil age mates but I knew better not to hit an adult...😫 but I did have a mouth on me. I would tell on an adult so quick.
@Marina Guajardo This true, some what. Some of the parents I've spoken too were black. It's as if some parents do not teach their children the difference from being attacked and being disciplined. Children who know the difference do not raise their hands to their parents. Children who do not know the difference and are spoiled tend to raise their hands to their parents with no consequences.
"You will get in trouble for starting a fight. You will never get in trouble for finishing one." Honestly, I don't know if that second sentence is true. It seems like you can still get in trouble in both situations
She said “ you can get in trouble for starting a fight but you can’t for finishing one” its always the people who finished the fight are seen as the bad ones
I really liked this conversation Tamera said it best "You'll get in trouble for starting a fight but you won't get in trouble for finishing one Right there, always stand up for yourself, then let the adults sort it out
@Javier Ruiz she was more in denial. You really need to stop judging people. She couldn't believe it because it was someone apart of their family. And now she is admitting that it happened
Encourage ur kids to stand up for themselves verbally first. Eventually they start standing up for themselves physically without u having to tell them. I taught private pre-K & at that age, they tell the teacher everything. When they tell me a classmate hit them I tell them “stand up for ur self & tell them not to hit u again”...they don’t hesitate to go over to the classmate & use their voice & of course I back them up. Eventually their voice turns into actions. They go from “don’t hit me” to actually defending themselves physically without me having to tell them to “hit them back”...I’ve even witnessed other students encouraging one another to stand up for themselves & they do it. It’s not the traditional way, but I encourage children’s independence to help better prepare them for the real world. Not just to go around hitting others, but to instead defend themselves. Coddling is crippling.
Tamera is straight up preaching, but Jeanie’s mom left me in tears! This is your house, she in your territory! She don’t know where we keep the knives & chicken grease LMAO! My grandfather taught me that, you don’t *EVER* go to someone else’s house to pick a fight. That’s their house so naturally, they have the advantage.
Omg I love Tam Tam, I believe she can brawl, them sweet one and quiet and shy ones be having the hands forrealz, I'm the same myself, Don't condone violence either but defend and stand up for yourself Periodttt
I'm signing up my kids for selfdefence. And imma teach my children that walking away from a fight is more powerful of a choice than giving into one, it's important to pick your battles and is beautiful when you stand up for others.
Absolutely. I'm a teacher and feel the same way. There needs to be more conversation than just "if someone hits you hit them back" Discussing how to problem solve way before the problem even starts to get physical.
Hitting someone back doesn’t necessarily mean you’re defending yourself. If some petty person tries to hit me and start a fight just to get to me I’m not engaging, just my opinion though.
Dude, Amanda is such an incredible guest co-host! I would not be mad if she became a permanent addition to the show, her energy is awesome and she's so well-spoken and funny
Tamera should have talked to my parents...ALL they did was take me to damn church!! Sunday...Tuesday...Wednesday...Friday AND occasionally Sat night...had to learn on my own...should have been given up 4 adoption....
As a previous teacher, a lot of times "he hit me!" was just the kid walking too close to them. These kids are mad clumsy. But instead of keeping a cool head, these roughnecks want to get in a shoving match over accidentally getting into someone's space which is what you not going to do. Now other times, if my kids bothered to tell me, I warned the other that once I can understand is an accident. Multiple times you clearly want a fight and I'd tell the first kid to do what they got to do. Now one of the reasons I quit is because you can get mad at a teacher all you want "for not doing anything" but let you say one thing to these kids, and then parents want to get on you for that. And yes I mean telling a kid to stop and putting them in punishment for Lord knows how long because they wouldn't stop and would do the same thing everyday. Those parents would question me and ask how could they have a bad day everyday. I would just stop telling them. Kids are God in the classroom. I had to go.
My whole point was what do ppl expect teachers to do? We just had a teacher get fired the other day for breaking up a fight. The teacher must have "hurt" one of the fighters and the parent got mad and reported it to higher authorities. So what is expected of the teacher? We can't do nothing!!
tia carr. Send them out of the room, and show them you are serious. I’ve had many stern teachers in my time and no one would ever act a fool in class because the teacher did not play. I have also had teachers, especially in High School, instigate arguments. The teacher would laugh at the jokes that were made against students from the “popular” kids and laugh and tell the popular kids, “ok that’s enough”. It was enough the first few times but you did nothing and laughed alongside them. There’s a lot teachers can do, but they choose not to. My step mom have her PHD in education and have been teaching different age groups for quite some time and they take her seriously and she’s well respected with the parents. In fact she’s an amazing teacher.
