Richard George I mean, this sort of mindset is coming from the very same brainlets who say thing like “clothes don’t have a gender” so I’m not surprised tbh. 🤷🏽♀️ This is why we need people like Blaire, Rose of Dawn, and Arielle Scarcella.
@@kiko485 I agree entirely, but the media loves their shock factor. The media is going to tend to put the crazy SJW "autismgender, genderflux, nonbinary" people in the spotlight, not Blaire.
@@manta-ray1980 Women being accused of being trans for “cross dressing” is rare anyway because women wearing male clothes isn’t frowned upon nor is it ground breaking in western society. Women do it all the time. Now if you’re a guy wearing a dress or something, that’s another story. Will probably be called gay, or beat up, or have actual LGBT people trying to force an identity on you.
My hot take: Saying your trans and never experienced dysphoria is like saying I’m gay but I’ve never liked the same gender. Which if someone said that they’re gay and never have liked the gender would get lots of hate & backlash lol.
I remember in a time before marriage equality, making complaints about the LGBT community ignoring anything that had to do with trans people and was preaching the T should be dropped from the acronym. Mostly on the grounds that orientation and gender are two totally different concepts. However, once same sex couples were able to get married, all of a sudden trans people mattered, like the LGBT conglomerate needed a reason to continue existing. Though it's funny how TERFs started preaching the same thing a decade later but for a bigoted reason.
I'm a lesbian woman who dresses super masculine. So much so, that people will refer to me using male pronouns. I've run into people who ask me if I'm trans and who will say things like "are you sure you're not trans?" Yes! I am not dysphoric! I am comfortable being a "manly" woman. This doesnt mean I have another gender identity. Being a masculine woman is ok. Being a feminine man is ok. Those two things do not necessarily constitute a new gender identity.
I feel you! I wish I would've known sooner that it's ok to be an androgynous girl. I felt awkward for years, thinking there must be something wrong with me for dressing differently. Now I label myself as a tomboy/androgynous lesbian and I feel way better. Masc girls barely get any representation it sucks.
Preach girl. I personally don't really believe in the nonbinary (nothing against people who do) for that very reason. A masculine female isn't any less of a woman, just as a feminine male isn't any less of a man.
I am the hetero male version of yourself. YES, I really dislike how people insist you must be trans in denial, (usually stated by trans people) based on how one dresses, looks, and or acts.
THIS. I’m lesbian as well and while I don’t stray too far on either side of the femme/butch scale, I’m usually into more “manly” women, and I feel like the dating pool is slowly dwindling b/c all of them are identifying as trans now. I’m sure some of them are and they don’t mean any harm but... it kinda sucks.
This is already happening with he/him lesbians (men who call themselves lesbians) and lesbians that are married to guys, not girls, guys. but their lesbian identity is still "valid"
Annie Dominguez some lesbians or gays are married to the opposite gender because they didn’t know any better. There could also be a slew of other reasons
kenny If you identify with masculinity to the point where you need to call yourself He/him then.. You don’t identify as a woman. So you can’t be a lesbian.
@@PrunelleLeroux It wasn't done because they were so masculine they identified as a man(or didn't identify as a woman) it was because it was *unsafe* for people to know they were a lesbian so in order to safely date women and present masculinely they referred to themselves as a male. It was for safety, they didn't ACTUALLY identify as men.
kenny He/Him lesbians who go by that for safety reasons are valid and understandable. What is not valid nor understandable is lesbians exclusively going by he/him pronouns. Saying that pronouns do not equal gender (e.g. I’m a female but I only go by he/him) is an open alleyway for people to misconstrue the importance of pronouns. Recently, TERFs have been saying pronouns don’t equal gender therefore misgendering a transperson is okay. That is what saying “I use he/him but I’m a women” is causing. It is allowing more transphobia to arise whether intentionally or not. Pronouns were made for the reason to identify someone as a male, female, or otherwise. He/him pronouns are male pronouns for men, not masculine identifying woman/GNC women. She/her pronouns are female pronouns for females, not feminine identifying men/GNC men.
"Hi. I'm Shaneeqa. I was born with a girl penis. I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria. I'm also gay, but I'm only attracted to women...not that any of them are attracted to me."
Actually, hilariously enough, you can have depression without being sad. Depression can affect some people with anger only, as it is one of the many things it causes. You can have ADHD without being hyper too, by having a massive daydreaming problem and attention issues
I've been diagnosed actually, it's not exactly being sad all the time, it's mostly feeling alone and unfulfilled without necessarily meaning that you are alone. Like for me at least I am surrounded by some wonderful people in my life but once I get home my motivation to do even the most simple tasks is lost like I'm making a huge effort to even get myself to study for thirty minutes, I oftentimes don't take care of my body when I don't have to go outdoors and people always tell me to text them but I don't even want to go on my Instagram feed for two minutes. So basically I'm always at home feeling like doing nothing although knowing that I have to keep up with everything for my own well being. Also my sleep schedule is terrible because I experience sleep paralysis multiple times a night.
Imagine claiming that you don't need dysporia to be trans, threatening a trans woman of physical violence and misgendering her and thinking you're not transphobic lmao
Whenever I see people like the trender in the video it just makes me think "bro this is just a dude who likes dressing up in women's clothing and can't leave it at that because attaching gender identity to it is more woke and less creepy"
I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for trans people. I am fem af, but identify as androgynous with no plans of altering my gender, and people get MAD at me for it! I am constantly told I have internalized transphobia
In what way do you identify as androgynous? Just curious as when I was born in the 80s, androgynous fashion was all the rage and nobody was telling anyone wearing it that they need to change their sex. I guess my style could be labelled androgynous too as I just wear simple plain clothes that either men or women could wear, I'm boring like that.
in all seriousness, why is it when someone disagrees with blaire, their first move is to misgender her? like i don’t get how that makes their argument any more valid, it just makes them seem like a child.
I've had a girl litterally deny my race because I disagreed with judging black woman for their choices with their hair. The mindset is, if you don't agree with me obviously your not legit and therefore I can deny who you are
Especially when it often seems to be the same people who relentlessly bitch and moan about being misgendered themselves (and when they clearly haven't put the work into transitioning like Blaire has which just 🤷♀️🤦♀️). It doesn't make sense.
"Do you need gender dysphoria to be trans?" Yes. The answer is yes. Otherwise, you just like crossdressing. There's nothing wrong with that, but they're not the same thing. Not even close.
Yes omg. I'm a female who cross dresses and due to folks like this I was straight up confused about if I was trans. I'm not because I don't have body dysphoria....I just like a style of clothing!
@@andie5031 Right? I have a friend who isn't trans at all, but she prefers dressing male most of the time. There you go. I, on the other hand, am trans as *hell* but I don't have the guts to dress female a whole lot yet. Gotta let estrogen do more work first.
I hate people who say you don't need to have it to be trans you do there is some trans people who have less strength with their dysphoria then most people but you still need to have it
i don’t understand how this could possibly be a controversial idea. why would you put so much money, pain, and effort into changing your entire body and gender identity if you weren’t experiencing a motivator like gender dysphoria? it explains why so many non-dysphoric trans people don’t even try to pass-they don’t want to be seen as the gender they call themselves. it’s so bizarre that one end of the trans community suffers to be who they truly feel they are, while the other contorts their natural identity to be seen as unusual.
And danger. Plenty of people spend a lot of money and pain in like tattoos, piercings and other body mods. But like identity?nah. Trans isn't self expression like that.
it is very possible to be a drug addict without using drugs your whole life, far more possible than really being trans without being dysphoric. wanting to be a dragqueen doesn't make you trans.
Esp when they said 'from a distance' like bitch a pen, milkshake, none of that is something to use from distance so maybe don't tell us to 'use our imagination' unless ya want us imagining a flying pen like the fuck?
I love that you're respectful to all that watch! 💕 I'm not LGBTQ nor Trans, I'm just a straight Catholic girl. Even so- You still respect my beliefs without making me feel bad. You're my favorite creator! 💕
I also am a straight Catholic girl and I love Blaire! Even knowing she’s “trans”, She’s a woman, I accept her as a woman, and I wouldn’t think twice about it or he at all uncomfortable seeing her in the ladies room.
I'm Catholic too, but I'm part of the LGBT community. You're allowed to believe whatever you want. 😄 It's okay if we don't support the same thing and if we all did, this world would be very boring. That being said, I like Blaire a lot too! I like how she's not afraid to be assertive, values her own opinions without knocking others down, and can laugh off people who are hostile instead of getting scared of them. I wish I had that much confidence!
I met a girl last year who has been pretending to be on Testosterone for 3 years. Her voice has not changed a bit, she posts T updates with literally no physical change. There are absolutely people out there who use the trans label for attention.
@@emilian7052 What bothers me the most is that people enable it. Usually she posts "it's my t anniversary :)))" on a certain date and every one just falls for it and sucks up. It's very sad, yes
You can be a masculine woman without being a man. You can be a feminine man without being a woman. Gender expression isn't the same thing as gender identity, welcome to 7th grade Health class
You can't be non-binary and be lesbian. Non-binary is no gender and lesbian is a girl who likes girls. How does that make sense? If you are lesbian you are a girl. Idk I don't get it and I'm Lesbian.
Yep that's right and I think alot of these so called trans that put no effort beside dying there hair and a lil makeup are just loving being labelled trans and getting the attention of either being a woman or a trans . When my mates dresses in drag and gets all done up you can't tell but it takes him a good couple of hrs he live getting the attention from men a woman might get and gets flirty ASF but it's just having fun. It's not he's identity and alot of these teams at the end of the day are just cross dressing with long hair and a lil make up...
@@shanebeckett3557 But Vera is not only make up and long hair. She is on testosterone, she had physical changes in her body. She IS genderfluid, so sometimes she tends to be more masculine and she still has her male genitals, but it's not fair to her to just put her in the crossdressing group, knowing that her transition was more than just pink hair and make up. I agree is more complicated, because it's not a full transition. But I think is something else than just crossdressing. This is a part of her identity
People who were cross dressing as part of everyday life used to be transvestites. No surgery - transvestite. Surgery - transgender. Was easy to tell the difference because the words hadn't lost their meaning into the void of the politically correct.
It's a big part of it; but she's also based af and doesn't get swayed by peer pressure at all. Seems like a lot of people in the "gender" world really resent individuals who don't cave to peer pressure and shaming - the fact that Blair is also super hot is like the icing on the cake.
Thats half of it... I think it goes beyond looks, but also jealously of the fact she has self worth and esteem. Which clearly, these haters are lacking.
Imagine having a kid and thinking you are raising them right (respectful, polite, civil) only for them to show their butt on the internet ONLY because that person is "prettier". I never understood teasing, or bullying someone for that reason (for any reason) I would lay into my kids rear hard!
Lmao. Same~ she is such a queen. Though, I must admit. There is only one time I didn't refer to them as their preferred pronounce. And it's because he was tricked into going transitioning and I don't condone enabling their delusions. (I am referring to Chris Chan also, him trying to get into LBGT and going after Lesbian coochie is what sets me off)
AshShuRee using people's preferred pronouns doesn't make you an icon, it makes you a decent person. respect people's pronouns whether you agree with them or not
Me too! shes an idol of mine. I dont usually give a fuck about celebrities but i love how she carries herself. Shes smart with a very sharp, purposeful anger about her. i love it !♡♡
Natatatatatat Like if you have say alzheimers and u take alzheimers meds, thats okay. In fact, its good. However if someone who doesnt have alzheimers takes alzheimers meds, they will give themselves heart conditions, etc. Being trans is the same way because transitioning is how you treat dysphoria. If you transition without dysphoria you will literally give yourself dysphoria.
@Grayson Land Sure but different causes can result in the same effect. Just because everyone with gender dysphoria is trans, does not automatically mean that everyone who is trans has gender dysphoria.
Another reason that transitioning is a big deal is that Disphoria isn't just a symptom of being transexual, it can be a symptom of many mental, physical, and psychological disorders. People need to be evaluated for things like dysmorphia first , eating disorders, untapped trauma, DID, BPD, and many other things that can cause gender or body dysphoria. This is why establishing that Gender dysphoria is a necessary symptom for being trans, people are either making mistakes they know they might regret, or they have that one disorder where they want to believe they have mental and physical disorders for attention or validity of self and it's sad and scary.
