Reminder that we’re still doing cash giveaways on my Instagram! (@msblairewhite) We’ve given away thousands at this point which makes me super happy. We’re gonna keep going all through the month of May!
I can speak Arabic and I saw her video and I would like to add more to that 1- Sofia is Moroccan herself “the irony” she left Morocco because she knew she would be jailed in her country 2- Sofia thinks that she is not transgender and that she just did gender correction ( we call it like that in Arabic) so she hate it when people say she is transgender 3- what has instigated this whole conversation is that in her live people were calling her transgender and she said I’m not instead of attacking me calling me something that I’m not search for these apps “the one she has mentioned ” you will find that your husband is the real F**** not me. So people went crazy downloading the apps were it went #1 app in the Middle East. It was then reported that one boy killed him self after his family found out he was also on that dating app for gays. The thing is she got so hyped out as a lot of people started praising her for her act that now very much all her lives is about how to hunt a gay person. There is similar account from Saudi Arabia who is doing the same thing and now all the LGBT community accounts in the Middle East has been deleted and he is threatening that he has something for them under his sleeves on 23 of May
What the hell, the last part. What kind of evil person plans something and then says "i will reveal everything on 23rd may", so crazy. I hope nothing happens to those people, their only "sin" is loving someone
Ana Chis it’s really scary people were begging him to stop he said I will only stop you y’all deleted your account a lot of them did but some of them started commenting under Hollywood celebrities post asking them for help. he got angry and then said I will delete my account and come back @ 23rd Of May with a big surprise for you. He put “remember 23rd on his bio” then today he deleted his account.
@@iamjia95 did the hollywood starts reply? And since he deleted his account does that mean nothing will happen on the 23rd? I hope nothing will happen to the men who used their app, who is that person to threaten those men like that? It's so disgusting!
Ana Chis his account was epicibra it was deleted by instagram then he comeback out with eepicibra now he deleted hisself and promised to comeback again. Literally even religious people are saying that what he is doing is wrong some of these people who he had exposed were teenagers this would destroy their lives no one is on his side with what he is doing. But he is also trending
Can you elaborate a little more on the gender correction/transgender thing? From her perspective having watched her videos, I mean. I don't speak the language or know the history. If transgender people aren't doing gender correction then what do they consider it? How is it seen as different? A person who corrects their gender is transgender.. I'm having a bit of a hard time wrapping my head around how it's seen as so much above or different.
Outing people in general is disgusting g let alone doing it somewhere where it can get you killed or put in prison 😪 it's disgusting to do that to anyonen
smobworld okay , here’s a query . After 20yrs , me and my daughter caught my partner being wth a man , and then finding out he had had bunk ups , and nights away wth men since I was pregnant 16 yrs before . So his family are homophobic , he wanted to just carry on , which for the sake of my daughters last year at school , I gave it thought .however she didn’t want it , and I didn’t want to show her that you don’t settle for bad behaviour. Luckily , I’m the nice one , I still have friends . However he wouldn’t fess up , he wanted to make out he’d fallen out of love and we’d just drifted , not that me n his daughter caught him coming back from having cock sucked .this wasn’t about homosexuality and being scared to come out . When we got together we were hippies , he could of told me anything . Literally 1st things my close friends said , yep they know . My gay best friend had died of cancer in the previous six months , it had been stressful , but he always knew he could talk to me . So you say it’s wrong to out him , why ? I’m not going to , because it’s the easy way out for him . But my son won’t talk to him , he calls my son selfish , my daughter asked him n said , I wouldn’t love u any less ,he called her ridiculous and to stop crying A year later and were so close , my sons moved back in , my daughter and I are so close and she’s just amazing , strong , kind .Sadly , and the reason I kept quiet not even telling my mum about it wen I found out, I knew in my heart he was a selfish man , it was joked about , we balanced each other . His friends were mine , he didn’t have any , and I knew that the ‘balance ‘ was all me , and I knew that it would end wth him wth no friends , old in a community which can be fickle around looks n age -slapping about on Grindr .He didn’t have the ability to create any of the beauty we all have without him . At that time I loved him , I hadn’t just fucked about wth anyone else , so the hardest part is falling out of love . I despised him (he doesn’t see his daughter).sad thing is she would have given him the sun and then forgive him for burning her wth it , but its been a year .she realises she doesn’t miss anything because he wasn’t there before . However ,even though I still think he’s spineless to not out himself , I don’t miss having to think about him . This is not just about cheating , the gayness does play a role . At the time he made a difficult time even worse because I still protected him , while we struggled . Obviously though this Sofia is a complete psychopath and I’ve just tried finding her utube site to express my fuckedoffedness But was just triggered into , it’s not always black n white , sorry to ramble on , literally haven’t spoken about it , no one knows me here so I can .
@@jagomae. I'd say be mad at him for cheating. Man or woman cheating is wrong. You've every right to be mad about that. But outing him as gay or bi or whatever he is is still wrong. It's HIS sexuality not yours. You don't know how those around you may act at finding this out. It is not YOUR place to tell everyone about HIS sexuality. My parents don't know about me being gay even though they're not homophobic. I know they're not and yet I personally still feel uncomfortable to even being it up with them and I'm in my 20s now I've known about my sexuality for a long time. Regardless of my parents being homophobic or not if somebody, anybody told them, my brothers and my friends about my sexuality before I did I wouldn't forgive them. It's just wrong plain and simple. That situation you mentioned does sound extremely difficult to go through and it is a complicated family relationship. He didn't respect you as a partner to not cheat on you so in that sense you can be mad about that and sure you can tell people "he cheated on me" all you want because that's really unfair to you. But when we're talking about disclosing his sexuality that's where the line gets drawn (for me, I'm not telling you what to do just what I would do)
smobworld thanks for your time and thoughts .Inherently I’m a firm believer of you do you boo attitude . I think that’s what angered me the most ,is he made me feel things and think things about gaymen(ironically) specifically ,don’t hate me ,but generally the promiscuity. My young friend at work showed me his Grindr, and I felt like a fucking nun . I’d always been so laid back ...now suddenly I saw it as predatory and grimy . But then I’m not a gay man , I’m older and I had just found out my best friend,partner in life chose to lie to me for nearly 2 decades so understandable - But I couldn’t get past that it was just sex ,not comfort ,not a relationship ,and I can’t get past that fact . I felt that a myriad of thoughts n feelings I’d developed about being yourself ,whatever parcel you come in ,enjoy it ,you don’t have to define urself and box yrself into any label -the situation filled me wth anger ,but not for that long ,as I said my relationship wth my kids is better than it ever was . you are right ,it’s ,and it’s because it’s up to him he will take the path of least resistance and I don’t want to hurt his parents ,even though he’s lied to them and we don’t speak . Thanks again for your experience ,and as a mum ,yr mum n dad will still love you ,you sound kind and eloquent .I expect they had something to do wth that -they probably won’t be surprised ,all the best wth all you do 💜
@@jagomae. That's quite a different situation from gratuitously outing someone. He very likely knew he was gay even before marriage, so he deceived you, cheated on you and potentially gave you diseases. That is unforgivable in every sense.
"Please educate yourself and get a little perspective about the lives of LGBT people in MOST of the world" Say it louder for the people in the back Blairreeeeee 😩😩
it broke my heart when you said that 50-100 men have been outted, and then my heart died when you said two men committed suicide because of her. she deserves nothing but hate, that might be mean but i dont care, imagine if you were those two men, just imagine.
@Kevin Hewitt Wait, are you seriously defending Sophia?, i dont really have in high regard these men who get married and cheat on their wives with men because they are trying to deny being gay, but when you take into consideration the context of them being prosecuted and even killed just for being gay where they live, then you kinda understand the reason behind it, not that is fair for the women married to them or that im defending these men, but you cannot condemn someone for hiding who they are when the other option is to go to jail or being executed. And after all, her comments affected 50-100 hundred men and forced 2 of them to commit suicide, when your actions incite violence and crime then you shoud be held accountable for that, is simple as that, it doesnt happen unfortunately in todays world, but it should, ppl are dead because of her, and is her responsibility.
@Kevin Hewitt I guess you totally ignored or muted the video when she said that Sophia fled Morocco because otherwise she would be prosecuted there, and told friends and women in general, who are from Morocco, to look on tinder and other apps to see whether their husbands are being unfaithful with other men, even though she totally understands the implications of being gay in Morocco, she started a witch hunt and ppl suffered because of that, 2 men died because of that, and no it didnt happen where she lives now, where you live as well, it happened in Morocco, a place where she no longer resides, otherwise she could have been executed, is like a jewish person who fled Germany during the Nazi regime and then when he arrived to the US (or any other country that doesnt discriminate/kill jews) he sends a letter to the nazis revealing the addresses of friends and ppl whom he know are jewish, what do you think is gonna happen next?
Kevin Hewitt It doesn’t matter what she loves or hates. What matter is she’s ripping lives apart. If she’s breaking up marriages, that just makes it even worse. She, or no one else, has any right to do that.
I think it’s also an important thing to mention, Grinder started shutting down new profiles in that area created after her video was released in an attempt to minimize the outting of their current users
This hurt a lot, seeing a person that is supposed to be a part of the same community as me trying to ruin other community members' live's is just sickening. What does she gain from this? The suicides were the worst part. Through her actions SHE KILLED 2 innocent people. Thank you for bringing attention to this issue, you're amazing. Edit: I'm sorry for the confusion caused with my wording, I am not a part of the Trans community, I meant the LGBT community. I know each community is different and faces its own challenges.
@@marckid93 what do you mean? I called it a community because thats what I've always heard it as. Regardless of what its called, we're still all people who experience a different sexual orientation or gender identity than the "norm"
@@A129WOLFY She gains social validation from those in her country, probably money as well, also, it's 2 so far, more to come most likely and unfortunately.
as someone who's originally from Morocco it breaks my heart to know that my country is so behind on the times when it comes to acceptance for LGBT folks, this person should be ashamed for what they are doing
//. ondine religion is just their excuse lol they don’t even follow the religion properly but when it comes to their homophobia they use it as a scapegoat
this is exactly why we need sjw's, not for the western world, but for lgbtq people in societies where it's illegal to be gay. so far, a lot of countries have followed our example, but we need those people calling their representatives about putting sanctions on countries that have barbaric laws like these. that's the same reason we still need feminism, for fighting actively for the rights of women in other countries where there's fgm, child marriage, and places where it's basically illegal to be a woman, like KSA
How? Also besides that, this whole thing doesn't compute for me. She's trans but wants gay men get takes by the police, in a country where it's illegal to be gay. Where is her compassion?