Shamonica stanfield I'm not saying I'm not stern. In my class I dont have discipline issues. But I can only control what goes on in MY class. And let me point out I work at an inner city school where all of my students get free lunch. I have students who gang bang and those that have issues that goes pass not having food, shelter, and a caring parent. I can talk to these kids all day until my face turn blue, write them up, set the example and put them out (which I can't do, or I'll get in trouble if they did something in the hallway i.e. like running a train on a female student with his friends in a back room ), and call their parent, I can not stop a child from picking on another on their own time. Oh and I'm a high school teacher...
tia carr. I was speaking from my experience, and many others who have witnessed teachers not do anything, but be apart of the problem. I’m not talking about what goes on in hallways, and other classes. I’m talking about teachers who have no control over their class, and does nothing when they see issues taken place in their classroom. It’s shameful. I understand there’s more students than there are teachers but teachers know who’s the troublemakers in their class but does nothing.
Listen kids, your first teachers are your parents! If your parents tell you that if somebody hits you, you hit them back, follow that lesson. Teach others that lesson; you START with me, I will FINISH it‼️PERIODT(.)
i’m gonna be a guest on The Real one day mark my words.. and i’m gonna be on the girl chat segment and it’s gonna be real juicy lmao i literally sit here wanting to butt into the conversation and say my peace 😂
🗣🗣🗣You will get in trouble for STARTING a Fight but you will NEVER get in trouble for FINISHING it!!!!
PREACH TAMERA 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That’s not true. They both get in trouble.
Yeah...not true. And unfortunately often the opposite is true.
That 's so true my mother friend told my that and i grow up strong women
Amber Awusah if it’s self defense then yes most likely your not going to get in trouble
So wrong and _definitely_ not true ..It only takes one punch to kill a person and whether it was in self defence or not you're going to jail ..that's something I certainly won't be preaching to my children. Stand up and defend yourself- yes but finish a fight, nah
Tamera is so naturally funny and she doesn’t even know it.
She has no idea i be dying laughing..
Loni was like here we go....
LMAO, “believe it or not guys, I can actually brawl”
Tamara is just life
Adorable
“I don’t have any kids but I do have two cats and I tell them to stick up for themselves!” 💀🤣
daisyjasmin23 best comment lol 😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣they got the advantage them claws
daisyjasmin23 Hahahaha
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I straight up tell my cat the same thing.
I’m still laughing at Mama Mai putting 3 hoodies and chicken grease on Jeanie sending her to war🤣🤣🤣
Erica Cooley. That was too funny 😂 😂
I wish it were in a movie I just died 😭
LMFAOOOOO
That's how you do it
Lmbo sent her straight to war 😂😂😂❗️
My African household If you don’t hit back, you best believe you’re gonna get the worse hitting at home. 😭
mAya SquAw absolutely ! As an African I can relate girrrrl 100 percent right
mAya SquAw Jamaican household too 😂😂
Sounds pretty abusive
bw I’m sure you are an American. Don’t get it Not abusive at all 🙄 You should stand for yourself this has nothing to do with being violent . That’s why we respect more our elders .
Lmao “what were you looking at when they beat you”
Tam is on a roll in this clip! “COME ON TIA” 😂😂😭😭
I burst out laughing! 😭😭😭
Kanyin Aluko she is a comedian today 😂😭
I Couldn't Believe Tam Said That! I Was Dying 💀😂
Freaking Twins. I always grab a knife when I hear a noise and go look around ready to stab a ghost! 🤣
😂😂😂
“C’MON Tia” SENT me 😂😭😭
Lol same!!!
sammeeeee i went straight to the comments to see if anyone related
I dropped a tear when i heard that. Lmao
Nostalgia
SENT!!! 🤣😂🤣😂
People should not sleep on Tamera. I can tell she will get fiesty and “about it” if she has to.
Charmaine Blake Yasss
I think the stereotype that Tia is more hood and Tamera is the good girl isn't necessarily accurate. People forget that while twins are two different people, and while they may be different they have similarities too.