@@Clara-zr7bt Actually cholinesterase inhibitors for example (medication used for Alzheimer's) has other uses. It's not that uncommon for medication to have multiple applications. So why could transition not be a treatment for other uses? Playing devils advocate here b.t.w. Just following along with your analogy.
All of the transexual people that I’ve met have just wanted to live their life in peace and pass, these people don’t want to live in peace they want everyone to cater to them, they want to be spectacles for public conversations.
For a while I considered myself to be a trans man, but I knew it couldn’t be true because I enjoy my female body. I then realized that the problem was that I wanted to be seen as a social male, someone stereotypically strong and masculine. My problem rested in the outside perception of “women can’t me masculine” and “men can’t be feminine”, not my own brain. I think there’s a big difference between actual dysphoria and feeling like you don’t fit a social category. Why are these SJWs now fighting so hard for societal norms and gender roles???
@@lana.pat1308 I think we let people express themselves or we used to at least. But then came intersectional feminism and the need to put labels and the progressives transformed into regressives because nothing was good enough since we suddenly need labels for activism and the world isn't perfect and people are not perfect and God forbid a single soul ever feels anything bad like lonely, sad, rejection, offense... I mean, nobody should ever feel anything like that, and if they do it's the society and the patriarchy and bigotry to blame and these things can get eradicated! Yes, all bad things can be made to disappear... Their world view is so strange, like they're all 4 year olds. So yes, we should let people express themselves. We should let go of the boxes and the labels and we should also accept that life has ups and downs and bad things do happen but also good things... Why am I ranting here? I don't know. Sorry :)
niassera We used to let people express themselves? When? As far as I know this is pretty new to be as free as we are. Or maybe it was like 2000 years ago but if you look at the last centuries expressing yourself freely like we do now was definitely not a thing in many countries. My mother often told me how she sneaked a pair of jeans and secretly wore it since women weren’t allowed to wear pants. I’m glad I grew up in a time where I have the freedom to wear pants. Also not every label is bad. Words that describe something are necessary and can help people a lot to realize who they are. The human brain always labels everything that is simply how we are. The problem is the way people handle these labels. I agree with your general statement though.
The problem with trans trenders is that they themsleves are sexist. As you stated (or I could be misinterpreting). Their perception of a female is x y z. If a male acts x y z, they are female. Or gay. Their perception of a male is a b c. So if a a female acts a b c, they are male. Or lesbian. Which goes against the very thing they are advocating against. This is so not true. They are saying females can ONLY be this. That males can ONLY be that, not realising that (and in of itself gender fluid is confusing this more) you can be female AND masculine (and be straight), you can be male AND feminine (and be straight), this doesn't make you trans. I am not trans, I am female, I want to be female, but I like "male" stuff. But that is just trivial things that are not gender! Sports is not a gender so it's not A "male-only" activity. Makes want to feel pretty, it's not A "female-only" thing. This is what they are confusing and confusing young and impressionable people who are just feminine males or masculine females, but they are pushing that you are trans which is not true! Gender-disphoria has to be that dividing line, other wise we have a whole generation who doesn't know who they are, are constantly having an identity crisis and are constantly unhappy. (Like we do now). These tran-trenders are not happy people. They act like thry are happy, but they are quick to anger, quick to throw words, and quick to cry. Confident people are not quick to anger, quick to cry, quick to throw words, they are zen.
@SKY *-* The difference is like the difference between a man crossdressing for fun, for fashion, or for erotic purposes (gender expression) and a biological male who experiences a genuine mental illness known as “gender dysphoria” and has a compulsive need to live as a woman (gender identity).
How TF can you flick between male and female "Even during the day?" Like I'm a man, and I really like going in to the Body Shop and smelling all the nice smelling things, and trying all the skin creams and shit, even though I NEVER buy or wear skin cream etc. I just like doing it now and then. Now that's a stereotypically female thing to do. Does this mean I'm non-binary?
Enjoying something traditionally seen as fem or masc occasionally is not genderfluid. As someone who does Identify with genderfluidity but not necessarily considering myself trans, I'll try to explain it as clearly as I can. So, I have days where I am comfortable in my birth gender and I am ok with being called by my birth name and the associated pronouns. But there are some days where I can hardly look at myself in the mirror when changing because I can't stand to see the parts of myself that are associated with my birth gender. Some days it makes me incredibly uncomfortable to hear people use feminine pronouns and terms in reference to me, because on that day, I might be more masculine leaning. Some days I wish I had a packer and a binder, while others I am very much comfortable and happy with my body. Basically, my dysphoria and internal thoughts on my gender often shift, usually gradually, sometimes suddenly. I hope this explanation was clear enough.
B9y, It seems like you just like scents. 🤷🏼 Scents and lotions are are from of self care (DBT) they are relaxing. They (scents) also are an important part of memory formation and recall, and have links to sexual attraction - (search for "pumpkin smell sexual"). There is actually erectile tissue in the nose (some people actually sneeze when they orgasm - things you learn from reading rom-com books 😂). I don't get why it'd be an issue tbh.
That’s what I will never understand about “non binary” / “gender fluid”. I just don’t believe you can “feel” you can flip like that. Especially doesn’t help their case when all they’re doing is being a feminine stereotype. That’s just clothes. Blaire said it herself that she’ll wear sweats & whatever too, not just the clothes we see her wear.
One of my best friends in highschool transitioned when she was in grade 10. She had to change schools because of the bullying and hate. She got hate for not passing, she got hate for passing 'too well' because straight boys were upset, she got hate for coming out of the closet as a lesbian. Her new school treated her (mildly) better, but she was struggling much harder pre-transition. She went from low, sometimes failing grades, to honour roll status, and now she's a municipal politician in my home town. A lot of the same people who bullied her in grade ten, (2011) became "trans" in 2016 when it was "cool" to be gender non-conforming. None of them are currently trans, none of them did anything beyond occasional cross dressing, if that. It broke my heart honestly.
Aren’t these the same people that claim makeup/clothing have no gender? So why all of a sudden does changing your clothing and putting makeup on make you a totally different gender/trans? Make it make sense.
@@haydenjones5861 in that sense women shouldn't be allowed to wear trousers. Or is a cis girl suddenly a man for wearing jeans? I mean, apparently clothes have a gender..
@@fredericabernkastel8354 clothing definitely doesn't have a gender but i think when people say it's put in different gender/sex categories it's because of how the clothes are tailored women and teen girl clothing are tailored to the female body and men and teen boy clothing are tailored to the male body, the clothing that isn't categorised in both would be unisex
Minty Why? That’s sort of like calling someone Micheal instead of Mike because that’s what it says on their birth certificate. It’s generally more respectful and kind to refer to people the way they prefer, regardless of whether you like / agree with it :)
yes!! Thanks you Blaire!! i am 40 yo gay man and i like to crossdressing when i am going to clubbing and i do a good job crossdressing that people think i am trans but i do correcting all the time because i dont have dysphoria. i have found a lot of crossdressers they do transition because they want the attention but not because they have dysphoria. Thank you Blaire !
I love how these people act like Blaire is invalidating trans people but they’re the ones suggesting that throwing on a wig and lipstick makes them a woman and making the entire journey of actual trans people seem like a joke..
Not only that but as a woman it's kind of offensive that they think you need to have hair and makeup like that to be a woman. There is so much more then just how you look and its very annoying to see these people act like this.
bedtimeat8 It’s not policing people, and nobody’s saying they can’t live how they want, but it doesn’t make them the other gender. You guys act like saying “you’re not trans” means “you’re not a valid person with valid feelings and experiences and you can’t live how you want or express yourself how you want”. No. It means you’re not the medical, scientific, factual definition of what being transgender and having actual gender dysphoria is.
I feel like people forget that tomboys exist and feminine men exist. It's like if you don't fit into this box of what men and women stereotypically are, you must be trans which is not the case. It's also kind of ironic that these same people will talk about how they hate gender roles, but decide if someone is trans or not based on whether or not they fit into these little boxes. I personally used to think I was trans, I questioned it on and off for years. But recently I came to the conclusion that I am just a lesbian (a butch one at that). I also talked a lot with a couple of friends about my feelings of being trans and one of them told me that we don't have to fit into these boxes of what men and women are "supposed" to be. It really helped me, honestly. I'm not sure if anything I said make sense, but I hope my point still gets across.
I grew up as a big tomboy I still am at 24, but I also really like to dress pretty and girly. This doesn't make me trans or whatever this gender fluid is or even gay! I'm a female. I know I am I just like to do my hair and dress in skirts but loves to hunt, go fishing and muscle cars and video games. What ever happened to masculine women or women that just like different things? This whole trans thing has put everyone in a spin. You can't just be like what I mentioned above you gotta be trans now because you're different. It irritates me to the core. On a side note as well being a lesbian seems to be fading out of the LGBT community. Just IMO. I never hear about lesbians anymore its either gay bi or trans and non binary. It's like they threw the lesbians under the rug. And I think it's because it goes against the "communities" new beliefs. Yes girls can be girls but like girls without being trans or such. But not to the "community" you not only gotta hate straight guys but also anything feminine now too. That probably doeant makes sense and requires more info but I'm on my phone typing this 😂
It's like some groups of the alphabet soup people are desperate for more people to be included in their special little group. I'm a bisexual tomboy. I am NOT trans anything! I've gotten into arguments with people that tomboy/femboys is the exact same thing as "gender fluid" since some times we're more feminine/masculine then others.
@@Meleena2218 I agree, bisexuality is the most common sexuality among lgbt I believe which is fine and all, but there really aren't a lot of lesbians. There's a lot of trans men though, I've noticed. I'm in some lgbt groups online and younger people will talk about how they're questioning if they're trans, but then they just describe being a tomboy. It's okay to question, but you really don't need to be like, hyperfeminine to be a girl and it seems like people forget that.
If someone likes dressing like the opposite sex but isn't dysphoric, why don't they just call themselves cross dressers? Whatever happened to that?! There's nothing wrong with saying "I'm a cross dresser"...if being lgbt is no longer taboo than why isn't cross dressing?!
Oh dear Drink Your Nail Polish... Have you not heard? By transtrender rules the umbrella for trans has expanded and now they are saying genderfluid, crossdressers, drag queens, and femboys are all trangenders. Going so far as to call femboys transphobic because they say they aren't trans. This is our world now, constantly being told by this group or another what we are by their own standards. I don't wanna fit inside a box!! Can't I be a bio female who likes pastels and kickboxing?!😭😭
They want to brag about the battle, but they don’t want the scars. It’s like saying You can be a gay (homosexual) without having sexual or romantic attraction to the same sex
You can disrespect someone and still hold an opinion about them .. That's usually why you don't respect them ... It's childish but it's how most people act at some point or another ...
Oh it couldn't be easier. 1. Define a group that it's okay to inflict violence upon, and why. 2. Dehumanize those who fit the criteria of that predefined group. (Comparing them to animals or objects would be best. But reducing them to greatest hits ideology sound bytes, or linking them to unfavorable symbols is okay too.) 3. Seek to continually and marginally widen the scope of said criteria until the one you wish to harm fits into the violence-approved category. Follow my easy three step program, and presto-change-o you magically transform from a violent psychopath into a cultural hero!
I love how you break everything down. I am a heterosexual female. But I am watching your videos to help learn about others because i am ignorant right now on the subject because I have never opened myself up to it. Love you Blaire!
Isnt that the entire premise? Conform to my beliefs or you are *insert negative belief about a certain group or minority here*. You cant force me to respect your made-up pronouns by calling me disrespectful and an "ignorant cishet". I dont believe in 1000 genders so i wont pretend like there are 1000 genders. I will however respect the pronouns of people like Blaire White because i respect her. So if someone is gonna respond by calling me a bigot, so be it. I have loads of LGBT friends so your false judgement doesnt affect me
Mr Diamond dude I was saying that sarcastically, making fun of the people in the video. I agree 100% with everything you just said. The PC police ruin everything
"I could take her out in an instant." "It would be my pleasure to erase this trash from Earth." "What makes you think I mean kill her? What I said could mean a lot of things." Imagine wanting to kill someone for having a differing opinion than you. That's actually psychotic and this person needs police intervention immediately for even saying these things.