The Black Baron She knew what she was doing, outing someone in a country like that, knowing that they could get in huge trouble and are most likely already depressed and anxious, is an act that underlines a risk of suicide. It’s obvious, she knew that as well. So yes, she indirectly or technically killed them. When you out 50-100 ppl you know their will be a certain percentage of suicide rates.
9:07 "It was me and 12 gay men at a table." My first thought was some kind of bizzarre take on the Last Supper with Blaire as Trans-Jesus and her 12 gay disciples.
Blaire as a gay man, I would like to say thank you for talking openly about this weird kind of Trans/Gay tension that alot of people seem to have. It's very bizarre and I'm glad that I'm not the only one who has noticed this alot over the years. In regards to your awkward story, there are alot of gay men who are the worst about "mean girl" gossiping about people when they are in a group. I don't know what the fuck it is but I just have to leave sometimes when they start going full bitch mode on someone, like it was a 1950s house wife tea party.
As a Bisexual female I am sorry you have people like that who think that's okay. I don't understand the tension as I haven't been exposed to assholes like this. Like Blaire I'm compatibility with gay men as friends and don't understand why someone would feel that way about gay men. I would like to be more educated about the LGBT issues all over.
@@cherryblossom1460 Well there's a lot of tension between transsexuality and homosexuality, because the latter is about same-sex attraction and the former is about being uncomfortable with one's sex and wanting to change it to convincingly be like the opposite sex. Logically, this means that homosexuality and transseuxality are in conflict and can be mutually exclusive. If a gay man is not attracted to transwomen, is he a gay man? And if a gay man is attracted to transwomen, is he not gay? The definitions of what it means to be a man or woman and what it means to be a homosexual man or woman are thrown into a flux, which can have very serious consequences for women's rights and the rights of sexual minorities. It's very complicated.
I've never noticed any tension, this video is the first I'm hearing it and I'm gay lol. I guess I haven't interacted with a lot of trans ppl though I'm in the crossdressing community which you would think has a lot of trans ppl.
I do think we are using the word selfless incorrectly. To have zero self would make you identity-less. To care for people makes you kind and caring. Selfless people are dull because they have no idea as to what they like. They have no hobbies.they have no life. They live for others. Think of nuns. That's what selfless means. Your appearance doesn't matter, your dietary requirements do not matter. You don't matter. As a result your opinions don't matter. That is not Blair.
@Lola Voirin I think you're also using the word rant incorrectly. Perhaps you need to learn how to use words before you use them. Language should be literal, that way there would be zero misunderstanding.
@@carmen4479 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wow if people used your deranged vocabulary, they would be afraid to give a compliment cuz apparently to you a good word has a thousand bad meanings. Lola is right, selfless means simply not selfish. Not someone with no regard for themselves, what you described is a mental illness. Selfless = NOT selfish, no need to write essays about it and pretend to be wikipedia.
@@robertan.2491 This is the textbook definition of selfless: concerned MORE with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own; unselfish. So if you applied the first meaning without semantics, you'd have LESS consideration for your own needs and wishes. A selfless person would consider the need and wishes of even pedophiles/criminals/murderers above their own. Selfish is narrowly defined as this: (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. Kind is a more precise word to apply. It's in the middle of the spectrum. Selfish and selfless are words on the extreme ends of the spectrum. I've met selfless people, and they are extremely submissive in all situations, because when it comes to others, their needs do NOT matter.
@@carmen4479 oh please, pedophiles? Criminals? Murderers? A selfless person is not a deranged one and does not fulfill the needs of psychos. Selfless people are more concerned of other than themselves, when that person needs it more. If you wanted to go to a party, but your friend had her flight cancelled and there is no transport to go back home. Selfless person will choose her need instead and pick her up. If you had two sandwiches in your lunch box, and someone forgot to bring their own, you will offer one instead of eating both because her need is more severe. This is selfless, they dont just go around serving any lunatic who does not deserve it, they have common sense and are selective who to be selfless to.
She also forced a guy to come out on Instagram live by threatening him with a screenshot, I heard that he got kicked out of his house and ended up either crashing at a friend's place or in an apartment alone.
Alissa Petruskova It is literally illegal to be gay there. Outing someone is like wishing them dead. It’s really the worst thing you could do and it’s still bad to do that anywhere else in the world.
Sister, I'm a 55 year old gay man. I have always loved, and when needed, protected, my transsexual kindred. My beef is with the woke transgenders who say shit not dissimilar to what I heard from the religious right in my youth.
Bret, people like Blair and you are very much needed in these trouble times where "woke genderqueer" activism is turning into postmodern fascism and shutting down real progressivism.
Absolutely. I'm 30, I was raised in orthodoxy, and I know what it looks like. There's a big difference between, "We just want to live our lives in peace," and, "You must accept everything I come up with or face my wrath."
I'm not strictly gay, mind you, but I literally felt oppressed 40 years ago. By comparison, I just find the "woke" really, really annoying. I'm hardly going to ally myself with Trumpians, "Christians", and right-wingers because of that though. The enemies of your enemies are not necessarily your friends--sometimes they're even worse enemies.
Oh my god I am so happy. I am Moroccan and my best friend was a victim of his shitty outings, I am SO glad our voice was heard thank you so much for covering this!!!!!
This must've been so awful. I live in Morocco as well and I'm so scared for my gay friends even more than for myself. I truly hope everything will be alright for ur friend!
Let's just clear things up . Nothing is wrong with being gay , but you should respect the fact that in a Muslim country u have to respect their ethics . You're free to move out , nobody stops you . No cap
@@ismaeldaif4014 you should mind your business and let people live their lives. Nobody should have to move out of an entire country because of their sexuality. Now go about your business and keep these homophobic thoughts to yourself.
Blaire as a licensed mental health therapist, I love your channel and your courage to challenge others to get more informed. You do very well in demonstrating how a person can show respect and acceptance of others, whether your views align with theirs or not. I think your were on the right track that Sophia is broken on the inside and is lashing out at others because of it; which as you pointed out is no excuse to purposely damage the lives of others or put others at risk of harm. Again love your channel, respect and admiration your courage. I would love to see you speak in person, on a panel or just in conversation. Wishing you health and happiness!
She’s beyond Chris Hansen and actually attempting to do what he says he’s doing when he’s not really doing what he says he is. Chris is turning out to be a clout chaser who makes these investigations more difficult when he should be making them easier for law enforcement. I’m honestly so disappointed and I’m just glad that Blaire is actually attempting to do what Chris is failing to.
When she said two men killed themselves, I could feel tears in my eyes. It is more than sad. Perhaps because my brother killed himself over conflicted sexuality.
@@GreenSnapShot Thanks everyone for the kind words. It was years ago so I am fine. This person sickens me. What she is doing is evil. My heart goes out to the families and friends of those men.
Ari C yeah I wouldn’t even compare it to Morocco. Things are okay in Turkey when it comes to sexuality. People often judge but it’s not like they will go hunting for gay people.
@@arichalevas2298 Not really. Depends on where they are. There are many cities where people are openly walking around being gay or trans and there are other places where you can't do that.
Rob blaire didn’t clarify that she was famous in Morocco and not in Turkey she basically just said that she was from Turkey which is incorrect. Someone who’s not familiar with the language could easily assume that this entire thing happened in Turkey which would make the country seem worse than it normally is.
Antonia Tan. Thank you! You tube deleted it ugh. You’re very sweet I want my son to meet a nice girl like you in UK ha. He’d kill me for saying that he’s only 13 😂 haha but this is what mums do
@@GenericWhiteBitch1980 ohh well thats kind thank you! lol yesss it iss hahaa, i hateee how youtube is always deleting comments like that! That comment was funny too! lmao
Incredible? I think you mean common. The LGB and T really don't belong together. And it's not just the transwomen and gays either. My brother is FTM and doesn't like lesbians or gays much either and a bi friend we used to have didn't think much of him either. Not so much that they'd attempt to have each other killed or jailed like this imbecile but they certainly don't like each other or have much in common.
@@TessaBain the lgbt is about sexuality and gender. They do belong in the same place. Your brother and friend just have double-standards and aren't very logical(sorry).
@@TessaBain they both face oppression, that's the main principle here. how could you be trans and know how hard it is to even be accepted and then go and shit on and oppress those who are gay, bi, etc... it doesn't matter if one is a sexuality and one is based on gender, it's just how could you want others to suffer like you do?
SHE has a problem with someone living their life when she legit was born a man turned into a women...like you would think you would have more empathy then most considering the circumstances. Hypocrisy at its finest
Funny, seeing as how she probably identified as gay before realizing she was trans. Also, not to be petty, but her makeup looks ratchet, beauty influencer? Nawwww, how tragic
Not all transwomen are attracted to men. Some (actually the majority) of transwomen are lesbians. Also, some, like Contrapoints, change sexual orientation when transitioning.
@@user-tx9eg4tc8o In some cases a straight man who transitions to a woman can become attracted to men. The person does not consciously decide to change their sexual orientation. But a combination of hormones and the transwoman viewing trans-lesbianism as invalid can cause a transwoman to become straight. The condition is called "pseudo-bisexuality." The condition was more common in the past, when there was a larger stigma against homosexuality and trans lesbianism in particular. Contrapoints was pseudo-bisexual for a while, before realizing that she was still attracted to women.
@@blkgardner trans people arent a thing. "she" is really a he and he's a gay bottom. just like lesbians who transition to become "males" because theyre not feminine.
I feel and, I dont want to be disrespectful about this to any trans folk; but I feel, her transition was more of fear of being gay and out of disgust of herself rather than her suffering actual dysphoria. I don’t want to discredit her truth but thats how I see it and this is absolutely disgusting bro.
This is so sad. Not trying to generalize, but a lot of the people from the LGBTQ community are sometimes some of the most judgmental. Thanks for bringing light to this horrible situation Blaire!
Yes. In Iran they offer SRS as a treatment for homosexuality hence why they are the country with the second largest number of sex change surgeries. I don't know Islamic laws stance on gender non conforming? I think there is a hadith where Mohammed expels a Male living as a women so I would think they'd be against this too? Does anyone know? In general the idea of trans being related to or significantly more shocking than homosexuality is a western thing some otherwise homophobic countries recognise a third sex but not homosexuals, Pakistan and Bangladesh are examples and there are others but I don't remember and dont want to say something untrue
Just as a clarification, as far as I've understood she's actually Moroccan and she came to Turkey because of the LGBT issues in Morocco. It's absolutely disgusting to see how she could do these things to people when she moved to another country because of her position. This is absolutely being a hypocrite and a malicious person...