Yes, a mom is a mom.
My mom said: dont ever start a fight, but be sure to finish it. She taught me how to punch
That's a good mama that's the mama I want to be matter of fact I'm showing my kids
and to get on your knees!!!
Roxana Romero my dad taught me that..!❤️✊🏿never lost a fight thanks to him
@@DavidLee-vp3nr theres always that one douchey comment. Congrats.
Roxana Romero you shouldn’t have even responded to her
The lady who posted that was probably the bullys mom and doesnt want him to get a taste of his own medicine smh....
B Padilla it was a man who posted it.
He was probably mad his kid hit someone first & then got his ass beat.
Probably.
I gave you 666 likes
My thoughts exactly... I'm not teaching hit back, I enrolled my 2nd grader in martial arts, my advice to her is roundhouse kick their ass!
LMFAOOOO IM WEAK THE END WHEN TAMERA SAID “you guys i can brawl no for real” 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂 “i was the first one with the knife in my hand & said “COME ON TIAA” LMAOOOOOOOO😭😭😂😂😂😂
Firee Saphh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 I died there
Firee Saphh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmbo
😂😂😂😂😂
I love how nobody took Tamera seriously when she said she knows how to brawl😂😂
bsbgirl85 OMG 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀
Don’t under estimate Tamera. I believe she can whoop some.....
Bruh the quiet, shy ones be the craziest 🤣
Both parents were in the army....yea she fight.. she take boxing when she was younger
@@bsbgirl85 her parents were both in the military she's definitely got hands lol
Why they always so shocked when Tamera says she can brawl, like y’all don’t understand that ya quiet and nice people when we unleash the beast of anger, it’s poppin off !! Watch out.
Exactly
And her dad was a cop. Pretty sure he would have taught them self defense.😁😉
@@karenjackson7807 Excellent.
Er. Not always LOL
As a nice and quiet person I can confirm this.
People love to mess with quiet people. She got cussed out though.😂😂
Ty Kin For real😂😂
What they fail to realize is the quiet ones you gotta watch out for 😁😁😁
Exactly. Don’t underestimate shyness
If I don't relate to this statement...and then they wonder why you are quiet...
@@izzy350 quiet doesnt mean shy...it means keeping peace
I died when loni said she looked like one of the substitute teachers
Dennisha Edwards. Me too 😂 😂
Me 2 😂😂😂😂
I love loni 😭
Dennisha Edwards 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Dennisha Edwards Im actually over her always self deprecating. Its kind of sad. Like girl just be you and stop highlighting your weight all the time. Ive seen too many clips of her calling herself fat etc... and I dont like it. Shes the only full blk woman on panel and she should be nicer to herself
Loni did not just say she looked like a substitute teacher in preschool LMAOO
Lol that "com on Tia" !was so sister sister bro. Hahaha
Lol, that was the exact thought i had
Mama Mai: Jeanie Why you scared? Why you hide??
Me as Jeanie: Bc mama Mai THEY here to fight ME & not you😩🤣🤣💀
😂😂
😭😂😂😂
I was bullied when I was 5-7 years old school did nothing so my dad told me to break the kids nose....l did and she didn’t touch me again. So actually sometimes it needs to be done
U really broke the kids nose???😂😂😂😂😂
Zinhle Malinga yes I used to wear dr martens to primary school so booted her in the face. Then my dad came to school and said, you didn’t sort it so we told her to and I was left alone 👌🏻😎 this girl bullied everyone........
Some teachers don't care depending on the child!
Sad truth
What do you mean? I'm so scared to send my daughters (latinas) to a predominantly all white school. I dont want to be so naive.
@@BriLoveMusic why send them to an *all white* school???
It’s very true! Especially if they have a bias against the child, they will not be protected.
Absolutely true
My momma always told me knock they ass out one good time and they’ll leave you alone lol
100%
True tho.Always defend yourself or people will walk all over you‼️‼️
Yass! You know one out and they all will leave you alone and try to be your friend lol
😂
madmann1000 girl your momma was right!
Mama Mai is me as a mom....you don't run and hide you stand up and defend yourself
Periodt. You see this first hand on "reality" TV. Those chicks know who they can and cannot throw drinks and turn up on. They don't try it with everyone. If a person knows you prepared to go to war, generally they will not f*ck with you. The may try you and that's the time to let them know. bet they won't try it again.