@@Juliebel177 Its kind of a shame really. "Vera" ss from a channel called council of geeks and I used to like his content. I dont know if he changed or if he is only now saying his opinions.
Imagine it. All these men dressed as women saying they are trans haven't done 10% of the work Blaire has done to become a woman, yet have the balls (hehe) to claim Blaire, who actually looks like a woman, is doing it for attention. The difference, when I first saw Blaire, I thought she was a woman. When I first see them, I immediately know they are men dressed as women. Edit: It's OK to be a cross dresser. There is NOTHING wrong with dressing up like a woman to make yourself feel good. But don't call yourself trans, when you are clearly not, then attack others for doing it better than you.
@JW McCabe Agreed. I'm a delivery driver. I spent at least 4-6 hours a day alone in my car and I use that time to talk out loud and deal with my current financial or person problems. Doesn't mean I'm gonna go on meds. I'm the "one of the guys" chick because I grew up with all boys and liked video games and legos and played in the dirt and mud, collected bugs and lizards. Back then it was called "Tom Boy". Thank God I was born back then or I'd probably be some poor 5 year old little girl forced to be a boy by stupid parents.
@@kennethcouncillor6713 If it wasn't a competition to them, they wouldn't be using their platform to put Blaire down for having different ideas. Do you even watch the videos? Did you not read the death threats? The hate comments? It is a competition to them. It isn't to you or me, because it doesn't directly affect us. Take a step back and REALLY look at the difference between REAL trans women and cross dressers, then see which group is more aggressive towards to other.
When I was younger, I met both a trans woman, and a man that was a drag queen (this particular drag queen was a straight male as well). One truly felt like they were a female and needed to look, act and dress that way all the time; the other spent most of his time dressing and acting "male", but felt happiness and comfort when he cross dressed. I'm not a expert on anything, This is just people I knew and how they talked about things with me.
It's pretty standard all the way through, like how blair said 'how is the rest of the world going to take us all seriously if we cant even figure our own stuff out?' most of the community IS trying to get their own stuff sorted and properly labelled, I imagine it must be frustrating for people to come in and say things that contradict what the majority has been gunning for. The cross dressers I know fight to stop people from assuming they are trans and/or queer, a lot of trans people have to fight just to be taken seriously at all, sometimes they get assumed to be cross dressers instead, my gender non confirming friends all want people to stop thinking they are trans. "It's not cross dressing if I'm not explicitly trying to wear clothing specifically because it's for the opposite gender. I'm just wearing clothes." There's a difference between personality traits, fashion preferences and indifference to societal norms, & sexuality and health, and trying to blur the lines isn't helping anyone.
So despite not being an expert, it seems like the people you met were very open and honest about how they feel and gave you good insight about the differences.
It's when most of them take the extreme image of a woman, take Picasso and food colouring and crayons and go "bam" I'm a woman because I coloured my face to look like a panto dame
I'm willing to bet its just a classic case of man with weird fetish likes dressing up as a woman but that that's weird and you don't get any woke points for that
That's what made me Sub to her in the first place. I seen my first vid of hers last year and She is straight to the point, Doesnt beat around the Bush and goes straight into a discussion about the topic of her videos.
@Scoobi Hu That's getting off on your own gender ( which btw , wouldn't trans women prefer themselves as women in a sexual context or is that a problematic perspective ? )
@Scoobi Hu either way , where does it come in with this comment thread ? "Usually found in males" is that part really needed or is that just a way to pin something onto the general male population ?
@@kaczucha3able yup. I use to think that since I liked women, I must've been a man inside. Then I accepted that being gay was okay. And I'm like... woah. I really considered being a guy 🤔
@@holidaytrout5174 I meant if you are a woman who likes cars youre not a male just because you like cars, that's obvious, i didnt want to write too much and complicate the sentence since its my third language and complicating comes easy to me. But I thought everyone got the point.
Yes, folk have become so progressive that they’re regressive and being a sensible, sane person who uses science somehow means you’re a “radical”. I hate 2020, so fucking much.
@@angelexperiment1698 The people that claim to be trans without gender disphoria are the ones that give ammo to transphobes. I do agree with letting people express themselves but many of these people take it too far.
I don’t really care why someone is trans, I’m not trans so I don’t really have a stake in this argument. What I DO hate though, is thinking you can threaten someone in any way because you don’t agree with them. “I can take her out from a distance. I’d take pleasure in it.” What the fuck is that shit?
Yeah like wtf. That's toxic and not okay. Why can't we just live together in harmony. We CAN disagree. We CAN dislike eachother. But that doesn't mean you can threaten someone's life for it. Go to therapy.
Oh, for sure! I totally AGREE that you can be trans without dysphoria, and it's STILL terrible to threaten someone like that! Frankly, it doesn't matter what you believe at that point. :/
@@red_calla_lily I would comment about how terribly sexist and transphobic that comment is, but frankly anyone who threatens someone else's life just because they have a different opinion doesn't deserve my defense. So instead, I'm laughing. XD And this is why you want to be respectful and open minded toward other people, even if you disagree with them. If you threaten people, you end up with lots of enemies and no friends.
Same. Like I don’t care if you have disphoria or not. You ask me to call you a woman or a man and I’ll do it. Why should I or other people care about someone else’s gender identity? But death threats?! Fuck that.
firstly- her makeup looks so good in this video! ahh second, people forget dysphoria can be felt in different ways for ppl. when i was younger my dysphoria was extremely crippling, but now that i’m older and know how to manage my mental state and pass to how i’m comfortable, it eases me most of the time. as long as you’re uncomfortable with your assigned gender, you don’t have to constantly feel like u wanna kys over it like how a lot of ppl think dysphoria is
i love how blaire gets so much hate for just who she is and what she believes in, but she never backs down. she’s so unapologetically herself and i really admire that. no matter what people say, she still sticks to her own thoughts and opinions and isn’t afraid to share them with the world. i aspire to be more like this lol
knew a "gender-fluid" girl who said she felt masculine when she was angry and feminine when she was feeling caring towards someone and stuff.. I'm sorry but that's stupid and sexist. women are allowed to feel anger and men should feel caring and nurturing too, there's no limitation to that. often I feel that "trans by essence" is just perpetuating stereotypes.
We all are masculine. We all are feminine. No matter who you are you have both and they aquire different traits. Its just like yin and yang, we have balance that makes us whole (when we are healthy and at our most optimal the balance is where it needs to be).
But its REALLY strange how that person felt as though the more aggressive "maculine" and more peaceful "feminine" were changing her gender and making it fluid. I feel as though THAT mindset specifically is very unhealthy because it invalidates tomboys for instance, and pretty boys for example... i feel as tho that kid needs to read a book and do some more critical thinking on their own for a few years before they go on calling themselves "gender fluid" based on something so.... elementary to literally everyone 🤔 despite the fact that everyone is different, its something we ALL have in common- its just at varying degrees and can wane and wax throughout people's lives.
Transgenderism *IS* perpetuating stereotypes. I'm not saying that gender dysphoria isn't real -- it is. But pretty much any form of transitioning involves stereotypes, which is why trans women often appear more feminine than actual women. Some trans people rise above it, but for a lot of others, especially those that *don't* even experience GD, being female basically amounts to "I like high heels and pink lace", which is stereotypically associated with femininity.
"Do you need dysphoria to be trans?" is basically asking "do you need to be trans to be trans?" Otherwise...you're just transitioning for....oppression points???? Also really hope you spoke to police or something about literal discussion of your murder Y I K E S
I agree, it really bugs me when people boil down being female to just "Liking pink, wearing skirts, and being a sub" like nah. We're women because we have female mammalian attributes. If you wanna transition to be a woman, go for it, if that makes you comfortable. But being an effeminate man (Not having disphoria or being transgender) doesn't make you a woman. Disophoria is incredibly important because it has to do with the body, the real things that make a woman a woman. Before anyone takes my comment out of context, or gets offended. Trans woman are valid, I'm simply saying that effeminate men (not trans women) are just that, effeminate men. And thats - okay -
I am a trans female and people ask me. I say I wanted my part removed and wanted breasts when I was a teenager and puberty almost drove me to suicide but I made it with the thought I would transition one day.
@@kateofone Exactly! I'm a trans male and the only thought that kept me from literally killing myself (though i had tried a few times but here we are lmao) was what if ghosts really are real or there is life after death and i have to deal with my pre-transition body forever?
It’s literally like that on tumblr. I just...words mean nothing, science means nothing trans is apparently whatever you want it to be and that definition can change day to day and if you question the person you are a transphobic bigot
My mother told me about transgender people when I was very young. She had a friend who had had the surgery. It was no big deal in my house. It was just a given that sometimes something happens and people are born into the wrong body. It was a very easy way for five year old me to understand things. I’m gen x btw. In the 1990s I learned about the Kinsey scale in psychology class. That scale wasn’t new then and it certainly isn’t now. I also learned that if the wrong hormone is released or the right one isn’t released during the gestational stage in which genitals are formed that it can result in any number of things happening one of these things is that babies who are genetically male but at the stage of gestation where genitals are formed the testosterone is disrupted then that baby would be born as genetically male but anatomically female or the opposite in the case of a person who is anatomically male but genetically female. That idiot who threatened you is a menace.
Because we can't risk the feelings of that person! They had to stop the convo and make sure they were ok... Logic and facts are nothing compared to that persons feelings.
Back in the 80s, everyone knew that Boy George was a man with makeup and Annie Lennox was a woman with short hair and a suit. No one made up these weird categories. It's just fashion...
I agree. Tomboys and femboys were a thing. Same goes for crossdressing and drag. Now drag queens need to have ridiculous amount of make-up to not be confused for transtrenders. Being a tombo/femboy is labelled as being trans. I'm rather feminime guy, but I'm not trans ffs. My sis is so tomboy people are confused what pronouns should they use.
Blair you are absolutely right! What you say makes perfect sense. I understand gender dysphoria and I think most straight people can understand and accept that. It’s harder for straight people like myself to accept or understand the “I’m trans for attention “ people. It’s not that I’m transphobic or un accepting, it’s that it doesn’t make sense
“im trans but i dont experience dysphoria” where have i heard something like this recently..... oh yeah! sounds a lot like “i have DID but i’ve never showed any symptoms of been diagnosed with this disorder”
@@taw2377 just wanna correct something about DID; its a hidden disorder even for the person who has it themselves. Sometimes they can go their entire lives without knowing they have it, and alters are usually good at pretending to be the host in order to not draw attention to them. Usually they dont present themselves as themselves unless they are around someone they are comfortable with who knows about them. Obviously i dont know the event your refering to, but just keep in mind that someone having DID isnt always going to be obvious from the start
Exactly, why have all these gender identities for literally just forms of expression. I mean, that's like saying if you dress up in a Halloween costume on Halloween you could identify as creepyfluid or something... I have no problem with guys and girls who like to crossdress, but if you have no disphoria, you can't call yourself trans--eccentric maybe, as having gender variant STYLE but never trans; because then you invalidate transexuals who are actually aiming to be stealth at some point, and just want to live their lives with out having to explain their gender and receive unwanted attention.
I watched the whole video of Vera. She doesn’t just say „Im trans and don‘t have dysphoria“, she says, while she may not be transitioning into something that is fixed, she has TRANSITIONED out of the life of a cis-gender male, is on testosterone blockers, has developed a bust etc. and thats why she puts herself under the umbrella-term „trans“. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with her definition of trans (= transitioning in broader sense) and there is a discussion to be had, but not even mentioning her main points seems like Blaire is putting her out of context.
being someone who at an early age realized people treat you differently when they feel sorry for you. i truly think others like me may have realized and continued to use this as a tactic or skill to "survive" in life for lack of better terms. victimhood mentality seems to be close to the root of many of the problems we see arising today. the further root would be are there entities or groups out there conciously attempting to foster victimhood mentality in the population of ours and other cultures?