Very sad. She won't pull that bs off in morocco, she would be probably stoned to death infront of many people while she cries her eyes out. The fact she TOLD her viewers to do this is just so disgusting. Like i do not support LGBT but, it saddens me that gay men who just want to live their life get it ruined. Sure you can have different views on gay men or women, but its not okay to harm them and literally trying to get them arrested.
Yup, I was traveling the Mediterranean and a friend invited me to visit her in Morocco. I told her I didn't want to because being gay is illegal there. So she reassured me that gay *tourists* are fine. Which...kinda misses the point
@@HoudaOussous Well then I'm happy absolutely no one needs to drink alcohol. If a country bans alcohol consumption, their population will end up being much healthier than people everywhere else, so they should be applauded by that... People can't stop being gay though.
@@HoudaOussous nobody seems to stop Moroccans visiting the little shopping precinct where all the alcohol shops are north of the old city walls in Marrakech, they are the main customers.
I just want to thank you. As a straight person, you help me form a better perspective. I have experienced trans individuals that are offended when I ask questions, but all I want is a better understanding. So thank you for giving that, communication is key to fully understanding...
As a gay man that has been historically "transphobic" I also do not understand where my misplaced hate came from. I also want to say that Blaire has been so crucial to my understanding and love of trans people and want to so thanks so much Blaire.
Wells Hillblom thank you for being so open and honest and willing to listen and adapt. I wish more people were willing to understand like you have done
I’m totally straight & even I know about the weird gay men/MTF trans tensions. It’s super obvious if you know even a little about them/the community. Thanks for your perspective & giving us the scoop, as always.
Some trans women think that we are jealous of them. I like being male and the men I date likes me for me. Trans women dont live the same life. They still have to reveal a big secret to men . I dont 🤷♂️
@@benjaminreyes3624 Keyword: SOME trans women. Seriously though, like what blaire said.. Can everyone just get it together? No one's better than the other, you're just different.
I’m a 50+ year old mom who so enjoys doing my hair every Saturday while listening to one of your videos. I am still so impressed that even with how hateful her behaviors are, you still took a compassionate look at why she may have this agenda or behavior. You are a stellar example. Thank you for representing ♥️
I'm starting to speculate that she's using the trans label as a shield ' I get the 'I can't be homophobic if I'm part of the lgbt community amiright ;) '' vibes from her sick
I'm from morocco and i saw many of her live streams she's not a trans she said it many times in her lives she said that its only a fetish for her to have boobs and she ll remove them before she dies
just breaks my heart. I lost my boyfriend to suicide, and the person that caused it makes me rethink my views on how easily I should be able to get a gun. she should be in jail, she doesn't deserve to live in a world where its so easy to take away another persons life.
I am so so so sorry I cannot even imagine losing the love of my life. This comment even though saddening has showed me how I should love my partner more. Thank you and I am so sorry have an amazing life💗
The fact that she fled her own country (Morocco) and went to Turkey because she knew she would live more comfortably as a trans woman says everything...
I’m Syrian and the Middle East is horrifying in general, but especially for gays (and PoC tbh). The abuse, the constant threat of being actually murdered or tortured. It’s terrifying. The debates in America about bathrooms or pronouns are honestly laughable compared to what goes on in the Middle East. I don’t see stories of American gays being brutalized (and they shouldn’t be) in the last two decades. It’s called minding your own business. You don’t like something? Don’t like it and mind your own business....but in the Middle East? Run away as far as you can.
Yep. Us westerners have it so good that we need to start inventing our own problems like 100+ genders and change room/bathroom controversies. There are people who think misgendering equates to violence while people in foreign countries are killed and beaten for being gay.
Yeah! And I feel like America takes everything for granted. Im surprised because if they are real social justice warrior, they would care about issues like this! 0-o like their priorities are absurd!
Clearly, this is the sickest form of projection and gaslighting. They punish others to quell their own distorted sense of needing to be punished. Akin to ppl who were assaulted as children becoming child predators themsleves.
Hmmm... sounds like a friend I had years ago who started attacking African American women, white people and the gay community after a particularly bad break up with his girlfriend (a few of his former friends and I suspect that the breakup had him questioning his manhood after his ex started datingvacwhite guy) Willing to place bets on the fact that she probably has not been able to get in to a stable relationship with a guy who is "straight" (at least her oppinion on what that means). She probably has only been able to attract men who are not interested in her as a woman and has decided to take it out on the gay community as a whole. It really does sound like petty revenge and a personal vendetta.
This is what I've always said about the western LGBT movement. Yes, there are things that we can improve upon and change. BUT we are FAR from the worst, most oppressive place for the people that identify as LGBT! It belittles the struggles of those whose lives are LITERALLY at risk if ANYONE around them knows the truth.
I feel Sofia’s behavior is rooted and motivated by fear. Suppose she is a gay man in fear of being recognized, ridiculed and persecuted. What better way to disassociate from gay men than by projecting hatred and condemnation while portraying herself on the “opposite side”? This looks like an extreme case of trauma that is subconsciously operating in survival mode.
Let me explain for those who do not understand the dynamics between gay men and trans women. A lot of people see trans women as "a gay guy who has internalized homophobia" and prefer being seen as a straight woman in the eyes of the society. In Iran, conversion therapy for gay men is done by transitionning to trans women. As it will be seen as a straight couple if the individual is in a relationship with another man. This is why you have some movements like "LGBDroptheT" where the focus point is that LGB have different issues than trans people (gender vs sex). And as an ex muslim speaking arabic, what this person said in the video is 100% what the translation is. Unfortunately.
Yeah exactly a couple of trans are now expected in the middle eastern world, like the the Egyptian trans-man who is praised for being brave to correct his gender, while on the other hand gays and lesbians are viewed as disgusting, immoral creatures...but it’s not always black and white because alot of my trans friend in my country have it harder than me🤷🏽♂️
I am a bi girl in Morocco and trust me we live in horror. I can't do a coming out, I have asked my parents how will they react if their kid said they are gay they told me they will cut them off because it's disgusting so I just am unable to tell them that I like both woman and mans so when she did this I was disgusted by her like Sofia got young LGBTQ+ living in Morocco got kicked out of their home, beaten by their parents and arrested
@Lana Joy thank you for understanding I wish that my country mind set will change because for now I feel truly lonely and trapped so I always stay quiet anyway thanks for the support 😔❤️❤️
It’s just so embarrassing being a part of this community bc of the divide, sometimes we’re more hateful to each other than cis straight people it’s crazy
I've seen this animosity between the two groups before in the past in my personal life, and the way you summed and analyzed it in the vid around 6 in mark was so true
On the note of trans issues being treated WAY better in certain countries: Iran performs the second most sex changes after Thailand and that’s partially because Iranian gay men can get out of the death penalty by getting the snip
I liked the world so much better in 85, and it's so mind-blowing to me how in 20, when I just listen to so many transgender women speak, they sound so much more level-headed than just your common Joe or Mary. Speaks to how rotten society has become.
@@arsonhakobyan TERF stands for "trans exclusionary feminist" there group of radical feminists that have a pretty serious vendetta against trans women. MtF is just short hand for male to female, and O.O is just asccii shocked emoji from befor there were proper emojis.
@@BadgerGirl I can say why radical feminists (group I've always despised) would hate trans women. They hate men, hat anybody that likes men, have always been on a mission to eliminate femininity from the face of the Earth. Doesn't surprise me at all. Not one bit.
Thanks for shining a light on this! One of the first times I went to a gay club, people put me down because "bisexuality doesn't exist"... I was completely shocked, I'd assumed of any place that would be one where my sexuality was accepted and understood... Not put on blast by gay people. It was so strange! As well as enlightening...
Azalea Williams I’m not doubting that it is I’m just saying that I didn’t know about it. I’m from a pretty rural area so I don’t really know any other lgbt people.
I assume all this anger might stem from the fact that he felt like he couldn't live as the gay man he is, so he doesn't want for any other gay men to live freely and happily.
@@yournotsofriendlyneighborh2637 I can't know how the person feels but I can know how I perceive them. That is, as a male. I have no reason to call him a she. I'm sorry if this hurts you and I understand thinking that my perspective is wrong or unacceptable from your point of view. I may call a he a she if it's a person that I deeply care about and would never hurt despite what I believe, but this is not the case. I will not force myself to lie for such a horrible person. Also, we must take into consideration the fact that in that country gay men might actually feel pressured to transition (regardless of having or not any dysphoric feelings) because it's illegal to live as a gay man but it's legal to transition.
@@-jiyuujin- I respect you point of view. You calling them a she doesn't hurt me. However, I pointed it out because I'm tired of people acting like if a trans person is a bad person then they are not really trans. Rant aside, thank you for being so nice!
@@yournotsofriendlyneighborh2637 Has nothing to do with the validity of their trans-ness and everything to do with respect. Or lack thereof, in this case.
I am still learning about gender issues and the LGBTQ community. Blair was the best and most articulate representative of trans women. If it wasn't for her I would still be in the dark. She is in my opinion the best.
@@arturo165 I agree! She makes such good points for everything to do with the LGBTQ community. I mean I’m a lesbian so I can’t compare to a trans woman or man on how they feel but I still feel like she makes great points on it
I believe it is because how attractive she is after transitioning. Most trans people I have seen still resemble their gender they were born. Blaire looks like she was born a female and I think they are jealous of that so they hate on her.
@olly 76 Blaire is a he first off, but when it comes to this delusional behavior of transition, HE did more than most. HE got plastic surgery and filler which really isn’t part of the average transition. Most get top and/or bottom surgery and hormones, all the other things are purely cosmetic which is why HE looks like a SHE more than other delusional people who transition
I am glad you have such an posotive attitude. A friend of mine is from Pakistan but has lived in the UK most of her life, after she came out as a lesbian her entire family as well as hee local community disowned & shunned her. Years later she has one sister who phones her on her birthday & Christmas but refuses to discuss my friends sexuality or any intimate details about her life. My friend moved to a different city to start a new life but her father is well respected in both the Pakistani & Muslim communities, so rumours followed my friend to her new city. She has a better life & a few friends now but she can not excape the judgement & prejudice from others.