Lol, when Tamera said "brawl."
She's so sweet. 🤣🤣🤣
Amanda is so wrong about teasing and harassment being helpful. There’s nothing helpful about making someone question their self worth. It can lead to a lifetime of insecurities and low self-esteem.
Thank you for saying that. She may feel that way because she is a celebrity. Her life is fine. Us regular people can be affected by that in far worse ways.
It’s subjective. I don’t think she was saying being bullied is beneficial so much as she was saying that it toughened her up, which was beneficial. She didn’t crumble under her harassment, she came out the other side fortified. That’s why she made the immune system comparison. Nobody thinks getting sick is fun or positive but if it doesn’t kill you, it literally makes you stronger. Your body knows how to handle that virus the next time it comes around and it doesn’t hit you as hard. There’s experience gained.
I get what you are saying but she holds a valid point. I grew up having to defend myself. The schools I went to any could be getting "blazed on" (making fun of) at any day of the week. When it was your turn you learned how to stand up for yourself.
FEARLESSly MIACAMICHELLE yes, learning to stand up for yourself is such a vital lesson and there’s no other way to learn it than to actually be put in positions to have to do it. You can talk to your kid all day but it’s theory until they put it into practice. And it’s best learned young. I’ve met people where they were somehow sheltered to the utmost capacity as a child and then when they left the nest the experience of being hated on was jarring to them. It’s unavoidable, you WILL experience it eventually. No one in the history of the world went their entire lives without confrontation or adversity. So it’s to their benefit that they learn how to handle it.
i took it to mean that today’s children are taught to go get help but not really what to do when confronted by a bully or being harassed and there is no teacher or parent around to help you. are we teaching kids to stand up for themselves when, sometimes, all they got is themselves in that moment?
may not be exactly what she said but what i took away from it.
My mom used to say IF SOMEONE HITS YOU HIT IT BACK OR I'LL BEAT UP WHEN YOU GET HOME lol... I'm totally against violence but teach your kids to defend themselves! If someone's lookin for a fight defiantly will find!
Wait, your mom said if you don't hit them... she'll hit you?
@@AvgJane19 not trynna be funny but thats a black household. Just like "I'll smack tf outta you if you dont do these dishes"
Javier Ruiz lol😂😂 ok.. you’ll survive
Right😂😂😂 my Jamaican mom says that
I'm against violence too... as in I'm not out here putting hands on anyone....But I will tell anyone if someone puts they hands on you, then it's go time.
Well my daughter got hit by a boy today and she gave him a shove and a right hook (he always picked on her) i am the same i dont believe in violence but you got to let them know they have to stand up for themselves
Abby Guitron he probably likes her. A dude used to call me names and mess with me when i was younger just for me to find out he had a crush the whole time🤣
Wynter Ariah well I hope he likes her “hands”
We gotta stop teaching our kids, "if a person is picking on you and hitting you they probably like you." That is how we breed adults that stays in abusive relationships, "because, well, it must be love."
Dion Harder woah i never said it was okay. I was just giving one possibility as to why the boy might be picking on her for a no apparent reason. Once again, never said it was okay. Which it isn’t.
I didn't say you said it was okay but many people think this way. A person calling you names or hitting and shoving you does not equate to having a crush. That is abusive behavior. I used to think the same way as a child. You don't hit to show affection.
“Believe it or not you guys.. 👀”
😂
c g. I’m laughing that you put the side eyes in quotes 😂 but that comment had me weak too 😂
“Oh here we go 😣”
Literally, every time Jeannie speaks...I listen.
Yes!!! There’s something about her that I love . She has so much wisdom and she’s very well spoken!
@@Sonicxis4ever I completely agree!! There's something very rare about her insight, her knowledge, her wisdom, her charisma..etc, I could go on about it 🤩
My mom told me exactly what tamera said. I'd get in trouble for starting a fight but not for finishing one. I was that kid walking away from arguments and being the better person until someone put their hands on me. Once that happened, no one made it passed 2 hits.
Same thing always happened to me in primary school. You put your hands on me, you will NEVER repeat it again.
It was funny when Tamara said when her and tia used to live together and they used to hear noise she be the first one that grabbed a knife talking about come on Tia
Lol
Love God it’s funny cuz she acts like a Disney princess that it’s hard to imagine her being so assertive and let alone grab a weapon, would’ve thought Tia would be the one and Tamera going “omg what are we going to Tia?”