It's horrendous that these insecure arseholes have to issue death threats. The mental gymnastics are at a truly Olympic level. Moreover, I swear that they're just insanely jealous that Blaire looks far more attractive than they do. ;)
It's a terrible thing to say but they have the right to express distaste for Blair as long as they aren't threatening. That's where the line was crossed.
Shelby Kates Trans women are woman so they can be lesbians. I don’t believe that if you transition from male to female, and you like females, that you are straight. If your a female and you like girls your lesbian. Nothing more to it.
Its like saying: "hi! I'm gay, but I've never been attracted to the same sex as me" Edit: tysm yall for all the likes in such little time, I didnt expect just making a point would get so much love! 💖
Yeah I totally agree with it cause it’s feels like whenever someone uses that term it feels like a ten years step back. And I get called “transphobic” by trans idiots whenever I refers MYSELF as mtf. So annoying ,-,
@@CrazyBlogMoments It's a term appropriated from intersex people. The ONLY time that anyone is EVER 'assigned' a sex is if the infant is visibly intersex (ambiguous genitalia, for instance) and there's doubt as to what the raise the child as. Too often such an assignment included medically unnecessary 'corrective' surgeries which could ruin that person's sexual function for life, never mind be disastrous in the case of the intersex person developing with an identity opposite of the sex assigned. It's offensive as well as simply factually incorrect for others to claim this term.
So what are your thoughts? Is gender dysphoria required to be trans?
Blaire White YES!
Blaire White obviously
Hell yeah it is!
Blaire White yes lmfao
Obviously
People who threaten to hurt someone over having a different opinion scares me.
I agree, Ned.
Lol my dad says I'm better off dead if i was gay. 🤷🏻♀️
Sagi's Doodleverse bruh wha
I know people like this in person 👀
Ned Flanders same like it’s just an opinion not that deep 💀
There is a difference between cross-dressing and being trans. A big difference.
Richard George I mean, this sort of mindset is coming from the very same brainlets who say thing like “clothes don’t have a gender” so I’m not surprised tbh. 🤷🏽♀️ This is why we need people like Blaire, Rose of Dawn, and Arielle Scarcella.
@@kiko485 I agree entirely, but the media loves their shock factor. The media is going to tend to put the crazy SJW "autismgender, genderflux, nonbinary" people in the spotlight, not Blaire.
I'm female and I wear male clothes. They're just incredibly more comfy.
A difference that a lot of transgender people and allies for some reason fail to differentiate, especially if the cross dresser is male.
@@manta-ray1980 Women being accused of being trans for “cross dressing” is rare anyway because women wearing male clothes isn’t frowned upon nor is it ground breaking in western society. Women do it all the time. Now if you’re a guy wearing a dress or something, that’s another story. Will probably be called gay, or beat up, or have actual LGBT people trying to force an identity on you.
Imagine calling out Blaire on her “transphobia”, while misgendering her at the same time.
ikr, if they're going to be stupid at least be consistent with their opinions
RIGHT!?!? Makes no damn sense.
lmao exactly
Alex Ownn that’s a joke not to mention this person looks like the knock off version of Avril Lavigne
That was so ridiculous, you could just see the sad little life behind that tweet!
My hot take: Saying your trans and never experienced dysphoria is like saying I’m gay but I’ve never liked the same gender. Which if someone said that they’re gay and never have liked the gender would get lots of hate & backlash lol.
Why not though? You can call yourself whatever you want. Whether others perceive you that way is another story.
Gender dysphoria is having to do with Body, so your implying that people can't be trans if they don't feel wrong in their body?
@@trixicenby999 Yes. we are implying that.
@@Chyna55.5 So basically you don't think non binary is a thing?
@@trixicenby999 never said that. trans and non binary aren't the same, thats all dont be stupid
As a trans woman I’ve been saying these things for years, and I get hate for it.. thank you Blaire.
Luna M you are stunning btw
Luna M off topic but you are so stunning
I remember in a time before marriage equality, making complaints about the LGBT community ignoring anything that had to do with trans people and was preaching the T should be dropped from the acronym. Mostly on the grounds that orientation and gender are two totally different concepts.
However, once same sex couples were able to get married, all of a sudden trans people mattered, like the LGBT conglomerate needed a reason to continue existing.
Though it's funny how TERFs started preaching the same thing a decade later but for a bigoted reason.
Same here, Luna!!! And it looks like we gotta keep saying it. 🙄 You have a wonderful day, okay? Much love to you and yours. ❤️
Luna M
okay but you’re drop dead gorgeous 🥺
I'm a lesbian woman who dresses super masculine. So much so, that people will refer to me using male pronouns. I've run into people who ask me if I'm trans and who will say things like "are you sure you're not trans?" Yes! I am not dysphoric! I am comfortable being a "manly" woman. This doesnt mean I have another gender identity. Being a masculine woman is ok. Being a feminine man is ok. Those two things do not necessarily constitute a new gender identity.
Yesssss! When did that become a thing? Even Boy George is confused and they came for HIM.
I feel you! I wish I would've known sooner that it's ok to be an androgynous girl. I felt awkward for years, thinking there must be something wrong with me for dressing differently. Now I label myself as a tomboy/androgynous lesbian and I feel way better. Masc girls barely get any representation it sucks.
Preach girl. I personally don't really believe in the nonbinary (nothing against people who do) for that very reason. A masculine female isn't any less of a woman, just as a feminine male isn't any less of a man.
I am the hetero male version of yourself. YES, I really dislike how people insist you must be trans in denial, (usually stated by trans people) based on how one dresses, looks, and or acts.
THIS. I’m lesbian as well and while I don’t stray too far on either side of the femme/butch scale, I’m usually into more “manly” women, and I feel like the dating pool is slowly dwindling b/c all of them are identifying as trans now. I’m sure some of them are and they don’t mean any harm but... it kinda sucks.
that’s like me saying, i’m a lesbian but I could never be with a girl, ew!!
This is already happening with he/him lesbians (men who call themselves lesbians) and lesbians that are married to guys, not girls, guys. but their lesbian identity is still "valid"
Annie Dominguez some lesbians or gays are married to the opposite gender because they didn’t know any better. There could also be a slew of other reasons
kenny If you identify with masculinity to the point where you need to call yourself He/him then.. You don’t identify as a woman. So you can’t be a lesbian.
@@PrunelleLeroux It wasn't done because they were so masculine they identified as a man(or didn't identify as a woman) it was because it was *unsafe* for people to know they were a lesbian so in order to safely date women and present masculinely they referred to themselves as a male. It was for safety, they didn't ACTUALLY identify as men.
kenny He/Him lesbians who go by that for safety reasons are valid and understandable. What is not valid nor understandable is lesbians exclusively going by he/him pronouns. Saying that pronouns do not equal gender (e.g. I’m a female but I only go by he/him) is an open alleyway for people to misconstrue the importance of pronouns. Recently, TERFs have been saying pronouns don’t equal gender therefore misgendering a transperson is okay. That is what saying “I use he/him but I’m a women” is causing. It is allowing more transphobia to arise whether intentionally or not. Pronouns were made for the reason to identify someone as a male, female, or otherwise. He/him pronouns are male pronouns for men, not masculine identifying woman/GNC women. She/her pronouns are female pronouns for females, not feminine identifying men/GNC men.
Their logic: *A male can be gay without being attracted to males* 🤷🏻♂️
it's literally the thinking of 6-year olds on the playground... "HEY GUYS I'M GAY/TRANS TOO!" ... they just want to feel special
actually, i say a person that goes by him and said he was lesbian and another person got mad at me for just saying he's STRAIGHT.
"Hi. I'm Shaneeqa. I was born with a girl penis. I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria. I'm also gay, but I'm only attracted to women...not that any of them are attracted to me."
@@TeamFriendship8600stinky
Why wouldnt a man be able to be gay without being atracted to males?
“I could take her out from a distance” is NOT referring to milkshakes.
TravelingSolo that’s what I was thinking 😬😬😬😬😬 she taking her out with a milkshake 😭😭😭🤯🤯
Maybe they were planing on throwing a millshake at her from a car window.
It's a good setup for a joke about creamy substances and a certain deadly virus that isn't SARS-CoV-2.
TravelingSolo 😭😭😭😭😭💀
Must be a lot of acid in that milkshake if she(?) really plans on "erasing" Blaire 🙄
Being trans without dysphoria is like saying “I have anxiety but I’m never anxious”
@Madeleine L
Yea
"i don't have anxiety i just like to shake and cry on command (:"
Somebody in the comments said "It's like saying 'you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian'"
oh my god your profile pic gives me life
Periodt
Imagine calling someone a scum and a bigot and then misgendering them *ON PURPOSE* that is so hypocritical
Then threatening to K I L L someone who has an opposing opinion
It's not surprising... They go to extremes for attention... Like their parents didn't hug them enough or their creepy uncle hugged them too much...
@@rebeccaconlon9743 LOL omg
They view Blaire as the “wrong kind” of trans, but don’t you dare misgender Yaniv ya fuckin bigot!
Your analogy of having depression and not being sad was so SPOT ON. That was the perfect most simplistic way to put it.
Actually, hilariously enough, you can have depression without being sad. Depression can affect some people with anger only, as it is one of the many things it causes. You can have ADHD without being hyper too, by having a massive daydreaming problem and attention issues
I've been diagnosed actually, it's not exactly being sad all the time, it's mostly feeling alone and unfulfilled without necessarily meaning that you are alone. Like for me at least I am surrounded by some wonderful people in my life but once I get home my motivation to do even the most simple tasks is lost like I'm making a huge effort to even get myself to study for thirty minutes, I oftentimes don't take care of my body when I don't have to go outdoors and people always tell me to text them but I don't even want to go on my Instagram feed for two minutes. So basically I'm always at home feeling like doing nothing although knowing that I have to keep up with everything for my own well being. Also my sleep schedule is terrible because I experience sleep paralysis multiple times a night.
Depression isn't simply sad.
I have had depression and a better way to describe it would be apathy.
Guys while you make a valid point, the analogy still made sense imo. Perhaps using anxiety in this context is better… but the point is the same
The second that person referred to Blaire with male pronouns they took any validity or believability for anything they might’ve said afterward.
David Pavlas Yeah, when I first found Blaire’s channel a few years ago, I was honestly shocked to find out she was trans.
“You’re invalidating trans people”
>Continues to use the wrong pronouns with Blaire
Uhhh...hypocrite much???
Agreed
Imagine claiming that you don't need dysporia to be trans, threatening a trans woman of physical violence and misgendering her and thinking you're not transphobic lmao
I don't understand. Why are we talking about male feminists?
Whenever I see people like the trender in the video it just makes me think "bro this is just a dude who likes dressing up in women's clothing and can't leave it at that because attaching gender identity to it is more woke and less creepy"
Like a pot calling the kettle black.
Yuri Bazzone and appropriating her gender for yourself! Gawdzuh!!!!!
"Stop being transphobic, you man!"
“You don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans.” is like saying, “You don’t need to have a problem with your insulin to be diabetic.”
Or "you don't have to be overweight to be obese"
Someone who says "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" are the same kind of folks on tumblr who are like "you don't need trauma to have DID". 0.0
@@mikeallevesque18 or "you don't need trauma to have ptsd"
That’s a good analogy
Super egg Tarter sauce Thank you
I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for trans people. I am fem af, but identify as androgynous with no plans of altering my gender, and people get MAD at me for it! I am constantly told I have internalized transphobia
You’re hanging out with the wrong people
Such idiots......Just do you.
Because you're not assimilating to the mob. If you're confident in yourself to do your thing, that makes you a threat because you think for yourself.
In what way do you identify as androgynous? Just curious as when I was born in the 80s, androgynous fashion was all the rage and nobody was telling anyone wearing it that they need to change their sex. I guess my style could be labelled androgynous too as I just wear simple plain clothes that either men or women could wear, I'm boring like that.
Wtf any that even mean
Trans without gender dysphoria is like gay without same sex attraction
💀💀💀😂😂
Ursula Buffay I love your username! Friends is such a good show!
literally
Well... if you use the old deffinition of "gay"...
There are lots of "happy" heterosexual people. 🙄
It's like saying "off" is a television channel.
in all seriousness, why is it when someone disagrees with blaire, their first move is to misgender her? like i don’t get how that makes their argument any more valid, it just makes them seem like a child.