@@NotAnotherKuromi that is so sad. Unfortunately this is the reality. There are many people like me who dont shun gay people but we are afraid to speak up because of some people's mentalities. I hope your friend is doing well now
I'm from pakistan as well, don't support the idea of Homosexuality or gay marriages, but i do support the idea of "live and let live", infact, i have few gay and bi friends, and they clearly know that i don't like it, but they don't care if a like it or i don't, they have alot of qualities and similarities that makes us friend, so i can't just hate them just because one thing that i don't like about them.
Girl, I can feel the emotion coming from the sound of your voice... and even with all the emotion and heat, you push it aside and see what's really going on. I hope she learns to love herself so that she can spread love instead of the evil shit she's doing rn. Thanks for using your platform for good Blaire. ❤ And as always, my 8.5 month old son is squealing while I play your video bc he's also apparently a big fan. 😂
This person in Turkey is crude and cruel. Where do they get off feeling superior to gay men?! What a wicked thing they did! I know that in Iran, homosexual men, when they are “outed” often have to ‘consent’ to be castrated/have sex reassignment surgery to avoid being executed. These are gay men, not transsexuals! In the US & the UK, folks are all het up over pronouns, while in much of the world, gay people are afraid for their lives.
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Yeah... I don't like that she does that. I like the points she makes and topics she brings up and why she does, but that part of her videos, ever since she started doing it, it just comes across kinda grimy.
When she said that the debates they have in the Western world about the LGBTQ+ movement is so futile bcs of things like jailing smn for their orientation still happens in other parts of the world, I couldn't agree more, and not just on the LGBTQ+ topic. When I see what (some!) Western feminists rant about I just want them to travel to poor countries and see what women are going through there and what actually should be addressed.
The gay “concept” does not exist in most eastern and middle eastern countries. Even Japan a very advanced country portrays gay men only in a fantasy context as something unachievable therefore romantic or on the opposite side of the spectrum which can be viewed or experienced only as an extreme sexual desire or a fetish. In middle eastern countries there are the two sexes and no gender roles. There exists only a man and woman as portrayed in religion therefore someone who retains their masculine appearance is viewed by the public as a man. It is therefore a punishable act, a sin to be involved in sexual acts with another man. Being a trans woman on the other hand means that you have fully taken on the female role and you are expected from society to act and behave as a cis gender woman and that includes having sex with a man. This does not challenge public morals and beliefs which are strictly interwoven with religion that preaches god created man and woman in all their stereotypical and archetypical glory!
See when she is explaining how grindr works and distance of where gay men are, when she says '1 metre' it is said in a way that she is saying someone in her household is gay.. do you think she has so much build up hatred because she has caught her own bf or husband being gay? it sounds more personal to me.....
I think it's personal insecurities. There ain't nothing more personal than that. She had to have thought she was gay b4 transitioning, and now makes it a point to bash gay men to distance herself from them.
Rani A It’s illegal to be trans in quite a few countries as well. This bitch really thinks she can step all over gay men just because it’s legal for her to be transgender and it’s not legal for them.
when people say blaire has internalized transphobia it baffles me bc THIS is internalized transphobia, this woman is disgustingly hateful and is projecting her insecurities onto others.
Thank you, Blaire for bringing this to our attention! This HAS TO STOP!! WE ARE ALL EQUAL, REGARDLESS OF OUR GENDER OR ORIENTATION! #STOPGAYIMPRISONMENT
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I can speak Arabic and I saw her video and I would like to add more to that
1- Sofia is Moroccan herself “the irony” she left Morocco because she knew she would be jailed in her country
2- Sofia thinks that she is not transgender and that she just did gender correction ( we call it like that in Arabic) so she hate it when people say she is transgender
3- what has instigated this whole conversation is that in her live people were calling her transgender and she said I’m not instead of attacking me calling me something that I’m not search for these apps “the one she has mentioned ” you will find that your husband is the real F**** not me. So people went crazy downloading the apps were it went #1 app in the Middle East. It was then reported that one boy killed him self after his family found out he was also on that dating app for gays.
The thing is she got so hyped out as a lot of people started praising her for her act that now very much all her lives is about how to hunt a gay person.
There is similar account from Saudi Arabia who is doing the same thing and now all the LGBT community accounts in the Middle East has been deleted and he is threatening that he has something for them under his sleeves on 23 of May
What the hell, the last part. What kind of evil person plans something and then says "i will reveal everything on 23rd may", so crazy. I hope nothing happens to those people, their only "sin" is loving someone
Ana Chis it’s really scary people were begging him to stop he said I will only stop you y’all deleted your account a lot of them did but some of them started commenting under Hollywood celebrities post asking them for help. he got angry and then said I will delete my account and come back @ 23rd Of May with a big surprise for you. He put “remember 23rd on his bio” then today he deleted his account.
@@iamjia95 did the hollywood starts reply? And since he deleted his account does that mean nothing will happen on the 23rd? I hope nothing will happen to the men who used their app, who is that person to threaten those men like that? It's so disgusting!
Ana Chis his account was epicibra it was deleted by instagram then he comeback out with eepicibra now he deleted hisself and promised to comeback again. Literally even religious people are saying that what he is doing is wrong some of these people who he had exposed were teenagers this would destroy their lives no one is on his side with what he is doing. But he is also trending
Can you elaborate a little more on the gender correction/transgender thing? From her perspective having watched her videos, I mean. I don't speak the language or know the history.
If transgender people aren't doing gender correction then what do they consider it? How is it seen as different? A person who corrects their gender is transgender.. I'm having a bit of a hard time wrapping my head around how it's seen as so much above or different.
Outing people in general is disgusting g let alone doing it somewhere where it can get you killed or put in prison 😪 it's disgusting to do that to anyonen
smobworld okay , here’s a query .
After 20yrs , me and my daughter caught my partner being wth a man , and then finding out he had had bunk ups , and nights away wth men since I was pregnant 16 yrs before .
So his family are homophobic , he wanted to just carry on , which for the sake of my daughters last year at school , I gave it thought .however she didn’t want it , and I didn’t want to show her that you don’t settle for bad behaviour.
Luckily , I’m the nice one , I still have friends . However he wouldn’t fess up , he wanted to make out he’d fallen out of love and we’d just drifted , not that me n his daughter caught him coming back from having cock sucked .this wasn’t about homosexuality and being scared to come out . When we got together we were hippies , he could of told me anything . Literally 1st things my close friends said , yep they know .
My gay best friend had died of cancer in the previous six months , it had been stressful , but he always knew he could talk to me .
So you say it’s wrong to out him , why ? I’m not going to , because it’s the easy way out for him . But my son won’t talk to him , he calls my son selfish , my daughter asked him n said , I wouldn’t love u any less ,he called her ridiculous and to stop crying
A year later and were so close , my sons moved back in , my daughter and I are so close and she’s just amazing , strong , kind .Sadly , and the reason I kept quiet not even telling my mum about it wen I found out, I knew in my heart he was a selfish man , it was joked about , we balanced each other . His friends were mine , he didn’t have any , and I knew that the ‘balance ‘ was all me , and I knew that it would end wth him wth no friends , old in a community which can be fickle around looks n age -slapping about on Grindr .He didn’t have the ability to create any of the beauty we all have without him .
At that time I loved him , I hadn’t just fucked about wth anyone else , so the hardest part is falling out of love . I despised him (he doesn’t see his daughter).sad thing is she would have given him the sun and then forgive him for burning her wth it , but its been a year .she realises she doesn’t miss anything because he wasn’t there before . However ,even though I still think he’s spineless to not out himself , I don’t miss having to think about him .
This is not just about cheating , the gayness does play a role . At the time he made a difficult time even worse because I still protected him , while we struggled .
Obviously though this Sofia is a complete psychopath and I’ve just tried finding her utube site to express my fuckedoffedness
But was just triggered into , it’s not always black n white , sorry to ramble on , literally haven’t spoken about it , no one knows me here so I can .
@@jagomae. I'd say be mad at him for cheating. Man or woman cheating is wrong. You've every right to be mad about that. But outing him as gay or bi or whatever he is is still wrong. It's HIS sexuality not yours. You don't know how those around you may act at finding this out. It is not YOUR place to tell everyone about HIS sexuality. My parents don't know about me being gay even though they're not homophobic. I know they're not and yet I personally still feel uncomfortable to even being it up with them and I'm in my 20s now I've known about my sexuality for a long time. Regardless of my parents being homophobic or not if somebody, anybody told them, my brothers and my friends about my sexuality before I did I wouldn't forgive them. It's just wrong plain and simple.
That situation you mentioned does sound extremely difficult to go through and it is a complicated family relationship. He didn't respect you as a partner to not cheat on you so in that sense you can be mad about that and sure you can tell people "he cheated on me" all you want because that's really unfair to you. But when we're talking about disclosing his sexuality that's where the line gets drawn (for me, I'm not telling you what to do just what I would do)
smobworld thanks for your time and thoughts .Inherently I’m a firm believer of you do you boo attitude . I think that’s what angered me the most ,is he made me feel things and think things about gaymen(ironically) specifically ,don’t hate me ,but generally the promiscuity. My young friend at work showed me his Grindr, and I felt like a fucking nun . I’d always been so laid back ...now suddenly I saw it as predatory and grimy . But then I’m not a gay man , I’m older and I had just found out my best friend,partner in life chose to lie to me for nearly 2 decades so understandable - But I couldn’t get past that it was just sex ,not comfort ,not a relationship ,and I can’t get past that fact . I felt that a myriad of thoughts n feelings I’d developed about being yourself ,whatever parcel you come in ,enjoy it ,you don’t have to define urself and box yrself into any label -the situation filled me wth anger ,but not for that long ,as I said my relationship wth my kids is better than it ever was . you are right ,it’s ,and it’s because it’s up to him he will take the path of least resistance and I don’t want to hurt his parents ,even though he’s lied to them and we don’t speak . Thanks again for your experience ,and as a mum ,yr mum n dad will still love you ,you sound kind and eloquent .I expect they had something to do wth that -they probably won’t be surprised ,all the best wth all you do 💜
@@jagomae. That's quite a different situation from gratuitously outing someone. He very likely knew he was gay even before marriage, so he deceived you, cheated on you and potentially gave you diseases. That is unforgivable in every sense.
smobworld it’s unforgivable and juvenile to do that to people like that and think “religious cultural beliefs” are in the right
"Please educate yourself and get a little perspective about the lives of LGBT people in MOST of the world"
Say it louder for the people in the back Blairreeeeee 😩😩
Now make a shirt about it
(say it louder for queens on drag race)
it broke my heart when you said that 50-100 men have been outted, and then my heart died when you said two men committed suicide because of her. she deserves nothing but hate, that might be mean but i dont care, imagine if you were those two men, just imagine.