@@LarryOfilms to me both the twins seem Hood to me like Tia was finna fight Keke Palmer about her husband before and and Tamera was right there
Meaning they'll fight your ass
Lol
Haha I love tam she's a lot like myself
🤣🤣🤣💞😂🤦🏾♀️😂💞😂😂😂
Can the real Tamera plz stand up🥰🥰
I adore Tamera.... she was hilariously amusing with her brawl presentation
But, she will cut you deep🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg I died lmao
"I could actually brawl."
Yessssssss TamTam. You betta let 'em know!!!
😂😂😂😂
Lola N lmfaoo that was so funny I love her
Adrienne looks like a disney princess.periodttttt. She is so gorgeous
“CMON TIA” lol 😂
I swear I miss sister sister so much !!
Sister, sister...
What Tamara says she says to her kids is the EXACT thing that I say to mine. They better never start anything physically but if they need to take up for themselves if they are hit first, they can. And I agree that we coddle our kids too much lately. There should be a healthy medium.
I went to school with my five brothers and my mom used to always say if someone messes with one of you guys then they mess with all of you guys. It’s safe to say everyone left us alone. I agree with don’t ever throw the first punch but definitely finish that fight!
The depression am going through, these ladies have no idea how I laugh just watching them.. They make me feel better always. Thank you the real
I was once told if I came home saying anyone beat me up, I would get a home beating. Best blv I learnt to defend myself😂
I'm from the Caribbean btw 🤣
SAME!😭
Kay W girl that’s me. My moms Jamaican and I remember her saying ‘don’t start anything, but knock them out after.’
I swear Tamera is soooooo funnnnnyyy 😂😂😂 and Loni covering her face just made it 10x hilarious 😂😭
I actually agree with Amanda on this one!
And that cat comment, as a cat mama, I can relate 🤣🤣🤣
Cam H. Same 😂
Lmao I be like this to My cat “don’t let him do that to you!” 😆
You're a real one if you know who said "Mama Mai was the promoter ?" 😂
Enjinks Tamar!
When she said “come on Tam, Knuck if you buck” I DIED ☠️😭😭☠️
at my school. if someone hits you, both people get suspended even if you didn’t do anything
Very unfair. 😏
"C'MON, TIA!" LMAOOOOOOO I believe Tamera. She definitely can fight. I just know she's never fought anyone though. 🤣🤣🤣
I love how you ladies share such constructive opinions on topics and also a lot of real humor! ❤️💯 Thanks for the laughs! 😆
“Believe it or not you guys, I could actually... brawl.” I love this show 😂
"Your mother was the promoter?"🤣🤣🤣🤣 3:14... Who remembers that line?
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Ade started to say four 4:34 🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne's look tho!
Kids need to learn to defend themselves when they absolutely need to stop sheltering them.
Some people, other parents I've spoken to, dont agree with it because some kids will hit their parents back when they are hit.
We teach our kids to always hit back. They have every right to defend themselves.
If another kid hits a kid that kid is supposed to hit that kid back .
Hopefully your kid has been raised to know better not to hit a adult back .
Marina Guajardo 😂
🤨😫 this is why lessons are important. When I was a child I will hit back one of my lil age mates but I knew better not to hit an adult...😫 but I did have a mouth on me. I would tell on an adult so quick.
@@lovegod7383
Don't worry about my kids, worry about your own (if you have any).
@Marina Guajardo
This true, some what. Some of the parents I've spoken too were black. It's as if some parents do not teach their children the difference from being attacked and being disciplined. Children who know the difference do not raise their hands to their parents. Children who do not know the difference and are spoiled tend to raise their hands to their parents with no consequences.
"You will get in trouble for starting a fight. You will never get in trouble for finishing one." Honestly, I don't know if that second sentence is true. It seems like you can still get in trouble in both situations
She meant get in trouble with his parents.