Bc they belive its ok to be transphobic to ppl like Blaire, myself and other trans ppl that disagree with them.
Also they say he, while looking like men.
Grim Darhk yeah, that guy Blair was talking about is just a dude in drag. He’s also a transphobe.
I've had a girl litterally deny my race because I disagreed with judging black woman for their choices with their hair. The mindset is, if you don't agree with me obviously your not legit and therefore I can deny who you are
Especially when it often seems to be the same people who relentlessly bitch and moan about being misgendered themselves (and when they clearly haven't put the work into transitioning like Blaire has which just 🤷♀️🤦♀️). It doesn't make sense.
"Do you need gender dysphoria to be trans?" Yes. The answer is yes. Otherwise, you just like crossdressing. There's nothing wrong with that, but they're not the same thing. Not even close.
Yes omg. I'm a female who cross dresses and due to folks like this I was straight up confused about if I was trans. I'm not because I don't have body dysphoria....I just like a style of clothing!
@@andie5031 bless you and your levelheadedness
@@andie5031 Right? I have a friend who isn't trans at all, but she prefers dressing male most of the time. There you go.
I, on the other hand, am trans as *hell* but I don't have the guts to dress female a whole lot yet. Gotta let estrogen do more work first.
It's kinda like someone arguing that they're a schizophrenic even without hearing voices or seeing delusions. They just identity just because.
Her bullyin vid got leaked too
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"I'm trans and I don't have dysphoria"
So... you're in drag then
YES
I hate people who say you don't need to have it to be trans you do there is some trans people who have less strength with their dysphoria then most people but you still need to have it
Honestly.
Yeah i was thinking of a mesh of non binary and drag.. wich isn't trans
ikr
i don’t understand how this could possibly be a controversial idea. why would you put so much money, pain, and effort into changing your entire body and gender identity if you weren’t experiencing a motivator like gender dysphoria? it explains why so many non-dysphoric trans people don’t even try to pass-they don’t want to be seen as the gender they call themselves. it’s so bizarre that one end of the trans community suffers to be who they truly feel they are, while the other contorts their natural identity to be seen as unusual.
Because all these posers want to jump in the "trend"
And danger. Plenty of people spend a lot of money and pain in like tattoos, piercings and other body mods. But like identity?nah. Trans isn't self expression like that.
Well-said!
So if transvestites aren't changing anything except gender expression on a temporary basis, are they transgender?
To be special
I'm a drug addict but haven't used any drugs in my entire life...
This is deep
Make it make sense!
ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร and I hope you don’t actually think they’re being serious
Lie's Exposed TRUTH Restored I’m an Atheist but I pray to Jesus. I’m vegan but I eat meat. I’m a virgin but I have sex.
it is very possible to be a drug addict without using drugs your whole life, far more possible than really being trans without being dysphoric. wanting to be a dragqueen doesn't make you trans.
It's difficult to interpret "take [her] out" as anything other than a death threat.
Valdagast especially when you’re from the hood 😭
Well, in the given context, yes. But to take someone out can also be a proposition, like a date.
Take me out? Like on a date?
Esp when they said 'from a distance' like bitch a pen, milkshake, none of that is something to use from distance so maybe don't tell us to 'use our imagination' unless ya want us imagining a flying pen like the fuck?
OmniscientWarrior lol I think it’s guaranteed that’s not what this individual meant.
I love that you're respectful to all that watch! 💕 I'm not LGBTQ nor Trans, I'm just a straight Catholic girl. Even so- You still respect my beliefs without making me feel bad. You're my favorite creator! 💕
I also am a straight Catholic girl and I love Blaire! Even knowing she’s “trans”, She’s a woman, I accept her as a woman, and I wouldn’t think twice about it or he at all uncomfortable seeing her in the ladies room.
I love how much support she gets
I'm Catholic too, but I'm part of the LGBT community. You're allowed to believe whatever you want. 😄 It's okay if we don't support the same thing and if we all did, this world would be very boring. That being said, I like Blaire a lot too! I like how she's not afraid to be assertive, values her own opinions without knocking others down, and can laugh off people who are hostile instead of getting scared of them. I wish I had that much confidence!
I met a girl last year who has been pretending to be on Testosterone for 3 years. Her voice has not changed a bit, she posts T updates with literally no physical change. There are absolutely people out there who use the trans label for attention.
Wow imagine being that sad to pretend to be on t
Pim WOW 😳
wtf
@@emilian7052 What bothers me the most is that people enable it. Usually she posts "it's my t anniversary :)))" on a certain date and every one just falls for it and sucks up. It's very sad, yes
don’t be shy, give us the @ :)
I don’t understand humans.
Rebecca Pople same jere
Same
Reindeers are better.
Girl me neither
This!
why is it that ever trans person without dysphoria so aggressive when it comes to dealing with people with dysphoria？ like wth
They literally shouldn't be speaking, but they are so loud that they speak over everyone else
Calling trans people a literal actual slur is totally okay if they happen to think you need dysphoria to be trans lol.
They probably know deep down they're a trender and they get super defensive about it too feel better.
that's how they force their way into the community, sadly
@@JamesLacroixx uh.. no? Why?
You can be a masculine woman without being a man. You can be a feminine man without being a woman.
Gender expression isn't the same thing as gender identity, welcome to 7th grade Health class
Do they really teach that in health class now?
@@Chelbasaur Yes, in some places
It was called being a tomboy when I was younger. Sporty Spice was like the poster girl of tomboy fashion and culture.
@@leeriches8841It's literally personality/temperament. The literature has been clear on this for decades (at least).
say it with me: gender expression is not the same as transitioning/being transgender.
Nobody sais it is, and that has nothing to do with genderfluid people
yes exactly thank you
RosesBubble genderfluid isn’t a thing
YES
I had an Annie Hall period(suits n ties, and am not nor was I male identifying.
It's like saying "you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian"
Those people are out there 🤢😷
Have you been on SJW twitter lately? “Bi lesbians” are the hip new thing 😭
You can't be non-binary and be lesbian. Non-binary is no gender and lesbian is a girl who likes girls. How does that make sense? If you are lesbian you are a girl. Idk I don't get it and I'm Lesbian.
@@jessicagoel4532 What? How do people do that though???
Ppl do it's called political lesbianism
It's like people forget that cross dressing is a thing and has been forever. Cross dressing ad being trans are different.
Exactly. Sometimes I dress like a guy for fun, but I am still a woman.
exactly. nowadays, the internet brings things into the extreme. i've heard a few stories of people who were told they were trans when they werent
Yep that's right and I think alot of these so called trans that put no effort beside dying there hair and a lil makeup are just loving being labelled trans and getting the attention of either being a woman or a trans .
When my mates dresses in drag and gets all done up you can't tell but it takes him a good couple of hrs he live getting the attention from men a woman might get and gets flirty ASF but it's just having fun.
It's not he's identity and alot of these teams at the end of the day are just cross dressing with long hair and a lil make up...
@@shanebeckett3557 But Vera is not only make up and long hair. She is on testosterone, she had physical changes in her body. She IS genderfluid, so sometimes she tends to be more masculine and she still has her male genitals, but it's not fair to her to just put her in the crossdressing group, knowing that her transition was more than just pink hair and make up. I agree is more complicated, because it's not a full transition. But I think is something else than just crossdressing. This is a part of her identity
People who were cross dressing as part of everyday life used to be transvestites. No surgery - transvestite. Surgery - transgender. Was easy to tell the difference because the words hadn't lost their meaning into the void of the politically correct.
It's painfully obvious these people hate you because you're infinitely more attractive. It's really as simple as that
And that is 100% a fact. Jealousy is dangerous
Agree! Blaire is gorgeous and people honestly hate others for being attractive...its disgusting.
It's a big part of it; but she's also based af and doesn't get swayed by peer pressure at all.
Seems like a lot of people in the "gender" world really resent individuals who don't cave to peer pressure and shaming - the fact that Blair is also super hot is like the icing on the cake.
Thats half of it... I think it goes beyond looks, but also jealously of the fact she has self worth and esteem.
Which clearly, these haters are lacking.
Imagine having a kid and thinking you are raising them right (respectful, polite, civil) only for them to show their butt on the internet ONLY because that person is "prettier". I never understood teasing, or bullying someone for that reason (for any reason) I would lay into my kids rear hard!
I love Blaire. She simply makes sense. I don’t understand how she is controversial.
Katie J I think 90% of the reason why Blaire is considered “controversial” by the people who think so is because she’s openly right wing/republican
I love her too she’s awesome
PC culture sadly. Full of nonsense and easily offended people.
@@lilak7181 honestly like lmao, you don't have to agree wit someone's every single opinion to like em. Stan blaire😌
Honestly half of them don’t watch her and just follow rumors or shit someone else has told them about her.
"I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria" .... then you're not trans....
Anybody can be anything and everything they want all at the same time...
As said by half of all residents in every psych ward in the world.
Hes a cross dresser
Blair doesn’t like trenders but she still uses their “trans” pronouns. She’s such a an icon
Lmao. Same~ she is such a queen.
Though, I must admit. There is only one time I didn't refer to them as their preferred pronounce.
And it's because he was tricked into going transitioning and I don't condone enabling their delusions.
(I am referring to Chris Chan also, him trying to get into LBGT and going after Lesbian coochie is what sets me off)
AshShuRee using people's preferred pronouns doesn't make you an icon, it makes you a decent person. respect people's pronouns whether you agree with them or not
@@fredders1 Respect must be earned
Yes we love a consistent queen 💗
i think it’s because she can get demonetized for misgendering someone, she said it in the past in a video about jessica yaniv
BLAIREE YOU LOOK SO CUTE YOU LOOK LIKE SNOW WHITE I CANT GET OVER THIS SOFT GIRL LOOK
she looks like dorothy from wizard of oz to me she's so pretty
Hello my name is Svenya. I like growing huge gardens, and hate going outside.
Me too! shes an idol of mine.
I dont usually give a fuck about celebrities but i love how she carries herself. Shes smart with a very sharp, purposeful anger about her.
i love it !♡♡
She did have more than one surgery.
She's fucking beautiful and intelligent. Very sexy
Dysphoria isn't just a prerequisite to be trans, it's literally the cause of being trans itself
Natatatatatat Like if you have say alzheimers and u take alzheimers meds, thats okay. In fact, its good. However if someone who doesnt have alzheimers takes alzheimers meds, they will give themselves heart conditions, etc. Being trans is the same way because transitioning is how you treat dysphoria. If you transition without dysphoria you will literally give yourself dysphoria.
@Grayson Land Sure but different causes can result in the same effect. Just because everyone with gender dysphoria is trans, does not automatically mean that everyone who is trans has gender dysphoria.
Another reason that transitioning is a big deal is that Disphoria isn't just a symptom of being transexual, it can be a symptom of many mental, physical, and psychological disorders. People need to be evaluated for things like dysmorphia first , eating disorders, untapped trauma, DID, BPD, and many other things that can cause gender or body dysphoria. This is why establishing that Gender dysphoria is a necessary symptom for being trans, people are either making mistakes they know they might regret, or they have that one disorder where they want to believe they have mental and physical disorders for attention or validity of self and it's sad and scary.
@@Clara-zr7bt Actually cholinesterase inhibitors for example (medication used for Alzheimer's) has other uses. It's not that uncommon for medication to have multiple applications. So why could transition not be a treatment for other uses? Playing devils advocate here b.t.w. Just following along with your analogy.
Exactly!
why does every person who hates blaire always... look.... like that...
Jenna Raut Jealousy
@@Laurap01 Absolutely. That's the only explanation.
Envy
I have noticed that too.
Because they're jealous as hell and it makes them sick that Blaire transitioned so well
Threatening to drive to a woman's house and kill her is un-ladylike.
Yeah whats happened to assassination by poison, much more refined if you ask me.
@@dextrician5932 Real women still do that lol. Trenders didnt get the manual.
Not very gentlemanly, either, lol.
This person is obviously disturbed.