@Kevin Hewitt Wait, are you seriously defending Sophia?, i dont really have in high regard these men who get married and cheat on their wives with men because they are trying to deny being gay, but when you take into consideration the context of them being prosecuted and even killed just for being gay where they live, then you kinda understand the reason behind it, not that is fair for the women married to them or that im defending these men, but you cannot condemn someone for hiding who they are when the other option is to go to jail or being executed.
And after all, her comments affected 50-100 hundred men and forced 2 of them to commit suicide, when your actions incite violence and crime then you shoud be held accountable for that, is simple as that, it doesnt happen unfortunately in todays world, but it should, ppl are dead because of her, and is her responsibility.
@Kevin Hewitt I guess you totally ignored or muted the video when she said that Sophia fled Morocco because otherwise she would be prosecuted there, and told friends and women in general, who are from Morocco, to look on tinder and other apps to see whether their husbands are being unfaithful with other men, even though she totally understands the implications of being gay in Morocco, she started a witch hunt and ppl suffered because of that, 2 men died because of that, and no it didnt happen where she lives now, where you live as well, it happened in Morocco, a place where she no longer resides, otherwise she could have been executed, is like a jewish person who fled Germany during the Nazi regime and then when he arrived to the US (or any other country that doesnt discriminate/kill jews) he sends a letter to the nazis revealing the addresses of friends and ppl whom he know are jewish, what do you think is gonna happen next?
Kevin Hewitt It doesn’t matter what she loves or hates. What matter is she’s ripping lives apart. If she’s breaking up marriages, that just makes it even worse. She, or no one else, has any right to do that.
That fucker ruined lives. That's not mean of you to think that.
That's false
I think it’s also an important thing to mention, Grinder started shutting down new profiles in that area created after her video was released in an attempt to minimize the outting of their current users
thats actually really nice of them
Good on them
@@rani.andretti
Yeah definitely
That is kinda heartwarming. They do care. Good job grindr!
That’s so wonderful ❤️
This hurt a lot, seeing a person that is supposed to be a part of the same community as me trying to ruin other community members' live's is just sickening. What does she gain from this? The suicides were the worst part. Through her actions SHE KILLED 2 innocent people. Thank you for bringing attention to this issue, you're amazing.
Edit: I'm sorry for the confusion caused with my wording, I am not a part of the Trans community, I meant the LGBT community. I know each community is different and faces its own challenges.
The lgbt "community" is not a community so lets start there.
@@marckid93 what do you mean? I called it a community because thats what I've always heard it as. Regardless of what its called, we're still all people who experience a different sexual orientation or gender identity than the "norm"
Name can you elaborate
Whoooo
@@A129WOLFY She gains social validation from those in her country, probably money as well, also, it's 2 so far, more to come most likely and unfortunately.
SO GLAD someone with a big platform is FINALLY talking about this !
Nathaniel S ehay does the star by your name mean?
@@emilykubik115 they're a member of the channel lol
These western liberals won't talk about this because it's Islamophobic lol this shows the real face of Muslim countries
@@emilykubik115 it just means i'm a channel member! if u click "join" by the subscribe button it's kind of like patreon
Simp
Finally a western influencer talked about this issue we have in Morocco
yep, that’s why we need more influencers like Blaire
Blaire is the aunt that comes to the family reunion and calls out everyone’s bullshit. 👏🏻 you go girl 👏🏻
iSaac_oWens I feel this. Like, I don’t always agree but when she gets it right she gets it fucking right.
as someone who's originally from Morocco it breaks my heart to know that my country is so behind on the times when it comes to acceptance for LGBT folks, this person should be ashamed for what they are doing
Same here! She disgusts me. The poor kid that committed suicide because of her breaks my heart
//. ondine religion is just their excuse lol they don’t even follow the religion properly but when it comes to their homophobia they use it as a scapegoat
Agreed, unrelated but I love your K.K. pfp
this is exactly why we need sjw's, not for the western world, but for lgbtq people in societies where it's illegal to be gay. so far, a lot of countries have followed our example, but we need those people calling their representatives about putting sanctions on countries that have barbaric laws like these. that's the same reason we still need feminism, for fighting actively for the rights of women in other countries where there's fgm, child marriage, and places where it's basically illegal to be a woman, like KSA
sry, yt bug made double post, but usually when i delete one it deletes both so i won't risk it. sorry again
Sophia needs to be arrested for influencing the two suicides and purposely trying to harm.
@@alexisburrows3171 this!!
I think it might be considered manslaughter.
Who would do the arresting? Which is the crime in Morocco?
@@_XR40_ She doesn't live in Morocco so it would be very difficult to guess the judgement and if a judgement is possible
Arrested by who? Turkey doesn’t care.
I live in the same city as her. I can snatch her weave for you
it would be against the rules for me to tell you to go out and slap this person around. so I won't tell you to do that 😉
@@ElanMorin This person is inviting problems into her life that is best not done. Thanks blair for sharing this.
Snatch it 👏
I'm totallyyyy not okay with you doing that 😉 hehe
please do, go off ❤
She killed them. The two men. I feel sick.
How? Also besides that, this whole thing doesn't compute for me. She's trans but wants gay men get takes by the police, in a country where it's illegal to be gay. Where is her compassion?
The Black Baron well that’s exactly what I’m saying, what do you want me to explain? You get the point
KITILEE Arthouse she did kill them. They would still be alive if it wasn’t for her actions
Rebecca Yeeesss
The Black Baron She knew what she was doing, outing someone in a country like that, knowing that they could get in huge trouble and are most likely already depressed and anxious, is an act that underlines a risk of suicide. It’s obvious, she knew that as well. So yes, she indirectly or technically killed them. When you out 50-100 ppl you know their will be a certain percentage of suicide rates.
She got dumped for a guy and now she's pissed
No she was probably forced to transition despite being jist a gay man thats how it is in a lot of these islamic countries.
Are you sure?
@@blackarchon8778 she's from turkey thought that they didn't do that there?
@@OnerousEthic pretty sure
She is a he
9:07 "It was me and 12 gay men at a table."
My first thought was some kind of bizzarre take on the Last Supper with Blaire as Trans-Jesus and her 12 gay disciples.
I had that picture of that lady with the group of dudes behind a couch to her. *shrugs*
Blaire as a gay man, I would like to say thank you for talking openly about this weird kind of Trans/Gay tension that alot of people seem to have. It's very bizarre and I'm glad that I'm not the only one who has noticed this alot over the years. In regards to your awkward story, there are alot of gay men who are the worst about "mean girl" gossiping about people when they are in a group. I don't know what the fuck it is but I just have to leave sometimes when they start going full bitch mode on someone, like it was a 1950s house wife tea party.
As a Bisexual female I am sorry you have people like that who think that's okay. I don't understand the tension as I haven't been exposed to assholes like this. Like Blaire I'm compatibility with gay men as friends and don't understand why someone would feel that way about gay men. I would like to be more educated about the LGBT issues all over.
@@cherryblossom1460 Well there's a lot of tension between transsexuality and homosexuality, because the latter is about same-sex attraction and the former is about being uncomfortable with one's sex and wanting to change it to convincingly be like the opposite sex. Logically, this means that homosexuality and transseuxality are in conflict and can be mutually exclusive. If a gay man is not attracted to transwomen, is he a gay man? And if a gay man is attracted to transwomen, is he not gay? The definitions of what it means to be a man or woman and what it means to be a homosexual man or woman are thrown into a flux, which can have very serious consequences for women's rights and the rights of sexual minorities. It's very complicated.
I've never noticed any tension, this video is the first I'm hearing it and I'm gay lol. I guess I haven't interacted with a lot of trans ppl though I'm in the crossdressing community which you would think has a lot of trans ppl.
It honestly sounds like a man left her for another man and she is bitter💀
but Sofia is technically gay makes no sense
Mega Tron Umm. Maybe cuz gay men want men not men who look like women.
@@megatron222 Yeah but remember, a lot of people that are trans do not consider themselves to be gay. Not trying to argue either point, but saying.
Speculative Dude Reviews Yes but she grew up being a gay boy. She would have lived that way for a while before transitioning. Seems hypocritical.
And THAT'S the tea
My country isn’t the best about gay rights either (Turkey) but she, living in the comfort of Turkey doing stuff like this is legitimately revolting.
because he's a dengente
Damn, Turkish men are so gorgeous. Your profile picture proves it!
@Mustö Han I guess I will! 😂✊
@Jim Cornette I'm Filipino! Thanks, dude!
😲wow Ertan you are so gorgeous!
The amount of self-hatred it must take to be like this...
I wanna be Blaire’s friend! I love how reasonable, selfless, and elegant she is.
I do think we are using the word selfless incorrectly. To have zero self would make you identity-less. To care for people makes you kind and caring. Selfless people are dull because they have no idea as to what they like. They have no hobbies.they have no life. They live for others. Think of nuns. That's what selfless means. Your appearance doesn't matter, your dietary requirements do not matter. You don't matter. As a result your opinions don't matter.
That is not Blair.
@Lola Voirin I think you're also using the word rant incorrectly. Perhaps you need to learn how to use words before you use them.
Language should be literal, that way there would be zero misunderstanding.
@@carmen4479 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wow if people used your deranged vocabulary, they would be afraid to give a compliment cuz apparently to you a good word has a thousand bad meanings. Lola is right, selfless means simply not selfish. Not someone with no regard for themselves, what you described is a mental illness. Selfless = NOT selfish, no need to write essays about it and pretend to be wikipedia.
@@robertan.2491 This is the textbook definition of selfless: concerned MORE with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own; unselfish.
So if you applied the first meaning without semantics, you'd have LESS consideration for your own needs and wishes. A selfless person would consider the need and wishes of even pedophiles/criminals/murderers above their own.
Selfish is narrowly defined as this: (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.
Kind is a more precise word to apply. It's in the middle of the spectrum. Selfish and selfless are words on the extreme ends of the spectrum. I've met selfless people, and they are extremely submissive in all situations, because when it comes to others, their needs do NOT matter.