@@ByteMwen Ah ok. Thanks for the reply
She said “I had that knife in my hand” yoo I was dead
I played that "C'mon Tia"part like 5 times😂😂
She said “ you can get in trouble for starting a fight but you can’t for finishing one” its always the people who finished the fight are seen as the bad ones
Tamera is hilarious! She said “I had a knife and was like c’mon Tia.” 😂😂😂😂
Tamara is too funny!! She’s so down to earth, but I can see that feisty side to her. Lol
I really liked this conversation
Tamera said it best
"You'll get in trouble for starting a fight but you won't get in trouble for finishing one
Right there, always stand up for yourself, then let the adults sort it out
@Mandi Arena If the child is going to the adults and the adults aren't handling it, then the child has the right to defend themselves
For a black kid especially that’s not always true. Racism is often on the bully’s side
@@victoriaabbey3525 An unfortunate truth Indeed
Jeanie mom a G dangg lol
Javier Ruiz come on now
@@ShayMarie.00 lmfaooo right. out of pocket with that comment
@Javier Ruiz she was more in denial. You really need to stop judging people. She couldn't believe it because it was someone apart of their family. And now she is admitting that it happened
L.O.L!!!...I love Tamera.She is so cute and hilarious with her stories. The other ladies are like *side eye*😑 ..😂😂
Mama Mia is wild 😂💀
2:57 “ Wait, why you hide..What happeninnng? “!😂😂😂 Jeanie’s Mama Mai impressions yo 😂😂
Lmfao Tamera at the end hahahaa
I died when Adrienne said" i will climb someone for you Loni".
Tamara just killed me with that come on Tia that's a meme right there🤣🤣🤣🤣
Encourage ur kids to stand up for themselves verbally first. Eventually they start standing up for themselves physically without u having to tell them. I taught private pre-K & at that age, they tell the teacher everything. When they tell me a classmate hit them I tell them “stand up for ur self & tell them not to hit u again”...they don’t hesitate to go over to the classmate & use their voice & of course I back them up. Eventually their voice turns into actions. They go from “don’t hit me” to actually defending themselves physically without me having to tell them to “hit them back”...I’ve even witnessed other students encouraging one another to stand up for themselves & they do it. It’s not the traditional way, but I encourage children’s independence to help better prepare them for the real world. Not just to go around hitting others, but to instead defend themselves. Coddling is crippling.
Did Tam say "wit a knife in my hand" 😂
They should turn the other cheek, BUT... they only have two cheeks. So........ ☕️ 🐸
Right? I be like, you said turn the other cheek, but you didn't say turn both of em. We fightin'. It's on if you put your hands on me.😂🤣
Lmfaoo
If someone hits you, you hit them back. PERIOD.
Not in every case but go off sis
Tamera's "come on, Tia!" at the end was soo cute 😂 I love her lmao
Jeannie LOVE your hairdo!!!!!! You look like a princess.👸❣
When she said believe it or not I can actually brawl 🤣🤣
Tamera is straight up preaching, but Jeanie’s mom left me in tears! This is your house, she in your territory! She don’t know where we keep the knives & chicken grease LMAO! My grandfather taught me that, you don’t *EVER* go to someone else’s house to pick a fight. That’s their house so naturally, they have the advantage.
Omg I love Tam Tam, I believe she can brawl, them sweet one and quiet and shy ones be having the hands forrealz, I'm the same myself, Don't condone violence either but defend and stand up for yourself Periodttt
"Don't start none won't be none!" 💅🏼 mommy will always have your back!
I just love Tamera😭
I lost at “CMON TIA” I swear it had me rolling
I'm signing up my kids for selfdefence. And imma teach my children that walking away from a fight is more powerful of a choice than giving into one, it's important to pick your battles and is beautiful when you stand up for others.
Absolutely. I'm a teacher and feel the same way. There needs to be more conversation than just "if someone hits you hit them back" Discussing how to problem solve way before the problem even starts to get physical.
Hitting someone back doesn’t necessarily mean you’re defending yourself. If some petty person tries to hit me and start a fight just to get to me I’m not engaging, just my opinion though.
My mom always told me “You better never start a fight, but you damn well better finish it.”
Adrienne has been looking so good lately! Makeup and outfits on point
Dont pick on anyone...bullies are NOT cool...but, if someone hits you, teach them a lesson!!