Facts aha 😂
*not very humanly*
All of the transexual people that I’ve met have just wanted to live their life in peace and pass, these people don’t want to live in peace they want everyone to cater to them, they want to be spectacles for public conversations.
This is so valid!
blaire with her hair curled hits different
Sean Edmonson she wears them rn, just curled them instead of straightening
Oh sorry I couldn’t tell, I don’t know too much about hair lol. I just knew that recently she hadn’t been wearing them in a few videos
@@seeawn probably bc extensions blend in more with curled hair
Regardless, Blair always looks amazing.
It’s so cuuuuuuuuuuuuute I can’t 🥺🤍 totally support her doing more ‘romantic’ styles (or whatever you call this)
For a while I considered myself to be a trans man, but I knew it couldn’t be true because I enjoy my female body. I then realized that the problem was that I wanted to be seen as a social male, someone stereotypically strong and masculine. My problem rested in the outside perception of “women can’t me masculine” and “men can’t be feminine”, not my own brain. I think there’s a big difference between actual dysphoria and feeling like you don’t fit a social category.
Why are these SJWs now fighting so hard for societal norms and gender roles???
YES! finally someone said! if we just let people express themselves, we wouldn't have trans trenders
@@lana.pat1308 I think we let people express themselves or we used to at least. But then came intersectional feminism and the need to put labels and the progressives transformed into regressives because nothing was good enough since we suddenly need labels for activism and the world isn't perfect and people are not perfect and God forbid a single soul ever feels anything bad like lonely, sad, rejection, offense... I mean, nobody should ever feel anything like that, and if they do it's the society and the patriarchy and bigotry to blame and these things can get eradicated! Yes, all bad things can be made to disappear... Their world view is so strange, like they're all 4 year olds.
So yes, we should let people express themselves. We should let go of the boxes and the labels and we should also accept that life has ups and downs and bad things do happen but also good things... Why am I ranting here? I don't know. Sorry :)
niassera We used to let people express themselves? When? As far as I know this is pretty new to be as free as we are. Or maybe it was like 2000 years ago but if you look at the last centuries expressing yourself freely like we do now was definitely not a thing in many countries. My mother often told me how she sneaked a pair of jeans and secretly wore it since women weren’t allowed to wear pants. I’m glad I grew up in a time where I have the freedom to wear pants. Also not every label is bad. Words that describe something are necessary and can help people a lot to realize who they are. The human brain always labels everything that is simply how we are. The problem is the way people handle these labels. I agree with your general statement though.
This!! Literally wasn't their whole point to destroy gender roles or whatever? All they're doing is reinforcing them lmao
The problem with trans trenders is that they themsleves are sexist. As you stated (or I could be misinterpreting). Their perception of a female is x y z. If a male acts x y z, they are female. Or gay. Their perception of a male is a b c. So if a a female acts a b c, they are male. Or lesbian. Which goes against the very thing they are advocating against.
This is so not true. They are saying females can ONLY be this. That males can ONLY be that, not realising that (and in of itself gender fluid is confusing this more) you can be female AND masculine (and be straight), you can be male AND feminine (and be straight), this doesn't make you trans. I am not trans, I am female, I want to be female, but I like "male" stuff. But that is just trivial things that are not gender! Sports is not a gender so it's not A "male-only" activity. Makes want to feel pretty, it's not A "female-only" thing.
This is what they are confusing and confusing young and impressionable people who are just feminine males or masculine females, but they are pushing that you are trans which is not true!
Gender-disphoria has to be that dividing line, other wise we have a whole generation who doesn't know who they are, are constantly having an identity crisis and are constantly unhappy. (Like we do now).
These tran-trenders are not happy people. They act like thry are happy, but they are quick to anger, quick to throw words, and quick to cry. Confident people are not quick to anger, quick to cry, quick to throw words, they are zen.
People REALLY need to stop confusing gender expression and gender identity
Please, people can’t even wrap their heads around sexual identity vs. gender identity lol
@SKY *-* Its nonsense, not worth learning as it will change by next week by the very people that will define it this week.
@SKY *-* The difference is like the difference between a man crossdressing for fun, for fashion, or for erotic purposes (gender expression) and a biological male who experiences a genuine mental illness known as “gender dysphoria” and has a compulsive need to live as a woman (gender identity).
Y’all perfectly explained it, thanks.
How TF can you flick between male and female "Even during the day?"
Like I'm a man, and I really like going in to the Body Shop and smelling all the nice smelling things, and trying all the skin creams and shit, even though I NEVER buy or wear skin cream etc. I just like doing it now and then. Now that's a stereotypically female thing to do. Does this mean I'm non-binary?
Enjoying something traditionally seen as fem or masc occasionally is not genderfluid. As someone who does Identify with genderfluidity but not necessarily considering myself trans, I'll try to explain it as clearly as I can.
So, I have days where I am comfortable in my birth gender and I am ok with being called by my birth name and the associated pronouns. But there are some days where I can hardly look at myself in the mirror when changing because I can't stand to see the parts of myself that are associated with my birth gender. Some days it makes me incredibly uncomfortable to hear people use feminine pronouns and terms in reference to me, because on that day, I might be more masculine leaning. Some days I wish I had a packer and a binder, while others I am very much comfortable and happy with my body.
Basically, my dysphoria and internal thoughts on my gender often shift, usually gradually, sometimes suddenly.
I hope this explanation was clear enough.
B9y, It seems like you just like scents. 🤷🏼 Scents and lotions are are from of self care (DBT) they are relaxing. They (scents) also are an important part of memory formation and recall, and have links to sexual attraction - (search for "pumpkin smell sexual"). There is actually erectile tissue in the nose (some people actually sneeze when they orgasm - things you learn from reading rom-com books 😂). I don't get why it'd be an issue tbh.
I mean, scents are not limited to women and there are even jobs (with men) whose only job is to smell stuff, forgot the name but smt with perfume
That’s what I will never understand about “non binary” / “gender fluid”. I just don’t believe you can “feel” you can flip like that. Especially doesn’t help their case when all they’re doing is being a feminine stereotype. That’s just clothes. Blaire said it herself that she’ll wear sweats & whatever too, not just the clothes we see her wear.
You probably a feminine male. Nothing wrong with that. There are also masculine females.
One of my best friends in highschool transitioned when she was in grade 10. She had to change schools because of the bullying and hate. She got hate for not passing, she got hate for passing 'too well' because straight boys were upset, she got hate for coming out of the closet as a lesbian.
Her new school treated her (mildly) better, but she was struggling much harder pre-transition. She went from low, sometimes failing grades, to honour roll status, and now she's a municipal politician in my home town.
A lot of the same people who bullied her in grade ten, (2011) became "trans" in 2016 when it was "cool" to be gender non-conforming. None of them are currently trans, none of them did anything beyond occasional cross dressing, if that. It broke my heart honestly.
Your friend is a very strong, very cool woman. Please let her know she inspired me 😎👍
Your friend's awesome.
Also, 2011 still doesn't feel like that long ago and she seems so young to be a politician already! @__@!!!
Aren’t these the same people that claim makeup/clothing have no gender? So why all of a sudden does changing your clothing and putting makeup on make you a totally different gender/trans? Make it make sense.
I mean makeup really doesn’t have a gender because it’s an art form to many. But surely, clothing is categorized by gender lol.
@@haydenjones5861 in that sense women shouldn't be allowed to wear trousers. Or is a cis girl suddenly a man for wearing jeans? I mean, apparently clothes have a gender..
@@fredericabernkastel8354 clothing definitely doesn't have a gender but i think when people say it's put in different gender/sex categories it's because of how the clothes are tailored women and teen girl clothing are tailored to the female body and men and teen boy clothing are tailored to the male body, the clothing that isn't categorised in both would be unisex
Sophie Meow How is a dress obviously for women when men are the ones with hanging genitals. Seems like it would be more comfortable for men.
Emily Beckett THANK YOU
ok but blaire looks stunning here
She actually does! She’s beautiful ❤️❤️
Minty she*
Minty Why? That’s sort of like calling someone Micheal instead of Mike because that’s what it says on their birth certificate. It’s generally more respectful and kind to refer to people the way they prefer, regardless of whether you like / agree with it :)
Minty she’s * a girl. she has female pronouns.
Minty wow so ur jus disgusting huh?
yes!! Thanks you Blaire!! i am 40 yo gay man and i like to crossdressing when i am going to clubbing and i do a good job crossdressing that people think i am trans but i do correcting all the time because i dont have dysphoria. i have found a lot of crossdressers they do transition because they want the attention but not because they have dysphoria. Thank you Blaire !
I love how these people act like Blaire is invalidating trans people but they’re the ones suggesting that throwing on a wig and lipstick makes them a woman and making the entire journey of actual trans people seem like a joke..
Not only that but as a woman it's kind of offensive that they think you need to have hair and makeup like that to be a woman. There is so much more then just how you look and its very annoying to see these people act like this.
Dude no, lets not police people and demand that they go through invasive and expensive surgeries to live as the gender they want.
bedtimeat8 It’s not policing people, and nobody’s saying they can’t live how they want, but it doesn’t make them the other gender. You guys act like saying “you’re not trans” means “you’re not a valid person with valid feelings and experiences and you can’t live how you want or express yourself how you want”. No. It means you’re not the medical, scientific, factual definition of what being transgender and having actual gender dysphoria is.
Ok boomer
Eliza Meth Clever, are you 11? Just sharing facts :) Go read a book.
I feel like people forget that tomboys exist and feminine men exist. It's like if you don't fit into this box of what men and women stereotypically are, you must be trans which is not the case. It's also kind of ironic that these same people will talk about how they hate gender roles, but decide if someone is trans or not based on whether or not they fit into these little boxes. I personally used to think I was trans, I questioned it on and off for years. But recently I came to the conclusion that I am just a lesbian (a butch one at that). I also talked a lot with a couple of friends about my feelings of being trans and one of them told me that we don't have to fit into these boxes of what men and women are "supposed" to be. It really helped me, honestly.
I'm not sure if anything I said make sense, but I hope my point still gets across.
I grew up as a big tomboy I still am at 24, but I also really like to dress pretty and girly. This doesn't make me trans or whatever this gender fluid is or even gay! I'm a female. I know I am I just like to do my hair and dress in skirts but loves to hunt, go fishing and muscle cars and video games. What ever happened to masculine women or women that just like different things? This whole trans thing has put everyone in a spin. You can't just be like what I mentioned above you gotta be trans now because you're different. It irritates me to the core. On a side note as well being a lesbian seems to be fading out of the LGBT community. Just IMO. I never hear about lesbians anymore its either gay bi or trans and non binary. It's like they threw the lesbians under the rug. And I think it's because it goes against the "communities" new beliefs. Yes girls can be girls but like girls without being trans or such. But not to the "community" you not only gotta hate straight guys but also anything feminine now too. That probably doeant makes sense and requires more info but I'm on my phone typing this 😂
It's like some groups of the alphabet soup people are desperate for more people to be included in their special little group.
I'm a bisexual tomboy. I am NOT trans anything!
I've gotten into arguments with people that tomboy/femboys is the exact same thing as "gender fluid" since some times we're more feminine/masculine then others.
@@Meleena2218 I agree, bisexuality is the most common sexuality among lgbt I believe which is fine and all, but there really aren't a lot of lesbians. There's a lot of trans men though, I've noticed. I'm in some lgbt groups online and younger people will talk about how they're questioning if they're trans, but then they just describe being a tomboy. It's okay to question, but you really don't need to be like, hyperfeminine to be a girl and it seems like people forget that.
@@1everydayperson Right! Sometimes it feels like it's more about the label than anything and it's really frustrating.
@@lordjreen it's a huge part of why I left them.
We don't need new words when we have old words that describe the exact same things as the new words.
trans being backed up by science should be a good thing, it shows it’s a real thing. but anyways..
But gender itself isn’t backed by science
It just shows not liking your own gender is a real thing
@Andrew R I didn't do anything ?
ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร that sucks, sorry about that :(
Blaire is actually such an intelligent woman, I absolutely love all your videos
If someone likes dressing like the opposite sex but isn't dysphoric, why don't they just call themselves cross dressers? Whatever happened to that?! There's nothing wrong with saying "I'm a cross dresser"...if being lgbt is no longer taboo than why isn't cross dressing?!