@@carmen4479 oh please, pedophiles? Criminals? Murderers? A selfless person is not a deranged one and does not fulfill the needs of psychos. Selfless people are more concerned of other than themselves, when that person needs it more. If you wanted to go to a party, but your friend had her flight cancelled and there is no transport to go back home. Selfless person will choose her need instead and pick her up. If you had two sandwiches in your lunch box, and someone forgot to bring their own, you will offer one instead of eating both because her need is more severe. This is selfless, they dont just go around serving any lunatic who does not deserve it, they have common sense and are selective who to be selfless to.
She also forced a guy to come out on Instagram live by threatening him with a screenshot, I heard that he got kicked out of his house and ended up either crashing at a friend's place or in an apartment alone.
Someome has to take the first step so... she just reavealed the thrut basically
@@alissapetruskova1084 it wasn't her place to do that. So...
@@alissapetruskova1084????
@C B you confused me with your mother
Alissa Petruskova It is literally illegal to be gay there. Outing someone is like wishing them dead. It’s really the worst thing you could do and it’s still bad to do that anywhere else in the world.
Sister, I'm a 55 year old gay man. I have always loved, and when needed, protected, my transsexual kindred. My beef is with the woke transgenders who say shit not dissimilar to what I heard from the religious right in my youth.
Bret, people like Blair and you are very much needed in these trouble times where "woke genderqueer" activism is turning into postmodern fascism and shutting down real progressivism.
Absolutely. I'm 30, I was raised in orthodoxy, and I know what it looks like. There's a big difference between, "We just want to live our lives in peace," and, "You must accept everything I come up with or face my wrath."
@@Beegeezy144 that's certainly what it feels like
I'm not strictly gay, mind you, but I literally felt oppressed 40 years ago. By comparison, I just find the "woke" really, really annoying. I'm hardly going to ally myself with Trumpians, "Christians", and right-wingers because of that though. The enemies of your enemies are not necessarily your friends--sometimes they're even worse enemies.
Exactly this kind of rightous attitude used to come from conservatives.
Oh my god I am so happy. I am Moroccan and my best friend was a victim of his shitty outings, I am SO glad our voice was heard thank you so much for covering this!!!!!
This must've been so awful. I live in Morocco as well and I'm so scared for my gay friends even more than for myself. I truly hope everything will be alright for ur friend!
@@lipshinee4734 it was awful he was so scared of his family finding out, he has a brother who would've literally killed him for it. It was terrible
@ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร it sucks I know
Let's just clear things up . Nothing is wrong with being gay , but you should respect the fact that in a Muslim country u have to respect their ethics . You're free to move out , nobody stops you . No cap
@@ismaeldaif4014 you should mind your business and let people live their lives. Nobody should have to move out of an entire country because of their sexuality. Now go about your business and keep these homophobic thoughts to yourself.
Blaire as a licensed mental health therapist, I love your channel and your courage to challenge others to get more informed. You do very well in demonstrating how a person can show respect and acceptance of others, whether your views align with theirs or not. I think your were on the right track that Sophia is broken on the inside and is lashing out at others because of it; which as you pointed out is no excuse to purposely damage the lives of others or put others at risk of harm. Again love your channel, respect and admiration your courage. I would love to see you speak in person, on a panel or just in conversation. Wishing you health and happiness!
Blaire is reaching Chris Hanson level.
Imagine if she like had a TV show like him too.
can we make this happen?? like a crossover with them two
She’s beyond Chris Hansen and actually attempting to do what he says he’s doing when he’s not really doing what he says he is. Chris is turning out to be a clout chaser who makes these investigations more difficult when he should be making them easier for law enforcement. I’m honestly so disappointed and I’m just glad that Blaire is actually attempting to do what Chris is failing to.
@@Roselyse exactly
@Al X. Andra wait, how did he help him?
When she said two men killed themselves, I could feel tears in my eyes. It is more than sad. Perhaps because my brother killed himself over conflicted sexuality.
May he rest in peace 💓
I am so sorry. My heart hurts for yours 💔. May he rest in peace.
I’m so sorry 😢
Brought me to tears too. So Sorry for your loss.
@@GreenSnapShot Thanks everyone for the kind words. It was years ago so I am fine. This person sickens me. What she is doing is evil. My heart goes out to the families and friends of those men.
She is morocan but living in istanbul for freedom.
Gays are in danger in Turkey too maybe not as much but they still are
Ari C yeah I wouldn’t even compare it to Morocco. Things are okay in Turkey when it comes to sexuality. People often judge but it’s not like they will go hunting for gay people.
@@arichalevas2298 Not really. Depends on where they are. There are many cities where people are openly walking around being gay or trans and there are other places where you can't do that.
Autumn Swanson, not really, I watched the video you linked, and it said similar things to what Blaire did, so why did you post it?
Rob blaire didn’t clarify that she was famous in Morocco and not in Turkey she basically just said that she was from Turkey which is incorrect. Someone who’s not familiar with the language could easily assume that this entire thing happened in Turkey which would make the country seem worse than it normally is.
sofias voice is deeper than my DADS
Sofia is gross and nasty in every way
@UCcvWHYrGXEOuzgvi7xHV-eQ LMAO OMG and thankk youu! yours is gorgeous tooo! your body shape so on pointt
Antonia Tan. Thank you! You tube deleted it ugh. You’re very sweet I want my son to meet a nice girl like you in UK ha. He’d kill me for saying that he’s only 13 😂 haha but this is what mums do
@@GenericWhiteBitch1980 ohh well thats kind thank you! lol yesss it iss hahaa, i hateee how youtube is always deleting comments like that! That comment was funny too! lmao
Shit her voice is deeper than mine I was like ,.... fuck now I feel self conscious
She obviously has internalized that feeling and is now putting it onto others.
gogo gigi it
Probably wants to feel powerful
I agree, Sofia is internalising and projecting.
“12 gay men and me at a table” first thought: Jesus Blaire and her disciples.
Now we need to know which one is Judas lol
Lol
@@pierrefritzberg1024 that would be Eden
The Last Tea
Internalized homophobia; It's one thing to have that within yourself, but to hurt and endanger other people because of it? Damn..
@Autumn Moonflower Seriously I feel like it's been that way for a while unfortunately.
I entered the video as a moroccan not knowing this was gonna be abt Sophia he is truly terrifying
imagine being trans and anti LGBT at the same time. Incredible.
Incredible? I think you mean common.
The LGB and T really don't belong together. And it's not just the transwomen and gays either. My brother is FTM and doesn't like lesbians or gays much either and a bi friend we used to have didn't think much of him either. Not so much that they'd attempt to have each other killed or jailed like this imbecile but they certainly don't like each other or have much in common.
@@TessaBain the lgbt is about sexuality and gender. They do belong in the same place. Your brother and friend just have double-standards and aren't very logical(sorry).
@@TessaBain they both face oppression, that's the main principle here. how could you be trans and know how hard it is to even be accepted and then go and shit on and oppress those who are gay, bi, etc... it doesn't matter if one is a sexuality and one is based on gender, it's just how could you want others to suffer like you do?
LGBT is a Communist political movement so I can see why people they try to include under their rule don’t want to be in there
@@zenzonerzz4789 Not all gay men want to be woman tho
SHE has a problem with someone living their life when she legit was born a man turned into a women...like you would think you would have more empathy then most considering the circumstances. Hypocrisy at its finest
Exactly!
Funny, seeing as how she probably identified as gay before realizing she was trans. Also, not to be petty, but her makeup looks ratchet, beauty influencer? Nawwww, how tragic
Not all transwomen are attracted to men. Some (actually the majority) of transwomen are lesbians. Also, some, like Contrapoints, change sexual orientation when transitioning.
@@blkgardner wait you don't change your sexuality,maybe just the label
@@user-tx9eg4tc8o In some cases a straight man who transitions to a woman can become attracted to men. The person does not consciously decide to change their sexual orientation. But a combination of hormones and the transwoman viewing trans-lesbianism as invalid can cause a transwoman to become straight. The condition is called "pseudo-bisexuality."
The condition was more common in the past, when there was a larger stigma against homosexuality and trans lesbianism in particular. Contrapoints was pseudo-bisexual for a while, before realizing that she was still attracted to women.
@@blkgardner trans people arent a thing. "she" is really a he and he's a gay bottom.
just like lesbians who transition to become "males" because theyre not feminine.
Jayla Ro Why?
I feel and, I dont want to be disrespectful about this to any trans folk; but I feel, her transition was more of fear of being gay and out of disgust of herself rather than her suffering actual dysphoria. I don’t want to discredit her truth but thats how I see it and this is absolutely disgusting bro.
This is so sad. Not trying to generalize, but a lot of the people from the LGBTQ community are sometimes some of the most judgmental. Thanks for bringing light to this horrible situation Blaire!
Agreed
Agreed
Lesbian here: agreed.
She even sound like a man
Bisexual here: agreed
Wait. What!? Did she wake up and forget she's trans!? Im so confused.
I think she woke up and thought "I'm gonna be a tumor today!"
Trans women are allowed gender reassignment surgeries in the Middle East and they’re a protected class.
They’re still mistreated but they’re a protected class
Yes. In Iran they offer SRS as a treatment for homosexuality hence why they are the country with the second largest number of sex change surgeries. I don't know Islamic laws stance on gender non conforming? I think there is a hadith where Mohammed expels a Male living as a women so I would think they'd be against this too? Does anyone know? In general the idea of trans being related to or significantly more shocking than homosexuality is a western thing some otherwise homophobic countries recognise a third sex but not homosexuals, Pakistan and Bangladesh are examples and there are others but I don't remember and dont want to say something untrue
It kinda seems like she was to play the role as a homophobic cis woman
Just as a clarification, as far as I've understood she's actually Moroccan and she came to Turkey because of the LGBT issues in Morocco.
It's absolutely disgusting to see how she could do these things to people when she moved to another country because of her position. This is absolutely being a hypocrite and a malicious person...
Yeah she is a Moroccan that moved to Turkey
Yeah she was speaking Arabic. How could she do this to her own people?!
Very sad. She won't pull that bs off in morocco, she would be probably stoned to death infront of many people while she cries her eyes out. The fact she TOLD her viewers to do this is just so disgusting. Like i do not support LGBT but, it saddens me that gay men who just want to live their life get it ruined. Sure you can have different views on gay men or women, but its not okay to harm them and literally trying to get them arrested.