Y'all dont understand how much I love Tamera! 😩😂😂😂😂💗
Yes those 2 cats better stick up for themselves lol
Dude, Amanda is such an incredible guest co-host! I would not be mad if she became a permanent addition to the show, her energy is awesome and she's so well-spoken and funny
I loved what Amanda said. I kinda want my kids to grow up like me. It’s developed me into the person I am and made me better
anyone else peep Jeannie rolling her eyes hard asf when Tamera said I don’t condone violence loll
Listen it’s always the quiet one don’t underestimate tam tam
Tamera should have talked to my parents...ALL they did was take me to damn church!! Sunday...Tuesday...Wednesday...Friday AND occasionally Sat night...had to learn on my own...should have been given up 4 adoption....
Loni's face when Tam said she can brawl. Whahahhahaa dead.
Just the choice of the word. Making it sound fancy hahahahhaha
So funny
As a previous teacher, a lot of times "he hit me!" was just the kid walking too close to them. These kids are mad clumsy. But instead of keeping a cool head, these roughnecks want to get in a shoving match over accidentally getting into someone's space which is what you not going to do.
Now other times, if my kids bothered to tell me, I warned the other that once I can understand is an accident. Multiple times you clearly want a fight and I'd tell the first kid to do what they got to do.
Now one of the reasons I quit is because you can get mad at a teacher all you want "for not doing anything" but let you say one thing to these kids, and then parents want to get on you for that. And yes I mean telling a kid to stop and putting them in punishment for Lord knows how long because they wouldn't stop and would do the same thing everyday. Those parents would question me and ask how could they have a bad day everyday. I would just stop telling them. Kids are God in the classroom. I had to go.
MissRight91 well said 😊
My whole point was what do ppl expect teachers to do? We just had a teacher get fired the other day for breaking up a fight. The teacher must have "hurt" one of the fighters and the parent got mad and reported it to higher authorities. So what is expected of the teacher? We can't do nothing!!
tia carr. Send them out of the room, and show them you are serious. I’ve had many stern teachers in my time and no one would ever act a fool in class because the teacher did not play. I have also had teachers, especially in High School, instigate arguments. The teacher would laugh at the jokes that were made against students from the “popular” kids and laugh and tell the popular kids, “ok that’s enough”. It was enough the first few times but you did nothing and laughed alongside them. There’s a lot teachers can do, but they choose not to. My step mom have her PHD in education and have been teaching different age groups for quite some time and they take her seriously and she’s well respected with the parents. In fact she’s an amazing teacher.
Shamonica stanfield I'm not saying I'm not stern. In my class I dont have discipline issues. But I can only control what goes on in MY class. And let me point out I work at an inner city school where all of my students get free lunch. I have students who gang bang and those that have issues that goes pass not having food, shelter, and a caring parent. I can talk to these kids all day until my face turn blue, write them up, set the example and put them out (which I can't do, or I'll get in trouble if they did something in the hallway i.e. like running a train on a female student with his friends in a back room ), and call their parent, I can not stop a child from picking on another on their own time. Oh and I'm a high school teacher...
tia carr. I was speaking from my experience, and many others who have witnessed teachers not do anything, but be apart of the problem. I’m not talking about what goes on in hallways, and other classes. I’m talking about teachers who have no control over their class, and does nothing when they see issues taken place in their classroom. It’s shameful. I understand there’s more students than there are teachers but teachers know who’s the troublemakers in their class but does nothing.
I really want Adrienne to have her family but lord Jesus this BODY she’s serving rn
Tam had to get in there.lol😂😂😂
But for real, stand up for yourself. Don't let others push you around.
I'm loving this Amanda ❤️❤️❤️❤️ loni "I could have been the substitute teacher" 😂😂😂😂
Listen kids, your first teachers are your parents! If your parents tell you that if somebody hits you, you hit them back, follow that lesson. Teach others that lesson; you START with me, I will FINISH it‼️PERIODT(.)
Idk why people fighting is so common in America, I've only ever heard of one fight from friends of a friend lol
As adults we have the right by law to defend ourselves if attacked. Children deserve that same respect.
I do believe Tam got hands. You gotta watch out for the nice ones; they’re the ones that will SET IT OFF! I speak from experience. 💯
I'm always fighting with these bills
i’m gonna be a guest on The Real one day mark my words.. and i’m gonna be on the girl chat segment and it’s gonna be real juicy lmao i literally sit here wanting to butt into the conversation and say my peace 😂
This entire segment has me WEAK💀💀
I love Amanda on this show !! She keeps it REAL, educate on black awareness, and she puts things in a different perspective. Love her.