If I'm not mistaken, the second person featured in the video used to call themselves a crossdresser.
Crossdreser isn't woke enough.
Oh dear Drink Your Nail Polish... Have you not heard? By transtrender rules the umbrella for trans has expanded and now they are saying genderfluid, crossdressers, drag queens, and femboys are all trangenders. Going so far as to call femboys transphobic because they say they aren't trans. This is our world now, constantly being told by this group or another what we are by their own standards. I don't wanna fit inside a box!! Can't I be a bio female who likes pastels and kickboxing?!😭😭
DragQueens
@Tonya Antony cross dressers are drag kings/queens and they've absolutely gone beyond just being a fetish.
“People are gonna me MAD about this one...”
honey, when are they not?
True.
Blaire could sneeze and at least 12 people would be offended
How dare she sneeze 😒, she's so arggggggggg
This comment just proves that you have no idea about what the other side is like but it surely must be compfy in your little echo chamber.
Takke Okay good for you sir/ma’am/pal. ☺️
@@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man I'm surely enjoying myself in open discourse.
well at a time when a sneeze can put you on a ventilator thats understadable
As someone who has bad dysphoria I hate when people say u don’t need it to be trans!!
It's because they aren't trans and think being LGBT is somehow special.
They want to brag about the battle, but they don’t want the scars. It’s like saying You can be a gay (homosexual) without having sexual or romantic attraction to the same sex
*you can still be trans while being aro and/or ace
RosesBubble No offense, you are correct, but what does that have to do with this comment?
@@Mqstodon is op saying otherwise?
Beautifully put!
@@Mqstodon ....?????????
This person: doesn't respect Blair's pronouns
Also this person: Blair is transphobic!!!1!
Katherine Byers seeing blair you gonna reach so hard to call her a he !!
WHILE Blair respects THERE dysphoria!
Brittany D Well i mean, she won’t respect them but she’ll use they/them pronouns for them, rather than purposefully calling them other pronouns
Brittany D At least she'll use they/them pronouns most of time instead of acting childish like the other person was.
You can disrespect someone and still hold an opinion about them .. That's usually why you don't respect them ... It's childish but it's how most people act at some point or another ...
I can’t imagine threatening someone that I don’t agree with. Yikes.
Cause you're not a deranged waste of oxygen pos unlike her haters
Oh it couldn't be easier.
1. Define a group that it's okay to inflict violence upon, and why.
2. Dehumanize those who fit the criteria of that predefined group. (Comparing them to animals or objects would be best. But reducing them to greatest hits ideology sound bytes, or linking them to unfavorable symbols is okay too.)
3. Seek to continually and marginally widen the scope of said criteria until the one you wish to harm fits into the violence-approved category.
Follow my easy three step program, and presto-change-o you magically transform from a violent psychopath into a cultural hero!
@@existenceisrelative That's exactly what Hitler did with the Jews. The leftards are basically living in Hitler's reflection.
I love how you break everything down. I am a heterosexual female. But I am watching your videos to help learn about others because i am ignorant right now on the subject because I have never opened myself up to it. Love you Blaire!
Why do people want to hurt blaire like it doesn’t make them look good
I can only imagine it's jealousy
100th lik
@@exsanguinateds I imagine they're crazy
“Use someone’s pronouns or you’re a bigot, but only if they support my narrative”
Isnt that the entire premise? Conform to my beliefs or you are *insert negative belief about a certain group or minority here*. You cant force me to respect your made-up pronouns by calling me disrespectful and an "ignorant cishet". I dont believe in 1000 genders so i wont pretend like there are 1000 genders. I will however respect the pronouns of people like Blaire White because i respect her. So if someone is gonna respond by calling me a bigot, so be it. I have loads of LGBT friends so your false judgement doesnt affect me
Mr Diamond dude I was saying that sarcastically, making fun of the people in the video. I agree 100% with everything you just said. The PC police ruin everything
"I could take her out in an instant." "It would be my pleasure to erase this trash from Earth."
"What makes you think I mean kill her? What I said could mean a lot of things."
Imagine wanting to kill someone for having a differing opinion than you. That's actually psychotic and this person needs police intervention immediately for even saying these things.
@Beta you can tell he doesn't have many big brain moments
@Beta reminds me of when Blaire had that chat with Jonathan yaniv
@Beta jessica
Beta Probably for the best.
“I’m trans for attention and I don’t have dysphoria”
Then your not actually transgender
Do people know that cross dressing exists? Do they know that's an option? That's an option people.
He knows. He wrote a book about being a transvestite.
@@Juliebel177
Its kind of a shame really. "Vera" ss from a channel called council of geeks and I used to like his content. I dont know if he changed or if he is only now saying his opinions.
🤯
It is an option but sadly people wanna put every little thing in a box with a label
They want attention
Imagine it.
All these men dressed as women saying they are trans haven't done 10% of the work Blaire has done to become a woman, yet have the balls (hehe) to claim Blaire, who actually looks like a woman, is doing it for attention.
The difference, when I first saw Blaire, I thought she was a woman. When I first see them, I immediately know they are men dressed as women.
Edit: It's OK to be a cross dresser. There is NOTHING wrong with dressing up like a woman to make yourself feel good. But don't call yourself trans, when you are clearly not, then attack others for doing it better than you.
@JW McCabe Agreed. I'm a delivery driver. I spent at least 4-6 hours a day alone in my car and I use that time to talk out loud and deal with my current financial or person problems. Doesn't mean I'm gonna go on meds.
I'm the "one of the guys" chick because I grew up with all boys and liked video games and legos and played in the dirt and mud, collected bugs and lizards. Back then it was called "Tom Boy". Thank God I was born back then or I'd probably be some poor 5 year old little girl forced to be a boy by stupid parents.
There's no such thing as ppl doing it better than others it's not a competition
@@kennethcouncillor6713 If it wasn't a competition to them, they wouldn't be using their platform to put Blaire down for having different ideas. Do you even watch the videos? Did you not read the death threats? The hate comments? It is a competition to them. It isn't to you or me, because it doesn't directly affect us. Take a step back and REALLY look at the difference between REAL trans women and cross dressers, then see which group is more aggressive towards to other.
I am more passable when I dress up for CosDay then most of these trans-trenders
@@Penelope9441 There is a lot to gain defaming someone to prove they aren't a wolf in sheep's clothing, deflect, blend in and project.
When I was younger, I met both a trans woman, and a man that was a drag queen (this particular drag queen was a straight male as well). One truly felt like they were a female and needed to look, act and dress that way all the time; the other spent most of his time dressing and acting "male", but felt happiness and comfort when he cross dressed. I'm not a expert on anything, This is just people I knew and how they talked about things with me.
Exactly!
It's pretty standard all the way through, like how blair said 'how is the rest of the world going to take us all seriously if we cant even figure our own stuff out?' most of the community IS trying to get their own stuff sorted and properly labelled, I imagine it must be frustrating for people to come in and say things that contradict what the majority has been gunning for.
The cross dressers I know fight to stop people from assuming they are trans and/or queer, a lot of trans people have to fight just to be taken seriously at all, sometimes they get assumed to be cross dressers instead, my gender non confirming friends all want people to stop thinking they are trans. "It's not cross dressing if I'm not explicitly trying to wear clothing specifically because it's for the opposite gender. I'm just wearing clothes."
There's a difference between personality traits, fashion preferences and indifference to societal norms, & sexuality and health, and trying to blur the lines isn't helping anyone.
So despite not being an expert, it seems like the people you met were very open and honest about how they feel and gave you good insight about the differences.
Gender fluid sounds a lot like the old term of "cross dressing"
But it isn't. Cross dressers don't identity as another gender
I'm a millionaire .. I just don't have the money.
😂😂
Playbackjunkie you need more likes on this lmao
@@geminislytherin949 That one is actually possible.
Yet;)
I wish I was the exact opposite of this statement...
Queen Blaire is reaching legendary status.
Nate Marx she has always been legendary status
Yes 😍
shes evolved into Eternal Blaire White
😍❤
Nate Marx I see you in every videos comments!
"To deny it is... to be in denial". I just love Blaire so much.
Notice how none of these non dysphoria 'trans' people ever actually transition and just wear clown makeup lol
And this is why clowns are creepy. lol
It's when most of them take the extreme image of a woman, take Picasso and food colouring and crayons and go "bam" I'm a woman because I coloured my face to look like a panto dame
I'm willing to bet its just a classic case of man with weird fetish likes dressing up as a woman but that that's weird and you don't get any woke points for that
Exactly ! And shitty horrible makeup at that. Doesn’t even look cute !
They got their dress on sale, but they got their body for free.
Everyone gets way too offended these days. Blaire is a straight talker, she is very logical and that's why I like her.
Zoe Austin I couldn't agree more. She is very level headed and quite often misrepresented by her detractors.
Yess, also her videos are getting better and she's really respectfully explaining the topic so I don't get it
That's what made me Sub to her in the first place. I seen my first vid of hers last year and She is straight to the point, Doesnt beat around the Bush and goes straight into a discussion about the topic of her videos.
@Brittany D where did you get this from ahahabahha
@Brittany D how tho when she brings up the logic in almost everything 😂
Isn’t trans without gender dysphoria just cross-dressing?
That's what I thought....
Exactly. It’s simply not conforming to gender norms. It’s gender EXPRESSION. Not identity. I could dress butch and still be a woman.
Gender Variance
@Scoobi Hu That's getting off on your own gender
( which btw , wouldn't trans women prefer themselves as women in a sexual context or is that a problematic perspective ? )
@Scoobi Hu either way , where does it come in with this comment thread ?
"Usually found in males" is that part really needed or is that just a way to pin something onto the general male population ?
Sometimes I want to do my hair nice, put on makeup and wear a dress. Sometimes I wear pants. By this crazy persons definition; I am trans.
Everyone is a mix of male and female gender "roles", aka: stereotypes.
Yes! You are not a male if you like cars, just a woman with a hobby outside the gender roles, being trans is something much deeper.
Yep! Gender expression, which *is* a societal construct! Versus gender itself, which is not.
@@kaczucha3able yup. I use to think that since I liked women, I must've been a man inside.
Then I accepted that being gay was okay. And I'm like... woah. I really considered being a guy 🤔
@@kaczucha3able today I learned I'm a woman lol
@@holidaytrout5174 I meant if you are a woman who likes cars youre not a male just because you like cars, that's obvious, i didnt want to write too much and complicate the sentence since its my third language and complicating comes easy to me. But I thought everyone got the point.
I love how Blaire is treated as a radical person when all she's doing is being sensible lmao
In this day and age, it's radical to be sensible...
@@rebeccaconlon9743 these days, it's radical for you to be anything except an SJW fourth wave feminist
Not necessarily sensible to gatekeep and give transphobes ammo to hate trans people even more. Just let people express themselves Jesus fuck.
Yes, folk have become so progressive that they’re regressive and being a sensible, sane person who uses science somehow means you’re a “radical”.
I hate 2020, so fucking much.
@@angelexperiment1698 The people that claim to be trans without gender disphoria are the ones that give ammo to transphobes. I do agree with letting people express themselves but many of these people take it too far.
I don’t really care why someone is trans, I’m not trans so I don’t really have a stake in this argument. What I DO hate though, is thinking you can threaten someone in any way because you don’t agree with them. “I can take her out from a distance. I’d take pleasure in it.” What the fuck is that shit?
Yeah like wtf. That's toxic and not okay. Why can't we just live together in harmony. We CAN disagree. We CAN dislike eachother. But that doesn't mean you can threaten someone's life for it. Go to therapy.
Oh, for sure! I totally AGREE that you can be trans without dysphoria, and it's STILL terrible to threaten someone like that! Frankly, it doesn't matter what you believe at that point. :/
Threatening violence IS SO MALE... 0% chance that this is a female.
@@red_calla_lily I would comment about how terribly sexist and transphobic that comment is, but frankly anyone who threatens someone else's life just because they have a different opinion doesn't deserve my defense. So instead, I'm laughing. XD And this is why you want to be respectful and open minded toward other people, even if you disagree with them. If you threaten people, you end up with lots of enemies and no friends.