Yep, I’m Turkish and her name isn’t turkish and she speaks arabic. Not Turkish, we don’t claim her.
A S hahahha lmao i’m half turkish!
When people and the media refuse to talk about this “it really feels like no one is fighting for anything that matters anymore”
How is she gonna call gay men dirty when she looks like Jessica Yaniv lmao
HEADSHOT!
Oof shots fired
Isn't he a gay guy tho??
F I N I S H H I M
worse than jessica yaniv*
Sounds like someone was rejected one too many times on Grindr
More like sounds like someone who's boyfriend cheated on her with a guy on grinder.
Probably cos gay men not attracted to people like Sofia most atleast.. and this Sofia bitch must be angry and confused
Yup, I was traveling the Mediterranean and a friend invited me to visit her in Morocco. I told her I didn't want to because being gay is illegal there. So she reassured me that gay *tourists* are fine. Which...kinda misses the point
It's like alcohol... The law allows it only for non moroccan people
@@HoudaOussous Well then I'm happy absolutely no one needs to drink alcohol. If a country bans alcohol consumption, their population will end up being much healthier than people everywhere else, so they should be applauded by that... People can't stop being gay though.
kiriraganna I think it’s religious tho
@@HoudaOussous nobody seems to stop Moroccans visiting the little shopping precinct where all the alcohol shops are north of the old city walls in Marrakech, they are the main customers.
@@robw7676 but they still arrest people for the same reason... Contradictions
I just want to thank you. As a straight person, you help me form a better perspective. I have experienced trans individuals that are offended when I ask questions, but all I want is a better understanding. So thank you for giving that, communication is key to fully understanding...
As a trans girl named Sofia (WITH THE SAME SPELLING) I feel the need to deeply apologize for this human stool sample
hahaha
Don't apologize, you yourself haven't done anything wrong. The actions of a jerk in another part of the world don't reflect on you, only your own do.
Don't be sorry, you didn't do anything wrong 💓💓
As a gay man that has been historically "transphobic" I also do not understand where my misplaced hate came from. I also want to say that Blaire has been so crucial to my understanding and love of trans people and want to so thanks so much Blaire.
Wells Hillblom thank you for being so open and honest and willing to listen and adapt. I wish more people were willing to understand like you have done
I’m totally straight & even I know about the weird gay men/MTF trans tensions. It’s super obvious if you know even a little about them/the community. Thanks for your perspective & giving us the scoop, as always.
Some trans women think that we are jealous of them. I like being male and the men I date likes me for me. Trans women dont live the same life. They still have to reveal a big secret to men . I dont 🤷♂️
Horror Fan MTF transmen
Did you mean transwomen?
Benny Boy you literally just proved her point.
@@benjaminreyes3624 Keyword: SOME trans women.
Seriously though, like what blaire said.. Can everyone just get it together?
No one's better than the other, you're just different.
Me too. There seems to be so much animosity amongst them when instead they should be working together.
she really reminds me of that time Mr. Garrison transitioned and hated gay men
Byzantium we love a Lana reference
@@carlipaige we stan a Lana fan 🧚♀️💞 but you do know that she didn't come up with the quote she just quoted it x
To be fair, Sophia passes about as well as Mr Garrison
I’m a 50+ year old mom who so enjoys doing my hair every Saturday while listening to one of your videos. I am still so impressed that even with how hateful her behaviors are, you still took a compassionate look at why she may have this agenda or behavior. You are a stellar example. Thank you for representing ♥️
I'm starting to speculate that she's using the trans label as a shield '
I get the 'I can't be homophobic if I'm part of the lgbt community amiright ;) '' vibes from her
sick
I'm from morocco and i saw many of her live streams she's not a trans she said it many times in her lives she said that its only a fetish for her to have boobs and she ll remove them before she dies
@@yousraelmoudni9954 Wow thanks for letting us know that! Also, that means you meant *his *he's *he *his *he *him *he *he...lol 😆
@@yousraelmoudni9954 thats discusting why transition for a fetish when real trans people suffer every day
@@moon-ml1yo "she is just a gay man"? Don't we mean he is a gay man lol
My heart breaks for these men. So, so sad.
When I heard Sophias voice I instantly said “woah dude chill” 😂😂
@Soltan Ber Wel Bhar stop coppying and pasting ur shitty asss comment thast dosent mean shit
Soltan Ber Wel Bhar the truth that she caused two deaths?!??? Ok buddy 😌
Kevin Hewitt she literally called them (f slur) losers.
Kevin Hewitt she literally called them faggots-
Kevin Hewitt You’re dumb 😂😂 she literally said your brother😂😂 are you married or dating your brother??
Why does this person want gay men to be incarcerated, while this person is trans. What, doesn't compute. Where's her compassion?
This comment is giving me so much dejavu wth my head hurts
Gone! Like her brain cells
Forget compassion, how is she not a target of people hating homosexuality, herself?
Apparently she doesnt hate gay men but hates closeted gay men who are married to women and cheat on them with men.
@@megrocks3026 no, she's bitter.... Gays don't often date trans.
just breaks my heart. I lost my boyfriend to suicide, and the person that caused it makes me rethink my views on how easily I should be able to get a gun. she should be in jail, she doesn't deserve to live in a world where its so easy to take away another persons life.
im so sorry for you loss, 🥺❤️
I am so so so sorry I cannot even imagine losing the love of my life. This comment even though saddening has showed me how I should love my partner more. Thank you and I am so sorry have an amazing life💗
The fact that she fled her own country (Morocco) and went to Turkey because she knew she would live more comfortably as a trans woman says everything...
Is this the only other transwoman who thinks and speaks exactly how I think and speak as a transwoman. Like wtf is going on
she's actually from morocco but lives in turkey
Kinda weird that Sofia’s mental asylum lets her make insta lives.
readyok What’s the skin overlay in ur pfp?
I’m Syrian and the Middle East is horrifying in general, but especially for gays (and PoC tbh). The abuse, the constant threat of being actually murdered or tortured. It’s terrifying. The debates in America about bathrooms or pronouns are honestly laughable compared to what goes on in the Middle East. I don’t see stories of American gays being brutalized (and they shouldn’t be) in the last two decades. It’s called minding your own business. You don’t like something? Don’t like it and mind your own business....but in the Middle East? Run away as far as you can.
Yep. Us westerners have it so good that we need to start inventing our own problems like 100+ genders and change room/bathroom controversies. There are people who think misgendering equates to violence while people in foreign countries are killed and beaten for being gay.
Yeah! And I feel like America takes everything for granted. Im surprised because if they are real social justice warrior, they would care about issues like this! 0-o like their priorities are absurd!
RJ Angus you can't be serious right? 0-o
Clearly, this is the sickest form of projection and gaslighting.
They punish others to quell their own distorted sense of needing to be punished.
Akin to ppl who were assaulted as children becoming child predators themsleves.
Hmmm... sounds like a friend I had years ago who started attacking African American women, white people and the gay community after a particularly bad break up with his girlfriend (a few of his former friends and I suspect that the breakup had him questioning his manhood after his ex started datingvacwhite guy)
Willing to place bets on the fact that she probably has not been able to get in to a stable relationship with a guy who is "straight" (at least her oppinion on what that means). She probably has only been able to attract men who are not interested in her as a woman and has decided to take it out on the gay community as a whole.
It really does sound like petty revenge and a personal vendetta.
Vacwhite guy? What does vac mean?
@@rosa9005 I was gonna ask the same thing! Lol...but i think u could be onto something tho wit this comment 4real!
@@804smiles I think its a typo
@@rosa9005 No, it's the verb "datingvacwhite" which means "performing oral sex to completion".
@@rosa9005 its a white guy
People want to complain about wedding cakes while this crap is happening
Well 2 issues can exist and the severity of one doesn’t take validity from the other issue.
@@angusrhoton7114 yes it does.
@@angusrhoton7114 Except one of them is closer to a non-issue, blown out of proportion.
This is what I've always said about the western LGBT movement. Yes, there are things that we can improve upon and change. BUT we are FAR from the worst, most oppressive place for the people that identify as LGBT! It belittles the struggles of those whose lives are LITERALLY at risk if ANYONE around them knows the truth.
I feel Sofia’s behavior is rooted and motivated by fear. Suppose she is a gay man in fear of being recognized, ridiculed and persecuted. What better way to disassociate from gay men than by projecting hatred and condemnation while portraying herself on the “opposite side”? This looks like an extreme case of trauma that is subconsciously operating in survival mode.
Let me explain for those who do not understand the dynamics between gay men and trans women.
A lot of people see trans women as "a gay guy who has internalized homophobia" and prefer being seen as a straight woman in the eyes of the society.
In Iran, conversion therapy for gay men is done by transitionning to trans women. As it will be seen as a straight couple if the individual is in a relationship with another man.
This is why you have some movements like "LGBDroptheT" where the focus point is that LGB have different issues than trans people (gender vs sex).
And as an ex muslim speaking arabic, what this person said in the video is 100% what the translation is. Unfortunately.
Yeah exactly a couple of trans are now expected in the middle eastern world, like the the Egyptian trans-man who is praised for being brave to correct his gender, while on the other hand gays and lesbians are viewed as disgusting, immoral creatures...but it’s not always black and white because alot of my trans friend in my country have it harder than me🤷🏽♂️
I am a bi girl in Morocco and trust me we live in horror. I can't do a coming out, I have asked my parents how will they react if their kid said they are gay they told me they will cut them off because it's disgusting so I just am unable to tell them that I like both woman and mans so when she did this I was disgusted by her like Sofia got young LGBTQ+ living in Morocco got kicked out of their home, beaten by their parents and arrested
@Lana Joy thank you for understanding I wish that my country mind set will change because for now I feel truly lonely and trapped so I always stay quiet anyway thanks for the support 😔❤️❤️
I am sorry for your situation, parents who cannot love their kids unconditionally really piss me off! I hope you can leave someday
@@petabulmer7345 I hope too, thanks for the support 😔❤️❤️
It’s just so embarrassing being a part of this community bc of the divide, sometimes we’re more hateful to each other than cis straight people it’s crazy
I've seen this animosity between the two groups before in the past in my personal life, and the way you summed and analyzed it in the vid around 6 in mark was so true
How on Earth is that a "beauty" guru... She barely looks like a person.
Christine oh wow thank you!! :D
Her voice sounds deeper than most mens 😂😂😂
On the note of trans issues being treated WAY better in certain countries: Iran performs the second most sex changes after Thailand and that’s partially because Iranian gay men can get out of the death penalty by getting the snip
😳
Horrible...
That sounds horrible
its not really a snip, more like inside out.
@@conyt6956 we all know. It’s a colloquialism. Not everyone got their account a month ago
Run for president as soon as you're old enough, please.
I liked the world so much better in 85, and it's so mind-blowing to me how in 20, when I just listen to so many transgender women speak, they sound so much more level-headed than just your common Joe or Mary. Speaks to how rotten society has become.
can you imagine the rage that would induce from TERF's that the first woman president was a MtF Right leaning trans person O.O
@@BadgerGirl What's "TERF", "MtF" & "O.O"?
@@arsonhakobyan TERF stands for "trans exclusionary feminist" there group of radical feminists that have a pretty serious vendetta against trans women. MtF is just short hand for male to female, and O.O is just asccii shocked emoji from befor there were proper emojis.
@@BadgerGirl I can say why radical feminists (group I've always despised) would hate trans women. They hate men, hat anybody that likes men, have always been on a mission to eliminate femininity from the face of the Earth. Doesn't surprise me at all. Not one bit.
Are we sure that she’s from Turkey ? The language she’s speaking and her name are not Turkish at all ?
Maybe an immigrant/refugee in Turkey?
She’s Moroccan, I recognized her accent
Apparently she’s Moroccan but just living in Turkey
I was just gonna say this!!!
She's originally from Morocco.
Blaire is so stunning.
and Brave.........
Literally, she's so gorgeous.
I love how her hair looks in this video
I’m from Morocco and I’m so glad someone as big as as Blair talked about this 😭😭😭
Thanks for shining a light on this! One of the first times I went to a gay club, people put me down because "bisexuality doesn't exist"... I was completely shocked, I'd assumed of any place that would be one where my sexuality was accepted and understood... Not put on blast by gay people. It was so strange! As well as enlightening...
Blaire: there’s tension between gay and trans women. | me a gay man: there iss???? Why wouldnt people support these queens??
Keith Awsumb gay guys that don’t like/don’t know you will be the first to spill your tea to everyone in a room
Fern Alderton uhhh 🤔 she didn’t say anything about Sophia
Modacious Lav I’m actually a dude.
Azalea Williams I’m not doubting that it is I’m just saying that I didn’t know about it. I’m from a pretty rural area so I don’t really know any other lgbt people.
I’ve also never heard of this, however in my area the LGBT community isn’t exactly huge and plenty LGBT are abandoning the local PRIDE group(s?) too.
Why wouldn’t she rather protect them?
I think it's a matter of self-hatred so she's projecting her self-hatred on others and punishing them for what she hates in herself
haven’t watched the video yet but *PERIODT*
freaking same
Same here
Oh my, I’m glad Blaire is talking about this. Also love the beach waves she has going on ❤️
I assume all this anger might stem from the fact that he felt like he couldn't live as the gay man he is, so he doesn't want for any other gay men to live freely and happily.
Why are you calling her a he?
@@yournotsofriendlyneighborh2637 I can't know how the person feels but I can know how I perceive them. That is, as a male. I have no reason to call him a she. I'm sorry if this hurts you and I understand thinking that my perspective is wrong or unacceptable from your point of view.
I may call a he a she if it's a person that I deeply care about and would never hurt despite what I believe, but this is not the case.
I will not force myself to lie for such a horrible person.
Also, we must take into consideration the fact that in that country gay men might actually feel pressured to transition (regardless of having or not any dysphoric feelings) because it's illegal to live as a gay man but it's legal to transition.
@@-jiyuujin- I respect you point of view. You calling them a she doesn't hurt me. However, I pointed it out because I'm tired of people acting like if a trans person is a bad person then they are not really trans. Rant aside, thank you for being so nice!
@@yournotsofriendlyneighborh2637 Because this piece of shit doesn't deserve proper pronouns, maybe?? Let's just say "IT" instead?
@@yournotsofriendlyneighborh2637 Has nothing to do with the validity of their trans-ness and everything to do with respect. Or lack thereof, in this case.
I’m just so confused of why so many people hate Blaire.
Right? Me too. Like, so many of her videos are so level headed, and the energy she puts out isn't snarky or annoying.
I am still learning about gender issues and the LGBTQ community. Blair was the best and most articulate representative of trans women. If it wasn't for her I would still be in the dark. She is in my opinion the best.
@@arturo165 I agree! She makes such good points for everything to do with the LGBTQ community. I mean I’m a lesbian so I can’t compare to a trans woman or man on how they feel but I still feel like she makes great points on it
I believe it is because how attractive she is after transitioning. Most trans people I have seen still resemble their gender they were born. Blaire looks like she was born a female and I think they are jealous of that so they hate on her.
@olly 76
Blaire is a he first off, but when it comes to this delusional behavior of transition, HE did more than most. HE got plastic surgery and filler which really isn’t part of the average transition. Most get top and/or bottom surgery and hormones, all the other things are purely cosmetic which is why HE looks like a SHE more than other delusional people who transition
another thing is that a lot of people act like LGBT people can't act nasty towards other's in the community when the toxicity is so rampant.
In the end, unity only goes so far.
This breaks my heart - these ppl just want to love and be loved - why would she feel the need to do this?
Im from pakistan and im always like, "live and let live" 😢 as long as they're not hurting anyone, i dont think it's anybody's business
I am glad you have such an posotive attitude. A friend of mine is from Pakistan but has lived in the UK most of her life, after she came out as a lesbian her entire family as well as hee local community disowned & shunned her.
Years later she has one sister who phones her on her birthday & Christmas but refuses to discuss my friends sexuality or any intimate details about her life. My friend moved to a different city to start a new life but her father is well respected in both the Pakistani & Muslim communities, so rumours followed my friend to her new city. She has a better life & a few friends now but she can not excape the judgement & prejudice from others.
@@NotAnotherKuromi that is so sad. Unfortunately this is the reality. There are many people like me who dont shun gay people but we are afraid to speak up because of some people's mentalities.
I hope your friend is doing well now
I'm from pakistan as well, don't support the idea of Homosexuality or gay marriages, but i do support the idea of "live and let live", infact, i have few gay and bi friends, and they clearly know that i don't like it, but they don't care if a like it or i don't, they have alot of qualities and similarities that makes us friend, so i can't just hate them just because one thing that i don't like about them.
As a Turk , I feel disgusted that she is living in turkey.
BittenBiscuit same girl, same.
Girl, I can feel the emotion coming from the sound of your voice... and even with all the emotion and heat, you push it aside and see what's really going on. I hope she learns to love herself so that she can spread love instead of the evil shit she's doing rn. Thanks for using your platform for good Blaire. ❤
And as always, my 8.5 month old son is squealing while I play your video bc he's also apparently a big fan. 😂
This person in Turkey is crude and cruel. Where do they get off feeling superior to gay men?! What a wicked thing they did!
I know that in Iran, homosexual men, when they are “outed” often have to ‘consent’ to be castrated/have sex reassignment surgery to avoid being executed. These are gay men, not transsexuals!
In the US & the UK, folks are all het up over pronouns, while in much of the world, gay people are afraid for their lives.
Blaire: I don’t have any friends so I need subscribers
Also Blaire: My friends, friends, my best friend
(Only joking I needed to inject some humor here to counteract how utterly disgusted I am by this story)
Yeah... I don't like that she does that.
I like the points she makes and topics she brings up and why she does, but that part of her videos, ever since she started doing it, it just comes across kinda grimy.
I think she means she can't be with her friends. She only started saying that since Corona.
what the hell kind of evil is this ......
This isn't regular evil, this is advanced evil.
Self hating evil 😊
Narcopathy.
I don't need to watch it to know that: You are right, they are wrong, and you deserve a like
@Mr. Grant alright..
that's a bit of a dangerous mindset to have.
@@minabew WOWOWWO Chill everyone. I'm not serious about it. Also I'm watching it just to double check, so faaaaaaar. My hunch was right
You dont need to watch that, its scary and horrid.
@@viktorgray7425 w h a t ?
When she said that the debates they have in the Western world about the LGBTQ+ movement is so futile bcs of things like jailing smn for their orientation still happens in other parts of the world, I couldn't agree more, and not just on the LGBTQ+ topic. When I see what (some!) Western feminists rant about I just want them to travel to poor countries and see what women are going through there and what actually should be addressed.
"it was me and twelve gay men"
blaire white out of context
Thank you for bringing this to light and invoking conversation about it. My son is gay, and I often worry about his safety.
The gay “concept” does not exist in most eastern and middle eastern countries. Even Japan a very advanced country portrays gay men only in a fantasy context as something unachievable therefore romantic or on the opposite side of the spectrum which can be viewed or experienced only as an extreme sexual desire or a fetish. In middle eastern countries there are the two sexes and no gender roles. There exists only a man and woman as portrayed in religion therefore someone who retains their masculine appearance is viewed by the public as a man. It is therefore a punishable act, a sin to be involved in sexual acts with another man. Being a trans woman on the other hand means that you have fully taken on the female role and you are expected from society to act and behave as a cis gender woman and that includes having sex with a man. This does not challenge public morals and beliefs which are strictly interwoven with religion that preaches god created man and woman in all their stereotypical and archetypical glory!
cant believe homophobia can come from someone from the same community
See when she is explaining how grindr works and distance of where gay men are, when she says '1 metre' it is said in a way that she is saying someone in her household is gay.. do you think she has so much build up hatred because she has caught her own bf or husband being gay? it sounds more personal to me.....
I think it's personal insecurities. There ain't nothing more personal than that. She had to have thought she was gay b4 transitioning, and now makes it a point to bash gay men to distance herself from them.
Rani A It’s illegal to be trans in quite a few countries as well. This bitch really thinks she can step all over gay men just because it’s legal for her to be transgender and it’s not legal for them.
would hit like, but you're at 69 likes, so you get a comment instead.
So shes a born male who likes males n calls traditionall gays for all this. Wheres the logic
In eliminating competition
when people say blaire has internalized transphobia it baffles me bc THIS is internalized transphobia, this woman is disgustingly hateful and is projecting her insecurities onto others.
Thank you, Blaire for bringing this to our attention! This HAS TO STOP!! WE ARE ALL EQUAL, REGARDLESS OF OUR GENDER OR ORIENTATION! #STOPGAYIMPRISONMENT