Same. Like I don’t care if you have disphoria or not. You ask me to call you a woman or a man and I’ll do it. Why should I or other people care about someone else’s gender identity? But death threats?! Fuck that.
firstly- her makeup looks so good in this video! ahh
second, people forget dysphoria can be felt in different ways for ppl. when i was younger my dysphoria was extremely crippling, but now that i’m older and know how to manage my mental state and pass to how i’m comfortable, it eases me most of the time. as long as you’re uncomfortable with your assigned gender, you don’t have to constantly feel like u wanna kys over it like how a lot of ppl think dysphoria is
i love how blaire gets so much hate for just who she is and what she believes in, but she never backs down. she’s so unapologetically herself and i really admire that. no matter what people say, she still sticks to her own thoughts and opinions and isn’t afraid to share them with the world. i aspire to be more like this lol
you’re really pretty 🥺
She gets hate for being herself by a group that wants to 'be themselves'. OH THE IRONY
Agree 100% she’s an amazing person
ppbly envy
Brittany D if shes not wrong then why would she back down? You make no sense?
I think they’re getting transgender and “cross dressing” mixed up
and gender expression 😑
Izzy what
Eddie Izzard calls himself trans now just because he's a transvestite.
I'm a cis-straight gal but I'mma just say... The concept of gender fluidity and non-binary gender is sooooooo dumb
knew a "gender-fluid" girl who said she felt masculine when she was angry and feminine when she was feeling caring towards someone and stuff.. I'm sorry but that's stupid and sexist. women are allowed to feel anger and men should feel caring and nurturing too, there's no limitation to that. often I feel that "trans by essence" is just perpetuating stereotypes.
We all are masculine. We all are feminine. No matter who you are you have both and they aquire different traits. Its just like yin and yang, we have balance that makes us whole (when we are healthy and at our most optimal the balance is where it needs to be).
But its REALLY strange how that person felt as though the more aggressive "maculine" and more peaceful "feminine" were changing her gender and making it fluid. I feel as though THAT mindset specifically is very unhealthy because it invalidates tomboys for instance, and pretty boys for example... i feel as tho that kid needs to read a book and do some more critical thinking on their own for a few years before they go on calling themselves "gender fluid" based on something so.... elementary to literally everyone 🤔 despite the fact that everyone is different, its something we ALL have in common- its just at varying degrees and can wane and wax throughout people's lives.
I like what you said about stereotypes though, because i think you are right on, there's definitely something to that- i gotta think more about that!
@@katatonic726 lol my thoughts reading every comment on this video
Transgenderism *IS* perpetuating stereotypes. I'm not saying that gender dysphoria isn't real -- it is. But pretty much any form of transitioning involves stereotypes, which is why trans women often appear more feminine than actual women. Some trans people rise above it, but for a lot of others, especially those that *don't* even experience GD, being female basically amounts to "I like high heels and pink lace", which is stereotypically associated with femininity.
8:45 they just described being gender fluid. that is not transgender.
"Do you need dysphoria to be trans?" is basically asking "do you need to be trans to be trans?"
Otherwise...you're just transitioning for....oppression points????
Also really hope you spoke to police or something about literal discussion of your murder Y I K E S
Christy Paino she said she went to the police
Yeah I commented like 30 secs into the vid lol (before she said it)
Ughh trans people are trans before transitioning and those who don't are Still trans
Gender fluid isn't transgender and being a woman doesn't just mean being girly.
Gender fluid ppl are genderQUEER, but not trans, since they do switch, and not fully stick
I agree, it really bugs me when people boil down being female to just "Liking pink, wearing skirts, and being a sub" like nah. We're women because we have female mammalian attributes. If you wanna transition to be a woman, go for it, if that makes you comfortable. But being an effeminate man (Not having disphoria or being transgender) doesn't make you a woman. Disophoria is incredibly important because it has to do with the body, the real things that make a woman a woman. Before anyone takes my comment out of context, or gets offended. Trans woman are valid, I'm simply saying that effeminate men (not trans women) are just that, effeminate men. And thats - okay -
I am a trans female and people ask me. I say I wanted my part removed and wanted breasts when I was a teenager and puberty almost drove me to suicide but I made it with the thought I would transition one day.
@@kateofone Exactly! I'm a trans male and the only thought that kept me from literally killing myself (though i had tried a few times but here we are lmao) was what if ghosts really are real or there is life after death and i have to deal with my pre-transition body forever?
@@nicholasmgordon Oh there is life after death but I wont get into that aspect.
trenders: clothing has no gender
also trenders: omg that guy wore a pink shirt once hes totally a demi girl UwU
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this.
It’s literally like that on tumblr. I just...words mean nothing, science means nothing trans is apparently whatever you want it to be and that definition can change day to day and if you question the person you are a transphobic bigot
My mother told me about transgender people when I was very young. She had a friend who had had the surgery. It was no big deal in my house. It was just a given that sometimes something happens and people are born into the wrong body. It was a very easy way for five year old me to understand things. I’m gen x btw. In the 1990s I learned about the Kinsey scale in psychology class. That scale wasn’t new then and it certainly isn’t now. I also learned that if the wrong hormone is released or the right one isn’t released during the gestational stage in which genitals are formed that it can result in any number of things happening one of these things is that babies who are genetically male but at the stage of gestation where genitals are formed the testosterone is disrupted then that baby would be born as genetically male but anatomically female or the opposite in the case of a person who is anatomically male but genetically female.
That idiot who threatened you is a menace.
Throwback to that LGBT debate where the biased moderator silenced Blaire when she had a valid opinion about this
Because we can't risk the feelings of that person! They had to stop the convo and make sure they were ok... Logic and facts are nothing compared to that persons feelings.
Mikelle Rae yeah that debate hmmm... that moderator got on my nerves... oh and that offended person with the yellow shirt... cringe
That debate was so fucking cringey
What debate?
The Coriolis Effect it’s from Vice, the LGBTQ+ debate, 2 parts.
Everyone's arguing in the comments but why is no one pointing out how cute she looks w that pink barette in her hair?
yesssss just what I was thinking
Yes! I love her look today!
Yes! And her lipgloss is so pretty! Love her hair and makeup today!💗💗
Nai tress came here to say the same thing
Amen!
Back in the 80s, everyone knew that Boy George was a man with makeup and Annie Lennox was a woman with short hair and a suit. No one made up these weird categories. It's just fashion...
Yet they had internalised homophobia and transphobia
I agree. Tomboys and femboys were a thing. Same goes for crossdressing and drag.
Now drag queens need to have ridiculous amount of make-up to not be confused for transtrenders.
Being a tombo/femboy is labelled as being trans. I'm rather feminime guy, but I'm not trans ffs. My sis is so tomboy people are confused what pronouns should they use.
@@emilian7052 that's why he said his sister is a tomboy🙄
Edit: wow you removing your comment and replying with the same emoji.
@@QueenHannah oh sorry hannah🙄
Lenny Pearl I know it's madness
Blair you are absolutely right! What you say makes perfect sense. I understand gender dysphoria and I think most straight people can understand and accept that. It’s harder for straight people like myself to accept or understand the “I’m trans for attention “ people. It’s not that I’m transphobic or un accepting, it’s that it doesn’t make sense
Can we talk about how Pretty Blaire looks
when does she not look that pretty? im lowkey jealous
Yeah her hair and skin looks great in this video
yes we can
No
@@Jo_Wardy I can see why...
“im trans but i dont experience dysphoria” where have i heard something like this recently..... oh yeah! sounds a lot like “i have DID but i’ve never showed any symptoms of been diagnosed with this disorder”
@@taw2377 just wanna correct something about DID; its a hidden disorder even for the person who has it themselves. Sometimes they can go their entire lives without knowing they have it, and alters are usually good at pretending to be the host in order to not draw attention to them. Usually they dont present themselves as themselves unless they are around someone they are comfortable with who knows about them. Obviously i dont know the event your refering to, but just keep in mind that someone having DID isnt always going to be obvious from the start
Altoid Bazingá it’s so harmful to communities. I agree.
@ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร there's a disorder called body dysmorphic disorder, maybe looking up some information on that might herlp you out ?
What's the UA-cam channel name blairs talking about in this video?
Vera: Im trans and dont have dysphoria
me, a trans man with dysphoria: so a cis man with fluid gender EXPRESSION. nice
Exactly, why have all these gender identities for literally just forms of expression. I mean, that's like saying if you dress up in a Halloween costume on Halloween you could identify as creepyfluid or something...
I have no problem with guys and girls who like to crossdress, but if you have no disphoria, you can't call yourself trans--eccentric maybe, as having gender variant STYLE but never trans; because then you invalidate transexuals who are actually aiming to be stealth at some point, and just want to live their lives with out having to explain their gender and receive unwanted attention.
And who was it that said gender is fluid again? LOL
@@dylancole1910 i guarantee there are people out there (by there i mean tumblr) identifying as creepyfluid, lol
I watched the whole video of Vera. She doesn’t just say „Im trans and don‘t have dysphoria“, she says, while she may not be transitioning into something that is fixed, she has TRANSITIONED out of the life of a cis-gender male, is on testosterone blockers, has developed a bust etc. and thats why she puts herself under the umbrella-term „trans“. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with her definition of trans (= transitioning in broader sense) and there is a discussion to be had, but not even mentioning her main points seems like Blaire is putting her out of context.
One day, maybe, they'll learn that aesthetic preference isn't a gender...
being someone who at an early age realized people treat you differently when they feel sorry for you. i truly think others like me may have realized and continued to use this as a tactic or skill to "survive" in life for lack of better terms.
victimhood mentality seems to be close to the root of many of the problems we see arising today. the further root would be are there entities or groups out there conciously attempting to foster victimhood mentality in the population of ours and other cultures?
It’s horrendous that this person can talk about you like this.
It's horrendous that these insecure arseholes have to issue death threats. The mental gymnastics are at a truly Olympic level. Moreover, I swear that they're just insanely jealous that Blaire looks far more attractive than they do. ;)
It's a terrible thing to say but they have the right to express distaste for Blair as long as they aren't threatening. That's where the line was crossed.
Awful, shouldnt be legal
@@KayD We must accept the dumb. FOS, you know.
MORE horrendous that he can coherently render words.
It’s kinda like saying I’m a lesbian but I’m not into women
They do say trans women can be lesbians. So
Which is obsuered.
@@Emmaline91 Trans women can be lesbians. Trans women are women, if women are into other women (exclusively), they're lesbians.
Shelby Kates
Trans women are woman so they can be lesbians. I don’t believe that if you transition from male to female, and you like females, that you are straight. If your a female and you like girls your lesbian. Nothing more to it.
People do that too lol. Or saying they're lesbians when they're actually bi.
Its like saying: "hi! I'm gay, but I've never been attracted to the same sex as me"
Edit: tysm yall for all the likes in such little time, I didnt expect just making a point would get so much love! 💖
n5225playz i actually know some "bi" girls that would never date a girl😭
Alayna Baker the dating apps are also full of bi guys that will not even interact with anyone who is gay. Go figure :)
@@alaynabaker7428 I hate people like that 😭
@@seeawn I agree
@Adrian Knappertz literally yeah
"I was assigned male at birth" is such a weird sentence to me.
Yeah I totally agree with it cause it’s feels like whenever someone uses that term it feels like a ten years step back. And I get called “transphobic” by trans idiots whenever I refers MYSELF as mtf. So annoying ,-,
Should be 'I was CONFIRMED male at birth.' Doctors ain't 'assigning' anything at birth, it isn't a bloody multiple choice question 😂
I thought the same thing when I heard that person say that sentence.
@@CrazyBlogMoments It's a term appropriated from intersex people. The ONLY time that anyone is EVER 'assigned' a sex is if the infant is visibly intersex (ambiguous genitalia, for instance) and there's doubt as to what the raise the child as. Too often such an assignment included medically unnecessary 'corrective' surgeries which could ruin that person's sexual function for life, never mind be disastrous in the case of the intersex person developing with an identity opposite of the sex assigned. It's offensive as well as simply factually incorrect for others to claim this term.
@@diarmuidkuhle8181 I agree with your thoughts. Thank you for replying.